How EVERY Spouse Can Be An Expert at Romance | Jimmy Evans 

I've been searching for someone to explain what romance is. I thought I knew but I have sucked at it. Thank you for Jimmy Evans for explaining it clearly. I believe, with God, that I will be what my wife needs me to be.

My husband and I enjoy your sermons so much. Thank you 💙

I am learning so much! Thank you!

Can he be even more spot on. 😂

As a post menopausal woman I started taking hormones to maintain muscle mass and prevent osteoporosis .. One of the hormones I was put on was testosterone.. I can totally see why most men have a higher sex drive.. testosterone has a HUGE influence on sex drive, I had no idea it had such an impact..

Spot on

Can he preach on SSRIs and how they destroy sexual romantic love.. my love and deep emotional love has been destroyed by pharmaceuticals. But he has anxiety so he can’t stop taking the medication. It’s killed his empathy.. it’s turned off his love since he’s stopped pursuing me. When I have gone through hard times and failed and I’m fed up. I don’t know what to do. I want to give up.

Romance is meeting the other person's unspoken needs.leave my world and enter the person's world.speak the person's love language.empathy is knowing how the spouse is feeling and knowing what it is like to be married to me.Jesus said i will never leave u nor forsake u.physically and emotionally.Commit to never give this place in my heart to anyone or anything else other than Jesus and spouse.Marriage works for selfless people-who turn their hearts towards them.Emotions and sex are interrelated.

Nope… my life is opposite.. he is on lexapro. It’s killed our sex life. I need love, sex without pouting and being crazy and saying mean things. Im at the highlife point of my life.. and he’s 51 and on lexapro. So you can see what im dealing with. We have a fight when I go to bed w him and there’s no emotional energy or passion.. I can cry about dogs dying in FL right now bc of the hurricane and he is like. .. wth is wrong with you? Idk maybe just ask.. I’m an emotional wreck lately.. I’m 44 and going though hormonal changes and hot flashes and just emotional things affect me - I just want him to ask or hold onto me and touch my hair hold onto me tight.. He finally FINALLY gives in sexually but it’s not about that- some of it is but I taught my son, don’t ever let a girl/ woman cry without loving her and kiss on her .. just love her through it… But he says he’s not happy and he has no peace .. Well, I don’t either .. And now he’s turned his heart away.. We don’t have the love we use to have .. He use to fall in love and be sweet and cared about everything that I cared about. Now he’s just ready to go to bed and snore all night .. I hear you speaking of men wanting sex all the time and it’s so important- Not with him.. He couldn’t care less about sex. He doesn’t care about what my feelings are . I need something , I’ve said all these things about God and what we’re supposed to do.. and he knows .. but now we’re just like warm or cold. Not connected .

The coverage of I AM does wait to witness what you follow, is it still outside or inside following your self still chained to flesh and blood is only freed by David calling you Father. Luke 17:20And when he was demanded of the Pharisees, when the kingdom of God should come, he answered them and said, The kingdom of God cometh not with observation: 21Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you. Observation does master flesh and blood that still need outside baptism like John Baptist was called Greatest but still least to unseen new wine also starts least but will become Greastest only seen by Spirit.

I find this mocking and belittling of men disgusting. I've been a Christian and married for 35 years. I've been a licensed private investigator and investigation agency owner since 91. Most of my cases are infidelity cases. About half of my clients are Christian men whose wives cheated on them. Relationship advice like that given by Evans is horrible, but is what young men are likely to hear in post-modern churches today. It is usually just presented with a little less vulgarity. If you are a young man, Evans is implicitly or explicitly telling you that you have divine obligations to put your wife on a pedestal; to meet her unreasonable and unrealistic expectations; and to carry her physical, emotional, psychological, baggage until it crushes the life out of you. Evans' clearly implied message is that men are little more than ignorant beasts of burden who place their carnal desires above every rational consideration. His comments also do enormous harm to women by validating their selfish cravings to be dined, called, hugged, supported, complimented, smiled at, listened to, laughed with, cried with, romanced, believed, cuddled, shopped with, given jewelry and flowers, have her hand held, receive love letters and have a man go to the end of the earth and back for her. In other words, to be “Idolized.” A disturbing proposition coming from the mouth of a man who claims to be a Christian pastor, especially in light of the explicit biblical condemnation of idolatry. And make no mistake; idolatry is precisely what he is promoting because it is what women want. Most single or divorced women who show up at churches today are little more than secular anglers who see the church as the best fishing hole to catch a “good man.” Their hook is baited with just enough carnal worldliness to attract (or rather distract) an otherwise godly man’s carnal attention, and just enough counterfeit piety to lull him into a false sense of security concerning her character and virtue. If you are a genuine Christian man who foolishly shackles yourself to one of these anglers, you can be sure that, after she says “I do” at the alter, she won’t by the time the honeymoon is over. In fact, she will spend the rest of her life resisting your leadership and trying to manipulate you into kicking God off the throne of your heart and installing her in His place. And unless you can divorce her on biblical grounds, you will have a horrible life because she will never stop. All of the things Evans tells men they should be doing for their wives are things that he can no doubt afford to do for his own wife. He’s made a fortune fleecing the gullible, selling books and putting on seminars. Most of the men who attend his seminars are probably so emotionally and financially stressed by trying to provide basic necessities to their families, they can barely afford to take their wives for anything more than occasional pizza, let alone buy her jewelry and flowers. Pastors like Evans are either oblivious to or disinterested in the physical, emotional, and psychological welfare of the men in their congregations. It’s all about pleasing the women. Why? Because women are the ones who buy “relationship” books (probably with their husbands’ money), and then badger their husbands into taking them to the overpriced seminars associated with the books. Men need to stop taking their wives to these relationship seminars and reading relationship books, and read the Bible instead. Women will listen to Evans because he validates their carnal and material expectations. When their husbands fail to meet those expectations, those women will rip off their masks of piety to reveal materialistic libidinous harpies who think they are justified in having their expectations met in another man’s bed and billfold. And modern pastors will blame the husbands and make excuses for the unfaithful wives. I don't know what Evans charges for his seminars, but whatever it is, it's too much. I also put on seminars for men. But mine are free because I just want to help men avoid a lifetime of pain and regret. I accept a free will offering from any men who feel disposed to contribute one.