2:00 Vaallu kaadhu meeru asahyangaa maatlaadutunnaaru,ento 28 years aa antunnaaru ippudu andaru ammayilu aa age ke pelli cheskuntunaaru,thank god the girls rejected by you really have a bright future
So true. Worst thing is , she said after two years her parents cannot get her married. Worst way of thinking . Her son got married at 30 . Such arrogance
@@jayareddy7961 she is not professional . Promotes wrong thinking , she looks down upon ppl who want to be independent . A 30 year old unmarried girl is looked down by her . Such a horrific mentality
K don't understand what she said. But when I saw topic I feel like it's something wrong. Of you reject someone or accept someone its not necessary to put it on social media. It makes like this guys are trying to tell her daughter in law is lucky to have them as they selected them. It's marriage not a job interview to select your daughter in law. If it's not personal to you it may be personal to your daughter in law and her family.
What mam said is right,if girl does not want give birth it's ok,but If u want children it is better to give birth atleast by 25 years, there is possibility for I'll healths after 50 years age,by that time your kids must be shaped in useful way
I request RU-vid authority don't accept this kind of videos to be posted it can affect so many ppl like ,can destroy families too...it can affect bond between the mother in laws and daughter in law
Me Ammai meku princes aithey valla papa vallaki princess. Don't underestimate people. Mari merendhuku aa Ammai antha baledu vallaki money ledhu ani endhuku anadam.
You have your personal views and are entitled to it. But having a following of 1.2L also makes you responsible regarding how your view affects them. So you should think and moderate your views on public platforms Also consoling youself by saying that all those who have said anything negative about you are jealous is honestly very kiddish. Embrace negativity and positivity in equal measure. That is the sign of a mature person.
Daughters are pets of their parents Leave your ego. How can you judge a if she is beautiful or by outward Look The girl you left is the luckiest one, Madam..
Ammailani thintha body shaming chese athagru dorikithay narakame abba. Inka illu chakka battali ane alochana thappa vache ammiki manam kuda value ivvali thana istalau kuda thanaki vuntai Edina sadinchali ani anna feelings kuda vuntai. Andam ga lekapothay manchi vallu kara eni. Thellaga vuntene manchi valla. Plz change your mind set. Ina idem video daughter ni law ela vethukunnam ani?? goppalu cheppukovatam or enti asalu ardham kaledhu. Andamina thelivina illu chakkabette ammanini chala baga welcome chesaru ok. Atleast aa ammi side kuda think cheyandi what she want ani. Adi goppa. Intha body shaming chese meru ammini vethokkovatam gogga kadhu. Kodaliki ravalsindi illu chakkadettadame kadhu. Kodalini unntham ga chudali ani anukovatam kuda athagari lakshaneme.
Miru mi kodali gurnchi chepparu bagundi kani vere adapillalni regect chesam ila unnaru ala unaru project cheyadam correct kadu......miru chesinavi mathrame gopppa ani feel avthunnaru
You have showed your true self today in your previous video. How can you stoop to that level and say things about other's children? What if someone else talks about your kids and their appearance on a public platform like you did? Me papa entha stout ga vundi repu meeru thanaki matches chusetapudu ilage evaraina thanaki vankalu pedithe meeru voorukuntara? Me abbayi kuda antha adbhuthamga em ledu. Adi telusukondi first. Meeru me abbayiki matches chusi evarini finalize chesukunnaro adi me personal matter. Adi theesukochi ila public lo oka ammayi pottiga vundi inkoka ammayi sarigga ready avvaledu inkoka ammayi bodhu ga vundi ani ilanti matalu matladakandi. Asale mana society lo women or girl child ki iche value ento chusthune vunnam. Me lanti vallu kuda ilanti matalu matladi inka society lo inequalities penchankandi. Mind your words and chose your words right next time when you talk.
Hiii ma'am if you dont mind I want to ask you onething.Always you speak from your point of you and you never ever involve your better half in your discussion.He doest have any role in your family
One sad part is if a guy is preparing for civils or any such exams it’s an amazing thing and if he gets a job elsewhere the girl will have to be ready to leave her job or move there but the reverse can never happen. Such intelligent girls will be rejected just because she would be getting a job elsewhere and the guy has to shift which becomes a problem. I am not saying this just in this case….its the general mindset of our society. A girl has to leave everything but a guy cannot leave anything and go out of comfort zone for their partner. Sad reality!
Madam, why is beauty so important?..physical beauty is not going to be for ever..its just for a decade or two. Permanent beauty is of heart. Next a women can choose to share her life with a partner at any age...why 28 years seems a big thing....good nature is diff from beautiful face. If you say a girl is nice it should be her nature...not by her beauty....
Views differ. But I like some points u mentioned mam, such as not giving preference to dowry, not interfering in between the couple. Nowadays parent of daughters r very conscious about their future. They don't want their daughters to suffer like they did. And I have to mention that u r too practical, mam.
Naa abiprayam prakaram mana family conditions ki saripoye viyyankulu undaali. Lekapothe chaalaa kastamu. Leka pothe evai lokam lo vallu undipothe ademi jivitham. Compatibility leka pothe entha dabbu undi emi labham. Dabbu nu chusi emi santhosham untundi. Madam I absolutely correct. I am seeing myself in your thoughts. Today I saw your video. But last week I thought and same views expressed to my son. The same moment he said to me to go ahead with your concept of least preference to money and first to family compatibility. Accordingly we have committed to one alliance. My son did MS at USA but settled at Bangalore as software developer for good salary. Thank you madam. You are disseminating good things to society. I wish to talk to you. I don't know whether it is possible. I am Professor in the university. Manu cheppakundaane intiki vacchina kodalu mananu follow ayyelaaga mana inti manushulu environment undali anukuntaanu. Nana gurinchi evarainaa cheppadaaniki vaste kudaa ingnore chesenthagaa manamu unte ika elanti varu mana family matters lo involve kaavalani avajasam manamu ivvakudadani Naa abiprayam. Decide ayyamu kudaa.
Mee alochana intha amazing ga unde 30 varaki pelli ava ledhu mi babu ki.. chudam mi ammayiki chuse apudu miru em chustaro! And ilanti mindset unna pedda valani intlo bharinchadam chala kastam. I pity your daughter in law!
Avunu. Properties emi lekunda isthe repu job edaina problem vasthe elaga. Girls ni hurt chese laaga undhi ee video . 30 years kakapothe 35 years ki cheskuntaaru marriage.
We have always admired you and respected you as a self made lady with knowledge and experience. You have set your own bench mark at a high level. Even this video has conveyed many good points. Still your views regarding looks and age of girls for marriage are not acceptable. Since many people listen to you and you motivate them you need to be careful while presenting your thoughts. You are speaking on a public platform. Kindly put forth your opinions in a more civilised way . Everyone has their choices and opinions.Thats perfectly fine.
Why are you saying already ammayiki 28 years..is there any age limit for girls for getting married.. isn't your son age is 28 years.?if he is ready for Pelli choopulu why can't girl of same age cannot be considered.
Andam ante enti ma? Meeru select chesukunna daniki it’s okay. But vere ammayalu andam ledu ala ani cheppoddu.. Ippati varuku mee videos Chala nachayi. But ee video tho meeru vere ammayalu gurunchi cheppindi nachaledu ma.
Meerelaa doctor ayyarandi baabu. Kodalini thechhukuni aa ammayini vere vaallatho compare chesthu, andam body shaming ivvanni social medium platform paina Ela ilaa chepthunnarandi. Raayalaseema vaalla paruvu theesesaaaru. Kaani meeru reject chesina ammayilu andari chaalaa adrustavanthulu🙏.
Humans are not products and relationships are not business deals. It's good to have expectations but everyone is overdoing it these days. In my opinion and experience the less you expect the happier and better the end result is going to be.
chala correct ga chepparu madam! IITs lo education cheyinchina parents ni after marriage chala Ibbandi peduthunnaru. Babu ni anni aspects lo use chesukontunnaru Ammayila Mothers ekkuva role play chesthunnaru.
I think People who gave negative comments here doesn't have brain to understand the values , manners people should show at particular events. When you go to temple, will you go in Short or without bath?? Then how a girl can come to see for matches without any preparation?? When you want to marry someone, we should first think about family relationship not just properties or money alone. Negative thinkers must think about value and behaviour madam is talking about not blindly talking physical appearance.
I don't understand why this much of negativity for this video. She is absolutely right and transparent in her opinion. It's thought provoking. But people who are providing negative comments were not able to understand how they hurt their family. Also people should understand about his son maturity levels to understand the dreams of a women. Definately if that girl sees this video, she will be more happy, confident and hopefully she achieve her dream soon.
MI kuturiki cheyalsindi marriage 18 years ki 28 years women how mature she was ani ardmchesukokunda anty Ekada mi koduku ela una EMo chesina ammai tharupu valu matram em Adagakunda Pelli cheyala, sary Ity ivvandi MI amaiki kuda enquiry cheyakunda ichyandi
Me abbayi emi mari antha handsome boy kadu kada face antha look ledu ammayi antha bagundo abbayi kuda bagundali kada mari antha beauty ga unte ammayi me abbayi kuda ala undali kada
whatever it mayb callin anyone average on a public plateform is bad .first of all this video is personal so it shoudnt have been kept.. n second thing fine your son is doing business but if he dint want to b a part of her struggle while she wanted to study how can he b there in her success.. long distance iworks if u want it to work.. change ur mindset.. will u marry your daughter to a beggar no right.. so nothing wrong in seeing about family n finance n property.. n dont talk about anyones age of marriage its their choice.. what did u achieve marrying young anyway
Evari pillalu valaki muddu kada andi.. video start cheyagane it is so dissapointing to hear this from you “ aa amai kuda em adbhutam ga ledu” “vala confidence ento amai gurinchi “ What is wrong in being confident about their daughter? What is wrong in her if she is 28 ? Now a days even girls settle ayaka 30 ki pelli cheskuntunaru ? Vala family and aa girl e video chusthe entha badhapadtaru ? Maybe you are right ma’am.. but generation tho patu manamu anni marchukuntunapudu.. e mindset kuda marchukunte manchidi kada .. Its a request to everyone of your generation from this generation 🙏🏻
Evari opinion valadi.kaani madam elanti video social media lo petakunda vunte koncham baagundu.oka ammayini andham tho kolavadam anedi sari kadu.kaani mana society lo andharu alane vunaru
Infertility pcod anedi 20s lo kuda vastundi andi, it's coming becoz of stress , and it applies to both men and women Edo ammayila valle vastunnattu matladavaddu mike aka aunty garu😂
Mi abbay average ga vunnadu so ammay kuda avg vunte thappu ami vundhi. Ayna entha direct ga ala cheparu ahh ammay gurienchi avg ga vundhi age akkuva ani vaalu mi video chusthe baadha padatharu ani kuda ledhu meku.
Sick mentality..judging women by their physical appearance and categorizing them as average!! Who set the landmark age for marriage as 30? People like u?? Sad to hear all this when you urself have a daughter.. sick
Ammayi vallu abbayi gurinchi anni aduguthunnaru ante pelli ayyaka valla ammayi thana attarintlo happy ga vuntundho ledho ani ala adugutharandi adhi thappu ela avuthundhi Oka manchi vishyam entante meru kodalani ela chusukovalo chepparu
Wow ammayilu confident ga vuntunnnaru adi meeku over confident anipistondi. Meku me daughter-in-law lo konni qualities kavali alage ammayi ki kuda abbayi lo qualities kavali, tappenti? Meeru select chesthe parledu ammayi chesukunte over confidence aa? 28 yrs ki marriage avvaledu ayithe? Maybe she wants to have success in her life Adem tappu kaade evariki vunde problems vallaki vuntayi it's not correct of you criticizing like that. Also maybe valla ammayi future secure ga vundali ani assets gurinchi chusthunnaremo
Pls delete this part also.Dont give negative comments on other brides.lips baaga ledhu antunnaru.is it the right way?fair skin,costly dressing untae manchi valla?
Discussing on public platform about the girls u rejected is not correct...labeling girls as average and below average is also not ethical...ur son also might have faced lot of rejections...
Good video Oka video chestunte positive negative matladitene adi correct ga unnatlu. Meeru chusina ammayili Money minded and arrogant unnaru ani cheppadam mee uddesam. Endukante meeru ee video chesindi kodalni techukovalanukunevallki kaabatti. Already settle avvadaniki saripada money undani telisi emi undi enti ani adigite adi money minded kaaka inkenti andi. Manaki telisina abbayiki chustuntene andam, chaduvu, vinayam gurinchi manam comment chestam. Oka manchi ammayini family ni miss chesukunnamani chepapru. Inko manchi family nundi kodalni techukunnamani chepapru. Kodalni kooturi laaga chusukivalani chepparu. Definitely a good video. Keep going andi.
I have watched every vedeo of URS...but first time I felt disappointed...too critical of looks...which is true but putting it in public domain is something that you could have avoided...
Asalu andam ante enti madam ... Slim and trim , tall , fair ga undadamena ?? Adi chala tappu ... Every one is beautiful on their own way ... Society has to change their mindset ..... And ilanti vedios not expected ....
India lo amma daggara unte tappa bharateeya sampradam telusa meeku perents nu choodadam tappa pellanni teesukoni ooregite goppa ante bharyani choodatam tappu ani kadu iddareni choose vade goppa
Lalithagaru u can shut my mouth but wat abt the ppl who.gave u dirty comments nicely from morning..wat Statics I should do... Inspite of all this u r backlashing me...u hv no shame..not worth saying anything to you lady.. Stop posting videos...u proved wat ur in the morning...I support the girl children...
Ya exactly, some ppl might be influenced by her and start rejecting girls based on height and weight...As a parent she can run background checks but ultimately her son should be the one attracted to his potential girl not her!🤦♀️
Everything that's wrong with Indian patriarchy is in this video. She's so obsessed and judgy with the girl's looks and it's going to be a nightmare for that poor girl that marries her son. Honestly her own son is not that good looking. A woman's body and outward beauty is bound to change with the changes in life through childbirth and aging. This poor DIL is going to be constantly put under pressure to maintain beauty standards set by her MIL. This MIL is too involved and doesn't seem to understand healthy boundaries. She should stick to jewelry advice and skincare advice. The very proof that she is portraying herself as the most understanding and loving MIL is a red sign. You don't need self dabba if you really are as great as you say you are.
I seriously felt not good , the topic itself how I selected a girl for my son ! She has every reason to reject a rich girl , well educated girl this reminds not to be over qualified .
@@aswanichittilla8745 I'm just thinking.. in this process don't know how many girls she might've hurted.. she forgot she also has a daughter as well .. what if others comment on her daughter same way..
Mam your opinion is correct Enduku enni negative comments ? She is right. As a mother everyone thinks like that only. Even our parents also think as same. Beauty is also important.
You are a role model to many ,n I watched all your previous videos and liked too.but this time,in this issue your thought process, maturity,broad mindedness is missing.
Madam good that you deleted the first part. Meeru pakkana valla families gurinchi ala maatladadam chala thappu vallu mee videos choostharu valla relatives choostharu entha badha padtharu meeru valla gurinchi ala maatladithey meeku kooda oka daughter undhi mee daughter gurinchi vere vallu ilane maatladithey ela untundhi okasari aalochinchandi mee babu em antha andhaga undaru andi kaani mee kallaki bhaga anipistharu alage evari opinion valla ki untundhi kadha madam meeru ala cheppadam chalaa thappu video edit chesi manchi pani chesaru Lekapothey meeru chalaa bad ayyevalu alage comments cheyadam kooda aapandi madam chesina thappu ki endhuku viewers ni thidthunaru mee viewers ye mee customers adhe meeku balam epudu ala maatladakani alage knchm goppalu kooda thagginchadni video lo 40 crs 30crs endhuku madam avvani evaru adigeru mee gurinchi mee meere dappu kottukovad endhuku lakshalu karchu pettaru annaru mee babu marriage set avvadaniki meere mee babu mee kodalani thakkuva chesukuntunaru ardham cheskodni
Madam, Mee videos appudappudu chusthanu, kani recent ga maa varu covid valla chanipoyaru, kani relations gurinchi epude thelisindi, madam Mee videos chusthunte naaku ee timelo relaxga undi
Telling a girl "she was just average" is not degrading? Every one should understand average, below average above average are used in maths not with respect to girls looks. For example just think this video is viewed by a acid attack survivor's parents, freinds or relatives. How painful they might feel. Sometimes people degrade other humans in a diplomatic way which might not be Sensed at all. Hope you understood.
kontha mandi untaru pelli mundu katnam oddu antaru pelli ayaka em ivvaledu ani antaru. alanti vallu munde adagavachu kada piki oka laga lopaliki oka laga. malli kodalu bidda okati antaru. manushula pina asahyam ga undi ivvani chustunte.
Manam em anukunte ade jaruguthundi...yadbhavam Thad bhavathi...all the best ma'am...mee new life with mee kodalu... atthalu correct ga lekapithey cache badhalu ento maku telu ma'am...meeru annatluga Mana ane bhavan vunte a family ayina chakkaga kalasi melasii vuntaru... Adi lekapithey ne problem s vastayi ani chala clear ga artham ayyetlu chepparu...u r hats off ma'am...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You're really rich ma'am. But you can never buy positive thoughts or broadmindedness. Miku eno crores undachu. Modern lifestyle unte broadmindedness undalani em ledhu ani prove chesaru. No offense. You are not a modern woman. You are toxic.
nuv inni names marustunnav kadha ra ma nanna CI raa oksari ne address cheppu..nuv first thidithene nenu thitaa..names maarustunnav nuv nuv magaduvi aithe nee number ivvu raaa...nuv ekkadunna pattukunaru..asLu nee prblm cheppara..ame ni nenu em annanu body shamming cheyakandi madam annanu antbe kadha..nadhi tappu vunte ma nanna dhaggra nadhe tappu ani chepta..needhi tappu vunte matram ninnu malli levakunda kodatady nee thittlu choosi
I don’t think there was any reason for you to comment on girls you rejected. Arranged marriage first of all is such a primitive practice and demeaning to the girl and with educated people like you also behaving like this maybe better for them not to even marry. I was involved in the process for my brother and felt really bad when we had to say no. Tried to screen better before going and seeing so we see min number. Probably better to delete this video.
Mana peddavallu ela think chesaru kabatte okappudu marriages baga jarigayi, happy unnaru. Ippudu parents Mata Vinakunda chesukobatte ila unnayi. A mother only know who is a right partner to her child .
Ppl who want to lead a peaceful and Hassel free life ur advises help them a lot,I don't see anything wrong, because even I have been counseling so many girls and women with their disturb ed marriage lives,so I can connect 💯 with u. I feel each and every sentence u speak is true and useful. Pls carry on d good work,I watch ur video s regularly.🙏
The example u took about pooja is absolutely right...its the same thing happens when u get married...maa intlo ilage chestam nuvvu kuda ilage chei...ee time ki ide jaragalu ilage jaragali ani pratidi venaka nundi atta direct chestu untundi...pls speak on this more mam
Inka ipati generation lo ilantivallu unnara .. kalisi oka place lo undakunda vidi ga unte gole ledu .. instead of chitchatting how to adjust because calculations come out instead of larger picture. A ammai valla illu vadili husb finger patukoni vachindi ,leaving her bed her frnds and her parents.. you just b urself simple sweet instead of a wrking mind ani cheppandi. Daughter in law dominate chestunda after 10 yrs anedi mee ammatanam meeda kuda depend avtundi. But kudos to you for the unfiltered video instead of dramatic fake dialogues. You just expressed your opinions👏
Am I dreaming ?? well said amma god bless your family when my mom decides to get a daughter in law I said same thing to my mom and my mom said how your sister in law you are same to me I asked her why not we have to be charge for the good way not a greedy and jealous person
athisayam koncham yekkuva indi ...ammayi em antha bagaledu ,color takkuva,,,,,,,,bodduga vundi velli chusthe slim gaa,tellaga vundi,,,,,,,aaa ammayiki age kudaa takkuva em kaadu 28.,,,enti ivi anni ?.goppalu kaakapothe .mee family lo emi minus lu levaaa,, ok ten minutes kurchuni aalochinchu kondi
28 years ammai ni antha chulakana ga matladakkarla...money gurinche adigaru annaru adi thappu ..ok?! But oka ammai 28 ki pelli kaakapothe ...idem baaledu madam..More over pointing out her age is stupidity...you would understand if u pursue some careers it would take many years to settle...repu Mee manavaralike 30 ki pelli kaakapovochu....
Very smart u deleted the r first part of the video...speaking bad abt other girls beauty n status... don't mislead ppl by this video after deleting the first video where morethan 350 comments spoke against your video...even ur son is not smart not ur daughter pl don't talk any other daughters all girls r beautiful in their own way...God has blessed eachone in n an unique way. Nice editing...
Yes i agree with you sandhya.mrng video chusi i got shocked,being in a responsible position how can she judge other girls based on outer beauty.i dont know what she is thinking of.first chusina ammai muthi bagaledhu adhi baledhu idhi baledhu ani cheppindhi.kuthuru andamga lekapothe ammai parents ki and ammai ki confidence vundakudadhu anamata mi video lo ivena miru cheppedhi viewers ki.mi son and daughter meedha miku entha vuntundho bayata valla parents ki adhe vuntundhi adhi telsukovali..oka ammai ni ichemundhu parents em kanukkokunda kuthurki pelli chesthara.miku oka daughter vundhi kadha miru kuda em adagakunda oka lower middle class person ki ichi chudandi.miru aathma soudharyam gurunchi cheppandi andariki....oka vela miru mrng video lo matladindhi thappu kakapothe ila edit chesi vundevallu kaadhu,miru mrng video lo chala thappu ala anatam
Meghna am a Christian lady not a girl I hv a 2 sons n no daughters...but I support girls👍 . Coz she being a responsible person in society n talking abt beauty n girls...as if she is beautiful or her daughter is...y should she talk abt other daughters...if she did not like she should stop n not comment abt that girl...she is not nice etc etc y all this..she should keep in mind all girls r beautiful in their own way.
