खुश नसीब है वो लड़किया जिन्हे अपने हक के लिए लड़ाई न करनी पड़ी.....जिम्मेदारी और परिवार के नाम पर लड़कियों की खुआबो को उनके सपनों को दबा दिए जाते है....😓बाकी नारे तो लगते रहते है की नारी और पुरूष समान होते है....😐
To apne adhikar ke liye sanghash kro chahe jisse krna pade mata pita ya samaj ya bhagvan . Or ha bhusnasib vo hoti h jinhe ishvar ne sanghar krne ka moka diya h papa ki pariya nhi
SDM Jyoti Maurya mat ban jaayega, kyonki Ladkiyon ko Safalta milne ke baad unka Ego Bahut jyada badh jaata hai, lekin ladke kitne bhi bade Pad par chale jaayein woh kabhi bhi jyada Ego nahi karte in comparison to girls, aur agar ladke ko bade pad milti hai toh woh Berojgar Ladki se bhi Vivah kar lete hain, lekin kya ek Ladki Aisa karti hai...nahi....aur Sabhi ko UPSC CSE mein safalta nahi mil sakta kyonki Seats 800-900 hoti hai aur candidates 5-10 lakhs. Areh bhai aap jo difference ki baat karte hain toh kya + aur - mein difference nahi hai, gar nahi hai toh hume Maths nahi banana chahiye, tab hum Scientific nahi hain.
Thanku Sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏....sir hmare desh ki sbse bdi problem ye h ki ek accha career bnane aur shadi ki time same h....isliye distraction bht hota h....ek traf hum apne career k baare m sochte h...vhi dusri traf parents shadi k bare m.....itni pressure m rhkr hum girls ko preparation krni hoti h....hum middle class vale to upsc k bare m sochte hi nhi...itna khrcha ata h....isliye hum log phle one day exams ki preparation me hi khud ko lga dete h....aur na form time se aata h aur n hi exam time se....agar exam ho v jata h to ...paper leak ....isi me age nikalti jati h 😢....
@@Anjalichoudh thanks dear...girls are axis of every family but unfortunately we are far behind in considering their contributions...A male cannot even survive without a women...😍😍😍
Mai ek maa bhi hu job me bhi hu aur pcs ki taiyari bhi kar rhi hu But kbhi haar nhi maani aur na rukungi ap jaise log bhut jyada inspire karte h Aur har din mujh me apne sapne ko saakar karne ka junoon aur badh jata h.
How it's possible aap thakte nhi ho ghar ka kam bhi toh karte hoge aap😢 It's so difficult I don't believe log kis kis situation main tyari kr rahe hain ...main toh ghar ka chita mota kam karti hun usme hi Jaan nikal jati hai fir padhne ka Maan hi nhi karta kuch
Health issues arising during preparation, and overall, is different too. We are required to be more precautionary. The treatment reasons, timing, costs, process, no doubt they are delicate and time taking. Not that we should be given some extra time, but recognising this side just makes a mental and social difference. Thank you Sir.
😢🙄इसमें केवल परिवार की बस भूमिका नही होती की लड़के और लड़कियां के रूप में तैयारी करना अलग है , किंतु इसमें समाज की भी बहुत अधिक भूमिका हैं । वैसे मेरे parents के पास तो बाहर भेजने का विकल्प ही नहीं है , ❤️bcz i am from middle class family, समाज और परिवार दोनो का कहना यही होगा कि जितना पैसा यहां लगेगा उतने में विवाह हो जायेगा 😢। Hn agr beta होता तो कहीं से कम से कम online कोचिंग का अरेंजमेंट तो हो ही जाता🙏।
मैं इस पूरे lacture से summary nikalu और सलाह देना chahu तो Ladkiyo ko apni shadi बंद कर देनी चाहिए Select होने के बाद शादी करें। इस bat se या तो Ladkiyan upsc ki preperation nhi करेंगी या फिर माता पिता और समाज बदलेंगे 🙏
Sir, I am working hard to get good job but my parents are forcing me to get married soon so that they will be from my burden. Our financial status is also not good. Now I am fighting with the whole world to achieve my dream but the stars in the sky are not in my favor. Sometimes I feel so hopeless but no one is there to get me up. I am the one who is giving myself hope and luck to raise and make the stars in line on my hand.
Respected sir Your this video is giving the reality check that samaj mein barabari hai nhi agr hai toh sirf samveedhan ki keetabon mein hi h Women's are suffering since birth till death this.... And it's all because ki past mein se jo chla aa rha h usko follow krne k karan ......sab badal jata h sir Prantu ek stree apne jeevan mein sadaev sangharsh hi krti h Kyunki usse apni zimeddarrion se kbhi vanchit nhi kiya jata ; jeevan k har mod pr usse logon ki aashaon k heesab se karya krne k liye kaha jata h jo ajj tk nhi bdla Condition of women's are still same in our societies but the difference is that they are performing 2 roles at a single time one according to the society the other of her self that it how she has seen herself
सर मे आपकी बात से सहमत हू आज मे यूपीएससी की तैयारी कर रही हूँ मे सेल्फ स्टडी कर रही हू मुझे भी घर परिवार वालों से लड़ाई करनी होती है अपनी जिंदगी की इस लड़ाई को समाज परिवार से लडे रही हु 💯
समाज कभी नहीं चाहेगा कि एक लड़की उसके ऊपर आजाए, आज भी कई लोग है जो लड़की को उतनी छूट नहीं देता जितनी एक इंसान को मिलनी चाहिए , भूल जाते है लोग के जिस माँ ने उसे अपनी कोक में ‘९’ महीने तक रखा है और उसे जन्म गिया है वो भी एक लड़की थी । लड़कियो को समाज को दूर रख कर आगे बढ़ना चाहिए और कुछ बनने के बाद लोगो में जागरूकता लानी चाहिए… जब गाँव में कोई साइकिल लेके आता है तो पीछे छे लोग बाते करेगे लेकिन वही व्यक्ति जब कार लेके आएगा तो उसके सामने हाथ जोड़ेंगे और उसकी बात मानेंगे समाज में रहना है तो उस तरह की sakti चाहिए ताकि लोग आपकी बात सुने … आज नई तो कल लोगो को समझना ही होगा कि ना पुरुष आगे है ना महीला दोनों एक ही है वो है मानव ,कितने में भी बड़े हो जाये अगर मानवता नहीं होंगी तो लोग कुछ कहेंगे चाहे लड़की हो या लड़का ।।
Being a Chartered Accountant, I can say that every word said by Sir is true for not only UPSC aspirants but other professional services and whether they go out of town to study or study from home.
Hattssss offffff sir 🙏🙏🙏 A big Round Of applause for U sir 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏200% sach Bola h Apnee... I am very very Thankfulll ki apne es Topic Par Video Bnaya H sir Coz pata Sabko Hota h sb Kuch but Koi Bolna Pasand Ya bat karna pasand Nh karta H ase topics Neglect Kiye jate h
Thanku sir for forward these all things. I don't know why those such things are also still 😕 ki ladkiyon ko pdhana aur job karana ek Ehsaan kara Rahe types thinking exists hain . Then fir bolte ki yeh ldko ko dekko Kitna successful bni h but yeh ni smjhte ki us successful ldki k peeche use parents ka support Tha.... 😢😢
Yes Sir! It is very important to understand hidden struggles and situation of female not only in UPSC preparation also in other sectors jobs which required more time and effort. In my case, I left my well settled job because i was in different state and my husband was in different state. In that job, leaves was very few only 20 days in a year, i have to travel between one state to another state for my work. Leaving job was completely my decision because i feels that i was not able to give proper time to my Son and my husband too. After leaving my job, I joined a CBSE school as a contract teacher and it was not a good place to work for a long time again I left that Job. Now I am preparing for some state Govt teaching exams. My family is very supportive they love me very much. At the same time, my husband telling me(Indirectly) if a female takes care of their family it will be great family ....children should be very successful in their life. he is not forcing me for anything. Sometimes you can't understand what happens around you.
Yes it's absolutely 100% right.. Gender is social construct so all the duties and life are also predefined by the Society...A girl or women is not born as it's birth..but as born by Society mentality...it is the universal truth...NoOne cany deny it..
Me rajasthan se hu .... 7 years old Saadi , 12 to 13 years 2 bacche 6 years mentally and physically bimar , fir study start abhi ba 1st year me hu upsc ki preparation kar Rahi hu . Jitni ladai ladi hai apne adhikaron ke liye shayad btaya nahi ja sakta ab bhi lad Rahi hu family ke sath padhai bhi . Par ab apne dreams complete karne hai
What a great speech, your every single sentence in this video is absolutely right because this is the reason I'm also facing in my preparation journey.
Well said, Ladkiyo ke liye itne pabndiya itne rules regulations itne limits ke koi bhi ladki Prep. Start krne se phle 1000 baar sochegi ke mai kru ya na kru, kahi exam 1 ya 2 saal me na clr hua to Prep shuru krne se phle bhi sochna ke suru krni chahiye ya nii krni chahiye, prep kr time bhi ye sochna ke XYZ kya krnege wo kya sochenge infact mai to ye sochti hu ke ladkiya ko itna kamzoor smjha Jane ke baad bhi Unpr itne Mental, Physical, Emotional pressure Dale jate h ,,, tb logo ko khayal nii ata h. Ke ye to nari h Kamzori h chlo Jane do..... Discrimination ki phal to hamare ghr se hi hoti h fir ghr ke aur log fir pados fir mohalla fir Puri ki puri society piche padi hoti h us ek kamzooorrrr kahi jane ke wali (Jo ki har jagh struggle kr hi h ) Ladki ke upr ... Maine khud kitne Dreams dekhe kitne Pure krne ki koshish me lagi itne age krni ki chahat h Kitne mai piche chod aai huuu infact Dafan kr aai hu.. Mai khud UPSC exam ji prep krna chahti hu IAS banna chahti hu bahot sari cheeze apne Parents ke liye apni country ke liye krna chahti hu .But mujhe sari cheeze chod kr mujhe phle to is society se ladna pad raha h logo ke Bhaddeee,,,,,Gandeee...tane logo se sunne ko mil rhe h.. Bahot sare mental Aur health problems se niklne ke baad fir se ek step aage badhne ki koshish me.lagi hui hu... Ek baap jo apni beti ko padhana chahta h aage badhana chahte h wo bs samaj ke dar se logo ke gandeeee... Tano ke dar se apni beti ke khwabo ko pura krne se use piche kheech raha h .... Ek ladki akeli ek taraf aur sari society ek taraf wo kis kis se lade kaha kaha Ignore kre Ignore krne ki bhi aur bardast krne ki aur respect krne ki bhi ek had hoti h....Khamosh rho to...aree ye to ego me rahti h ..Kuch bolo to areeee ye lakdi to battamiz h ise to Tameez hi ni... Ghr se bahar logo se lad jhgd kr logo ki bate Shn krne ke baad jb ladki kahi ghr se bs kuch duri pr hi padhne jati h chle library ha tution...to bhi piche se logo ki baate areee ye pata nii kya kya krti hogi areee ye padhne hi jati h yaaaa... Maa baap bhi Society ke bato se bachne ke liye unse preshan hokr apni phool si beti ke Par kaat dete h aur udne ko khula asmaan dete h bolte h udo abbbb ....I wish ki ek waqt aysa aay ke Ye society ke toxic logo ki Snkhya me Kami aayy use samjh aayy aur Kisi ladkiyo ko sukoon ki saans lene de aur jine se .....🙏
Sir I always learn from your valuable content. I must share one thing today. I am under State Government service, holding a group B officer rank.Being a female I always find gender biases in my workplace. Where my seniors give me some day to day work that should be performed by the clerk,,,those work are related to establishment section only, which is a type of monotonous desk job. But other male officers of my same rank are always roaming here and there. They will only be called to perform their duty when there is some work related to bill generation or office expenditure, or HRMS related task. Because they think women are dumb to do these technical things.
Finally the truth. Irrespective of airy things which everyone says out loud. Respect to you sir for your teachings. You impact the next generations in a very good way.
Selection k baad ki baat kr rhe hain sir 30 percent total girls' select hoti hain aur usme bhi field job me kitni hain????? Dusri cheez ye hai ki unpr family ki responsibility jyada di jati hai hai isliye vo field job nhi chunti hain
Learning process of girls will not be entirely same as that of boys🙏🤍 What a great thing you said SIR... I can't even express my feelings in words.,The way You have understood & elaborated everything about that how gender actually affects the lives of women...🙌
Meri bhi November mein shaadi hone wali hai engagement February mein thi meri fiancee bhi job krti hai aur i think ek ldki ko bhi job krne k azaadi milni chahiye chahe job sarkari ho ya private hum apni taraf se pura support krne k koshish krenge
M preparation k liye 2013 Kota gyi thi for iit mera nhi hua 8 know mere bhaiya ne 1.5 lakh ko aaj 5-6lakh ginate or wo itna chubhta h then I decided ki ek baar graduation hone k baad bhaiya se koi Paisa nhi Lena h or maine graduation k baad khud se coaching pdhakr or khudse railway loco pilot join Kiya now I m preparing for upsc but time management bohot jyada difficult ho gya h
Really being ias is my childhood dream .jb parents ko btaya ki ye karna h tu bola kar luu even umeed bhi pedda kar lee butt jb preparation ki barri aee tuu ghr ke sare kam tum karru ghr ke saree kaleshh ki chdd tum har din ke ladaii karnaa h but padne nhi dena khuch n khuch bhar nhi janne denge but padloo ban jaoo 😢😢
Ghr pr Ghar bhi hmm tayari kr skte hai sir aur jha tk bat mere hai mai drti nahi ho jo kha rahe tum nahi kr skte onhe krke jarur dekhayege na kabhi ruke the na rukege hmm sir
I've a huge respect for girls and their dedication towards their goals and also there struggle but thinking that only struggle means only girls this is not fair for those boys who belong to middle class family and they have a burdon to earn so that they can buy the coarses, books also they can face the society's mentality as you are a boy you have to earn.
Bilkul shi sir m bhi aise hi apne time ke liye apne ap se ghr ke Kam upse ki preposition se lad rhi hu ldkiyo ko jayada sgharsh hote hai Jada to after marriage
Ist issue:safety(In this tym parents rise this question first) 2nd issue:marriage 3rd issue:financial 4th issue:inequality 5th issue: gender stereotypes 6th issue:health (some girl) 7th issue:dowry 8th issue:Glass ceiling Many more this is common in our society, nd now a days toxic environment on religion base, toxic relationship etc😢😢😢
Yes... In Delhi, room rent for girls is very very high as compared to boys... In karol bagh or old rajendra nagar, pg room for boys is around 8-12k, a decent room.... But for girls, pg room is not below 15k/ month... Over and above there is electricity and water expenses... And other stationary expenses too.. that is too costly for most of the middle class aspirants... Owners here in Delhi are charging exorbitantly... Hope Delhi govt should place a cap on rent also
U r absoluty right sir...thanks for this topic ...mera v mppsc mains tha or m mains k liye first time ghar se bahar indore gai or apna comfort zone chodi . 28 ki age m first time ghar chodne ki bazah se mai apna 100% nahi de pai......vo v mains k time new hostal new log and homesickness 😢
अभी तक मुझे भी नहीं समझ आ रहा था कि हम लड़कियों के साथ ही भेदभाव क्यों होता है लेकिन अब जब शादी का समय आया तो पता चला कि दहेज मुख्य कारण है। मां बाप जितना खर्च लड़कियों के पढाई के लिए करते है उतने में शादी कर देंगे। अब समझ गये लड़की के जन्म पर मातम क्यों मनाया जाता है।
@@xyz56xy this is a serious matter bro why are you kidding with those word . Just prepare your brain for better improvement in our society. थोड़ा बहुत तो कोसिस करो की समाज में बदलाव हो . That's it.
