As an INFP, if I have eye contact with anybody I'd just turn my eyes as fast as I can and pretend it never happened xD (jk I'd stay all night thinking about how awkward it was)
YES. I just try to looking on something else or someone else, to try make them think "Oh, he wasn't just staring on me, I just thought he was a creep."
entp has annoying cuteness while infp has innocent cuteness. i had infp brother and i always take care of him like my little bro. i never had experience with entp yet, i always think they are fun companion like dogs. -intj
us Ne users can be quite telepathic while staring at eachother, like, understand that we came up with the same idea. or at least it was how it worked with my friend group composed by an ENFP, ESFJ, INTP and ENTP (me) I tried the same with Ni users and they got mad thinking I was just trying to creep them out. an INFJ once thought I was simping for him while I was just trying to get his attention from the other side of the classroom to see if something that the teacher said reminded him the same thing it reminded me of. poor deluded soul
Ni users can be very telepatic as well when they stare at each other but they just work differently from Ne users in the sense that they're introverted so they don't show it to everybody so freely. If you never talked to them nor established more than a standard classmate relationship before that and start acting this way, they're not going to understand why you act so intimately with them. But in their circle of friends it can happen frequently. Also INFJs specifically hate being the center of attention, it's like the end of the world for them. Of course no introvert likes that but they naturally prefer letting others shine. It causes them a lot of anxiety. They're at ease when they can stay on the background in the mass.
@@kyurei4478 I see what you mean, but it's def not all about showing your intuition or not. Ne isn't just "intuition that you show" as well as Ni isn't just "intuition that you keep to yourself" they are two ways to rework informations. Damn, I would never say more than 30% than what my Ne is cooking in my head unless I'm in theraphy💀. Ne users as they are also Si users like to pick up and rewind little details that to Ni- Se users aren't useful or valuable as they are more focused on the present and how to use what it offers for the future. we connect things mostly in a different way, so it's most likely that a bunch Ne/Si users might pick up similar things from the same conversion and make similar connections. Ni/Se users might do the same with eachother idk, but they might not even understand what Ne/Si where "eyeing" about and why would they do that, it might even take something away from the concrete experience that they're living in that moment, it's likely for them to find it pointless. But of course, I'm quite generalizing things here, I couldn't make this point without doing so since it can also depend on how well people might know each other. As you said, types like INFJs if they're not close with someone whose acting that way they might get uncomfortable and/or confused. but it wasn't the case as I wasn't talking about someone who I had a regular classmates relationship with, we were pretty close and knew each other since we were kids. when it came to emotions I wasn't consciously showing he picked it up and always texted me about it in minutes, when it comes to using Fe they can be quite telephatic. I can see how sometimes in that position not only maybe you're uncomfortable with other people's eyes on you but as an Fe user myself, you're also pressured to understand what the other person means and if you don't you might disappoint them. for us to disappoint someone can be hard as they might not rely on us the same way ever and it might hurt their feelings , for a Fe aux it could likely be worst than for me, an Fe tert. I must say that if I don't get what someone was implying with the stare or whatever sign they're sending what my cognitive stack is best at is quickly making up a random meaning that will satisfy them enough and maybe make them laught. While Ni is not meant for fast thinking, it's long term intuition, they might use Se to make a distraction if it's too awkward or just be straight to the point, which I literally can't do. I find riddles and staring signs more satisfying even if they don't end well.
As an ne user i thought my ne was weird already but ni is also a different kind of weird. The slight difference between me & my ni dom friend is that she tries to hide it so as to come off 'normal', for lack of a better word while my ne just oozes out without even meaning to, it needs an outlet lol
@@rebellius_9190 I didn't say it was all about showing your intuition or not. That's definitely not what I said. I said it was a difference between the two. Both rework informations in an opposite way. Ni users wouldn't say more about all the things their mind is actually thinking about either to be honest. That's not exactly true. Ni users also like to pick up little details that they can use in the present situation. They consider it more useful and valuable and what it offers in the present moment where they see it and are more focused on the future comparatively to Ne users. N users in general just get each other pretty well. It's really an instinctive connection. We connect things in the exact same way actually, we just process the information in an opposite way. It's just that we won't prioritize the same things so everything an Ne/Si user will connect, you can be certain the Ni/Se will have considered it at some point because it's still N and S at the end of the day. Indeed they make similar connections between them. Well, Ne users don't seem eyeing in a particular direction in general to me but more in multiple ones, that would be a more Ni thing to do so the opposite might be more realistic I guess. But Ni also see different possibilities so you can be sure they would at least definitely understand doing that since their brain does it too. Ni users are rarely living a concrete experience in the moment to be fair. They're always more focused on the future than Ne users are so that's certainly not a problem. They might even find it helpful for the future on the contrary. Ni users are aiming for finding the best possibilities so more possibilities inherently makes more options to find the best ones. Of course, I get you but actually you could also try to make a general point on how it is when people know each other. That's not the case only for INFJ, that's more an Ni general thing cause N is introverted. But it's just like Ne users might get unconfortable or confused if someone doesn't act this way, as you were apparently. And even if they get it. Ok I see. I was just supposing since I didn't know your relationship and that would have been a standard reaction for a Ni you're not close with. Well I guess your INFJ friend just doesn't know you that well or you actually made him unconfortable for different reasons, not necessarely because your friend didn't understand what you were doing but maybe because you were exposing your friend as I said because they don't like being the center of attention. Yes when it comes to emotions they can be very telepathic as well because of Fe which is very empathetic so it can bring different capabilities such as predicting the future of someone and so on. Indeed it's certain that as a high Fe user, disappointing your friends is a major concern, especially for Ni users who want to find the correct answer. But if you're good at making the INFJ relax, they might open to throw out more possibilities. But for an introvert, I can definitely say that having eyes on you is the primary concern, and it's even something the INFJ doesn't like beyond introversion as I explained. They have the impostor syndrome. Yes Fe users don't want to disappoint and it can affect them deeply if it happens. That's even probably one of the major reasons why they act so kindly so people know they can count on them. Oh, I see what you mean with that and actually it makes sense but that's not really the case. Ni seek to understand and find the right answer very seriously so when they don't get what someone was implying, they're more likely to just say it because they eagerly want to understand what is the deal. They don't particularly want to avoid the situation by making you laugh for exemple, they seriously want the answer. It's not really that they can't make up random meanings it's just that they simply don't want to most of the time. Ni users work differently in the sense that they prepare well thought responses based on their past experiences in case they need to use it so they don't have to find something on the fly. It will work out pretty similarly in actuality in the same situations. Ne users will probably be better at finding something quickly but I would say that Ni users will probably be better at making up something more credible because it would have been better thought out, precisely because Ni is better at long term intuition as you said. Ne is usually more about quantity and Ni more about quality for everything they do. I don't see them use Se though. They don't like to use it after all. If they use Se that will be more if they have no script prepared for the situation and have no choice but to invent something on the fly that will fit the situation, something that they can't really do. They can also use their secondary function for that, it depends. Ni users will prefer to solve riddles and tend to find staring signs rather cringe and unconfortable even when they get what the real intention was behind it I would say.
@@kyurei4478 “Find the correct answer” I think you are talking about Xnfj, not Ni dom. That is not something Te is interested in. Just look at how furiously they defend their beliefs just because they fit in well with the other stuff. Just because they work well.
As an infj I would probably see through the intend behind it and give him an eye roll or a sassy "does that normally work for ya" kinda expression. If he wants to play...lets play. 🤣
Omg that's so much accurate XD He's like me whenever everytime i don't notice what's around me XD... Btw: i don't hate INFPs i think they're fine but on same time i don't really like them because they don't have my type of humor or they don't like me so much beacuse they think i am annoying...
@Hazel Trudey. Oh as i see somebody must've read my book called *"in the hole: the ultimate guide for losers to get in"* Then you must have big experience's... Bro your a man of culture...
@Hazel Trudey. Thanks honey you too and i am not mad just saying... If you want any proof i will say this... i don't have any proof, BUT you need to trust my word's that i am chilling right now and smoking some good sh*t 🌬️🚬 🤤👍
(I'm tired of saying as an infp so I'm trying something different, not like anybody would care anyways but I felt like mentioning this) I always bump into ppl it's not even funny at this point 😭😭😭I always feel bad and apologize but most of the time the ppl I bump into can't hear me and I'm worried that I might seem like a pick me girl bc once I bump into someone that means I'm likely to bump into 10-20 more people in a row. Also as for the eye contact whenever I find myself staring at someone I'm usually zoned out then I realize that I'm looking their way when they look at me which makes me feel embarrassed and I look away as I scan around the room as if I discovered a new continent avoiding all possible eye contact with the specific person I made eye contact with (then I die inside later thinking about how that person might think I was romantically staring at them) edit: I forgot to do the " - infp "
thats sweet :3333 although, as selfish as it sounds; I wish I could trust people enough to have that kind of friendship/relationship to. but we all have what we have, and should see the value in it, im grateful for it :) - inxj
