Castillo sits down with his first love, ex girl friend Riette because he feels he owe's her a big explanation. INSTAGRAM: @trendcentrl TIK TOK: @trendcentrl.com For sponsorships and collaborations visit: www.TrendCentrl.com
Still doesn’t grant them the right to be out here traumatizing other people. This woman’s perception of love and trust will NEVER be the same again. She’s beyond damaged after this. She won’t be able to trust her own shadow
@@vaenquiries6728 She knew what she was getting herself into but ignored the red flags. Sometimes you female purposely go for the Below-Par Males so that you can have a story to tell and make yourselves the victor when things go left.
It’s just an excuse, he’s said he’s not incapable of sympathy or compassion (his grandmother). He just chooses to be vindictive. If anything he’s a narcissist with a sociopathic facade. Justifying things back to his childhood is why those girls are in the position their in.
I just can’t skip past him saying he had his first sexual experience when he was 5 with someone that was older than him. That is so sad and traumatizing and definitely adds to the reason why he is the way he is today. I’ll never understand how grown women and men can prey on little children.
People keep saying he’s making excuses, but not once did he actually make an excuse. He never justified his behaviour; he just told her where is rationale was developed from. He told her how he feels and made it clear that’s his reality. His reality is he has shut himself completely from emotions because of his childhood and that’s valid. This man is the epitome of childhood trauma and he acknowledged that several times when he kept referring to his parents. The guy is actually closer to healing than we think and it’s beautiful to see someone acknowledge they’re toxic and own their toxicity. With regards to the child thing; as a mother, I understand her sentiment. However, the reality is for someone who was adamant they didn’t want children, finding out they’ve been lied to, is just additional trauma; especially when he doesn’t have a say in it. He clearly didn’t want children because he’s scared he’ll break the them the way he was broken. Yes, he should have strapped up; but the woman who lied to him also has some blame here. When a man/woman tells you they don’t want children, please believe them. It’s deeper than we think. He needs to heal from that too and deal with the trauma attached to having a child he didn’t want. Being a parent is hard, it’s even harder when it’s a child you didn’t want. Yh he’s emotionally detached but even attempting to be there out of obligation is something … obviously with help he can start to open up to idea of loving the child and being there out of love; but it’ll take time and from this convo I’m hopeful he’ll get there. I actually believe that he loved the girl. She didn’t listen to him; she’s still dealing from pain and her hurt is 1000% valid. However, this is the first time I’ve heard a toxic man actually admit he cheated because of HIS OWN insecurities. She dismissed himself several times and couldn’t bring herself to understand their relationship from HIS perspective. This could have actually been healing for her and a form of validation. It wasn’t her; it was him and from MY understanding he took responsibility for that. He actually did love her and possibly still loves her. It’s a big statement for him to make that she’s the only person he saw his grandmother (definition of love) in. He definitely messed it up; and she shouldn’t go back to him BUT at least he’s acknowledged his wrong and it’s now for him to get therapy to finish the healing process that has already started. Contrary to most peoples opinions; I’m actually proud of him lol. He’s on a solid path and if he continues he would actually have so much love to offer his child and potentially open himself up to even receiving and giving healthy romantic love.
I think the biggest lesson to take from this interaction is. No matter the circumstance a person faces. Once that individual reaches adulthood, it's their responsibility to fix or deal with that trauma. Becuase noone has the right to damage a person just because they are not willing to deal with their own traumatic experiences.
@@Habibi_6812 it’s part of it, if you don’t see it i don’t know what to tell you. he brings up his trauma constantly to excuse his actions. while it’s absolutely not his fault for the way his parents were and for the f’d up things he mentioned his grandmother put him through when leaving him with her boyfriend even being assaulted as a 5 year old, it’s absolutely his responsibility to heal that trauma as an adult. instead he continued to hurt those around him including many women and then comes on this show to further insult them as people saying he didn’t give an f about them, ultimately treating them as throw away objects while they were lied to by him about being with him in a relationship. it’s sick, and trauma dumping isn’t an excuse. it is an explanation and i don’t wish anyone the sort of upbringing that he had, but he needs to take responsibility as a grown dude to heal and stop hurting innocent people around him.
Hold on a damn minute..... This nigga ain't brought this girl here to explain shit to her. He did it, for himself. Everything he's saying and how he's relaying it, he might has well just bought a journal cause there's no sensitivity to her feelings throughout this. He gets to leave this convo feeling a big relief, got all this off his chest. She's just a pawn. She doesn't need to hear all this, but it makes him feel better about himself for "explaining" to someone why he is how he is. This is all so fucking ingenuine. And I'm 5 mins in.
Castillo should be sitting down with a therapist instead, anyways… Ladies learn from men like this, doesn’t matter how good they look, dealing with these level of demons is not worth it. Castillo, I pray the Lord heals you.
we really need to start educating ourselves (black community) on mental health. Black Men & Females have different levels of trauma and psychological/mental issues and the small percentage that are vocal, get attacked or dismissed. Nobody is perfect but the first step is being upfront and honest, which is not easy. People should not be disregarded because of their unjust ways but they should be taught and guided. (Prayer is the key but actions help)
U haven’t lived his life or anything like it so Lowe it his life is fucked I don’t blame him for anything he’s done it’s wrong what he did but it was his way of coping with his life and he’s just trying to make her understand what happened what don’t u people get about this
This why women should never have kids out of the context of a marriage. A lot of men are exercising their bodily autonomy and refusing to consent to fatherhood. The cycle of out of wedlock births should be stopped
@@SamOSosa100 he’s a grown man who needs therapy. Blaming his messed up life on his child is such a disgusting thing to do. He’s sick and I have absolutely zero sympathy for him.
I feel like Cas is actually so deeply hurt that he's done the same thing as his biological parents in a way that hes burying the emotion under "i dont feel i dont care" knowing you have put someone esle through the most painful thing about your life can leave you paralysed .. its hard to watch him be so self centred but i feel like its our 'fault' for centering men in society/relationships in general .. i hope he finds peace and detaches himself from the reasons for his behaviour and Riette gets some closure from this the grace and composure from her is something else
I really hope his child never grows up to see this. Heartbreaking that he has no emotions towards that child. I hope he heals and builds a real relationship with the child.
Why are we assuming this child is better off with the M? Not the maturity of children who are in care, prisons, and all manner of dsyfunction include castillo came from whom? SINGLE MOTHERS
Just watching it and Castillo defo needs some form of therapy. From having consistent links to abandoning his child. We need to stop letting our past traumas make us victims🤦🏾♀️.
This is true but I'm afraid it might be too late for him, it seems that he has accepted his careless living as part of who he is.The way he nonchalantly talks about his trauma and has no emotional attachment to any of it saddening.
If the women did lie about being able to reproduce she should be liable to be prosecuted, practically the same thing as a women poking holes in a condom then roping you into an impossible situation if she fell pregnant to trap you or extort you for child support, not condoning dismissing a life you’ve created but a women lying about something like that when you’ve stated its not what you want should be considered a criminal act.
Her silence and look of disgust on her face speaks volumes. Castillo is very deeply traumatised and I empathise for his painful history but the lack of self reflection as a grown adult shows that there’s a lot more work for him to do. I just hope no other women are seriously impacted by his reckless actions. I can only imagine how his child will feel if they watch this in the future.
he is a sociopath, this is not a "bad things happened to me and this is how i dealt with it" instead its "bad things happened to a young boy who is/was a sociopath"
When he said he's not acting out of love of sentiment with his child, his conscience caught up with him. The thing about suppressed trauma is your words can say a million different things but your behaviour will always tell the truth.
He was abandoned by his own parents so he doesn’t know a parents love to give it to his own… it sounds savage to who hasn’t been grown this way. Childhood trauma is a real thing 🥴🙏🏼
where does the cycle end then? It’s not enough of an excuse. His poor child never asked to be here, I pray they never come across this video. I was abandoned myself, it doesn’t make you a terrible person, we need to hold each other accountable.
@@hafsahm4486 exactly, I'm going to use an example...two twin boys were raised by an alcoholic father. One grew up to be an alcoholic homeless and when asked what happened he said "I watched my father" The other grew up and became successful and never drank in his life. When he was asked what happened he said "I watched my father" Two boys, same dad, two different perspective. Your perspective in life will determine your destination 🤞🏾❇
This is soul crushing to this woman. She is so level headed, sounded like she was a great girlfriend but met a devil of a man. He is so emotionally damaged and has deep deeeep trauma from his own childhood, that’s why he was so able to ghost he’s own child and feels nothing towards his child. As a woman she would never want to have a child with him seeing how he treats his own child out there. Madness at the end of the day how can you sleep with 16 women or so at a time and not expect to get someone pregnant or conceive a child through this reckless behaviour. Hopefully he’s doing the inner work to heal and progress.
@@caesarx8139 I want to believe that honestly, when you watch his story times on his YT channel it’s the same scenarios and he’s spoken about his past. But I could be wrong
As someone who’s been abandoned at birth, the thought that this could be how my bilological parents may speak about me knowing I’m alive and well would be heartbreaking. God forbid
The truth is, he’s a hurt hurt hurt man, I don’t believe for a moment he “doesn’t care” he’s just been neglected as a child and is scared to commit. He doesn’t trust nobody, and I bet he’s even more hurt he’s been a bad dad. Castillo bro, be there for that child or she’ll be broken and hurt just like you. Be the change you wished your parents would of made. Don’t be selfish and step up, also be careful what you say to that child you bought her into this world, give her a father she deserves brother.
@@sandrawthebs9091 he’s a walking red flag. Doesn’t matter, if you have a big D, know how to talk a big game etc a lot of women will ignore the red flags
It wasn’t him being molested it was something else I don’t remember it all but it was just a little dodgy moment with an older girl that shouldn’t have happened
nah this is crazy you would slap a man and not expect to get hit back? people should keep their hands to themselves unless they are ready for a physical altercation
@@GoldenBoyDims I never said I would expect to get hit back? And you took my comment too literal I was just talking about how vexed I would be in comparison to how she was.
@@tee4241 im saying its easy to talk of violence when you don't know the reprecussions you shouldn't take it so lightly and I took it literal cause I didn't interpret your statement as a joke
@@GoldenBoyDims I agree with them, I’d do the exact same. Ik the repercussions and what a man hitting me feels like (considering I’ve physically fought my abusive dad multiple times), and many other women do, but the point still stands. They never said that they wouldn’t expect to get hit back. If I want to hit a man for doing what Castillo has done to this woman, then I just might. And I’d prepare to be hit back but still get angry, because who is anyone like Castillo to hit back anyone that they’ve fucked over? If a man was to be told all of this cheating bs from their ex girlfriend and he wanted to hit her, nobody could blame him. Whether he would want to face the repercussions of that is his decision. But it’s not a mad thing to want to do when you’re being told disgusting shit that was happening behind your back for years.
shit like this always happens bro. ppls traumas are just left unadressed and then they end up repeating the same things they went through. then the kid is gonna do the same thing and that happens over and over
all i see a broken man from broken traumatic background who has blocked all the emotional attachment because of what they went through and instead pf acknowledging that and seeing a therapist he is proud of it, esp not him having any love for his child that alone should make you freak out and seek therapy. props to his ex she carries herself with grace.
his first sexual experience was when he was 5? omgggg he was molested my god. yooo he needs to seek mental and trauma help cause he doesn't know but just walking sympomts of what could come and hunt him later in his life.
And yet he had a rotation of 16 girls and a main chick. Bad boys having been winning a lot lately. It’s a lesson on the consequences of being a nice guy
So is she for lying to the man, telling him she couldn't get pregnant. If a man has said he's not interested in having kids and you go ahead with it, don't be mad
@@nottodaybuddy4130 only speaks more volumes about you than anyone else. Truth may hurt but it’s his truth. I feel more sorry that child, if he/she watches this in years to come their going to be very heartbroken 💔
They both are heroic in sitting down to have this conversation one and second in front of a camera for others to see and my hope is for those who see to learn from it. The reality is both of them played a role in the destruction that transpired. Yes ol boy is wrong for lying. Yes ol girl is wrong for ignoring what she obviously felt was there if she had to leave him. The most beautiful part of this ugly truth is that WE ALL get a chance to see the turmoil that we as individuals bring into relationships when we don’t take the time, don’t acknowledge, and sometimes don’t even know we need to deal with and heal through before any building of romantic relationships. Great content 👌🏽
Because of his childhood trauma he is emotionally detached and lacks a aerious amount of empathy. It's not an excuse but at least he is kind of aware. I hope gets the therapy he needs so he can be a good father
That also makes him the bad body women desire. He had a rotation of 16 girls and a main chick while there’s plenty of guys with the nice guys vibe that ain’t getting any. This is an education and a lesson to all nice guys.
Dear God I pray every woman reading this comment who is single, to marry a healed and intelligent man who fears you.. and does right by his woman in Jesus name. I rebuke any man who is here to waste our time and take away your peaceful spirit away from us.. By fire and force our men will be GREAT husbands and fathers and may we will also be great! Show us what needs healing so we do not create a broken generation of women. Amen
@@steffenglande5582 that's like telling a person whos praying for cancer victims "hey why not pray for people who get into car crashes, do they not need help to" Dumb comment
This was difficult yet intriguing to watch. The beauty and strength the young lady had is amazing. The closure, I feel was needed for her healing..she already had fell out of love with him 3 months prior to leaving him for the final time. By him coming clean it is validation to her that she did nothing wrong and she deserves better. For him to be honest with himself about his traumas and its effects, is the first step for him to begin healing so he can stop hurting. Hurting people hurt others.
He's just "me me me" and everyone else is collateral. His logic baffles me, he expects her not to cheat, but it's ok if he does, he expects his links to be honest but he's lying to all of them, he says he didn't have a relationship with his biological parents and then he does the same thing to his own child.
men and women cheating are not the same thing in the same way a person calling a w person the c word is not the same as a w person calling a b person the n wors
Castillo should not be on social media. He needs therapy. The guy is a walking tornado destroying everything in his path and moving on. That’s very scary because people and potentially an innocent child has been caught in the crossfire. Any platform that uses him onwards is clearly for gain, clout and clicks. That wasn’t even funny it was severely uncomfortable to watch without any sort of trigger warning to
There’s a sad hurt boy who wants to be heard in this grown man’s body. He wants to come across like a sociopath but he’s in desperate need of validation from the way he mistreats women. He doesn’t show any remorse and it’s clear he’s attempting to hurt this woman’s feelings. The less she breaks down, the more he brings up something to see her hurting. It’s clear as water he came to make her feel inferior in order to stroke his ego. Truly sad. I command this beautiful woman for being gracious and grounded. Sending her love, peace, bliss, healing and I pray she finds a deserving suitor.
Minus this woman and his grandma, I don’t think Castillo ever experienced love, this is baffling. He has no remorse you can tell he honestly doesn’t care like what so ever
he didn't love this woman either the only thing that separated her from the others was she was able to get a lil closer to him than others .he completely shut down all feelings for any one and it's due to his childhood he's been molested and abandoned those are scars that aren't so easily healed he definitely need to seek therapy
Castillo needs all the help and therapy this world can offer. He is going through so much that you can even tell from his face and his experiences. It wasn’t a healthy relationship at all. no matter what the lady does, even though she stayed while he had consistent link; he wasn’t really ready to be a responsible person. prayers to both parties involved 🙏🏿
one day this childs going to watch this and hear his father talk so blazzay about not loving him, even the hand gestures, its actually so heart breaking!
He's literally told her how many times he's done fuckery to her then says at the end "I didn't want you to leave here still thinking I'm a bad person". HMMM! I think he honestly just likes the sound of his own voice.
The fact that he is saying "why would someone lie to me" the woman he impregnated, is just 🙊🙊 When pple meet their match is an utter disaster. This is toxic and pride in the mix
I rate his ex, she had all the right questions prompted him to answer the real questions and maintained a calm demeanor throughout the mental gymnastics....
The amount of times he said 'I don't give a fuck about them'. He has a very dark character. This whole concept is so messy, what was he thinking about doing this. Keep this stuff behind closed doors, not infront of a camera
I am so confused I need a headache tablet and sleep ,I simply need live rent free in my head he told her he did not want kids then that he lobbed a photo of the kid in the bin if the kid is watching this “Your Unique,your amazing,please do not let anyone define you as anything less ..”
This was a hard watch but such an eye opener on how ur childhood trauma lack of love from your parent/s can carry on to ur adult life how u interact with others. In saying that good on him being vulnerable and speaking his harsh truth 👏🏾 also loads of respect to this woman listening and keeping it together and defending the child corner. 👏🏾
He's definitely done some introspection to be able to own up to his behaviour and try to understand things but there's so much more than needs to be done still. I truly hope he gets professional help
If you don’t want kids don’t have sex. Just because you’re obligated to take care of them isn’t care and every child deserves parents present in their lives.
@@harietam3194 1. Sex = procreate and pleasure. 2. You can use contraceptions but it's not 100% accurate, unless it is a permanent contraceptive, or to not have sex. So if it was concensual sex and they got pregnant, it's their fault, they have to deal with the consequenses.
Saying this as if the ratio to women doing this to men isn’t far greater 😂 80% of women are sexually active when only 20% of men are, work that one out for yourself 🧐 women are choosing the same group of men as the rest ignoring the “good men” then complaining about it as if women don’t have all the options when it comes to the dating world 🤦♂️😂
Please ladies! If you have a guy who is remotely similar to him, leave him alone. He’s cold inside, he doesn’t have it in him to change. You won’t be able to change him. You’ll try to heal him while his killing you. There’s a lot of men like Castello, but don’t say these things outloud. His threshold of trauma is so high that he thinks that if he harms anyone under the amount he has been through it’s fine. He has no real remorse. This is even for views. Please leave him alone.
There are men who are exactly like Castillo… but understand that love is give/take and the importance of discipline. At some point in his adult life he said to himself “if it feels good do it”. Trust me u get it. This guy is in a very dark hole
Men need to leave desperate females, these females will try to tie u to themselves and then play victim later.. Men stay away from these sort of women, let them be alone because that’s how most of em will die single anyways .
Its a lot of men who feel this way about their children do to the fact that they wasn't in a relationship with the mom, more women should watch this so they can stop having children with anybody
@@PhoenieFroe313 but noone forced him to say those things furthermore he made a bad business deal. We learn and move on. This conversation didn't need a production team tbh
After saying ALL of that, which must of been so heartbreaking for her to hear, he couldn’t even apologise. I get that what’s done is done and she’s over him and everything. But he could still said SORRY for everything he’d put her through. The words “I’m sorry” never left his mouth. Crazy.
I love the fact she still has the respect to listen to his bullsh*t. That’s maturity right there. The fact you still have the soul and capacity to listen when someone breaks you. Madness.
I'll give it to the man; he's funny as hell. But through his pain, trails, and tribulations he became selfish. It's all about himself and it like he uses his bringing up as a means to okay his behavior. This man is hurting so much he became desensitized.
I don’t get mandem that got time to entertain and have conversations with bare gyal. Their pockets are deffo empty🤦🏿♂️. If you’re going to entertain a lot of girls at least be honest and upfront and admit to not being monogamous.
He's done alot of bad things.. but the fact that he can be this honest..... that's something. Some men will go to their graves lying hiding with their secrets.. I think this is more positive than negative cos this is the most honest I've ever seen a guy with this much chaos that his lived through.. and created himself... I can't knock him.
There are a bunch of disorders that can develop from childhood trauma, that limit your ability to feel love and empathy for people. It's not a conscious decision being made but a literal disability, the only thing he was comparing was his inability to love/feel affection for them solely because they're connected to him through flesh and blood regardless of how he 'should feel'.
he had a childhood that really hurt him. You can see it in him when he talks about it. He says he don’t care , but deep down he does. He had to survive with that mindset and he is still in survival mode and denying his hurt. I believe he is just a hurt man and he will eventually be able to let himself love and be open to receiving love from his child. With his painful past and neglect he do t think he is deserving of love and he is afraid of love. Him believing his grandma took care of him out of obligation made it hard for him to see that he can be unconditional loved. He dont think it exist for that matter that is why he is saying I don’t take care of this yute out of love just obligation. He seems like a loyal man , not loyal in form of acts towards his ex but loyal to whoever that gave him a chance like his ex and his grandma. I believe loyalty and giving back honesty is his way of showing love. When he heals I believe he whould be a great guy. He is not heartless he is just heartbroken and trying to survive.
(Typing this only 13mins in) As a therapist watching this, TRAUMA TRAUMA TRUAMA. I would encourage all of us to get into therapy at some point. The generation trauma, the lack of empathy, patterns of abuse, gaslighting, pain, our inner child, lack of effective communication, self actualisation, systemic patterns (family) , identity issues, emotional & psychological abuse, neglect, coercion…. Need I go on? I just …. My heart breaks for both of these ppl. The good things is that this can be worked with/through with the right and appropriate support, if there is a willingness. Regardless of who we relate with, these are two heart broken ppl for several different and similar reasons… I understand both perspectives & I appreciate some responsibility (kinda) that towards the end was taken …I also think at some point we have to take responsibility for our behaviour after a certain age. If anyone needs support, please reach out to your local agencies. Therapy isn’t just for the ‘bad times’. OR some wise counsel in some way, as I know therapy isn’t for everyone. Have a blessed day RantOver!
Joesph has a massive shield up, I don't believe he doesn't care about his parents or child at all, his trauma has forced him to put all these walls up out of fear, I hope he finds peace with all this.
Entertainment aside this is deeply sad, how is this child going to feel knowing this one Day... I’ve never commented on anything in my life online but this was very hard to watch.. like I said not everything should be about views and entertainment.. hats off to her for speaking up
Wow this is sad, I used to think Castillo was fun but this is just disgusting. I understand he’s been through trauma but look at the trauma he’s caused. 🥺
This is why men never open up to women coz theyll.never understand a mans perspective n his demons n his pain..When a man realises his mistakes n owns up to them..that growth but women will still judge him n call him all sorts of names..U can see the way she looks at him with disgust n not trying to underatand his perspective
Honestly, when ladies would tell me men were this way I could not believe it. I had a vail over my reality that shielded me from the reality or some men. Now that I have experienced the other side of men I regret thanking God I was protecting from the harshness of men. I had celebrated too soon. This is a beautiful transparent conversation.
Castillo is an amazing human, to be dealt the cards life gave you, then going through trails and tribulations, navigating yourself through parental relationship, soical relationship, emotional strain, financial strain, neglect, being a product of his environment and then! Trying to understanding his life experiences, learning from his life experinces, wanting to change, and being at place in life ready to is truly inspiring. Evidently, he couldn't articulate his emotions fully but you heard if you listened! Clearly, the lady was not in a place for forgiveness but it is what is it. All you can do is try. "The best teacher is experience learned by failure". I hope he stays strong. Most importantly stay true to yourself.
Come on Castillo man, you went through all of that, your number one objective the moment when that child was born shouldve been to drop everything and become a proper father so that child never had to go through what you had to go through.
Listen, I understand that he’s actually and absolutely ridiculous as a person but this is a man who has been through the gutter and is somehow finding a way to take some accountability. And that is growth, and I hope he keeps growing.
He said he has his first sexual experience at FIVE YEARS OLD with someone older... he was a baby 💔 this man needs help, he really needs therapy, how can he just keep going and living like that... I wanted to slap him throughout the entire video but that sentence broke me 😞
holy shit man, bruv is brave…this isnt even about me and i feel like i need to do better….my mans sounds like he has improved and the first step to healing is facing ur fears head on and even though to some this might make him look like a clown 🤡 at the moment, later on they both will be completely healed, this is a moment of Therapy and accountability and acceptance guys, pay attention, it’s DIFFICULT EVERY time.
If you’ve heard him talk about his life before you can kind of make the connection about the way he was treated by girls growing up, being fat, foreign and walking around in flip flops in the early mid 2000s😂. That was like asking for it😩 he talks like he was treated less than human, He was showed such lack of respect and empathy from everyone especially females, from his mum to the girls at school and college. I think it defo scarred him mentally and created the emotional detachment he has today. I think it’s why he’s obsessed with brown skin/ dark skin women, because the girls that made his life hell in school were that. Then boom he loses weight grows his hair and suddenly all the black girls love him, I think his reckless sex life was to make up for how inadequate he was made to feel growing up from a combination of his mum and female peers. People also underestimate how hard it is for a man to develop natural feelings for a child that’s unwanted and unplanned, and by a woman you have zero feelings for. Most men actually feel like he did in these situations, but when the baby arrives they force themselves to spend time with the kid out of obligation, only thru spending time with the kid will paternal feelings come about. Men do not feel paternal love for an unplanned and unwanted child from the beginning like women can
It’s fucked that this toxic channel posted this video without Castillo and his ex’s consent. Something feels off about this channel. Castillo explicitly told them not to post it because he didn’t want his daughter to grow up to see this. This was filmed a year ago and he has made changes since then. This trend central priorities views over a child’s future pain. If someone doesn’t sign a consent form for ethical reasons the video shouldn’t be used. For the protection of that child this needs to be taken down.
This man is a narcissist, I’m absolutely exhausted from watching this man. How did she live with this? His a drainer he sucks the life out of people rubbish excuse of a human being
Castillo is emotionally inept and needs therapy, so does this young lady to be sure that ptsd doesn't win in her efforts to move on. This next guy seems much worse. Gosh. Our men are killing our community with all of this. My god!
What's funny is that he is shitting on all these other side chicks, because he thinks it will excuse him and make the main feel better. But really it just makes him look like a rampaging sociopath 😂
"Kept one there because she was light skin and had green eyes" It's these low value men who... nvm. Dusty af. May the peace of God deliver anyone within the vicinity of a waste man.
Can't judge him - he who hasn't sinned cast the first stone but this whole conversation shows you how devilish this world is. Castilo is childish. He blames everyone else. Man born into a broken relationship, abused. Abused countless women and even still abuses his ex. Kid born under abuse. This world is a mess.
He’s very honest and speaks on how a lot of men who have kids with women they don’t like/want feel. Not saying that it’s right but it’s a very open/honest response. Protect your wombs ladies!
This is going to be long but listen to him speak without bias because he speaks too direct some people get lost in anger and don’t understand. 1. The women lied to him and said she can’t have kids 2. He told the women he didn’t want to have kids and she still had his child but people are saying "how can you abandon your child" 3. He admitted that he was wrong on how he handled the situation with his child and trying to fix that situation because he is just repeating the cycle 4. I don’t know why people are attacking him because it’s sad but because of his trauma he has no emotions 5. He is not making excuses at all but he is explaining why he is the way he is and if you listen it makes sense 6. When he says I don’t give a fuck he is trying to say he can’t feel and if you listen you understand why 7. When she tells him he’s wrong he agrees 8. The man admitted that he is realizing that he cannot be this cold in life and wants/needs to change 9. People with fake PhDs he is not a narcissist or he wouldn’t be able to admit his wrongs or flaws 10. He just doesn’t know how to properly express himself and doesn’t help that he is too honest and direct when he speaks Reading the comments people are mad at him because of how cold he is and make it into a "men like this " topic, when it should be a "childhood trauma" topic because they are men and women like him. Personally, if I went through what he did, I would of been either an angry and cold individual also and the people saying they wouldn’t are liars.
I don't feel like this Don is doing this for the reason he's saying. Lots of "me, me, me, I, I, I " He's trying to use 'honesty' to excuse his evil behaviour.
As much as I don’t agree with what he’s saying, I 100% understand it. This just shows the effect of childhood trauma, mental health and how we need to ensure we work through issues.
Castillo presents as personality disordered. Im not sure what the producers of this show have in mind for the features but I truly hope they refer/signpost him to appropriate therapists, a person Castillo could trust to see him through the healing process. The level of emotional violence Castillo puts out there is scary and there are so many victims in his story! I hope the people in the child's life do all they can to protect them from seeing this series.
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