The energy you give is what you get back. You have to understand that even though he's 4-12 with the nice guy attitude, he's probably gonna end up with better quality women. The tough guy will get greater quantity of women but end up with lower quality women. Gotta take that into account.
Exactly I think he just saying both tho and just because u successful don’t mean u a nerd u could come of as a athlete and still get females or a nigga that sellz weed or drugs😂😂
@@Destrudo5359women’s standards for muscle mass ain’t the same as men’s. Most of them don’t care about fat percentages and bmi. A lot of women just want : not skinny & not fat.
This has nothing to do with him being Gangster. This has everything to do with a man being confident with I got nothing to lose attitude. Now what does most gangsters have? "nothing to lose attitude". Now do you have to be a gangster to have that attitude? Hell no.
Trust. It's definitely the attitude. Don't matter if you're wearing bummy clothes or the best fit, it's all about attitude. The way the dude is approaching her is like a simp; soft spoken with no umph in his voice.
Yo Kam after watching you for a few weeks and taking all ur advice irl I went from no girls in highschool, not many friends and being somewhat quiet to having at least tripled my social circle with girls hitting me up and one girl who genuinely likes me and makes a ton of effort everyday to be around me and talk to me all day. I don’t even know for sure if I’m interested but I’m not worried bc of you I know I still got other girls
you talking too much to be telling the truth lol why y’all gotta broadcast yall life on here like people care? and you act like the same females you talking bout won’t consider you lame for being influenced by another man🤡 step yo game up fr and be quiet tryna be social on RU-vid lol
when he was playing the gentlemen role i think if he made his intentions more towards interested in clappin cheeks and not the friendly demeanor he had he could’ve done better. the tone of your voice plays a big role. because he was talking nerd asf. PLUS his body language was nerdy asf no chest out. he walking like he gotta shrimp. very timid
U making it seem like bro Was frl tho because to be frl he could’ve been had his hole game rizz talk and his gangster look the Whole Video if he wanted tf is you Talking about 😂😂😂 you don’t have to be gangster just to get females ik hella nerds that got girlfriends 😂😂and especially 9x out of 10 them females on his second Part prolly be some hoes 304 or got more than 1 body 😂💀💯🤦🏾♂️ tf yo talm bout 😂
@@TJY_RISE_UPyeah but if he actually talked smooth and appeared confident he would have gotten more number. it’s not the outfit he was wearing it was the way he was carrying himself
I think in all honesty, the gentleman approach, would have done better if he stopped the total wussy bit around it .. "oh I'm so sorry, oh I'm sorry" thats not being a gentleman, that's being a wuss. Now THAT kind of thing, does svream weakness and insecurity... Thats what turns them off.
Yes Kam said dis on his Old videos about like 3 or 4 months ago 😂😂 some of yall ppl be late but im not referring to you tho especially when kept pointless Complementing about she’s Beautiful and I’m Surprise his Same Compliment worked on da gangster look because when you a Successful men and you say something like that she gone think you weird and ofc she thinks u lame and a Nerd but it’s true I still don’t get it at all cuz even tho that’s how females secretly want you to talk and especially on his gangster look idc how many numbers he some of them females ain’t even call bro 😂😂
@@WIXNGFRMLUVOKC Good point, even the ones who give out there number.. How many of them actually answer the phone or reply to when he calls . That's where show and tell time really comes in.
@@Gauntlet1985 ong them da ones the always be dry that’s they prolly jus giving their fake numbers especially if he calls especially he wass in the same area where he was getting rejected 🙅🏾♂️ them female prolly be using niggaz for attention
Depends on your age. These are kids, bot grown mature women. The shirt and tie looks lame in a college setting. The gangster approach wont work in your 30s and up so makes sense to put in context.
Spot on , I’m 24 and currently in college and I consider myself to be a very respectful and scholar type dude, but girls don’t like that for some reason.. they like the fuck boys and guys that don’t care about them .. I’m not with that and it be them girls 18 to around 27 that be liking wanna be tough guy act .. long story short I’m realizing those type of girls if they don’t change their act they will forever be unhappy and continue to post things like “niggas ain’t shit” but I mean look at what you are having interest in? The wanna be tough guy that acts hard and don’t give af about you 😂👎🏿
@@davetheblessedguy3698 its crazy man. ive decided to give them no more energy. im just gonna watch videos to remind me of their nature anytime i feel the urge to approach. fk em.
I havent talked to a female like this since like 2012 , nobody wants to talk to strangers at all . They have to kinda know you from somewhere to trust to even talk to you .
@@DonutsForever24 so you are telling me, when you go to a club,bar, lounge ,party your telling me girls don't expect to get approached in those environments? Go out more live life cause your obviously are not.
@@DonutsForever24 that's not the argument, the argument is that you claim that "women are not approachable" because they will think your a creep. Stick to the argument.
There should be a requirement for every man to have a College degree in Social Communications, Business, and Health before a Woman even allow a man to ask them out on a date... Just as well, a degree in Parenting be required before consenting to bare a child .
Tank Top Shoulders on swole Arms popping Skin black as lacquer Confidence on 1000+ Casual verbiage Mildly aggressive disposition = Automatic Attraction and attention! They ALL love it! “Narcissistic Nupe” always win
This is so real I'm messing with a girl that talks to a square guy during day then hits me up at midnight 😂 I decided not to drop her we talked about it I'm cool with it I just focus on other girls
🚨NOPE!🚨 It's mainly because he is approaching them like a salesman or something And his attire looks like that of a salesman or a solicitor😅. And they are confused right off top of what his intentions are. That completely ruins the mood LOL.
Majority of women DON'T want nerds. Trust me. It wasn't until I got rid of my glasses, dressed differently, made the football team and started lifting weights, did I start to get attention. In our clubbing days (much younger), we used to not even ask girls to dance. We would grab their hand and take them to the dance floor. Not one was ever upset.
All true but the gangsta part , bruh wasn't acting gangsta , he just presented down to earth and confidence. Women love confidence and don't forget to keep ya head up and poke ya chest out lol
Nah but he wasn't even in a suit just a shirt and tie. Plus je acted nerdy with High pitched voice. But a man wears dapper clothing like a full suit and moves manly 100% women will respect it
I think you're half right It's not the suit and ties, it's his whole approach game that's putting her off. Some women dig a guy in a suit with a tie because it perceives you have money in their eyes.
To be fair, he looks like he works at Burlington coat factory….it ain’t cuz of the “suit and tie tie” the outfit is just lacking….he got that dead end call center attire on….”he did not put that shit on….”understand ?
Women say they want a good man but literally reject them ...but if you come to aggressive they accuse you of being to aggressive and masculine...like wtf do yahh want??
It wasn’t his formal attire. It was his demeanor. He had some major needy vibes, looking for approval. I wear formal shirts and a blazer and tie sometimes and had no problems either way.
Women perceive soft men as either gay or unable to protect them, there's a thousand years of biology in that, it has nothing to do with being gangster or L7.
Don’t need to do those manipulating game bullshet. Just be authentic and honest with yourself, the confidence will come out naturally when you talk to anyone. He was authentic when he was wearing the wife beater.
My transformation was dramatically With 22 years, I going in prison for 7,9 years As this age, I was a really handsome guy, but had no confidence, and people didn't respect me But for years in prison knowing, that nobody waiting outside,it's hard And if you handsome, then you prison experience get intense But at the end,I came out 2019 with 30 years,and was confidence as fuck I read a lot of books about body language and my subconscious, and a lot of stuff Doesn't matter I get bald Now the fact,if you're truly confidence, it will change the viev from people of you More woman approached me,then in the past, as I look like a male model Respect yourself,and if someone talking shit, putting on his place And woman get horny, if you disagree in a discussion
They just respect confidence if you’re not sure u should be there they’re not going to want you to be there. Plus don’t be boring they want fun that well put together dude will be there when they are done getting ran through. Ain’t nothing new under the sun.
You wrong about the dreadhead shit a lot of women been cravin' them as of late. If he came up, same physique but with dreads, it would've resulted the same. In fact, the dreads grant a more gangsta appeal than fades dawg.
I can understand why his striking out with the shirt and tie; He's looking and acting like someone who's trying to sell you something! That'll be a no thank you from everyone...😂😂😂
His approach game is proper, but the rizz is nonexistent. If he's trying to pull off that debonair style, its severely lacking to say the least lol. His outfit makes him look like a door to door salesman lol. My boy out here rockin that "job interview" swag lmao bruh went and set himself up for failure because women will notice this and assume dude aint in his bag rn, and once that happens your pretty much cooked.
Right, they literally want us to Downgrade becuz being polite is wht.. a turn off? i dont get the mentality so imma just do me. they can all have the same dude if they want to. not worth the time.
There are a lot of confident Pooky and Ray Rays who are bumbs doing absolutely nothing positive with their lives. I personally know several women who have 3 and 4 children with these guys, talking about how there are no good men around.
I disagree with your take here. Women love a well dressed man. I picked up girls in a suit before. The reason this guy didn’t get any play is because he’s intentionally acting all timid and weird to sell the bit for the video. He’s also wearing a dress shirt and tie with jeans. He looks like some missionary or something.
@@worscohli You dont understand, it is not what he said, it is how he said it. That is why i say " sounded". Two people can get the same lines to act out by how they say it will be completely differently. The way he was saying certain things sounded like a fan of the girl mixed with best friend gay energy.
Women are attracted to boldness, aka confidence. It’s not just women it’s men too I cracked this code when I was in 6th grade. Me I’m a nerd but i became super popular in my school and most people knew me. I made it a point to have a small group of friends but when I didn’t know them I would randomly just stop a person walk up to they group say eh yo you killing that or photobomb a picture or make a joke comment on something someone in that group is doing. Chat for a couple minutes or a second then be out. People in general are attracted to high energy, happy go lucky bold, confident people, I stopped doing this halfway in highscool cuz I don’t really care if people know me or not. It’s also why the first day of school is so important or first week is I should say no one knows anyone and most people are scared to talk to other people happens with co workers and colleges L
Cyndi Lauper wrote a song years ago, Girls just wanna have fun! / If you're a well 'in shape' guy w/Confidence, and you can vibe good time energy. You already won!
18:45 bruhhh id have walked my ass off too the alpha obviously making it happen LOLOL. everybody knew what time it was too.... imagine the dudes just sitting there watching like suckers.
Well a lot of you women wanted to know where all the good men are at. Well, we are all with women from different countries that can appreciate us. And it's all thanks to you. Now, you can enjoy telling a good man how much you don't need us and how independent you are, while the thug you're with is pulling an Ike Turner on your ass when you get out of line with him. I mean, since that's the type of partner and life style you decided to choose.
