That "wife" didn't know how lucky she was. Many, many women would love the chance to be in a relationship with Mr. Firth. A truly charming and smart man.
It is said, that one does not know what one has, until it is gone. Relationships are great, but no relationship is perfect. Relationships require love, patience, and much more. Relationships are work.
@@IWantToMature85 seriously how many times do you forgive a cheater? She will keep cheating. Once a cheater always a cheater. Maybe you can live that way. I certainly wouldn't.
The couple so obviously had completely different personalities. He was a dreamer and his love for her was living in a dream: learning her language, entering her world - but not her mindset. They were clearly in love but not soulmates. Life is like that. Not everyone gets the Double Fantasy...and even those who get it - there is always the time limit.
Breaks my heart to hear this because he's such a great guy. He doesn't deserve this. None of us done. My ex-husband cheated on me and even when I had all the evidence he wouldn't confess because he wouldn't give me satisfaction of admitting it. It was still about control. Well, that was fine. Made it so easy to divorce him.
I know the feeling. It’s like entering a black hole 🕳 and you feel numb. Just call me Alice because I sure felt like her falling down the hole and you feel like it’s never coming to an end. I hope your in a much better place in time. Within time time heals all wounds.❤️
How would anyone cheat on Colin Firth? He's so humble, lovely and extremely talented. I'm lucky enough to have a signed photo he sent me years back. What a human!
That was exactly why she cheated on him. It is seen many many times before. He seems like a fantastic guy, but many women for some reason I never will understand needs to be with a rebel with a criminal record and tattoos.
It's impossible to overcome the betrayal when your spouse is a narcissistic abuser who think he/she has the right to satisfy his/her desires over the feelings of others.
I’m sorry you feel this way, I hope one day you do find a way for your sake. I can share with you that I have, I am happily remarried and have full trust in my husband. I’m only sharing this to offer you hope. Best to you!
@@donnasulja6038 thank you for your kind and thoughtful words, honestly they touched me. However, I find it ironic , the woman who betrayed me was named Donna.
Livia was shady. Imagine accusing your lover of being a stalker because you want to conceal an affair. Colin obviously must have believed his wife was being stalked/harassed because he got the police involved to find that he wasn’t a stalker but his wife’s actual ex lover. The humiliation and embarrassment his wife put him through. Then to pay out a settlement. The lies. I’m glad they have moved passed it. And remain friends.
I remember feeling shook when I heard they had divorced after so many years. I guess you never know what is going on in a relationship unless you are in it. I hope they both find happiness. I adore Colin and he seems like such a decent guy.
Well I think it seems something you could get over in a long marriage. Seems ego and pride got in the way. Why else wouldn't they stay together if they weren't being selfish?
I'm not normally invested in celebrity marriage dramas. However, I feel deeply sorry that this happened, especially after so long together. I understand how tough modern marriage can be, so there is no judgement. I honestly hope Colin Firth doesn't bear a scarr too deep to overcome. I wish them both and their children all the very best for the future.
@@RumourJuice You said yourself they were separated at that point of their lives. How is that cheating or ''betrayal'' then? Do you not follow your own stories?
@@colinfirth5582 ever since I saw you in Bridget Jones. Before that a Single Man- gorgeous film. Girl with a pearl Earring- stunning. Quite recently Pride & Prejudice- Best adaption!, yet to see The King’s speech. Everything you do is memorizing! Yes I would love to receive anything from you. BTW, Visiting London is next of my list. Keep doing what you do!
@@susannconnelly7826 sound great, I feel honored and overwhelmed to read this from you. To honor your compliment you can drop where I can reach you through social media here and I promise to chat you up
How could you cheat on Colin Firth . He is a lovely man , I could listen to his voice all day. I just don't understand anybody who has a married really nice decent person and cheats on them. He doesn't deserve it.
I know, he's one person who deserves a fairy tale reality I feel... he creates that vibe and feeling for so many people clearly in his films- that real decent people do exist! Not to speak ill of anyone, just betrayal bothers me, especially to nice people!
What a great fan thanks, you are honoured and overwhelmed to read this from you. To honor your compliment you can drop where I can reach you through social media I promise to chat you up. Love & hug and stay safe
@@colinfirth5582 Whoever you are, stop pretending to be Colin Firth. Colin does not have ANY social media accounts. He is an extremely private person. You are not Colin Firth. You are a faker. You are a liar. You are spam. I have reported you.
@@cremebrulee4759 i don't have social media either, i wouldn't answer to this comment anyway..... i reported him too, thanks for caring, greets from Greece❤
Livia had no qualms in hurting first Colin, then her lover. Men of the world, if you're ever in a relationship with a woman like this who cavalierly hurts multiple parties and your relationship fails, thank your lucky stars for freeing you from a bad one. You can now move on to someone better. Colin handled this entire situation with so much class.
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I was 15 and 19 when we married. I loved this person with all my heart. Once he admitted adultery I was finished. I got rid 1 year later. He broke something that couldn't be fixed ever.
We tend to forget how fragile a relationship is when we’re in it and take each other for granted. Unfortunately once the trust is broken there’s little that can be done to repair the relationship, let alone go back to how it use to be. Wish him lots of love and happiness.
Affairs can be overcome - transitory illicit lust can be forgiven & forgotten... However...when two people come face to face with the fact they need different things from life than each other: that is irreconcilable. A dreamer and a realist, for example, sooner or later will realize they are not soulmates. And if the Almighty and Personal God is not the center of their union...is there even a union of any depth to be able to be saved?
@@sharonjensen3016It would seem so but I can assure you that one can rebuild trust. It takes a while and both parties must go out of their way to be open and transparent in a real way. If you are willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work I believe it can be done.
I just love Colin Firth, he seems like such a decent down to earth guy. I wish him and his family all the best of happiness whether they work it out or not.
When I saw Colin Firth on "Pride and Prejudice" I thought he was the most handsome man I had ever seen! then again in the musical "Phantom of the Opera" a gentleman one hundred percent. I am so sorry his wife and mother of his children betrayed him. I wish Colin Firth a wonderful life moving forward and true happiness he deserves.
When Colin said that the marriage “was going to go on forever”, he looked away and shut his eyes, which makes me think he wasn’t so certain about what he’d just said. Sad that their marriage didn’t last x
She removed some dignity to herself in doing what she did to her husband and to her children… her boys. Destroy a marriage of 22 years because an stupid affair???? That’s insanity there… such a handsome and great guy, who didn’t deserve that.
@@MsElke11 So now it's HIS fault for her having cheated on him?! lol Get a hobby, learn to be content by valuing the things you have instead of those you don't, keep yourself busy with healthy things that make you feel good, be whole yourself and understand that passion does not last forever and MUST be replaced with true love and respect - plus it's not like he wasn't already like that when she met him. :) Modern women need to realize that men are not circus clowns put on this world with the sole purpose of entertaining them.
@@jessg101 bullshit. I have never ever seen any reports of him being gay. Where was that? National Enquirer 🙄. I have looked all over the internet and put in multi type searches and not found one rumour anywhere that he is gay.
@@Sunshine-nq6wv Thanks for your love and support from New Zealand. I’m forever grateful for all the love you have been showing me. How long have you been my fan?
No one knows what goes on within a marriage, and no one is perfect. Also, people grow apart, and Colin spent a lot of time away filming on location. However, Colin seems like a truly good, kind, and caring person. He does a lot of work with groups like Oxfam and uses his fame to help promote these good causes. He does so without any fanfare or publicity. He remained on good terms with Meg Tilly after they split up. In fact, their spouses and children were friends, and they stayed at each other's houses. It is said that he sent an email to Livia's lover sympathizing with him because Colin knew that he had been hurt also. It is said that the story of them being separated was created in order to make Livia look like less of a villain. As with Meg Tilly, he has remained on good terms with Livia. That speaks to an extraordinary level of character on his part. I admire and adore him. Many of his female co-stars have said that he is an excellent kisser. What I wouldn't give to find that for myself.
This is what happens when people think they can always get better or more excitement with someone else after so many years of marriage ..but that excitement will fade and what u will have left is a broken relationship and a all lot of regrets for ruining the one true thing u had going !! His a great guy and he will move on and find someone that I hope truly deserves a good man like him !!
@@colinfirth6235 sometimes bad things happen so that good things can fall in place ,you are a great man and you will find a better woman and have an amazing life ahead
@@laurac.b.devlin8605 Thanks for your love and support from Pennsylvania. I’m forever grateful for all the love you have been showing me. How long have you been my fan?
@@colinfirth9732 so kind of you really. 25 years? i just go with you, especially in a single man. showing us something you know inside that we all can know. i believe you and dont think abt acting, i am with you, but at the same time it awakens love for you personally. the balcony scene in love actually when you are vulnerable and its just love carrying your spirit across that arc between the two. i cant think of a film where you let us down. thanks for giving yourself to us. thank you for writing me, im very surprised.
@@laurac.b.devlin8605 It fills my heart with joy knowing you have been supporting me for many years now. I’m forever grateful. I will love to create a warm atmosphere to know your opinions and thoughts about my movies
How could she be trusted again. Betrayal comes from a deep character flaw. “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me”. If you get cheated on, move on and never expose yourself to a second betrayal It’s good they stayed friends but that doesn’t require trust.
Once is enough to say "We're done." Letting it slide after one indiscretion is stating the obvious: "Sure, it's okay, treat me like a door mat". Wrong, wrong, wrong! No second chances.
Yo creo que él no lo ha superado todavía. Le encuentro una mirada triste. Recuerdo haber leído que él fue el primer amor de su mujer y que el tampoco había tenido muchas parejas.
haha do you realize our infatuation with him does not mean it is easy to share life with him? Both sides are challenged to make it work.. Being with an actor is not being with his movie characters...
Watch some videos where they appear together on the red carpets. Livia was constantly interrupting Colin and he, as famous as he is, was standing next to her all quiet like a little puppy and couldn't get a word in. Livia even said that, due to Colin's connection, she had access to celebrities for her brand. I believe Colin is such a good soul, he might be somewhat codependent and she took advantage.
Notice near the beginning of this video where they're on the red carpet or something and Colin leans into her to kiss her lips and she turns to catch his kiss on her cheek? How you see in some of the clips of them together he tends to lean toward her but you don't see her lean to him? That's something to look for with all couples.
I remember hearing about this at the time, and thinking: “this is what Jon Stewart refers to as a Cluster F#*K”. She has an affair…then to cover that up she creates another lie that he’s a stalker. Obviously, being in the Movie Industry, and caring about his Wife’s safety, Colin gets the Police involved, and THEY are the ones who have to tell him the truth. Well…for the sake of a fling she ruined her life, her marriage and, I suspect to some degree, her relationship with her children. If you can’t be happy with Colin Firth, I’d suggest you probably need a good therapist. Jeezuzz…give your head a shake. I hope CF can find healing and happiness, and move on to new projects and a new love.
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Toxic vile woman. Just leave if you're not happy, it's not like she would be poor and struggling. What a corrupt mind she has to accuse stalking to cover her betrayal. Karma will pay her a visit.
I have always had a huge crush on him since BJD days. Cant believe he was cheated but then marriages are so complex and from outside things are so different. The worst thing one can do is cheat and lie to your spouse. Respect each other and leave when the unhappiness becomes unbearable and avoid the pain of cheating
Only the two people know what really goes on in a marriage.I wouldnt be so quick to condemn the wife.No woman in their right mind would cheat unless her needs have not been met.
Oh, Colin... I was leaning against a wall in a Hollywood Theater, where you happened to be right behind me. You were waiting to be introduced for a Q&A after one of your film screenings. I know you'll never read this... but I am a one-man woman who finds herself, rarely, attracted to anyone... but you sure did it for me! *sigh* Okay, carry on...
This is just too sad. I saw the two of them together on a train to London once looking happy, in the early years, then Colin came into my workplace quite recently with his dad and really looked quite lonely. I went to school with him long before he was famous, but l didn’t say anything to him. We just don’t in England - each to their own.
Every woman alive would be honored to have someone as smitten as he was with this woman. I have been divorced and there are always two sides, but his are invisible to me.
He was waaaaay out of her league to start with and she cheats on him???!!! The only way that would add up is if he had been cheating on her and she pulled a fast one on him as revenge, to be able to ultimately stay in the marriage, considering there's two kids involved. Without them, she should have just left, if that was the case.
❤️Thanks for your endless love and support you have constantly shown me. I can’t appreciate the unconditional love I have gotten from fans, which for this very reason has got me giving a more sensational entertainment. I’m forever grateful. Where are you watching from?
This reminds me of what happened to Jason Sudeikis after long-time love Olivia Wilde took off for Harry Styles. The sense of betrayal is hard to wash off.
He's such a transparently nice guy. She seems nice too. Just a shame it couldn't last. Taking a "break" never seems to work. If you love each other, stick it out and fight.
Relationships are difficult, period. Not to mention living in the spotlight. Glad the Firth’s can be friends for their kids and so glad he’s friends with S. Tucci!
if we remember in most of Colins famous movies, he would always be the one who was betrayed/ left/ cheated on. sad it happened in real life, but Colin is my ultimate british idol, he will find love soon
O-M-G...how could she, was she mad? I feel most sorry for her! Getting over such a man as he may not be easy as she may believe. Who could measure up to him?
@@colinfirth9732 Thanx so much Mr. Firth, for such a thoughtful reply, to be treasured by me always! Yes, you've fans in Brooklyn, N.Y. Promise us that you'll continue your very fine work. Thank you, now keep going on with it, we looking forward to much more from you!
@@BeveC21E whoever this is, it is not Colin Firth. It is someone pretending to be him. Colin Firth does not have any social media accounts. He is a very private person. Check with his publicist, if you don't believe me. This person that you are talking to is a liar.
@Tom Reedy Then she never deserved him in the first place! There's a line of women ready to worship his attention and affection! Now...if I could just find the end of that line...
It has always been obvious that Colin has more class and integrity than Livia. I was introduced to them one evening long ago at the Royal Academy and was left extremely underwhelmed by her. She was cold, distant, skinny and unappealing. Of course, she could have just had an off-night; it was an impression that remained, however. I hope that he has found happiness with Ms Gosling or with someone warmer and more charismatic than Livia.
Colin Firth did NOT deserve this betrayal. Love you Colin, you are a fine man. She does not deserve your trust. Hope life will be good to you in the future.
❤️Thanks for your endless love and support you have constantly shown me. I can’t appreciate the unconditional love I have gotten from fans, which for this very reason has got me giving a more sensational entertainment. I’m forever grateful. Where are you watching from?
I admire Colin Firth and his ability to truly be the bigger person. He has never done or said anything which might tarnish or harm his ex. Livia on the other hand is sick. What an absolute weirdo to lie, take to court and publicly denounce your childhood friend/lover. Someone who watched way too many soap operas for sure.
None of ‘us’ are inside THEIR marriage. What drove her to seek affection in someone else? Was he filming too much away from home? Was his attention on his career instead of family? We don’t know and will never know. Just because a couple is ‘beautiful’ doesn’t mean their life is beautiful. Just because Mr. Firth plays characters of men that women (including me!) would certainly fall in love with, doesn’t mean he is a gem to live with daily. Any marriage with children that falls apart is sad. All the money and fame and success can’t help a marriage with flaws. And what marriage DOESN’T have a flaw?
Your comment is the most decent fair and compassionate of all the rest here.....people speak a lot of nonsense out of envy and ignorance.....you are a good caring soul 💖
Rumor has it that the story that they were on a break was something that was created to make her look like less of a villain. That's the kind of gentleman that he is.
Stupid woman. To lose such a man! Not only so handsome, but also clearly a devoted husband and father who really loved her. He believed the relationship would go on forever.. gosh what a fool this woman is! I’m sure she’s kicking herself every day.
@@rumblefish9 humbug. If you're neglected, disrespected and/or unhappy in a relationship, it's better to leave than to cheat. That's only adding fuel to the toxicity