Has anyone else made a mistake and felt horrible about it, apologized over and over again, but you can’t stop thinking about it and feel so bad about it? That’s exactly where I am right now.
Same, Currently me and my boyfriend are in a serious argument and it’s my fault and I fully acknowledge that and I am taking my time to think on it and I’m letting him take his time too but anytime I remind him I love him I apologize again and we aren’t really talking much at the moment and I’m scared Im gonna loose him and myself cause we both struggle with mental health issues (edit.) we broke up about about a week ago, he was abusive mentally and emotionally gaslighted me and made it seem like it was always my fault when reality it wasn’t it was his
@@artisticgiftfromabove im really sorry to hear that. :( it sounds like your doing everything you can. I hope thinks work out for you and I’m here if you need to talk
@@vienna1645 we ended up breaking up, turns out he was gaslighting me and mentally and emotionally abusing me and that I thought was my fault wasn’t mine it was his and it was his way to manipulate and control me
@@artisticgiftfromabove I’m glad to hear that you are out of that relationship and I’m sorry to hear that you experienced that. I hope you’re doing well. :)
I constantly keep coming back to this song whenever I have a mental breakdown or if I need to have a good cry. I’m almost 21 years old and I’ve never seen Steven Universe, but an old buddy told me to listen to this when I wasn’t feeling okay, like, 4 years ago, and it’s stuck since. So, so grateful that this exists.
Same, whenever I start to overthink about something bad that happened and I start to feel anxious and I spiral deep down, I start to sing this for myself.
I love this song. Its so peaceful, and those type of rare songs that you can just loisten to, and just forget for just a moment for everything that failed to be charming. Mistakes are what are experiencing moments for you to learn.
This makes me so sad because she says: “it’s okay it’s okay” I’ve not nothing to fear” “I’m here” and “I might lose you” and “I might lose myself” everyone is saying it’s about anxiety but it hits so close to home for me it’s unreal. To me it is about you losing yourself and people that you love.
Totally agreed, but there is also a more simple/literal interpretation as well, which is that Stevonnie literally loses herself and turns back into two different people when they aren't totally in sync.
The part “that they confuse me, that I might lose me” is SO accurate. When you’re in a serious state of distress, you feel completely wrapped up in whatever is upsetting you and it literally doesn’t feel like you’re in your own body anymore. I nearly cried at that line.
@@ShiruSama1 even if you fuck things up so badly that everyone leaves you, it is not the end of nothing. People go away and return sometimes, new people appear, some people die, etc... The only person that always will be there for you is yourself so you are the person you should take care of the most.
For any non-Steven universe fans, one thing that makes this song more powerful is that it is sung by Garnet and Stevonnie, who are both *fusions* .This means that they are 2 gems, or in this case, a gem and human, who became one. This means that both sides have to have peace and harmony with the other to continue to coexist together. So, this makes the part where they say “I’m here” so much more powerful, because it’s telling them that they have each other, and that they have *themselves* . I feel like people often overlook the importance of knowing that you have yourself when you feel cornered, because they often say that they have friends to help them, and while friends make life so much more better, it is ultimately the person themselves with the most influence. This song captures that perfectly, and that is why I love it so much.
I also like that if you sing along with this song, it’s like a quiet personal commitment to always be there for yourself, even if no one else is there for you.
Same, I overthink most of the time and it gets me into a wrong state of mind. But this song helps me calm down and remind me that everything will be alright.
Recently my brother said something to me that hurt me so bad that I sat on the floor crying and everytime they say "here comes a thought that might alarm me what someone said and how it harmed me" makes me cry everytime And I don't know if he knows that I struggle with depression and that he's making me feel even worse about myself and he's dismissing my struggle
It sounds like he wants to make you upset. People who wants to make others upset is because they themselves are upset. I bet your brother has a hard time expressing himself appropriately. Does he fake who he is with his friends? Do you feel like he puts on a facade? He might hate that you showing him something he doesn’t have. Could he be jealous? If so it’s not your fault or your responsibility. It could also be he doesn’t know how to express himself appropriately. What I am saying is that his behavior has nothing to do with you and it has all to do with him. Like someone I knew said, “anything anyone does is a reflection of themselves.” You be happy that you can express yourself and you are stronger because you are you and depression is no joke. It takes emotional strength to get by. You are doing something right and it may piss him off. But you focus on staying strong. He will fix himself if he wants to. Maybe speak with someone you trust about this. Maybe he needs to talk to someone about his behavior. I definitely believe he does. He is angry for some reason and it’s not even your fault.
If you see this comment out of millions of comments in the world know that you are worth it and life is always worth living. You are worth it. Take a deep breath. In. Out. In. Out. Listen to your heart. You wouldn’t be given a heart if it wasn’t capable of loving and being loved.
When I clicked on this, I didn't expect myself to start crying- This hit home for me thoough I've made so many mistakes and my brain just rewinds and it makes me feel so awful and worthless about what I think people think of me because of those mistakes.. Lol, Sorry for dumping this all on you people-
Honestly, thank you felt typing out this comment since I feel the same way. This just happens everyday and it won’t let me get a moments breath. It’s good to know that other people feel the same way I do, I’m not alone.
every body makes mistakes. it makes us human. but the important thing isn’t how bad your mistake was, it’s about how you handle it. what you do to fix it and make it right.
I may be late to this post but I regret my whole childhood, how I acted like a spoiled, self-righteous, entitled brat and took advantage of all my friends. I then found out about this song and it helps me work on clearing all my past guilt from my head and focusing on growing more and more as a person.
Eternally grateful I do. Going into sophomore year and school just got much harder. Even softball, which used to be a stress relief, became a stressor. This song helps a lot when I feel like I'm going to explode from stress and lack of sleep. Not to mention more personal issues. It helps me take a step back and breathe. Glad I found this show. :)
This was the show that i grew up with, i was 10 when SU first aired but i didn't like it bcs i feel like it was too sad, i watch cartoons so i can be happy, i totally appreciate SU more once i got older lol
4 years later as i begin to struggle with intrusive thoughts again, i remembered this song existed. it really speaks to how i feel. it’s cool a youth show could represent that.
I’m 16 and I’ve been listening to this song since 13 and this is the first time that I really get the meaning, I’ve been neglecting myself a lot with self-pressure and self-criticism and when it went “that I might lose me” I went into a complete mental breakdown out of the blue. I sat and realized that I’m a fusion between me and me and we’re slowly losing each other, I said sorry to myself and said I love me.
You have no idea who I am, but I, like you, am extremely hard on myself, and feel like I lose myself a lot. When you said that you said sorry to yourself it hit a chord in me. And I apologized to myself too,,, I hope you're doing better, you've got this, whatever you're going through
Knowing everything Steven's been through remembering this song in Future must have really struck a nerve in him but a calming one because he needs to remember people DO care about him.
Just a small coping mechanism that helps me when I can listen to music. Distinguish the beat from a song, If you need to. Pick a fast song with a harder to find beat a tap it out, this helps me distract myself from the situation. Hope this helps someone!
To the person who sees this, It’s okay darling. I know it’s hard but hang in there!! I rlly do recommend to talk to someone about your struggles (obviously with someone who will understand and will be willing to be open mind and not undermined your feelings). Never go through struggles alone
i want everyone to know that everything is temporary. even the bad feelings you may have right now. you’re gonna overcome this and you’re gonna be better than ever. you’re gonna be okay, you’re a fucking bad ass you can do this
Take a moment to think of just Flexibility, love, and trust Take a moment to think of just Flexibility, love, and trust Here comes a thought That might alarm you What someone said And how it harmed you Something you did That failed to be charming Things that you said are Suddenly swarming And oh, you're losing sight, you're losing touch All these little things seem to matter so much That they confuse you That I might lose you Take a moment, remind yourself to Take a moment and find yourself Take a moment to ask yourself if This is how we fall apart But it's not, but it's not, but it's not, but it's not, but it's not It's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay You've got nothing, got nothing, got nothing, got nothing to fear I'm here, I'm here, I'm here Here comes a thought That might alarm me What someone said And how it harmed me Something I did That failed to be charming Things that I said are Suddenly swarming And oh, I'm losing sight, I'm losing touch All these little things seem to matter so much That they confuse me That I might lose me Take a moment, remind yourself to Take a moment and find yourself Take a moment and ask yourself if This is how we fall apart But it's not, but it's not, but it's not, but it's not, but it's not It's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay I've got nothing, got nothing, got nothing, got nothing to fear I'm here, I'm here, I'm here And it was just a thought, just a thought, just a thought, just a thought, just a thought It's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay We can watch, we can watch, we can watch, we can watch them go by From here, from here, from here Take a moment to think of just Flexibility, love, and trust Take a moment to think of just Flexibility, love, and trust
Allow me to share my story with this song. I was suffering from anxiety a few months ago. I felt like I was living in a bubble, and EVERYTHING was a trigger for me. I couldnt do my homework, I failed to attend classes, I hid myself from my friends and the world. I never wish anyone to suffer what I suffered. While I was trying to sleep, I kept my TV on cause the silence would trigger my panic. Then this song played and I cried so much. It felt like someone was singing to me. And from that day on, I decided to stop coping and start recovering. And here I am now, almost recovering!
this song has really helped with my anxiety and obsessive thoughts and im so glad that a song like this exists to help those suffering with intrusive thoughts, ocd, etc. :)
1:53 "All these little things seem to matter so much, that they confuse me.....that I might lose me" this hits hard because I can't even forgive myself for the littlest mistakes I made all my life and it still haunts me to this day...when I first saw this while watching Steven Universe I legit cried coz I thought that this song was talking to me, reminding me to take a breath and think of what really matters, then it became my comfort song
It helps to remember your mindset when these things happened... and remind yourself that you are capable of making mistakes and learning from them. And when taken into perspective ... it's not that bad
"It was just a thought" this is so true, most of my worries are really just a thought. Things lead to what if's and I don't start anything productive at all.
Ever notice how after a cry it seems a bit better though? You need do that once and a while, you can't face something with closed eyes. But once you open them... it's not such a big problem. Idk if you do have problems, but if you do... it's OK it's OK it's OK.
I absolutely love Rebecca Sugar and the Crewniverse for creating this song. Not only does it sound beautiful, but it actually works with anyone mentally struggling! This song is my go to whenever I feel scared, and it helps a lot. Thank you Rebecca Sugar and the Crewniverse for this masterpiece of a TV show.
I sing along with this song when I'm experiencing extreme emotions and after two or three times I've stopped crying and started breathing. It doesn't solve the problem but it helps.
I struggle with Tourette's really bad, and it's honestly so frustrating when I do something embarrassing. And then sometimes I'll remember the thing I did, and it bothers me. My girlfriend started to hum this song to me after a bad tic episode, and then when I started to really listen to it I felt like the lyrics spoke to me. It's okay. I shouldn't worry. Even if it was a bit bad, I'm not going to let it get me down. It's passed, and or was out if my control.
Hey, your not alone, your girl and many other people face that problem as well, but we're all here for you, and lucky you as well, you have a gal who will be by you through them all ^^
Honestly tics r annoying as someone that has them it makes me feel stupid as well. But we can’t help it so what r we supposed to do. Anyway I hope you tic better and all the luck to u
i don’t have tourettes but autism, im just here to say any bad symptoms (Tourettes, Autism, ADHD) is okay to have, they don’t make you a loser they make you special even if it happens in bad situations, it’s all right. my autism can trip me up and i get a bit mad but then i calm down, because everything was just a part of your life. there are many others with symptoms as well but they don’t get sad or embarrassed, deep inside you are a good person even if a imperfection is glued to your life, its your life, its who you are. have a good day and i hope youre well
This song makes me sad because I broke up with my girlfriend here recently...and the line think about what someone said that harmed you Makes me think of how she would hurt me and not trust me and break me down so many times. Then she would try to make up and promise to change and then it would happen over and over to the point I didn't want to be close to her she can't hurting me I tried and tried to be resilient and strong and forgiving but I was to weak. I walked away and I feel awful for thinking of myself and my happiness and not hers But she kept pushing me asay and calling me awful names...i couldn't take the abuse anymore. For us it was the end.... We had been together for a year... But this song also gives me hope of it's going to be ok and that I shouldn't lose myself even if I already lost myself in regaining that part of me back slowing but surely I hope
that is a really sad story but you got this hope your life is going good and that you can still do the things you love try your best and good luck and remember to have hope
take a moment to think adjust flexibility, love, and trust take a moment to think adjust flexibility, love, and trust ... Here comes a thought~ that might alarm you. what someone said...and how it harmed you. something you did that failed to be charming. things that you said are suddenly swarming. and oh~ you losing sight - you're losing touch~ and all these little things, seem to matter so-much... that they con-fuse you... that i might lose you. Take a moment remind yourself to- take a moment to find yourself~ take a moment to ask yourself if this is how we fall apart... but it's not 5x (say 5 times) it's okay 5x you've got nothing got nothing 2x got nothing to fear... i'm here 3x Here comes a thought that might alarm me~ what someone said... and how it harmed me. something i did... that failed to be charming. things that i said - are suddenly swarming. and oh~ i'm losing sight i'm losing touch~ all these little things, seem to matter so- much that they confuse me... that i! might lose me. take a moment to remind yourself to- take a moment to find yourself. take a moment to ask yourself if - this is how we fall apart... but it's not 5x it's okay 5x i've got nothing got nothing 2x got nothing to fear... i'm here 3x and it was just a thought! just a thought 4x it's okay 5x we can watch 3x we can watch them go by... from here 3x take a moment to think adjust flexibility, love, and trust take a moment to think adjust flexibility, love, and trust ... (music play~) comment written by : izzy :3
I have a suggestion... cut down a bit. I know it's supposed to help calm but. If you're already anxiatic... it makes it worse. In my experience anyway. You have to have a steady mindset first
Whenever I'm feeling really stressed or under pressure, this song will almost instinctively start playing in my head, and I feel ever so slightly better.
So, this time the intrusive thoughts got me the best of me and I decided to meditate. I don't wanna do something that I regret later so I just breathed while listening to this. It can work, surprisingly it can.
Good job it's actually really good I know it's a Steven Universe with that space thingy and the lyrics look good together because that's white and that's a different color
I'm really struggling with jealousy and insecurity and this song helped me out of a panic attack yesterday when I was crying and couldn't stop. I wish SU had more songs like this, like not exactly specific to the show but just calm and helpful messages. I love it
This song makes me think about an uncertain love for some reason, like with your best friend since childhood who you're not sure feels the same. You think about all the mistakes you've made, how things could've been different, how if they were different you might lose them in the future. Idk it just resonates such a longing feeling
Brooooo, how is this 6 years old already? I clearly remember hearing that song and going insane to how good it was and getting so excited for the new episodes of SU when I was in 4th or 5th grade, now I'm rewatching it and rediscovering this song in the last year of high school. I remembered SU because I watched it in some very bad times of my life (even as a child in that time) and currently I'm not doing so well (but don't worry, I'm getting better), SU is a great outlet for anyone struggling with something up there, it not just comforts you, but also teaches a lot. Time passes flying at mach 42.
This song really help me. Today I accidentally pounded a bird, I tried to help him but it was worthless and he dies. That makes me feel guilty and I want to be erased. Thank you for making something so beautiful and wholesome, Rebecca sugar. R.I.P. ❤️🐦❤️
1:24 I seriously love this part of the song, it truly makes me feel something, like, it's painfully accurate to what I feel sometimes, that it's honestly breathtaking.
i was just peacefully rewatching this show and didn’t expect for this song to make me tear up and eventually start bawling i don’t know but i just feel a certain connection with this song anxiety,depression etc. Life just kicks you in the face with no mercy problems overflowing your life with built up emotions locked up inside you and your confused on what to do with them. This song reminds you of the people that care for you and if you got a problem talk to somebody about it because it can generally help you emotionally and mentally. don’t deal with your problems alone find somebody you can connect with find somebody you can cherish life with. Idk i may just be overthinking but that’s how i feel about this song.❤️
Ik not a lot of ppl will want to read this, but this song means so much to me and i kinda wanted to tell my story with it :) A little backstory, im in a home where i almost constantly feel unsafe, unwanted, and unlovable- its been that way for a while now- and i would (and still sometimes do) shut anyone and everyone out, bc i feel like im only a burden to them if i open up abt how im feeling. Abt 2 years ago (im 16 rn) a lot happened with my family life, and in return effected me very negatively, causing me to become depressed, anxious, and numb all the time, and nothing could help- not even music i liked listening to. *tw for a brief mentioning of SH, attempted su1c1de, etc* 2 years ago, i tried to drown myself, in an attempt to take my life. It failed miserably, and I couldn’t tell anyone. As i was lying there sobbing bc i felt selfish, and i felt as though i was being dramatic, and that my situation wasnt a “good enough reason” to commit suicide, when i got a text from one of my siblings who was out atm, asking me if they could talk to me when they got home, as well as telling me that they hoped i was having a good day. (I ended up talking to him abt it, and he helped me through a lot of my seasons of depression etc.) Skipping forward to present times, i had never heard of this song until 4 months ago over so, and i was in the car with the sibling heading out for my birthday. This song came on from one of their playlists, and they held my hand the entire time the song played. I started crying, the song hit really different and it made me feel comforted, and cared for. He told me “you know, Levi, im so proud of you for coming this far. And i want you to know that im always gonna be here to help you in your darkest, most depressing moments in life- bc i care abt you, and i want you to finally experience happiness and comfort.” They are my best friend, even tho he is moving out with his bf soon, and they have always been there for me, no matter what. And every time i hear this song it brings so many memories of how many times he comforted me by singing the song (and other songs) to me, and reassuring me that everything was gonna be okay, i just had to give it time. I wouldn’t be here if it wasnt for him, and this song will always hold a special place in my heart- and i will never forget how much he helped me, and how they saved me
I keep coming back to this song because it encapsulates so well my feelings of being awkward all the time no matter how hard I try. It’s relatable and comforting
Ayy i relate to this alot. No matter how much i try to change about myself, the way I talk, the way I look etc I'm still awkward to others. Hope you feel better and I wish you luck :)
This episode made me cry. I have a friend taking me through this show because I just had some trauma with a former friend. And when Connie tells Steven “There’s nothing you could’ve done!” I broke down. I always wonder if I could’ve done something different to keep my former friend around, so that hit me hard.
This song makes me cry because of all three times my mom has been heartbroken to a man and she’s been depressed sometimes and that makes me cry and I try to cheer her up so I hug her everyday to make sure she’s ok
To anyone who's asking whats going on, Connie is going through a crisis because she had a reflex to beat up a kid, now steven and her cant fuse. Garent (ruby and saph) are trying to explain to her to relax and to think about it. In the episode youll also see ruby and saph had some issues. Sapphire has the ability to see the future. The white butterfly resembles a thought. Sapphire is swarmed in butterflies and she has anxiety. Ruby is alarmed about 1 thought that just eats at them and eats giving them issues.
being 14 and having absolutely non of the vocabulary for mental health and not knowing half of it existed but still having all those complex and painful emotions and then hearing this song was.... it was a genuinely life-changing experience
The part “And oh im loosing sight, I’m loosing touch , all these little things seem to matter so much” always makes me feel better whenever I get upset or care to much for things that don’t really even matter
Just today I had a SEVERAL break downs and panic attacks then I thought of this song and everything just got nicer and I'm so happy that this show exists so that it can help me. Thank you so much Rebecca.
I remember watching this episode a couple of days after release on daily motion. Still coming back to listen to it and I tear up every time I listen to it. I'm turning 20 in a few weeks and I still remember how much of a comfort show SU used to be to me. Steven's positive and uplifting persona definitely got me through some rough times
