How Do You Raise Godly Children in Today's Culture? - Arlene Pellicane 

update? How is it going? Boy? Girl?

Aww, that shows you’re doing not just “something” right, but at least a few things! The fact that he comes to you and talks about those things shows a lot as well. I was never, and still aren’t, able to come home and really tell any of my family about what went on at school or goes on at work and them really care. Well, my mom (grandma who adopted me) did but she passed away when I was 12. Your kids seem like they’re lucky to have you..❤️

Great idea and I'll bet your little granddaughter will turn out a wonderful young lady. This is a lovely story and a great tip x

Thats a wonderful way to teach a lesson!

Thanks a lot for sharing this lovely story.l will surely use this for my family.We have way too much stuff and it is so difficult to decide what to get them as a gift.On my wedding anniversary l asked my husband to get rid of the broken dishwasher rather than getting me something new.

True! Look at the messy world now. Children should obey their parents.

And even now 😭

If more parents chastised according to The Word maybe it wouldn’t be so.,.,

You are a twisted person. She is out of bounds crazy.

@@Ulvetann I am wondering what you think is out of bounds crazy? Also wondering how liking a parenting advice video makes me a twisted person. Could you elaborate?

Our Summers Home, don’t feed the trolls. Just scroll up the comments section of the video to see a gross comment by this same person. Best to ignore and move on.

@@FloJoMoJo676 thank you🙏🥰

Pray Dad and ask the lord to give you a stradegy for your daughters

Nick B Ask your daughters what they feel is fair, then share you piece on what you believe. Listen to your children genuinely then come to a compromise

Daniel Tinney I’m sorry but that’s terrible advice and the complete wrong interpretation of the gospel for who we are as a people. First of all, that’s not how life works lol. That will make his daughter rebel and be defiant and teach them to be hermits when that’s not even realistic for today’s day and age. Times are different and we have to be realistic here..nowhere in the Bible does God say to shelter ourselves. He calls us to be the salt and light of the world. Social media, television, and the internet aren’t the enemy, it’s the devil that is. God wants us to be the leaders in society so being out of touch with reality isn’t realistic and nor are you reaching anyone that way. Instead, he can encourage his daughters to use technology for good use and teach his kids the dangers of this uncensored world, not to HIDE FROM IT.

Daniel Tinney Ok so I see that you completely misinterpreted what I was saying and my point so I will clarify everything and respond to all of your points/perspectives. Btw this is going to be a long response so I apologize in advance but I hope you take something out of what I’m saying 🙏🏾 1. “first of all, that’s not how life works”. To tell your children you are not allowed to have the very things you’ve been accustomed to your whole lives (social media, television, phones) and to expect them to even want to listen and obey commands with no biblical reasons can cause a big issue. I’ll explain later 2. Telling your kids to not drink and do drugs. You can only tell you kids so much but it’s definitely how you tell them. When you try to be authoritative, most kids will try to test the waters with their curiosity. Being told NO NO NO YOU BETTER NOT DO IT, all your life can make some kids want to try it. Authority in that sense doesn’t always work. A more effective way to scare them out of trying drugs and alcohol is by modeling my example, teaching them that God hates it, and sharing story’s with them of those who suffer and have died from drug & alcohol use. Showing the consequences rather than forcing them to listen to you is more effective and gives them the opportunity to speak on how they feel. Also, it builds a tighter bond between the parent and child. When they respect the parents, they usually do right by them but if they fear them, they usually do things behind their back. So always give your kids the comfortable space to speak their opinion and teach them consequences. The point is, it’s better to explain and show than to be forceful and pretty much tell them “don’t you dare”. Rebelling is the result of not having any control or voice and that’s something most parents fear. Separate. There’s a difference between separate & isolate. Let’s ditch the word delegate but it comes off as stand offish and doesn’t serve the Lord. We wants us to stand out and to do that we much be shameless when preaching his word right ? What if your kids wanted to use social media as a platform to do just that ? What if they wanted to use social media to educate others on the works of God? What if they wanted to connect with other life minded people and start a movement or event venture into entrepreneurship and use Gods word in business? Now I can agree the Yes, the devil uses people through social media and it can be a very deceiving and toxic place. But teaching your kids to fear social media and modern society is only keeping them sheltered and afraid of the devil. Here’s a proposal: teach your children all that Gods needs them to know. Give them the shield of the lord before ever introducing social media, television, and cell phones to them. I do the same for my kids. It wouldn’t be fair for me to shelter my kids in a technology driven world. It’s almost impossible to function without some sort of technology. It’s getting harder and hard and even those who live off the grid use the internet. It’s a way we can stay connected but like we agreed, it can also be a very dangerous place for our vulnerable children. Lastly: this is what everything boils down to. Proper Christian parenting. If you just carelessly hand your kids a phone and don’t teach them anything, then they will easily be sucked into this world. So like I said earlier, giving them the shield of God, and teaching them to be MINDFUL and to use wisdom with these devises is the best thing you can do for them, not shelter them. That’s just being realistic and honest.

Social media on the weekend only. Lack produces resourcefulness. If they can't rely on social media to entertain them, they can tap into their creative gifts. There will probably be a fight from them, but it's all about what your goal is and what you want the outcome to be for these babies. They won't be in the house for much longer, but while they are there they can learn discipline. Also, something to implement could be to "earn" social media privileges: One hour of social media for a summary and perspective of 1 John, 2 John, and 3 John. Something like that. Hope things are going well :)

Seriously?

Did I find a conquitadorian society or something? Go into yourself, Is this what You want or need? Supressed children?

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Thanks to all is our day I wanna is your way

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