How I moved out of my parents house & started building my life

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I’ve been asked quite frequently over the years, how to navigate the transition into adulthood when one has African parents & this video is an attempt to answer that. By sharing my experiences, I am trying to show that what is ultimately needed is wisdom from God on how to proceed because every person’s situation is unique.
“Honor your father and mother. Then you will live a long, full life in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” (Exodus‬ ‭20:12‬)
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@salvame4657 Год назад

When it was time for me to move out of my parents house, I kept on hearing "And Abraham left his father's house" from many men of God. Like I will be listening to a preacher and the next thing is " and Abraham....I started wondering why I was hearing this word repeatedly. One day I was in church and the pastor also repeated that statement and added Micah 2:10 . I became scared. To cut the long story short, God told me to go and study Chinese language and 1year into studying the language, a job came that took me out of my father's house.

@keziahbazan7842 Год назад

This is really helpful. I want to cry. Even though we have different lives. It's the same concept. I'm almost 40 living with my parents, never married. There is something that is holding me back from moving out. I'm praying about it and asking God to show me when it's time. It's been hard for me because I do feel alone and I don't know who I can open up to about this. I want to feel like an adult but as you say when you're living at home the parents will just want to treat you like a child. Thank you for the advice. I don't want to be disrespectful to them. Good reminder.

@Oluwaferanmi_Ajayi Год назад

I'm sending you lots of hugs and love ♥️ God is with you ma

@adewunmioyindamola6923 Год назад

Hi, good evening, first of, sending you lots of hugs. I’ll like to ask: have you had a proper conversation with them on why you need to leave? You need to explain that your growth and self evolving is attached to it. At the end of the day, they want what’s best for you but sometimes the manner/method of going about it is what’s off. Also asides from their approval, can you sustain yourself financially without them? If you can, then I think you’ve solved 80 percent of the issue.

@oluebubeokpaluba9130 Год назад

Sending you all love❤

@oluebubeokpaluba9130 Год назад

@@adewunmioyindamola6923 wisdom

@TheSoughtAfter1 Год назад

I saved up and took the big leap. You are an adult and there's too much comfort that will breed in you as a result of staying with them at that age. Fellowship with the Holy Spirit on where to move, how to get start, be intentional and purposeful about it: eg. To grow less dependent on your parents and fully dependent on the Person of the Holy Spirit.

@aimaohi2667 Год назад

I still live with my parents (I’m 20) and sometimes I’d say today I’m going to stay in my room and pray all day but one of my parents or my brothers would come and start looking good for me. Or if I’m fasting they’ll be asking me why I haven’t eaten. So it’s hard to be separated and when you live in a large family. But God will always make a way ❤️

@martekimartey7649 Год назад

Thissss!,my parents can even get pissed that I’ve decided to stay on my own and not come out😭

@law_life_scripture Год назад

The interruption during prayers!!!🥺🥺🥺🙍

@teetotee 4 месяца назад

I get it fr

@user-fm9kj7eh9w 4 месяца назад

@@martekimartey7649just endure it for the time being, I know it can be hard sometimes but with all humility,patience and love serve them for this period and learn the lessons that God is leading you to learn.. As long as God is still keeping you with them for this period,just know that it's part of the process that God is using to mould you into what he wants you to be .. It was quite discouraging for me at some point that i didn't want to go home on breaks ..😂😂 The holy spirit was my help through it all , just depend on him 😊😊

@Gm-yy3po 2 месяца назад

Can relate

@stephaniejulius Год назад

Your nails look beautiful ♥️

@shallyoluwa2833 Год назад

I'm the first born of my father who's a pastor. That comes with a lot of responsibility and patience. And I have friends who keep telling me I have to rebel in one way or the other,but I'm so grateful to you for adding that last point of applying wisdom through the Holy Spirit 🥺💓💓💓

@temilolafamakinwa8311 Год назад

I’m so happy you are listening to the Holy Spirit ❤️🥹, as a fellow commenter in this community, I will politely advise you distance yourself from such friends 🥺

@heyleesah Год назад

This video is everything.🥺 I'm 19 and the pressure to move out is heavy, but I just understood that it may not be in God's will for me. Although my reasons for moving out are quite similar with yours, I know that if it is God's will, it will happen. Thank you for listing the cons too, especially that last one.😂 I binge on Bible Diary from time to time, and it's always a blessing. Thank you and God bless you!💙

@angelifechukwu4168 Год назад

I'm turning 21 next month and the pressure too is heavy. I feel living with your parents for a long while gives you this sense of comfort. Once you move out, you'd be pushed to leave your comfort zone in order to meet your needs. I have put this in prayer and i really hope God gives me an answer soon.

@helenamynyngou Год назад

I am 19 and I moved out for school reasons. I am struggling with loneliness.

@Catalystofrevival Год назад

I'm turning turning 20 next year😭😭😭

@NanaYakubu Год назад

If it’s God’s will, you’ll move out yeah. I think it’s a matter of choice and how willing you are. If your reasons are similar to ezinne’s that means it’s good, thus you should pray for it and actively start working towards it

@adetolasanni007 Год назад

God’s will for you is to prosper. Don't settle for that lie that says “it may not be in God's will for me” Do You want it? Go for it.

@gracedarah3372 Год назад

Ezinne, you're too much!🔥🔥🔥 As I turn 22 in January, my greatest desire is to be independent financially and emotionally mature. God help me 🙏🙏🙏

@aprileleventh22 Год назад

My desire too

@Chinecherem_ Год назад

I totally relate. Home isn't exactly fun, it's triggering and even makes my spiritual life to falter. I just graduated and am 22 and I do not want to go back home. I actually wrote a letter to my parents telling them that I want to look for a job cos the few times I have worked, they stopped me. It's not easy, if I go back home I won't be able to attend church the way I have been doing. I'm from a Catholic home and I go to Winners in school and it help my christian and spiritual growth and my mum is strongly against it. And sometimes I don't even know what to do..... I actually prayed to get a job, so that I won't have to go home

@angelifechukwu4168 Год назад

Hi Vine, I'm 21 and not yet in school. It's been a tough one and i really need my space already. I also come from a Catholic background and finding God in November has really helped my growth. Would love to connect with you if you don't mind.

@marycynthiaofficialtv9641 Год назад

Hey, I relate with what you are saying too. I'm hoping that God will hear me. Can we connect? I'm from a Catholic background too but now attend Winners, staying at home doesn't help me well. I'm believing in God

@kezibliss769 Год назад

Wow. I have always thought I was alone in this boat. I turned 22 last month,in 300 level, I go to school from home. I'm also a young Christian and home isn't helping at all. I don't have enough time for my quiet time, fasting and night prayer. I can't even attend programs cos of parents rules. It's devastating and I have been praying to God about it for days now.

@janetoluwasola7112 Год назад

May God help you sis❤️

@janetoluwasola7112 Год назад

@@kezibliss769 hmm may God help you sis/bro ,you can try the night time too, just a suggestion tho

@ebunzzy Год назад

Thank you Ezinne! It's Christmas here and I choose to stay in school cos it's an environment I can control unlike home. People ask me if I've been kicked out. Lol. I just need my own space and time with just me and God. God bless you Ezinne. So timely ❤️

@penielezeokeke3315 Год назад

Sigh.. hello Ezinne. Thank you for this video. I'm 19 and I'm in the middle of making a decision that my parents 100% do not support. But I know that is what God wants me to do. It's quite a hard one, even for me. But man... I'm convinced that this is what the Lord wants me to do. The whole situation with my parents and the work He has given me has left me really depressed for a few days. I usually want to just sleep and not wake up because waking up brings everything back to mind. I know what to pray for now, thanks to you.

@OnyinyechiIbemere Год назад

Thank you for sharing your experience so far. I am 24 and I honestly don't want to move out of my parents house for now, I may not be where I want to be in life, but I know that I am a work in progress. Moving out is good, however it is not what a young person must pursue without properly analyzing the responsibilities, loneliness and struggles associated with it. If you are not convinced or you are not desiring to move out, please do not move it, because 'streets dey hard', but if you want to move out make sure that you have a worthy reason for doing so. I pray that God will direct us Amen Thank you ezinne for your sharing. God Bless You.🙏

@gift.richard Год назад

Thanks Sis Ezinne. I thank God for the day I discovered this channel 🙌🏾You're a blessing to me. 🤍🤍

@the_unveiled07 8 месяцев назад

HolySpirit is wonderful! I'm sure I was led to watch you this morning; I've been sharing my lows and highs, my struggles since I got saved, I've been looking crazy doing it because many Christians don't do it and everyone is like be careful what you say; but then, I can't, I literally can't do without sharing my mistakes. I also finally left my mum's few months back and I'm trusting God for a place of my own.

@collinsabuya6880 Год назад

A very timely video. I'm 19 and have been wanting to move out because I feel like I do immature stuff because I have the safety net of my parents. But I'm the first child and everyday, I realize that a lot is riding on me and I can't achieve a lot in my parents house. I want to leave so I can learn to be mature and explore. But I have been wondering if it's the right time. Thankfully, this video has confirmed a lot. Thanks Ezinne

@marycynthiaofficialtv9641 Год назад

I have quite debated this pros and Cons quite well many times this year Ezinne. But I still believe that I still need to move if I want to move forward with allot of things in my life and have more time. Just trusting God for Financial growth in my business and he is doing it. Thanks allot for this video, it was sent for seriously. Was just looking through some apartments and decided to come to YT for a while and this video shows up. God bless you Ezinne 🌹

@JenssssO Год назад

I remember binge reading bible diary and I was super excited cause it answered literally all my questions and doubt at that time. I felt the Christian journey was hard because those I would look up to and those that would preach and advice on being a Christian and how to live were already established and nobody was talking about the struggles they faced until I came across Bible diary and it made me understand better and I thank God.

@law_life_scripture Год назад

Hey where can I get this?

@JenssssO Год назад

Check the description box, you’ll see a link the blog.

@__dekana__ Год назад

I love how Ezinne continued asking us to like her videos after her mum told her she wasn't doing so and needed to.😂 That's honoring your mum right there.

@nzeamalunkechinyere919 Год назад

This video is timely 🥺🥺 Currently in my final year and the urge to move out is getting stronger. Parents love as beautiful as it is can be dangerous to one's growth but we will apply wisdom while moving out.

@amycee4013 Год назад

Same hereeee

@jobjemima9736 Год назад

Thanks!I really needed this,I celebrate the grace of moving out and yet being in Gods will,God bless you ma

@el_debola Год назад

I don't live alone literally but sort of, just I and my sister stay together, and yes I go out more often than I did back home, being able to go out alone without anyone needing to escort me gives me a sense of independence cause I could remember when I was back home if I just wanted to Cross gate to buy something omo the interrogation 🤣🤣 but living alone is sometimes lonely but it helped me rely more on God, and I can say since I moved away from home, my relationship with my heavenly father has really gotten better, also very grateful that I found your RU-vid channel earlier this year, it has really been helping too. God bless you ezinne ❤️💯

@thegospelspace_1 Год назад

Gosh. Thank you for this video ❤️

@temi_ladele2177 Год назад

Thank you for this !!!

@sharonyakubu Год назад

thanks for this ! loved itttt

@BeingGospelwithEzra Год назад

Thank you for this 💕💕

@patiencealexander3531 Год назад

The only thing wrong with this video is that it's too short

@SHEISAMAVA Год назад

Thank you for this wonderful video. God bless you ❤️

@FaithIfesinachi Год назад

Thank you so much for this video 🤍

@dearomonso Год назад

Lol I live alone and I can attest to the temptation part. I however like the loneliness maybe because I really like my space. I do miss family especially now because this will be the first Christmas I'll be spending without them. Other than this I would say living alone has actually made me really responsible, aware of my finances and generally accountable for my own stuff.

@maimbomiyoba1627 Год назад

This is really helpful thank you 😊

@iamtomidey Год назад

This video was so helpful. Thank youuu for sharing ❤️

@bihambe71 Год назад

Thank you so much for this

@praisefennom Год назад

Thank youuu for this 🥺

@winniembedza6826 Год назад

Thank you, this video has been very helpful.

@mercylungu7817 Год назад

Loved this💞🌷

@alheri_ebenezer Год назад

Nice video I enjoyed watching ❤

@faithokakwu810 Год назад

God bless you and your good works.

@dimmaokeke Год назад

Thank you so much for this. Apply wisdom!!!

@zavisworld3653 Год назад

Thank you so much ❣️ for this great words if wisdom

@stephaniejulius Год назад

Thank you so much ❤️

@joanmathias6248 Год назад

This video was really helpful ❤️ Thanks✨

@Anu_Borisade Год назад

Thank you for sharing! You're a blessing! The world is blessed to have you in it.

@somiekast4219 Год назад

Thank you so much 💜

@Realestatewithprecious. Год назад

Wow! So helpful. Thank you so much Ma

@elzbthamponsah724 Год назад

Thanks for sharing Sis. This is an excellent video.

@sharonigbokwue Год назад

Thank you for this video. It was really helpful 🤍

@comfortbeckley2229 Год назад

I lovvvved it, thank you Big Sis

@kessy4230 Год назад

Oh my goodness I feel God literally sent you to make this video for me lol thank you very much I'm 19 as well and I recently just graduated/convocated a couple days ago. I've literally been in this space where Im like confused on the next move to take as well. Thank you fr sharing. I hurriedly subscribed because of this video 😂❤️

@MendedPieces Год назад

Please can you explain the education system in Nigeria to me. I feel you guys really graduate very fast😅 as compared to us here in Ghana

@kessy4230 Год назад

Lol ummm I attended a private university so it made things pretty easy there wasn't any strikes or complications along the line My 4 years was 4 years do you get. Hope that answers your question

@MendedPieces Год назад

@@kessy4230 okay please. What age do you go to secondary school normally, and for how long ? Please

@kessy4230 Год назад

I started out secondary school at age 10 or so. Secondary school takes like six years so I graduated at 15-16 years old

@MendedPieces Год назад

@@kessy4230 wow. That's fast. Here in Ghana, we have junior high school before senior high school. Normal age for junior high is 11 or 12. They are both three years each, just that its not together, like in Nigeria, lol. So one finishes shs around 16 or 17. That makes graduating from university at 19 a bit early,😅, but I guess it's almost the same. Thanks for your help tho❤

@sarahjacob4365 Год назад

you are honestly a blessing 🥹❤️

@ivykut5446 Год назад

Such a helpful one!

@blessingnelson4926 Год назад

Finding your channel has been a blessing to my life. Thank you.

@afua9907 Год назад

This video is so timely. God bless you!

@diepreyejolly Год назад

Thank you sist,this was really helpful.God bless you 🥺

@verafamodyle4222 Год назад

Thank you so much, ma’am. You’re amazing!🥰

@JustUchey Год назад

Thanks a lot for this video, it just gave me some ideas🥺

@bestfavor.j Год назад

This for this wisdom. May God bless you

@lightedtalkwithvivian2845 Год назад

Truly insightful Thanks darling

@kekeliahiabu8971 Год назад

❤❤❤ sending love before I watch

@dreamervert Год назад

This was helpful!

@adetolasanni007 Год назад

I got saved a few years back and as a new convert, we don't know the reality behind being a Christian. We kind of think it all Rosey. Maybe because people hardly talk about their experiences. I was kind of lost and frustrated for almost 3years until I begin to ask questions with God's grace and mercy this year has come with a lot of amazing revelations for me. To everyone out there who is confused like I was, you are not alone. Start asking questions and you will see growth in your Christian life. Of course, the Bible is your medium for answers don't joke with it.

@peaceimafidon4629 Год назад

This is so well put. Well done Ezinne

@victorychioma1 Год назад

Waw!! You speak so well💖💖

@CallistoNonso Год назад

This video was very helpful.

@bbhairyfros1996 Год назад

I so much admire your unique lifestyle. Thanks for this insightful piece 😃

@dorothyemiemokumo3175 Год назад

This was so helpful and I could really relate to it alot. Ps: Your nails are so pretty 🥺

@toochiejiofor4590 Год назад

Thanks, please more of these videos.

@favourzion5389 Год назад

Thanks alot sister

@matildachipale5361 Год назад

You are my favorite 🥺 Love you so much ❤️

@kenechukwuokoh1014 Год назад

Thank you, Mrs Zara. I'm encouraged

@Thisisbisola Год назад

Love your ring and of course the video! Thank you ❤

@muniraibrahim2524 Год назад

I always anticipate a video form you.

@ojochegbeusman9856 Год назад

Thank you for this video ❤️ please I can’t find the link for the blog… can you help with that?

@akorjohnofu-woicho5201 Год назад

This is a big motivation for me already

@tamarasstory9802 Год назад

Thank you so much Ezinne!!!! This was really helpful!

@faithogugua9918 Год назад

Thank you so much Ezinne, this was timely

@pearlsbeulah1021 Год назад

This video is just what I want.

@Janederryo Год назад

I can't express how much I needed this video,thank you so much.

@jobjemima9736 Год назад

Beautiful video,I celebrate you ma

@blossomtg Год назад

Thank you Ezinne.

@danielayomide18 Год назад

seriously speaking this is really amazing and helpful.

@ashanti5770 Год назад

Oh she’s so pretty!❤

@favourabaa2992 Год назад

Thank you Ezinne❤️

@melodyiwuamadi483 Год назад

Thank you so much Ezinne, for sharing. God bless you sis!

@impact_favour7885 Год назад

Thanks ma. This message came timely 🙇🏾‍♀️

@DesireUba Год назад

I’m glad that this was a well balanced video (as I would expect 😊) God bless you, Ezinne!

@Make_his_way_known Год назад

Thank you ezinne

@eyizooheaudu1948 Год назад

Thank you so much, Ezinne💜

@deborahohemu8036 Год назад

Thank you so much for this 🫶🏽 It seems you graduated from school really early ❤

@chinwe5527 Год назад

Beautiful and inspiring story. Thank you Ezinne

@tryde_d Год назад

Thank you for this video. It was definitely a timely one for me personally. God bless you ♥️

@giftijbrandy365 Год назад

This was really helpful to me❤ Thank you so much for always putting up great contents 😊❤

@OpesPOV Год назад

great points raised (as usual lol :) ) I would just add that living with your parents doesn't always mean that you are not living as a true adult. I think it has more to do with your ability to make mature, independent decisions. Living apart and financial independence helps with that lol. but when that can't happen for the time being, one can still "adult" :) hope that makes sense. At the end of the day, like you said, its all about applying God's wisdom.

@UnsolicitedwithTiolu Год назад

Thank you for this Ezinne❣️ your locs are flourishing🤩

@weilinamarachi4572 Год назад

You're absolutely beautiful ❤

@olabisidamilola3065 Год назад

Thank you Ma😍😍

@angenaomiemessunekam1620 Год назад

Thanyou Ezinne 🙏

@Storyjournalanimated Год назад

This video is timely. I'm at the stage where I'm about to move out. God bless you ❤

@derascorner Год назад

This video is amazing Your hair,your nails Thanks for sharing your growth❤️

@olukayodephebe6703 Год назад

Thank you so much for this video, it really helped and has shown me that there's a right way to do things❤

@tontexetex6787 Год назад

Thank you Zinny.

@mariamabosi8975 9 месяцев назад

Wow. This is so helpful and relatable. I wish I could talk to you directly. I can totally relate the struggles you had. I moved out of my parents place to another state entirely for work and to be able to do the work of ministry effectively. I prayed to get my own house and live alone but it didn't work like that, I currently stay with my friend's family and I must say that I feel like I'm with my parents again. I felt so discouraged at first and I am currently in a state of acceptance. Still wish I can stay alone though. Thank you for sharing this. Do you still do TC?