HIS SIDE! THE MARRIAGE IS OVER! WHO GETS THE HOUSE IN THE PHILIPPINES? 

Yeah I quit watching this clown!

I'm in my 80s now, retired, happily living alone in the USA. Back when I was in my 20s, I was with a few friends and an older gent. We were talking about getting a GF, getting married, having kids, and all that responsibility. We asked the older gent what he thought was the best way to live. He thought for a moment, then asked us why we wanted to get married. Most of us said 3 things: regular sex, kids with family life, and regular 3 meals a day prepared by our wives. The old gent thought for a moment as he looked at each of us. Then he said: "Well, as for the kids and 3 meals a day, you could probably come up with some sort of alternative plan and lifestyle. But as far as the regular sex is concerned, the f-----g you get isn't worth the f-----g you're gonna' get."

If yer smart and buy a house you have a lawyer draw up a lien against the house and property should a divorce happen or she wants to sell it out from under you she must first pay off the lien against it and pay you back in full. It works and protects you against fraud from your spouse!

You can own a condo and certian townhomes depending on how the town home is titled. Condo can be 100% owned by foreigners

Perfect place for super simp fat Willy

condo, or put home with lawyer in others name. see a lawyer.

A permanent resident can own property, house, land up to x amount of acres, thats from the Govt. website, chk it out

Thanks Andrew

You are totally right. I had lots of pretty young ones wanting to marry me but didn't convince me, so I made the right choice and never had anything to regret.

@@tonieplacide-oy4xx , the problem is most of these women are obese, older and have children from prior marriages. Even Filipinos don't want them.

Most of these women that u mentioned are older, obese, below average looking and have children. Some even have grandchildren.

They were looking to die early w/ them young ladies. Why stop their fun?

many red flags in his story

Facts mistake a lot of gringos make in The Philippines 🇵🇭.

These double chin old romeo 😂😂😂 These guys over 60 just remember when you was a 35 old guy , have you ever think to be involved with a 60+ woman?? Is fucking disgusting. I am 41 and for a woman in her 20 , i consider myself old. A woman between 20 and 29 is too young for me. Just look yourself in the mirror before looking for love and a 20+ woman.

Did a coconut fall on your head?

Before that even. Single mother? RUN. TWO or more kids? RUN FASTER. Either SHE is low value because her husband (or husband and boyfriend or two boyfriends) ran from her, or, she chooses low value men. (While it's not great for a man's ego to discover it's the latter, he still should.) Oh and she didn't change. He just never really saw her. Which also means, if he still thinks it was her that "changed", that it wasn't his inability to pinpoint high value women, then he won't "see" the next one coming either. The second mistake was that she was poor. He even says it himself - living in a pig pen. So she never had her Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs met, which means all her decisions until that point were based on securing the next meal and money. It in was in that learned state she chose him. And he met both of those, food and money, so of course all seemed happy at first. But once that was secured and behind her, it was time to monkey branch, move up a rung and meet the other needs (or just more of the same lower ones, like more $). Like most of these low-value women who clueless foreign men deliberately seek out ("I'll 'save' her from poverty so she'll stay with me forever because she's grateful and will feel like she owes me"), once she realized she could take most of everything for herself and use her crotch trench to suck the next foreigner into, she was off like a rabbit from a bald greyhound - after a period of growing to first resent, then hate him of course, to justify her cheating - which he has mentioned, but you can just bet she blames HIM for. What he should have done about the house was threaten to have her and her boyfriend charged with adultery (he used the words "boyfriend" and "bang my wife" and "apply for a divorce") unless she agrees within 30 days to sign paperwork so x% of the money for the house sale goes to him upon sale - and that happens in such a way (through paperwork at time of sale) that she never gets access to the full amount - that the bank or purchaser pays each of them their agreed portion. And for those who will say, "But punishing her punishes the kids..." that's the same simp behavior that caused this situation in the first place AND you can guarantee (low value woman that she is) she's going to raise those kids lying about him, accusing, rubbishing for years - so when they're adults they'll hate hit guts anyway. Not only that, if she goes to jail (and remember, that's only if she's dumb enough not to sign - no Filipina wants to go to a Philippines jail), the kids would go to some aunt until she's out anyway. Of course this assumes the house is actually worth something too. If it's the typical hollow block hovel foreigners build (like old uncle Pedal FIle Jessie) then it probably isn't worth bothering over. Even so I'd still want her in jail. Consider it a much-needed life lesson for her not to be a shitty, low-value person. I'm typing while still listening... His main lesson after being asked for advice to other men is to get a prenup!? LOL. This guy still doesn't have a clue that he's not just 50% responsible for this happening, but coming from the west, with a better education, better and mature life skills (should have had anyway), and resources (internet) to learn what went wrong, etc - he still doesn't get it. He says he "has a few close friends" (obviously he means superficial friends with sexual benefits). He seems still oblivious to what happened so It's probably best he sticks to that the rest of his life. "It wasn't a care of the greedy Filipina trying to get the foreigner." Uh, yeah - it was. She just didn't know it herself yet. Did she plan that from day one? No, but it 99% GUARANTEED it would naturally flow into that by the type of woman he chose. He missed his best friend? She was never his best friend. HE is projecting that false impression upon her. She was/is INCAPABLE of having felt the same, evidenced by her stealing from her own friends and church and by getting a boyfriend soon after kicking him out, instead of a time of regret and introspection a person with scruples would go through. (In fact given all her red flags and low-value behaviors it's a safe bet she was screwing the boyfriend (if not multiple other guys) well before inviting him to leave. (You don't willingly turn off one money tap until you've turned on a second one.) And guys, don't take back a 304 who not only did all this, but was on her back 5 minutes after you closed the door, and then says she wants you back. She only wants you back for one of two reasons: a) Because the new boyfriend won't put up with the same BS you did and have indicated you would again, or b) To finish the hit man plan.

Must be your dad never met an American woman

Your dad is 100% right & they are compulsive liers too , in the Philippines 🇵🇭 it's normal for them to lie and this is a major culture shock for me . I told one girl that back in my country she would have no friends if like this

Excuse me if your information is not all Filipina liars like what you said

thanks for sharing

@@watersbey25 Any divorce attorney can write one up.

@@mightyj806 noooo, it requires international know how by a knowledgeable lawyer You have to get the girl into the USA on a 3 month fiance visa, and have a USA based lawyer represent Her. The second lawyer represents you. It must be drafted and signed IN THE USA The prenump must be in her dialog or else she can easily hire another lawyer to happily contest it later saying she couldn't understand the language in the prenump. This will void the pre nump later in court. Her lawyer should be a good one, chosen by her and actually becomes a pain in the butt to deal with, costing you extra money and some anger. After this pre nump is signed, get married in the USA and go back to the Philippines, or stay in America. I'm stuck.. I think this a fail of a pre nump with a girl from the Philippines. Time to lose half my life savings quickly.

@@watersbey25watch Filipina Pea she has a video and a good lawyer contact for pre nups.

you got lucky.prenups can be cracked.

good advice

It appears his move to Thailand, was no coincidence

That's why I don't get involved with amy Filipina since 2014. Lol😂. They just use and blackmail foreign men in The Philippines. The best life in the Philippines is MGTOW mode.

Philippines is a crazy country. Corruption all over the place in that country from the scammers to the politicians

The thing is you don't need a State Sanctioned Marriage. Put everything in a trust

some guys want to settle down and relax with a good girl and enjoy life

Sounds good on paper bro, big risk though. Once the place is paid for, True colors start to show if you picked the wrong one@@mikesphilippineretirement

foreigners cannot buy a home..a condo yes home is hers. sorry thats it.. I met a lawyer there are ways to insulate home.

Think long term rentals would have been favorible.

Thanks for sharing Dave

Sounds interesting but I don't follow your logic. Are you saying only a condo in your name is safe, and a normal house is not?🤷

Research the internet foreigners CAN buy condos and townhouses under their name in the Philippines . Research the internet foreigners can get 25+ year leases on new built houses under the retirees name.and never get kicked out of it from the Pinay when they break up Just spend that hour on Google and RU-vid. stop being lazy.

@@watersbey25 Wow, I didn't know that you could own property or a business in the Philippines. Are you saying that a condo and 25 year lease are the exception?

@@kogaryu5558 A foreigner cant buy the land the house is placed on, to buy a house you need to register it into a philopinos name. A condo you can buy in your own name.

thanks for watching

He's into the kids probably

Manhood?

rent a women you do that back home?

@@mikesphilippineretirement Turns out I think I did.

hahaha I have in the past for an hour or 2 when i was in the Navy

@@mikesphilippineretirement I'm talking about marriage and divorce Mike.

@@mikesphilippineretirement old guys need to realize this is 100% not going to work. It makes good RU-vid content, don’t get upset, 20 something gal is there for one reason only, in real life they want a young good looking guy, so you get a young gal, she gets money , when she is on her feet, it’s goodbye don’t let the door hit you on your way out. Don’t be upset , keep it to yourself, people going to talk behind your back, what an old fool you’re

Thank you

hay hay that is my JOB!!!

Lmao

I wish i had a forced delay on my mouth. it would have saved me from a lot of pain in the past.

I never heard of him until after i posted the video about the house

I know nothing about him. Can you provide a link?

You don’t shit about the man so get a grip

What's the back story?

I agre. He even said he would build her a house because he would die someday. He was a bad jusge of character, she never loved him. She used him from the start. he didn't see it.

thanks for sharing

It’s not true, he is a POS who ditched his wife and young children to chase ass in the PI

not smart on both counts

😂

You kept getting in deeper

WHY after the first time would you EVER allow her to have any money to pay the bills? that's astonishing to me

@@urboyjim Isn't it crazy? Some people are stupid and I don't understand how they even figured out how to book a flight even.

lots of mistakes made

yes it is a 2 way street

Its obvious you take a poor Filipina lady out of poverty then she changes they don't appreciate what you do.

thanks for the info

All people change over time. The old saying goes a man marries a woman expecting her to stay the same and a woman marries a man expecting him to change. The truth is that both change over time and it’s up to them as a couple to either grow together or let themselves grow apart.

William,you better annul your marriage with your wife. Give yourself a chance to be happy.

@@lmcc0072 I think to many people get married just because of that LOVE feeling, not taking into consideration how that will change over time. That's why I sadly see some of my friends in and out of relationships when the rubber meets the road. Marriage is HARD WORK, but to be honest it's not something most think about in the throws of love. Believe me I like the feelings of love, but if you don't lay a good foundation of respect, trust and forgiveness before you say "I DO" when troubled waters come your marriage will fold like a cheap suit.

Your therapist was full of it and the studies and research show the rate of happiness in marriage are higher than any other long term relationship

I'm an expat in the Philippines, I will not marry these ladies first she is poor, has kids, uneducated no you will have a terrible life. You just got fooled, after a while you'll see her true colors.

@@foreignerescapestothephi-lj3ls Selfish to who?

Yeah but this can happen anywhere including the United States. Women can be destructively opportunistic.

yes he still loves her

I know that is totaling baffling

I’m with you it makes no sense to stay after that!

Sounds like BOTH were trying to move him along!? Tag team, baby!! Sadly, he was still sticking around, lol, yea, crazy!!

Not just a slow learner. A NO learner.

She does and we hope to talk to her

​@@TruthFinder7839as I was told a while back when I was going through my last divorce and told, " There is three sides to every story, her side, his side, and the truth" after hearing this I look at things more centered than lop sided.

There are always two sides. 😏

We are talking here about someone who was willing to do everything for her.

He said hi now hardly drinking at all ✨

yea my first house has my ex and her 3th husband living in it. In Nevada

Double ouch, for both of you fine gents ... that's gotta hurt

At least you are not on the web calling people trolls and saying that you have none comingled rights to conjugal property in a state that has no divorce but you were granted an ex party divorce in a third state but the issue of division of congugal property could not be adjudicated in the third nation state. The man Is not credible.

Philipino lady just need money they cannot be trusted you believe or not ,in young age they became single mom they don't know their value .

​@@mikesphilippineretirementyes but in the case you replied on...the Philippina is in the States and the second American husband is living in the Philippines! In the house the first American husband built! Crazy stuff indeed. After 15 years too.

Sorry to hear about your marriage.better to be alone in Thailand. Enjoy your new life ok.

thanks for sharing

No money no honey ,never marriage so you are the Master ,only rent a house not buy....

@williamabrams yes, leaving is the better or best choice! Forget and Leave everything behind, live peacefully and never give financial or economic support to those kind of people.

@williamabrams no going back Will, got to find a virgin as I plan to do!

@williamabramsYou did the right thing, saving your own life. Divorce is the answer!

thanks for sharing

@Max-oi9es you have to buy willie's line of bs first. he's notorious for changing stories, lying, exaggerating, etc.

@@47thunder-hu2kt Okay, I see he is one of those types, Thank You.

Very true

Great analogy.

His wallet still appears to be unlocked and I see a lovely young thai girl in his future.

Right.

So true Richard

Could be , however sounds like she was a gambling or a drug addict and wasted all the money.

@@kevink1214 William is not the most reliable source.

Drinking, drugs, porn because she became cold, best thing I did was give up drinking, health is important when older.

You seem to think that women are always the victim. I had a first wife cheat. Had 2 kids. I went to counseling and group counseling. One woman had the nerve to say men are the scumbag cheaters. I had talked with 8 of the 10 guys and I told her in the group that you admitted to having affair and wanted happy..Well, 8 of these guys loved their wife and family and it's seems like it's 8 guys and 1 of you. The other women had wanted to get advice from us guys as ro how to save their marriage after separation. No cheating involved. That girl shut up after that. I said we're all alike? I think it's pretty evident we're not!

i agree give her the house

thanks for the comment

they say Thailand is so much better

thanks for watching

Noted! she is working on it

Does she have a channel?

Geezer...hahaha

only you can take care of you

oh willie is William

Like we think..he will not stop..his mouth is full of shit...

@williamabrams you lie about being a doctor. you aren't. not even close. you fit eyeglasses. SoCal School of Optometry has no record of you. The American Optemetric Association has no William M Abrams listed as a DO aka doctor of optometry. no Jefferson Award listing either. you've got mental issues for sure.

Nobody forces you to donate, so you are alone and enjoy the entertainment, you are a simp too, just go and see if you can do better in the Philippines and we watch you...😂😂😂

The scars on his head? Is that from the drunken motorcycle crash?

she has made a few comments and Janet is working on it

thanks for sharing

lonely old western men thinking with their penis are the perfect target for clever young filipinas looking to move out of abject poverty.

Yes while many Pinays may not be “educated” they are by no means stupid. It is shocking how they are able to fool supposedly educated smart guys.

@@mikesphilippineretirement good vid

buyer beware

did not know that

seriously Abrams has a past and to feature him on your channel is a bit cringe in terms of his integrity. He has made his life and how he conducts himself very open via youtube so i feel i can comment on such@@mikesphilippineretirement

good point

that he is

i agree

Thank you for sharing

Filipinos are not the only people who always cooking up sad story's family's included etc, On the Bright side hopefully these vloggs will wisen people worldwide especially western worlders who seem to fall under these spells in the name of love, especially Older Men nd Women seem to be the main targets.

we hope to have her on soon

Yes I agree with the original poster... It would only be fair to give her an open forum where she can tell her side. I applaud you Mike for being non judgemental to this gentleman, and you are right, there are always two sides plus the truth somewhere in the middle...

lmao ppl acting confused like he wasn't just her ATM. Hey tell my husband I owe you money, he'll give us money. Just another scam.

@@ThePhilippinePipeDream you're dealing with willie who's so full of bs he changes his story every week. he's got a history of spewing bs.

Never heard of the guy, but a woman scamming for money, I believe it lol @@PhaseLineBourbon-lv3gg

her fb shows she cares for her kids

If i was him i might not divorce her let her live with that

​​​@@mikesphilippineretirementi sure she care for her kids but not husband. A Filipina family can often come before a husband.😢

good points

Invest only what you can walk away from and always have a backup plan.

No everyone doesn’t know.

@@pattskatoey3139 good man are stupid! I am one of them, so I know🤣🤣🤣🤣

For starters,..😅😅😅 it's sure stupidity if a foreigner willing builds a house for the filippina. When things go south,you as the foreigner you cannot get the house!!! NEVER EVER BUILD A HOUSE FOR THE FILIPPINA,BECAUSE IT WILL NOT EVER BE YOURS! JUST RENT.

Thanks! Will do!

best idea is to just move on

That’s the best advice sir papabear! Cut losses and move to another country where they could not bother you or go back to the USA and live happily ever after!

no he's not an eye doctor he's an eyeglass fitter. he's tried to claim he's a doctor but it's bs.

@@Karma-dj2zk I was thinking that how he is .

thanks for trying

Thank you! You too!

never build a house in philipines

yes I'm Blessed thank you

Women know how to make money off of men.

thanks for sharing

sure he will

Im hoping he will shut his mouth too

⁠@@WenggayEspinolahave you heard her side of the story? This is a very toxic marriage! Good story Mike.

@pablochicano his the one who's toxic in our relationship...lots of demands...when I will not follow it..he gonna block me in all SM

thanks for sharing

Thanks Danno

Don't trust them but treat them with civility . The mindset is 3rd world not being mean its the truth. 15 years back and forth visiting the Philippines from the UK has been a major eye opener about the culture and mindset

good for you. My you be married a long time

thank you

trap Door?

a whole lot of shaking going on..hahaha

@@mikesphilippineretirement It would make me physically sick even imagining fat Willy getting jiggy with it

@@mikesphilippineretirement I had to laugh when Willy said he doesn’t drink much ? on his last live stream from Thailand he drank a whole bottle of Vodka in his cheap hotel room and passed out on the live stream probably soiling himself at the same time . He bragged that he killed Mr Joe , what goes around comes around

Enjoy your life

Don't forget to take care of your health. Maintain correct weight, exercise daily, stay away from booze and cigarettes, and your meds

i guess you do not like him

@@mikesphilippineretirement not many people do , the man is a human disease

living close to her family is a blessing sometimes. Other times no so much of a blessing

@@MrPushpuller What surprised me was the jealousy within the family. My fiancé has 6 nephews and nieces. Her one brother who has 2 daughters who I helped once (100k) my house impacted their house. They have a combined income of 58k and as teachers they get a 13 and 14th pay. They want to make sure their daughters don’t get left out of anything that I might give to the nieces and nephews even something as small as ice cream.

@@MrPushpuller Yes and a simple thank you would also be nice.

@@mikesphilippineretirement I believe in a two island policy they live on one we live on the other.

When you accept the fact that whatever you spend on the house you can lose it all, will make your life a lot more happier and comfortable. I did the same thing 28 years ago and I accepted the fact that I could lose it all and walk away in peace.

is that the guy from "Raw Facts"

@@mikesphilippineretirement no , Raw facts is some Paki guy , Dave was from U.S.

Dave is still winning 😅

@@cwskoshikun Dave totally outed fat Willy . Im really surprised Willy has resurfaced , he thinks everyone has forgotten what a piece of Shi# he is

Is that the Guy who posted a Video telling Wily he was coming here to take care of him, and Will responded with threats of sticking Members of his Wife's Family onto him if he came here? I think the guy was an ex Marine or a bad ass of some sort. Willy had sent me a Friend request and post the video online, threatening the Guy with something like NPA or Guerrillas or some waffle like that, and Will asked me to suss the Guy out, then asked me to start Trolling him and to send him a message warning him not to come here. I told Willy I was not his Messenger Boy, want a message passe3d along, do it himself! He unfriended me. I Also like the way he glossed over the Go Fund me stuff. There is a lot more to that, eBegging for a couple of Bike Accidents, for Charity Work he was supposedly doing in Africa with Drinking Straws for $25 each, Eye Glass and Surgery, Prosthetic Limbs, then he needed money to pay for his Visa which had expired, then he pops up in Guam with a Go Fund me to get back home to his WIfe and children. Honestly, there is so many layers to this Guy and his Wife was right there by his side up to her eye balls in it also. Basically they say you can never con a Con Man, well in this case there can only be one Winner and one con man lost out.

something are hard to believe

Sometimes money & GREED change a person - it's NOT unbelievable,but it's TRUE... It happened everywhere

I will wait his reply

@@mikesphilippineretirementWillie was in an epic battle with Dave Bachmann aka Mr Joe on RU-vid for years and after Dave’s sudden death he made videos trouncing on his grave. I thought it was all for views but not sure.

Wow ... if that's typical of William, he's a bottom feeder

Yup he is the heartless prick ragging on a deceased expat immediately upon confirmation of his passing.

It is!

thanks for the comment

Thanks and Janet is working on it

we will reach out to her to get her side of the story

@@mikesphilippineretirement that would be awesome for the community.

working on it as we speak

message me on facebook

same in the states. When it's over it is over!

what a crock of shit. i understand why you think this though. i can assure you love and commitment do exists. im married to a first generation chinese in america as a white man. she does not need me in any way, shape or form from a financial stand point. she is the one that works in corporate america. i got out of the rat race many years ago and manage our properties and animals. even though she is the primary bread winner she never tries to wear my pants as the man and head of the household nor does she want too. she always has a good morning and a kiss in the morning. we cant be in the honeymoon phase either since we have been together going on 22 years with 6 of those years living in a semi truck with a saint bernard on the road with no home other then our truck.

he has said a lot and changes his story often to fit his mood

and the truth is in the middle

Agreed, and Mike, there's no such thing as the so-called "truth" in the middle. All we have are objective facts, and each person's individual perspective

thanks for sharing

let us hope he will be ok

thanks for sharing

The fact william said it makes me doubt it happens. Guy lies a lot in his videos.

who is Willie

@williamabrams what about your fake 'doctor' degree? SoCal School of Optometery registrar office has never heard of you or has your name (yes they regularly give out alumni attendance info for inquiries).

@@mikesphilippineretirement Willie is Abrams’ the fake doctor amongst other things

only invest what you can afford to lose

@@mikesphilippineretirement Invest to lose? Why would that be a good idea?

same thing in the stock market, only invest what you can afford to lose

@@rolandberger7493 well first don't come here poor or you can't do that. otherwise wtf is $20k if the marriage falls apart? not much imo. in the US you could lose, property, hundreds of thousands, etc in a divorce & still walk away ok. cheap in the phil to be honest.

I agree with that

I hope so too, this is a positive video to expats coming to the Philippines seeing mistakes others made so they do not make the same mistake

If you doing thing the right way that does not happen

lifestyle

😊 thank you

working on it