Having no father figure is not an excuse to neglect your children. Be the opposite of your absent father. P.S Personally, I wouldn't give a man like this, his legacy from the beginning. That's free generational promotion for humiliation in exchange.
It’s not an excuse, but it is clearly a reason. An excuse is something absolves you of being held accountable for something. A reason is an explanation for why something is. It is what it is.
It’s also impossible to be a father to multiple children to multiple women. You literally can’t be in two homes at once. Unless those women wanna give up custody to the dad and he’s on board with that, somebody is getting neglected
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimeExactly idk why people still don’t understand the difference between excuses and reasons/causes… And some people don’t learn soon enough because they genuinely don’t think their problems are actually problems because of the culture!
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimeno it’s an excuse because they are using that reasoning to absolve themselves of the responsibility of being a father. Duh.
Nah, Nick really is trying to build an army. He literally said that's his goal in life is to father as many kids as possible. Most of those other rappers are just apparently allergic to condoms and refuse to have sex with one. Nick is purposefully trying to have as many kids as possible. He wants more kids than he has time to deal with. The other rappers don't want kids, that's the difference.
Naw I can get behind this. look at niccas getting nervous about a hypothetical law like “naw naw cause that could potentially be me behind them cells” lmao. A cool lil week or 2 should be good enough insensitive and if not increase the duration of time they stay in there every time they have the means to pay but don’t
No because if the man doesn't want the child and then he'll face jail time go out a woman can always just go get an abortion if she doesn't want a child
It’s not even a Hiphop issue. It’s a African-American, Caribbean issue. (Black) Even here in my country, most caribbeans they like boasting about their multiple baby momma’s. It’s not cute.
@@MarYou23 what's funny but not funny is the number is so obsurd if I read this comment and didn't know the truth I swear I was full of sht. But he really does have 38 kids
@@Jess-yp9fo THANK YOU. when it comes to something like this, the guys in our community can't act clueless about why those stereotypes about their fatherhood exists when they prove it right more often than not.
thank you i don’t few people who do co parenting as real parenting i’m sorry but parents don’t get breaks my parents didn’t get a break 😭 sorry i js don’t see that as REAL ts is wack co parenting?? more like no parenting
All these rappers having similar background stories is not by accident these record labels are strategic and smart they get the people that's desperate for fame and money and trying to get out the hood they rarely have positive role models in their life that's why selling their souls is so easy for them
I think corrupting is a better way to describe it than selling. Theyre most likely so drugged out and uneducated they aren’t even aware of what they’re signing up for. These execs are predatory and manipulative.
@@Goldenxbiheveryone involved. Lets not be slow. If you are a woman trying to get with a rapper, you are looking at bringing a child in this world so that you can fund your life. Sleeping with someone that has 5 other baby mamas is one of the dumbest choices a woman can make let alone choosing to sleep with a rapper or entertainer in thw first place. Like dee said. These men aint sh*t and neither are these women.
We like to blame the media for the heros we choose to have and the content we are forced to digest bit at the end of the day we also have to blame ourselves for subscribing to such content that empowers and glorifies something that is negative for our community
my dad wasnt the best, but i couldnt imagine watching him glow up and make a (great) life for himself, and not ever take the time to even check in on me. (the financial part is a whole other conversation) 😩
Wayne has reginae, then Nivea and Lauren London pregnant at the same time, then a woman in Cleveland was pregnant around the same time if I'm not mistaken. Those 3 kids are around the same age, but not a single 1 of those 4 women ever said he's not been the father he's SUPPOSED to be.
And black men always be like “ Black men don’t cheat “ with all them baby mamas I hate when they say that 🙄 all the people are embarrassing just to get a big they gonna get pregnant 🤦🏽♀️
why do they say this bs??? who made it up??? “black men don’t cheat” yall the MAIN ONES cheating tho😭😭 i’m sorry but a group of men raised by women aren’t “men” to me.
That saying is literally satire tho. lol its not meant to be a serious statement. If anything its said because its obvious that its actually the opposite. Like they are making a joke about how they know they create a lot of broken homes, but they don't want other people to acknowledge it. I've always seen it as a form of dark humor...
i’m honestly so sick of broken homes and people WILLINGLY doing it just up and giving your bf a baby on a random tuesday like ….🤨 why are mfs sooo obsessed with the struggle like wtf? people see statics and the toll it takes on them to not have a child and they just DONT give af…
It is, but people excuse it because they say that "it's the people, not the music" music can definitely carry spells though, that's why you have to be careful of what you listen to. They promote dangerous lifestyles and activities to the impressionable youth, and then the community will crumble. It seems like it's working...
also as a women knowing WE can get preg and THEY can up and leave any random day…. why tf would you put yourself through that??? 🤨🤨 the least you can do is give your baby a good day. like please.
This isn’t just a hip hop problem it’s a black problem fame or not. The black community needs a serious reality check. WE NEED TO START HOLDING PEOPLE ACCOUNTABLE IF WE WANT CHANGE. Not having a good role model is a poor excuse for not doing what you know is right.
Stop deflecting and focus on the topic at hand. Rock has already been condemned by the white community in its prime which is why they didn’t want their youth listening to it. It’s not a mindset or lifestyle that is encouraged by all walks of life in their community like it is for ours. Stop pointing fingers and start actually trying to fix your own community before you worry about someone else’s.
5:57 tbh he prob gave money to them which in some ppl eyes = to taking care of, being in your childs life doesnt mean being THERE, seeing as he couldnt even remember the names
DMX was murdered. As far as his son asking him to get clean in order to have a relationship with him, he should've known better. Addiction is lifelong. You can be clean for 20 years, something happens and youre right back where you started. Hopefully he was able to reconcile his relationships with his kids before he died because he was clean for a long time before he was murdered.
Wayne has 4 kids, way easier to be in all your children’s lives. Vs most other rapers with 9+ also with 9+ bm’s doesn’t make sense that they’d be in all their children’s lives equally.
i’m sick of horrible people in society but they are just showing up for the mistake their partners made this is why everyone don’t need the “right” to procreate.
The point of the matter here that bothers me the most which I don't hear people say in the first part of videos are why the hell aren't they using condoms. Yes condoms are not 100% effective sometimes but usually they are. I think it's more concerning that so many rappers are out here running around smashing people with no protection on. And honestly if I was any woman who would see them near me or trying to hit on me they would have to cap up anyway but also go and get tested. Ain't no way You out here freaking around with no protection on having multiple baby mamas and you still don't touch me with that. I mean s*** think about the safety of it all honestly, just because you from the hood don't mean you don't know how to use a condom. Cuz I always hate when I see videos and they're like they have always and they have all these children it's like no put on the condom unless somebody is popping that condom there is no reason why you are not using protection. It don't feel the same that's okay cuz you don't want to be having all these babies and also you don't want to be having the risk of getting a disease from somebody or giving it to somebody. That's real crazy in real terrifying because if they're not capping up knows what else they are doing.
@@Sliky_59 The main 3 reason I strongly dislike him is Number 1 He told youtuber to get a real job when he's a rapper he has no place to talk watch Dj ghost video even he call out on his nonsense The second reason I don't like him he seem very unintelligent and beef with random rappers like he's going through an episode And finally the main reason I don't like nba youngboy The main guy in breakfast club was speaking facts about him having so many baby mama having so many kids giving him advise not to have kids just to have kids and he took it the wrong way and made a garbage diss song
@@GreenTeam-re3jy act like a donkey was hard first off all Secondly he didn’t mean what he said about him not being big on fatherhood he was trying to say because he’s always busy he doesn’t get to spend as much time with them and some of his baby mamas are petty he doesn’t start beef with everyone most rappers don’t like him because he isn’t a friendly person in because he’s loyal to quando the only Thing I agree what you said was the RU-vidr stuff he shouldn’t have said that
