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I said this a few videos back as well but Ayla deserves way more support and help. She was driving while pregnant, she cooks all the time, she used to build furniture herself, she takes care of the baby and probably the dogs herself too. She's the woman and man in this relationship. She's super independent and women like these deserves men who are providers and protectors, not princesses. Even when chat was telling Kian to drive in one of his streams, he initially agreed because of chat was being relentless about it but Ayla ended up driving in the end anyways. I love Kian and I only know Ayla cause of KnJ but man, as a partner, I would feel so unthought of and uncared for.

You guys see a five second clip and want to act like you guys see them 24/7 keep comments to yourself. She didn’t post for your opinion at all, she edited the video and knows what she added in there cause she found it humorous

⁠@@jessicaholey7129kian is really supportive. i’ve been watching him since he was a teenager. he’s a naturally goofy person, and it’s not going to suddenly disappear because he’s a father. he IS a supportive father and he loves ayla. he does his part too and he’s present. it’s his first time being a father and no one is perfect but he’s present and he tries. do not undermine his ability as a father just because you’ve seen her do things. being a mom doesn’t mean not cooking or doing anything. kian can provide he has the love for ayla and coast, he has money, and he’s present. no one gives him any credit and acts as though he does absolutely nothing when he does. independent woman doesn’t stop being independent because a man is brought into the picture. he steps up and tries his best and he should not be discredited as a father. he’s a good dad

And then making that "I look better than you" comment. I didn't realize his immature character would actually affect his actual life to this degree... Especially in such an important phase of his life as baby-rearing. He needs to dial back on the immaturity and step up and say I'll do this,/ill take over/ you should relax, you seem overwhelmed, etc. I hope he realizes how amazing of a mom Ayla is

You’re so strong for even picking up the phone and watching. I’d be a mess in my room or in the shower ... :( really so sorry. My cat is getting sick.. old it age now .. I’m scared it’s coming soon. I hope you can cope with yourself rn and try to do things to help you relax and heal.

As first time parent it is hard and serious lol, it’s fun when baby is happy and smiling but it can definitely be difficult!!! We’ve never experienced this until now

It is hard and difficult though? You just have to balance it out it and breathe.

coast is 2 month old and they are new parents😭 its obviously gonna be hard at first

exactly emily

so well said

That’s not the point, she can love him endlessly but the fact is that she needs help and a break and she has said herself she doesn’t get a break and can barley even go to the doctors for herself without kian making a big deal that he has to watch HIS son, it’s not a matter of if she wants to be with him or loves him, it’s a matter of she needs to be able to take care of her mental health.

@@jadedlex8269 bro they already addressed this and she said she exaggerated and misworded it.. the people that grew up watching them understand and what their humor is.. it’s the random people that didn’t know them at all that just found them that are taking what she said and running with it in the worst way. they have both talked about how the worst thing you can say to parents is that they aren’t good parents.. and y’all are basing him off of one misworded video.. kian has done so much for this kid constantly .. they both love him.. and ayla has said that he is an amazing father. people just need to quit assuming the worst when they do not know what goes on behind the scenes.. especially the people that only seen that tik tok and jumped on the bandwagon.. i have grown up watching kian and fell in love with ayla the minute they started dating.. i have watched for years.. and watch the streams .. where they talk about a lot more and show a lot more than just these yt vids or tik toks .. they’re sense of humor is poking at each other.. it’s always been that.. but bc people seen one tik tok they’re like omg kian this kian that.. if ayla has shown any indication.. it’s that she is strong and cares for her kid so deeply.. if they were not getting the treatment they deserve, trust me when i say she would leave. she’s strong like that.

one hundred percent agree. someone as seemingly genuine as ayla, would know in her heart if kian is doing enough. I’ve watched kian forever and know how silly he can be. but i also see how much she smiles because of it. They are an adorable couple and family and only wish the best for them. people are so rude.

Ayla we know you're independent and can handle everything yourself. That doesn't mean that your partner shouldn't be at the very least, doing his half of parenting. Especially so close to post birth, he should be taking a lot more load than you. In Asian culture, women completely rest for minimum of a 30 days (45 for c-section). Girl you just gave birth to a LIFE. I really hope Kian respects and values this enough to be a proactive partner and father

Yeahh, he's acting as an ashole..

@@jessicaholey7129omggggg I knew I was always attracted to Asian culture for a reason 😭 I’m gettin me an Asian man!!! Lolol (no really tho.. 😅 I love so many things about the culture and had no idea about that but I love it sm 🤣🤣🤣)

Lol cause moms are way more important to the baby in the first year or two.. just a fact. Dads can only do so much during that time, especially if she breastfeeds regularly

​@@VeeDrago not all moms breastfeed

@@I-kd3cz I said "especially", meaning even if they don't

@@VeeDrago that's why both parents need to be involved equally so they can limit the baby's parental preference

The internet is ?! Omg can’t believe none of it has been on any of my socials wtf why?

Why are the getting grilled right now? What’s going on?

@@Person-oe7liit’s because ayla posted a tiktok (she now deleted) about how her and kian basically ask each other like “if they can take a shower” yk ask each other if they can do things while one or the other watches the baby, and such. so she asked kian if she can go to her appointment while he watches the baby for 3 hrs, and she said that he agreed on the count of him being able to go to the gym later on, and having the next day, ALL to himself with basically him not watching the baby at all the next day just so she can go to her appointment, coming to an “agreement” that’s what started it edit: i’m not agreeing nor agreeing, i just know that’s what started the discussion and why ppl are talking abt them on the internet, i just know ayla’s a zionist who posted abt supporting israel, 🫤

@@lunarghosttI could understand him getting grilled because she shouldn’t have to ask him if he should keep the baby for a few hours, it’s also his responsibility to help her. I like Ayla, not so much Kian. He’s very childish but there’s a chance for growth. I believe he will get better with the years.

he deserves to get hate

A by product?

Settle how?

ayla supports isreal and shes made OF content with her big baby bump, deff not amazing person

@@heidi5482it’s a saying like “ don’t settle any less to what you deserve “ She deserves better is what that means.

lol y’all are wild

you guys acting like yall know them😬

Wait why?

I agree. It’s not gonna last. Poor kid

You know how ugly your comment sounds?? You are watching a 13 Minute video and you are telling Kian to step up? Like if you know their life? See them every all day 24 hours? What gives you the right to tell a new parent that you dont know to “step tf up”

it’s the fact that he doesn’t even care to help, at all. and u got nothing in ur stocking like at all. it’s like ur taking care of two children

maybe it's just not his thing. There's nothing wrong with that. Why is everyone acting like they know this relationships. @@webwen03