How Do You Move On? | Filipino | Rec•Create Unfiltered 

Hello mga ka-moving forward! From a few weeks in this ep, it has already been a few months. Ang masasabi ko lang is: kapit lang kayo. The only way out is THROUGH! Trust and love yourself enough to know that you will grow and be happy again. 🌱 Try redirecting all the energy and effort you gave into the relationship back to YOURSELF. Swear, 10/10 best feeling in the world. ❤️

Ako lang ba yung nag ppause ng video then kunyare nag sasabe din ako ng insight ko kapag may tanong HAHAHAHAHA

I can get Maui's case. And I quote: "some people aren’t flooded with emotions after a major loss-instead, they feel nothing." And it's fine. Di naman tayo pare-pareho and di dapat dinidismiss ang mga tao na ganun ang feeling saying that they lack emotional investment or they never loved that person.

Maui be like: "pasensya ka na ha, God bless"

Moving on tip: Sige lang ikwento niyo lang ng ikwento hanggang sa maging one-liner story na lang para sa inyo.

Alak!

Bottom line: Feel what you feel. Slowly... Process the feelings and do something about it whenever you are ready. In time you'll got it! Cheering for you!

Anyone who noticed Jan's sad face even if they are all laughing. I can still feel the sadness 😔

walang jowa since birth, but will still be watching this since it's UNFILTERED 😂

Sana all parang si Maui when moving on. Very convenient, walang energy na masasayang hahaha

Punyeta! Tawang-tawa ako dun sa part na may talong na lumilipad. Nagtataka ako kung ano meron sa talong tas biglang sinabi "na-choke ako" HAHAHAHAHAHAH

Rejection is God’s protection. 🙏🏼

My ex and I broke up a month before quarantine. I didn't actually grieve after the breakup, in fact I was already talking with someone new after a month. I just told myself "Okay, nag decide na siya, let's move forward and focus on school na lang." At that time I was still going to school, so the whole month before quarantine started, I was doing fine. I thought I unconsciously moved on, but I actually ran away from it. I kept on denying and telling myself "Hindi okay ka na, nakamove-on ka na. Di mo na nga siya naiisip diba?" It was then that I realized that making myself busy was just an excuse to ran away from my feelings and bottling it up made it worse. Now that we're almost a year in quarantine, nothing to do, alone in our rooms with our thoughts, it eventually exploded. I didn't know what to do, I just sat there in the middle of my room crying, and telling myself "Kasalanan mo to kaya nag break kayo, you didn't give him a chance back then, and pinagsisisihan mo yon ngayon. Ngayong may bago na siya, tsaka mo lang narealize na you still had feelings for him even after months of breaking up." Making myself busy was an excuse to not think about the break up, but I just ran away from it and it was not moving on. Now I have to go back to phase 1 of moving on, which is grieve. As much as possible don't run away from your feelings, confront it. Because if you do, everything will be easier after, I promise.

i feel kuya Jan, my 1st relationship ended nung april, i had to force myself to move-forward even though labag siya sa kalooban ko, i was looking for some distractions, nakahanap pero balik pa rin ng balik sa grieving stage, a quarantine break-up doesn't have a proper adjective word to describe how painful it is. Pang 6th na buwan na simula nung break-up namin pero I am still asking myself if mahal ko pa ba siya or hindi na. After watching this episode, i realized na hindi pala sagot yung paghahanap ko ng distractions nor iwasan because pains are meant to be felt, endure it until it hurts no more.

Ganda ng mga sinabi nyo! ❤️ As a person na almost a year na since my last break up and naka move on na, this would be my advice: If you are a person na kailangan umiyak, umiyak ka. If gusto mo pa maghabol, maghabol ka. If you feel communicating sa mga taong involved & related sa inyo, go communicate with them. Tapos darating din yung time na ikaw na yung masasaktan sa ginagawa mo and if that time comes, that's your turning point already to stop all of it. Magkukusa kang tumigil kasi alam mong masyado ka ng nasasaktan at tama na kasi oras mo na yon para sa intindihin naman yung sarili mo alone. That's what I did. I had that turning point and now I'm me again doing better ❤️ Sa lahat ng nagmo move on dyan, sana wag kayo matagalan. Makaka alwas ka rin dyan 💪

Always trust the process. Never madaliin ang pag-move on. Kung naiiyak ka pa, iiyak mo lang. 'di naman kasi talaga madali lalo na kung more than a year din kayong nagsama. Pero also remember na after grieving you have to pick up yourself and be optimistic na everything will be all right. Kasi this time, you're not starting from scratch.

“Single kase walang mahanap.” Same adea. Same

Maui and my ex have the same mindset. I wish I could be like them so that I don’t have to go through the pain of being left for another person. We broke up a month ago and I had no choice but to accept his decision. What I did was I focused on studying to distract myself and went back to the province to be with the people that I care about. I’m still moving forward as of now. A tip for you guys is to trust the process and know that it is not the end of the world. There are a lot of good things out there. ❤️

I really love this segment, I get to learn so much things and you guys makes us feel like we're part of your group.

Thank you so much for this topic, because I actually watched a Rec•Create video after my most recent break-up, and nab-binge watch talaga ko kayo from time to time haha. So in a way, you guys are part of my moving forward process, and towards sa new life ko. Lagi ako babalik-balik to watch your videos. Thank you so much, once more:)

Thanks Rec.create!! Our feelings are all valid! Keep moving forward 😄

Basta gusto ko yung sinabi ni Jan na "sometimes the effort that you give and the effort that they can give sometimes it just does not match"

Same Jan, same :') breaking up during quarantine is really hard since there are no distractions to distract you from sadness and pain

Okay. Everyone is different with how they react or cope with a break up. Some are "indifferent" But may have that lingering feeling they might not be aware of or don't want to acknowledge. It's completely normal and valid. You may also be the one that has a hard time and resort to drinking etc. And though bad, it's still valid. How we move on varies from one person to the next. The important thing is we learn to love ourselves and care for ourselves afterwards

welcome to the club ms jan! 😘 anywaaaaay, hope this helps. I just got out of a toxic relationship. Ang masasabi ko lang is that, never ever ever lose YOU in the process of loving someone else because that'll be the greatest disservice that you can do to yourself. After every breakup naman, there's hope, life, and light again. Just keep moving forward. It may seem difficult pero it's only in the beginning. Embrace the pain and learn to accept how things have transpired. It's not an easy task especially if you really loved the person pero what matters now is you being able to stand the storm. I hope that you find the love that you deserve. Kapit lang. Laban lagi! 💚💚💚

This set of people really do compliment each other...my perfect kind of mix! ❤💚💙💜💛❣ Hope you can do at least twice or thrice a week vlog...always on the loop for new unfiltered eps! Kudos Rec•Create team! Keep safe! Also for those people who are moving on with whatever situation, don't forget to forgive yourself too! 😉👌

Jan: *speaking his heart out* Einj: iF yOurE hAPPy aNd yOu knOw iT clAp yoUr HanDs

THESE GUYS NEVER FAILS TO AMUSE ME, shot mga pre!

Missing this kind of talk with friends!! Tamang chill and giving your thoughts💕💯 solid!!

Gawd. I’ve been moving on for almost 2 years and I still think I’m floating. There definitely are good days where I don’t think of him and other days I wallow in every memories and possibilities with him. I made a mistake in making him my world. Not that I didn’t leave anything for myself, I sort of made him my source of happiness and when he was out, that happiness just disappeared. Last year, I coped and found ways to distract myself but it costed me a lot. Traveling is my go to for distractions, be that out of the country, the beach or just the malls. Goodness, that was costly. At least though, the pain waned little by little. Now in quarantine, I’m stuck in a room where we used to live together and it’s just sad being cooped. Everyday is a struggle for me mentally. Those memories in my subconscious just keep popping out. It’s so hard. I try to keep myself busy and whenever I think of him I just slap myself back to reality, that it’s over. I wish I could move on fully soon.

Ngayon ko lang to pinanood kase i was going thru somethin din the day this was published but thankful ako na we had the right closure and she told me that i just need to mature and make amends to my mistakes that i did in the past for her to accept me ulit. She had a point that's why i wanna suggest a topic that would tackle about "how should someone mature/ grow to be a better lover or person". And Jan please bring back your nike cortez lmao love lots rec•create! I've learned so many things from you guys that's why i will never get tired on watching your videos as well as sharing your channel to my other friends that might need your vids. That's all guys. Thankyooouuuuu!

NOTIF GANG WHOOOOO

Thank you sa episode nato. As a dood na kakahiwalay lang last September from my first relationship (which lasted for a year and 7 months), this helped me a lot. I was confused and questioning myself kasi para akong si Einj at Maui na wala na agad nararamdam (like after we broke up, parang inilabas ko lang for a day yung mga rants ko and ok na). People would always tell me na I need time to grieve and ilabas ko daw lahat ng emotions ko pero parang wala naman talaga e. Akala ko there's something wrong with me pero may mga ganung tao pala talaga. Thank you, next!

Kaka break lang namin mula sa very toxic relationship 3 days ago, and I really appreciate you guys! Einj, Adea, Jan, and Maui! I am so glad I follow y'all. Thank you so much!

So glad to discover this channel .. been looking for this kind of show..

sobrang miss ko na 'tong apat na to grabe hahahahahahaha kaya unfiltered marathon muna

When it's done, it's done. I mean no matter what the reason is, at the end of the day all you need is acceptance. There might be times, that relationships may have a second blow but most of the time, it's a bye bye situation. Haist i love this ep.

Cried buckets. Couldn't eat, couldn't focus for a month. But experiencing break up during quarantine helped me appreciate and take care of myself more. Nagawa ko yung mga bagay na gusto kong simulan before. It's okay to grieve, but at some point, kahit gaano pa katagal, dapat matapos din yung pag-grieve at tulungan ang sarili na maka-move forward. Kaya mo 'yan!

Omg! Saaaaaame Einj! Yung tipong habang kayo pa, nagmu-move on ka na.

AYE my fave GANG! Here we go again! 👏🏼 wala na naman kayong HALAMAN! Mahihirap! CHOS

Very relate (na naman) with Adeaaaa~ ALAK ANG SAGOT SA SAKIT! Lol. But, as Miss Jan had said, let us acknowledge our pain and trust the process of moving on. Most importantly, mas isipin pa rin ang mga sarili nating kapakanan.

We lost something but life for us must go on. 😊 always keep moving forward! Kudos to us! Keep fighting! 💪💪💪

Honestly, i came into the same situation as Jan. A quarantine break-up. But watching this again today, confirms that I have moved on. Quarantine really forced us to deal with things alone. It help cause I was able to realize many things about that relationship and how it should’ve ended even before the pandemic. Thank you Ms Jan for the inspiration. I aspire to be Ms Jan!

Why do I feel like I'm Maui. Which I was classified as emotionally constipated 😂😅

Support system is a must. 💕

This is so timely ty recreate fam

I recently broke up with my “ex now” and just like Jan Angelo, why this time? The time of pandemic, nagtatanong ako if naghiwalay ba kami cuz we don’t love each other na or just because of the stress with this pandemic na hindi na kami naka pag-isip ng tama, mahirap kasi wala ka talagang magawa para maibsan yun sakit kundi isang buhos ng luha nalang. Ang sakin nalang acceptance and PRAY! Ma he-heal at magiging happy rin naman very soon. 🙏💙 love yourself and stay safe.

I really love this segment! Well represented lahat ng aspect :)

Can't buy merch so... Di ko na lang skip yung ads :D

Im with maui on this one

Feel it. Accept that it happened. Move on. Choose your battles; conserve your peace.

The GANG with a REALSHIT TOPIC EVERYTHING WAS LEGIT

I'm glad na may ganito akong nahahanap na mapapanuod at this moment. Sana makatulong sakin to move forward after this heartbreak.

Grabe ang ganda talaga ng episodes nyo 😍😍 keep it up

Auto watch pag unfiltered talaga!

Content suggestion: when do you think is the right time to be in a relationship??? Or what is your goal or plan after this quarantine???

nakakamiss kayooooo!!!!🍿🍿🍿

GHOSTING EP NEXT PLEAAAASE!! sure ako dmai nakakarelate ngayon hahahaha

Be honest with yourself and your feelings, recognize them rather than suffer from the anxiety it creates

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sa nag momove on ngaun regardless of what you have been through e.i acads, love life or any burden in your heart and mind i am praying for yall a peace of mind. And to the people around you i advice that please dont invalidate someones struggle cuz we have different pace in copping up! peace!! laban lang.

"whatever you're feeling, feel it" yes nemen tama yung sinabi ko sa kaibigan kong broken. we can't always be happy naman kase kailangan ren naten malungkot to feel alive

@rec.reate LANG MALAKAS.. 😍♥️

relate much kay Jan talaga like sobrang hirap kapag quarantine tapos wala na kayo ng tao. Ang hirap gumalaw-galaw dahil limited lang lahat dahil pandemic. One thing na masasabi ko na pinakaimportante sa moving on is acceptance. I understand Maui sometimes if you choose to accept agad hindi ka na mahihirapan eh. Anyways, nasa atin pa rin ang desisyon as long na hindi tayo nakakasagasa ng ibang tao edi G!

I feel you Jan. Oo, sobrang hirap mag move on kapag walang distractions at hindi mo nakakasama mga kaibigan mo. Sometimes, a hug from a friend can mend a shattered piece of yourself. Thus, it's really hard to do so in this pandemic. Pero makaka move on din tayo Jan. Kaya natin to.

I feel like si Maui yung type ng person na hindi ni lolook forward yung kung anong mangyayare sa kanila nung GF nya in the future. Like yung magiimagine ng ikakasal kami ng babaeng to and maraming imaginations pa na happy ending kahit di naman talaga sigurado na mangyayare yun sa future. Thats why after break up nya is hindi nya masyadong dadamdamin talaga yun. Idk if thats true but i think its also a good thing na you dont invest too much to your partner kasi nga hindi niyo hawak yung future but nasasa inyo pa din kung kayo yung gagawa ng tinatawag na "tadhana" niyo 😉

I hope "friends with benefits" will be discussed next. 🤟🏼

Grabe dami ko talagang natututunan sakanila 💙

Had the same experience with Jan 🥺 and all I can say is SOBRANG HIRAP. Imagine nakakulong ka lang and walang magawa because of the quarantine, you can’t even hug your friends ☹️

Sana pinanood ko ito bago kami magbreak. Now I'm relieved 😊

THIS IS THE SIGN!!!

your opinion about "freedom" and "human rights" i have a twt says "people greeds for freedom may lead to chaos" and thanks. for a good and open minded content..

needed this, ay-

i always love einj’s outfit

The best team!!! More eps pleaase

If youre moving on, avoid your friends. It wont help promise hahah and also social media 😆 keep your self isolated. 😆😆😆

I didn't skip the Ads para may pambili ng Furnitures haha! Same experience with Einj para akong nabunutan ng tinik. It was a huuuge relief when my ex and I broke up.

Moving on and getting over Are not the same, it seems to me 'Cause you've been gone, I'm growing older But I still can't seem to get you off my mind And I do believe I feel you all the time

I binged their vids and now I feel like we're tropas. How to join ba? 😂 amazing content as always ✌

Solid talaga mga content niyoo!!!!!

For Ms. Jan - nandito lang kame for you mga unfiltered pips .

coping mechanism ko is to watch Recreate videos 👌🏻

More videos, I really love these people.❤❤❤

I broke up with my ex last June 2020 before Independence Day. It was my first serious relationship. I broke up with that person through chat because it’s quarantine and there’s a lockdown so we cannot go out and see each other. I talked to that person and yes it was painful on both sides because we really love each other. The problem was on me. I really need to focus on myself because my problems piled up and I don’t know where to start. It was the hardest point in my life. I don’t know what to do. And I think I cannot grow on my own when I’m being committed with someone. So, I told my ex that I need to focus on myself, solve my problems first and for me to do that was to be single again. It was a painful decision but a relief. After that breakup, I accepted it (like Kuys Maui) and kept myself busy. I went on biking, hiking, swimming, and did other activities (I brought back my plantito hands lol). I also managed to solve my problems and found myself growing and it made me feel better. It made me love and value myself more. Maybe grieving was not my coping mechanism in moving on. Right person, wrong timing lang talaga.

Pero OMG officially single na si Jan beke nemen baks charot!

Okkk maui izza vibee!!! Kung kaya ni Maui dapat kaya rin naten yaaz!!!

Currently sharing the same experience with Jan. A break up during quarantine is really difficult especially when you're not close with your parents and you have no one to talk to. My mood is always off and I don't even have a will to do my school works. Until one day, I decided to talk to God and told him everything that hurts me. Whenever I feel so sad and lonely, I'll just watch some inspirational videos from Pastor Steven Furtick and other vids to help me get through with this feeling.

Eto ang kailangan ko now, im still moving on with my last jowa almost a year na kaming break pero until now mahal ko pa sya at umaasa pa din ako, ang pinaka masakit ay yung umasa ako sa mga sinasabi nya na okay pa maayos pa pero ang hindi ko alam may bago na pala sya PINAASA NYA LANG AKO. Thankyou for this video.

It's our monthsary today and we just broke up 🌧️ Thank you for this!

Request topic: How you view open relationship?

Finally may bagong ep 🥵🥵🥵

Most important is prioritize yourself. It's your time to focus and learn more about yourself. ALSO, TAKE YOUR TIME NO RUSH. Appreciate all the things around you even the people who are there for you. (Pero pwede pa rin makinig sa madramang mga kanta. Hahahahaha) ☺️

loveyou guys 🥺❤️

Praying for Fast Recovery of your Heart kuya Jan...hehe isipin mo nalang na nawalan ka kasi may ibibigay pa sayong better..,

Single kasi walang mahanap! Jan, sad naman, ang saya nung mga kwento last time. Sige moving forward.

I know that feeling Jan. Same story.

grieve and cry until you're tired, then eat, drink water take a bath. Talk to people, cry again if needed, move forward.

notif gang pero converge wifi, eto hanggang ngayon loading paden 😤☠️

I envy you Maui!!! Sana all mabilis mag move on

So true! Worth it.