A recent study showed that 1 out of 3 people in a relationship is cheating ... So I've just got to figure out if it's my lover or my wife ... - Moscow, Russia
Might put it as unconditional flirting...regardless of age or sex...not fully there with gender yet...at almost 66 y.o. that be might the one too many spots for this leopard to change...😉😎
I agree with Jim’s comment. Last week I gave superficial feedback about Anna’s eyeliner in a video, with mea culpas. This look is so much stronger. It brings out her Canadian wholesomeness we southerners (USA) adore. Great video, BTW.
Anna, I've read books and listened to your videos and others over and over, educating myself to the way women think. It worked, too well. Now I have a problem...women are lining up to date me. Here is the issue...I can't stomach hurting these women's feelings as I date and have to reject in favor or the best ones, which are the high quality women you talk about in your videos. What do I do now? I'm not a player or douchebag, as you may have guessed.
You have to be a man and pick out who you want in your life. As in who is the best compatible woman for you. That is why you date. Each of those women probably have at the least five guys in their phones. They especially have them have as friends to make sure they always have someone ok. The back burner. Compatibility is better than looks, believe me. You will have an easier time with someone who is compatible with you.
Once you 'get married' - a loyer scam - congratulations! You are now a douchebag. Save your money and you will never be lonely or 'unattractive' - except to lesbians.
*7 things to quit for all Alpha Male:* 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not prioritizing your health 4. Wasting your precious time 5. Chasing meaningless relationships 6. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 7. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list. If you did, what was it?
Those are all things for Beta's to quit, an Alpha can't quit them because an Alpha doesn't do them generally. I agree that nail biting is a negative but you seriously exaggerate it's effects. Long and/or dirty fingernails are just as bad. Masturbation is actually good for you as long as it's not compulsive. There are benefits that go beyond "relief" particularly if you have no other "outlet" at the time. Those released hormones are powerful, but useful also. Masturbation a few times a week IS BENEFICIAL to your virility, vigor and control. It's only bad when you do it excessively. Not doing it at all will make you a 60 second man if that. You want to be in the 20-30 minute range. Bet your ass, young Hugh Hefner, masturbated regularly before all that Playboy stuff became a thing. He seemed to do just fine I'd say.
My only input on this would be to question #5. You have to be able to define what is meaningful to do this. I've encountered very few that can even begin to put this into perspective. I agree with the statement, sure... It's more the application that I question.
The way tou talk with your eyes is amazing. I'm here to try and better myself to be able to meet someone and now I want to meet you. I'll just throw that one out into the universe. She's out there. Thank you.
Dudes I've done the glint in both eyes exactly like she did in the video and it totally works! Everything else not so much and I would stay away from it.
this is really good. I've done this on a few occasions and gotten lucky, into relationships. with the cutest girls. of course, unfortunately, I'm not a mind-reader. and ended up with betrayers. love your whole look you've got going on there. you look great!! like a beautiful auntie ;p (pretty sure that's what you're going for too - don't want unwanted focus. well executed) ;)
Wow! Tried it with my dating app and it worked immediately! I can't remember if you did one for Dating Apps but a refresher video would be nice Anna as online interaction is different then face-to-face! Anyway, keep 'em coming....😘
From my upbringing i learned the 'mirror technique' as a man because i spent alot of time in my mothers motherhen environment and listening to her and grandmother talk about stuff. Dad was not there because of divorce and stepdad was oppressive. And i was/am autistic, stubborn naive innocence. The few times i've attracted women to me was when my mind wasn't in the frame of 'impressing others' and instead enjoying the glow & happiness gained from an achievement or learning new things, finally getting to taste mastery over myself in certain fields. Literal second i noticed women were attracted to this is usually when i automatically close off my heart and turn on the Mirror technique again, because no Mastery had been developed in 'Flirting'.
I did not have a bratty little sister. I had a very dangerous and angry older sister. She took after our dad. My first reaction has always been self protection. So flirting has been difficult. Recognizing flirting has also been difficult.
Thanks Wingman , you have great advice. we have lost our social skills. Since mobile devices aka cellular phones. At my work on lunch break, nobody talks ever one on there phone. No people skills. Keep up the good work. I appreciate your efforts. Donald
I once got a girl by telling her she was going to be my woman one day. She said "Oh really, what makes you think that?" So I told her why I thought that and it worked.
She has such a quick and complex wit. I don't watch her videos for any practical reason, having been married these past 47 years with every prospect of remaining so until my Y chromosome puts me south of the sod. She always makes me laugh, though. I'd spend 15 minutes listening to her read the phone book ... and enjoy it.
@@YourWingmam (I'm British / English - so cut me some slack when I comment): Your voice always reminds me of 'Wilma' out of the Flintstones - you know the always calm one who's overall in charge of all us naughty boys - lol. Thank you for being such a good laugh - and a fantastic source of dispassionate information.
I really appreciate your video’s. I just found this channel and loving it. I appreciate your insight with a positive spin. I hope this channel takes off!
Better: Hi, how's your day going so far? Practice conversation with a lot of random non-intimidating women so you're more comfortable when you meet one who is. :)
After listening to the first few minutes of this video I found myself exhausted by all the dos and don’t. I think I’m better off just being single and should continue to focus on my own needs and wants outside of the relationship world.
the truth is that really attractive women are not that many and they realize how powerful and influential they could be over men, but in order to get such women you should constantly improve and get better and even then it is not guaranteed you're gonna get and hold such woman :D world is crazy nowadays
That point about whether the woman is attracted in the first place is one some guys don't seem to get. I have seen two guys use the same line on a woman and one got slapped and the other, well, she basically fell to her knees and begged to have his love-child...
Where do I begin. This is alot so I’ll keep it as brief as possible. Met a girl 3 1/2 years ago. We went on some dates and then she flat out said she wasn’t ready to date at the time. Which basically is the friendzone. Sad day because I really like her. We’re coworkers and after she established this dating boundary she still maintained her flirty nature and breaks the touch barrier all the time. She has shown signs of interest over the last few years but I’ve never made the move to ask her out again because I figured if she changed her mind the ball is in her court and she would tell me. But no. Women will never make the first move even when it’s appropriate for them to do so. Recently she’s been very flirty and touchy feely. To a point she touches my arm, shoulders, and even came up to me the other day and playfully ran into me rubbing her body against mine. She asks me numerous times a week if I have any fun plans for my weekend. Based off our history with her boundary but flirty nature, I just brush it off. But since she asks it so frequently I wonder if she truly is wanting me to ask her out again. There has to be something there. I know she’s had some not so good experiences with guys in the past and she’s extremely hesitant to start anything with anyone. Understandable. That being said, she can’t live in fear. Nobody can. She’s established to her friends that she has to be friends with a guy before she dates them. I’ve known her for a couple of years and wonder if she’s changed her mind. It’s a complicated situation but it doesn’t have to be. I’m going somewhere with her Tuesday so I’ll see if I can’t make some more future plans.
I think one has to be careful with the touching thing. Some guys I've seen don't seem to realize that she doesn't want THEM to be touching her and they are trying to control her like you would a horse...usually ends up with a complaint to HR in the end or finally a slap/getting a male friend or husband to indicate if they don't knock it off there will be painful consequences....
Hey! Love your channel, and videos like this really help with figuring out how to flirt, now I'm working on building the confidence! I do have a question though... Do you have any videos or are you willing to make one (or a series) geared for those of us who are celibate till marriage?
Thank you so much for watching and for the question! First, here's a playlist on Confidence: ru-vid.com/group/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnXVCTKU7yEavRdpEfMKK52 Next, question noted! :) I assume I can say, God bless! :))
Where do I find info on your "Wake up to love" program? This might get through to someone I know. Or not, but I think it would be a good start for him.
if ur tall and attractive, pretty much anything u say will be deemed as good flirting the less attractive u are and less confident u are, the more on point every single word has to be
@YourWingmam np it's great that it trying to help ppl improve. it's just important to know where u stand. I know this because I was that good looking guy at uni who could say basically anything and women giggled and blushed. when I tried to coach some mates who were struggling I quickly realised my looks played a bigger part than my words. they could not get away with what I got away with saying. what worked better with them was confidence and social proofing
Many men lose their trust , which should be visceral and irrational within yourself as a man just for going behind women that aren’t actually attracted to them , then face the rejection, and your confidence breaks in little tiny pieces Guys, you’d be surprise how EASY will make it for you the woman that actually like you , you’ll put no effort,I think women and love” is the only thing in this life you can’t be greedy at , do it with progress ,excellence , business, sport, but with women? Being greedy wanting every women ? Nothing good come out of it
Goodness gracious, it's a surprise advice attack :O Thought this would not arrive till 10 am my time and I'd be out! My brain's not real sharp at this hour but I took in the 3 T's and will come back to nail the details into my head. I don't suppose the need for flirting ever goes away entirely? Even if you've known the broad for years and even gotten lucky? I've lately watched a lot of Craig Ferguson interviews with actresses who volunteer to be flirted with, and gather it's just a flat-out fun activity for them as well... whether he means it or not :D
Something she doesn't bring up that's important here is that you can't really fake these things. You can't just tease a girl if you're feeling like you really want her attention and are attracted to her. It doesn't work that way. The tease only works if you really are actually uncertain if you want her or not. You won't get someone who isn't already otherwise attracted to you 99 times out of 100, no matter what you do. Attraction is not something that can really be gamed. It would be terrible for the species if it were. The techniques she brings up here and things like 'trying to get out of the friend-zone' etc are kind of disingenuous TBH If you talk to someone of a compatible sexuality with you and you get along really well with them you probably will be touching them or they you without you having to think about it beforehand. It will just happen. If you feel trusting of them and/or they of you then digs at each other will also probably start manifesting if either of you are amenable to that. It is almost an automatic process.
I respect what you say but I think it comes down to not trying to flirt with her because if you try it’s basically trying to impress her and that is we’re your start getting nervous the point is to not try and do something because it only comes out forced and you start looking like try hard
Im slim and fit , have a good income.can afford and have lots of nice clothes shoes , ties ,etc! get lots of complements about how i dress . even job offers for sales etc. BUT to find women in the 50 years old bracket usually they have a man . I workout and diet for me first and foremost, they are out there but hard to find. i will not give up.
If I have to debate whether or not I would have sex, It's a no. Chemistry is important. I went out and groped my date and it was not arousing, which goes back to me debating if I should approach in the first place and my last date was a hit in the body department but I could not deal with her attitude which was one sided interest. Took a loss.
Ok, if you would let me say, you nailed this. I met my wife a bunch of years ago at a Duran Duran concert. We both caught each other glancing at each other a bunch of times, and it proceeded from just that, to glancing and tacking on a slight grin, to me tossing in a grin with a wink. When a slow song (Ordinary World) came on, i walked over to her and asked her if she would like to dance, and we danced to that song in the aisle (FYI i kept my arm just below her shoulder blades, not diving down lol). I went back to my seat after the dance, but we each visually let the other know we were interested. We talked after the concert, exchanged phone numbers, and the rest is history. I remember the first 2 dates ended with me just kissing her on the cheek (i knew i had something good & didn't want to rush her, it also added some tension on both of our parts i think too lol). Great upload, always nice to see a woman helping out the guys.
the smile and wink has served me well many times before I even approach a woman who has made eye contact and shown signs at bars, public places. It can be a bit tricky though, bc i am 6'6 and tend to have people staring at me when i walk in to places bc I am "so tall." If they smile, its game on, if they don't, then I know its not worth my time. Don't do it every time, but it generally gives me an idea of what type of woman I may be dealing with before I approach.
@@YourWingmam Love❤️ your videos…I keep forwarding them to my boy who is back in the dating scene after a long hiatus from a long term relationship that fizzled out..great guy but you can’t show up on the first date with roses😳🤨 Your more than a wingman in my book…more like the engineer who designed the wing and threw in a parachute for good measure 😁👍🏾
I read the game and the code (woman’s marriage book) just to understand the energies when I see them. What I didn’t like about PUA is the ‘neg’ even though it would probably work. Just don’t need to knock someone down to have her want to prove herself by sleeping with me. So I’ve made sure not to point out someone’s flaws to make them self conscious. However I am a little too honest if asked a direct question so one is asking for my input and the other is me inputting to put it in. 🤪
i saw girl working at a coffee shop , i walk up to her i ask what her name is, she tells me, i ask what type of muffins she has she tells me. I say what puts a smile on your face? She says what? I say what are in the brownies? She says what puts a smile on my face? I say for me it's when i come home my dog runs up to me jumps into my arms. What about you? She tells me what's in the brownies. Did i impress her? She caught the line but then i change the subject was did i impress her
I was being chased by women because I have a tendency for too much eye contact. Someone was a breath of fresh air, or they did something I liked. I'm just a genuine person, I meant nothing sexual about it. It was totally innocent. But the ladies didn't think so./// Then as always, I crashed and burned at the next level.
I think I would rather take you out for a ride...it can be done indoors, your place or mine...or we can go camping 😎 I'll listen to your deepest thoughts quietly and without distraction...Why be the wingman, if you can be the "win woman" 🥳🥰
@@YourWingmam This video has made me reflect on a 35 year old mystery. I feel rotten, but it may just answer what was behind a very embarrassing meltdown. Oh boy!
A reminder how I was never a fan of the dating process or the Dynamics of dating and attraction because the way it looks like, guys, men, need to know or learn all of these social skills or social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, have certain social behaviors, have certain talking and communication ability, have a certain lifestyle, because initiating interaction or approaching, getting her attracted to you during the conversation or interaction, flirting, also leading and taking the lead is all social behavior based or social skills based, behavioral aspect based. Along with have a certain lifestyle as well, because men have the burden of building or sparking the attraction, it's like, a woman doesn't need to know how to attract a guy. For women it seems if they are just pretty or average and decent looking, then they are all set, along with having an average or decent personality, a guy can be average or decent looking but if he lacks what I mentioned above he will still struggle to get a girlfriend but a woman like that will still be able to get a boyfriend easily. And reminds me of comments like this "Well, everything depends on how you look at things. And you can complain about how the world works, or you can adapt to it and make the most of your situation!" I get mad and annoyed when people and society think men still have it better than women do in dating
It definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏 thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback!
@@YourWingmam yeah it's like many guys or a lot of guys will have to do things they don't want to do or don't enjoy doing just to become better with women or just to simply attract women
Bit worried about the cat. Just watched your vid from the week ahead of this and she hasn't moved. If she is in the same place after Christmas please call the vet ! x
Hi Anna, hope you're keeping well? I am still a quiet and really shy guy. I've sent you texts and email before last year but you never answered my text?! Even out shopping or at a club, I lack the confidence to just approach a woman and ask her name and how she is? I go every month to a Elvis Presley Fan Club and dance with many different women there as I know they like the same music as me, but only think of them as friends, as I'm shy and awkward, my lack of confidence stops me from being asking them for their phone number or even in this world of technology, their email address? I know their names, but not much else to take a chance to get to know them better.
WELL! I have watched a few of your episodes, and I:m confused as to if it makes me feel better or "not so" good about myself? I have had some long term and even a couple of relationships of about 2 years, but even being married for over 27 years did not seem to be a "happy" time! I realized, about 2 weeks ago that ALL my relationships had been initiated by the lady!!?? I think I'm a slow learner. Considering a new adventure for a holiday and possible love outcome. COVID is interfering!!
Telling a woman that you're not usually attracted to blonde/brunette/red hair etc is a big mistake, as it's a core part of her identity (if that's her natural colour and not a dyed colour). There are many other, better 'negs'. Much better to find something else to tease about that's more random, surely?
one of the greatest mysteries of my life is why do women never flirt with a man they want to sleep with or why isnt there any female pickup artist.....I mean women want sex just as much as men do right? so what does a women do if she wants to sleep with someone?
Some of this seems quite questionable. And the last bit seems very questionable. I do not trust classes people sell online. Especially in this area of knowledge.
There’s no such thing as flirting, which is only effective if the girl is attracted to you, period. There Are exceptions like she’s looking to sleep with you to make a boyfriend or an ex mad. Other than that, the Overwhelming Majority of the time, flirting is obsolete no matter how good you Think you are at it.
I disagree with you when you you that the lower back is a Gray zone for touching . It's a No No zone unless you know the woman pretty well ! I have taken dance lessons and the teachers always reminded us Not to let our hands slip below the shoulder blades . So touching her at the lower back is a No No zone unless you know already the woman pretty well !
I know! That lace collar shows just how much of a classy lady Anna is! ;) Great vid Anna! These are always good beginner tips too... I have a few friends who could benefit from your advice...
@@YourWingmam Oh I have a couple buddies who would definitely benefit from this post... From most all of your posts actually! lol Keep 'em comin' Anna! I actually really am dying to know where you come up with all this great information! 🤣🤣🤣 A little bird told me you used to be one heck of a realtor boss babe 😉 but I doubt you learned all this stuff just from being in your office everyday!🤣
