people have always been used as cannon fodder. I may be too old, but if not I will just be sent to back office, so I am ok about that. I think it will be sad to be apart from friends.
I genuinely have the same issue. Im at my second corporate job and after 6 months I lose interest and become lazy. My manager starts hating me. I leave before it gets worse and I get fired. Not sure if it’s a gen z issue or I have a lack of concentration
I absolutely hate workplace bullies. I keep a secret diary monitoring the bully. I also joined a union. I won one of my cases, the bully had to back down and she was admonished. I have been sworn at by female bosses. in Kent. I remember once I was being picked on as they thought I was late for work so I told them that the office clock was wrong and it was... it was funny seeing HR change the clock. I didnt get an apology.. but I am older now and would have said something. I remember my last day I left 2 hours before my presentation. I had a job lined up and I couldn't care less about leaving early and not being there at my presentation which would just be fake anyway! so satisfying, voted with my feet. I was so pleased I had another job. If you are seen as weak ie young, old, female etc, they will pick on you, sociopaths have powertrips. reducing their power is the challenge and exposure they hate that they will be nasty to you if there are no witnesses
Daniel, the problem is that people try too hard. You get these dimwits, with some crappy minimum wage service sector job, who take it as seriously as if they were working in GCHQ. Banana Pancake you legend 😂
that man who was abusive to you (and his wife) sounds like a controlling narcissist. My friend works as a kitchen porter in Kent and his boss from Poland keeps shouting abuse at his colleagues, god knows why he is still there. I did post an anonymous sheet to the pub on workplace bullying hoping they would get the hint
well done for saying No to narcissist Gordon. the boss clearly didn't understand the gordon v office junior power dynamic. the thing is if you leave there is a pattern, bet other office juniors left, a bad place of work has a high turnover the money would be good but your mental heath would be bad
You already have a job, Daniel. You're a full-time RU-vidr. Anyone would kill to have your digital nomad lifestyle; you can live and work anywhere in the world, and you have the freedom to do whatever you want. I, OTOH, am chained to an employer and have to come in to work every day.
I used to work somewhere with the culture that if you went to make yourself a tea or coffee you had to offer it to everyone else. One of the most moronic things in British working culture, luckily I managed to just ignore it and went away but it's stupid because it just dissuades people from making themselves a hot drink.
You know ill bet if he was treated with respect and patience this guy would probably be a solid employee. Its hard to overcome preconceptions when you have that "young" look, people automatically assume youre lazy and its hard not to eventually just prove them right. Throw in a dickhead boss or coworker it makes giving your best impossible
There's always gonna be a asshole or 2 in ANY job... 90% of the time. Don't expect everyone to be friendly or kind to you in this world. Don't matter where you work either. The key is to power through it, suck it up and get that money.
I get what you mean, Daniel. There always has to be one jerk you hate so much. Every job I do that treats you like crap and boss you about all the time.
"People keep telling me to do stuff that i think is dumb and then i rebel against it and get in trouble and it causes awkwardness and tension between me and the people i'm working with" I have similar experiences with entry-level jobs, people telling me to do illogical things annoys me and eventually makes me lose motivation and feel like rebelling.
I will say one thing about daniel that i think is important. Yes he quits jobs but he also admits that a lot of the fault lies with him being lazy and his own mistakes cause many of the problems. Most people dont even admit when they make mistakes or if theyre lazy. He straight up admits hes not hard working and thats imo a good thing. A lot of jobs require you to do things that have nothing to do with the job. Especially in the uk. They pay you very little for the job you do. They expect too much for too little and dont put in the same amount of effort that they require from you. Some jobs ask you to travel to different places without paying you extra. They may pay for fuel or some part of it but thats not acceptable. They should pay your entire fuel there and back or train tickets, bus tickets plus pay you for the time you commute there and back as well. Time is your most valuable commodity and you cant get it back. Theres always new ways to make money. You cant take it with you when you die. One of the hardest things to admit is that you make mistakes.
I don't really see your videos, but this sounds A LOT like what I have had happen to me and they probably didn't say it, but you look incredibly young and older coworkers tend to try to push the younger looking ones around and bully them. It sounds like the restaurant set you up for failure.
One thing about employment is that the stories about how bad it is is way more entertaining than ever having to do the job, you leave with no more wages but loads of stories!
So, I am dying to know, is there a tea/coffee culture in others countries, where you have to offer to make tea/coffee for everyone if you make it for yourself? Answer with country below.
I'm Australian but lots of British people work with us...and they are friggin annoying!! They are addicted to tea and coffee. Daniel is right. It's weird. They always are drinking tea or coffee every hour. Australians are not like this...but the Brits drink so much tea and take so many breaks...they are annoying😂
@@lyhthegreat they'd be too passive to actually confront each other at work. They'd go home and make RU-vid videos trashing each other, how an co-worker named Dan is "so stupid, annoying, lazy and boring"
Yeah I agree, why doesn't the customer just say "I have a points card" from the beginning of the transaction instead of expecting the store employee to baby them. But I guess it's just old customs
Toyotomi Hideyoshi became Shogun of Japan. He started as a sandal bearer. When samurai went inside to discuss war and politics they would take their sandals off and Hideyoshi would sort and clean their sandals. Do whatever job is in front of you with passion and you will find success.
Next vid we need a cooking with Daniel where you make a Banana pancake. I can relate, I must have went through 100 jobs before I found one I actually liked and for the same reason, I don't like people, especially ones telling me what to do. I now work evenings in a factory making boilers and there is only 3 other people on my entire shift and we all work on opposite parts of the factory and we are all equal, no supervisors. Come in, do your job, see your colleagues during the break which mostly everyone watches TV or their phone then go home. It's perfect for folk like us, been doing it 2 years now and my longest job before that was 6 months 😂
So you've been left by every woman you've ever been with, been fired from every job you've ever had, and you've become fed up with every country you've ever lived in. But you also know that the problem is you. Have you ever considered that you're constantly flirting with your own disaster and keeping yourself stuck by talking publically about these things rather than shutting up and going to work changing your life? Maybe you should just quit the internet. Not in a huff, and don't post a goodbye video. Just delete your accounts and quietly go about improving yourself. This comes from someone who just re-stumbled upon your channel. I had watched a few of your vids years ago, when I myself was in a bad place. Since then I've gone back to university, completed a degree and work in that field. Life isn't perfect, but it has improved a lot, and often in surprising, subtle ways.
@@asterickjones How old are you? I never worked all through my 20s and 30s. In my late 30s I re-enrolled in university, completed a degree and am now working in that field. Adjusting to a professional work environment has been a tremendous challenge since the social self-isolation of the previous two decades had taken its toll and I was probably not a joy to work with in the beginning. But I'm starting to get the hang of it judging by the feedback I'm getting, and it feels great. I couldn't stand still feeling as useless as I did (and was) back then. I mean, how do you even look a woman in they eyes and tell her that you live on aspie bux?
@@CC3GROUNDZERO All good about your personal development and what you've managed to achieve until you bring in the benefit shaming at the end, what is shameful about being on benefits, it acknowledges that living in a neurotypical dominated world is difficult for those on the autism spectrum and financially compensates at least to a level where it's possible to live. Have you thought about the possibility of meeting a woman also on "aspie bux" herself, I know several on ESA & PIP with social anxiety etc, one RU-vid channel about autism has revealed that their sole income is that too and she is female. Must admit I met a career minded woman who I had as a girlfriend 10 years ago who liked everything about me (mostly) except my autism bux sadly proving you right about her at least. Do you not also a dream of a future where ones personal status is not based on ones financial status? Have you been a hit with women since your upgrade in status according to neurotypical society that we live in?
FYI some people otherwise will say 'I'm going to stay here and they have fire me' which very importantly if you get fired you can apply for unemployment insurance and the job that fires you has to pay a percentage, that which there is always a court Judge that works your claim, and if it goes to a court hearing the boss of the job that fired you must go to court or explain himself in phone conference, the ordeal is you can only receive unemployment payouts for so long which is better than nothing, along with must having to get another job otherwise you will have to payback the unemployment payouts, which you could just get another job and work it for awhile and quit. This ish is Banana's 🍌 🍌 🍌
Banana pancake 🥞 I love these stories, these where the videos that really made a reflection towards your viewers as much of us work and hate our bosses.
Banana pancake, stories about how crap people are in jobs very control freaky and nitpicky are very interesting. I'd say these anecdotes kind of sum up why autistic people also (I have that) wouldn't fit in in most workplaces, unless it's a very intellectual/scientific environment.
@@TB-us7el Absolutely, but I don't see how it's any better than suffering by working at a convenience shop or petrol station, having to move away to a place of your own and not being able to create a savings for oneself (ofc this is easy to say in hindsight)
@HidingInMyRoom1989 lol 😆 , u killed it this vid btw 10/10 HIMR classic. This 1 might get big, complaining bout workforce and not wana reg job or a job is trending viral on youtube these days cuz it does suck out there...might wanna make more of that genre if this 1 pops.
Your problem is that you don't really have anything to be responsible for. Not really a problem but let's just say, that's the issue. As for the ass holes, they'll be there 80% of the time and sometimes you get lucky and everyone is cool, which makes coming to work almost a joy at times.
