How I Found Out I Was The OTHER Woman ! NOT CLICKBAIT 

Low-key wish you told his girlfriend, anonymously or something

My question is why didn't you tell the girlfriend? I mean i know you didn't want to be a home wrecker but if I were the 10 year girlfriend I would of appreciated you telling me. SHE WASTED 10 YEARS WITH THAT JERK!! and us girls have to stick together!!!!

please please tell me you told her! guys, always please say something if you know someone's being cheated on. I was cheated on for years and no one told me and I WISH someone did so I DIDN'T have to go through all that

Hello loves! You guys said you wanted to hear my HORRIBLE Dating experiences so here is one of many coming to you soon ;) I hope you enjoy ! PS. Comment any of your dating experiences down below!! BTW I am getting a lot of comments about the girlfriend last time I saw him was in 2017.. today he is currently NO LONGER in that relationship or with her If you haven't watched my whole ghosting story these are the two links to it: PART ONE: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-nOTiHaPOUfg.html PART TWO: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vjlv-7zu5nU.html

Everyone is like "I'm so sorry that happened to you", I mean yes thats not cool but poor Girlfriend! she is the real victim here. Please tell her! If that was me I'd feel so betrayed by not only him but EVERY ONE that knew about the cheating

I remember posting a comment on one of ur videos a while back saying I had a crush on someone and I would get butterflies everytime I saw him. We've been together for over a year:))))

Unfortunately there are a lot of frogs on the way to your prince🐸

The fact that the girl had the same name as you ! so weird

I’ve been single for the past 19 years. Fun 😂

Ok soooooo... I was dating this guy and I was like ignoring all the red flags like ( not following my social media, my phone number was not saved in his phone and would invent fake excuses when I confronted him) Once I found out he was with another girl . Cause my friends saw him but didn't recognize the girl (my cousin ) .I snooped (I'm not proud of it but I did ). Turns out the other girl was my cousin, and she knew i was with him. SOO yeah...i told him i knew and he immediately ghosted me

If a guy tells you he's having issues with his current relationship, always call her directly and get her side. I mean he should have no problem giving up her number to prove it. If he won't ta ta.

My story is similar to yours in the sense that I met him at the gym...now looking back I realize meeting people at the gym never worked well for me lol but anyways we dated for 3 months, he spent his birthday AND Valentine’s Day at my house with my mom and I...but I ignored the red flags..wouldn’t let me come over to his place and told me he had no social media 🙄 low and behold he breaks up with me and next day I see him with a new girl at the gym, their relationship lasts for a couple months as well...until I get tagged on a random fb post written by the girl he dated after me...turns out she got a tip that he has a girlfriend who’s PREGNANT, so she shows up to his house, indeed there is a girlfriend and she is INDEED PREGNANT, she spills the beans and they both wait for my ex to get home. Second girl decides she’ll hide in the closet and let pregnant girlfriend confront him first...so he gets home, Pregnant girlfriend confronts him, he obviously denies all of it AND GUESS WHO POPS OUT OF THE CLOSET!!! All this to say that the 3 of us girls had a fb messenger group for a while, pregnant girlfriend wanted to know all the information but from what I understand seems like they stayed together for the baby..but as they say....once a cheater......

I've got two stories like this. The first was a guy I met on Plenty of Fish and he was a total sweetheart. Called me sweety, hon, babe, stuff like that. Stuff you'd call your girlfriend. Well, he'd also confide in me for a lot of things and I him. We had made plans to possibly go on a date later that week and I had taken the time off work, like I got someone to take my shift. He even told me Happy Valentine's Day. Well one day, he texted me after kind of ghosting for a little bit and he was telling me that he actually has a girlfriend and he didn't really want to be with her, but he had bought her a car and moved her into his house and all of this stuff. So yeah that one was fun. Shortly after that, I had a friend I had met three years ago message me on Snapchat and he suddenly was telling me that when we were at the conference where we met, he really thought I was attractive and all this other stuff and he wished he had made a move and we sent each other some...pictures (not my proudest moment)...and I had looked him up on Facebook because I saw that it was his birthday and that's when I found out he's had a girlfriend since September...I don't know if guys just think that I'm a good person to emotionally/physically cheat on their girlfriends with or what, but that was two in a row...who knows how many other guys have secretly had girlfriends.

I was engaged, read this all the way through because it's good. We were always together, until randomly he started to want to go out to drink to "socialize". I was too young to drink, and I had social anxiety so I didn't like being in groups of people. I worked with this girl at my job and she quit to work where my fiance was working (not for that reason). They became "friends". We would go to her house and hang out...once I even watched her kid while he "helped" her with her car....he is not mechanically inclined. He wanted to start going to her house to " use her printer" or he would go to " school" early. He went out one night to drink and didn't come home until the next morning and thought I was crazy for getting mad. One night he told me he didn't want to be together anymore. I was heartbroken obviously, and the next day at work I heard someone calling that girl some names that made it obvious she was with my ex fiance. Well turns out he got this girl pregnant....she doesn't know who her first kids dad is. They got married shortly after and are still together to this day but once a cheater always a cheater. The best part is....months later I got a call from the police. They said my IP address came back to child porn. (Internet was in my name) I always told him not to watch porn on my computer but obviously he didn't listen...the police had me bring in my computer for evidence and they wiped it all clean, no hard drive or anything was left.they decided there wasn't enough evidence against him so they didn't go further. I called my ex and told him he better stop because the police were on to him and he had a kid on the way.

Maybe they were in an open relationship at the time, that’s why he’s so chill I don’t know lol

wowww the balls on that guy! I know you want nothing to do with him, but I personally think it would be a good idea to tell the girl what a scumbag her bf is. She deserves the truth, and even if she doesn't believe you, at least you put it out there and if she decides to bury her head in the sand then that's her problem. But if my man was doing all that shit, I would be really thankful that the girl told me what was going on behind my back

can you make a video on your current relationship and how you know when a relationship is the right one for you?

Why would he even go up to you while you where sleeping , what a creep.

Lol! I enjoy all of your RU-vid videos ! I hated the dating world ! It was so exhausting! Lol! So happy I’m married 🤣😂

This is why it’s so hard for me to date. I’ve had a couple bad experiences with f-boys and finding out that they are in relationships. They like to use the “we were on a break” excuse. Always get their social beforehand because that’s where the truth is lol. A couple summers ago I was seeing this guy who I really liked. We met on a dating app. One day while I was at his place he texted me something that was obviously meant for someone else. It was obvious that he was in a relationship. He denied it and denied it until I checked his social and found her. They had just gotten in a relationship days before he and I stared talking. I was conflicted on messaging her because girls can get crazy about that stuff. I ended up messaging her months later and she left me on read. 😭I think they’re still together.

God I have so many stories 🤦🏻‍♀️

I got cheated on essentially my entire year long relationship. They didnt start actually hooking up until 4 months in BUT they were flirty and hanging out all the time during our whole relationship. And heres the best part. She was my best friend from third grade until my senior year of high school when she finally told me🙃

I always get the vibe that if you’re dating is bad it’s no ones fault but your own. I understand that people do shitty things, I certainly have been on the receiving end. But when I look back I can always see how I should have seen it coming. How I could’ve escaped it. How a bad decision I made was the catalyst. The excuse that dating is hard doesn’t release us from fault. If it’s difficult more effort or reflection needs to be put in to improve the situation. And if you don’t want to put in the time, effort or thought then that is ok but your dating life will remain up to the luck of the draw. It’s important to remember the perfect person is perfectly imperfect. No one will check all the boxes, but it’s about perspective. Finding a few things we need in a person, the most important things to us, and compromising on the others is a good start. Compromising is a part of life, so focus on a few traits and look for those

If you ever find out the guy you have been dating has a girlfriend always reach out and let them know. I was 8 months pregnant when I found out my boyfriend had been sleeping with the same girl for 5 years. She knew about me from the start, knew I was pregnant, liked all our pictures on social media and only threatened him to come clean after he'd posted pictures of us on a swingers website.

The only thing that worries me is that you did not tell her?? I don’t get it

Y’all, the gf is no longer with the cheater. Stop jumping down her throat

My sad story of 4 years ago: The first guy I actually liked started talking to me . Everyone knew him (he was popular ) and he had this good guy image.After talking for monts and hanging out (mostly in group) he actually told me he liked me and told me how badly he wanted to kiss me..However, even though I liked him A LOT,something felt weird.He had told me he didnt have instagram but I knew he had one.Soo I actually told him I wasn't ready yet...He actually got a bit annoyed.My BFF suddenly called me and told me we HAD to meet up ASAP.Turns out my friends sister actually followed him and turned out he had a girlfriend for a year.We stopped talking and broke my heart,and felt so annoyed how he was pretending to be this great guy. FUN FACT...He actually followed me on insta this year and started talking to me AGAIN EVENTHOUGH HE KNOWS I KNOW HE IS IN A 3 YEAR RELATIONSHIP Things got pretty dramatic... EDIT: I can gladly answer any question 😂

I recently got out of a two-year relationship and had that Crush feeling again and it was such a weird feeling to have a crush on someone because I haven't had that Crush feeling so long. It didn't work out because the guy had a crush on was just doing this two-week-long thing with me for a job oh, so I'll probably never see him again LOL

GIRRRL!!! I can so relate to you! My bf ghosted me too and it took me a year to trust again

That’s so sad 😭 I know you didn’t want to be a home wrecker and that gets iffy. But I just think if I was her, I’d absolutely want to know my long term boyfriend was doing that. She probably has no idea still.

I feel like we’d be good friends in person. Thanks for sharing your story 😘😘

That’s a red flag for 5 years this person didn’t speak to you and then all of a sudden they want to “date you “ that’s sounds like because their life became a mess their gonna use someone else and mess their life up 😭😭

I’m really sorry this happened to you! That stuff is annoying AF

Wait I’m sorry there are so many comments saying “why didn’t you tell her?” That is NOT on her!! That is on the cheating partner!! I hate how we always shift responsibility away from the person who is unfaithful.

sad to hear what you’ve been through but it also made me a little happier hearing that I’m not the only person who’s dated quite some idiots... ^^ thanks for sharing.

Damn! We share a lot of the same dating experiences haha also been ghosten and dated a guy who said he was single and I found out via social media he had a gf and a kid!

I think your experiences are definitely relatable at least to me they are. Thanks for sharing .

If i found out someone was cheating on someone.......honey im about to destroy this relationship. Can't stand cheaters

How did you not contact that poor girlfriend though?! 10 years is a long time to waste and you’re about to make her waste another 10.

From the first story. I already knew.

I agree with other comments that it would have been better to say something to the girlfriend when it first happened. I know I’d want to know if my boyfriend were dating other girls. It’s just sucky that they were still together and she still may have had no idea. I’m sorry that he played you though too. It’s happened to me as well, but I checked Facebook before the date and saw he was in a relationship.

Nicholas & Nicoletta omg how cute 💜💜💜

I love your story times

What mascara do you have on? Looks amazing!

Love you girl!! Being cheated on is so shit like people these dayssss

I'm from Toronto aswell, but I now live in Vancouver! I enjoy watching your dating stories, I unfortunately can relate... I was seeing a guy and he failed to tell me that he got his ex-gf/gf pregnant (he kept saying ex, but I don't believe him). I found out right after she gave birth.

I'm not Reilly in to boy's at the moment

You remind me of Deanna from jersey shore!!! 💜

Always by your side bbe❤❤😍 Finally you re back Be strong and always keep smiling👑👌👌

why didn’t u tell his gf....

Yessss I love these 😩🤩

Hey love here watching 💕💕

2 years I met this guy we became best friends we were super close and we would hang out and text each other I ignore all the red flags then I found out he ghosted me when I came back from vacation for months he ignore me until I found out he had a gf and I was side one I call him out all his lies and bs saying he wanted to be with me it’s sucks but we both had strong feelings for each other.

So I was talking to one of my guy best friends for 2 years. We had went through a lot from being really in love with each other and wanting to be together. Then he started changing his mind and saying he’s needs to get his shit together before he’s ready to be in a relationship. We had sex many times and made love many times. We were still talking and sexting for a good while but he was more distant towards the end. One day my friend tells me he told her he had a girlfriend. I asked him about it and he told me he was single. So fast forward to a month or so later my friend told me to go look at his instagram. Turns out I’m all of a sudden blocked. My friend sends me his posts and it’s a posts about him and his girlfriend who I found out he’s been with for at leasts 5 months. I was mad at him and told him off and he tried to manipulate and lie to say face but i called him out on his bs. I message his girlfriend a week later telling her that he’s been cheating on her with me and we’ve been talking for 2 years. I told her I have messages, photos and videos to prove it if she wanted to see proof for herself. The girlfriend never message me back. All she did was block me and ignore the messages. Later on I find out they stayed together and she’s posted so many lovey dovey Instagram posts about him after this incident. She’s posted so many of those long paragraph posts saying how much she loves him and he’s her best friend and he’s an amazing boyfriend and etc. It makes me sick that she just stayed with him after she found out he was having an affair with me their whole relationship and how she also is posting stuff like that in Instagram about them. Like people who, like and comment on their post think that they are this cute in love couple but in all reality, he was having an affair behind her back and shes too insecure to leave him and a little bit crazy.

I really hope you told the girlfriend, from someone who has been with someone for 15 plus years, I would want to know

Omgggg 😲🍿 give us more lol

I want to meet a girl that is "about" being cheated on xD

WOW crazy!! I was dating someone and on our first date he was telling me about his psycho ex well we get back into town after our date get off the bus and this chick pulls up in the parking lot runs out screaming at me he tells me that is his crazy ex, long story short he made it sound like he was telling the truth, a few weeks later I am walking to the store and who pulls up along side of the side walk his crazy ex, she rolls down her window and says HEY come here, I go over she tells me she is sorry about what had happened, he explained it to her that I was lost and needed directions, so I say to her ummmm no he told me you were his psycho ex... long story short she was going to see him and this may sound dumb but i went with her the look he had when he came outside and saw me with his gf said it all, he then proceeds to tell her im obsessed with him and all this crap. Overall, I left and some years later I found out he shot his girlfriend and was in jail ( not the same gf who I talked too ). Guys are so shady sometimes and I always say go with your gut.

What scent are those candles in the back?🤔 🕯

What is a Gravel? Is it like Dramamine?

love your videos❤

Omggggg the update!!!!!

Lol I was the other woman in my last relationship 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

that's disturbing for my mind I'm sorry that you went through it

And he didnt hide it very well...Good riddance...!!!

I am half Greek

a few months ago i shot my shot and now me and this guy have been together for 6 months:”)

OMG YOUR CANADIAM I LIVE IN ALBERTA I WAS IN TORONTO ONTARIO TOO 1 MONTH AGO OMG!, I wanna meat u

He is a narcissist

did you say anything to his girlfriend ? like did she know he is a player ?

Why didn’t you tell the girl..?

You should have told the girlfriend immediately

Omg this is crazy. I would have said something to the girl.

Why didn’t you tell his girlfriend?

What are your lashes 😍

Oh my I'm scared lol

Love you queen

i looooove storytimes

Do video with jessica

You really should have told her. Really.

Wow. I’m here!!!

Ilyyyy

OK sooo I have to check some things... 🙄🧐😲

i love you!!!

Kk I have a problem I have a crush on a guy and I rlly like him but my friend also likes him and she doesn’t know I like him and idk what to do Cos I rlly like him and ya

girl you should have SNITCHED

You should’ve told the gf

Oh sweetheart!! You are just so kind. In that plane I would have been the biggest bitch and enjoyed so much... So so much.

ehmm...u should have told his gf

Тёлка красивая. Жаль что не понимаю о чём она говорит)))

smallllll world lmaoo

Boyyyyyy do I have some stories

Hi 👋 nicoellta xo 😘

I want to tell my stories but they sound fake

Ok lowkey, you kinda look like Savannah LaBrant.. like if you were blonde lol

Do you speak Greek? :)

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