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We both know those moments where we would like to do something (ex. asking a girl out, try something new, talk with a group of people...) but we hear that inner voice that tells us not to do it.
1) Why should I ask?
- Because it's what we really want!
- Why shouldn't we ask? There is no good reason and if you are similar to me, than the two main things that you fear are: getting rejected and peoples opinion of you...
- If all you could get is a "Yes" and no one would remember of you asking:
Would you do it? Probably yes...
- If you don't ask you can be 100% sure that the answer is no!
2) How do I conquer my fears?
- Think about the worse case scenario: you get a no and people laugh at you... you can easily survive that!
- The more probable scenario: You get a yes in a smooth way.
- We often think that people will say no, but what my experience has taught me, is that most of the time you get a yes or a friendly no!
- Imagine being a millionaire and a friendly kid asks you in a wholesome way, if he can take a ride with you... what would you say?
- We also think that people will laugh at us, but would you laugh at a guy, who had the guts to approach a cute girl, even if he gets rejected?
3) How do I ask?
- Relax
- Start in a very friendly way.
- Compliment (we like people who like us)
- Smile and be happy to see that person
- If they say no, take it easy...
Remember: Everyone around you has the same fears, but who do you want to be? The average guy who regrets not having asked or the guy everyone looks up to, which gets the opportunities?
Quote: "The success of a person is measured by the amount of uncomfortable conversations he is willing to have."
29 май 2024
