hey guys! DEEP CHAT. This is quite vulnerable for me to say, but I wanted to... Last month I hit the 2 year mark of full time van life and I didn't really mention it. So here's a start, I'm talking about my experience with van life :) something I've wanted to say for a while now. Hopefully this is helpful or at least interesting to you!! I often show a lot of positive as there is a lot haha and I love creating videos that are fun, but I thought I'd share some deeper info :) There is so much that I am grateful for, but I wanted to say this to you all aswell, as I think it's necessary !! I'm grateful for each and everyone of you, SO much love, Ame x Also sorry for the vid quality, I had to film this on my phone :(( xxxx
I have watched all of your videos Ame & I think we can all agree that even though you are a baby duckling, you are mature & wise beyond your age & also gifted with an impeccable sense of humor.. I'm pretty sure you will be able to overcome whatever curve ball life throws at you with your infectious smile... Oh yeah & also thanks for the amazing free tours around Europe.. I'm 26 stuck in the corporate world in USA 🇺🇸 but one day I will surely embark on my dream world tour. Keep shining and thriving Baby Duckling 💕. Stay safe.
Hello, this is Doug from the United States. I enjoy watching your videos from time to time. Please do not stop posting and doing what you are doing! It’s very authentic. You are a very wise young woman. More wise than your age that’s for sure. I appreciate your cute personality and your honesty. Keep it up! Don’t stop! ✊🏼Keep tuning into your heart and your soul. So far it seems to be working very well for you. ❤
I have found myself, in retirement, watching a lot of people trying different ways to live. It fascinates me even as a lifetime bricks and mortar dweller. I think your video should be required viewing for anybody setting out on such an adventure. The other thing that occurs to me is that the day to day hassles would wear anybody down after a bit - I can see why some people opt for the tiny house alternative. Anyway, thank you for taking us all on this journey and I look forward to seeing how you move forward because move forward you absolutely will.
Ame, YOU living in a van is another level of freedom, it is not a shit show, not living in a house and being confined to one area for a long time is your advantage. I watch your videos because I envy the fact that you can go anywhere you want when you want. That within itself is true living!!!
Ame, you're a true rare gem of a person. When I was 23 there's no way I would of done anything close to what you're doing. That's not saying it doesn't intrigue me. Now in my 50s, more established, and better off financially I think van life sounds like a great retirement alternative with a special person in your life. Seeing the world, and sharing adventures either by yourself or a loved one. I see white vans like your's everyday here in the NH mountains in my travels, and say to myself there goes Ame, only to laugh and say to myself, Nope, she's in Europe. But, they're doing their thing like you are, and just trying to live a normal happy life. What is normal? Whatever makes you happy, and gets you through this obstacle course called life. When I was 23 it was go to school, get a job, get married. buy a house, and raise a family. Nothing wrong with that, but it's not for everyone. People love freedom, and want to do their thing. Tradition is what you make it in your mind, not what is considered normal by the masses. I give you credit just talking non stop for 45 minutes about this topic. After 5 minutes I'd bore myself to sleep...LOL The way you talk it resonates a philosophy way beyond your years. you have a deepness about you that's very calming and yet it comes across as very simple and appealing. That's rare for a person your age. To make it to 2 years, you should be very proud of yourself. Thanks again for the wonderful video and as always safe travels and best thoughts always from the White Mountains of New Hampshire USA. NH motto "Live Free or Die"
Well said Victor!! Ame is an amazing person and it took so much courage to say all this, a real insight into her life and the challenges for two years. Respect to Ame - I am proud of her doing this, she is a philosopher among many other things! I hope she can vary the lifestyle and still continue van-life in some way or go for the next dream. It would be the end of an era and sad for many of us, but I'd hope we could follow her on the next journey in YT/Insta/Patreon. The most important thing is Ame is happy and doing well in my opinion (she is so talented she can achieve anything!). I think so many supporters will be rallying around her, which she deserves. And your support matters.
I think she already is living the dream. When you're that young you never really know what you want, or you're just doing what everyone else does. When I was her age, yes times were a lot better pre internet, but everyone did the same thing, "the normal thing", but then that got stale and mundane. To do what she does at such a young adult age is remarkable. I saw where a 14 year old girl has just bought a fixer upper camper van and will be doing the same thing, but that's becoming the norm now in the 21st century.@@MJackson1999
Ame, the most important thing in anyone’s life is their own well being. Your health and your happiness comes first. You did this van life thing and it is an extremely brave thing to do. The fact that you built the van yourself and started out on that journey. WOW. That is amazing. And now, you’ve been living in a van for two years. Bravo. But there is only so much anyone can do that. If you feel it’s time for the next chapter in your life, then it’s time. You have SO MUCH potential, it’s bursting out your beautiful smile. Whatever it is you want to do, I have no doubt you’re going to be a success at it. Big hug to you & Gigi for bringing a smile to our faces. 😊😘
Very helpful!! I currently car camp some. Literally in a car for fun. My plan is to keep the apartment and get an SUV or van for travel. I truly enjoyed listening to your knowledge!! Excellent channel. Great work. Love it!!
You know, you don’t owe « us » anything. No explanation. No nothing. You produce videos about your life and either that resonates with people or it doesn’t. There will always be people who think someone is too much, too free, too individual, too whatever. I admire how true you are to yourself, and at the same time you’re not the same person you were when you started. You’ve grown. Learned. Changed. And nothing ever stays the same. I keep thinking g about having spent five months in my husbands van and how I couldn’t wait to get home. It was too much for me. I loved travelling but I also loved coming home. And I know that being with a person 24/7 is a massive and complex challenge of both people aren’t dedicated to self reflection and growth. Whatever you do, do you for you and forget what anyone says here. It’s YOUR life and all of your followers will go on with their lives whether or not you continue to make videos. I, for one, want to thank you for your spark, joy, silliness and honesty. Be well Ameline. D
You are my favorite person to watch on youtube. Everyone learns lessons in life. People just learn differently, and a lot of times, based on their own lives, they come to different conclusions. I admire how you and your parents have decided to live your life. Free spirits, like me. I lived the corporate life, which was aweful. But never being married or having never had kids, I could always decide when to move on. It's a nice thing to have, freedom.
Such a heartfelt honest episode. Ame is a beautiful old soul in a beautiful young container. If the time is near for her to stop her van life, I hope she continues to be in the public eye. I can see her easily having her own travel show on the Travel Channel. With her talents, she could produce and direct the filming as well as being the host.
Ich sehe das genauso, Ihre kleinen Video sind Klasse und ich schaue sie mir gerne an. Sie ist ehrlich. Aber für so ein hübsches junges Mädchen ist das kein Leben auf Dauer. Es mag sehr viel Spaß machen und auch Interessant sein. Und gut finde ich, dass Ihre Eltern zum Teil auf Sie aufpassen. Das Leben in einem Van ist eigentlich nur etwas für einen Urlaub. Sie ist hübsch und findet ganz bestimmt einen anständigen Freund der mit Ihr unterwegs ist. Ich wünsche Ihr das von ganzem Herzen.
Hello Ame, a little advice ? I love listening to you and watching your adventures so much. But, at the end of the day it is your life. So, do what your heart is asking you to do and you will b fine... If you keep making videos for RU-vid, I will continue watch your stories. I wish nothing but the best for you and your family.. Nothing but love. Rek
The world is at your disposal, Ame, and you make the most of every opportunity that is presented to you! You see the positives as well as the drawbacks of van life, and carefully work your way through the maze. Thank you for your honest assessments and for realizing all the strengths that you possess! Enjoy your van life and all of your adventures with sweet Gigi!💕
Hi Ame, we have been living vanlife in Europe now for almost 8 years and there is a vanlifers community out there somewhere. We always stay at free park4night spots and there we usually meet the other likeminded vanlifers. We often seem to return to the same places and then meet more or less the same people. Some are very helpful, become friends and are of all ages and nationalities. The oldest being a German couple of 95 years old and still enjoying the vanlifestyle. Also we encounter a lot of young solo vanlifers like yourself, both male and female solo travelers. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone, there are many others vanlifers out there waiting to become your new vanlife friends. Also, so very cool your parents are vanliving it too ❤. Cheers from Pet & Pat
Hi Ame!😃 We already traveled without filming and now we are filming and sharing it on RU-vid too! When we traveled without filming it was easier to create relationships and talk to people! When we are creating content we are always thinking about what we can do next and a bit closed in our world! The hardest part is finding a balance! We really liked your videos and until December we will be in the south of Spain, if you come to these parts we would love you join us 😘
Ame is honest, speaks her mind, loves vintage and has a unique style of her own. I never like vanlifers all the much because they seem to be false, so on seeing Ame for the first time, I was hooked. I love her very laid-back way, and no matter if she's having a shit day, is always honest. Her backstory is authentic; Ame is truthful and full of fun. And this is why I tune in as soon as she puts out another video with her adorable Gigi. Much love to you Ame, ~Wendi 💝💕 🌟
New to your channel, about 2 months. Jumped around liked everything you put out so far, and thanks for your candor in this episode . I am thinking about van life myself in America . Nothing in life is easy but it is always an experience. I hope you get what you want in life. If van life was just fun all the time it would not be real. You learn and with every day on the road. You have had such an experience so far to live life to it's fullest potential. (Potential that is right for you at this time). So much to look back on one day. Stay Safe, keep your guard up but don't be afraid to let people in, you will make friends for life. Mike.
Your demystifying the Insta Vanlife is courageous, as is your sharing more of the authentic, delightful self in recent videos. Ultimately, every lifestyle has aspects that suck. Living in a house can be plenty unhealthful, too. But many of us don’t admit the flaws of our lifestyle. I suspect you may be reaching a point where you crave another on your journey, as you deserve. I hope you find that person; it will reenergize you. Cheers, Ame. I wish you the best!
Thank you Ame for being so candid. You really laid it out there. It was interesting to hear a more serious perspective on your lifestyle. I guess we, your viewers, never really think about what efforts you expend in order to keep us smiling. No doubt van life has been a journey of growth and experience but maybe it's time to take a breather for a bit. I forget sometimes you're only 23. You've a lifetime still ahead. Who knows where what you have learned, and will learn in this current process will lead you. The sky's the limit!! P.S. I'm probably not wrong in thinking that most, if not all of your viewers would've liked to have been able to give you a friendly, supportive hug right there at the end of the video. Thanks again, Ame!
Actually this was one of my favorite videos of yours. I get that you like to be able to indulge your creative side on your channel, and you do a great job with that by the way. But to break that up with a heart to heart chat about your van lifestyle and all the things that go with it good or bad, enables you to truly connect with your audience on a whole other level that's surprisingly effective. Although I would never chose the lifestyle personally, it was still so very interesting to hear about so many of your experiences and your range of emotions as well as things that I had never before considered. So very thought provoking and well done Ame, and I look forward to seeing more of this in the future!! All the best to you!!🙂🙂
Love your Videos and your unique style! In my experience it all comes down to comfort in the long run. I started living in a small van in New Zealand and when I was back in Europe I bought a more luxurious big van and it made a big difference. Lived in the van for two years and now I'm living on a boat. Im never going back to a normal life. Check out boat life if you want to explore other parts of the world 🙂 With a sailboat you can go wherever you want. Also the weather makes a big difference on how enjoyable van life is. When it gets cold it sucks. Only place you can go for winter is canary islands. Been there 2 times for the winter and it's sunny and warm there. To stay in shape you have to find a active hobby like mountain biking or surfing or golfing etc.. That helps a lot aswell to be balanced ❤
I know sometimes people just like to rant and don't want solutions, but if quitting vanlife for health reasons isn't an option, at least think about upgrading to something less stealthy but more comfortable and spacious. I appreciate the level of honesty put into this, cause it's really easy to romanticise that lifestyle and overlooking all the little things that end up wearing you out in the long run. Personally I could never imagine myself in a converted sprinter, I need more space (and a proper bathroom), so I applaud you on managing to live in Gloria happily for so long in the first place. Hopefully to another 2 good years on the road then and if not...that's not the end of the world either, just the start of another chapter. ^^
The brutal honesty of Ame is so refreshing. I love how she doesn't sugar coat it. And open about her struggles. As a middle aged person I wish I was as brave as her and just say fuck it, I have to do what's best for me. I look forward to her channel weekly, because it brings a bit of peace in my otherwise chaotic life of mine. So thank you. For sharing your journey..❤❤❤❤
Ame, thanks for sharing your heart and thoughts in this overview of your journey! You are such a beautiful person, your character and standards. I appreciate that you don't compromise those standards by yielding to peer pressure. No excuses are needed about the lifestyle and the 60's style clothes because it says so much about your character. You're a beautiful soul, positive in the face of difficulty, and humble enough to open your heart about the tough times, and sharing the positive. In my mind you are a picture of perfection, someone who cares well for herself, and has respect for herself and others! I pray 🙏 for your safety and happiness. God bless you young lady and prosper your future. Much love to you 💯💞🌺🌺
Brilliantly said Merlynn. I really hope our support helps Ame and reminds her how much of a gem she is! Ame has had many challenges through these two years, which I am sad to hear. I think she needs to get creative now on how to continue van-life, varying things and improving her life so things are easier and work more with her creative/content making lifestyle. Maybe a Gloria 2 is on the cards, I would be sad to see Gloria go but Ame could keep her forever in storage (so many fond memories). Maybe Ame will aim for the next dream of hers and that would be a sad end to an era. She can achieve anything she sets her mind to. I believe in her. And I am proud of her speaking so much truth here, she is amazing. I hope we can continue to follow Ame's journey in whatever shape it takes here in YT/Patreon/Insta and support her.
Hi Ame. When you go out in your 60's fashion, the reason people are staring at you is because you are beautiful and you really look like a movie star. They're just trying to figure out who you are. I bet there's not a single person in the comments that doesn't agree with me.
Made the same comment, but accidentally deleted it. Hey Ame, he's right. you are a star in'24! You have the expressiveness. beauty, and style of the 60s.. Don't let the isolation bring you down. Find your tribe , stay. level, Love as many family members as you can, and forget the rest.
Thank you Ame for going deep there, sharing so much of your life and thoughts - you are a veteran of van-life and there is no one better to speak of it 👏 What a speech, I was captivated and I could listen to you speak for hours!! You can be proud of this effort. Speaking truths, weighing the good and the bad. Which you have always done but not to this extent. You are living a fantastic life of freedom that many dream of and you are fulfilling your purpose of being creative. You went for the dream, made that leap, executed your plan and Gloria build and achieved it! What a two years! But I also understand it has so many challenges and it's not the easiest life and difficult for you to keep healthy at all times. You have a lot of creative/content work to do, so you are not sitting out, chilling all day watching sun rises, sunsets and the moon ; ) I am really glad you did this, a real memorable episode! 🔥 I love working out and running, cycling every week so I empathise with you on wanting to be healthy and in shape, being the best of version of you. Will you be continuing van-life or varying life up abit to get some more balance and a healthier option for you? Maybe a larger Gloria 2 would give you some more comfort, but I am not sure it addresses everything you spoke about. You need to look after yourself and you need to be happy, this is your life, your script. Or is this the end of your van-life adventure? If so I am sure a huge part of your fan-base, if not ALL, will follow your adventures wherever you choose to go next. I am with you for that journey! Because you are a fantastic and likeable person, with so many talents and abilities and you can achieve anything you set your mind to! ⭐ Take care, Michael
Ame, you are so brave wearing your heart on your sleeve, and sharing the positives and negatives of van life for you. You are undoubtedly wise beyond your years, and understand how certain periods and events in ones life can have a negative affect on your health, but recognising it is part of dealing with it. Plus even though you are a independent Lady having Mom & Dad when times get difficult is a blessing. The videos you make to keep us all entertained are really funny witty and very well executed. Thank you Ame.
Thank you for the chat & being so honest & open, you've built the most strange & wonderful channel & are always an entertaining, charming, intelligent, hilarious & thoughtful host. I hope you can get better sleep in the days ahead & maybe reconfigure your van for a more comfortable arrangement for that. In your younger days you can get away with a higher level of discomfort & sleep/rest deprivation but it will catch up to you at some point & I don't want you to do anything or be stuck in things that are doing damage & will make your life suck in the long run. I do love your energy, enthusiasm & resourcefulness, & would love to hear more about your experiences in whatever format you want to film in, travelling, confessionals, whatever. You should write a book & film a documentary or biography story, you've got a unique voice & I really like how you speak & how your mind works, & how you put your ideas together & let them tumble out & discover their connections to each other, not to mention you have top taste in soundtracking music. It would be amazing if you could go back through your archives & put together a playlist for the channel of all the funky jams & outstanding songs you've had in your videos. I know why you dance & I like what makes you happy, & hanging out with you makes me happy. Have a fantastic week & get as wild as you want to be, cheers, Tom 💗🔥💗😊🙏
Ame! You've been so kind in sharing your ups, downs with the life you now have. Being on the road all the time, does not allow you to effectively lay down roots, be part of a community, have persistent friendships, etc. Also too, your closest connections - your parents, are also on the road, so its hard to "come home" to a place where you can totally relax, have room, lounge around, etc. It would get to ANYONE after awhile. If I may Ame, I have some suggestions, maybe as a way of getting close to a "sweet spot". Here's what I'm thinking: 1) Sleep situation - get a hammock, and have two hooks diagonally in your van from the ceiling to hang the hammock down. This will allow you to stretch fully. Try a hammock first in a campsite or forest, see how you sleep. 2) Friends and Community - You need a touchstone location(s) that you always make your way back to, that you can participate in its activities, and get to know the people and make connections. There is the language barrier outside of the UK - however, there is one location in warm weather Europe where most young persons speak English. Its Portugal. I suggest you spend some time down there and speak with all the young people you meet. You'll find that pretty much everyone under 40 in Portugal speaks English. Add to that, there are fesitvals that run in various places that you can choose from. Chat with the young locals, find out when these festivals are, meet up with them when the festivals happen, and volunteer to help in getting the festival going. Since these are recurring, and if you help out each time, you get to know the locals, they trust you more, and you can have even better connections, find yourself being fed by a grandma, get sent off with a pile of food, and with any luck, you'll find a strapping young lad to focus your affections on. By that time, you may wish to put down roots. Besides, Portugal has cork oak forests - the trees you liked and saw in Spain - remember? Also, while Europe was roasting in 40C weather, I experienced 28C in Lisbon in this past AUGUST. The biggest parties btw, are the Feast of St Anthony in Lisbon, and the Feast of St John in Porto. Also, if yu need a BritFix - head down to the Algarve...you'll run into loads of Brits to make you feel more at home in the warm weather by the sea. 3) I don't know how much they are in Europe, but in Canada (I'm Canadian), there are many "virtual office" locations that you can rent per month (anywhere from $30 - $100 in Canada) where you can use their address, receive mail and packages, use meeting rooms on occasion, etc. This may help with having a central location to receive everything you need, and the staff there can scan and email all the documents to you. 4) When you have coffee, only have it in the morning, and also try going a day or two with coffee at all but a herbal tea. You may find that you sleep better - caffeine can linger in your system for many hours affecting sleep. Keep exploring Ame. Stay safe as you go about your days, and be kind to yourself. You don't have to solve all your problems at once. Continuous small improvements add up, and in time, can put you in a completely different place. Be well luv!
I've sensed for many weeks that the deracination of van life was getting to you. Sometimes it's good to stop and gather moss. You are so intelligent, interesting and articulate and I found this broadcast fascinating and psychologically insightful. You have done amazingly well in going 0 to 400k followers in such a short time, and we've all enjoyed the trip. If it's time to move on, so be it. I'm sure a great future awaits whatever it might be.
It sounds as if you are reaching the next stage of life. It can not be an easy lifestyle.All the best for the next, looking after your body, your self, and the next dream.I am sure 90% of us here will follow you on your next adventure.
Do you have a membership to a chain gym? I know in the US it's easy to have a planet fitness membership where you can always go to any location any time for a shower, workout, water, charge stuff, big locker room and bathroom, etc, for $10 a month. A quick google search suggests to me that they exist in Europe but I'm not sure the details, you probably know already though. So jealous of your lifestyle, I'm working on my nomad job so hard so I can get there.
I'm surprised Ame hasn't been approached by a professional van conversation company for a long term loan of one of their vehicles. She basically makes vanlife glamorous by being associated. They'd shift a lot of product ! 😊
There’s almost no way she hasn’t had offers to promote brands. The fact that she chooses to focus on her art (cinematography) and story telling rather than push product says everything about her personality. Her authenticity is refreshing in a space where people regularly bend into whatever let’s them be successful. I’m May be projecting but I think she realizes what a trap it would be to get cornered in a deal that requires you to conform to someone’s demands.
@jimbopeebles8210 she would most definitely promote a Brand. She actually does. The "jackery". And I think someone online work thing well. But she had agreees to limit how much she speak about them because she wasn't to actually use the products for a long period of time before giving reviews.
Well, your life style I am envious of. I wish I could travel like you. I have several RVs, fairly new truck, retired, but have a house and acreage to take care of. So responsibilities can hold you up. Life is too short and it goes by much faster it seems as you get older. Plus I don't like traveling by myself or relying on a family member to keep me company. I do need a traveling companion like I once had.
“ Its beneficial to a certain point to do this kind of stuff alone, and then once you reached a really healthy point, you can then start going down, because you live to much in your own head and your own world and sometimes we’re not accurate about things” Wise words and I think not just for Van life but Life itself. Tnx for sharing your experiences Ame”
You Know... If you came to America... "Ame across America" would be awesome! New places... new foods... LOTS of gyms...no Language barriers... Just saying....lol
It's nice to hear your thoughts and feelings, Ame. I suppose there's always pros and cons to how we live our lives...we just hope the pros outweigh the cons, and if they don't then even small changes in our lifestyle can make a dramatic improvement. I think the reason people may stare at you when you go out is because the clothes you wear are really amazing, like the dress you wore in this video. I don't think they're scoffing at you, it's probably more like admiration.
All you folks watching this better watch yourselves because you might come to find yourself 35 years old, divorced, eating a steady diet of government cheese, LIVING IN A VAN DOWN BY THE RIVER!!!
You said it how it is, Vanlife is great but can be hard and difficult. I didn't get my shit together until I turned 30ish. I was too busy having a great time, didn't want to get serious or conform to the 9 to 5. My 20's was the best part of my life, so many treasured times and people. Yes it was somewhat hedonistic and am ever thankful for it. Your Vanlife journey is teaching you and steering you towards your next gig, whatever that maybe. Keep on embracing life and you'll find it, much love and thanks, take care 😘
I've been watching you for awhile now . I live vicariously through your travels. I'm disabled so I really look forward to seeing all the places you go and your adventures. I do understand that it must be very challenging at times. I definitely don't have the courage,even if I could physically and mentally, do the things you do everyday. I would be in a pure panic if I couldn't speak the language or was alone and needed assistance with something. I live in a tiny home but it is on the larger side(399 square feet with a loft) .I am blessed that my mom allows me a place on her property to put it. It can be moved,but only by a special vehicle. If you ever had the opportunity to visit the states,I would let you park here in a heartbeat. I love my tiny space and I think you would definitely fit into a tiny home community. Not sure if there is anything like that where you are at. You could still travel in your Van or even a smaller tiny house,while having a home base to just settle sometimes.If you decide to move on from Van life,I hope you will continue to make videos. You have such a personality for entertainment,and brighten my day. Also love the fact you are into the 1960's. I was born in 1976,but if I could have experienced life as a young adult in the 60's ,I would have loved that (the music,clothes, everything) Take care,and keep just being you. We all are here for the journey ❤
Amy might be ok. But remember, social media is 99% commercials for products, service or a person. And as you know commercials is absolutely mostly lies or bragging to make money. It's all about money,
Hi Ame! I can totally relate to everything you say here! I've been living on the road for the past 3 years. Been watching your videos from the beginning of your journey. Good stuff! Stay awesome!
Dear lovely Ame, it sounds like your having a real off day, and that is natural and normal for everybody, but from my perspective as a woman, it's worse due to hormones and what our bodies and emotions go through. I think you could do with a really good solid sleep, a monthly spa day, whether that is pool, sauna, spa bath flotation tank, or whatever you feel nourished by spa wise or bathhouse wise, a gym membership that allows you to access many gym locations in France maybe?, drop in for a gym sesh and a shower, and some improvements to the van, notably the bed, the electrics, and water volume. I would also tap into a community of other young women doing the same as you? Surely there is some online group to find each other? If not, then start one? Maybe as well a good way to find like minded community could be to start an open university course, you mentioned you would love to study film i think? Its a great way to get connected to others who are inspired by the same discipline, and who all have a shared interest and purpose, which is to learn, create, be inspired etc. I found many of your comments re struggle to connect also relevant and yet i live in a house. Could you try actually staying in a house or air bnb for short periods when the viscitudes of the van is sending you barmy? Maybe staying in one spot in a house situation fit a short could help? I also think trying euro countries high on the score of friendliness and English speaking could help... Netherlands? Sweden? Finland? Tmrw well be better and you'll feel better dear ame, much love xxx
Hi Ame Thank you for your honest and open views on vanlife. This is a great video. As with all things there are advantages and disadvantages, but I feel that you have achieved so much of your dream lifestyle even since I have been subscribed to your posts. You have always stayed happy and optimistic in your videos, which can't always have been easy. Taking the good with the not so good with a positive attitude is a real gift that you have. Above all, you have to consider your wellbeing and stay healthy, Maybe you could do more info videos like this ? Look after yourself (and Gigi) ❤
This is 💯 relatable for me. Dude it’s for sure easier here in the USA. Plus being an introvert makes it hard to trust someone to let them into your personal bubble. That makes it hard to find friends no doubt. About to finish my third year in my van with no friends 🤣 ready to live in a house too. Hope you figure the situation out and get your soak on. ☮️ 🥂
Also two years into the lifestyle - first without any job, now I work 10h a week which helped for my mental health (not too much to do, but more than nothing) - I also miss the gym, sometimes I manage to go running to stay kind of fit... I agree in general with a lot of stuff, also about being alone. I'm more introvert, so this life made it WAAAY too easy to isolate myself... so I tried some communities (in Spain) which was fine for quite 4 months - but kinda still seeking my place in the world, which probably was the initial reason to start all this. I appreciated the honest words - I always like when people talk about their inner world - people don't exchange enough on this. Btw. it gave me chills when you were in Verona - I was there within the EXACT same time and passed maybe the parking you were staying (to start my trip to the city). Anyway - greets from a (usually) silent follower. Good onward journey
a house is a trap , you go to work all day to pay for it to just sleep in it, i want o buy a house but its 10x my salary, if i saved every penny after all my bills it would take me 32 years to buy anything affordable, not even a dream house
I see more and more young people sticking 2 fingers up to this whole concept life which is just debt. My first mortgage was three grand the same house now it would be three hundred grand , now how did that happen. The average house price in London is now £536 k and other cities and towns are catching up, its so friggin wrong that successive governments allowed this to happen with no control whatsoever
Hello Ame... The Queen of VanLife on the cover of Vogue with Gigi. I 💕 love you. I hope for you to be happy and I pray that God watches over you in your travels. You are a beautiful person with a wonderful personality. Always be happy... I still want to get you & Gigi that pink scooter 🛵. Much 💗 2U2 ...be Safe & always pay attention to your surroundings Ame ... it's getting cRaZy out there. Stay near your parents. I wish I could be there with you2.. bye4now 🙏😇😎
All things come to an end, good and bad! Everything has its season, and if the season for solo van life has come to an end, then that's fine too. It's not easy to be alone, especially to travel solo. Everyone needs and thrives with roots and social connections! We are social beings! Go out there and do whatever your heart desires and needs!
Amé is a Creative, an all around talent. Gifted, is what it's normally called but Creative is beyond that. She can create with little effort mostly because of the "in your head" issue. Being creative isn't on and off. It's a constant wave of thinking, from beginning to end of the creative process. You actually think and build it in your mind before it becomes a physical tangent thing. To others, that's why it looks so easy when we do it. Is the- learning how to control it. "It" being a runaway imagination. That imagination can build scenarios out of thin air. And draw a conclusion that doesn't exist in reality. Stumbling blocks that hinder the project. I'm saying this from experience. Self employed Artist. Self talk can be devastating to the Heart of a Creative. Self doubt can set in to defeat you. There is an answer to this and it is a discipline for the mind just like exercise is to the body. Structure, essentially. Filling your day with routine. Like putting a leash of a dog, the mind can run away if not held in check. That's the negative-ish side that comes with the Gift of Creativity. Don't ask why, it just does. There is no cure from it. One just learns to rein it in when it goes off the rails, so to speak. I'm humored by it now, because I identify with it. It was a damn struggle. It's a weight too heavy on the Soul to carry. And I don't want her soul to be crushed by it. The cure is to structure nearly every moment of your day... and keep yielding to it. The change of the structure will feel like a cage to freedom but it frees you up more. And Creatives desire accomplishments more than anything. And, yes, at times you'll fail. Just forgive yourself and don't dwell on it.... Keep moving along. If you're not failing, you're not trying. Another lesson I learned. Life is full of failure and that leads to humility, and success is when the party starts. And confidence grows like weeds. Life, has many forks on the path in this, our Journey. She'll chose wisely.... is my hope.
Last year at 67 I almost died 3 times but rallied and survived. When I was so very sick I cared only for God, my beautiful family and my close friends. Relationships were all that mattered. Material things meant nothing. I love your spirit and quest. Each person must find their own path but you cannot neglect love even though it contains the ingredients of sorrow pain, because it also contain joy happiness and fulfillment. It’s worth the risk. God bless.
Take a vacation, find a roommate situation in an interesting place, and keep filming. We'll still be here following you. There are lots of van-lifers who settled down and their following is still growing, watching them grow. Ambition Strikes, Van Wives, ... have all stopped traveling and still keep their business. I wish you all the best, and your creativity is unlimited!
The _HEALTHY LIFESTYLE_ question ~ I commuted for _DECADES_ for work, sitting in traffic watching life literally pass by - 3 or 4 hours a day minimum just frittered away on getting out and back to earn enough to be able to continue stepping on the treadmill! Take it from one who's been there and has the scars to prove it ~ the grass is definitely greener on the sand dunes!!
Wow Ame, just started watching. What a title!! You have my full attention, will comment again once I am finished. 35min episode as well, must be the biggest ever! As you well know I like the deep and heart to heart chats you have done in YT and in messages, its REAL and for me that is the most valuable 🙏. And what a good time to do it, after 2 years of van life, alot of life lived in that time!! Hope you are well❤
Why don't you get a small motorhome? I live in a large motorhome and love it. It has a living room, kitchen, bathroom with a large shower and a large bedroom with a queen sized bed.
Ame, this was such a great video. I love that you are who you are unapologetically. I wish more people could be like that in this world. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us. I do look forward to your videos and adventures every week. It's like seeing what "friends" are up to. Have you ever considered doing upgrades or changes to Gloria to fit your current lifestyle better? You do seem to have some options in that category. Stay happy and stay safe!
Hi Ame. You should invest in a plot land. Maybe get your dad involved. So you've got somewhere to touch base. Ps you're right everyone who lives in a van. Has bought a piece of land. .
After living in Europe for 3 years and now doing vanlife in the US (home) I feel exactly what you’re saying about communication barriers and isolation. I was so depressed and isolated in Europe and it’s just so much easier to do everything (even if I’m alone) in a country where I can easily communicate and relate to the people there. That was also very apparent when I got to visit the UK while in Europe. I wish had more opportunity to spend time there but COVID had other plans 😝
Looks like a lot of people have given you a lot of good advice. So here is mine. First you could do a partial rebuild of your van with a good shower. Everyone would benefit with a base. Tiny home, prefab home, apartment condo etc. I'm just a part time traveler. I own my apartment, it only costs $300/mo. while I'm away. You are young, beautiful, and very likeable. You have so much potential, my advice is to make the van life part time for a few years while you fulfill that potential with a happier richer life!
@@countrabricksbuildcraze8916I read she's worth a couple of million. They just pluck numbers out of thin air! Maybe 40K per year with YT advertising revenue and product placement. She could afford to stay in nice campsites but obviously chooses not to
It’s not true about her being a millionaire. There are people looking to make money so they set up their website claiming they have all this sensationalized information you want to know about someone and when more people check their page out thats how they start making money. That’s how it was explained to me.
😅😅😅😅 yeah ok man why is this negative info? She must hit something in you to try to take her shine, but I believe she could give a fck what you think LOL sorry Ame JS...
regarding the mental and physical health aspect... vanlife should not be about living in a van. It needs to be about living, but in a van-- if that distinction is clear. It seems every vanlifer youtuber where it is about the "van" ends this same way. There seems to be much more success for those who are living life with some, any, purpose and just happen to be doing so out of a van -- even if the van is central in their ability to live that life it isn't about the van or vanlife. Algorithms, etc, drive content creators when they have to keep feeding it but don't have a purpose they are pursing for themselves that isn't about the van
You are right. I come from the Netherlands, amsterdam and the most are programmed robot slaves of the system stuck in it and judge others .....sad to see. I am a free open minded person and choose to live my life alone and have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time....the more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards because of their broken souls. I think america, australia is easier and more to do with the same people like van life....in europe is difficult ....i think france, sweden, spain is beautifull to do ot but it depends what you looking for... Be safe and enjoy your journey 60 bohemian spirit
I will miss Ame’s weekly video if she decides to call it quits… But can certainly understand. Thank you Ame. You are so talented. You have brought me many moments of joy. I certainly get the importance of self care though. All the best to you.
Challenge Ame, did you see her new episodes? She was a grape picker for a week , then a plumbers mate, then she worked at a house movers,then for a landscape gardening company. Loads of episodes!!,she worked really hard,partied/chilled with co workers,learned a load of stuff, It’s hard to laugh when your alone( but not impossible) but a laugh is halved when by yourself. What am I trying to say to you?..love, be loved,babies time for you I feel.hope I haven’t offended❤
What a journey you`ve had,What an experience,but a young girl like yourself should now be looking at joining the human race again,getting a proper social life going out with friends and living the dream,just living in one area really is`nt so bad....Ive watched about 20 of your video`s and it`s interesting,But i often think whilst watching them that most of us have been lucky to travel,take a break for a week 2 weeks or a month depending where you`re heading but it`s nice to come home to family and friends again,I would now urge you to take the whole experience from these past two years you will savour them forever,But leave a more social life from now on it`s much much better for your health and end on a high before like anything you`re just turning out the same stuff everyday until it becomes a bore to do or watch....Only my advice obviously but there`s alway`s a choice in any situation,So i wish you good luck good health and contentment always
oh god that classic Ame kiss at the end of all your video's ! ....its like icing on a cake , a beautiful bow on a x-mas gift ,a pretty bow on gigi's head , beautiful way to end a video ! thank you for sharing......
I worked with someone who went on holiday to a tropical island with his girlfriend, beautiful clear waters, palm tree, white sands etc, they did not get on the flight home. They built a hut and lived on the beach for about 18months. After that they got jobs to afford their air fare home. Even living in paradise can sometimes be hard. I think the biggest thing in your life is missing the social side of stuff, you are clearly okay with your own company but i think you miss others around you, i think also being on holiday every day (yes i know thats not true) maybe does not help. Maybe you do need some structure too. Ame, i love your personality, i love your fashion, taste in music, humour, definitely an old head on a young body. It will be a shame if you decide to move on to something else but you also need to make sure your health is not affected and i dont mean your sore back.
Sex is important in people's lives, but those who live in motorhomes never talk about it. How do you solve that primary human need? Thank you and continue with your dream.
I know what. I mentioned ghosting around the UK, Germany...etc. Short adventures to explore the castles and haunted Inns and Pubs. With your 1st rate expertise filming and editing coupled with my amazing experience with the Paranormal. We could have a great time and put out some unparalleled content for our channels...I know some other paranormal teams that could be involved. Scary exciting. Itsy bitsy spoydahs!
Dear AME, Gloria is cute, you are pretty. Yes I guess everything comes with positives and negatives but you seem to be navigating fairly good. I know you've been told many times before that you are very dramatic in your presentations, knowledgeable and crafty. I'm sure you could be a very good actress if one wants to get caught up in the rat race scenario. Sure enough, a movie or book or both would suit you fine. Anyways thanks for bringing cheer and laughter dear one and thank you so much and wish you a Wonderful Life❤❤❤❤❤❤
I can’t believe you are only 23! In a good way. I think that is the wisest most insightful 30 minutes I have ever spent listening to some one talk about van life. I think we all get trapped in our lives for various reasons and want or need to escape - want and need are very different. And I sense you’re probably little stuck where you are right now. What ever you do next don’t stop being creative and beautiful. What you create is so interesting and different to everything out there. I think you have found your community we’re just all 1000s of miles apart. I could certainly talk to you for hours. I don’t normally comment on your vids, but I’m betting you get more comments on this vid than any other, because this without doubt is the best example I have seen of a creator connecting with an audience ever. I could talk / listen to you for hours. Be gentle with yourself. Warmest Rgds, Brian
I am a vanlifer too so I can relate to most of your feelings and doubts. I think it will really help if you rent an airbnb for a few months in the year. I do 50/50 nowdays, summer mostly in the van, winter mostly airbnbs. Vanlife is chaotic and draining, so for working it is not good at all. Work really help to balance the mind. About feeling isolated, try to make friends among other travelers online. I have now long time friends this way, and this helps me a lot! random people you cross outside, not helpful because too far from your lifestyle, and as you said, too much of a language barrier.
I'm so glad you did this episode, I'm thinking of living in my van and it's been so informative, you have been so REAL. If you are finding it difficult communicating with people you should try a few live videos, you can then interact with your fans. It might make you feel a bit better. I look forward to more informative videos coming our way. 😂 take care of yourself.
Any life style has sacrifices along with its own stresses and problems. As someone in America who has accomplished the proverbial “American Dream”… it is not what it is cracked up to be. It is so overrated. I look at my life and think… am I really happy? No, not really. With all the accomplishments comes a lot of added stress, aggravation and anxiety. It also brings regret. I work a corporate job but drawing, writing, acting & filmmaking are where my heart is. Thankfully I’ve been able to do them in my spare time, but it is difficult while working full time. I think creative people tend to be deep thinkers too. Most are introverts also. I can tell we’re kindred spirits, so don’t give up on your dreams. I also admire you. It takes a lot of inner strength to accomplish what your done. Never stop being yourself. You are truly amazing in so many different ways. I envy whoever wins your heart.
I suspected things were going awry! Your journey has been spectacular although I wasn’t aware of your site (channel) until about 11 months ago while I was looking at tiny homes / van (RV) life. It take a tremendous amount of amount of will power and determination to perceiver and tread a lone path. Especially at your young age. Having a dog is great for comfort but they do limit your flexibility as to where you can go but I suppose that having a dog give a sense of security and also a focus at low points. Make sure you retain your individuality etc in the next part of your continued journey. Stay together and be proud of what you have achieved … for understanding yourself makes life’s choices so much easier further down the road.😊
