He had some of the smartest people in the WORLD, including the place that gives out the Nobel Prize, so her believing in him for YEARS, so that isn't so far fetched.
You know, swept off your feet has nothing to do with being careless and stupid and she had every means to check out this person, so she deserved everything she got and should be happy that it didn't turn out worse, cuz. we know the number of women that were murdered when they cornered a psychopath like this with his lies!!
He killed another girl...no telling how many ppl he’s harmed or killed. Read more on him here abcnews.go.com/US/star-surgeons-personal-professional-lives-converged-expose-lies/story?id=75780404
Good grief....”More details emerged: Seven of the eight patients who received one of his synthetic trachea transplants had died. In 2016, Paolo was under investigation by Swedish prosecutors on suspicion of manslaughter and grievous bodily harm related to three patient deaths in that country. A year later, it was announced that he had been negligent in all the cases, but that a crime could not be proven because the patients might have died anyway. The case is under appeal, and he is still licensed to practice medicine in Europe.” nypost.com/2018/02/10/my-fiance-was-a-conman-who-left-death-in-his-wake/
The fact that he only gets to serve 30 months in prison. He killed 8 patients that he performed surgery on. Initially court dismissed two out of three patients that died during the procedure. Its absurd to see that he will live as a free man even after knowing and killing 8 patients
And how they suffered- just absolutely heartbreaking !! The one girl who was in ICU for four and a half years … the Russian lady who said she rotted from the inside out. Terrible this gave me nightmares. 😞
The problem is she saw status first and nothing else, she forgot about the part not everything you see is always "WHAT IT IS" as she overlooked at the "TITLE " she could have seen a lot but she let the title control her mind. 🤦
Who the hell uses synthetic trachea transplants? 7 out of the 8 patients that Paolo treated had died. The patient that survived had their synthetic trachea taken out. This man is sick.
Yes but it’s science and science it’s not a definite , I am glad science keeps going , it takes people that do t have hope to get a little bit of hope …..one day it will work Yeah ! as a man , he is a dog 🤪 but hey he is a scientist , most man are dogs and they are just construction workers 🤣 Not doing anything after work , at least this man it’s trying to find cures …..I am not mad at him
@@leticiahernande2201 But he skipped the proper medical trials. They tested it on animals and the mortality rate was 100%, which he did not disclose. So he should not have then gone on to perform the surgery on actual humans. These medical trials are also important to science. He was not trying to find real cures, he was after the prestige of being a world renowned surgeon. Or else why should he pretend to be friends with Barack Obama, the pope, Vladmir Putin etc? He is probably a narcissist I think if you read about his story in detail you will probably agree with the above.
@@leticiahernande2201Are u slow in the head or are u just mentally challenged? Or is this surgeon ur secret man crush bcuz u haven’t came out of the closet yet? Lmfao 🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯 Are is this a burner account & you’re really the pos evil surgeon??? If you are then I truly hope karma gets ur ass super asap & make u pay for what u have done. U do realize & kno that this evil pos surgeon is a scam artist correct? U do kno that he’s a murderer also correct?? His bs ‘’plastic tubes’’ trachea transplant medical breakthrough is a scam, it’s all fake. It doesn’t work & he knows that it doesn’t work but he just doesn’t care so he continues to operate on ppl & then after the surgery??? All of his patients dies a horrific slow, painful, & agonizing death. You’re a clown if u support this evil pos surgeon & u shud be ashamed of urself bruh smh
@@leticiahernande2201He’s not tryin to find no damn cures smh. Plastic tubes in ppl will never ever work 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ You’re slow in the head or you’re just mental. U need help. Real talk ya pos clown.
She said her husband died (the father of her daughter). Sorry she was duped. However, one would think that someone with her intelligence would at least exercise some caution and not roll over and play dead regardless how charming he was. At some point you would question the basics.
@@bunnylover1340 Duped? More like she saw a lottery ticket. What type of self respectable woman would date a guy who is still legally engaged? Yeah she had money but of course, the more money the better the man right?
Oh Jason, that’s what I always say, “If it sounds too good to be true, then it probably IS.” S#%*!!! I feel bad for her though (She gave up her career, introduced him to her daughter, changed her life plans etc.).😔
@@elainakosmidis8657 Narcissists and sociopaths do this to people all of the time. They get them to quit jobs, sell houses and move only to be told I changed my mind.
@@brianwalsh1401 : I generally try to use words like EVIL or MONSTER instead of diagnoses from the DSM because I refuse to give anyone who has committed a conscious, intentional, premeditated CRIME a way out. We should just stop calling these a$$holes CRAZY. Please.
Travelling the world and seeing it's beauty is better then being an ignorant person. There of plenty of guys who "travel around the world" that can be trusted but yes proof is always good to ask but don't go too far.
He caused a legendary medical catastrophy here in Sweden which made families lose their loved ones before their time😪❤ He had been doing this during his entire career when his lies were discovered here. He had manipulated medical institutions all over Europe and duped smart women like the lady in the segment for years and years. The question is though - were is he now? Hopefully not but probably still experimenting on humans but now in South America under a false name, just like Josef Mengele when he was alive.
Yes, I heard about how there were issues with his papers and credentials but I didn't know about the love-bombing behavior. The narcism is not surprising.
i think the ring is the funniest part about this too - she probably walked around feeling like a million bucks with her ring. just goes to show you the power of imagination.
Yep. I’ve been married to an extremely abusive doctor for years. Finally, 4 years ago, he lost his license to practice due to illegal activities involving narcotics and prescription fraud. Since he lost his job, he ended up moving back into my guest room. I’m devastated and my life is a living hell. I’m disabled, so moving is next to impossible for me. So it’s not all fairytales to be married to a doctor. They r up at the top of abusers of their partners.
Seriously the Pope will marry you come on now!!Red flag right there I would've been like yeah okay dude I think you're talking some serious medication Haha🤣
I don’t know about this one. This is an investigative journalist and she didn’t think to start asking question at the jump of his crazy claims? All these famous people were going to show up at your wedding and you never talked on the phone with any of them?
The telling was she never attended an event with these well known people so how well could he have known them that now they are coming to the wedding. Love sometimes has blinders.
Well she knew for a fact that he was flown to a different country to do a revolutionary surgery (which at that time was labeled a success). That was the first thing she knew about him and that by itself makes him seem smart and outstandingly impressive. Maybe from then on that first impression, his confidence, and web of lies carried assumptions. Assumptions like maybe he was from an old-money "insider" family. The brain likes to fill in the holes especially after strong impressions.
She had to be attracted to His Fantasy of achievement, fame, and wealth. She saw numerous red flags but still "forged" forward to live out this fantasy... which became hers too.
Let’s not be too harsh as she was assigned to his story when he was in the press for doing good. After she heard more negative things she started investigating more till she found the truth. The thing that would have gave me pause was the “still married but separated” thing.
@@oldbluewitch3386 Indeed, this is exactly what I am saying He creAted HIS fantasy and she bought into it...IT became HERs too. 🤨 Like a drug addict CONvincing his naieve friend to become apart of his destructive habit. They both became addicted to that satisfying high.
@@oldbluewitch3386 She saw a walking wallet and not a peer. Whatever he was selling was above anything she would have achieved from 47yrs old (as she was) onwards.
@@oldbluewitch3386 he was married and she knew it. She was happy to leave her daughter so he could take her on holidays. She's self-centred. People here believing she's a victim are buying into her performance now. The real victims here are his family and people he killed, and for some reason she's the one the TV show is happy to give attention and money. lol
Why should SHE know better, when the WHOLE MEDICAL COMMUNITY didn't realise what was happening????? She had a good job making very good money, kid in private school. She was love bombed. Everyone asking how she could fall for his lies. It's simple. He didn't tell her any outlandish stuff UNTIL she was already hooked on him and trusted him. We tend to give people we trust the benefit of the doubt for much longer than we would a stranger. WHY IS SHE GETTING BLAMED FOR FALLING FOR HIS LIES?????
Agree to a point. Before you uproot your child to move to another country, you should visit the home you plan to live in. Why was she ok with him making all the wedding arrangements? And why was she willing to marry him after his patient died and his colleagues suspected him? She has clues and hunches to follow up on but she ignored it. Whether it’s because he love bombed her or not, other peoples lives were endangered by him (her daughter, his patients, etc) and she didn’t act responsibly.
The woman whose son died after a surgery and fell in love with him, while he was being investigated for it……..then has a daughter with him…….that’s the saddest thing ever.
Worst thing: Karolinska has an institute for research and education, but they also have University Hospitals. Big hospitals that covers a huge part of Stockholm. It's not very reassuring to go there with the knowledge that The Ethic Committee kept supporting and defending him for a long time (years) after he was exposed and people had died. Due to my area code I belong to one of their hospitals. I hope I won't be in an accident where surgery is required. Who knows what the Ethic Committee has approved...
Shut up I can't believe this is coming from a woman. What about the medical institutions he ruined lives in? Even billionaires are duped when a person plays the part well. At least she's brave enough to tell her story and bring his wickedness to light.
@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 Yes but she slept with a married man. The doctor is a sociopath no doubt but she didn’t use any common sense! And she’s an investigative journalist? Come on!
She is bad at her job, she was doing a documentary and could have discovered that he was a fraud way earlier but instead decided to date him cause marrying a doctor was a better career move.
He gaslighted her so hard but I don't blame her for falling for it because she was in a vulnerable position and was looking at everything through rose colored glasses, this happens a lot by victims of people with NPD.
Come on, she believed when he told her the pope (THE POPE!) was going to marry them, and Clintons and Obamas would be there? How terminally gullible and dumb do you have to be?
I just watched the documentary on Netflix, at one point I had to pause it cuz it made me physically sick when they showed the victims and I imagined what they were going through. Made me nauseous. There is a very dark and low level of hell do that guy. The fact he isn’t serving life makes me sick. The fact he almost ended up with no prison time is hard to even accept. The lying to the women was bad but lots of men and women have lied and manipulated like that, but the killing of the patients is some dark twisted sht.
I am not sure but it had something to do with patients signing a waiver before their surgery. Also, I read somewhere that the people that came to see him pretty much on their way out and they were willing to try anything. He operated more than just those shown on netfilx and not all died.
Another "Once upon a time"modern day fairytale. Astounded as to how quickly this intelligent woman fell for it. Coming from a background in journalism her awareness should have been more heightened.
@@madsdee7803 Ummmm.....She is rich enough to hire private investigators... She was in love with this man we all do stupid things in the name of love.That's being human.
Shows how important it is to read Dear Abby everyday. Red flags should have gone up as soon as he said he was separated but not divorced yet. All Dear Abby's readers have learned that. Also, why would a gifted surgeon travel from one hospital to another to do a rare operation? He needs a hospital with specialized equipment and staff, so the patients should travel to him, not the other way around.
For me was the fact that she never visited him in Barcelona!!! it was his main home and they were planning to live there, I would've gone there even if he said he was not going to be in town.
She drives to his house and just when she see him, he comes out of the house with a women and children. She froze when she saw the kids and never confronted him to his face.
I'm lookin 4 Part 6. She's now where she's supposed 2 b 4 her - B's weddin. These clips r too short. Other clips should follow somewhere/X. Today is still 13.2.21 @ 4:19 pm, ha in Canada! He's still married. Mayb his wife is @ house in Barcelona where Bonita might b goin after the Wedding, ha. Confrontation @ house is next. Mayb he's home, lol or the wife is!!!
I feel sorry for his patients who died, especially the two young women, but for his fiancé I don’t. Watching the doc on Netflix it’s pretty obvious she was a gold digger. She was totally fine with everything as long as he went on expensive trips with her & gave her expensive gifts. Also the pope, doctor committee around the world ist just dumb to believe. Plus she’s more angry about him having other women than showing any sympathy for his patients.
benita, for a journalist she has a lot to learn.. when she said to him .."sooner or later I was going to ask questions," and he replied.." I know that's what I love about you" that seemed to make her feel good..but even that was a lie.... she never asked enough questions and the reason he fell for her is because she was so gullible.
She was already very well off, before she met him. She's worth 14 Million herself. Plus she is an Emmy award winning (2 Emmy's) producer, Dateline being one of her jobs. She didn't need to gold dig 🙄
I hate the comments here, love is truly blind, hell my ex didnt even have money and I was blinded and continued to not listen too the red flags it's really something
Her story is parallel to my sister's. Her husband said he knew elites personally. Been away abroad many times for "job" purpose- using my sister's money. He always said ceo of a new big company liked him but the other heads were somehow against him. Always telling us stories how he was the best in his fields. I knew he was lying but it is hard to let my sister believed. She eventually investigated him herself.
@@peri3818 supposedly to support his career. He kept saying he would move from local company to foreign, globally renowned company. And then their family will move abroad. He even said he has a lot of money in his account for doing favors for foreign companies. But the bank supposedly would not let him withdraw til the sources were cleared. He showed the online screenshot of his bank account - with the script edited to show he had $100 000s. FYI, after their divorce, my sis had to pay unpaid bills cos she gave him money to pay for their bills. He also stole money from my dad which my dad gave for their children. Dude was just plain evil
Did your sister brag and name drop about everyone he supposedly knew? This lady did. Even showing off videos and pictures of their holidays and the things he spoilt her with. I bet her family laughed when she fell on her face. I would have.
@@madsdee7803 my sister didn't brag to her friends. But she did share how he did work for these elites, but tell us not to tell anyone. But one day, my sister, her husband and my parents were out shopping together. They encountered one of the elites. My sis thought her husband would greet the elite. But he sorta walked quickly away instead. The elite walked to my mom, then greeted her. My sis' husband stood silently and wasnt even acknowledged by the elite. This elite was the one he supposedly had worked with numerous times, just recently.
I kind of blame her because some of it was so over the top. The Pope, the Clintons, Obamas and Putin all in the same wedding? Also on the show she said she was really angry because her daughter just lost her dad and was connecting with this man. Well why did you involve your daughter in this mess? Why were you flying all over the place when your daughter needed you. She was going to move her daughter away from all she knew to live in Spain. Seems like she wasnt thinking of her daughter.... And I bet her friend all secretly thought this was all bs but didnt want to say anything....
If it seems too good to be true,then it most definitely is, people end up believing what they want it to be and abandon reality even if it smacks them in the face.
Almost all Disney princesses were abused or neglected by her parents (mother more often). Cinderella was abused by her step mother and sisters. Snow White ran away to the Forest because her (step)mother was envious of her and wanted to kil...etc. In those stories, always a prince charming would come to save them. :(
haha especially when she´s told that the Pope is coming to the party. Security, guests security protocol, Vatican Secret Service, Cops, roof top snipers, dog handlers, Popemobile, security logistics. Boy, lots of people to feed at the wedding. Better order some more wine
@Tit Bit My father's family is from Europe. Im old enough to know women generally & there basic nature. That's my opinion an im entiltled it. Hope im wrong bout her!
She was a successful woman who was financially very secure herself so obviously she would only date another person in her financial bracket or better. There was no scam on her part. You are probably someone who never made a lot of money so you don’t understand life in that financial bracket.
I know that us women sometimes disappoint ourselves so much, one could be the smartest person ever and then a man will come into your life you become so stupid.💔
She is not the sharpest tool in the shed 🤣 She accepted a proposal from a married man. Introduced this married man to her daughter... they were his princesses...🤦🏽♀️ I just pray her daughter has more sense because her mother... I mean c’mon. Lady are you serious? 🤣😬😦🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️