HOW IT ❤️ ALL STARTED | ARE DATING SITES BAD? 

This is how I met my partner and other stories. I'm sharing this because I want you to know me more. I want you to know who I am, where I have been, and how that has shaped my life. What's your love story?

I've been a silent follower of your channel. Today, I feel moved to speak. Why? The muted but profound philosophical insights & reflections about life. Instead of mourning how life has thrown curved balls at multiple sites of your life, you chose to turn adversity into an ally. This has inevitably led you to a place of self-acceptance and awareness. You convert gloom into hope. This is exhilarating. Then the rare sensitivity and candour with which you tackle such an intimate and intimidating subject. It endorses your courage even as you go on about your social timidness. I also love the simplicity and eloquence of the delivery. You invariably achieve this without trying too hard. These are the things that called me out of hiding. And now I am at peace. Cheers!

How do you manage to be soft spoken and interesting at the same time? Honestly you're the best❤❤

Dating sites are important for meeting people when you live abroad. In Europe, people dont have many social events to meet the right partner, compared to people living in African countries. How else do people meet abroad??😅. Few people go to church, so options are left to university, workplace not much due to fear of sexual harassment claims, and people don't talk to strangers on the streets.. so if you don't drink or go to bars, online date while abroad is my to-go place.

Tess you are very beautiful, intelligent and hard working. The best bet to meet someone that befits your status is in church and public or university libraries. Also enroll in free seminars and conferences and engage in conversations during lunch breaks. I know you are not ready now but start as soon as possible so you have enough time to evaluate anyone you are interacting with. Thank me later when God eventually answer your prayers❤.

People not wanting you? And here we are loving you from the beginning. There are a people you can't just hate, and you are in that list .

i met my hungarian husband on tinder and we are very happy,you are right there are good and bad people so dating sites aint the problem

Online dating should be embraced in this time and age. Especially for people like you. You work online, rarely meet people and introvert too. Onlone datingbis definitely an option. Like in thr real world, online dating had trashy people, its a matter of luck.

I can relate to you Tess🤣 in every way, I am an introvert too and have social anxiety , its so sad for me because meeting a guy physically is going to be difficult.💘

I love how calm and collected you are Tess. Such a gentle soul. I pray u find someone who deserves u❤❤

Girl,you are soo much wiser than your years,and you're very self aware and very articulate. More than me and I'm much older than you. I love your sit down vlogs and could listen to you for days! I only found you a few months ago and couldn't be happier. You may have faced a setback,but you're marching onwards with so much courage and grace.

Listening to this story...feels like i listen about my life too...i got lost too and lost it all...trying to find that reason still.....i feel i wasted much but i havent the energy or purpose to pursue anything ever since. Hoping this inspires me more and every time i watch other of your videos.

I just love you Tess 😍watching from South Africa 🌍🇿🇦

Girl you've been describing me all this time ... We've had similar journey just a few differences but very similar. Life aki..may our mothers continue resting in peace.

I love how soft spoken you are. You have been through so much and you are soooo positive and your positivity has kept me here since the first video.

There is no perfect method when looking for a partner.we just pray that God bless us with a good partner regardless where you met them.

Your blanket hoodie looks good❤

Thank you Tess, i started watching you when you posted the 2 videos which you deleted, hope you can put them up again, it would be nice to know the whole story

An ex -Bomarian here ..on people setting standards for others wueeh ...a workmate recently told me ,ulikua Kenya high na wewe si Daktari !😂

Watching from KSA🎉...love you gal❤❤

Hi Tess, love your fleece jumper. So cute. I have just quit online dating I want to focus on me now and my daughter x❤❤❤❤. You are so inspiring and lovely xxxxx

Thats a nice hoody, warm looking and lovely colour. Great Tess

You just gained a follower ❤

Tess you're waaay younger than me but i draw a lot of inspiration from you. About introverts' struggles...i feel you and relate so well🤣🤣. Honestly i love dating sites and generally social sites especially where you don't have to immediately reveal your identity if you dont want to. This is how i met several friends outside mu country Kenya and i still talk to them occasionally. I think dating sites are great as they allow you to move at your pace. Also they are the best if you are busy with other things like work, kids etc.

The hoodie 😍 is super cute.I enjoy your storytelling sessions 😊.Keep going 💪

I seem to miss your video notice but I just want to tell you I love your story time❤🤗🥰 yes you're Mike sound better.

The hoody is very nice dear , get another in grey

I love how well spoken, self aware and sincere you are

Why did I watch every second of this? Insightful and well narrated

Hey Tess,are you the RU-vidr who uploaded a video of " how i changed my life." I cane across that video some years back and it really encouraged me. I am not sure if it's you but i can't find it now. Would you bring it back, kindly? And also,i love this story.😊

Bumped in to your channel now hooked, you are soo interesting young woman...

Bright girls in school most of the time always find themselves in messy relationships,i can relate😢

Frohe Weihnacten Tess....love from Tedesco.

The microphone is amazing

I just love you gal Watching from 🇿🇦

The struggles of an introvert 😂😂 your hoodie is lovely ❤❤

I have now met my twin... I now understand why I am a freelancer.

Us introverts out here we struggle😌but our random smiles camouflage the struggle. I feel you Tess.

Thanks alot for sharing this. Wish joy, peace and the very best in life

Beautiful story by a beautiful soul. What's the brand the microphone?

Tess you encourage me a lot,, Keep it up girl,,i follow you everyday,,

Relationships are a tricky bit. I have opinions in the same. One a time when persons would be able separate love with marriage, then i believe a proper outcome is expected. Marriage is an institution and it entails hierarchy and understanding roles. Current trends suggest that the modern world is Liberal but with all the technology and empowerment we can vividly see that the people are more frustrated and more dumber than before. Lots of assumptions in play,people are no longer hands on and they depend on hearsay , grapevines and propaganda than whats on the real realm. As ive realised one could be a good husband but a shitty father and similarly a super nice mother and a terrible wife... Let reality hit for once,...a man who has a feminine energy will repel the women and vice versa. Western culture posts that every gender is equal, this is a mistake people have engulfed in by the hook bait and sinker!. End result is marriages that dont last. An emotional man is a tick timing bomb! Society now will tell you that its okay as a man to be emotional, but with all the testosterone, thats a dangerous being. A man should take time to "logically " set functions. Getting impulsive and psychologically carried away is ballistic! However how much we purport to have developed, gender roles should remain intact and people should understand that loving someone is one thing and marrying them is another...two separate entities there! Marriage is a commitment, and its better of if you marry a friend and not a partner. Partners are business associates. Women should purely understand their key functions and men also. Naturally, a man doing a woman's role is considered a competition by the woman and a woman doing a mans role the same and funny enough both will do the roles unsatisfactory wrong. So the man will hate the woman and the woman will hate the man. These are facts nobody speaks about.they says its okay to switch roles. There's never been a super wonderful time to live in since the inception of the world like 2023.Talk of Good technology, good health care, Proper education and food processing and even infrastructure. There's even freedom to do what you want and democracy. What do we see then with all these, . ..a rotten Society . This should ring a bell, ..If freedom and democracy and roles intertwined are not governed, its going to get ugly and messy. Watch this post in 2030! With what's trending, It will a tough manosphere to live in!

Everyone is online both good and bad people. So dating sites are just okay when you use it wisely

I just see brilliant girl here

You are such a good story teller❤

Tess... Happy for you and your progress.. in Kenya high we were taught to be tough babes.. 😅

Great sharing with us ❤well said

The book The Dating App Confessions by Logan Tindell has some good tips and stories.

The reason I respect and love you true self , respect and bravery is too much to ignore, I went to such hurtful relationships and I never gave up 3v3n though it is destroying so much of my future cos I don't trust any man no matter how je love me I reserve my heart in fear of being hurt again. This year I will go for counseling for the past to remain behind and move on as I've suffered for long since 2008 and again 2021 God will lead me this year,. Cheers from Pearl in Botswana 🇧🇼

Lovely comfy hoodie

Tess please please share why u are not doing it. I want to hear your points of view. I have a problem with that too

Fellow introvert..I get you..good work on your videos

I like your content Ogamba..... all the best

Wow so you were at Kenya High 👏I first saw your story on tiktok..

Woooow a fellow ex bomarian❤️❤️❤️ keep going, keep rising

cute fleece jumpsuit girl, your city is always cold yes find more for you♥

Just one day…

I loveee you Tess,,,,,,, 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Watching you from KSA

The struggles of introverts at the end 😅 I feel you gal You are such beautiful and awesome woman. ❤

I like the outfit

You are so sweet ❤

Watching you from your home country "Kenya"❤❤

🎉🎉🎉🎉 good jaaaaab❤❤❤❤

Interesting story,many dating sites have scammer's

I'm in a dating I work in Riyadh from 2020 I start dating UK man he work here in Saudi Arabia I don't to come they in UK can you help because he want to know the process

Honestly someone with that kind of judgmental thinking is purely silly, their views speaks volumes about them than the people they are trying to put down.

Your channel on online writing??

Passenger number 9.87k here🎉🎉🎉🎉

Watching from 🇰🇪💖

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Which was the site?

Eti unalive😂

How do you put up a thumbnail?

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Dating sites are the toilet.

I saw that comment

I understand why this narcissist approached you.

White site do you use

From kenya

Yoohh i begged someone to take me back too😂😂

Cute woman😘

Tess look for me.

Please move on with your life stop going back to this negative love story

Very good information on your videos..... But i have a question.... you can share with me your business email so that we can talk on some businesses with you.

Please, how do i check you on Instagram

I just love you Tess 😍watching from South Africa 🌍🇿🇦