Here's My Truth | My Husband Divorced Me Because... - Full Time Solo Female Vanlife ( Starting Over) 

Hey friends, I totally forgot to post this over here, and I feel It's very important for you all to hear this before I start my new travel series. I'm not posting this to start a debate, but I wanted to share my truth. I do want to give a small but FIRM FYI... I personally don't care how you feel about the shot because it's not my business AND if I was willing to give up my marriage over a shot, please understand that your opinion on this matter regarding MY BODY means absolutely NOTHING to me 😁 But that's all... that's what happened with my marriage 🙃

"You can't take everybody with you to your next destination"... Amen!

My husband asked me for a divorce because he didn't want the responsibility of being a father and a husband. He wanted to be single. I had had it anyway so it was all good. It's been 15 years and l couldn't be happier.

Mine sold the farm, literally, without telling me, and cleared out with the money. He told me the day he left the farm was sold and I had 2 weeks to move. Had several horses, 2 dogs, all my stuff etc. Never got a settlement. No idea where he went, out of state. Had a mental breakdown. Was homeless for a time. Things better now, and am so glad the relationship ended, in hindsight, he was a narcissist, so now I know about those parasites. They are evil. Go you, stay strong, do you and damn the men!

My 2nd husband filed for a divorce against me because we were evicted from our home. Or, thats one of the excuses he used. He left me to figure out where to go with our children (four) with NO money. In a month, I moved to a new home and went on with my life. He used being evicted and not "being in love" anymore as an excuse. I was totally blind-sided. I was in law school and later figured out that he was jealous of my career choice. I'm GLAD he filed divorce because it helped me to get out of a marriage that would have never worked. God moved me because I probably wouldn't have moved for at least a few years. I was completely devastated when it happened, but everything turned out alright!! I met a wonderful man who was the joy of my life (but sadly passed away a few years ago). But even though I lost him, I never would have found him and felt pure happiness had I still been married to my ex. Currently, I'm single and EXTREMELY happy being single. If a PHENOMENAL man comes along, great. If not, I'm PHENOMENAL enough for me. 😊

Trust these words it was NOT the shot, he used that because he knew you was against it. Remember love is what love does 🙌🏾

I think that was an excuse he made to divorce...i just don't believe him

I'm so proud of you for not taking that dreaded injection. I didn't take it either, was asked by my job to resign, and I did just that ! Now fast fwd to now, which is 3 years later, many have died, others have been diagnosed with turbo cancers and horrible cardiac diseases. As for me, I found another job within 1 week paying the same salary without a shot requirement, I'm healthy and doing great ! Always trust God and yourself in EVERYTHING that you do in this life.😊

I was fired and lost a job that was very important to my upward mobility in my industry. Two years later the mandate to v*cc*nate has been dropped. I think about all the people in my field who got the shot but really didn't want to. They got it so they wouldn't lose everything they worked so hard for. I'm sad for them. Very few things in life cannot be undone and this is one of them. I lost a lot but what I kept - my body free of that stuff - is worth so much more.

That’s the laziest excuse anybody has made lol like he should’ve been real and just said he didn’t wanna be married anymore. Him leaving you on a mountain was the icing on the cake smh! Glad that you continued on and living your best life now!! ❤❤❤

It brings whole new meaning to "in sickness and in health" ...

You do realize that he just used that as an excuse right. He was more than likely already out and he took that out. He was doing what he didn’t want to do. That’s how men roll. Can’t just be honest.❤

Everything and I mean EVERYTHING, happens for a reason! Live you life my friend and enjoy. Peace of mind is PRICELESS

I’d say this was a save. This was divine intervention. This was protection!!!

I totally believe that was just a poor cowardly excuse he used!! I also believe that God brings people into our lives for a reason and/or a season & when that season is over he makes room for bigger and better!! So glad you are living your best life and I hopefully get to see your travels! Keep being an inspiration and a blessing!! May God continue to bless you!

You stood your ground, God is love🥰😇

I agree with some of the other comments that it was more than the shot his loss keep doing what you love!!!

Sister, I don't know you or your ex, but to me it sounds like he always wanted to leave, but used that as an "out". Wishing you peace and happiness, whatever that looks like for you.

I am so glad you are doing well and living a fulfilling life. People on the outside looking in can see things you cant sometimes. When you did the meet up with his friends and you guys went boating I could tell his energy with you was off. You were meant to be on this beautiful journey and we are all here excited and happy for you. We will be watching and waiting for the next "Where is Brittany?"😍 Peace and many blessings to you!❤

I did wonder what happened but I trusted you would tell your story in your own time. I 100% agree with you!! Body autonomy is extremely important!!

I’m totally shocked by this! I always wondered but never asked because I figured it was your bizness and not mine but I am too outdone!!

1. Very strange. Men rarely initiate divorce 2. I was a nurse during covid. The shot was never a deal breaker in any relationship I had. Nor did I care if they had it or not 3. He was looking for an excuse to leave 4. Don’t give him the satisfaction of mentioning him or the divorce

My ex was straight up jealous of me, just truly hated me. He was always making everything into a competition. If I had a success of any kind, he would interpret it as a slight against him. It got to a point where every time I would have something to do or start something new, he use illness as his weapon of choice, to derail me. I started moving in silence and then, I moved in silence right out of the marriage. I was done.

So happy for you! Didn’t have or need to share your interpersonal experience, but his reason for dissolving his marriage, using Covid injection, is … glad you’re away from that trauma! “Live your best life.” 🙌🏽 🫶🏼 🌻

Baby girl, I remember when you were traveling SOLO. It was later that you “introduced” him and brought him with you! I remember you were devastated when it happened. That’s to be expected. I’m happy for you!!

Heyy Brittany I'm shocked at what you said really! hun his lost keep your head high and keep doing you, good luck on your travels and be safe❤

I'm Sorry to hear this story I just got a divorce in June because my Ex didn't want me to be close to my family

Hi 👋🏽 Tiffany, I also never took the covid 19 shot . Thank God I never got sick and also I haven't worked since Oct 2020 . God has blessed 🙌🏽 me to be better now than when I worked . If I had been working I still would not have gotten the shot

That’s sad af on his behalf. To break up over THAT?! Sounds like you dodged a bigger bullet girl! LIVE YO LIFE❤

"Who came with you, can't go with you." I heard this phrase many years ago and it is a true statement. Good for you that you continue to grow and flourish. I want to use my passport more! Happy for you! Will continue to watch and support you.

COVID broke the camel's back on a lot of couples😂, close quarters for such a long time, couples really got to know and not like their partners 🥴

I’m reading these comments and she literally said “the straw that broke the camel’s back“. So, yes, she understands that it was more to it than just the Covid shot but, that must’ve been the final straw for him. Good for you! With all that is happening to women, I’m glad that you’re still here to give your testimony & living your best life!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤

I am so sorry that happened to you : ( It might have been more about the control for him as well (not being able to control you or him seeing it as you didn't care about him enough). But you have a right to make that decision for yourself. I wish you safe travels and down the line, a man who loves you without making it about doing what he wants you to do. Be safe and enjoy all that globetrotting!

Good for you! Stand on what you believe is right for you. Happy travels! And its his lost

You go girl! You can do whatever you want to do. I believe in ya!

U GO GIRL MAY GOD CONTINUE TO ORDER YOUR STEPS

He did you a tremendous favor!😢 He just wanted to control you. Glad you stood firm. Your body,your choice! 😊 If he would divorce you over a shot, he wasn't married,YOU WERE!😮😢 Glad it all worked out in the end! Carry on,Sis! Sometimes you have to travel light!!!! I didn't take the shot either and I never will!! ❤

Wow! Good for you on standing your ground. I am jab free too and I firmly believe in the right to choose over your medical decisions. No one should ever be forced to medicate or forced to receive one medication over another. ❤❤❤

🌴☀️ I have been following this channel and watching for many years and I remember when you first spoke about this. It was sometime after y’all had done all the renovations to Domino. Y’all were so freaking stoked and ready to hit the road baby 🤭. I remember being so darn shocked that I just paused the video and came back after like a day or two and watched the rest. I can relate very much to what you experienced in that area of your life and I remember crying so much when I was watching your video, fast-forward now you are already to speak on it. I want to say thank you for sharing and for your courage to do this. You inspire me so much I now drive tractor trailers all over the USA and have done a lot of healing and so I want to thank you for being an inspiration and for caring enough to even post this sincerely a very long time viewer☀️🌴

Not him leaving you out there by yourself. This made me cry (I'm also emotional this time of the month 😂) I just want to give you a big hug 🤗 I'll say it's his lost. Life goes on and you're doing big things, sis. 🫶🏿 He's probably watching too.

BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF AND YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU❤ I been watching you for a few years you got this 😊

Hi Brittany, I missed you, so glad to see you are back. I am glad you are doing well. Don't stay away so long. I love watching your videos. Keep 'em coming. Peace

well, that's a shame and also his loss I thank you for your service

That's why we have so many divorces today because marriages, are full of compromises and people are not ready to make them. And when you figure you're not ready to make them, you shouldn't get married. When you didn't take the COVID shot you not only put yourself in jeopardy of dying but. Was it worth putting your marriage to an end?

Everything happens for a reason. You are living your best life. Continue to do you boo❤❤❤❤❤

I'm glad to see that although you still maybe healing from the divorce, you're not allowing it keep you down.

Happy Wednesday Brittany😀n This is Gonna b so Informative🔥🔥🔥👍!!!….

Hey Brittany. I’m so sorry that happened we to you. But just like you said look at you now. It was definitely his loss😊. Keep being great friend. Love your videos

I would say that wasn’t the only reason, he had some other issues, but chil live your life

I have learned to praise the most High for His no’s because He knows what is best for me🙏🏿

Whether a woman can buy a house or her own car or about whether she needs a man or not. It has notthing to do with two imperfect people that need to make compromises for each other to hold a marriage together. Earlier, in one of your Episodes, you said that he did not want to you to travel in your bus but you did and it was fine, but looks like he compromised and traveled with you a year.Maybe what he really is telling you , he's tied of you never wanting to make any compromise for him. So some people should not be married so they don't have to make any compromise and that's fine. Live your life. People make the same valves today that they made a long time ago.

Sorry this happened but the shot was totally an excuse he just didn’t want to do you anymore so many others things I could say on this topic, just know everything happens for a reason

Good for you. I didn’t get the Covid vaccine either. I just didn’t feel the need to since I caught Covid. Plus some nurses that were too kind literally told me to increase my vitamin C intake which I did. I also took Seamoss the actual gel not a capsule along with elderberry syrup in liquid for nit a capsule. Been straight ever since

that seems like a vey thin reason to divorce someone over twenty five yrs and there are so much bigger issues that we"ve encountered anyway hope he"s finding his way in life and you seem to be doing just fine

Stay safe... enjoy your journey 🙏🏽🙌🏽👏🏽😊

I am so happy for you and your journey. I remember “Dom.” Safe travels

I hate I took the shot but you did right i love you BRITTNEY BE STRONG THANK YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊

It was more than a shor. He was just fed up with marriage and was too soft to say anything. It had nothing to do with tah but it was his easy way out. I took the shot. Theirs no right or wrong about it..BUUUT I APPLAUD YOU FOR STICKING TO YOUR DECISION ❤❤

I think he really want to,be single again Really he said just,because,you didn't get the shot he was leaving you that really a good excuse he,was ready Iam very sorry but Iam,glad you,was a strong woman stay encourage I hope you will meet your Prince one,day have a Bless Bless say ❤🎉😢😅

Marriages are fragile - I've been there So sorry for your plight

I been divorced for 10 years and I left bc he had an affair. I have not dated or been with anyone since then because my peace matters❤

That was a raggedy reason.....a reason none the less. Bless his heart.

❤ Hopefully you both lead lives that are the best/blessed for each of you.

I only got it because of work..but I will say travel during Covid was Freaking awesome all three seats empty on my flight. Less ppl. Awesome..

So I listened to your explanation and just so you know, I hear, that there is more to this than a COVID shot🙄🙃😳🙏🏽

Wow that’s sad I remember you cried your eyes out… The Belief system is Strong!!!

Hey friend we're good now all that crap is behind us. We stood still and weathered that storm 💛💛💛

I wholeheartedly agree it's your body so it's your choice.

As you made your choice for what was best for you, seems he did as well. Live your best life😊

I believe it wasn’t just about the shot for him. Had to be more to it for him anyway! But good for you for standing in your word!

my ex husband was way to controlling! But now? i go everywhere ! best love brittany.

Amen! Follow your own dreams and journey...if their is a partner that will go with you....that is just icing on the cake. Many blessings to you❤

May you both continue to be blessed… regardless of the decision that was made…

I divorced my ex-husband because I discovered, on my 21st anniversary, that he was having an affair and that affair produced 2 children. Needless to say, I was done!!!

Hi Queen, I totally agree with everything that you’ve just said. Sometimes people on our journey of life will not be beside us for the rest of our journey. I too did not have the shot because I didn’t feel comfortable with it. Sending respect and admiration from the Uk 🇬🇧 🌹

Brittany, your are blessed and your peace is very important. Keep doing what makes you happy.

As a military spouse for the last 30 years, I've seen my husband receive countless vaccinations, some of which were not widely known. It's your choice whether or not to take a vaccine that has been globally recognized. We all make decisions, and hopefully, they don't impact the lives or livelihoods of others. Thank you for your service.

There was more to that baby, trust my good word! You getting that yonder though.... Be blessed

Good for you. People who are out of your life " God's protection"

You’re a very smart young woman. Stay that way and always put you first and you’ll go far in life👍🏽

He was looking for an out-

I think he was with another woman, cheating, one of your post he appeared not to want to be seen.

Beautiful Brittany, you have such a beautiful spirit. Continue to do you and spread your wings and enjoy your life and travels. 🙏🏾

Hey dear! That was your biz but thanks for sharing with us because we were aware of your situation. Y’all had set out as full time on the road, then we heard nothing for months, I figured y’all may have noticed more differences between ya or not getting along with all that time together. Never wudda guessed COVID shot was breaking point. Totally respect your decision. The heartbreak now seems long over, you seem to be doing awesome, with very exciting plans all about you, Jada Baby. Very awesome!

The more your husband hates on you the more God is gonna keep blessing you Get ready baby girl tons of blessings coming your way and it's his loss not yours Keep on sticking it in with God and he'll be there for you as you already know God bless continue to always stay beautiful cause you are beautiful God bless❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Hey, I honestly don’t think that was the REAL reason why he left…he wanted to leave, because real love doesn’t look for an injury. Real love doesn’t put themselves before their mate… but maybe him Leaving was for the better! You are beautiful inside and out and if he let a covid shot separate y’all he was no good anyway.

From the beginning, those fools said The shot was an experiment. That you had no recourse should you get I'll from side effects or die!!! That was all I needed to hear. I feel like we had a choice. Lots of lawsuits going on currently. Glad you chose to stand on business. ❤❤❤

So sorry, but hey - live your life!! ❤

U go girl!!!

His lost. Keep striving..Hold ur head up. Have blessed safe day Good to see you .hope you feel better. Shout-out from Ohio

Hey Beautiful! So nice of you to share that because I had really hoped it wasn't because he couldn't deal with the nomadic lifestyle. My person was against me getting the second one and due to other medical complications I need someone to go with me. I became very ill after the first shot. I planned to get another one but some of the medical stuff I have been reading makes me very nervous. And since I have had it twice. Almost died the first time and the second time with the shot it still was really rough. I am kinda on the fence for myself. But like you said its your body and your choice. I do have a part time job that requires me to be around a lot of people. So I know I am not the only one on the fence and confused. Be well my love and stay safe. Can't wait to see your videos of your travels.

Girl, I thought you were going to say he wanted a divorce because he wanted to date men.

Sorry Brittany it was not just over the COVID shot. That was the excuse used. He had already made his mind up. Be blessed

I still love you babe with all my heart ❤ ❤❤

i mean you showed disregard for the people you once protected. i get it.

Brittany, good to see you, good friend. ❤❤❤❤❤ travel on.

Chile he just needed an excuse. His loss 😅

The shot may have been the final straw but my guess is that there was a deeper reason. Sometimes it’s what needs to happen though. Best of luck.

NAH, THAT WAS NOT THE REASON!!!! IT WAS MORE TO IT THAN THAT, HE USED THAT AS AN EXCUSE!!! BUT YOUR HAPPY NOW, AND THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS!!!

His loss.