i loved the girl talk at the end!! i totally agree that who you surround yourself with influences the way you see yourself and the way you act (might not be the way you want to!) self discovery can be scary at times but, its so worth it in the end. thank you for being so honest & an internet big sis briddy 💗
i think based on watching all of your videos that you're quite an introspective, self-reflective, kind, and giving person, who is consistently trying to be the best version of themselves. maybe sometimes you try to avoid conflict too much or get a little anxious/in your head? idk that's the vibes i get anyways x
Omg Briddy I definitely feel you with worry about the future 😭 I’m in NYC and the cost of living is absolutely insane but Like you mentioned you can’t let the future stopping you from enjoying the present 💛
I have a cat and the air-purifier really helps :) also be careful with tulips and nibbly cats - they can be toxic and harm the kitties. Maybe put them somewhere the cats can’t get to :)
loving your style of vlogs lately, just so relaxing and nice to watch. just a quick tip, a lot of common flowers can be toxic to cats and dogs if ingested!!! i know lilies are one of them, especially the little seed pods that drop off 🥺 please be cautious when bringing flowers into the house and check to see if they are potenially dangerous or not 💕
Your kittens are so adorable. For my cats litter box I have one of those litter boxes with a lid and the lil’ swinging door and I find it helps reduce the smell a lot. If I want to freshen the air I use a Saje non toxic spray. Also frequently cleaning the box helps too. I also have the litter box in the den so it’s not in the main room. I also bought tulips once found out they were toxic so I had to hide them from my cat, now I just buy fake plants. They last longer!
Hiii bridddy ! Lots of love from Sri Lanka !! I really felt what u said today about self confidence.. lately I too have been struggling to find that especially in a work setting ppl can tell if u lack confidence in your speech. Thanks a lot for your advice and sharing your thoughts with us.
According to my mom, standing in front of the microwave while its on, will give you cancer… don’t know if its true, but I rather just walk around in the kitchen 😅😅😅😅
Some good ways to budget Use cars are normally cheaper, then New cars, but Use cars have gone up in value. The best thing is Rule of 20/4/10. What is that is; twenty percent down, four year term, and ten percent of your monthly income. Housing should not be over thirty percent of your monthly income. The reason behind that is not having too much housing. A key way to budget is fifty percent of months income are Needs, thirty percent of your income are Wants, and twenty percent is savings. Budgeting is hard and with saving. Any amount you can do, long as it don't cut into the things you have to pay for. Having a plan of action. Set up small goals that is in line with your big goals. It is the same thing as working out. After one day, is not going to have a eight pack ads. It takes hard work. Cut back on things you don't need or don't use as much. That is one piece to save.
If there was one thing I could have taught my younger self, around your age or even younger then that is to seek God. This day and age the world has normalised a disconnection from God, but for me personally seeking him during these times of uncertainty has opened my eyes to SOOO many things, similar things that you worry about. I know this comment will go through many ears and not stay on anyones hearts but in all honesty, coming to Christ was life changing for me. It gave me a whole new outlook on life, one that I wish I had known earlier. When you’re scared, worried, fearful, anything really, he’s there. It may not seem ‘cool’ for young adults to believe in God but it is the best thing you could ever give yourself. I pray for the lost and hope many others, can seek guidance in the right direction and not get caught up in the things of this world, as none of it can go with us when we’re dead anyway. God bless ❤
you can do a MBTI test to know your personality better! I love that you do not care much about others people opinion, honestly like life is so short, just do what you feel comfortable!
3:36 I just want to share my thought: I used to wonder why should I work so hard if I'm still gonna die one day and I don't even know when I'm gonna die, so what's the point? Why should I waste my days by staying on my desk studying and working? Almost one year ago my grandma died and seeing her dead made me realise how real death is (does this make sense?) and in that moment I knew that in my last moments I don't wanna think about how sad my life was or the things I regretted. I wanna work hard and achieve my goals just so that I can die happily and satisfied. However, life is not all about achieving goals and happy moments. It also includes failure, bad days, months or even years. It's a mixture of positive and negative memories and simple moments(like watching a sunset, or even drinking a goodd gooooodddd cup of coffee or tea). If we're born in this world we'll eventually die, that's not something we can control, so there's no point in being sad about that, we should simply live. Sometimes it might be hard to live, even to get out of bed, (I've also been there), but y'all don't give up please. You'll overcome it one day, it might not look like it's gonna end but it will. Hang in there okay? ❤
Your chat about your existential crises literally just made me question my entire life existance too 😂😂 OH NO WHY DO I CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK WHEN WE WILL LITERALLY ALL DIE
Great video, Briddy. I do think about the future and I what I am going to do. I have goals I set up every year. I am not rich or anything, but I don't really care to be rich. I just want to be known. Me and my wife have our own house. I like to save and cut back on things as much as I can. My wife is the opposite of me. I am working on my wife to save and cut back, but it is up to her. I cook for my wife and my son. The reason why, is that I work early morning's, two am to nine thirty or ten am EST. Sometimes I do work on the evening shift. I do some cleaning thrthrough out the day. Weekend's she cleans. Long as the bills get paid, it don't matter what my wife does with her money. I don't really spend allot. I am working, cooking, cleaning, or sleeping. I don't have a real life. Time to time we go out. I just with my family to be taking care of, if anything happens. Having Life Insurance is the best and a Will.
I had that thought recently too. Like when we die, we just die. All the memories in our head, all the things we learn. Just poof. Stops. Existential crisis ammirite... (And I'm only 21 btw lol)
Your personality to me it kind and kept to yourself which I love bc I am a major loner as well 💓lol you’re down to earth and have the best REAL talks w us
