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How Falling Behind Can Get You Ahead | David Epstein | TEDxManchester 

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“Jack of all trades, master of none,” the saying goes. But it is culturally telling that we have chopped off the ending: “…but oftentimes better than master of one.”
In a society hyperfocused on headstarts, we are told to choose our paths early, focus narrowly, and start racking up our 10,000 hours of deliberate practice. But a mountain of research shows that, among people who end up fulfilled and successful, early specialization is the exception, not the rule.
Winding paths and mental meandering can be sources of power, not disadvantages, but we rarely hear those stories. David is trying to change this.
Follow David on @DavidEpstein David Epstein is the author of the #1 New York Times best seller Range: Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World, and of the best seller The Sports Gene.
He was previously a reporter at ProPublica, where his investigations spanned drug cartels to poor medical practices. Prior to that, David was a senior writer at Sports Illustrated, where he wrote or co-wrote many of the magazine’s most high-profile stories, including the 2009 revelation that Yankees third baseman Alex Rodriguez had used steroids.
David has master’s degrees in environmental science and journalism. He has worked as an ecology researcher in the Arctic, studied geology and astronomy in the Sonoran Desert, and blithely signed up to work on the D-deck of a seismic research vessel shortly after it had been attacked by pirates. He has benefitted from a winding career. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@bubbasernie5762
@bubbasernie5762 4 года назад
23 just starting college. Wish me luck.
@MrAdhi-yz2fl
@MrAdhi-yz2fl 4 года назад
@Jaypes Have you had the thought of being behind in your life at 23 im in same track i have this feeling of being behind in life 😅
@Sco2b
@Sco2b 4 года назад
Bubbas Ernie good luck you got this
@lovelightandmagicrose
@lovelightandmagicrose 4 года назад
Wish you the best of luck!
@sachinpatil7005
@sachinpatil7005 4 года назад
All the best
@theorry8677
@theorry8677 4 года назад
Basically me when I transferred and switch majors 3 years in
@hammouchnassim4832
@hammouchnassim4832 4 года назад
When thinking about life,remember this;No amount of guilt can solve the past,and no amount of anxiety can change the future
@juliannurse5120
@juliannurse5120 4 года назад
Well said.
@leoncrystal1508
@leoncrystal1508 4 года назад
HM “no amount of time ever bought a second of time”. It hit me when I saw your comment
@hammouchnassim4832
@hammouchnassim4832 4 года назад
@@leoncrystal1508 why say that
@destinynj2013
@destinynj2013 4 года назад
dope mantra, man. 👏🏽👏🏽
@psychologynerd7280
@psychologynerd7280 4 года назад
Anxiety alters performance don't you think? That may change the future.
@ellecrescent9834
@ellecrescent9834 Год назад
We’re so mean to ourselves. We think that if we haven’t achieved much by 30 we are not worthy. What nonsense. Being alive is being alive, no matter how many years you have lived.
@elizabete6327
@elizabete6327 Год назад
💚
@lexpox329
@lexpox329 Год назад
I'm aiming to achieve something by the time I am 50, I'm 33 now. I have a basic plan of advancing to be a VP of operations in a healthcare system in the US. I want to help make healthcare a transparent, competitive enterprise that truly serves the customer's(patient implies you only interact with healthcare when are sick) interests above profits. We have so many "nonprofit" hospitals that somehow still charge enormous amounts of money. I want to change that. Maybe I'm naive and I'll learn one day that it can't be done. Or maybe I will succeed in slowing making healthcare better and cheaper in my country. I wouldn't be in the place I am today if I didn't take a more meandering path.
@nihilisticnirvana
@nihilisticnirvana Год назад
I'm only 15 and I still feel so bad edit: i'm sixteen now, i transferred to a school full of high achieving kids and my impostor syndrome kicked it. i feel 10x worse.
@Primrose345
@Primrose345 Год назад
♥️
@catchingfeelings2691
@catchingfeelings2691 Год назад
I’m not mean but the society pressured us to be mean to ourselves or else we’re considered as unacceptable.
@leoscareer
@leoscareer Год назад
72 yr old just starting college wish me life
@alfonsodacullo3040
@alfonsodacullo3040 4 года назад
the pain of getting left behind is real.
@cocodesuplex547
@cocodesuplex547 4 года назад
The pain and suffering of getting ahead is real
@ravirajyaguru5905
@ravirajyaguru5905 4 года назад
Feeling that pain since past 2 years.
@AAsiri-pu1ss
@AAsiri-pu1ss 4 года назад
alfonso dacullo if you only make a big deal of it. It’s just in your mind .
@millerrepin4452
@millerrepin4452 4 года назад
the feeling of feeling is a real feeling that you feel
@cakatikaggarwal2618
@cakatikaggarwal2618 4 года назад
Yesss .. it iss
@Boxxxxxxxxx
@Boxxxxxxxxx 2 года назад
At twenty-six years old I have finally reached the last semester of my undergraduate degree. It took YEARS to understand what I wanted and what I was willing to sacrifice for it. I suffered depression, suicidal issues, and addictions that I needed to overcome but I did it. For years I felt ashamed and behind my peers but now I have the focus, drive, and clarity.
@marcer361
@marcer361 Год назад
get that bread man!
@kishanchali8752
@kishanchali8752 Год назад
I also graduated when I was 26. That's normal for my country (somewhere in Asia). After graduating from a European university, I was disheartened for not being able to find a job related to what I learned or get selected to a PhD. However, my past experience has shown me that even though I was late to achieve certain things, later I got the best things that I could've hoped for. What matters is that we keep focus on our goals and not comparing ourselves with others.
@delaneysmith9251
@delaneysmith9251 Год назад
You should be very very proud of yourself. What an accomplishment!
@itshermau
@itshermau Год назад
That's really great, Bethany! I wanna say that every time you go back up after being tripped, you have already won!
@robcampbell3387
@robcampbell3387 Год назад
Very glad things worked out for you! I'm also finishing my undergrad this year at 26. When I first left college I felt like a failure, and it hurt to watch all my friends and former HS classmates finish and get degrees while I was working mundane jobs that didn't give me any fulfillment. But the time I took off made me grow immensely as a person. I learned more about myself and the world, and had the time to think about what I really wanted to do and how I was going to achieve it. When I went back to school it was way easier the second time and I felt much more confident and driven. My first school wasn't the right fit and it was bleeding my dry financially, but my second has been much better in nearly every way. I've made some great connections through it and secured an amazing internship - things that probably would not have happened for me at my first school.
@EJartistry
@EJartistry Год назад
32 still living with my parents .. broke .. rethinking my career and my entire life.. Wish me luck and send me prayers 🙏🏼
@___m.r.i.m.a916
@___m.r.i.m.a916 Год назад
Wish you luck 💗💗💗
@dvsnkROCKY
@dvsnkROCKY Год назад
I'm also in a similar condition. Pray God as he's the only saviour for all of us & he will guide you.
@marlonecampbell1750
@marlonecampbell1750 10 месяцев назад
Not luck but a vision of your best self.
@EJartistry
@EJartistry 10 месяцев назад
@@marlonecampbell1750 yes, thank you 🙏🏻
@Pharmmay
@Pharmmay 9 месяцев назад
Best wishes
@angelg2638
@angelg2638 Год назад
Started college at 16. Did things in between. Graduated at 39. Got in to med sch...immediately - after bachelors. Then, slowed down again - did things..traveled....and graduated at 49. At 16, getting the highest possible SAT score, I thought I wanted to be an engineer. Did 5 semesters of it,hated it. Went into writing - in a sch without a journalism course. Got in the university newspaper, a weekly. LOVED it. Every minute if it. Great life-long friendships, relationships. Wrote professionally. LOVE IT. Got published nationally. Interviewed important people. Went places. At 21, started dentist school - at the most prestigious in the nation. At 25, one semester before graduating and becoming fully-fledged dentist, I quit. Couldn't commit to working inside people's mouths for a lifetime. Enlisted in the military. Did college credits in between deployments, and wars. Had great experiences. Awesome memories, friendships. At 37, got out. With a more concrete plan of what I really want - to be a doctor - finished last 2 yrs of bachelors. Graduated in two quick yrs at 39. Gained entry to medical school same month I graduated undergrad. But after 3 yrs, got burnt out. Couldn't concentrate. So I went overseas. Learned I was not well. Suffered PTSD from the military, depression (from the slow progress of "life", and mil service), and found out I was also ADHD (concentration difficulties) and mild schizo (from trauma). Meanwhile, wrote articles and columns for newspapers and magazines of my experiences in the military. Returned to school 5 yrs later, graduated at 49. Yes, it took many frustrating years to understand myself, forgive me, and find the bigger meaning of Life. But now, I learn things like my mind is a sponge. I'm more confident and secure of myself. Today, I'm so happy having having done so many things, enjoyed all of them and also loving medicine, something I didn't even plan on. Most of my peers in high school, undergrad, the military have either retired, or flamed out. I'm still LOVING LIFE that I don't mind working until 75, 80. Or i can die tomorrow. Either way, I've enjoyed several Lifetimes.
@swagsurfin7736
@swagsurfin7736 Год назад
Wow this was sooooo inspirational. Thank you 💕
@raemond1391
@raemond1391 Год назад
Wow... You have an amazing life that many would never get, good luck
@hassana5644
@hassana5644 Год назад
woww!! hats off
@Marmer
@Marmer Год назад
I'm jealous of the relationships in your life and wonder if you have kids. If not, how is life without kids?
@angelg2638
@angelg2638 Год назад
@@raemond1391 it only sounds amazing when it is watched in fast forward. But while trudging through life's trials, it is brutal. Like people say, "Instant success" takes 20 years. I took 23 yrs to finish my bachelors. 10 years to finish a 4 yr doctor's degree. But I got to spend time and look after my ageing parents, while delaying my career and healing my mental health issues. Life happens.
@justicecrying
@justicecrying 2 года назад
It's so weird that when I look back I see so many wrong decisions in my life but without them I would not have achieved what I have today.
@incoherentexistence
@incoherentexistence 2 года назад
Yes! 👏👏
@billapink5783
@billapink5783 Год назад
exactly!!
@anjalimaind9191
@anjalimaind9191 Год назад
Me too
@eze007
@eze007 Год назад
same goes with me
@elle12390
@elle12390 Год назад
This
@Aced_Dreamer
@Aced_Dreamer 2 года назад
Being a generalist at the start really makes you feel like you're falling behind. True talk
@melnjada2
@melnjada2 2 года назад
I'm 30 and still feel like one but mostly when I compare myself to others.
@DomCOuano
@DomCOuano 2 года назад
for real for real.
@mikebarillet8666
@mikebarillet8666 Год назад
Definitely a late game build
@goshikasaravana
@goshikasaravana Год назад
Yep very true
@qhoward5328
@qhoward5328 Год назад
Always feel like your not putting enough focus into one thing or the other
@faithblamon1700
@faithblamon1700 Год назад
As a 27 year old first year medical student, I loved hearing this. I’m finding that my “late start” has given me many advantages. I definitely feel the slowness and frustrations that you mentioned. However, I have found that I’m better at strategy and knowing how to approach different problems. Thanks for this talk
@VisualJoey
@VisualJoey Год назад
I have figured out this head start after I dropped out two times. I then started a new education and felt behind. Shortly after I realized I was ahead in many different ways. My doubt, curiosity and uncertainty were put into a power. I focussed on those things and that got me really far. However, I lost this ‘touch’ and fell back. This video and your comment made me think about focussing on how to approach new interests and corporate them into my life as it is - pushing me forward step by step, even if they are into a different direction - instead of leaning towards making big steps into the right direction.
@faithblamon1700
@faithblamon1700 Год назад
@@VisualJoey I’m happy to hear my comment contributed to you. It is absolutely about taking things step by step. I like how you put that into perspective. Frustration is inevitable but we are not defined by our failures or shortcomings. It is the lessons we learn and what we do next that matters. You got this and I’m sure your journey/story will inspire people in a similar situation! Wishing you the best
@faithblamon1700
@faithblamon1700 Год назад
@@hyrum_abiff4325 thank you! Wishing you the same!
@nicolasrivera3422
@nicolasrivera3422 Год назад
Hey dude, by reading your comment I got a lot of motivation, Im also have 27 years old, and recently in the past six months I started to learn how to code (web development), and sometimes I fell that I came too late to try to get a job into the tech industry. Sorry about my bad english. Im learnig it too. I hope you to get success in your way.
@faithblamon1700
@faithblamon1700 Год назад
@@nicolasrivera3422 Congratulations Nicolás on your new journey to coding! I’m happy my comment helped to give you motivation. I am sure you will do great and be successful! Wishing you the best and thank you!
@timothyelicada2630
@timothyelicada2630 2 года назад
"Jack of all trades, master of none, though oftentimes better than a master of one." This speech is a gem!
@hongquiao
@hongquiao 4 года назад
As a 31 year old failed art student currently failing to learn web development, this is very inspirational!
@pppinto97
@pppinto97 3 года назад
Dunno who you are, but every time you WATCH this Ted talk, you better be a MILLIONAIRE or be in PROGRESS to achieve whatever you want to. Good Luck
@hongquiao
@hongquiao 3 года назад
@@pppinto97 Well I'm not a millionaire (yet) but I AM progressing... :)
@marasiganbeamaries.1456
@marasiganbeamaries.1456 2 года назад
How r u today?
@ulysses8910
@ulysses8910 2 года назад
Try to not conquer Germany
@piotr_jurkiewicz
@piotr_jurkiewicz 2 года назад
... by any chance are you maybe an Austrian? :]
@Theloveinabubble
@Theloveinabubble 4 года назад
As a med student, I always felt bad for liking to learn other things besides medicine (languages,photography,writing) because my classmates were so hiperfocused on studying nothing more than medicine. Of course they graduated earlier than me, but I mastered two more languages, which gives me the posisibility to specialize in a different country from mine, so,maybe it wasn't wasted time
@rose-mg9wt
@rose-mg9wt 2 года назад
WOW!!! 😍this is my dream to learn more languages!! how did you manage with a difficult workload??
@luisinha154
@luisinha154 2 года назад
stopppp this is literally how I feel
@user-ug6kk5ux5q
@user-ug6kk5ux5q 2 года назад
The same thing I felt as a Computer Science student. I love a lot of things like philosophy, literature, painting, bodybuilding, psihology etc; I love to socialize and travel to see the world. I m also an adrenaline junky. So I feel so constrained by the field I chose ( even tho I rlly loved informatics ), because I feel like I can't keep up when all the people around me spend minimum 10 hours per day in the front of the computer...and that s all they do and speak about
@tomasbeltran04050
@tomasbeltran04050 2 года назад
hey, would you mind sharing your experience financing those extra years it took you to graduate? I feel inspired by this way of life, but I'm afraid of staying unproductive for longer
@rvscape
@rvscape 2 года назад
@@user-ug6kk5ux5q how are you doing now? I'm a CS student and I'm feeling so anxious because like you, I like spending time doing a lot of other things in addition to CS. Meanwhile it feels like other CS students are spending all their time studying, learning code just overall being really competitive and trying really hard. It makes me feel really bad.
@barlov_filange
@barlov_filange 6 месяцев назад
Just Turned 28. Going back to college to get a degree in CS (focusing on AI), after building a career in Law for more than half a decade. While my friends are getting married, having children and buying their 1st house... I am sitting next to 18 year olds learning about linear algebra. I have never been more excited in my life. It's just feels right this time. Most of us spend our 20s trying to fit the narrative of how life should be. Doing what is expected of us. I'm glad I had the courage to stop when i did and decided to do what i think I should do. I don't know what's waiting on the otherwise but we gotta try right?
@ting3459
@ting3459 6 месяцев назад
What you want truly matters at the end of the day. I ventured into the world of built environment and design when I was already a recognized young artist in my area and was offered several promising roles in my career before I was 17. Courageous and a little naive, I set off to the world. Because nobody around me has done what I chose, and literally nobody/no mentor to relate to; the journey has been challenging. And who would have thought I was ill for most of the journey? So, it was very tough. But the persistence was worth it. After 10 years of making mistakes, working hard, being beaten down, questioning myself, and standing up again, I have transformed into a much better artistic creative, still curious and passionate, had all of my questions answered, completely got out of a narcissistic household, and so sure of life more than ever. Yes, my friends are getting married, settling down, and seemingly more successful, but I know I can never accept living numbly by following what others are doing.
@tlhogid663
@tlhogid663 5 месяцев назад
Congratulations!
@nurulbakhira3580
@nurulbakhira3580 4 месяца назад
i wish you all the best on your path!!
@Mcouey2
@Mcouey2 3 месяца назад
I’m in the same boat right now. I left teaching as a band director in 2022 and it was incredibly difficult and painful to do so. And now I am back in school for a degree in computer IT. I ended up doing a group project and it was so hard to work with them. While I recognize, it would’ve been harder to do it myself, it was a challenge to be civil at times after multiple concussions, and dealing with their immaturity. But looking back on the semester, I’m glad for the friendship, honestly. And one of them I will be in tonight classes with this semester. She’s pregnant now, so I don’t know how long will be on the track together, but I’m going to cherish the time that we have. And I feel a lot more hopeful about what will be on the other side. I will have so many different opportunities and the sky is the limit in what I can teach myself and what I can get certified in, all in small bites along the way. And this is one part of I guess you could say my bucket list. But I’ve always had trouble self starting and learning on my own. It’s kind of overwhelming, even though I am very good with technology, and have always stayed up on the latest PCs and devices. I’ve been surprised at how difficult the curriculum is given my background. But I will be very proud to walk at graduation when that time comes. Good luck to you!
@Carrymejane
@Carrymejane 3 месяца назад
I can feel your happiness and passion when u learn the subject, that's because it what i actually felt tho 😭​@@ting3459
@batimix666
@batimix666 2 года назад
Man I almost cried, I’ve always wished that my parent had put me in one specific sport or career-like hobby because I struggled with excellence while wanting it so bad. Now I look back to what I’ve been through and what I learned and it’s really cool to manage different stuff and integrate it. I look forward to the future with a lot of enthusiasm.
@monica.s1345
@monica.s1345 Год назад
Those type of kids were limited whereas we are limitless
@nihilisticnirvana
@nihilisticnirvana Год назад
Same!! I did a lot of different things but never specialized- for years i felt like i wasted my parent's money :/
@hollyworldent5977
@hollyworldent5977 7 месяцев назад
@@monica.s1345if you end up doing anything (talking to myself)
@KrisSamuel
@KrisSamuel 4 года назад
As someone with ADHD, who has struggled her whole life to sustain the focus necessary to specialize, as someone who's always worked hard but still felt "behind"... This is so encouraging.
@mejithintom1
@mejithintom1 4 года назад
Exactly my feeling!!
@biomutarist6832
@biomutarist6832 4 года назад
Keep going, you'll make it ;)
@jimjs5672
@jimjs5672 4 года назад
Exactly how I feel....I hope you're rocking it Kris.
@emmchen1101
@emmchen1101 4 года назад
Kris is an interesting name for a girl. I like it. Where is it from?
@KittyCatSpartan117
@KittyCatSpartan117 4 года назад
T-T YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS 🤧 ADHD can make the smartest person in the world feel the stupidest of the world. Choosing a major has been so hard becuase I've never felt like I've specialized in anything in particular, but rather I've managed to finish everything just on time but this talk gives me hope I'll be just fine ^^ you will too!
@amoghskulkarni
@amoghskulkarni 3 года назад
30 and just dropped out of my PhD in my 6th year because it wasn't fulfilling, and now just utterly confused and disheartened about the future. Thanks TEDx for this comforting and reassuring talk. The future might not be as bleak as I am supposing it to be.
@mushrifsaidin
@mushrifsaidin 2 года назад
Hey man I'm 29 and just failed my PhD too. Dropped out because it wasn't what I was looking for plus other personal reasons. Just dropping in to say you're not alone and that our lives are just beginning. Best of luck out there buddy!
@Ascientistsjourney
@Ascientistsjourney 2 года назад
I am 20. 😅. In my undergrad. 😁. Thinking of pursuing a PhD further and watching people dropping out of it. 🙂
@briandepalma7252
@briandepalma7252 2 года назад
How are you doing now Amogh bhaiya?
@johndwhite1972
@johndwhite1972 2 года назад
The person who developed eye-movement desensitization and reprocessing therapy (EMDR) was getting her PhD in English literature. Then she had an insight that took her in a completely different direction. She left that program and got her PhD in psychology instead.
@joao3547
@joao3547 2 года назад
@@johndwhite1972 her insight was probably that she could trick people into thinking that EMDR is a real thing that works lol
@Su-ryeon
@Su-ryeon 9 месяцев назад
Gone through the comment section I literally want all the luck and success from the bottom of my heart to all those people who are living their life. I am 20 yrs old and I thought that I left behind everyone and overthinking all the time. I am literally shocked seeing so many comments who starts college at 25, 30 🤯. You guys are real heros. I am just blowed up 😐.
@TakiGosc427
@TakiGosc427 9 месяцев назад
I'm also 20 yrs old and feel left behind. Hope you will find your path in life.
@nipun5006
@nipun5006 9 месяцев назад
​@@TakiGosc427Me too bro. I feel so lost like everyone I see of my age they are so smart, doing something or the other. And here I am with zero skills, my parents invested so much money on me and I am just wasting my life. I am still not cleared but I will. I promise. I am not a quitter. Can I get your insta dude just to connect?
@belljoe
@belljoe 7 месяцев назад
Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
@Robertgriffinne
@Robertgriffinne 7 месяцев назад
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beause I invested early ahead this time .
@ivankagel9949
@ivankagel9949 7 месяцев назад
The rich Invest in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...
@rannyorton
@rannyorton 7 месяцев назад
I thought about investing in the financial market, I heard that people make millions if you know the tricks of the trade, but I lack good knowledge and a strategy to outperform the market and generate good yields. I have $160,000 but it's hard to bite the bullet and do it.
@dawsondanny990
@dawsondanny990 7 месяцев назад
Having an investment advisor is the best way to go. Based on a direct encounter with a CFP named Kate Elizabeth Amdall, I can say with certainty that their skills are excellent. She helped raise over $580,000 in 18 months from an initially stagnant portfolio of $150,000
@rannyorton
@rannyorton 7 месяцев назад
Fantastic! can u share more details?
@LiliumPetal
@LiliumPetal 4 года назад
“A jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one.”
@tiwongemtonga
@tiwongemtonga 4 года назад
Word!
@Ray2311us
@Ray2311us 4 года назад
Often times... when are those? Haven t experienced it once
@LiliumPetal
@LiliumPetal 4 года назад
@@Ray2311us This is the actual quote, people just leave off the second half. When you're trying to do something other than your field of expertise, when you're able to pull from multiple pools of different knowledge to work on a single project, when you're able to get a well-paying job outside your desired field in order to pay the rent, etc etc
@MD_1992
@MD_1992 4 года назад
@@Ray2311us those often times the jack would be better than the master would be in almost every trade except the ONE trade that the master has "mastered"
@LiliumPetal
@LiliumPetal 4 года назад
@@Nevarek339 A bit of an over-acceptance of the idea I feel. Just as it is beneficial to be a Jack of All Trades in the accumulation of skills, so too is it beneficial to do the same with ideas. You mischaracterize much of this crisis and present an overly individualistic take to its ramifications in my opinion. While yes you are responsible for yourself, there also a great many things that lie outside of someone's control, this crisis as an example. Many will be faced with circumstances outside of their control as a result of these things going on in the world, and they will be like a person struck by lightening. They can do all they can to avoid its danger, to minimize the risk to themselves, but in the end they have no control over the bolt and may still be struck by it. I agree that accumulating skills is a good way to expand your resume and have other opportunities lined up in case you should need/want to venture them, however in the case of a total shutdown like this, many people who are adaptive and skilled in varying things will still find themselves out of a job due to no fault of their own, but rather the fault of the situation. In an economic situation such as this, the job supply has plummeted while the demand has skyrocketed, as a result there aren't enough jobs to go around and people will inevitably be left without work to support themselves. It is in these cases that I find support to be necessary and beneficial to not only individuals but also the economy and the nation/world as a whole. Without strong social welfare support in place through blanket programs such as Social Security and the like, people will fail to make ends meet. They will be evicted for not being able to pay rent, they will be forced to go hungry, and many will die, and none of it their fault or due to a lack of adaptability on their part.
@klake4773
@klake4773 2 года назад
"A jack of all trades is a master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one." One of the few sayings that I really love hearing but a lot of people don't know fully.
@Reypstraptor4269
@Reypstraptor4269 2 года назад
I would have to disagree with this quote to an extend.First of all where does it say you cant be a master of multiple things.Even if you can be a master of just one thing but you are able to teach it to other people thats batter than a jack of all trades who cant teach nothing of real value.
@lukelim5094
@lukelim5094 2 года назад
@@Reypstraptor4269 i was a struggling audio engineer and musician for a few years. In my youthful naive mind i thought i wanna be a musician and be in the music industry. I had people telling me i was a jack of all trade and master of none before. But then i start looking and delving into cameras as well with concepts and cables being the same. For a period i was wavering between being a musician or be someone that earn money using cameras. Then covid happens and i lean whole way into multicam live stream events and photography and videography So right now I am very good at photography, videography and live stream events. Have a thriving busniess and learning everyday about how to run a busniess. If i had been idiotic and said i should focus on being a gigging drummer i would have suffer greatly Most of my musician friends hardly do music gigs these days and kinda suffer even now. But every single experience have contributed to me being very very good at events running and taking photos and video. There is a difference between being a simple jack of all trade that touch and go. And someone who uses all their experience to focus and inspire their crafts. Difference being are you there to link your inspirations together
@saynotohookups
@saynotohookups 2 года назад
@@Reypstraptor4269 Look at some of the great minds of history. Some were great at many things and knew numerous languages.
@mrknarf4438
@mrknarf4438 2 года назад
According to Wikipedia, this isn't the original quote, only a more recent variation: ------------ In modern times, the phrase with the "master of none" element is sometimes expanded into a less unflattering couplet by adding a second line: "but oftentimes better than master of one" (or variants thereof), with some writers saying that such a couplet is the "original" version with the second line having been dropped, although there are no known instances of this second line dated to before the twenty-first century.
@NatashaNewtonArt
@NatashaNewtonArt Год назад
I didn't know the full saying, and I love it!
@Alwayssjuicy
@Alwayssjuicy 2 года назад
I have had about 20 jobs from the age of 18-24, my resume only says 4 lol, but I've gained so much knowledge and insights through all of my jobs. I also have a lot of interest in many different things. To most this kind of way of being seems unfavorable because people associate you with not being consistent or starting one thing and not finishing it. During an interview I said I'm a jack of all trades.. and the interviewer said "but master of none" and rolled his eyes, but then I proceeded with telling him," but better than a master of one" and walked away from a small minded individual who couldn't see the endless possibilities and skills I've obtained through different jobs/industries. Do what makes you happy and live a life that makes sense to you. I'm 25 now and yet to find what I love as I love so many things. I have loved the life I've lived so far doing what makes me happy. Trusting the process and you should too!
@siphomudenda9674
@siphomudenda9674 2 года назад
As a serial job hoper I can relate
@rationalthinker9541
@rationalthinker9541 2 года назад
😊why not try forex trading....
@johnfoley4023
@johnfoley4023 Год назад
@@rationalthinker9541 Forex is so yesterday... try Crypto!
@AyeBeeG
@AyeBeeG Год назад
Someone’s got some issues that that gloss over. Js
@emyf9194
@emyf9194 Год назад
In America it's easier to get minimum wage jobs (altho terrible job policies) but in Sweden u gotta have degree in everything! even as a janitor they'll ask if u are certified 🤦‍♂ unless u have someone who hands u in a job.. but I would tip u to subscribe to self made millenial channel here on RU-vid. she works in HR and has recruited ppl and interviewed ppl etc she gives the best tips on how to write resumes and what to say n not to say on interviews etc it worked a lot for me and many others. good luck
@dimitra7628
@dimitra7628 Год назад
As a 27 year old who is finally pursuing their love of acting and standup comedy instead of going to grad school, this has given me hope.
@GarviHere
@GarviHere Год назад
27 year old software dev turning 3d animator here! Wishing you luck!
@joelansere8743
@joelansere8743 Год назад
Wish y’all the best
@1xalexandrax1
@1xalexandrax1 Год назад
hows it going? you should make youtube videos!
@dimitra7628
@dimitra7628 Год назад
@@1xalexandrax1 funny you ask, I’ve been making funny videos on IG and I just started performing standup at open mics a couple weeks ago!!
@AFireBirdPhoenix
@AFireBirdPhoenix 8 месяцев назад
I am 28,I want to learn acting and act in movies and series.
@nora-dq9mo
@nora-dq9mo 4 года назад
Finally someone who doesn't tell you to go find your passion to be happy, just do what makes you happy constantly and eventually there will be a way. Thank you!
@christopherhernandez3909
@christopherhernandez3909 4 года назад
thecirculada exactly 🙂
@olu4740
@olu4740 4 года назад
That wasn't the point of the video lmao,
@TR0LLREIGN
@TR0LLREIGN 4 года назад
How did you get THAT message from this video? :D The point is to try a lot of things so that you find something that you like and you're good at. Doing what makes you happy "constantly" sounds like never leaving your comfort zone and never growing.
@nora-dq9mo
@nora-dq9mo 4 года назад
@@TR0LLREIGN personally, what makes me happy is learning new skills and trying new things all the time, sometimes new hobbies or sports or instruments. That's the way I fou different things that I love to do. To me, my pass is learning and discovery, which is why the comment makes sense to me :D I don't have one thing that makes me happy in my comfort zone, discovery outside of it is my passion. Now it makes sense?
@LKRaider
@LKRaider 4 года назад
thecirculada - search for happiness is a futile endeavor sold by the entertainment media to enslave you to their products. Grow up and face the problems of society and help us overcome our limitations as human beings. Only that will give you freedom and growth of spirit.
@nileshkujur8025
@nileshkujur8025 4 года назад
In India, we are always told to run in life with our head down. But no one told us to stop, walk, and wander. Just walk and wander, you will be great.
@sachinpatil7005
@sachinpatil7005 4 года назад
I can understand
@heinzgilbert
@heinzgilbert 3 года назад
What is the meaning of this quote? Why would you run with head down? Is'nt that a formula of getting bumped?
@ksrajavel
@ksrajavel 3 года назад
@@heinzgilbert To not focus on anything other than career.
@jennifergersch9126
@jennifergersch9126 2 года назад
The French have a word, "flaneur," meaning a wanderer, often in urban settings. Never be afraid to meander around a different corner; you never know what you'll discover.
@gauravgautam8674
@gauravgautam8674 2 года назад
@@jennifergersch9126 thank you so much bud, I hope we can connect and share some these kinds of ideas.
@jassipoop
@jassipoop 2 месяца назад
25 and I will start university this Fall... it will be 5 yrs of engineering. Been through so much, Pls pray for me 😢
@topixomar6132
@topixomar6132 Год назад
Very inspiring. Immediately made me think of "Not all who wander are lost".
@joinmeforasmile4464
@joinmeforasmile4464 4 года назад
''Too many people run too fast in the wrong direction and end up regretting it. So why the rush?'' - I forgot who said this to me but although I kept this in mind all these years, I ended up making the same mistake.. edit: For some reason, people have been commenting on this more often lately, so I'd just like to clarify something. I no longer share the same mindset with my past self. I've become much more grateful for where I am and appreciative of the little things; and I no longer believe in making the right/wrong choice. I now believe that everything's a matter of perspective and in making the most out of any given situation. There's always something positive to be found if you're willing to look for it. Thank you all for taking the time to read my comment and sharing your own opinions with me! 🌸 I've read through them all and I appreciate it. Stay safe and have a great day!
@jennifergersch9126
@jennifergersch9126 2 года назад
We have so much risk aversion in our society. Never rush in foolishly, but know that with a bit of cushion, you can take a leap at any time.
@kookiecastro8452
@kookiecastro8452 2 года назад
because you focus on the thought
@kookiecastro8452
@kookiecastro8452 2 года назад
@@jennifergersch9126 cushion on what?
@aendyr4472
@aendyr4472 2 года назад
Uhmm...it's very similar to what's written in "Tuesday's with Morrie"
@Miranda-uf7xb
@Miranda-uf7xb 2 года назад
Wonderful advice!!!! Thank u for sharing this!
@cse_antonysun_1523
@cse_antonysun_1523 4 года назад
"She is only 104,we don't know what's next",GREAT WORDS😂😂
@Muskan-jr5ps
@Muskan-jr5ps Год назад
21 and will start college again in a new field after dropping out of med school in the 3rd year. This is what I needed.
@UmbralMxx
@UmbralMxx Год назад
You're good, i'm 23 and also about to start over
@Muskan-jr5ps
@Muskan-jr5ps Год назад
@@UmbralMxx all the very best !! Hope this time it’ll be fulfilling enough :D
@daniellaurin9566
@daniellaurin9566 Год назад
Wtf med school at 21 are you a child prodigy or do you mean pre med.
@Muskan-jr5ps
@Muskan-jr5ps Год назад
@@daniellaurin9566 I'm from India and here we start med school soon after high school, have to just clear a national level entrance exam somewhat like MCAT.
@daniellaurin9566
@daniellaurin9566 Год назад
@@Muskan-jr5ps oh interesting, I will look at this on my own terms. Thanks.
@magneticfluxer3300
@magneticfluxer3300 Год назад
I'm the only woman in my electronics class, and I just failed the first exam. This video has helped give me confidence I need, thank you!
@el_micha
@el_micha Год назад
Keep on going! You can repeat the exam, I'm sure. Next time it will go better!
@auei
@auei 7 месяцев назад
Update?
@SS-lp8fu
@SS-lp8fu 4 года назад
My Cent here, I'm a software engineer. I have never been good in mathematics (just enough to get good grades), Have a less than average memorizing capability and have been above average student at school. Nothing much remarkable about my abilities. I have focused very much on learning as much as i can. Be in linguistics, genetics , bio chemistry , history, physics, meditation, eastern methods, cooking, pottery . The list goes on. I have been able to adapt to almost any environment very easily which stresses most of people. I have been made to handle things i have no idea about or almost never heard of. But amazingly , I'm pretty successful in what ever i do. I never say NO to any challenge. I think once you learn so much stuff your mind figures out something for you. The solutions come out of common sense ,like natural flow of water. My whole input here is , learn as much as you can. The more diversified input you give to your mind, more amazed you would be with results.
@MubashirAR
@MubashirAR 2 года назад
A software engineer myself. I've been generalizing for a while now (I'm fairly early in my career) and what I've noticed is the more I generalize, the easier it becomes for me to understand concepts that many very good engineers even find difficult. It has really broadened my thinking. I feel like there are concepts that are easier understood if you learn other things, and then bring that knowledge to something your currently focusing on.
@drakesmith471
@drakesmith471 2 года назад
I think your input was very insightful and I liked it. Your interests sound a large amount like mine. Eastern methods and pottery aren’t there, more so cause I don’t have access to the latter and the first one I don’t know if that includes meditation (which I should do). Diverse interests I’ll say that and I don’t think I’ve ever seen that exact combo in anyone else. I think it’s neat to find someone with like interests. I have a specific career interest but hobby interest and sort of life goal stuff that derives from it has gotten me called scatter brained by a few people, however I have been complimented on that by a person and I like their way of looking at it. I just liked those cause I liked it and I just felt I should have a goal to live my life like I’m living many, so live to the fullest is my thought. My friend said that by having diverse interests though it can add a depth to the color in a person and it makes them interesting. I like to think so, I think you will too. Qué interesante.
@johnathonsensing8162
@johnathonsensing8162 2 года назад
Wish I could say the same. I like to research the paranormal and the unknown, here and abroad across the world. This is not helping me in life at any typical job. I'm terrible at math and I can't remember people's names, only faces. I dropped out and got my GED. Tried a online collage to get In homeland security. Back when we still had AOL dial up internet. To try and find out who was really responsible for 911.. My grandfather and father were both firefighters. I grew up around trauma and stress.. I can work and deal with on the fly problem solving. I like to say Mc.Guyvor the issues without blinking an eye while most would say I'm crazy for helping.. I can't work with typical people because I'm a free thinker and stubborn when people try to change my thoughts. This has in no way helped me get jobs. When I did try I made it on a local fire departments hiring list multiple times but never was hired.. discovered many different types of fraud in the multiple works places I've been. Each time I won by my theories of the truth that prove wrong doing. I've learned to fly a Cessna 152 but I have no flight log. All the money spent was like it never happened. I'm a jack of all trades but always on paper a master of none. What should someone that doesn't like the system we are slaves to be part of it and be happy? How do we find what we like when the system says give me money we will never have? The people I meet seem to have a different out look on perception in our everyday. I want them to know just as much as I want to know the truth of the unknown around us. If you were to ask me, "what I want to do in life"? All I can say I don't know.. I'm too scattered brained to reside to one thing or another. You guys with the computer programming abilities, my hat is off to you.. you have been there and done it.
@mushrifsaidin
@mushrifsaidin 2 года назад
@@johnathonsensing8162 You should give daytrading a go, it helped a fellow scatter brain like me get the income I need to continue on my diverse journey of trying a lot of things in this world. Best of luck there friend!
@johnathonsensing8162
@johnathonsensing8162 2 года назад
@@mushrifsaidin Thank you sir. I've been researching the market and looking into new technologies on the arisen.
@mackprime6975
@mackprime6975 2 года назад
Moral of the story: Don’t be afraid to hyper-specialize in adaptability
@oganyayloglu5560
@oganyayloglu5560 Год назад
criminally underrated comment
@godschildren9332
@godschildren9332 Год назад
pin this
@Tubeytime
@Tubeytime Год назад
This supposes that adaptability can be taught, is there any evidence backing this up?
@OFFICALMENOFCULTURE
@OFFICALMENOFCULTURE Год назад
He wasn't pointing to adaptability at all.... He was pointing to the issue that choosing something too soon could be detrimental, especially if you havent tried other things that you may enjoy more and may be way better at. 10,000 hours on something when there was something even better for you is a shame. :)
@oganyayloglu5560
@oganyayloglu5560 Год назад
@@OFFICALMENOFCULTURE realize that pushing things to its logical conclusion, trying out many things instead of focusing on something early on is, ultimately, specializing in adaptability. Being a jack of all trades. This way, when you find something you enjoy, you might have an advantage as opposed to what is generally believed. If someone has tried more things than you, a.k.a hyper-specialized in adaptability, they might have the upper hand.
@vellarahmania
@vellarahmania Год назад
I started college at 27, graduated at 31. I'm 32 now and I've been switching career 5 times since I graduated high school. I clearly have a different path than most people but I kind of proud of who I am today. Thank you for this!
@laurieberry162
@laurieberry162 Год назад
I am a 54 year old single woman: not by choice. I am getting my second book published. I started college in my forties. Although I worked for thirty years. I feel like the latest bloomer. But I believe that VC Andrews, or Virginia Andrews, she started writing much older than me and a best seller. I wanted to be an author since high school. My parents didn’t have much money to help me get through college. These people who he mentions are not as late as myself. I know that I am bright. But I like the story of the 54 year old. I got a college degree. I have failed many times at becoming an author. I am not happy or satisfied with myself. I expect that if I live to be 85, there is going to be around 30 books authored by myself.
@KarinaSkyy
@KarinaSkyy 2 года назад
I graduated college at 28 and I think it was the best timing because I probably wouldn’t have chosen the major I did. Everything works out you just have to keep going 🙌🏼
@incoherentexistence
@incoherentexistence 2 года назад
Congrats! For me I’m just glad I didn’t go to college right after HS. It was weird “adulting” for 1 or 2 years in the food industry. And when I did come back to school, I switched majors 4 times, and learned that that’s OK. I had to understand that I wasn’t disappointing anyone, only myself. Film school > Political Science > Astronomy > now in Nursing school, ready to be an NP
@naturalhypnoticsounds7208
@naturalhypnoticsounds7208 2 года назад
Your is so inspirational to me 😭💓
@astre2974
@astre2974 2 года назад
I'm 24 and my parents are frustrated and disappointed at me that I'm still not graduating from the degree they choose for me to take. I know I'm left behind by my peers, it's been a struggle for me for years to try to keep up, but deep down I know the timing is alright. It was just the expectations of society and people around me that are making it hard. And I'm glad I'm not alone, I'm glad to see your comment, you're an inspiration. Adulting is hard--but being left behind had taught me many things and I've explored my talents. I guess it's a win for me.
@KarinaSkyy
@KarinaSkyy 2 года назад
@@astre2974 experiences are priceless! Keep growing, learning and becoming who YOU want to be.
@laetitia7586
@laetitia7586 2 года назад
@@incoherentexistence Ayye another nursing student! Congrats dude I’m happy for you !
@ltthelattegirl
@ltthelattegirl 4 года назад
“We never really hear developmental stories, do we? We don’t hear the research that found a Nobel Laureate scientist is 22 times more likely to have a hobby outside of work as our typical scientist.” Great talk.
@Earthsalarmclock
@Earthsalarmclock 6 месяцев назад
I’m 17 and have sampled probably a little of almost every career path(as much as you can sample as a teenager) but I kept coming back to the same one I wanted since I was 5 which is theoretical physics
@jayneakinyi1992
@jayneakinyi1992 Год назад
As a woman who wanted to persue civil engineering, lacked tuition fee for my undergrad at 2nd year of study, decided to go ahead and start a diploma in civil engineering @22 rather than wait for miracles...corona happened now at 25...still not done with diploma, I often feel behind but I have learnt alot about dynamics of life and timing,I became more dedicated to my studies..this video has helped me too. Don't you stop, keep going.
@eldondaniel2074
@eldondaniel2074 Год назад
Idhi nade Akinyi?
@jayneakinyi1992
@jayneakinyi1992 9 месяцев назад
​@@eldondaniel2074adhi maber😊
@dagnysams2225
@dagnysams2225 4 месяца назад
Good luck, engineer!!! Youre doing great
@avivagodfrey9272
@avivagodfrey9272 4 года назад
This is coming at a time in my life when I really needed it. Six colleges, eight majors, and only halfway at most through my learning journey. My degree can't even address all the skills I've accumulated. My father was upset at the thought that I would be a "lifetime learner" - but I finally found something I believe I can do for the rest of my life and never get tired of. Feels like sweet validation instead of "You're behind on life, you're a failure."
@wheeloflife17
@wheeloflife17 4 года назад
Goodluck Aviva. I am also fighting my own battle. Never give up on what you believe in. It can take time but surely it will work out. Stay safe. Whole lotta love 👍❤️
@oliviawronski6387
@oliviawronski6387 4 года назад
Congrats on hanging in there. You'll find your own direction, and it will lead you into the most amazing and unexpected places. Yep. 3rd major in. I've felt I was wandering around stupidly, and only recently really coming to terms with the fact my path isn't and can't be linear. It's often now that I know some random tidbit about something that is actually useful and relevant, and it comes from just bumbling around and smashing facefirst into walls for years.
@abhishekvarshney7695
@abhishekvarshney7695 4 года назад
Aviva Godfrey what have you finally found ?
@avivagodfrey9272
@avivagodfrey9272 4 года назад
@@abhishekvarshney7695 Teaching university. I always knew I couldn't handle K12, but I was hired as a lab instructor while working on my undergrad and realized that teaching university students was possibly one of the most rewarding experiences I've ever had. I'm almost done with an MFA in Creative Writing now, and I plan to use that as a springboard for a second series of degrees in Japanese. ovo Ultimate goal: teach university-level Japanese courses!
@abhishekvarshney7695
@abhishekvarshney7695 4 года назад
Aviva Godfrey i wish you all the very best for well lived life 🌸
@mushrifsaidin
@mushrifsaidin 2 года назад
29 and just failed my PhD. Got a new lease on life and it's just starting for me. Wish me luck.
@incoherentexistence
@incoherentexistence 2 года назад
I’m 24 and had a craniotomy for a brain tumor and my body’s drawing me back to college. Wishing you the best
@solidsnake9898
@solidsnake9898 2 года назад
Good luck!
@lecomtedeneuch9994
@lecomtedeneuch9994 Год назад
You got this my G !
@H3Y0o
@H3Y0o 2 года назад
When I was younger, I went through a boot camp course to teach us on the mindset of being a successful person. I remembered clearly, on the first day, when the host asked us why are we here. Some kid just replied that they are here because they want to ace their academic examinations. The host simply knocked his head on the whiteboard for a few times, contemplating on how to translate the message. It took me a few decades to finally understand that, it's not getting education scoring and being a money-making machine that will get you far. Sure, money is an essential basic to survival in this economy, but it's not everything, even if you make the most money in this world, it is pointless if you have no idea what you are doing in your life. Successful people don't go for top scores in their academic results nor do they go for the money. Even if they do, that's because they know what they want. It's just a pawn in their chess, and it's not everything. The whole point is simple; They just do what they love and they just keep on doing that. This is true success, so what even if you enjoy doing the most redundant and the most insignificant things in life unlike your neighbor who is getting married and moving out being a top-notch lawyer or something else while you are still hiding in you mum's basement.. Take your time, quality over quantity, be yourself, stop comparing and don't follow everybody else' footstep. That's the whole lesson that took me decades to learn while fortunate people in this era can learn within a 14min video.
@ova-da-munny
@ova-da-munny 10 месяцев назад
I'm really sorry but as a practicing lawyer that does love their job very much, I feel personally offended by this comment 😂 Can the society stop job-shaming us for a while seriously? 😂🥲
@deependranetwork
@deependranetwork 2 месяца назад
Learnt 🙏❤️🙏
@zenithevangeline3011
@zenithevangeline3011 Год назад
I'm turning 27 in the next 4 days.. And I wasn't really happy because life didn't go the way I wanted it.. Needed to watch this talk.. ❤
@brooklyn8227
@brooklyn8227 2 года назад
As someone feeling incredibly behind and under so much pressure to hurry up like time is running out (at 28 years of age), this video was wonderful to hear. Thank you!
@dogloveralok600
@dogloveralok600 Год назад
Same age ....same feelin
@emyf9194
@emyf9194 Год назад
same here.. It's insane how time just seems like it's on speed mode nowadays. relatives around my age have gotten married in same YEAR of last summer.. and ppl even younger as well getting married or having kids and I'm like still on entry level job that I don't get a full time yet. and now I'm losing the interest in the field I'm working at which used to be my passion. I have applied for studies in marketing and sales and hopefully I get in bcuz the job market here where I live is pretty terrible and it's not like I have powerful friends or references in my advantage..
@emyf9194
@emyf9194 Год назад
@Saint Ratus yes, but I or anybody needs stability and that is a full time job. Especially now that we all are going through with this inflation phase which God knows how long it will last.
@doloressheff1754
@doloressheff1754 Год назад
At 28 I felt old. At 62 I feel I’m just getting warmed up!
@dipalikhodke7926
@dipalikhodke7926 9 месяцев назад
How did it go ?
@AJSchnell
@AJSchnell 4 года назад
Basically; don’t be in a rush to go to college because “it’s what society says to do” it’s okay to fall back for a little bit and really figure out what it is that you want to do. Now that you have graduated from HS, you have plenty of free time to find new hobbies and different jobs. I’m 21, I went to college for 18months and decided it wasn’t for me. Fast forward to now and I’ve tried serving aka; waiter, I’ve worked in the tree industry cutting down old dead trees and learning how the machine equipment works, I’ve worked laying tiles which is very meticulous and must pay extremely close attention to detail. What’s important is that you try a multitude of things in order to find what you truly want to do in life. Now all of my friends that I graduated with, they all have over 100k in debt while I will be able to pay off all of my student loan debt in less than a year. You don’t have to go into college right away after school, It’s okay to fall back and try different things. As long as you’re truly trying to figure out what you want to do... you will be just fine in the long haul.
@Ray2311us
@Ray2311us 4 года назад
Schnell Yes, I have decided to become a business man. Nothing else, because nothing else give me money 💰
@wisegirl9462
@wisegirl9462 3 года назад
Inspired
@neo_aliaga
@neo_aliaga 2 года назад
@@Ray2311us Wise choice, friend. Starting a business is the best way to reach financial freedom. Props to you! 😁
@kryos1465
@kryos1465 2 года назад
Thank you for this advice
@AJSchnell
@AJSchnell 2 года назад
@@samanthachurch If you haven’t been trying out different ideas in your adolescence then you’ve been wasting time, and that’s on you.
@Carrymejane
@Carrymejane 3 месяца назад
This is true. Someone who feels darkness when they have found light will be very great at going beyond tomorrow
@nothingiseverperfect
@nothingiseverperfect Год назад
These are what make TedTalks good. Data driven hypothesis, focusing on a single idea, and how it can help you in your life. Not just motivational ramblings to make people feel good about themselves.
@pppp67567
@pppp67567 7 месяцев назад
Absolutely agree.
@Itsmoremi
@Itsmoremi 4 года назад
One of the best ted talks I’ve seen in a while
@muhdshahmee
@muhdshahmee 4 года назад
About the damn time
@FitThruCancer
@FitThruCancer 4 года назад
Disruptive Bee Same here!
@jacobcarrico1999
@jacobcarrico1999 2 года назад
Late reply here... but I also find it so impressive that one can deliver a speech this well too!! Amazing Ted Talk but I am just also amazed at how “ready” he was at this time. Lol!! Can’t get over it. Cheers
@jazmishap
@jazmishap 2 года назад
Same
@dunnperfect8567
@dunnperfect8567 2 года назад
He just gave a summary of Outliers
@asg2149
@asg2149 2 года назад
"SLOW BUT STEADY WIN'S THE RACE".This quote is always in my head ✨
@livetowin-pj7yl
@livetowin-pj7yl Год назад
I'm 28 was a mechanical engineer for 7 years. It didn't really click to me and jobs were very scarce in my country. Now I decided to go for web development and what do you know? After 3 months of studying I tried to send my resume just for giggles and what do you know? I'm gonna start on this job next week! This ted talk really resounds on my current situation. Thank you!
@hassaanawan367
@hassaanawan367 4 месяца назад
Bravo 👏
@AmandaSbarros
@AmandaSbarros Год назад
I just figured out that I have ADHD, and I was failing because I was afraid I couldn't deal with the future. Now, I'm taking meds and I'm really studying and doing research to understand how my brain works and how I can help myself without thinking about others this time. I feel ready to grow!!!! I'm 19, and thinking about college before was a nightmare, thinking about driving was a nightmare so I just self sabotage all of it. But this time, I'm ready!!! I'll study to get into college nex year (as a 20years old), I'm gonna take my driving exam tomorrow and I feel ready, I feel ready to grow!!!!!! I'm so proud of myself bc all of those years I as so afraid. Thank you so much for this lecture ♥️
@heba.
@heba. 2 года назад
I'm so glad I watched this because I'm a person who likes doing lots of different things, but most people have discouraged me saying that I should stick to one path and not many.. It just doesn't work for me; I like combining many ideas into one and learning different subjects and not delve into just one. Thanks for inspiring me to keep going!
@ganibattlebeard
@ganibattlebeard 2 года назад
or maybe people tell you to focus because ur getting distracted while theyre trying to teach you one specific thing
@excelsior8682
@excelsior8682 2 года назад
@@ganibattlebeard are you projecting? Lol
@ProHater1
@ProHater1 Год назад
@@ganibattlebeard sounds to me like the teacher might want to try learning how to keep the attention of the student, unless of course the teacher believes they have a bad student
@Native722
@Native722 Год назад
Me 2 i like combining things and informatio. some say im all over the place
@pi2053
@pi2053 Год назад
Same
@alexwatson7068
@alexwatson7068 2 года назад
I’m turning 27 in a month and am still half a year out from finishing my bachelors degree in music composition and computer science. I needed this.
@tjss9393
@tjss9393 2 года назад
that's awesome! maybe electronic music could be your next adventure :)
@Scrungge
@Scrungge Год назад
Good luck man you got this
@juliekrol
@juliekrol Год назад
"Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway." - Earl Nightingale
@jamesbradford870
@jamesbradford870 Год назад
I'm nearing 33, I've dropped out of school 22 times in too many majors to count, held multiple jobs in several different fields, and dabbled in just about everything I could get my hands on. Let's see if this argument holds up. So far, the only that has remained constant in my life is music. Everything else has been an absolute catastrophe. Currently I'm attending a coding bootcamp in hopes to somehow integrate all the lateral thinking I've learned over the course of my life and apply it in the music technology/audio software world. This will be my last attempt; if I fail I'm taking a warehouse job and going back to music for good. For anyone struggling with chaotic ADHD and extreme late-bloomerism out there you are not alone.
@shepard267
@shepard267 4 года назад
bro you just solved my anxiety over the past 4 years in college.
@TylerDurden-td2yg
@TylerDurden-td2yg 4 года назад
The talk is about how falling behind CAN get you ahead. It´s not even close to a guarantee
@shepard267
@shepard267 4 года назад
@@TylerDurden-td2yg that's good enough for a chance, nothing in this world is a guarantee
@TylerDurden-td2yg
@TylerDurden-td2yg 4 года назад
@@shepard267 Of course it is and it´s true. But "just solved my anxiety" seemed very odd to me in this context.
@shepard267
@shepard267 4 года назад
@@TylerDurden-td2yg well i was anxious that i kept falling behind during my college years. Seeing this video made me realize i might be anxious for nothing knowing the fact that it might not be so bad after all. I think i gotta rephrase my words though
@qazedc3
@qazedc3 2 года назад
Right I wish I saw this when I still in college
@jessicabeca1234
@jessicabeca1234 2 года назад
I graduated from civil Engineering in 2019 at 21, since than I’ve been doing nothing with my life because I don’t have any interest in it. I’m dealing with extreme depression, anxiety and guilt for not knowing what I want to do with my life and not working. I really can’t see myself working on something I don’t like.
@doc_tray
@doc_tray 2 года назад
u'll get over it.. hope u stay happy
@mandeep3.14
@mandeep3.14 2 года назад
Damn, sorry to hear that dude. I hope you take it a step at a time and get to the light at the end x ✊🏼
@carrietale
@carrietale 2 года назад
My cousin also got a civil engineering degree. (Both parents are engineers, and they steered her toward it for the money and the prestige.) She hated it. A few years ago she became a nurse, and she absolutely loves it. It fits her personality so much better, and she seems happy for the first time- even as a kid she always seemed stressed out! I hope you can find your equivalent fulfilling career, but more importantly, I hope you're able to find happiness and worth outside of work.
@jessicabeca1234
@jessicabeca1234 2 года назад
@@carrietale thank you for this, it really motivates me in my pursuit of new career. I made up my mind, and I’m changing my career to do something I like lest I die of depression.
@usernameunauthorised
@usernameunauthorised Год назад
I am 37 and still don't know what to do with my life, and I am not very good at anything. This video made me feel a bit better.
@hmmxbhrt
@hmmxbhrt 10 месяцев назад
So is me dude, im also 37, Completed Graduate at 23, left Phd at 26, Started 3 failed businesses by 34, now at 37 currently stay at home dad to my baby girl and learning Indian Classical Music and Sitar.. and still i dont know what to do with my life...
@JuliaKimMurphy
@JuliaKimMurphy 10 месяцев назад
I had a marketing career for 10 years and at age 31 went back to uni to study law. I was at times the oldest person in the room in my class but my curiosity meant that I continue to learn at such a rapid pace that I outshone a lot of the young students and managed to build an exciting new career. Now my marketing experience and work across different sectors helps me shine in so many other aspects while working for an international law firm - such as client relationships and management - things that many lawyers struggle with. I am now learning to DJ because its something so different to my legal skills. Life can never be linear and specialising may give you a cushy job but is that really a life you want to have that is so limited to such a narrow path? Never attracted me!
@brycekranz3743
@brycekranz3743 3 года назад
30 yrs old. college graduate.. currently looking for a job. wish me luck
@eliseerickson5994
@eliseerickson5994 4 года назад
This reminds me of the part in Sapiens when the author mentioned that the closer people are to a situation, the less capable they are of accurately predicting what comes next.
@PrincessVegetable
@PrincessVegetable 4 года назад
Oh wow, me too, something about the chaos level? it will be obvious to students studying the historical event in 100 years time but right now everything seems so uncertain and confusing. It's an idea from Sapiens that I apply to many confusing things in my life.
@franceszapata951
@franceszapata951 Год назад
My father always chides me by saying "I got my PhD when I was 29." I'm 33 and plan to do a PhD soon. Sometimes I feel like a failure because I didn't follow my dad's path. But watching this TED Talk has reminded me that I don't regret getting a Certificate in Disability Studies or two MAs: one in Literature and the other on ELA with a concentration on ESL. I absolutely love all of these fields!
@michaelcastillo7883
@michaelcastillo7883 Год назад
That’s a terrible thing to say to anyone. Let alone your own child. That’s great that he’s proud of something he did when he was 29 but the world is a completely different place now so his comparing his past to your present is completely irrelevant. And i’m just guessing here, but it seems like he’s insecure about that career path he chose. And seeing your confidence to choose a different path has obviously made him fearful of being proved wrong. Take it as a huge compliment. You’re doing great!
@MarjaZoch
@MarjaZoch Год назад
“In a wicked world, that is increasingly short sighted” FANTASTIC 👏🏻 this is so inspirational and helpful as a parent
@TheGreyKitchen
@TheGreyKitchen 4 года назад
It’s so crazy when you get recommended something you actually needed to hear!!! 🤯Amaxing Ted 👏
@simiemandla1542
@simiemandla1542 2 года назад
Girl, RIGHT???🤷🏾‍♀️🤯
@rodrickoftaokingdom1557
@rodrickoftaokingdom1557 4 года назад
This is really inspiring, I've studied art, Martial Arts, massage therapy and became proficient in a few languages and am still finding my way, I will I tell you, I will
@icvpoetry973
@icvpoetry973 Год назад
I was the worst at chemistry in 9th grade and one day when i got 50/100 on a chemistry quiz (by luck) i decided to ask one of my friends who was a really good student what she did to stay on top of her studies. She told me “i solve every excercise thats on the book”. It was january and mind you i didnt know a thing we had studied up till then. I used to think “im not smart enough for this, i just dont get it”. But after what she told me i went home and started studying the chemistry book beginning with the title and every single word in it. I solved all the excercises and googled things i didnt understand to self study. I even did advanced work. This was all done in about 2 days. The next quiz we had i got 100 points and i even passed the first exam to enter the chemistry olympiad. I became one of the best students in chemistry. I even realized how much i liked it. So yes with will and determination everything is possible. And sometimes being left behind makes you more eager to succeed. And it teaches you life lessons you wouldn’t have learned otherwise. You can achieve everything you put your mind to.
@shan_alriel
@shan_alriel 7 месяцев назад
I really needed to hear this, I even cried hearing the stories he told one by one about famous people falling behind. I come from a low income background, right now my family doesn't even know if we'll even have food for the next month but from I was little, I love to draw so much that I want to get into animation. So I'm taking a gap year right now after high school to prepare myself and I thought I might be selfish that I even considered something like animation, while most of my peers are already in college and majoring in things like medical science or technology but I see that everybody's life pace are different. Hopefully I don't come to regret my decision later.
@rgseven6557
@rgseven6557 7 месяцев назад
Hey man, you got this. I can totally relate to what you are feeling. Anyway you dont have to feel selfish for choosing animation since you have such a passion for it. Everyone has a different path my friend. Wishing u best of luck.
@ann4714
@ann4714 7 месяцев назад
we're the same. I love making art and come from a low income background. I wanted to take art school in college too but decided that it shouldn't be my focus since i can be really good at making art pieces by myself, self-taught. So i took on a humanities related degree in college, while also making art on my free time and practicing different mediums from pencils to paint to pottery, to crochet to cartooning to realism. I did this because my college degree now can likely get me into a job right after i graduate, but my other skills can likely propel me to be more productive later on in life. But I'm not telling you to not pursue animation. It's really really really great! But as the video suggests, doing multiple things and not focusing on one thing can get people ahead in later life.
@muticere
@muticere 2 года назад
As someone with ADHD I can attest to this trend of, as I get older, the things I'm good at and the things I am interested are much more narrowed down. Seriously, being in your late teens/early 20s with ADHD is extremely overwhelming. Not only do you have the normal endless possibilities feelings of a NT person, but you also have the ADHD brain that makes you think you have to do all of your different ideas. Now I'm in my late 30s, I struggled to find meaning and stability all my life up until about 2-3 years ago when I sort of settled into a rhythm of life for myself. It also helps that around that time I was finally diagnosed with ADHD so I could then learn and apply the right coping strategies and occasional medication. Now I look at what I like and what I want to do and see 3-4 clear trajectories instead of dozens like I used to. This video has really helped me, too. It's good to have some assurance that I'm not too late, I can still find the meaning I want out of life.
@inspira.
@inspira. 2 года назад
What is NT person?
@InvisibleThought
@InvisibleThought 2 года назад
@@inspira. neurotypical person; aka “normal”.
@akosuakoranteng3327
@akosuakoranteng3327 2 года назад
So true!
@teenytinytoons
@teenytinytoons 2 года назад
recently diagnosed in my late 30's with ADHD. life has been so hard and i feel so lost, but everyone believes in me so much and my potential. i'm constantly told how smart i am, yet i currently have no path in life.
@trollponch
@trollponch 2 года назад
@@inspira. NeuroTypical; Its kind of a new concept, but now NeuroDiversity is slowly becoming a thing and now, the "normal" people are considered Neuro-typical brains and a lot of people with different mental conditions, structures and patterns are slowly being recognized, understood, and normalized (just like all this gender moves that has being going around lately, is kind of the equivalent but for brains instead of genders). Some examples of neurodiversity could be ADHD, ASD, Tourette, Dislexia, etc. So now a lot of people with, for example, ADHD brains (me being one of them) can finally live without constantly thinking there is something wrong with ourselves and without overwhelming ourselves with anxiety and depression every week (as in unconscious auto-sabotage). Because now we can see and understand, that it is NOT our fault to be the way we are. We just weren't aware... nor were we treated (much less rised) properly about it. and now that we are aware (and diagnosed!) we can deal with it and learn how to live with it instead of against it. Maybe even use it to our advantage.
@almightytreegod
@almightytreegod 2 года назад
I’m almost 40, I’ve been a videographer and editor, musician, database admin, I built a float spa, learned acoustics and audio engineering, and now I’ve been dabbling in woodworking/machining and 3D printing. My day job for the last 9 years has been doing tech support and I kinda hate it, but it definitely pays the bills and I’m worried to try anything else at this point as an actual job… but then again maybe I should. Thanks, this is inspiring!
@Abeer11
@Abeer11 Год назад
Just do it
@joelansere8743
@joelansere8743 Год назад
You got this!
@Black.Sabbath
@Black.Sabbath Год назад
Why did you stop being a videographer
@tornedsky
@tornedsky 10 месяцев назад
"there are as many ways to succeed as there are people." best quote i've heard in a while.
@KruteenGajjar
@KruteenGajjar Год назад
I’m 33 and quite late in life compared to my peers who have it all figured out. Failed at Maths and finance in first of uni and currently studying a business degree which I am still unsure of if I will finish because it’s quite boring. I love to draw from a young age and I am an aspiring artist. Maths was never my thing, I was just pressured to do it. Let’s hope I make something out of my passion for art and drawing. May God bless us late bloomers.
@aitoluxd
@aitoluxd Год назад
I'm going to turn 28 in August and my story is quite similar to yours. I failed twice at maths - I'm just so bad at it. I prefer arts and creativity... I ended up studying fine arts but I soon found out I didn't really liked it. Although it's still arts, I work as digital illustrator now and I think I've found my purpose... For now. And amen!
@knowitall5739
@knowitall5739 Год назад
My suggestion to you is to pursue your passion like arts only on the side. At this age, having no job can make us feel guilty by the day.
@bloglifenguyen3028
@bloglifenguyen3028 2 года назад
The feeling of left behind is not easy. I keep questioning myself about my intention, my motivation doo I try to learn new thing or I'm just wasted my time playing around as I see my friend whose specialized became more success
@jinl6760
@jinl6760 4 года назад
That's the biggest reason why we don't need to be disappointed and should keep going on. Cheer up for every one of us who has thought that fallen behind.
@ellenwang7310
@ellenwang7310 6 месяцев назад
this saved my depression guys. I am a high schooler who speaks english, french and mandarin fluently, has interests in both stem and humanities, and have varying extracurriculars. I have been pressured by culture and college to pick and choose and limit myself to be a master in one, and that has made me super conflicted and depressed. This video saved me and made me realize I don't have to limit myself, but freely explore my interests without pressure instead.
@acts19ministries82
@acts19ministries82 Год назад
Starting a PhD in Information Science at 60 yo after many successful years as an entrepreneur. Wonderful insight in this talk.
@Abeer11
@Abeer11 Год назад
Inspiring 🙂
@AshishYadav-qc7hr
@AshishYadav-qc7hr 2 года назад
As a startup founder at the age of 25, I felt like I'm far behind my friends who opted for a job in the IT industry. The level of uncertainty drives me crazy and I end up feeling like I'm not living my life anymore. I hope it all makes sense one day. This was a great talk man. Thank you for sharing!
@AshishYadav-qc7hr
@AshishYadav-qc7hr 2 года назад
@Marianne Amen
@ethanrussell3957
@ethanrussell3957 2 года назад
Best of luck with the company bro. You got this.
@borisleoro8943
@borisleoro8943 Год назад
Bud your 25 come on
@marston980
@marston980 Год назад
@@AshishYadav-qc7hr may i ask What is your startup about
@livinglogically8180
@livinglogically8180 Год назад
Hope you make it big...don't stop!!
@Sun_and_Sea_
@Sun_and_Sea_ 2 года назад
Thank god for you dude. I really needed this. I’m the late bloomer/try it all-er and it’s been hard to watch my friends have success in their linear trajectories. This gives me hope that that doesn’t have to be the only success story. Thank you!!!
@sonalijagda1115
@sonalijagda1115 Год назад
I feel the same..for the longest time I have felt guilty about having multiple interests. I am 31 and everybody around me knows exactly what they want and I only know all the experiences I want to have
@pinknicho
@pinknicho 8 месяцев назад
hi both of you, I feel the exact same, can you give a 1 year update?
@factspk373
@factspk373 Год назад
32 years old... still dont know what do to... but i have to start life and leave past behind.... this is only solution
@Bopsterjazz
@Bopsterjazz Год назад
Oh man. This was something I needed to hear today. I’m here at 30 feeling lost but also very stuck in life, my ex was a software engineer and kinda put me down about my life situation of hopping from low paying job to low paying job after obtaining my English degree. They pushed me into school for software engineering as well, but I hated it. And now, I’m working towards a film degree after that relationship, feeling like I’ve wasted too much of my life focused on relationship stuff when I should have been focusing on career and financial stuff. . .
@sthurin
@sthurin 10 месяцев назад
How is that film degree going? I'm 24 and having a quarter-life crisis. Did a bachelor's degree in psychology and did most of the work psychology master's degree, which is directed towards hr jobs, and half of it felt meaningless, especially the internship. Even though I really like psychology I see now I made those choices because it was a "safe path" (which was very influenced by family members). Now, after dropping out I know I want to be involved in media production, and if possible, film or tv.
@happinesss2
@happinesss2 7 месяцев назад
Yeah I’ve read an article applying the same thing to people who studied the art and humanities. We tend to make more longer term and later in our careers as compared to people who start off successfully but this plateaus out so on average the former is technically more successful. However I’d say that applies to a select few, those later years aren’t guaranteed, and savings/investments are definitely better early on because of compounded interest..
@christophermorales4101
@christophermorales4101 7 месяцев назад
💪 be strong mate you got this
@astilounlewise9784
@astilounlewise9784 4 месяца назад
Fighting!🕺🏿
@moo_moon128
@moo_moon128 2 года назад
The fact that i always felt like an imposter in my university class, the fact that these kids would always bring up my age and ask me why I’m so old, especially those who i thought were friends. The fact the algorithm felt that I needed this video. The world works in mysterious ways.
@fatimav441
@fatimav441 2 года назад
I'm 8 years older than my classmates, somehow we are wiser, somehow this years of coping with life will guve us an advantage. I don't even try to compete with them. I'm accepting the fact that Im different
@iamzay4938
@iamzay4938 2 года назад
The main ones who bring up your age, just do it to try and boost they’re ego about being young in school. Just because your a couple years younger doesn’t always mean your more likely to be successful. A lot of successful people are late bloomers
@syed9986
@syed9986 2 года назад
Me too doing MS in US @ 28yrs surrounded by kids.. at times it seems like a mistake.. found this at the right time..
@onaenae165
@onaenae165 Год назад
Don't be shocked just ask back in a lighthearted way: "why are you young?"
@kundaliniairport
@kundaliniairport 2 года назад
I went to acting school, never finished it. Dropped out of University for a teaching certificate in literature and education, started Physiotherapy, never finished it, Ayurvedic studies, guess what .. Yoga, arts, language school uncompleted. This talk is very encouraging and inspirational ... I'm 53 years old.
@angelafayesims1563
@angelafayesims1563 Год назад
Me too💪🙌😊💯🤣🙏
@SanctifiedLady
@SanctifiedLady Год назад
52 1/2 hated not finishing so I finished what I started and I hate everything. We are in the same spot after all. I can’t say finishing all that meant anything if I’m not interested in any of it right now. All the best🙏🏽
@scaledupstudio
@scaledupstudio 2 года назад
As someone who has always had diverse interests, this is almost making me tear up. Especially now, when after staying home with kids for 14 years, getting divorced, and starting in on a career path I'd never worked in, only to find that it wasn't the path, and then having to recalibrate. It's taken years to figure it out, and I'd criticize myself constantly for not just having plowed ahead with the first thing. This talk is enlightening.
@TheOutlawMan
@TheOutlawMan Год назад
The Late Specializers concept hit me really hard. Went through security, retail and hospitality, warehousing and logistics, ultimately to becoming a firefighter-emt. The last one is the only time I've ever felt accomplished at work, and proud of my job.
@andrefecteau
@andrefecteau 2 года назад
Jim Rohn said it well..."you must accumulate many skills until a unique talent emerges"...
@GameToony
@GameToony 4 года назад
Thank you for an amazing speech. The topic of career specialisation has been swirling around my mind a lot recently as I'm coming to the point of choosing a university course to study. I have always jumped around in interests and I sometimes get frustrated with myself that I cannot stick to one hobby. I invest myself fully in one field and convince myself this is what I am meant to do until I burn out and switch to an entirely different subject. It started with maths, then I tried animation, rowing to cycling, chess, psychology, literature and philosophy etc. I sometimes worry that I cannot devote myself to one subject. I feel pressured to specialise in one thing, to the point where if I currently focus on maths, I feel like I shouldn't enjoy the arts. We are all multi-dimensional people. This speech has compelled me to believe that success can come from broad interests, not hyper-specialisation. I am really glad you did this speech. You chose a new perspective and managed to articulate yourself eloquently backed up with great research.
@abhishekvarshney7695
@abhishekvarshney7695 4 года назад
AbelCain last line 💕 💯
@pandawoan
@pandawoan 4 года назад
Great story! It hits personally too, I try to convince myself something is good for me but then I switch over to something else.
@jennifergersch9126
@jennifergersch9126 2 года назад
Why not dual major? Or take on a minor?
@sylphe18
@sylphe18 2 года назад
I tried environmental science. It is the best generalist study! Math/physics/chems, and a bit of all natural sciences really. Here in NL, environmental science also have courses related to spatial planning, investment decision tools, policy-making and a bit psychology/ethics. In my elective courses I learned languages. You learn about (and perhaps special later on) water, air, soil, industries. Unfortunately it is difficult to choose a job after graduation because I feel like they want you to focus on one specialty and I am afraid that if I do that then all the things I learned get stagnated. If later I want to switch to a different specialty within envtal science (ex. From policy-making to something more technical) then my professional experience is back to zero.
@markmelon3529
@markmelon3529 Год назад
My friend, you might have ADHD
@Ruhls
@Ruhls 8 месяцев назад
I am 22 years old, just got my diploma certificate, now i am working as a technician. Got paid a fair amount of salary. I used to be a cheerful ambitious person, now i feels nothing, got no friends, no social life and all i do is go to work, finished and go back home. Im in a loop. I try to change myself. I dont want to settle as an average person. But now i am afraid that it is too late for me to do whatever i am supposed to do earlier..
@nadstunes77
@nadstunes77 2 года назад
As a late starter aged 25 when I started college and continued to post grad, I spent many years watching sooo many school leavers pushed into courses just because their parents expected it. It upset me that a lot of these kids were wasting their time and money in courses that either did not suit them or that they had little interest. They treated it like an extension of school and lacked the maturity on so many levels to understand fully, the industries they wanted to work in. I remember thinking that most would benefit from a bit of life/work experience and some time to explore what makes them tick before embarking on any career path that basically starts with accumulating debt, this is essentially the reality for most students, mistakes are expensive and some only get one chance to get it right.
@paporisarmah4839
@paporisarmah4839 2 года назад
25 and confused about what next; except that it's not really confusion but the desire to continue pursuing multiple interests while the anxiety of falling behind everyone creeps in. Ah! This is comforting!
@rominahevia3629
@rominahevia3629 2 года назад
Wow, this sounds exactly like me. Good to know I'm not the only one! Being 25 and still unsure about the future but eager to try different paths. Keep going :)
@thanaa2614
@thanaa2614 2 года назад
Same!
@akashsinghsharma5817
@akashsinghsharma5817 4 года назад
I have always been intrested in very different domains like engineering, pure science (physics), clinical psychology and arts, I was always told that you are gonna fail, there is no need for different knowledge as I am an engineering graduate and wanna be teacher and entrepreneur (starting own ventures). Well, Thank you for this ted talk. Lot of respect from India. 🇮🇳
@bradleylatham8184
@bradleylatham8184 4 года назад
Congratulations my friend. Im 43 and this TED talk just solved my depression because I don't have a degree ...yet.
@jennifergersch9126
@jennifergersch9126 2 года назад
Have you thought about architecture or industrial design?
@SivaKumar-AoT
@SivaKumar-AoT 2 года назад
Woww ! I too have very similar interest like you sir !! I have interest in physics, maths, drawing, history , teaching , english literature, physical sports and meditation!
@akashsinghsharma5817
@akashsinghsharma5817 2 года назад
@@jennifergersch9126 design yes, as I am an mechanical engineer. I can't say about architecture.
@akashsinghsharma5817
@akashsinghsharma5817 2 года назад
@@SivaKumar-AoT that's so nice man. Good luck. Infact I too have started meditation and gym recently.
@raguramsellakkannu7443
@raguramsellakkannu7443 6 месяцев назад
My background has 'dabbler' written all over it and has cost me plenty of job interviews. struggling in a world where people are happy to be 'short-sighted'.. this speech is awesome, and to be honest, lifts up my spirits..
@brianagndalang1296
@brianagndalang1296 Год назад
As a 22 year old who graduated from college last June 2021, and now it's almost a year that I still have no full time work or job to sustain myself. This message is heartwarming and I felt reassured for hearing this. Thank you so much for this wonderful talk, TEDx! 😊
@NeoInTheMatrix680
@NeoInTheMatrix680 Год назад
Good luck 😊
@kevinsamson1693
@kevinsamson1693 9 месяцев назад
What was your major ?
@jj-bu6yb
@jj-bu6yb 2 года назад
I’m 30. Graduating this year. Wish me good Luck to find internship! God bless everyone
@ira5861
@ira5861 2 года назад
best of luck to you! :]
@Nwakaego_
@Nwakaego_ 2 года назад
Best of luck to you! It’ll work out for ya, don’t be too hard on yourself.
@jj-bu6yb
@jj-bu6yb 2 года назад
@@Nwakaego_ bless you!
@donttrythisathome2690
@donttrythisathome2690 2 года назад
Bless bro/sis, bless
@littleindian99
@littleindian99 4 года назад
My plan was to go from undergrad to med school directly. After trying really hard I wasn't able to get into med school (took the MCAT 3 times). I realized that it wasn't for me and this was the best thing that could have happened. I picked up an industry job, started exploring real estate investing, and began developing an interest in socially geared startups. I realized there are other ways to impact people and medicine is not the only one. I fully agree with this TED talk that trying different things gives you so much more perspective which is invaluable later on when you begin to specialize.
@k78w_17
@k78w_17 Год назад
I feel so ashamed. All of my classmates are great at something. One has been doing gymnastics since she was 6, another has been playing the piano since 4, another has been singing since 8. And here I am. Tried everything and always quit. Why couldn't I just stick to something and be like them. Now I'm 15 and cant do anything. I feel like I've missed everything and there's no turning back.
@heidichan7129
@heidichan7129 Год назад
Hey come on, Try once more! As a 17-year-old, the only thing I regretted is that I didn't try again and again. Just tell yourself, you've already failed at some things so you may happen to be better at them if you kept trying otherwise you'll be at the same position just being depressed and nothing changes
@PascalBachmann
@PascalBachmann 6 месяцев назад
There is no one right way to live our lives, and that we should be open to exploring different interests and possibilities.
@jelianegracemaglaque483
@jelianegracemaglaque483 2 года назад
whoa this talk blew my mind. For years, I've been struggling and berating myself for being interested in everything that I feel like I have no particular thing I am best at. For years, I thought it was a bad thing and kinda hated myself for not being like others. But now I have come across this talk and gave me a new perspective. Thank you.
@swimmingshi
@swimmingshi 2 года назад
25, just restarting my life, wish me luck!
@emmaadewole3252
@emmaadewole3252 Год назад
this was really encouraging as a 17 year old who's already having a life crisis because my way of learning doesn't seem to fit the education system
@Z1nny
@Z1nny 10 месяцев назад
You're learning resilience at a much earlier age than your peers. This is setting you up to not only overcome but leapfrog over future obstacles that would ground your peers. Maybe you get to pioneer a new educational approach, maybe this crisis is giving you an opportunity to see the uniqueness in you. Always keep a positive and determined attitude. I'm rooting for you 👏
@annaarmstrong2023
@annaarmstrong2023 2 месяца назад
I went back to school for something I didn’t even want to do, and now I’m without a real job and have lost drive and passion for everything. All it takes is taking one test, and I’m an EMT. I did what other people asked me to, and I’m drained and broke. I need a lot of prayer for movement and motivation in my life.
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