I hope he will eventually ask himself truthfully if he really wants to get married rather than "should-ing" himself. I hope he continue to do things that make him happy. Of course, as a fan, I also wish he gets married with someone he loves (and I am pretty sure he will dote on his wife and child) but I will still be happy for him as long as he is happy living his life.
If He's afraid of being in relationships, How can he get married then? He talks like this for almost seven years, and never in relationships since then. Stop talking and just do it
@@irfananfilla Not really sure if he is afraid of relationships but from what I know, he has always been passive in relationships where he's not actively "searching for a potential half" until a lady starts to show interest towards him (as seen in past Mom's diary episode). To me, it seems like he is too comfortable with his loner life and he doesn't have an obvious need to get married for himself (but he is driven by a "weaker force" that he 'should' get married at his age).
@@ssj-rose4572 how u know he don’t have a gf ? No one knows about his personal life… he is the type of man who will not saying he is in relationship even if he is dating someone..he said it before even if he is dating he will denying it so no one knows… no matter what the important thing that he is happy in his life if he decided to marry or not let’s just support him
He's been a pretty passive guy in terms of relationships, and I know that he wound up dumped by the girlfriend he knew he wanted to marry, pretty much because it was dragging out for too long, all because he wanted to wait until he was financially ready. Also, I suppose after getting dumped however many times he's been dumped for the same old reasons, he would start to question whether he's a good fit for anyone? He'd never say this on the record (probably cos of image/reputation issues), but if I'd gone through that sort of experience I'd definitely have my doubts.
Too be honest, I just roll my eyes every time someone within his circle or JongKook himself mentions marriage. This question has been asked constantly for the past decade. He knows himself well ( whether marriage life fit his lifestyle or not) and in the end, it's his decision.
i feel the same way like he doesn't have to marry and his life doesn't end if he ends up single. BUT i feel like it became a part of his character in variety shows. im sure if he feels offended they wouldn't joke/talk about it easily. ++ kjk is a pretty private person so yup
Yea Janghyuk said it best. He shouldn’t get married like it’s a obligation or because everyone around him is telling him to. Getting married should be his decision and his only.
He ain’t pressured, if he was he could’ve done it way before. 😄 It’s just a theme/character he plays on this show, “a bachelor who seems like he really wants to get married and is pressured by every married guy friend he has but just couldn’t do it.” 😉
People are always telling these celebrities to get married; as if it were that EASY. It is hard enough for a regular person to get married so I imagine how hard it is for them. It's not easy to find "the girl (guy) of your dreams"!
He was talking about getting marry versus living alone and I for one wanted to hear what he had to say but could not because of that rude "docile" little girl.
"It's not that I wanted it, I should" that clearly is a sign of pressure to get married mostly from family and society. I hope Jongkook think carefully of marriage. It ain't easy especially with his lifestyle, it would be a huge adjustment not only to him but to his future spouse unless they have similar lifestyle.
I think it's more amazing to be able to love being with yourself, so many people are just in a relationship because they're afraid to be alone. but people need to stop judging, and pretend to know what's best for you. It's ok to be single all your life you're not a failure. Nobody has the right to judge you. One woman I met on hiking admit that she regrets having kids and that if she has a choice again she wouldn't do it, she told me I think because I was a stranger and that she can't really say it at home. Live for yourself and not to please others, they will criticize you no matter what you do (and when you have kids, they will also judge you on how you educate them anyway...) so don't listen anyone, love yourself more, live your own life, we only have one (I'm not against marriage, it's so beautiful when you meet the right one , but anyone isn't fit for it or find the right partner and that's ok)
He should find someone who values the things he does, like working out and in that way, they will work out together or when they have kids they will schedule working out at different times so that they can take turns taking care of the kids because its something that is important to the both of them. Or find someone who truly understands him and supports his passion just like he will support hers so that they can be supportive of one another interests.
Doing too much of anything can be a hindrance in a relationship, because you’ll neglect it for your hobby sooner or later. He’s already said how he’s lied to a gf before about being too busy to hang out, so he can go to the gym which is red flag behavior. Anyone who dates him would essentially have to be cool with being second place to his first love the gym which a lot of potential dates wouldn’t be
I didn't know him before" thirty-nine".. But after 5 episodes, im in love with the guy. Also.... i clicked this vdeo for jongkook amd was very surprised and pleased to see him here🥺🥺😌😌
@@SandraVee Do watch his other dramas as well..his performance is worth watching and the way he expresses the character is just what made me admire him👍.
Spending 2 hours workout daily is quite normal for a gym member. It has become a lifestyle.. did 21km marathon with 3 hours workout classes in same day..
Same talk everytime like every years but no action, just say u are not interested in married rather than mentioning about married every years but no action, people get boring and don't care about you talking about married every years but no action.
it hit so hard when i realise that there will be so much things he wont be able to do with his kids if he has them at around age 50....knowing you will be 70yrs old and your kid is 20 is kinda scary
True considering the korean culture(bullying thing like 'your father is 70 years old') things like that he should always consider. Imagine he probably be shy to have a 70 year old father who attend his son graduation.
People getting married later doesn’t change the fact that older parents face a significant amount of difficulties vs. their younger counterparts, and it’s not ideal. For women pregnancy is harder, more risky, and there’s higher chances of Down syndrome and other age related diseases occurring. Scientists are discovering a link between older sperm and autism rates. Not to mention the psychological effects on the kids growing up with a faster constant reminder of their parents mortality
I don't understand why it will be a problem if Kim Jong Kook wants to exercise for 2 hours every day? Do married people have to spend 24/7 together? Does it mean that if I get married I cannot read, draw or have a hobby? That´s what holds him back from marriage; everyone tells him that he would not be able to do something that makes him happy and feel good. That it will cause problems and arguments, but why? Who wants to live like that?. I just hope he can find and do what makes him happy in long term, without thinking that he "should" do this or that.
Please stop asking other people's you should get married or not .. that's not gonna end even till you're over 50 aigoo..it's whether you yourself wants it or not
@@PinkRose0910 or maybe he is worried about his future wife from his fans or 'obsessive shippers'. Maybe he need to quit the celebrity life if he want to get married. Now let say his wife is a non celebrity,especially with the crazy fan who will keep stalking you,can't imagine his future wife will be able to handle the pressure. Just look at his RM 'shippers' or his X-Man 'shippers'. See the argument.
I'm been watching jong kook from start of runningman.he been promised "I will marry for the next three year" so many times already.now runningman 12 year's anniversary already
They should get jong kuk to play house for one week and live with a family he knows who has children and play the father role and see what he thinks. What a great experiment that would be!
Im sure he will marry if he find the right woman , the one who truly love him just the way he is and truly deserve him , the woman that he will love more than working out ( its seems like he didnt find her yet).. i hope he will not marry just because of the others then maybe he will regret his marriege .. i want him to marry because he want that im sure he will be a great husband and father , i will support him nomatter what he choose as long as he is happy we will be happy ... some of the comments r really mean .. u guys should just support him nomatter what he choose why u had to be salty about it like ( im sure he dont have a gf he should marry himself ) like u guys know his personal life .. he is the type of men who will never public his dating life even if he had a gf he will deny that he even dated for 7 years and no one catch him so HOW U GUYS WILL KNOW ?!! and for who saying he will never married .. wow like u know the future .. this life is full with surprises how u will even know ! "Stay alone until you meet someone who completes your life in a way that makes it better. If not, it's not worth it" for peopls who speaking like they know the future and everything .. please stop .. he is the one who will live this life not u he is the one who will suffere if he marry the wrong person not u .. people act like if the person didnt married in his life they treat him like he is uncomplete like he is not good enough .. marriege in not everything in this life the important thing is to live happy .. he will decided in the end and u should just support him guys stop judging him and been salty about it .. he is a perfect man he just need his perfect woman .. if he find her then its good and if he not .. well let him live his life in peace with out judgment
I think he will have regrets if his mother dies before he gets married. In saying that, I think Jong Kook Hyung may over think how he'll work out if he's married with a child. If he still wants to, he'll find a way to balance it. He'd be an amazing father and he deserves to have the daughter he so clearly longs for. I feel like he feels he should marry because of the expectation to do so before having kids. Otherwise, I think he'd have a child by now.
The little girl is unbearably cute. Even when she told him to stop talking was cute and funny. 😂 I wonder if Jong Kook is dense because I bet that there are plenty of women that would love to date him. Like Jin Young for example. She’s really cute, can cook and has good chemistry with him.
he likes the idea of having children but he's almost hitting his 50s, till the time he gets married and decides to have a kid, he will be in his 50s and his wife would be in her 40s. it would be difficult to raise the child after a certain age because my mom has hit her 50s and she most definitely can't take care of young kids anymore after raising 2 daughters who turned adults in till the time she turned 50. i hope he realizes this part that parenting will be definitely hard and most certainly life is unpredictable. nowadays people in their 40s-50s are dying from heart attacks. you wouldn't want your child to feel that her parents are too old to care of her in the future
At this rate, the age difference between JK and his kid will be the same as mine and my grandparents. Also, can I just say that when Ra Im shouted at JK to stop talking, I felt damn satisfied hahaha. That scene left me ded, lol.
To be fair, my mom had my youngest sister when she was a year older than JK 😅😅😅 And Park Joon Hyung had his kid when he was 48! So here’s to hoping that JK can find someone soon!
@@jen5138 Actually, she was planned! I only have one brother and my dad wanted him to have a little brother. Instead of a little brother, he got a little sister!
Lol Ra-im's first luv is Hyukie samchon - she gave him a shy glance when KJK asked to smell the flower, and she was timid whilst sitting on his lap and even allowed him to feed her. So cute
I’ve said this once before but I honestly think that one of the reasons jongkook cannot find a woman to marry is because he considers getting married an obligation and not something that he wants. Imagine starting a relationship with him and knowing fully well that he’s in a rush to get married, wouldn’t that put a lot of pressure on you if you’re not really ready to get married and start a family? Also even if you do want to get married, you would probably wonder if he wants to marry you or he just wants the idea of being married.
I don't get why they think it's funny for a child to walk up to someone in the middle of a sentence and shout "Stop talking!"in their face. So many people think toddlers and preschoolers being rude is cute, then they're the same people 10 years later wondering why their teenagers have no respect or consideration towards others, including their own parents. It would have taken less than two minutes to calmly correct the child and have them apologize for being rude. Instead the mom just excuses it away, like so many parents that would rather take the easy route now, not knowing what consequences lie ahead.
They don’t want to criticize the kid, and have everyone watching the shows to criticize the kid. Her parents probably would gave her a talk after (hopefully)but it’s a show and nobody want young kids getting slammed for it
I agree Louise. Whether the parents scold the child is a different matter. You don't want yourself to look bad on TV being watched by millions of people around the world. Yes they could have asked for it to be edited out,maybe the producers think it ok to air it.
Exercising can get addicted it's like when you skip a day you feel a lot more tired , but it's not like exercising/work out would be a hindrance or problem in a marriage life ..
I just died xD when the little girl suddenly shout at him lol she's a little spicy chili not a docile girl xD 10:40+11:45…she push his leg away is actually hints she want him stand up n go to open the gifts xD but no one sense her mind makes her feel more frustrated xD n is so funny after wearing princess dress she act like princess so cute xD n i'm dead with 🐯KOOKIE witty comments: she's not herself…she's in love with herself xDD always looks warm adorable when he with kids together n also i like 🐯KOOKIE with Jang Hyuk chemistry 14:41+14:43 xD both looks like adorable fool xD damn loves it xD❤❤🐯🔥🔥
I think he will be scared to get married and have kids after seeing that rude child telling him to be quiet. Can't believe the parents just sat there and she did it more than once!!! I don't like it when kids behave disrespectfully. It is the adults' fault because they laugh and therefore encourage her. She should be taught that this is unacceptable behavior. She is a beautiful child but bad behavior makes one look bad.
Jk too worry about his workout after marriage..he can discuss this with his gf.should not be a problem ..he should get someone for can understand about his workout routine n also what can he give back...Jk should learn from The Rock maybe...always go to gym but still can marry and have nice cute daughter..
I used to workout 2 hours a day 6x a week and it definitely is time consuming. It’s not just 2 hours out of your day cause you end up taking 3-5 hours just because of pre gym routine, commuting, showering, and most likely post workout meal comes after too.
As someone else said, if KJK were to adopt/foster/mentor an older teenager, I can see how he would be an amazing fit for the job. I don't think Korean culture (and East Asian cultures in general) is "open" enough to condone raising some kid that's not yours. It's just not the same as getting married, having your own (preferably male) kid, and passing on your own lineage. I do think that it's possible KJK would be open minded enough to take on this idea, but it probably hasn't crossed his mind as an option since it's just not accepted, and of course, for most people, if they could get married and have biological kids they wouldn't consider the adoption/foster route. As for marriage, I don't know whether he will find a partner who actually understands things the way he sees it: his seemingly ridiculous amount of exercise to maintain the muscles that hold his back together, how tough he can get on himself, the way he spent so long preparing himself financially for marriage (before that one fell through). All the weird things about this guy that make more sense in context. Would there actually be someone who, after understanding him, isn't going to try and change him?
I agree with JH also, don't marry because you're being pressured and you feel you must. Ask yourself that question, can I live with someone, or do I enjoy my own company that I don't need anyone else's. He has to be honest with himself. Does he even have a girl friend? Maybe he should test those waters first I think.
Should or should not is a minor issue. There are also a lot of women who want to marry him. The question is how long it will last. I'm afraid of what will happen in the future unless Jongkook changes his behaviour.
Comments section full of judgemental people who never seen real kjk .. Even dispatch can't find his ex gf.. People don't even know dragon club strongly against his marriage they told him support your family now
I think he should get married, having a kid is what changes your life. But when you are a father your priorities change. The sad part is that he is getting old and at the end, he will be alone because even his mother is not going to be there for him. )
He just needs a woman that also likes to exercise and stay fit. He shouldn’t get married because people are making him feel pressured. Maybe he enjoys the single life and hasn’t met anyone that he wants to be with long term. I’m sure his mom would like grandkids though. Maybe they should have a couples yoga challenge, or try having him meet women by doing exercise together?
Ra Im’s way of dealing towards the waiting for the gift opening isn’t new. It’s the same way with kids who were not taught to ask kindly for something that they want. It’s also the same way with kids whose parents would allow them to throw tantrums without processing afterwards. So yeah, don’t be surprised or get righteous. It’s just that her parents aren’t bringing her up with the way you were brought up. 🙂Also, JK’s wanting to get married is a running character for him in this show. I doubt he’ll marry soon, for so many reasons but the most obvious one is he’s sooooo comfortable with his singleness. His priorities are working out, coaching other people in the gym, play sports, shoot for shows, and create music. If marrying was on that list, he could’ve done it easily a decade ago. I believe a guy will marry his current girlfriend if he’s already decided to get married. Regardless of anything the girl has, if the guy had already fixed his mind on committing for life, he will propose to marry her. Guess JK is still taking his time enjoying his hobbies (while earning money playing this bachelor character).
before marriage I can exercise 2 hours a day except Sundays, after marriage I have children there can only be 15-30 minutes to exercise each time that is more than enough than not exercising at all
What's so wrong with excersing two hours a day?? Moreover he has gym and I don't think he is the type to leave his child or wife crying to workout. I bet it will be different because I see person drinking, smoking or just being lazy and not helping their wife. And I think he is the type of person to do anything for his child
Well it's not like he is all day long at home and exercise just 2 hours, jungkook has many businesses and a schedules packed with TV appearances and filming, he still find 2 hours just to work out which means less time to spend with his lover, if u meet someone as busy as him u want him to find time for u but jk like to workout, and all his previous gf did complain about it.
@@shinichikudoz exactly even I managed to workout for 1 and half hour a day. I Know it's easy said than being done, but with amount of dedication he has, he will definitely wake up early or even if it's late at night he will do it.
Wow they kid so not polite and how the kid doing to their dad ( pull his hairs and he let it not good) and his wife doesn't said anything to kids wow ..., they kids not baby anymore so They are should talking to the kids how to behave
Every woman wants to get married once in her life.. so if you have a gf I think give her assurance.. but if you're single don't pressure yourself to marry someone..
To be honest I find it hard to imagine Jongkook as a dad🤔🚶♂️idk why but I just cant seem to picture him as a dad...maybe husband, but a dad?..I cant see it for some reason😂but he seems to make a great rich uncle doe😂😂😂
I suggest him getting married and move to LA with his wife and just enjoying themselves as a couple without children by travelling around the world..much more fun and suits him really well since he's also kinda high maintenance men 😎😎✨
What a situation... marriage should be something you want to do, not something you have to do. If someone marries cause of pressure of parents or society, that individual is the one that has to live with another person, not the parents. Marriage can be hell, and if he divorces, it's the individual that failed to do more, the guilty one. If he has kids, maybe it's going to be even worse for them to be around people that weren't really into each other that much, or even in the family that much. KJK said multiple times that he likes his single life LET THE MAN ENJOY HIS LIFE He should make the decision for himself Not cause of a program that EVERYSINGLETIME tries to make him the bad person for wanting to LIVEHISONLIFE
The way i see it kim jong kook will never get married with the way his life schedule going And if u want to marry because of 'should' than u might as well don't get married