At the age of seven on my Golden Birthday, my Father showed me how to wire our front porch for sound (music). Thank you Dad for teaching me mechanical and organic way of life as Mom taught me the path to organic and self discipline.
John Bradshaw is a powerful researcher and author. Homecoming is powerful. A little painful to listen to but worth it. Bookmarks: 29:57 reclaiming infant 1:17:45 reclaiming toddler 2:04:33 reclaiming preschooler 2:26:50 dialoaging with inner child 2:45:33 NLP exercise for healing memories
I wish the internet was invented when I was a neglected, panicked and chronically depressed teenager. This would have been goldust to me in the 80's. Thanks for this video
Listening to this is opening my eyes to what is already there. I’m grieving because I was shut down as a child, I shut down my kids and now, I see my daughter doing this to her kids.
Me too, it's the most devastating fact, especially since I THOUGHT I was raising them differently. Deliberately choosing other tactics to prevent what happened to me from happening to them. I feel utter failure..crushed.
@@johnwu9168 I will never use an adblocker. I'm a RU-vidr so I know how important ad revenue is to support content creators. But the fact that there are ads placed in the middle of meditations that have people in a vulnerable state of mind is just wrong.
@@johnwu9168 I didn't say anything about your morals. If you feel guilty for using an adblocker that's on you. I own many John Bradshaw books. I've seen all of the content that features him on YT, and I have no problem watching some ads to support the people that upload that content.
This was a beautiful and painful work… thank you for posting this content and for the beautiful flow of it all 🙏🏼💜✨ I cried so much and I healed so much!!
29:57 reclaiming infant 1:17:45 reclaiming toddler 2:04:33 reclaiming preschooler 2:26:50 dialoaging with inner child 2:45:33 NLP exercise for healing memories Marc Mc Comas, thanks a lot for uploading this video on youtube
Thank you for posting this. The exercise about giving your NOW power/strength to your younger self was very beneficial to me as I work towards healing and forgiveness.
I planned to have a blank nothing day,but came across this wow . What a retreat healing journey today was had Meant to be . . thank you for all your wisdom ,resources, practises . Loved the letter writing powerful. Grateful to let the pain up out be vulnerable safety,heal . Work to do absolutely on this journey, there is many layers. thank you from Ireland much love
Thank you so much for uploading this! This is life-changing stuff right here. I am certain that it took a lot of work to get it edited and submitted. Shared
I have done a lot of healing/trauma work over recent years but had never known about this great man until today. This is brilliant - so clear and delivered with such compassionate power - from someone who really knows what trauma and our wounded inner child is all about. Thank you so much for sharing 🥰❤
How can you go back to a narcissistic parent.. a narcissist, psicopath, criminal mother .. who beated you, humiliated you and was laughing when you were crying.. a sadistic person… even if you did tons of work.. some of us don’t have the chance to go back and repair anything.. it’s very painful knowing there’s no way back.. it’s just pure grieving and knowing you have no one.. Maybe a little sister you adore but that’s jealous of you and makes cruel coments.. and keeps on the toxic dynamics.. I have no strength to keep up with the shit, the toxic behavior, the cruelty.. Im grieving loosing all my family .. as a kid.. I did my best and I became abused and used as an adult trying to repair the system with people who are just.. I don’t even have a word. Thankyou anyways for this amazing work, been listening this all day and I appreciate this so much.
Thank you for sharing your story . I’m sorry for all that happened living with your parents. It takes a strong person to survive from your experiences and listening to this audio homecoming shows how much you care about yourself. Amazing!!! Good for you!!! I’m proud of you 👏👏👏
Thank you for uploading the audiobook. I bought it long time ago in audible and they claim the lost the license so they don't offer it anymore. It seems the only way to get this audiobook is with CDs which costs 150$. My thoughts is that after the death of Mr Bradshaw, the heirs of his copyrights are behind the removal of the licenses, because it happened a few years ago. Otherwise how can they leave thousands of audible users without a book they purchased
Thank you very much for uploading this. I have recently finished the book but this is adding another dimension to the whole exercise. 🙏However, my inner children don’t need discipline or religion. They need protection and love from my loving parent.
2:28:00 Write a letter and ask those three questions to your CHILD for at least 10 minutes everyday. what are you feeling? what are you wanting? what are you needing?
I'm beyond words how powerful this was. So sad to see how little people have seen this.. also got scared of what is purposely being done to our children at these crucial ages he discusses as far as our schools and media and the Trans movement.. what is the damage being done to these future adults AND where is the professional community demanding it stop?
When he mentions that he was told that "anger" was one of the deadly sins, it got me angry. When someone does this, it's a clear example of someone misinterpreting holy scripture for themselves which results in the abuse of another. This happens all the time in Protestant circles. Anger is not a sin. Wrath is. Wrath seeks to destroy another. Its not just being angry. The Church fathers talk about anger as a faculty of the soul. It was put in us as a way to war against evil not to destroy whats good (Wrath) Protestants do not read the Church fathers generally because they were Orthodox and Protestants consider them heretics. Instead, they'll read ancient texts and interpret it as if the words were written with modern sensabilities in mind. It's absolutely bonkers and we can see how its deeply confused and hurt multiple generations. The Church, as in the Orthodox unchanged Church of the first century is a place of healing. Its the place someone seeking God will find Him. God is Love not Wrath. He wants to hug us not damn us.
Was there any emotions you had to give up as a kid or where ridiculed? I feel for me certain emotions were accepted under certain contexts. Wonder child which is child that is not afraid to take risks - as mentioned by Jung - am I afraid of risk due to critique as a kid? “Your need are ok with me I will give you all the time you need. I will take care of you inner child).” Psychological stage - it’s important what mum and dad models. Have they taught you to say no and express anger in a respectful way assertively? - 🪷Patriarchy - blind obedience - you do things because I say so mentality. Does not mean just men do this. Superb questions in this brilliant video where you can reflect on so much ❤️❤️
No, this is not the audio book by John Bradshaw - This video features a combination of workshop presentations and exclusive, practical exercises by John Bradshaw himself.
It seems to be him addressing you directly and a workshop with practical things to do. Though it is based on the book. I found both to be very powerful, insightful and healing process. I wish you well on your journey. May you find your parent and love your inner children.
@@user-ld1qn5xb9o I wish I could. This isn’t my original record so the music is in the file already. I’m not technically advanced enough to know how to remove the music. I totally understand the trigger and it’s very valid.
