I just want to say to anyone feeling down or in despair, don't give up! It takes time to manifest! I cried my eyes out last night and decided I would get up with a good attitude and try even harder! Guess what? I got a call from the job I've been after which is a big break through. It's worth it if you just have faith and keep going. Yes there will be times when you are frustrated but it's like Agnes said you just process it and move up the emotional scale.
I do this too and it works. Mine is *the universe has my back* As AH says go from specific negative to generally negative to generally positive to specific positive.
I switch my negative thoughts with another thought which is totally out of context n wacky. Abort a negative thought as quickly as it starts, Just as u switch the tv channel Immediately when u encounter something u dont wanna see. Immediate switching n replacing the thought is the key. I switch it wit a pretty neutral one like an big fat elephant farting. Negative thoughts are like smelly farts anyways.😆😆😆 .After sometime the mind wil run on autopilot n abort any negative thoughts like ur computers antivirus system. Just b ready for a lot of farting elephants popping in ur mind just like that.😆😆😆
There's no exclusion in LOA, just inclusion and that's sth manifestors should understand deeply. That's why I believe that considering negative thoughts, one should not focus in getting rid of them but instead focus in linning their thoughts up with a positive thinking pattern. If you can't get positive about the manifesting goal then just stop thinking about it and focus on anything that can make you feel good and therefore raise your vibration.The same goes with resistance. If you focus on "I must get rid of resistane" resitance is still the thing you are focusing on! So instead of struggling to cease the resistane, I'd suggest focusing on strengthening your belief that the desire CAN be manifested. This way your focus goes towards the belief and not the resistance. I am not a manifesting coach or anything, just another wannabe manifestor on the go, and I am not sure how to explain my point of view clear enough, so I hope that makes sense, fellows.
Yes, it makes sense. That's kind of the technique I use when changing a limiting belief...I ask myself the rhetorical question "is it possible?" and the answer is always yes. Like let's say, for example, one believes that they'll never get married because they're over a certain age, like 40 or 50 or whatever. Just ask yourself if it's at least POSSIBLE for a woman over that certain age to find love and get married. The answer is always yes. Even if you don't believe it for yourself yet, just knowing that something is possible is all I need to start thinking that it's possible for me and that gets the new belief rolling. In fact I myself even know now for certain that women over 40 do still meet partners and get married because I was looking at Facebook at the profile page for the HR manager that used to work at a former company of mine (she is friends with several former coworkers I'm connected to on there) and she got married earlier this summer.
Thank you Agnes. Good advice Agnes, yes it's perfectly fine to cry it out and let all feelings come out. Sleep tight in peace thinking tomorrow is a new day. Let go of what's bothering us. Bring it on and I am ready. Because post that, we can start afresh with strength with every breath. It's also a good idea to write down all thoughts and fear while crying. I don't have self love issue but I do have fears abt well being of my partner so I have personally tried it yesterday. Write down all those fears and then just burn it out. Give all the fears to god within and sleep with that connection to god and our partner. It works well with gaining our strength back. At the end of day, one has to help themselves. No one but ourself.
I just wanted to say this is so true...I only just started to read more about this and I completely got obsessed with trying to force myself to feel positive all the time because I thought I’ll screw this all up otherwise. I stared to be paranoid of negative thoughts and feelings. I realized after a while that fighting the negative is actually creating even more stress and tension in me. She’s right you don’t need to feel bad for being human...you’ll always have negative thoughts and that will not stop ever. I felt that the minute I gave myself permission to let myself feel it and let it pass through me (cry or get angry etc) I actually felt so much relief!!. And I was ok to keep going after.
this just helped me because ive been trying to manifest my ex back and ive been listening to this tarot reader.. the thing is shes really good its like she says exactly what im thinking and feeling.. anyway she had been giving very positive love readings which was giving me more faith that i would get back with him.. however this month her love readings were super negative and shes saying all these things about how I should let the person that i want go because hes moved on and ive been feeling so negative because of it! last month i made good progress for the first time i felt really happy and excited without anything even happening yet and 2 days later he texted me! I felt so close and now just that quick this tarot reader has discouraged me a bit. its a struggle now trying to get back to where i was mentally..
Agnes has a video on going to psychics and how you have to be careful seeking affirmation from such people because if they give you a negative prediction like what you've just described above, it can throw off your belief. I don't remember the name of the video but if I find it I'll link to it. I haven't had many psychic readings in my life but I quit them for good after the last one, which was over the phone two years ago, didn't tell me a single thing that came to pass! I believe that WE ARE in control of our own future and destiny and that most people that claim to be psychics cannot pick up on it. So you may want to stop going to that tarot reader and instead focus on your special person, the good vibes, and the fact that he texted you.
You should realize that the tarot reader only picks up the energy you send out AT THE MOMENT. For instance, if you were feeling doubts and fears about your manifestation, this is what they will pick up on (assuming that they are actually legit, which is not always the case). Don't get discouraged. View this experience as something that helped you see that you weren't yet in the right place when it comes to feeling good about where you are and now you can change it with focus and self love. And don't look for reassurance anymore, you are a powerful creator and you have everything you need to manifest within you. I used to do tarot readings for myself and I can tell you from experience that I always pulled better cards when I felt good about the situation. The future is not set in stone.
Thank you so much for this! This is exactly what I was looking for in my questions so now I'm all set. " I AM LOVED " fought negative third party thoughts it made me so exhausted. So thank you for this!!!
Agnes Vivarelli since I've started to watch your you tube videos I'm noticing changes. Especially the self love thoughts. Thanks for putting out these videos I appreciate the work that you do and I'm greatful for being suggested to watch them. I also have the movie the secret and it dose help thanks so much K.
OMG, this is so beautifully insane. I've been watching your videos again all morning and I really felt good all day. Until about a half an hour ago I checked my Facebook and the first thing I saw was something my specific person had posted. And the very minute I felt that lack and hurt again. To stop it right there I decided to just watch another one of your videos, and there you had just posted this one! Am I strechting this to far if I say that this is a sign that things are finally working for me in small steps?...and even if not, I am so amazed right now, that all my negative thoughts are just blown away...:-)....this was not a rethoric question...;-)...if anybody has an opinion about it, Iam looking forward to hear it :-)
Not quite that simple in my case. I'm self-employed as a webdesigner and I need FB to get to my customers. And besides the personal side of my relationsship to him, there is also a business side. We are both part of an artist group, do exhibits together and stuff like that. I don't follow him on his private FB anymore, but the business part I can't ignore.
Glad to see you! I was strange thinking it's been 2 days you haven't uploaded a video. I was wondering if you were right! Thanks for clarifying doubts we all have. I fear about if my love were with someone else...So it is a repetitive negative habitual thought, wouldn't it be manifested? Cause it is said that repetitive thoughts become reality. I think I am attracting that and for sure, I don't want to. When this thought comes to my mind should I only repeat "I am loved by_____(the name of my love) or just "I am loved"? Just repeating that affirmation will I make that third party won't manifest or if my love were with someone she would breakup with that person and come back together with me?🤔 Thank you for your kind help! HUGS😗
What about negative thoughts that have no emotion behind him. The most I feel is bewildered like what the heck! Sometimes I laugh, say that that's a useless thought and then think about something else
Daria, it works much the same way as manifesting anything or anyone else...by feeling what it would feel like to have friends and then letting the universe guide you by inspired action. First I had to clean the slate by forgiving myself and others in regards to friendships that I had lost. Then I journaled the kind of friends I saw myself with and the types of activities we'd enjoy together. I'm not the type to stay out late; I like to do day trips and visit fun/interesting places during the day. Then I continued to enjoy my own company as usual and refused to feel lonely. I run a meet up group, so I'd enjoy meeting new and current members on events that I organized and on the weekends where I had no plans I focused on myself and doing things that I enjoyed and which made me feel good. Long story short, I ended up taking over a second women's social Meetup group after its original organizer stepped down. I felt inspired to take it over. A woman that is now my BFF joined that one and came to literally everything I planned. We hit it off and share a lot of common interests and can just talk about anything and everything. In fact I just got back from hanging out with her and another friend from our Meetup group at a beer brewery in my town. I would also start saying affirmations that are positive when it comes to attracting friends..."People like me", "I make fulfilling friendships easily", etc. Be careful not to say things like, "well, it's tough after a certain age to make new friends" or that you struggle with it. Start telling the new story to yourself, even though it may seem to contradict your current reality. I hope this helps! Best wishes and manifesting to you.
This calls for the 4 „The work“ questions: Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it’s true? How do you react when you believe that thought? Who would you be without the thought?
Hi agnès from France ! I am new to your channel and I just discivered the law of attraction ! I love your videos I would like to start at the begining and learn everything i need to know about LOA do you have a video about that ? Which ones do you suggest me ? Merci merci merci pour tout à bientôt !
I have a question that may also relate to many viewers of here. What if the person she's/he's being with or her/his ex doing also the manifesting meditations? What happens then?
