"Horrified" Bride With Double D Chest HATES Her REVEALING Dress | Say Yes To The Dress 

Her mother has absolutely passed her own body issues and prejudices onto her daughters. It's such a shame that she's so mortified by something she has no control over. Also...who goes around pulling down a strapless dress at a wedding? Where has this all-consuming fear that the mum has, come from? I've never seen that happen...

When the mom mentioned armpit fat I wanted to scream are you freaking kidding me no wonder she wants to be covered up you're the problem!!

I never realized how many mothers are jealous of their daughters.

You see moms picking on their daughters for having big/small boobs. I will never understand why mothers make their daughters feel bad about something they can’t control.

It’s so sad that a woman can speak about her own chest with words like “horrified” or “gross”…I wonder if it wasn’t her mom that made her feel like this about the way she looks…

She looks amazing in almost every dress they put her in. I feel like all she can hear is her mom’s voice in her head telling her she’s showing too much. It’s really sad.

Mom says “Someone could pull it down.” (Paraphrasing). What type of people are you inviting to this wedding? Seriously.

I’m a triple D, and still a teenager. This makes me sad that she’s being shamed about something she literally can’t control.

As a mother...I'm horrified how this woman treats her daughter.

The smile on that moms faces while pointing out insecurities on her daughter’s body she enjoys putting her girls down and she enjoys implanting those insecurities in their heads.

She called her own natural beauty "disgusting". So sad. Mom is passing her own body insecurities onto the next generation.

She looked amazing in the first strapless dress. Her mom is just so negative

I think it's horrible that designers won't make a bigger size cup for fuller bust. That's crazy.

Omg my heart goes out to the first bride. She’s been made to feel uncomfortable in her own body. She’s absolutely stunning!

We really can’t win can we… so many people are insecure about their chests being so small, but here this beautiful woman is worried about them being too big… this is so sad to me because she really looked stunning in all the dresses!

whats is wrong with that mom i feel so bad for the poor girl her boobs are fine no one deserves to feel this way

It's a shame the first bride has clearly been made to feel shame about having a larger bust by her mom. DD isn't THAT huge, especially at her size. I kniw: I've been a DD (and a bit bigger during pregnancy and breastfeeding). They're not a burden at this size. They don't cause back problems and cause your bra straps to cut in and things like that. Yes, it's ample, but not ridiculous.....but to feel that she "looks disgusting" or "nasty"?? That's not right. That's not OK. She has a beautiful figure and her bust was not disgusting. It's fine to want to be more modest, obviously, and not have them flashing out the sides or with a lot of cleavage showing, but that's clearly not all that was. That was mom's issues having been projected onto her all her life, and she feels shame for how her body grew. No doubt mom has said things like bigger boobs are cheap and trashy looking or says they're only what strippers or sex workers would have, and degrading those with a larger bust.

Mom 1 has taught her daughters to be ashamed of their chests vs. Working with them to dress them well as early teens

The first bride was absolutely gorgeous in the second dress! Can’t understand why she selected the one she did. The second bride’s tiered Lacey detail and train was beautiful on her!

The second bride's dress is phenomenal. But for $11,000 it should be. I am glad she added the panel in the corset to make it look classy and put together. I also agree that the crinoline works well.

I loved the father in the second part. He’s supportive, generous and knows what looks good on his daughter. That dress was gorgeous 🤙🏼 Nice Italian family

It’s sad this girl is so disgusted with her own boobs. After hearing her moms comments I guess I can see where she gets those negative thoughts from. So sad. She has a beautiful figure and I hope she finds her confidence and leave the haters opinions out of it.

The last bride's dress was absolutely STUNNING! I felt the first bride settled, but maybe it was nice after everything was put together.

I was a g cup pre-surgery and I relate to everything in this. Everyone thinks because men find you sexy everything in life with big boobs is just a breeze. When you look "sexy" in everything, you don't really wanna look sexy in anything.

cowboy boots bride: is mom blind? Dress 2 was divine on that bride. Perfection!

She looked beautiful in all those dresses....it was definately years of her mum saying "nasty armpit fat" that made her look so negatively upon herself 😢

“Most wedding gowns are a b cup and the designer won’t adjust.” Whyyyyyyy? We are used to size discrimination across the fashion industry but come on! It is widely accepted in all other areas of retail clothing that women have different busy sizes! Do you go to a shoe store, only to be told they carry one size?

The second dress was absolutely stunning on her.. unfortunately that wicked witch mom made her feel bad about it. But, she looked like a princess. 😇😇😇

The second dress Katie tried on looked better than the others. It was absolutely perfect on her

“Somebody could just pull your clothes down”. Once you get it altered that won’t have any chance of happening.

What a bizarre thing for the mother to say..."Someone could just come along and swoosh, pull the dress down.." 😖 How many mothers even think that way?? I know this episode is around 14 years old, and whatever was chosen no longer matters---but let's hope that the daughter never passes her mother's weirdness on to her own progeny some day.

They're not even that big. She looks stunning in every dress.

This is crazy that fitting DD is difficult for them. I work in bras and that's a regular size. Most are DDD to G that fit daily. B cup we rarely sale.

That mom is straight up malicious and jealous of her daughters omg

She looks lovely in the dress she chose but I think the second dress looked better. I'm glad she found something she loves.

The first strapless dress she tried on was absolutely perfect. The bodice had a lot of interesting detail and it was so flattering. The ribbon belt/sash on the others was nuh-uh.

I dont get why people act like DD's are so humungous when they actually aren't, they're pretty average. Most women I know are probably like D-G and they arent bursting out of their clothes.

Why are mother's so unkind.

$11,000 for a wedding dress that’s she’s only going to wear once?! Lord have mercy 😮

The mother is so juvenile!

The bride's mother was absolutely horrible.

Dress #2 looks SO good on her !!

Mom taught her to absolutely hate her body.

wtf does that mean "most dresses come in a B cup & designers won't open up the cup"? isn't the whole point of alterations to make sure it FITS YOU? surely wedding dress designers aren't like "if you're not exactly this size & shape don't bother getting married"?

$11k is outrageous for a dress of any kind! I don’t understand that kind of spending. 😮

Way for a mom to raise her daughter to hate her body

I really like seeing Randy in these videos. He is so knowledgeable. He's a fantastic designer.

Love how her sister is so sweet ❤

omg that mom 🙄🙄🙄

I feel for her! I have a hard time finding tops and dresses that flatter me. Some times the tops smush my breasts down and make me look large :( I'm lucky to have a supportive mom. Can't imagine having a mother like that

I thought I wouldn’t like strapless too, I felt it would be too revealing. But the dress I bought is my dream dress and happened to be strapless, it’s gorgeous.

I'll never understand how a mother (or father for that matter) can cause so much damage to their daughter. My mom always made me feel bad about my body, and I swore to myself to never belittle my own children. And when the day comes that I might be privileged enough to be part of a future daughter in laws entourage, I hope I'll be just as supportive to her as I've tried to be for my boys.

The daughters face when her mom said that about her fat 😢she definitely killed the flame she had for that dress

As an E size cup girl, I totally understand her. When I was a teenager, I deliberately wore oversized tops because I was embarrassed. It didn't help that my mom would constantly be on my case over showing cleavage, which was something I couldn't control.

I can 1000% relate to her having trouble finding clothes with bigger tatas. I'm a double D as well & when i was younger & overweight i wore a 44DDDF. Now, im a size 3 with the DD & it's always been so hard. I was actually medically approved for a reduction as a teen but then my mom was in a car accident that put her in the hospital for 6 months & she couldn't go back to work so i no longer had insurance. It sucks because nothing EVER fits correctly & i have terrible back pain.

What a negative mother.

She looked beautiful i the second gown. It suited her figure MUCH better than the first gown. The third gown, with the lace, was absolutely stunning on her.

I have to say, this bride had me cracking up the whole time - from her horrified expressions to the relieved/mortified "YES" when they asked if she was ready for a different dress. I loved her keeping-it-real personality and willingness to try other things. Couldn't understand why mom was talking about muffin boobs on the second one, I know she was imagining that once they made alterations they'd want to make it fit her closer and the bust might tighten, but it looked like it was fitting her really well the way it was to start. Also her idea that someone was going to run up to her and rip her dress off seemed odd but I guess you never know who is going to show up to a wedding these days

OMG !!!!!!! I wish these daughters would stand up to these mama's trying to take over 🤦🏽‍♀️

Eleven thousand dollars for a dress? Insane. You can look amazing without spending that much! 😮 They better say you look amazing after you paid everyone's salary for the month! 😂

I love Randy. He is such a good person with a beautiful heart. ❤❤

That 2nd dress was great.

How can a mom say "I was shocked it flatters her?"

I feel so bad for her.

You know, as someone who was insecure for being small chested AND had extremely strict religious parents, I’ve learned to be happy with the boobage I got and flaunt what is or isn’t there 🥳 hope this girl finds/found her confidence too

My mother was jealous of my sisters and I, not because we were pretty but because we were young and she was getting older!!

I had the exact experience when dress shopping as a large-chested girl. I never imagined a strapless gown could be so flattering but it really was.

I feel for her. It's not always a blessing.

She looked stunning. I love dress 2 on her! Her mum was mean.

That first mom was absolutely perpetuating the negative body images that we’ve fought so hard against. Good lord, when a dress is properly altered to accommodate bigger breasts, it makes all the difference. And who the he!! did she think was going to come by and yank the dress down? It’s fitted through the bodice, not a stretchy tube top! Sheesh! And that second bride was gorgeous. She reminded me of one of my former colleagues who was tiny like that. Alice also taught third grade. I remember her class being stopped in the hallway once by someone who wasn’t from our building demanding to know where they were going without their teacher. Alice turned around and said, “I’m right here!” Yes, by May, a couple of her boys were actually taller than Alice.

I know that there's the consideration of fabric...but the average bra size in the United States in 2013 was 34DD. So, I question why bridal gowns are so limiting. They cost thousands of dollars (and that's before alterations come into play, which they most likely do). If I'm trying on a $1000+ dress, I want to know that it's going to fit well, with some certainty, before I commit to the price tag plus alterations

8:17 it helps not to have anyone there for the final fitting. It gives you time alone with YOUR special dress and saves the final reveal for the wedding. No outside opinions making you second guess yourself. Just time alone with your amazing dress and time to soak up all that self confidence ❤❤❤

The second dress really look nice on her

Poor girl. Should have left negative mom at home

Both ladies look beyond gorgeous. Well done to them.

“Someone could just pull your clothes off”. . . Who says that? Who would DO that? Mom is obviously lives through her daughter and is jealous and self conscious

I just went dress shopping with my daughter who is also big busted and self conscious. I picked a dress for her that I knew was her style and she loved it. She looked beautiful in it and she liked it until she tried on a complete random dress by the attendant. She absolutely glowed in it and I knew that was her dress and yes it’s strapless which she did not want. All I cared about was that she was happy. It’s her wedding, her dress and her day not anyone else’s. Sometimes I don’t understand these mother’s.

This young woman looks amazing in every dress!

They danced together so beautifully, you can tell he really loves her

My first thought was; honestly DD is really not that big?

As a lady who is big busted, it's bloody hard to find anything that fits up top, especially if you are a smaller size everywhere else. Also stapless is awful as you spend the whole day pulling it up

Watching these videos makes me so greatful for my mother. All she wants is my happiness, nothing else.

She went from a $3,000 budget, to getting a dress that was over $11,000. That's almost 4x her budget. I mean, it's her money but that is a hefty amount of money to be spending on a wedding dress especially if your budget doesn't allow for it.

I had my breast reduction done about 3 years ago..life changing operation.

I was a G cup and had a reduction to a C cup, best thing I ever did!!

The second girl's dress looks so pretty! Her dad definitely looks like he's slightly related to the Italian mafia haha

My teenage daughter is a DD I would never make her feel insecure about that

My mate had a reduction and they grew back! She’s only petite I feel bad for her back.

The last bride, the petite teacher, looked delicious enough to be a wedding cake topper - standing up there, all by herself! 💝

a true DD is on the small end of medium when fitted correctly, what people mean when they say DD is usually closer to a G or H. Unfortunately most retailers only stock a limited amount of sizes and because they want to sell you something they will "fit" you into the biggest cupsize they have in a bandsize that's big enough to fit around you even if the cups aren't deep enough. Cupsize also scales with bandsize, a 28DD can look really tiny while a 36DD is usually more medium cupsize, just throwing out letters says nothing about the size of someone's chest. On top of that individual proportions can make the same brasize look wildly different on different people.

"gross" "nasty" omg I am a big believer in feeling comfortable in your own body....but god damn she said that about herself!? omg i'm flabbergasted....

DD isn't even that big

If this bride is so concerned about the size of her breasts, there's always breast reduction surgery. One of my high school friends gained a lot of weight after four pregnancies, and she was very self conscious about her breast size. She had trouble finding tops or dresses that would fit, so she made the decision to have the breast reduction surgery. Five months post surgery she said she felt like a new person----she was ecstatic not having to carry around all that weight on her chest. Her arms and neck no longer ached, and she said for the first time in years that she didn't wake up and spend the entire day with a backache. She no longer felt frustrated about finding clothing, and she still maintains today that this surgery gave her a new lease on life. It also gave her the much needed energy to keep up with the children---lifting them, picking them up off the floor, changing diapers, etc. While breast reduction surgery may not be for everyone, it worked for my high school friend when her life seemed like her breast size controlled her daily existence.

I was harassed and made to feel shame as a flat person and I'm now harassed and made to feel shame as a busty person. Some people have little compassion about how they demonstrate their opinions of another human's body and that ridicule can unfortunately really effect a persons self-esteem and also be passed down through nurture. I empathize with someone who struggles with self image and having to deal with the unfortunate behaviors of a loved one who is exacerbating the issue.

I understand the daughter wanting to be covered up, I wouldn't want to feel indecent on my wedding day either but the mom is not helping the situation at all with her attitude about it, like who the heck goes around at a wedding pulling off the bride's dress??

If bride #1 wants her marriage to last, she’ll have to go to personal therapy. She’s inherited a lot negative self image problems from her mom, and trust me, it’s very draining on a relationship to prop up someone with negative self image and poor self esteem.

You don’t get arm pit fat in a wedding dress as it’s structured and fitted! I can’t believe the mum said that! She looked beautiful. I’m busty and a strapless sweetheart neckline with an a line skirt was by far the best fit for my body on my day too.

This makes me so grateful for my supportive mom.

I wanted to see the altered version of first dress!

Its so disgusting how some moms can just take joyful moments away… if you’re a good mom you’re happy when your daughter is happy