When she said that her family will be excited with an American guy, she's is referring to the young people in the family. The uncles and aunts and older folks will ask some serious cultural questions.
@@tomgrier7517I can say that for black Americans living in the US also. The middle class is growing in south Africa. Even with them struggling they are not going to take a boat to go to Europe or Strugglento go to America. They do not even travel around Africa, why, because they do not want to. They are exactly like the common black American who is not interested in going nowhere. I am not south African but have lived there. These are proud bantus. They are only interested in making their country better. Go to Jburg and see how good SAs are doing. If I had to choose between SA and America I would definitely pick SA
@@africaine4889 I'm not American. South Africa's GDP has been trending downwards since 2010. I like South Africa but they have decades to go to be positively comparable to the US economically or socially.
SOUTH AFRICAN WOMEN SHOULD START START TREATING THEMSELVES WITH RESPECT, ADDRESS THEIR SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES. OTHERWISE THEY'LL END UP BEING DISRESPECTED BY EVERY FOREIGNER
That was DOPE and shorty is BEAUTIFUL!!! South Africa is officially “on the list”. Thanks to these hard working brothers for sharing their experiences.
I love the African interviews you drop. I will be going to east Africa in the fall. Hopefully I can jump on with you and vibe and share my experiences.
with polygamy , it goes with culture and its not something that you will do out of the blue because you just decided that you want to do it,Traditionaly before you want to take a second wife you will have to discuss it with your first wife and when you first wife agree,she is the one who will choose for you,that's the normal Tradition. but if a man came out of the blue telling you that he is taking another wife without discussing it with you, that is him trying to promote his cheating tendency. and normally when you are in a relationship with some her in South Africa that person must INFORM you that he is practising polygamy so that you will know what you in for. there is so much that can be said about this issue of polygamy what I can say as a South African women it is not that 'Normal ' here.
This lady is talking nonsense, SA men are the most open minded men in Africa just even by looking at the constitution that we drafted, we even the first to champion women rights and their voice, we even first to give LGBTQ rights. She is talking rubbish
I know this clip is 2 years old and this comment is outdated but the girl is talking bs. Yes we're influenced by you guys but she makes it seem as though we worship yall. We don't. Yall look just like us. Yall dont stand out until yall speak. She's just a fan girl talkin out her groupie ass
Nah bro, we ain't hating on no one. But some guys know that West Africans are well endowed. That's probably the biggest threat in the dating space. I am also hung and hyper masculine, they always call me a West African. It's the package my man. 😂😂
No, it's a matter of behavior and respect. There are a lot of other Africans who have a problem with Nigerian men. They go to these countries and do illegal things to get lots of money and our women get pulled in by all that money.
African polygamy is totally different from American polygamy. It is not what I see in videos where they all live in the same house. Even sharing the same bed. Each woman must have her place to live with her kids. You have to provide for each one of them and the kids. Most polygamist have money. Also I lived in SA and what the guy said is not true. Several SA women are with regular Nigerians and Congolese. They do not have to show off their money.for them to get women. They do like Congolese because of the French accent. But in general they marry their own. Just like other African countries
Men by nature are providers - so obviously men carry the financial load; Women are nurturers, so women will carry the heavier load in nurturing the children. what the Hell is that dude talking about
