Don't worry Munari, the time will come when MJ and Daiya will come to you willingly, without court procedures. You're a good father who loves his sons and it resonates whenever you guys are together. As long as you keep the lines of communication open, the bond can never be broken. Stay up!🙏🏾👍🏽
You are an amazing father!!!! I am a 59 year old woman and I raised my kids solo (and I never had a child out of wedlock) because their father abandoned them. It amazes me how women use the children to hurt the man when they are in actuality hurting the child. Keep your head up, God sees all!
We're not born with "parent manuals". Don't beat yourself up. As long as you do what you can . God will do what you can't. And yes Acceptance is not at all Giving up. I felt this.Thank you for sharing. I love your family and channel. Keep up the GREAT content.❤❤
Don’t feel that way. The times that you’ve spent with them from birth to teenagers. They know. The videos show you showed them a lot and you did fun things with them and parenting things with them. Sometimes I wish I could go back with raising my daughter but you know, I did a pretty good dam job. Your kids love you. ♥️
Munari you've always displayed alot of love and affection for your kids...never doubt yourself and allow this situation to doubt your love for them This season shall pass and your family will be united and happy again...be strong
Thank you so much for your honesty, & putting yourself out there at your most vulnerable. There is no such thing as a perfect parent, it’s the hardest job in the world. You’re a great dad, things will get better. Keep your head up & know that your fans love you & your family & are praying & cheering you on. ❤️🙏🏾
You are a real good father! Your Channel literally helped me smile while I was in the hospital fighting for my life because of a stroke. I’m praying for your situation and your family. ❤️❤️❤️
I’m praying that you get to all be together really soon. It’s very clear that you’ve all your boys and enjoy spending time with them. Trust that God is working in your favor to reunite you and the older boys. Stay encouraged and continue to work on yourself. Peace ✌️ Love ❤️
Please never doubt how wonderful you are as a caring , and compassionate father . Know your value and know that despite the boys living somewhere else , you are in their hearts deeply . You're a strong , soulful man - may the years ahead fill you with joy and close kinship to your amazing children... as they will always reflect on how much you love them . I lost my oldest son to gun violence ... a horrible person tried to rob him and shot him just like that... this has changed my life forever ... the only thing that keeps me going ... is knowing how much we loved each other ... that is something that can never be taken away ... so my friend just love your kids as much as you can .... that love will get you thru everything ..... I wish you the best ...
Handsome, generous and dedicated, is what I would use to describe you. I think you should write a letter for the Diaya and MJ explaining in simple words how you feel not seeing them everyday, and when they visit, give them your feeling diaries, a copy each will be great. these diaries will state how you feel about them, and explain why you are proud of them. Stay positive and strong. Love to Ashani and Kai
Writing a letter is perfect or making a diary for them to have one day so they will know his true feelings,. Only thing about writing letters is will the Mother give the letters to them. If you know MJ job go visit, and go to Daiya's games or practices.
Im glad you're keeping it real with us. Every 🎥 with your oldest sons. We can see the love & pride that you have for them. Always hold your head up high. Because no parent is perfect. We do the best that we can. Your sons know that you love them.
This is more common than you think. Let the boys know you will always love. This is the most important thing a boy needs to know. No judgment here or shame. You are working hard brother.
Munari, my children's father passed way when he was 27. At the time my daughter was 5 years old and my son was 2 years old. He died from drugs. He was a jockey and one morning was working out a horse at the race track. His heart stopped while he was on the horse. I had kicked him out of the house 6 months prior to his death due to his drug use. I couldn't allow him to put our children through that. He knew how sick he was but didn't want help to get clean. Till this day I can never understand how he could choose drugs over his children. He never was able to get to the point to know he wanted to be a better person and be a better father. My children are grown now but they always wonder why their father didn't try harder to be a better person and try to be a better father. You sir are a great father. No one is perfect and we can only try to learn from our mistakes and do better..be better. I see and feel the love you have for your children. Trust me they know how much you love them. They see you trying. They are truly lucky to have you as a father. I have no doubt that things will work out for the best...for everyone. God bless you and your beautiful family.🙏❤️
Stay positive, don't give up. I grew up in a single parent household. My bio dad never, never made the slightest effort to see me or to provide any financial support. He chose not to be in my life and I accepted that. It wasn't until I was an adult that I got a phone call from him and later found out that one of his relatives heavily encouraged him to do so. He is and continues to be a non-factor in my life. I was blessed to have a grandfather who was like a father to me and loved and cared for me like I was a daughter. Continue as much as possible to make sure they know this is not the choice you've made and you're fighting to have them in your life. At least knowing that you have fought to keep physical contact and communication with them will make them understand you are not the one choosing to stay out of their lives. Stay strong, keep the faith.
Munari I appreciate you sharing this about your life because I know you don’t owe us any explanation. I hope that things get better for you and your sons soon. Never give up on obtaining a better relationship/ situation for you and your boys. No matter what I hope they see your efforts and know that their Dad is trying.
First of all so happy that you and Ashanti are still together because I didn’t want to believe otherwise thank God 😁 I just went to encourage you to continue been a good father to your 2 oldest son they are growing into some amazing young men and pretty son they are adults and don’t need their mother approval What you are going through happen to my nephew and he didn’t stop hearing caring for his daughter with all the stress and back and forth court cases not she’s 26 and comes over to see her DAD as she please 🙏🏾 Stay strong bro ur YT family are hear for moral support we love you and and beautiful and handsome young men 🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾
You’ve been through a lot and your boys need you and the loving father that you have always been to them. Everyone goes through life’s challenges but don’t give up hope. You’re all such a beautiful family and know that your boys love you. They need their father. I pray that you guys work out your differences and that you’re back as a family again. Take good care! God bless you all!
Dear Manari, Thank you for being transparent about your process of growing into a father. You are honest about your past perspective and it is evident that your love for your children has outweighed any past mistakes you may have made. Before you even opened your mouth, I could see the love in your eyes for your boys (in this video and all the others). I am sorry your family is going through this. I do not know the details but I have seen resentment, bitterness, and jealousy make people act in ways that will only harm their children in the end by keeping them away from the other parent. I dont know if this is the case. But you making this video will be a representation for many men (and women) who go through this and feel alone and want to give up. This video will also be here for your boys when they grow up and look back and wonder, "why". They will know that you always wanted to see them and be around them. I did not have my parents in my life growing up, so it is painful to see you being denied this. But no matter how old they get, your children will ALWAYS need their dad. Trust me. Sending you best wishes. What you desire is yours, my friend. ☯️
Munari, thank you for sharing your family struggles. The boys are old enough to tell the Judge what they want. Can you talk to them by phone? Hopefully, an Arbitrator can help so that the boys can be with you. It is so very important for boys to have their father in their lives. I hope that the mother sees this. Pls do not lose faith. If you are doing the right thing, then the universe will bring the boys to you. God Bless you and your family.
You’re a very good father. Stay positive n focus. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep supporting your boys n let them know you never going anywhere. High School goes really fast. Your support is really needed there in everything they do,especially the two younger ones as well. You’re a good dad n husband. Don’t ever think different. Cooking with your young guys is forever stored in there memory. Keep doing what you’re doing and never give up. God bless you and your always.
You're probably one of the kose honest Vloggers. Being a parent is a challenge I have two of my own and know. I hope everything works out for you and thr kids, they know that you loave them. We can only do thr nest we can as parents, proud of you for taking up some counselling to learn more about parenting, thats awesome. Stay safe Munari
This was a very sincere and heartfelt. You are working hard trying to the best father possible. Just keep working to bring the family back together again. You have always tried to bring all the boys together. I pray that you will get to spend more time with your boys.
Your doing the right thing " trying to be with your kids". It takes a toll but keep up what you're doing. I have faith in you and your family. God bless you 🙏
I agree. I think that the time during quarantine was a time for them all to be together. It’s nice that they have the videos to look back on. I feel for Munari because our kids grow so fast and at this age want to spend time with their friends rather than their parents. They’re growing into young men with school activities and now a job.
I never usually comment on your videos but I i just wanted to say that you’re a very good father and you are amazing!! We can all tell from your videos how much you love your sons and you are a good person! Hang in there :) lots of love xx
This broke my heart for you. The love you have for your kids is very evident. I pray that GOD moved in this situation so everyone involved can see the kids always need their father, especially good fathers. Tell Ashanti hello and wish you and your entire family much love. Sorry if I spelled her name wrong.
Thank you for being vulnerable and opening up. I think you’re an amazing father and it’s obvious you would do anything for your family. Praying for you.
First of all, thank you for sharing this personal information because honestly, you didn't have too. Secondly, the longer you spoke about what's going on with MJ & Daiya, the more sad I became. Why? This is almost the exact same situation I grew up in. My mother tried her hardest to keep me away from my father when I was little. Yes, we all lived in the same town in Florida, but I was forever being dragged back & forth between Florida & Washington, DC where my mother lived. It was hard. I thought my father didn't love me because I thought he wasn't fighting to see/take me. But that was it: he was trying to get me, only I didn't know it. Do MJ & Daiya know what's going on between you & their mother? Because it seems she is the obvious reason of them not being able to see you, their brother (whom they love)& Ashani. Has the mother been jealous of you & Ashani building a life together & mad because she feels she should be in Ashani's place, having had 2 children by you before Kai Kai? Please believe women use their hurt via their children. These are just my thoughts & I don't expect an answer as that would be too personal regarding this situation. I'll just keep sending positive energy your way in hopes that you get to see & have the boys again soon. And my father & I are close as hell now! We repaired our relationship when I was 20 & went off to college.❤ Stay encouraged, keep fighting for your babies, stay in constant contact with (whether via phone call, FaceTime, text or email) them as much as possible so they'll KNOW you're trying to see/be with them. Sorry for my long rant, but again, this situation really resonated with me.~ Sending positive energy your way~😊😊
My sons child’s mother was jealous of his new relationship and wouldn’t let him see his child. As a grandmother I had to be the voice of reasoning. I explained to my grandchild’s mother how the long term negative affect it would be on the child by depriving her from seeing her father. Thank God it worked out and he’s able to see her.
@@MarieA1 thank you for being the voice of reason In that sensitive situation and kudos to her for being willing to put her hurt feelings aside to see the bigger picture for her daughter. That says to me she is trying to be the best mom she can be.
Thank you, Munari.Talking about it not only helps you, but also helps others who are going through the same experience. It's a big step. We should applaud fathers who want to be involved in the life of their children. Counseling is also good. Never Never give up. "The lotus is a symbol of purity. With roots in the mud, the flower remains above the dirty water. Live a lotus life. Be in the world, but unaffected by any negativity. "
its important for the kids to see this video once they are older with clearer eyes, as kids our memories are warped and twisted shaped by our parents/family. not until a kid is older thinking more for themselves can they understand exactly what was happening. so the good thing from this video is looking back your kids ….all of them can look at this and it can all come together for them to understand another perspective of their childhood from dad’s side . good job 👍🏽
I feel that you are an amazing father. It is sad that the kids have to suffer. They need you in there lives so be encouraged and know that everything will work out for the good of your family. Don’t feel guilty or doubt your ability to be a great father. I believe in you. Fight on
I think you are a wonderful and loving father it shows every time you are with your sons, so hang in there and trust and believe everything will be okay. God bless you guys.
So glad that you talked about all that you and your family has been going through. I can clearly see your pain as you speak a d I pray that you Ashanti, the boys and their mom can all come together for the children. Even if its not possible for the boys to live under one room it would be ideal for them to be able to spend time together. Having a blended family can be difficult. It does seem that you have been 10:39 10:39 putting in the work by going to family counseling. I'm praying that it all works out for you all. Remember family first and hopefully you will all get the opportunity to go to Japan. ❤ I will keep you all in my prayers. Surely do miss your channel. Peace & Light.
At least the children have this video to reflect on if you’re not able to see them and at least they know it’s not because of you if they have your number and address they can always reach out. This is a new chapter in your life, but always keep the door open for your children. Wishing you the best.❤
Munari, I can see how this has been impacting you . You’re an AMAZING father , one of a kind ... the boys are growing up and soon won’t need a court order for visitation ❤️❤️❤️ Stay strong 🙏🏽
This made me ☹️ sad.... I also follow you on Instagram. I am nearly 60 and this man who I will not call a father.... left us when I was 10 and never cared for us. You are a good father making memories for your children.... God is good.... stay strong.... and your children will watch this and be so proud of you as I am 🇬🇧😢✊🏾
I've been watching and you always make the extra effort. Your a great dad. I remember you had the birthday in the car for I believe it was MJ. That's the kind of things they will remember when they are older. The many dinners you've made for them is special times. Thanks for sharing and being so open and honest. You're a great guy and your family is lucky to have you. I'll keep watching, liking and sharing....
Munari I applaud your strength and determination. Your sons are well-rounded and behave. You're sons know who you are and how you operate. There will be a time that all of you will be together. They need their father and so keep moving forward. Good job dad!
Feel your pain...love the vulnerability and honesty. They are getting older and will be able to make their own decisions and choices...they are great kids and I know that Kai would love to spend more time with them too. They will appreciate this video .. I hope you find some peace through this video 🙏🏾👍🏾
Being on the other side I truly applaud your efforts in trying to have a relationship with your kids.....DON'T stop fighting! Men like you are a dime a dozen,....They will respect and Love your for it in the end
I see your heart in this video. I see the love you have for your children & I could never comment anything bad about that. I pray that the end goal you have in mind happens for you & your family.. God Bless.
They will be of legal age soon and they each can make their own choice as to who they want to spend time with. Stay strong. It’s sad when one parent does not want to do best for the child but to hold on to their own anger and use the child as a pawn
Manauri you have been your son's solid foundation it has been shown by your actions. Your boys are so smart and they know you love them without a doubt. Love will always prevail over any and everything remain focused. Stay encouraged on your end goal this is a marathon not a sprint, life. ✌
I wish you all the best brother for you and your family. Continuing working on your business and building healthier relationships with your children, sending positive energies and manifesting that the court situation will make a wise decision that benefits all parties. Namaste
You have planted a powerful seed of love with the boys. They will remember all you continue to do for family. Stay strong, stay hopeful and never give up! We are keeping you and your family in our prayers. Take care!
We’re usually our own worst critic. However, from all that I’ve seen from y’all’s videos you always make such a sincere effort to be the best dad to all of your boys. Plus you lead by example, which is so important. Keep the Faith and keep your head up. All will be well.☀️
Oh Minari I feel sad that your kids are being deprived of a father.The worse thing parents can do is use their kids to spite each other. Keep working on yourself. Stay calm and positive..As they get older they will see what is happening. The kids love you.just be there for them emotionally if not physically. Praying 🙏 for all of you. Cool runnings. Don't haste the pace. One love Positive vibration to all.
Munari.. thank you so much for sharing. Your love and support for your boys shows through your eyes and words. Being a child of divorced parents who never provided love and support, your words brought tears to my eyes. I was a single parent to my son after his father chose a life of drugs and the promise I made to myself was always love first then discipline. Always support them in a way that they know that home is a safe place to share their feelings, bad or good. Keep up the fight as the boys will understand more when they get older. Family first as nothing in this world matters with out the love and support of family ❤️❤️❤️ I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Munari being a viewer from a distance I feel your pain, fatherhood did not come with instructions neither does life. You can still be a good dad from a distance until time and life allows you to be the dad you hope to be. You will always be those boys dad and no-one can change that. They are growing up before you know it they both will be 18 yrs. Just make sure you take this time to work on yourself and family so that when those boys become independent you four will move forward happily together creating memories beyond your imagination and they will love it and love you for that. In the mean time and between time I'll keep watching your channel
My goodness I really feel your heart in this vid. Personally, I've always admired your relationship with your sons and how present you are when you are with them. Man, my heart goes out to you Munari because parenting is so hard and it's even harder when your kids are not allowed to be with you the way you want. Let me say this and others have probably already said it - I haven't read the comments yet: your boys know you love them. They also know you're not perfect and that you're trying hard to be the best dad you can be even when circumstances are difficult. There's no way they don't know that - any stranger can see it. What I wish is for every little boy to have a dad like you. One who is able to think deeply about the lessons he wants to teach his sons. Mom's can't do that no matter what they say. You will have time to teach your sons to become men. Real men. They are going to seek you out on their own. Custody limitations will not last forever. You're their dad. Nothing will ever change that and they will want to know you and be close to you. For now, just pray that what you have taught them is going to hold them down. We all worry about the influences of others around our children, but they have your imprint on them. All children wander a bit, but the Bible says that we're to raise them up in the way they are to go and when they are older they will not wander far from what you've taught them. God bless you. Stay Strong brotha.
Munari don't be too hard on yourself You're a great father doing the best you can .. this has to be tough on everyone .. all of you will get through this together have faith ... It gets better
You're a gentle brave heart, Munari. Its very apparent how much you love ALL your sons. And it's sad that your ex is keeping Mj and Daiya away from you because that hurts them too. Hold tight and keep following your heart. I know it'll be alright in the end because its obvious your boys love you too.
Yes you are a amazing father,I remember seeing them more often, we don't know why the kids mother is not letting you with the kids. Remember there is two sides to every story. I think they know Daddy is in there corner. Keep your marriage tight. Good luck.
Thank you for your honesty and for sharing something so dear to your heart Munari. You and Ashani have a beautiful family and you are a great father to your kids. Your goodness is not unnoticeable and I am positive that MJ and Daiya know how much you love them. Keep being your best self and everything will fall into place the way it should. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. 🙏🏾 ❤
Thank you for sharing with us and being so open. Your sons will always carry with them how much you love them. Hang in there and don't give up. One day your sons will become adults and they will need you even more. Hopefully you will be able to start seeing your sons more soon
I missed you! I would look at all your videos and loved how much genuine love for all your children. I pray that God the creator of family steps in where needed.
You are already a rock star dad because your always showing your boys how much you love them and making sure they know they have a family waiting for their return. Keep your head up and know this will all work out in your favor.
And this too shall pass! God is with you through everything. Those young men know how much you love them. Stay the course. Peace and Blessings to you and your family!!!🥰🥰🥰
My husband and I will keep you in are prayers it sometimes is hard when family units are divided for reasons that we can't control all we can do is to pray and keep doing the wright thing it will work out. God bless you all 💕
@Mumari, God bless you and your famly. NEVER stop fighting for your kids and your family unit. It may get weary, but God got you hun. Send them letters, call, text, as much as you can, just continue to show them love and support anyway you can. You have a beautiful family and God will see yall through. Blessings to you sir.
Munari, you are a good father. The fact that you are willing to go to couseling speaks volumes. Bottom linecyou love all your boys. You love your family. Praying your boys get to come see their family❤
There isn’t a perfect way to be a father. The fact that you are wanting to go through the process to be with your sons is more than a lot of men are willing to do. Just continue to love them to the best of your ability, be the man that Ashani can love and be proud of, and learn to love yourself wholeheartedly. Thank you for being transparent. I wish my dad would have been able to do any of this for me!
