@@logicsoundinc Yeah, that quote has really made me take a step back in certain moments and realize these are the times Ill be thinking about when I'm older.
@@bakabaka73yep, I’m 46 and still making memories as often as I can. I look upon tomorrow, today, and yesterday as fondly as I do any day 25 years ago.
@@bakabaka73me too man. I’m 35, and every now and then I do find myself just for a second taking an extra minute during certain occasions to take it all in, especially at large family gatherings. We always reminisce on the past, but we need to learn to take in the present and enjoy it.
@@user-to2ne4lg2j how I met your mother. season 8 episode 20 , d series which changed my life completely , do watch, my most favourite series ,its quotes its songs .... amazing
I just finished this show and bro I was so depressed, the ending could have been better, the alternate ending could have also been better, but in the end, its just a show, and we gotta let go
Now everything is just anxiety and a balloon that has been released full of helium it is out of context no one will ever really know are you invisible kind of feeling that I was just smiling going through my feed and this hit me like a train and you saying it made me have to actually experience it but whoever you are I feel you
@@TonyStorm21 I’m 28 , I have been on a solo journey chasing my dreams across the United states , I am of course not there yet, but I am working hard everyday I live completely alone always do you know why? Because I must become a master of myself and my mind. In order to do that you must be alone.
This comment hit harder than anything right now for me I'm still lving in the past hoping and wishing I could change this or that and it's never coming back and I want to live in the now I remember my dad when he was 40 and now he's nearing 60 like I don't even realize how much time I missed with him and I think I'm starting to realize how bad that really is I've been so caught up in my own bullshit that I couldn't even see what was in front of me that was important please listen when I say this cherish what's around you cause one day it will all be gone none of us want to admit it but deep down we all know the drip finally stops
@@labeastchange9088 my dad died at 65. I was 22. I don’t regret much as we had a great relationship and I did spend a lot of time with him, but I didn’t get enough. He was my male mentor and role model. Losing him I lost a part of my soul that has never come back.
Parents are getting old, Friends and cousins getting married, Your surroundings are changing fast And yet we are like TED stuck in the past, Because that was the best thing that happened to our life.
You’re right. More right than I think you know. The best thing that happenED is gone. But don’t give up on that amazing thing that’s yet to come. And it only ever arrives if you make it happen.
Story of my life. Almost all of my friends have their own family. I failed an attempt to build one 10 yrs ago and I wasn't able to recover emotionally. I'm just jumping to one distraction to the next, while praying my parents to live long. It's just me at the end of the day after a busy work. But it's fine, I'll be alright. Once you accept things the way they are it's not too bad.
Ted wanted Robin so bad, and it hurt him so bad when Barney mentioned that he and Robin were looking for a wedding caterer, a pain that becomes overwhelming when you realize he’s having a conversation with his subconscious and he was actually saying those things to himself. He was intentionally hurting himself.
@Sam Athor you seem sadder than the message behind this video, somehow such a stupid and meaningless comment evokes more pitiful and pathetic energy than a string of words should, I hope you’re happy, bc by the arrogance portrayed in your comment, you surely don’t seem it, you seem disconnected from the combined feeling this video gave the rest of us, which means to me that you do not have friends or people to feel along with, and thus you are more alone than the fictional character, perhaps that’s why OPs comment and the video evoked such an ignorant and unnecessary response from you
this sad moment was immediately followed by the SADDEST moment on the show, which was when ted explains that if he could go back to this time, he wouldnt be at the bar or at robots vs wrestlers, he would go see his future wife who he had not met yet in the memory which is even more devastating at the end of the show when you realize that she had died a long time ago and this scene was him wanting to see her again
@@christmas90s54 No it was another woman, but she passes away and the whole show was him talking to his kids about his life and how he met their mother , but it was also him asking their permission to pursue Robin and to start dating again. Because he believed he was ready and wanted their understanding which he gets and goes to robin with the blue french horn
It seemed pretty obvious early on Tracy had died, so that never shocked me or bothered me when it happened in the finale. What bugged me was 8 years of why Ted and Robin don't belong together, only to put them together anyway..
I hope things work out for you. That everything bad in your life turns to joy, and you be given a childlike happiness when you experience each day for the rest of your days.
I suggest, trying be alone somewhere else other than 1. Home (to avoid only staying in all the time) 2. The pub Parks, gallery's, movies, botanical gardens. I do wish you well, new hobbies help.
No words could ever possibly describe the depth of loneliness that this scene captures. A picture is worth a thousand words, but this scene is worth an ocean.
it hits hard when you're in your 30s too to be fair. I think he's in his late 20s by this point in the show, maybe early 30s.. dating as you get older is tough, and it can feel like you're gonna end up alone, but the truth is that people are dating longer and getting married much later than they used to back in the day.. it's not a great thing.. but it does give hope to some folks who are in their mid thirties to 40s and aren't married.
From all the complaining I see from people I've come to the conclusion that I have mental issues. I wanna say I'm probably on the spectrum. Because tbh, I have family and friends. Seeing my friends once every few weeks is honestly enough for me. And I have alot of cousins and what's not. I don't really feel a rush to get into a relationship. It's just not something I've ever strided for.
@@hailcthulhu419 Yeah, parrents and dog here as well.. I`m 33 and this hits hard! But, let`s make the best of it, there's no second chance in life unfortunately! Enjoy the weekend, greetings from Norway :)
“The great moments of your life won’t necessarily be the things that you do, it could also be the things that happen to you, now i’m not saying you can’t take action to define the outcome of your life, you have to take action…and you will” The last bit is so subtle yet holds sooo much weight!
Hopefully it’s better and you’ve realized you’re never truly alone. You always have yourself to love you and to love, and there’s always more people in the world who’ll appreciate who you are. Never give up, never give in to the feeling of loneliness. -someone also dealing with a breakup from a long term partner
Going through that right now. I grew up with my 2 best friends, i moved across the state with them and we worked the same job, now theyre both recently married and we all arent talking as much, we hang with eachother once in a while suddenly and try to plan out some trips but its not a regular thing. I mainly see them at work and talk in passing. I feel like ive not even started my life yet and they've reached the end point in theirs...... and now im kind of alone and ive been in that shitty job grinding for so long i dont know where to go or what to do. The Irony here is how i want to be an actor/director and id much rather be sitting in Ted's seat saying this on camera; just acting instead of laying on this bed typing this out basically doing the same thing but forreal. I dont know what happened, or where the time went, and each day i feel more and more alone because my brothers are living their own lives and im just..... existing.
You may not get it now, but someday you might. 1.) Brotherhood is not contact, it's in the soul. Those worth keeping as your brothers, it won't matter the time or the distance, when one comes a calling it's like neither ever left. It's about rivalry and change, it's standing on two sides of a canyon, seeing eachother at the peak leading those still climbing it and knowing it was through your hardships together that you were both able to achieve such heights. Furthermore life truly is a play, and as the scenes change so too must the actors, for better or worse. 2.) Life is what you make it and part of that is adapting your plans to your circumstances. You may never be an actor on the big screen or a director of it, but you can still be both. You can play a role in others lives, or discard your own to play a character who isn't you. You can get to a position where you direct others in the great film of life. I'm not speaking out my ass, I'm speaking from experience. I've drifted all my life, the friends I've found and lost. The pain of distance that still hits. The ones worth a damn, I can still call up and see the Brotherhood is still strong even if we can't meet or do anything. I had to abandon my dreams and ambitions because I got a bad pull on the genetic lottery that barred me from pursuing the path I wanted and still want most. It took me awhile to realize that while officially it may have barred me, I can still pursue such interests and apply them to other areas of life to fill that role in an unofficial capacity. The only difference between the screen and life is, life has goals but no paths. So sing, act, dance like the whole world is watching, and don't be afraid of change in cast or scenes as life is always changing.
If you feel alone go get a GF or find new Friends cause that is what a Human is. we need Communication or we will die little by little. if you feel you hate your job. just quit. i khow it may sound easy just saying it but it is another thing to do it. you can keep that job and blame yourself why i didn't quit or just quit and go to an acting class. you need the fear of not having a stable income of money as a boost to reach your dream. it is almost never Late. the almost part is because of death. don't let it because late ... .
Take the leap, man.. Even if you fail (Which I hope you don't), you tried. Honestly, that's a lot more than a lot of people can say. Believe it or not, a lot of people really don't go for their dreams. They settle. And settling has been so normalized that if you go for even the smallest of risks, you're considered dumb or selfish. That's why you see people with incompatible S/O's. "Arguing is just the norm in a relationship." Or you see people constantly talking about traveling or acting... Meanwhile, they're mindlessly shaving off their own life working a job that they hate. A lot of people will call that "Being a man." Or "Doing what needs to be done." I call it being a Fool. I'd much rather die knowing I tried to achieve my dreams than live a long life feeling like I didn't live at all.
Yes, but you're free to pursue your dreams, and they now have a myriad of obligations. Such as life it is right now, embrace your opportunities. One day you'll get married too, have children, and visit your friends for kids' playtime. There's no rush. Until then, pursue your dream while you can and waste no time to invest in yourself. Affectionately, a stranger.
Remember friends, just because you miss one chance does not mean you will not get another. Embrace life, but do not let words like these discourage you, life will never stop throwing these at you if you put yourself out there. Stay awesome.
It's sad because Ted has this idea of what the love of his life is supposed to be and he searches for a decade to find it and when he does, we realize while we've been watching this story unfold, his wife had passed a couple years earlier
@@sincerelyyours2694 Well spoiler alert for this old movie. Ted is basically telling his kids on how he met their mother, Ted was prompted to tell this story due missing his wife who died by an unknown illness a couple of years ago. So basically Ted is telling his kids how he met their departed mother.
@euizanagi722 and it was all to teach his kids many valuable lessons and respectfully open them up to the idea of him finding love again after his "one" and wife has passed.
I thought for a long time that he never met his wife and she had passed away while he was still looking for her and the kids were just his imagination.
This is actually "how I met your mother".. He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother".. . If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted... It was Robin all along..
The majority of my friends have moved on gotten married, or have passed away. I've been to over 25 funerals in 10 years. I'm a caretaker for my mom, lost my fiancee as she was one of those people. I have 2 cats and I'm alone and it hurts, I isolated myself, due to needing to be strong to survive the trauma, I was isolated because of the trauma as no one wanted to be around me or even attempt to understand me. I didn't want to push them away. However, I was suffering and I'm still suffering to this day.
This show came out when I was 9, and my family watched it religiously. I rewatched it again at 20 and realized just how much it shaped my perception of relationships and love. A great show, that’s brought a tear to my eye several times.
You're only alone this instant, it doesn't have to be like that forever. Nothing in life is permanent except all our inevitable deaths. I've been alone for years now, and id be a liar if i said it's easy, especially since i once had a child on the way and a beautiful girlfriend. But you realize the only person from stopping you from being happy is Yourself. Look inward and try to find peace in the solace. Everyone dies alone in the end, it's up to us in life to choose how and who we spend it in the short time we're here.
@@chasingmypinnacle its time to make new ones, man. What's stopping you from doing so? Even if it's just reaching out to old friends via texting, going at it all alone is ruff.
Work on yourself and be happy with who you are. People who appreciate you for being you will gravitate towards you. This is nowhere near the end and you need no more motivation than doing it for yourself. It can only be bad for soooo long bro, only way you can go is up. Stay strong
@@lesbiansaregoodandch The old friends were never friends. I am technically successful, and have everything going for me. It’s hard when you don’t have any family or have any friends to see or talk to. All I do is work and train.
This hits hard. I'm going to be in a very similar setting in a couple years. I only have 2 pairs of friends. They've gotten married to each other recently and the subject of kids are coming up more and more often. I'm making the most of it and cherishing all the time we have left, because I know that I'm going to end up like this.
Advice try to move on while spending time with them because you may find new friends or someone to spend a life with such as a spouse and then you can familial activities and hangout with your current friends again and as well if they are a true friend they will continue to hangout with you it obviously won't be as often though because they will have new responsibilities the best thing to do though is find happiness 😊
One of the scariest things in life is to live for however long you did but still die alone. It's not how much money's there beside you or in an account that lets you go in peace. It's the loved ones who love you back.
Alone is how we enter this world, and alone is how we will all leave it. There's no getting around that fact. Doesn't matter how many friends or loved ones you surround yourself. Ain't nobody can cross that final threshold with you. In other words, you'd best get used to being alone. Because unless you can learn to become comfortable with it, you're going to be in for a bad time when your time comes.
@@sophornphen4509 you said whatever they do or make doesn’t matter in the end when they die alone if they ain’t surrounded by family. So him making sure the money goes to the bloodline instead of the government is more of a smart business decision than anything else.
I lost my whole family. Literally everyone died except my daughter. Even though she is my world it is still very eerie.. Some people don't know what "Alone" is . Good luck and Good Bless 🙏🏼💙💙
No matter what, don’t give in to the sad emotions. Put them to use in a positive way, and as long as you take care of yourself and live a healthy life consistently, things will only get better. I’m with you.
Sigh. They were not pretending. Life just happens. Listen to what he said. Friends sometimes have more responsibilities than you you eg kids. That's it. If he had made his own family and was also busy with kids, then meeting once to see friends won't hurt as much. This is how mums stay friends meeting once for brunch. or dads who meet once in a while for boys night. It's when you are perpertually free because like may people in this generation you thought it's better to "live your best life" and not take on any responsibilities, now you blame them for "never caring". Are you more important than the new responsibilities in their lives like kids and dying parents?
If sigma was ever used truthfully. It would be for this comment. Additionally remembering the fond moments with your loved ones to keep you moving forward. Whether to honor them or to work on yourself so you can see them again and show how much you have grown. Is strength.
I think this is a flawed take that a lot of people are taking nowadays. Humans were never built to be alone, and never will be. You have to have to always keep and open heart to new things and people and you will never be alone, stop telling yourself that reality is this sad thing because if that’s what you think of it that’s what it will be. Go out more and meet people and just be happy, stop this accepting sadness because it gets you nowhere and eats you alive.
@@pabloaragones1647: Accepting sadness? No. It's not about being sad or moping around. It's about being comfortable in their own skin. Some people are introverts, not everyone is built for being a part of the community.
One of the saddest. The moment when Marshall found out that his father is dead, Barney's argument with his father. And creme de la creme- La Vie en Rose by Tracy from season 9, episod 16
@@jakubromatowski4894 I don’t remember for marshal but if it’s the vocal message of his father it was cracked by joke at the end. Barney argument was tough and you can relate to him but more upsetting than sad tbh. And Tracy well I don’t remember well but if it’s after she found out for her dead husband well we barely didn’t know her and never seen him so hard to empathize tbh. On the other hand Ted’s loneliness that pushed him to imagine a whole day like he’s reliving memories and add more stuff to have a full day to cope his loneliness who is snapped back to reality by Barney without seeing it coming is so strong. Everyone can relate at one point and there’s no other thing that comes to play than pure sadness
What I've learned is exits in life are not equal. Sometimes people just grow apart, and in the moment, you don't even realize this is the last tike in your entire life you'll talk to this person
This is actually "how I met your mother".. He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother".. . If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted...
My worst fear is being alone… not having anyone and feeling as if everyone who cares for you is just putting up a front is the most suffocating thing. It even makes death sound a little bit nicer
First of all: The hardest thing anyone will have to do is learn to be alone with themselves. You can never be sure of people's feelings or intentions. Even the ones who claim to love you the most can stab you. That's why you learn history, that's why we write our memories. You have to be brave and face the music because at the end of the day, buddy, you only have yourself. And as long as you are friends with yourself, you will never be truly alone. Trust me, there are better, bigger things to be afraid of.
@@asaremperor that’s the problem, I despise myself the most out of anyone. I could make a small mistake but depending on how bad I feel about it I may never forgive myself. I’m not sure how to forgive myself nor do I think I deserve it
The beautiful thing about this is that while it can be painful when your friends find lives of their own... It doesn't mean you've missed your shot. You gotta get out there and find something for yourself. YOU make YOUR life.
Learned that the hard way after a breakup. Hanging around people that didn't fit in my life. Before the split she was the only person I had been doing things with. But one shouldn't isolate themselves either. Just be happy alone while searching for the right people, get out of the comfort zone.
a friend once told me " when the adventure ends, you need to begin a new one. Don't fret about the good old days, because all days in your life will become good old days eventually"
It's scenes like these why I tell people "fiction" and dramas are inspired by real-life events or emotions. Every story has a moral if you care enough to see what it is, and there's never a wrong answer but there is always a more correct answer.
Kinda how I feel when I look through my friends list seeing if someone wants to party up again. Those days are past but I somehow can’t remember the last one I had.
@@thekidd7 haha aw man you just don’t understand the feeling. Kinda like the last good day you had as a kid with your neighborhood friends. You can’t remember the last day it was, but in a way you sure do miss those carefree times.
Sometimes being all alone isn’t a bad thing. Sometimes it’s the best thing because it’s the only way to find out who you really are and what you really want to do in your life.
@@ronnocyam7167 You are wrong, if you outsource all of your happiness from another person, that’s when you’ll never be truly happy. It is important to be self-functioning and besides; if you’re not, then you shouldn’t look for a relationship in the first place and focus on solving your internal problems first. Possibly with a therapist.
how i met your mother is one of, if not the best tv show of all time. I wasn’t even born when the show first aired, and i’ve just finished watching it. This episode, hit me so hard, it gave me depression. And that one episode where Marshall’s dad died. I love it so much and i hate it so much, only because i cried for 2 days straight bcuz i couldn’t finish the episode because it was so sad.
As an immigrant who just started studying a year ago and takes no vacations nor spends money on parties or drinks, this feels like the few opportunities during which i allow myself to have a drink or stop smiling and start thinking on the path i went through. Feels kinda lonely specially in new year or birthdays but one can be happy alone and it wasn't that way before so it may not be like that forever, stick to what's important and keep going, keep moving forward. A virtual hug for who needs it, u got this ✌🏾🔥. Ps ketchup should be considered a tomato smoothie
As a kid I hated this episode. Maybe it’s cause I wasn’t ready to face the reality that life is a little lonely and cold, but now that im older I love this episode. I always learned wise things from this show
When you hear the memories of your friends in your head, you know their a memory. Barely remember their faces anymore. And perhaps it's better like that.
And so happy and beautiful and hurtful and boring and exciting and scary and yeah, that’s life, that’s what makes it worth living, it’s so much more than just one thing
It hurts to feel this way, so alone despite those you know. Unselfishly you're happy for those around you their accomplishments, their achievements. Yet despite all your efforts to do for yourself also, it always feels like you're still left behind. Stuck on the past when things were more simple when things were happy. You find yourself being the only one looking back. As you just inevitably feel like a bit player a chapter in their stories as they go on. And there you are alone hurt. With nothing more than memories of a time you can never return to. You're more alone than ever.
The last of my childhood friends passed away just as COVID was beginning. The cancer had come back and he didn't have the strength or the desire to fight it again. We toasted ourselves and our many fallen friends for New Years, and then he had the audacity to ask me if I'd be okay after he was gone.
I feel you on feeling alone. Ever since covid happened people have been divided and alone. Being alone is not the worst fate , you get the peace, quiet and tranquility you need. If you don't like it then try seeing a professional to talk about it, try talking to people or friends etc .
Who says being alone is a bad thing? Stay true to yourself and nobody can betray you, nobody can cheat and lie on/to you. Less drama to deal with and less responsibilities. If you can handle being alone, you can do anything.
Being alone isn't so bad once you become used to who you are. When you make that connection with yourself it changes you sometimes for better or for worse. Some thrive others falter. And some find strength to keep going no matter how far or lonesome the journey. It's not all bad just hard.
I hope you’re doing OK, and find happiness. Sometimes, it’s OK to feel alone, and even be alone, but don’t let that stop you from reaching out. You would be surprised by the amount of people feeling just like you, who just want someone to say “hello”. Maybe you can be that person to start saying “hello”…
You are not alone.....we're ALL here. Even if we strangers can lean on each other from a distance - we're here with open ears and eyes to hear you out. So don't worry, I'm a great listener
At one point or another we all have to deal with being alone. Some deal with it by settling with a partner who isn’t right for them, some fuck anyone and anything they see isn’t fit for them. All this does is just delay the inevitable loneliness and sadness that we will all encounter. Embrace loneliness and sadness and make them your ally. The sooner you embrace it the better you can deal with it. Being alone ain’t the be all and end all. You just have to accept it for a while and be comfortable with it. And then move on from it. This ain’t a dress rehearsal.
One comment I agree with 😅 .Others think ' you gotta hold on to somethin' ,' go travel' yes absolutely, but the starting point of it all is that fact that yes we are alone, people will keep comin in through one door and leave through the other, but we have ourselves.always.isnt that comforting 🤷🏻♀️ No abandonin, no drama.just us for us.Idk ,I find it comforting 😅
When you depend on your buddies to go out and go to the movies or a show then these things happen. That's why going by myself has never bothered me... and since I have God in my heart, I'm never alone 😌
Same here. Being alone is not the worst fate. It brings you peace, quietness and tranquility. It give me time to spend time with God even sitting in my yard at night everyday for years
Just like Ted, I too raised my head and looked around and realized that I am Alone. 7 years has gone by since I lost one of my Best friends and 7 years I wished time would stand still
I'm sorry you had to deal with that Titan'. Your not alone in this ok we all experience loneliness in life. You can overcome this moment ok. You just need to reach out to others. But remember being alone is not the worst fate. It can bring you peace, quietness and tranquility in life. I pray God's grace and peace of mind is with you.
@@OddsYT Not doing something because it's "too much" or because it's "too late" isn't a healthy habit to have. You do not need to change everything or do it all at once. Take the time to think and consider what you want to be and what you want to have. Then, set an objective. It may feel like a negligible one. It may feel like the results of this one objective aren't helpful in any particular manner. But that's an improvement, and if you adopt this way of thinking, over the years, by accumulating those objectives, you will definitely change.
This scene and what happens after it always brings tears in my eyes. It feles like this great group of friends left him to proceed with their life while Ted is running in circles for 8 years. But its not their fault and its not Teds. Everyone got on and and far but bot Ted actually. He got everything he ever wanted in his career but deep in heart he knew the real goal was to find the one girl. Iam sad how this show ended because he got everything he searched for in 9 years and she got snatches out if his arms in few episodes. Batneys 3-4 year character development was gone with one episode. And he ends up with the love of his life that didn't deserve him and caused him years of pain.
I felt bad for the character of Ted every single moment he was the one that always tried the hardest but is the one that got their last and then the wife died so soon for the character
Ted is my most relatable character in all of media. The poor lad goes through so much. This was my favorite episode and not just because of the song they do at the end, but how eye opening lonliness can be
This one hit me pretty hard a couple of years ago. I've been single for almost 10 years now, and back then, I thought I might find that one elusive woman. I saw this the same day I realized she doesn't exist. It hit me pretty hard.
Don't worry friend everyone finds their way and when it's your time you will know life is just unpredictable so be kind 2 yourself because you don't know what tomorrow might bring 🙏
Dude made so many of his own problems by obsessing over this ideal of love meanwhile how many times does he betray peoples trust, lie, cheat or lash out, the dude didn't need "the right girl" to come along and fix everything, he needed to fix himself first and stop obsessing about a fantasy
Yea i felt that.... But when were alone, were training our minds for the next challenge in life, we just got a little headstart, stay blessed my indigo friends ❤️
