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Yes when we talk about equality of rights.. we should share responsibilities also.. if Parents are giving equal upbringing to their kids whether it's son or daughter, making you capable of earning and being self dependent in life..then daughter must take responsibility of their parents after wedding too...come on girls we are no less than any son. Grow up 😊
Ohhh please..girls are not only burden.if u make them so confident and capable of doing everything...I lost my father when I was 16.. I took responsibilities of my siblings..got a good job after a very tough struggle..finished the incomplete construction of my house...took loan for my own marriage...then too helping my brother every if and then...so plese each and every girl is not bechari some are like me...be capable..
I feel Indians are very extravagant when it comes to weddings and festivities. Life would be much easier if people did not feel so pressured to spend on unnecessary things or do things they don't want to. Our society has to do a whole lot of changing
I am an Indian... But i fully agree with you about this fact that... Marriage is so overrated here... Idk what so great a work they are doing by marrying that they have to show off by doing these extravagancy... I agree there are many good things about indian culture but many dark sides too are there.. Which of not changed even in this generation then sorry to say india can never be a fully developed country
Girl repaying her loan is also EQUALITY. Why should only the brother/mother be responsible for that? The entire mindset needs to change. Equality should be given - in terms of property/rights as well as responsibility!
@@ratnesh4727 ladies hmesha hi apni responsibilities achhe se nibhati aayi h saas sasur ki sewa ki poori jimmedari unhi p hti h bchho ki responsibility b ek aurat hi nibhati h , working women hte huye b wo apni hr responsibility nibhati h
@@rituchahar3153 to husband ki property me to hissa milta hi hai Brother me bhi chahiye Dono property me hissa Aur husband ko keval apne parents ki property me hissa Ha agar husband ko bhi wife ki property me hissa mile to theek hai Tab equality hogi
If a girl ask about her hissa, even parents starts scolding her.. this is reality in practical..if a girl wants that her parents and brother will maintain relationships with her, better not to ask for property 🙏..law bana hai ki ladki apna hissa mang sakti hai but law banna chahiye ki hissa compulsary mile Bina mange..
Equality = Taking the responsibility of the parents equally + Yes , paying off the loan equally + sharing the family property equally .. otherwise please give everything to the parents ... We are young we can still manage things they have given everything to us ...
100 % True.. I have a situation where liabilities and responsibilities are shared to us..But assets are enjoyed by others.. When questioned am asked to wait till in-laws complete their life.. Isn't it wrong??
I like your programs because you show us a mirror. Yes I fought for my right for my inheritance from my father's property. My brother's (younger to me by 12 years) tried to tell me that I should not ask for my inheritance, and that he will give me my share when my mother passes away. His argument was that my asking hurt her. I stood my guns and told him that getting from him will be charity on his whims. And that I did not want charity but my right. Caused friction for ten years, but we have finally moved on.
Hakk or equality should be both ways.. the expenses, liabilities, taking care of parents should also be equal between siblings.. Pls make a short film on this Pov too..!
That verdict of supreme court is only about the Hindu succession. Succession act is about how to divide the property of a dead person. Not about dividing the property of a living person.. Laws of Succession act is applicable only if the owner of the property has already died without registering any will. But, when the owner of the property is still alive it is his absolute wish to do what he wants with his property.. So, when even sons do not have any right in the property of his parents when the parents are alive, how can daughter claim equal rights.. .. Equal right only if the parent has already died without registering any will. But, no right when the parent is still alive. When he still alive, the parent can give for free or sell all property to anyone he likes. Need not give any property to any of sons or daughters or wife. They cannot complain about it because it is absolute wish of the owner of the property.. Also, any will registered by the owner before his death with override all inheritance laws. Inheritance laws are applicable only if the owner of the property has died without registering any will.. Property rights of daughter.. Daughter cannot forcibly demand property from a father who does not want to give her property. It is the wish of the father to give or not to give. All Children get Equal right of parent's property only AFTER the DEATH of the parent.. But, when the parent is still ALIVE, he can sell, gift or give for free all his self acquired property to anyone he likes or he can Register a will and give it to anyone after his death. Daughter's claim to father's property: When she can and when she can't... The Hindu Succession Act 1956 was amended in 2005, allowing daughters an equal share in ancestral property. Despite this, can your father deprive you of your share in the property? Find out: 1. If property has been self-acquired by father... In the case of a self-acquired property, that is, where a father has bought a piece of land or house with his own money, a daughter is on weaker ground. The father, in this case, has the right to gift the property to anyone he wants or will it to anyone he wants, or sell it to anyone he wants and a daughter will not be able to raise an objection. Son or wife also cannot raise an objection if the father is not giving them any of his self acquired property. Self acquired property of dead grandfather is also considered as self acquired property of the father. 2. If property is ancestral... Under the Hindu law, property is divided into two types: ancestral and self-acquired. Ancestral property is defined as one that is inherited up to four generations of male lineage and should have remained undivided throughout this period. For descendants, be it a daughter or son, an equal share in such a property accrues by birth itself. Before 2005, only sons had a share in such property. So, by law, a father cannot will such property to anyone he wants to, or deprive a daughter of her share in it. By birth, a daughter has a share in the ancestral property. Only the property that is still registered in the name of the dead great grandfather or above generation is considered as ancestral property. 3. If father dies intestate... If the father dies intestate, that is, without leaving a will, all legal heirs have an equal right to the property. The Hindu Succession Act categorises a male’s heirs into four classes and the inheritable property goes first to Class I heirs. These include the widow, daughters and sons, among others. Each heir is entitled to one part of the property, which means that as a daughter you have a right to a share in your father’s property. 4... If father dies after registering will... If the property was self acquired property of your father , then your father has absolute right to execute a will and give his property to anyone he likes.. But, if the will was not properly registered.. Then if you can show that father was not willing to execute such a will, but your brothers had put pressure upon the father and obtained it by forcing the father, then you can challenge it within three years from your knowledge. If it is found that father was not in position to understand effect of the will or was pressurized by some one or was not in sound mental condition at the time of writing the will, then the court may cancel the will, and divide the property equally among all the children. So, to avoid such problems in the future , the brother should take the father to the government register office and prepare the will in stamp paper and father should sign the will in the presence of 2 witness and the government register officers. The brother should take father to Government hospital and get medical certificate about his mental condition. If the will is registered properly then there is no chance for disputes later... J
Build yourself so strong and financially independent, that you do not spoil relationships for money !! How much a sibling gets depends on many factors - who is in need, who is taking responsibilty of parents, their medical expences, etc, etc. This siblings fight over property is shameful and heartbreaking.
Don't know how to express that feel when Life tak uploads a new video 😍🤩 The channel which changed me a lot 💯 during lockdown days... I became more progressive and broadminded now...Now I watch more videos like this in many channels.. But Life tak is always the best...
I think make urself so strong that u dont need these rights over patriarchal property and all....if they give u on deir own without any issues from siblings consider it a blessing, or let it go if siblings have problem, but need is 2 make ursel so strong and independent!!
In this video the mother should have agreed with her daughter to repay the marriage loan ...why should the mother and brother take the entire load...everything should be equal responsibility and property share...good video 👍
Yes when we talk about equality of rights.. we should share responsibilities also.. if Parents are giving equal upbringing to their kids whether it's son or daughter, making you capable of earning and being self dependent in life..then daughter must take responsibility of their parents after wedding too...come on girls we are no less than any son. Grow up 😊
@@dipikadamedhar9284 yes I also agree with all this but maa apni kisi v banchoon pe koi boj nahi dalna chahati khas kar financial matters if she has earning source 😀 it's a general idea I'm sharing bcoz I'm also a mother of a child and a earning daughter but unfortunately im unable take care my parents but i want to take care 🙏
I thought that the boy was acting to make his mother understand the problem of the previous day which was going on between his mother and her brother.... But unfortunately i was wrong..i think this presentation would be more touching if it would be similar to my thought...
Talk about equality between young wife and husband from parents also, they also fall in the category of girl and boy are equal not only siblings. People from good families now treat son and daughter equal but not son and daughter in law
Let the parents of the woman start treating their son in law as their own son and give him property. Then the parents of the man will also start treating their daughter in law as their own daughter and give her property. Woman cannot plan to get property from both her parents and her parents in law.. When the man is getting property only from his parents and no property from his parents in law.
When my MIL's mother passed away, 10 years ago, she left a two story house in a posh neighborhood of Delhi. Her two brothers lay claim on it and decided to own a story each. She fought against their decision. Fights got ugly but she got her share (which at that time was about 1 Cr). She and her brothers, all were very rich to begin with. Well to do people. But after this, no one speaks to my dear MIL. Not her brothers, not their families, not her cousins or anyone from extended family. She lost her mother and every other relationship simultaneously. (But she got the money) I have seen her cry, plead to her brothers to attend family functions, reached out to her nephews and nieces to no avail. Honestly, i feel that money made her very sad and poor at the same time. She hasn't been happy since then.
I don't know your mil but i think she didn't fight for that property to get money but the fact that she too was a child of that family and deserved an equal share not just property but the sense of being, the sense that she was part of them. I could be wrong.
It is rightly said that when you give up your right for others, the result is 'Ramayan' and when you fight for your right, the result is 'Mahabharat'. Nothing is wrong. Both are great epics. But choice of each person may vary.
Ramayana results in abandonment of everything for the woman (Sita didn't get anything for leaving her haq except abandonment by the very person she left everything for) while the man still gets his share even if later on☹️
@@shilparani3726 You are highly misunderstood. After the abondenment by the man she left everything for, the man also left all the luxuries just like his wife, but while living in the palace facing his responsibilities. Somewhere inside his heart, he also abondened himself. It is quite irrelevant here. All activites by God are divine, its not right to compare that with humans.
Bete ko bachpan me hi pata hona chahiye ki uski sister ka hissa kya hai In later stage it’s difficult to accept that my sister is having equal rights in my parents property But at the same time girls should also have sense that our parents are equal responsibility of son and daughter When money is 50-50 Responsibility is also 50-50
My elder Mamaji had raised my mother as his daughter and given her hand in marriage, gave her everything received in his own marriage as he was not so well off. He also took care of my Nani, so my mother gave him her share of property after discussing with my father. We enjoyed all our summer vacations at Mama's place and have wonderful memories😊
Na ghar ke na ghat ke type situation.. As a daughter u cannot ask for ur rights, and as a daughter in law, u have everything but with conditions applied.
Yes I did it being a youngest one in my family, Mostly I am ignored but now I am fully aware and fight with everybody. Even my brother big and big married sister.
Huge issue in human's family life ...mine ..his and her ...if there is love people would give the share and same could happen in return for other one ..I really pray that love happens always within family members ...nothing lasts ..love stays forever and memories
You're absolutely right what she said you never think or thought it would happen in your family because you never saw in your life your parents or their brother sister ever argue or talk about or discuss about money but you have to understand your brother gets married other side of the family woman comes in your house you don't know how she brought up and that creates the problem at time comes I was like that too and I was living miles and miles and miles away when time came comes to property I saw the reality of today's and I was single so I wasn't going to take that anyway but still I saw the difference and just for a few bug we becoming like this this is reality of today's 21st century what you brought up but don't forget you go to somebody else's house and somebody else's daughter woman comes in your house this is the reason everything's changed between brother sister
Question is to what extent it to be shared. The married girl/sister will also get property from her parents. What about the property which she gets from her in-laws. When it is about responsibility we say she is busy with her family as she has take care of her family. But when it is about property we talk about equality. In my opinion property to be given to those who take all take all the responsibility of parents
nowadays, mostly boys don't take of their parents only. it's the daughter only who has to rush forward. So please don't say anything just cuz you want that men get all the property. Ladke ko bhi girls ki family se kitna saara milta hai, no dowry but still girl's family has to give so much.
She is never getting any property from her in-laws. Her husband is getting. Even if someday she becomes the owner, she gets old and needless by that time
@@manishadas7434 EXACTLY. THE POINT. WHY CAN'T SOME PEOPLE ON RU-vid GET THIS? Her husband, the son of that house gets the property and it's on his name only. Not the wife's.
And also... it has become almost a myth that sister is busy with her family and brother is taking care of parents. Nowadays we see lots of cases where brother is completely busy with his family whereas sister takes care of her husband's family as well as her parents like a pro... so don't keep talking about history anymore...come live the present
And hello mister! "When it is about responsibility, we say she is busy taking care of her family", wow, clearly you don't know what a woman's responsibility comprises of, obviously not, cuz you aren't a woman. A man can't even take care of his own parents, his wife has to do that for him. And you talk about a woman's responsibility here? Kitna karegi ek aurat? We are not fcking robots, hell even a robot malfunctions and breaks down, but we apparently can't even do that. When it is about sharing responsibility where tf are y'all? Bas at the time of property, bring such an argument. How is that equal? You think the parents who have daughters have got no one to take care of them? Who takes care of them?!!! Their daughters only you ignorant fool. Don't stick to those old shitty societal rules, the world doesn't work like that anymore. Kids leave their parents, go to different cities, countries, in the end parents have to live alone only, not even their sons come back for them. Both son and daughter equally deserve a share from their parents, if their parents wish to give and they weren't disowned or something.
My parents were govt employees. Had multiple properties. My brother did not valued n loved them. Still my parents gave all the properties, gold etc to my brother bcz he is a son n not me who thought of them before myself. My brother broke all the ties so that he had to not give me anything
Touch wood I m unlucky for some aspects of my life but I m lucky my parents treat me like same as my brother even in financial matters..my parents believe in son & daughters has a equal rights their property..nice content. 👍
Definitely hissa equal hona chahie...but not only for rights it must be equal for responsibility too...for paying off loan.. taking care of parents,live with parents everything...but hmare yaha problem ye hai k hissa sab ko chahie responsibility kisi ko nhi...specially bahu aur bete ko kaha jata hai k wo parents ki seva kare..beti ya jamai ko nahi.. parents beti k sath nahi rehna chahte k unki life style disturb hogi..bt jab hisse k bat ho to sab equal...it should not like that....i m not against equality but with equality in true manner...
@@poorviasthana1587 ji jab haq badon aur choton ke beech mein ho toh badon ko ko choton ko kuch jyada hi dena padta hai ya kabhi choton ki Khushi ke liye apna haq bhi chodna padta hai. 🙏
@@sushantkumar1906 Par wo un cases me hota he jab members k beech dil se boht pyaar aur understanding ho to haq aur kanoon ki baatein beech m nahi aati...insaan khushi khushi kurbaani de deta he.......warna in cheezon ko zabardasti kisi par thopa nhi ja skta ki tum apna haq chor do wgrh wgrh...aur us case me na haq maangne wala galat nhi hota.. !
@@poorviasthana1587 ji Aapka kehna bhi Sahi hai lekin pariwaar mein jab haq ki baat Hoti hai tab badon ko hi samjhota Karna padta hai kyouni bade hi ghar ko sambhalte hai. Wo nahin chahenge ki thodi si baat par pariwaar bikhar jaaye ya rishton mein duriyan ho.
When some parents have boy then daughter just become responsibility. Their only duty is to get her married so they can save all the property for the boy. It is bitter truth.
Mucch needed content brought by life-tak team for opening the eyes of society.Relationship really get complicated when the matter of rights come in between them but why is it so? Relationship is not just love,care, pampers,sacrifices but valuing of our dear ones rights is much more of it.Standing for one's own right is not wrong and one needs to fight for his/her rights because #why not?😀😇❣️
@@ratnesh4727 The girl is sufficient enough to pay the loan even in the video the girl was ready to pay loan by herself. I don't think there was any biasness regarding this matter in the video. You may have not watched the video correctly.
@@ratnesh4727irl was willing to pay the loan, and mother stopped her as she took the loan for her, not her brother, neither is brother going to pay anything on his sister's behalf.. there is no biases except in your mind. You only see what you want to see...
You can find all answers below... .. Succession act is about how to divide the property of a dead person. Not about dividing the property of a living person.. Laws of Succession act is applicable only if the owner of the property has already died without registering any will. But, when the owner of the property is still alive it is his absolute wish to do what he wants with his property.. So, when even sons do not have any right in the property of his parents when the parents are alive, how can daughter claim equal rights.. .. Equal right only if the parent has already died without registering any will. But, no right when the parent is still alive. When he still alive, the parent can give for free or sell all property to anyone he likes. Need not give any property to any of sons or daughters or wife. They cannot complain about it because it is absolute wish of the owner of the property.. Also, any will registered by the owner before his death with override all inheritance laws. Inheritance laws are applicable only if the owner of the property has died without registering any will.. Property rights of daughter.. Daughter cannot forcibly demand property from a father who does not want to give her property. It is the wish of the father to give or not to give. All Children get Equal right of parent's property only AFTER the DEATH of the parent.. But, when the parent is still ALIVE, he can sell, gift or give for free all his self acquired property to anyone he likes or he can Register a will and give it to anyone after his death. Daughter's claim to father's property: When she can and when she can't... The Hindu Succession Act 1956 was amended in 2005, allowing daughters an equal share in ancestral property. Despite this, can your father deprive you of your share in the property? Find out: 1. If property has been self-acquired by father... In the case of a self-acquired property, that is, where a father has bought a piece of land or house with his own money, a daughter is on weaker ground. The father, in this case, has the right to gift the property to anyone he wants or will it to anyone he wants, or sell it to anyone he wants and a daughter will not be able to raise an objection. Son or wife also cannot raise an objection if the father is not giving them any of his self acquired property. Self acquired property of dead grandfather is also considered as self acquired property of the father. 2. If property is ancestral... Under the Hindu law, property is divided into two types: ancestral and self-acquired. Ancestral property is defined as one that is inherited up to four generations of male lineage and should have remained undivided throughout this period. For descendants, be it a daughter or son, an equal share in such a property accrues by birth itself. Before 2005, only sons had a share in such property. So, by law, a father cannot will such property to anyone he wants to, or deprive a daughter of her share in it. By birth, a daughter has a share in the ancestral property. Only the property that is still registered in the name of the dead great grandfather or above generation is considered as ancestral property. 3. If father dies intestate... If the father dies intestate, that is, without leaving a will, all legal heirs have an equal right to the property. The Hindu Succession Act categorises a male’s heirs into four classes and the inheritable property goes first to Class I heirs. These include the widow, daughters and sons, among others. Each heir is entitled to one part of the property, which means that as a daughter you have a right to a share in your father’s property. 4... If father dies after registering will... If the property was self acquired property of your father , then your father has absolute right to execute a will and give his property to anyone he likes.. But, if the will was not properly registered.. Then if you can show that father was not willing to execute such a will, but your brothers had put pressure upon the father and obtained it by forcing the father, then you can challenge it within three years from your knowledge. If it is found that father was not in position to understand effect of the will or was pressurized by some one or was not in sound mental condition at the time of writing the will, then the court may cancel the will, and divide the property equally among all the children. So, to avoid such problems in the future , the brother should take the father to the government register office and prepare the will in stamp paper and father should sign the will in the presence of 2 witness and the government register officers. The brother should take father to Government hospital and get medical certificate about his mental condition. If the will is registered properly then there is no chance for disputes later... D
My grandmother, who died in 1992, left her property equally among her 4 sons and 2 daughters. Why? Because she treated sons and daughters equally. So did my grandfather (he died earlier). People can be fair and modern at any time. 1992 or 2023.
Meri hi kahani hai, jiska dono side se gaya hai . Maa ne bola bhai tujh se chota hai to sara hissa use hi milna chahiye. Tera kya hai , Tuje tere sasural se mil jaayega. Sasural walo ne bola tu badi hai isi liye chhod na shikhna chahiye kahe ke sab kuchh Devar aur Nanad main baant Diya. Aaj tak main sochti hoon ki main kahan hoon?
larr rahi hun since 2017 and sab ki nazron ma bht bht buri hum...hissa sabko chahiye but effort sirf ma kar rahi hun...though I am single and have lost parents.. but no one is feeling my pain...thanks to ALLAH KAREEM...
Aaj hi huyi hai ye Larayi. 3 years pehle bhai se rishta khtm hua kyunki apna hakk manga aur aaj pti se kyonki apna hkk manga. Dono se sirf manga itna hi tha k mayke mein jb tk maa zinda hai, Jane diya kro. Itni c baat pr dono ne rishta khtm kr diya Rishte tb tk hi nibhte hain jb tk apna hkk n mango
Unfortunately if a girls ask for their rights, not only brothers but their own parents disowned them. Their responsibility is just till the marriage of girl afterwards it's her fate. Even if she is not financially stable then also it's not her right to get her share.
Exactly.. Jb ap apny rights ki bat krogy to relations will make faces. And brothers especially after marriage want that their sisters should leave their share of property.. It happened to my mother and i am experiencing big change in relationship with my brother now toooo
In my views and experience of life relationships are far superior than property, money or hissa. If you want that true love and support remains between brother and sister ,we should sacrifice this for each other. Property can be destroyer but true love is immortal. Thankyou.
i totally believe a rich person should surly give something share to girl but a middle class or poor people case.. property should be given to that person who take care of parents and full fill their responsibilities good way .
सच मे सब लोग लड़कियो का ही हिस्सा खा जाते है, अगर लड़की अपना हक मांगे तो उसे संबंध तोड़ने की बात करते है। जब भाई अपना हक लेते है तब वो तो संबंध रखते है।
Kitna asan hai na haq,hissa yeh sab mangne mein,jab ki woh sab humne banaye hi nahi...ghar, flat, jameen jwellery sab dete hai dadaji, papa, mamma, bhaiya ....lekin hum sab bolte hain woh humara hain.... Han yeh baat sach hai ki future secuirity ke liye savings ya investment jaruri hai...lekin mere khayal se woh savings sirf apne liye istemal karne se acha hai ki family me kisika bhi jarurat pe use koro...
Yes, it's a matter of asking right. it's a matter of When you will say no I can't do that because I need to help myself. Then you can see the real face of your people. It happens to both sisters and brothers or maybe only that sibling who is not so cunning.
Ya..share everything equally..and parents be clear...and keep everything in writing and according to.law..and whatever is remaining...it will be distributed equally..when both the parents are not there..
Isme mother ne hi sabse badi ghalti ki hai apne bacchon ko problems hen aur bhai ke bacchon ke lia soch ke apna haq chod diya jisse sabke upper itna pressure ho gaya Apne haq ke lia ladna sahi hai mager 99% log ise digest nahi ker pate aur rishte khatam ho jate hen kash log beti ka hissa khud hi de diya keren 😔
Bade didi sab same hai... Meri mummy v aisehi hai... Koe properties nhi lee hai mayakese... Or jab main kuch bolti hu to meko sunadeti hai... Uprse paise deti rehti hai wapis v nhi mangti... Mere medical ke padhaeme v bhut paise lage phir v mummy apne hak ka kuch nhi leti hai.... Danvirkarna banti hai
Same mai bhi mummy ko yahi bolti hu magar vo sunti nahi hai Aur uparse hamare upar bhi bohot loans hai . Mummy bolti hai aise bhai ko tang nai karte Aur majak ki bat ye hai ki mere mama hamare se 3 times jyada rich hai business hai. Hame jarurat hote hye bhi mummy mujhe hi suna deti hai
