For real, I know my wife and I would open our home up if one of my kids friends had this happen. I’m all for teaching kid’s responsibilities, and I never moved back home after leaving for the Army at 18, but damn this lady was cold af.
Her choosing the boyfriend over her son is sick. Just because he is 18 doesnt mean he is ready to face the world by himself. What has she done to help prepare this kid to be on his own? Nothing. Luckily his best friend and family took him in. Good to hear that he respect that new family enough to help pay rent.
Right I understand husband but boyfriend fuck out of here and still not just throwing him out help him get on his feet like parent should wtf is wrong with these Ll you child at 18 just became and adult wtf make you think he can make it on his own
"I know I used to spank you a lot as a child, no gifts on birthday, always grounded and kicked you out the moment you turned 18 but can't you help me buy that new car? I am your mom afterall."
Well some parents treat their kids like their some kind of an investment. Parents raise kids, spend money on them, take all the money the kids earn. Some parents are like this
@@KJTsukoyomitrue a lot of parents are like this sadly. can’t tell you the amount of times I heard the typical “as soon as they’re 18 they’re out the door” like they’re trying to impress the other parents or something
Not necessarily. I got kicked out at 17, lived with my best friend until I left for the Navy just after my 18th birthday, and we were still good friends until like 4 months after boot camp ended, then he suddenly just dropped me and said i was toxic, i'm autistic, so i probably just did a bunch of things that I never meant to be rude, but they seemed rude or somn to him
@@thephatjesus3032 it's simple bro.. They are just addressing the mom as a granny to mock how old, weak or helpless she is now.. instead of just saying mommy got dementia.
Him refusing to return to her after she “wanted” him back was his way of giving her the middle finger and I’m here for it. She did not deserve anything after what she did. His best friend’s mom was a REAL mom, not her
She literally evicted him and when she found out she started giving his best friends mom money, she had the AUDACITY to ask him to move back in. This is the literal definition of human trash.
And on his BIRTHDAY too. This would be a terrible thing to do on any day but there was no reason for her to do this on his birthday other than to ruin a special day for him and humiliate him. This is such a low, scummy act of bullying.
The audacity to ask him to come back home after kicking him out and seeing that he finally got a job and giving money to the person that actually supports is off the charts
When you listen to your jobless, lazy ass boyfriend who needs to get a job of his own. Then that's what you get... you Got Served mama... You ain't getting Shit from him B**** and I'm glad he ain't going back... She doesn't deserve his money.... 😊🎉...
He should have gotten a job while he was living at home. We dont jnow what their finances were like but. He wasnt doing anythjng to help support himself
It’s reality, wake up, what’s prob on her mind rn is how she can get money from her bf and dick withought being seen or heard by anyone, that’s the female mentality meanwhile I’m trippin bout money and family
Nah nah nah gonna charge rent the second someone turns 18 your gonna pay your own old folks home costs Edit not saying she should charge rent I’m saying if she does she should pay her own elderly care
Fr talk about seeing the positive side of an unexpected situation that mom is trash your kid is the future of your bloodline and that's how she treated him that's insane
Thank God for the friend's mother. She showed him more love than his own mother did. And he is treating her in kind. I bet you he's not just giving her money for rent, I guarantee you he's giving her a little money for herself every now and then. To show his appreciation. Love that he has a new family out there who actually loves him
@@bakihanma839 I think anything in the realms of parents publicly humiliating their kids for facebook or tiktok instantly makes you lose your, "hear me out card". What happened to getting your a_ss whooped and the only people who knew were the people in the house and that one aunt your mom's always gossiping with?
@@bakihanma839 the mom is a clout chasing bitch😂 don’t even try to stand up for that. No matter what my kid does that is my kid and i will be by his side. I’m gonna make sure he handles his own business but I ain’t gonna leave him high and dry. That’s not a good parents
NO! I would literally stay where I was wanted. I would have just helped my son get a job. My husband and I helped my son get a job at Walmart when we were just simply shopping. We waited an hour or more for him to do his open interview. Since my husband had worked for Sam’s Club and knew the system, he helped him fill out his online application. We take him to and from work. I just ask for gas and tires on my car whenever it’s needed. Sometimes we fill the tank up ourselves. He’s about to join the Navy. We’re showing him how to buy a house through the VA since we got ours through the VA. I’m a Disabled Veteran myself so I’m teaching him some other things.
@@donilexington4600 I’m a 22 year old woman of modern society and would never act in this way. trust when I say there have always been bad apples in the garden of parents. some parents wouldn’t have even bothered to tell you, woulda just packed up your shit for you
I live at home with my parents. I'm 21. I've had a job since I left school but I couldn't even begin to think about moving out, even if I had a roomate. Cost of living where I live is through the roof. My parents don't make me pay rent, which I am extremely grateful for and that is how I will treat my children in the future. Your responsibility as a parents doesn't end when they turn 18, it never ends.
Growing up, my mom had a set of rules, like do your chores, had to be home by 930 on weekdays and 11 on weekends, and no bringing random girls over, stuff like that. When I turned 18, she sat me down for a talk, and made some modifications to the rules, like I could go out and do whatever she just asked that I call her to let her know if I was coming home or not so she could lock the door. I immediately got a job and started working. The place we lived at was owned by my grandparents and they offered to sell me the place so I took their offer and bought it.
Well DON'T Take Advantage Of Them Atleast Pay The Electricity Bill...Show Some Appreciation..You Have To Learn Some Responsibility To Prepare You For Life 😊😊😊
@@GracieButler-y6oIt’s It taking advantage of them😂. That’s the way you were used to living since you were born. Most parents don’t teach their kids to work and take care of themselves before 18. That’s why no one is ready at that age. Me personally at 21 I still think the age of majority should be 16 because I was able to think for myself at that age. And I’m sure if most people at that age were forced to live feral for whatever reason they are probably physically and mentally strong enough to fend for themselves. It doesn’t take to be 25.
By 18 you should already have a job, a car and and be looking for a place to rent. It's called being an adult. If you're living with your parents after 18 that's a damn shame
Thats what happens if you marry a whore and after you divorce she starts sleeping around while she has a kid probably a worthless man too that leaves his kid with a whore probably couldn’t pay for him and marries and gets a kid while being broke 😂
@@RosteeveBellier She kicked out her own child as soon as the clock struck his birthday. That's kinda a fucked up thing a parent would do wouldn't it.
You know "narcissist" isn't just a catch all term for "asshole" right? It's a complex psycho-pysiologic medical condition that requires diagnosis from a trained professional, and presents a suit of symptoms and antiosocial behavioural patterns. - A person with diagnosed Narccistic Personality Disorder who's really tired of people flippantly abusing and misunderstanding the term.
My mom once said: "perents who who are strict. tell them to do chores are the parents who love there most child. Perents who say nicely to there child are laizy parents who never cared for there child." Latter i found out it was called " tough love"
@@malaysiaball4084 yeah tough love is fine and everything i get that from my dad to but kicking a 18 year old out of the house when they literally have nothing is just messed up and taunting your kid- That's not tough love That's being a shitty parent
@@crystalxnightmarecrystal my mom was right she taunt him nicely there are the laizy people from the beginning of marriage. People like her do not deserve a child
Idk, people keep saying this but I call my 2 year old bro all the time. I’m mostly joking but is it really that big a deal? When he starts getting too close to the road or something I’ll just be like, “bro, where do you think you’re goin?!” And he giggles and comes closer
@@mamavswild I think the cthing that made it seem like that is the guy smiling and not arguing or looking hurt. He has probably been hurt so many times that hes used to how she acts and knows that what hurts her most is seeming unbothered
@@ashduwitt9899 Also some people just laugh when angry or stressed. Something I also do, plus Im sure he was in disbelief because of what he was reading and hearing.
And on his birthday, no less. She could have spoken to him like a mature adult later down the line and told him he's gotta move along, but instead she robbed him of the joy of becoming 18 and becoming an adult so she could get clout on the internet. Cut her off big time
@@TheChosenMoose01 yeah no shit, college is clearly eligible for teens that got financially support from their parent. Otherwise you either highly intellegent being or being rich in the first place to roll in.
@M T can't believe someone actually sided with that scumbag of a mom. ffs dude just turned 18, he's already looking for one and didn't even know he's gonna be kicked out from the house at his birthday
@amin 1039 I had that experience, and my mum still supported me, now I'm an engineer and she gets 20% of my salary as a gift. You don't evict someone you love for something beyond their power and especially getting job while in university is hard stop being an entitled fuck
And Americans wonder why their society is failing all around them when at the family level theyre not even coherent 💀 Unlike the superior Asian race who have strong familial bonds and tends to stay in one house living together even in Adulthood because the Kids now takes care of the parents.
@@daseanfoucher2549that’s the dumbest thing I’ve heard someone say because she didn’t know that the friend would take him in she LEFT HIM FOR THE STREETS why would you comeback to that it could of easily killed him
@daseanfoucher2549 lmao nah you don't kick your kids out when they turn 18. If he didn't have his friend where would he be? Living on the streets? What kind of mom would do that to their child. Mom is obviously not right in the head and shouldn't be in his life anymore
I'll be honest, judging from his reaction he probably knew it was coming and that his own blood mother is a piece of trash and it still hurt but he strong enough to not show it. But the young man luckily had someone else there for him and managed to pull himself up by his bootstraps and repay that kindness, all while hopefully managing to get rid of a stinker in his life forever. So in the end, it is a positive, and I hope he finds great happiness in his life and doesnt let creatures like this bog him down a single thought. 💪
She forever tainted the relationship with her son, just because she wanted to be petty. Hope those couple of seconds of superiority fed ur insecurities enough for the rest of your life when your son refuses to speak to u
Well, there was money involved. That’s what she wanted. Worthless human being. Im all for teaching your kid responsibility, but damn, that was heartless.
And she filmed it. That's not a mother. That's a child who needs to grow up. I love how he proved her wrong and then she begged him to come back. Glad he refused and is doing so well.
@@mobilegameclips5628 Very possible, hopefully so, so much fake stuff on net as clickbait, but a lot of commenters are saying it happened to them, IDK.
It called tough love my mom kicked me out and I did have a job car helped with rent everything but told my mom I was going to my lady's house for a weekend and come back to I'm moving to Florida to help you great gma I was a mommas boy didn't no what to do she was not taking me and I was 16 got my 1st house at 16 and my older sister is the one that signed everything for me she was just 18 help me if she could but I babyed her she didn't get a job tell she 30
The fact that she's the one recording this means that she's not just choosing her bf before her kid. She's just a genuinely disgusting excuse for a human being
@Nathan Borino hate to be the devils advocate, but some people mean well and then dumb fuck it up. There's a saying "The pathway to Hell is paved with good intentions". Not defending the mom, just some food for thought. :)
OR he has been an asshole to his mother and family for years prior to this and actually thinks it is funny because he is an entitled little shit. There are two sides to every story.
Yooooo the fact she sounded so excited to “serve him papers” then wanted him to come back after he was doing well for himself. Applauds for the audacity
How many times has that been said and will be said? No body listens no one ever had listened and no one ever will. People are going to keep having children no matter what their lives or situations look like. Thats all people will ever do until it kills us.
@@toblas not sure if you joking but just in case. The term “takes balls” is a phrase that has the meaning, very brave. So basically their saying, “wow the mum was very brave to speedrun how to make your child never talk to you” (tho in a way that also implies their joking)
It's what he needed. One day, he might realize it, thank her, and show her the love and respect she deserves like a real man would. Get your priorities right, you only have one mother.
What? He needed to be thrown out on his birthday? He needed to be taunted and recorded? He needed to be thrown out despite his lack of funds or place to stay?
@@Beast1CocoPuffsYeah people saying "tough love" are fos lol she was mocking him calling him a baby and "bro" like that's what my ex would call me when arguing wtf . Shitty ass parent
You can tell from her mocking that she waited years to get rid of her son. The boyfriend merely gave her the idea. And after her son have a job and living a decent life, she now want a slice of that pie. What a worthless woman.
@@b3thann3or in my mother's case, she admitted that she wanted a little girl... She got me + my brother. After my brother left home at 17 to join the army, She kicked me out the house just before I was due to sit my exams at school. I had to drop out of school to get a job to support myself... It was later when me & my girlfriend had a baby daughter, my mother came back on the scene - trying to get social workers to take our daughter off us saying she'd be better living with her (she WANTED a baby girl so much she was trying to steal mine & my girlfriends!). Glad I haven't seen or heard from her in about 10+ years now.
I had to go through the same experience when I turned 18. Both my parents and my sibblings planned the all thing!!! I never did anything wrong. I was kind, loving, had good friends, good marks but I wasn't good enough for them. My primary school teacher took me in and saved my life. She helped me by keeping me safe and by giving me the emotional support and a best friend and a mother I needed. I managed to get a job and pay for my College fees. I now hold a Masters Degree and became a Teacher as my Primary was my inspiration. My family never saw my face again as I made a promise to myself to never let anyone treat me wrong... I'm now 50 and proud of myself and I love my 75 years old Primary Teacher above and beyond. I love you Josie!!!❤❤❤. Zohra
Either I read it wrong or u make no sense at all?! So ur saying… from what I can comprehend that is, is that the eviction notice was the friends mother, whom he is currently staying with?
@@usifromdaisland8665 basically his mother, who gave him the eviction notice, is no longer a mom to him. His friend's mom is now his 'mom' because she helped him slowly become an adult and is now paying her back for the kindness she's done for him.
The way she choose a boyfriend over her own damn children is sick. He seems like a good and responsible child too. Serves her right when she is old all alone
Then my mom wonders why I don’t call her. 😂 you reap what you sow. When a person can’t keep friends for at-least a while, that’s a walking red flag. She’s that she taught me that through observing her as.
@@redpillmafia960It's not that easy to get a job, the boyfriend said to start charging him rent which I can honestly almost see as a good thing to do, it's the mom that just ruined his 18th birthday by freaking evicting him.
@Fuzerize EVERY PLACE IS HIRING EVERYWHERE!! What are you talking about? Do you and I live in the same country? It was obvious that the son DIDN'T want to work, and maybe the mother decided "tough love" was the only way to motivate him instead of enabling him. I'm also sure that they live in a state that requires eviction notices to legally kick people out of your home. If she would just said "you have to leave"... it would have been drawn out... now she can involve the police legally because she served an eviction notice. You act like you know that family's entire back story. The parent had every right to do what she did.
words cannot describe how much i hate moms who choose their boyfriend over their kids. she’s a horrible person, filmed her kid and posted it… she deserves nothing
I’d hate moms like that too but I just don’t even feel any type of way about it. It’s the same thing my mom did n I don’t really have no feeling about it cuz idc about her. They’d lock me out the house n shit since I was 14 a bunch of times but I never told nobody personally cuz it didn’t effect me. I would go to a business nearby that sold sheds n I stayed in one but it was cold asf in there n there was a homeless guy who used to be out there sometimes according to the business owner but I never saw him thankfully. I was always nice even after they treated me like that cuz it’s no benefit in hating them, it would make me miserable. Someone said one time being miserable by yourself is being alone with bad company n someone said hate has no benefit, that’s how I learned to let things go
The moment I heard “mom’s boyfriend” I just want to say to that guy “dude, that woman is your birth giver but not yo mama, she’s a manufacturing machine, leave her bro”
Yeah when he puts her ass in an elderly house for the rest of her days, he’ll be laughing with the luxury to go where ever, do whatever and whenever he so chooses. Meanwhile she’ll be playing chess and crosswords with the locals
Nah, worse; She’s the woman who’s gonna try and manipulate him to do it, she’s gonna call him a pussy for not helping out his mom, and that he’s not a real man bc real men take care of their mothers, blah blah blah, etc., etc., as if she didn’t choose being a girlfriend over being a mom 😭
@@RealKingCrabgonII What makes you think he’s even gonna put her up in a retirement home? He’s not sending her anywhere except the street after this, like she was willing to do to him.
@@zuripenda She was telling him many things and nothing good. She was implying: you are not loved, I don't care about you, this is not your home and you are useless and unworthy. The only good thing is that he has found out he has a monster for a mother when he's young enough to build a life away from her. It's much worse when you find out the terrible reality too late, too old.
This is why mothers say "Im your mother not your best friend" because if there is no RESPECT atleast infront of your mother or child then thats when you get these kind of insensitive relationships that dont show any affection nor compassion.
Not only she was rude to her son during the video she also didn't seem like she cared about her son at all. She only wanted him back when he had a job and car.
@@DiabeticlySweet87 how do you what the whole story is? How do know he doesn't treat them like shit? How? Of course you're just another RU-vid guesser that knows everything. Stfu.
Thats what really makes this video sickening, I mean its bad enough that she gave him the eviction papers. She put the cherry on top by taunting him, as if she was taking joy in seeing his world was coming down. The best thing he can do is become financially successful and cut all ties and dont look back.
@@skyhunter6123not for a parent my mom and dad put everything before me and my siblings even almost dieing for me,Just the same as I will for my future kids and so on and so on
Any mother that calls their son bro and humiliates them on camera for their own gratification does not deserve a child, glad he ended up somewhere where he is cared for and supported.
I remember I was jobless for over a year before I turned 18 by then the only place that accepted me was McDonald’s and sadly at the same time another McDonald’s actually rejected my application once
It’s impossible in my country to even own or rest a house under 21 years old. Shut is way too expensive and u don’t even have experience to get a proper job
IKR? Just throwing him on the streets with nothing. I have two nephews and the thought of them being on the streets homeless makes me physically sick. This woman is demonic.
@@eyedunho1537 That means no one bothered to update it after it came out first. The first half *is* the draw. Now, let's say it *was* fake, you'd have to be the biggest imbecile or psychopath to think and say "fake", when this scenario has played out thousands of times, mom kicks son out, he stays with his uncle/friend/gf/ someone else and then the mom regrets it when the son is working.
@@Resanctify imbecile and psychopath for thinking someone made up a second half of a story for attention I’m just a realist, it could have been what happened or alternatively the son may have never made contact with the mother again….
“It took me 30 seconds, bro!” Like, she either hated him all 18 of those years, or that boyfriend has got a REAL deep hold on her. Wait until her man leaves her alone and struggling by herself!
@@bromast50 I’m gonna give that dude benefit of the doubt and think that he is saying in the parent’s mind it’s the kids fault when it is actually their fault
@LEOMESHI word bro, it’s always parents fault because they the one educating you! And if you aren’t working it’s because of your parents because they didn’t care about you.
Genetic moms deal: you get 18 years of lies along with an eviction at the end and i get rent Friend's mom: you get a home and job whilst i get another son
I wouldn’t claim her after that deception. My mom let me stay with her and helped me get a job. Now I’m doing well on my own got my own place and everything. She’s a scum bag in my eyes especially after that taunt she did.
My mom did the same thing and would call me worthless and useless. When I moved out for college she begged me to come back and treated me like the perfect son. A month in and she was back to an even worse version of herself. Don’t let your parents manipulate and waste your time y’all. Your parents chose to have you, but you didn’t choose your parents.
2 chances 1: her begging you to come back was a genuine feeling she had at the moment, but she fell back into her habits just as quickly while still not understanding why you actually left 2: her begging you to come back was always a fake begging, just a trap
Im so sorry to hear she kicked you out. I wasn't fully kicked out, but would be kicked out for short periods of time (a couple of days) from five to fourteen years old. I too was called a retarded, deserving of my rape, that im going to die. I made sure to move out as soon as i could. I'm hope you are ok now on your own 🫶
I don't know how I'd survive if they ever kicked me out while I'm still in school and have no income. I genuinely wonder how all these kids who got kicked out survive. Huge respect to all of you. You guys are really strong.
That’s not a mom, that’s a fuckin landlord. Massive props to the friend’s mom, she a real one edit: landlords aint that bad tbh, treat em with respect pls :)
My two boys will never experience this. Of course I'm going to teach them to work hard, and help them establish careers they are proud of. But no matter what, they'll always have a home with me.
The fact that you’re putting your boyfriend before your own kids is a whole new level of messed up. The boyfriend should be charged the rent not your kids.
Any parent that calls you Bro, taunts their kid and lets their bf take persistence over their own kid is pure trash. 🗑 I'm glad he didn't go back home.
