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If white women want to take down and replace her man with herself, then black women marched with white women. Do black women want to be like white men? Is that who we are battling against really?
Yes! At some point you need to verify if the critical sexual chemistry is there. If you take that step and he walks, either all he wanted was a notch on the bedpost or you were terribly dissappointing. Of course, it was was a wonderful experience, he's yours.
When will people learn that waiting to have sex or having sex " to early " doesn't always determine how the relationship will turn out. If the person wants you, they will stick around
My boyfriend introduced me to your videos and oh my goodness the women in my family and community lied to me. Thank you Kevin for the truth that you share with women all around the world. Appreciation from South Africa
That just shows your boyfriend wants to make you his wife and want to make sure y’all in it for the long run. It’s funny that women will go to other women for advice on men but those men that they’re going to can’t keep a relationship to save their life. You got a good man
That's why ppl dont like him..They dont wanna hear the truth...Instead of taking accountability for no stability and stupidity They wanna scream CANCEL HIM...NO • CANCEL THE LIES THESE LADIES HAVE TOLD THEMSELVES
Bruh to be real honest men with options never go for such shit single mothers they're the beta providers with low self esteem who are rejected by higher value women...
My guess is the wife got comfortable stopped supporting at shows by showing up, fell off in looks or wasn’t his type got a baby some how, yet he met new in in his show in the audience
@Lamar Brown Lol he thought the grass was greener. She done bamboozled him into working 3-5 jobs to support her lifestyle and adopt all her adult kids 😭😭😂
@Lamar Brown not supposed to marry the side chick 🤔 ? Hmmm.....I.d.k. Aside from Steve Harvey, the following black entertainers & athletes put a ring on their alleged (AND/OR CONFIRMED) side piece: Kevin Hart (1 of Harvey's best buddies and fellow comedians...I guess birds of a feather do flock together). Retired NBA player Dwayne Wade Kaseem "Swizz Beatz" Dean
I've had men with options dip when I wasn't able to meet up at a certain time, and apparently one of them dipped because he was expecting sex on the 3rd date. Why? Because there's pretty 20 somethings with nothing else going on, ready to smash or go out at a drop of a dime. I'm not mad at that. Its called not having your time wasted.
Man this is advice I wish my father gave me. Pure gold. I’m 23 no kids yet. Working on ways to improve my income. Knowing how to avoid these type of women is key
His advice is Golden and I’m 34 just now heading this: it’s amazing how much I’ve seen over my adulthood with women. And I appreciate the real truth that he is giving. I’m not a man of high value because I’m in the military so I know for a fact I don’t make $10,000 a month. But I love the truth when it’s harshly given. I respect it
Education is key. Hell, any of the trades you can eventually make 6 figures, start your own company after 10 years. You can walk into a union office and become an apprentice. Solar power is going to be booming for the next 50 years, become an electrician, then start your own company. The world is a young man’s oyster. Learn red pill knowledge and DON’T make a big mistake. It’s ok to make little ones, but the big ones can set you back for decades.
My ex girlfriend played that card with me. She reached out to me recently saying she's afraid of dying alone. She also said if we were to get back together no sex till marriage became she believes in God. I laughed and said sounds like manipulation to me, because we already had sex, so she can't play that pure card with me. She said it's her body her choice, I said I respect that ...then it's my wallet my choice. If she withholds sex, I withhold money. Never heard from her after that.
And that’s exactly how I feel too brother I’m dating a really nice woman right now and we’re gonna go out on a nice date because she earned it and then after that me and her will go out on one more nice day after that but if she withhold sex after these two dates which I’m going to be spending some some good money on that I’m just simply going to withhold my resources and start making my way around to other women in the reason being is I’m a tall dude that most women find attractive as they say tells a man with options why play these games if I can go talk to another woman who actually give me some don’t get me wrong the woman I’m dating is nice and I want things to work but I’m not gonna play games
The realest statement he said was "the daddy make the baby, and the good man get the bill". Wow how true. They think this is normal and say things like "a real man would stand up". Yeah right. Delusional.
Notice around 1:14 she says that she's been talking to him for 6 months. Not dating, not courting... talking. It has been my experience, and something I had to learn in my late teens and early twenties, that when a woman says what she is doing to you is talking to you, not dating you, this is going nowhere and is usually a waste of time. You are being led along like a rabbit chasing a carrot, that she is never going to let you catch, because she is more interested in the game of watching you chase the carrot than actually entering a real relationship, or doing any of the things that would result in them being good relationship partners. I made one exception, only one, after learning this lesson as a teenager, and regretted it. Listen to what women say, because they are being upfront in the beginning about what it is they are looking for or doing. It is easy to ignore these little pieces of vocabulary. I do not enter monogamous relationships with women who talk to me, I enter into monogamous relationships with women who are willing to say that what they are doing is taking the first step towards building a committed relationship.
Ain’t no man making 10K a month, waiting on a woman more than 6 month. He getting it from somewhere else. He’s going to smash and ghost because she’s not worth the drama.
Lol depends with the family you were raised in. My brother makes more and doesn't go around smashing everything. He's not even in a relationship. He is busy investing. Different cultures. Not everyone is about smashing.
@@BlackSupranoMDHTHC tmi when I met my spouse he told me to take as long as I wanted. I had my stuff at his house.. At his request. He makes way past 10k a month. Hes Jewish. So depends with your upbringing. People have good hearts. But some people don't and want to make it look like life is about sex their is way more.
Game has changed. Feminism has come full circle and freed men. Sex is so eeeeeeeeasy and plentiful. But like Paul Proteus said, after a while “It’s just ass...” Far better to concentrate on making bank. Get out the notebook, start tracking your budget, start tracking your investments, growing, growing, growing. Don’t piss it away on lifestyle and women. Make goals where you want to travel and when, then do it. Do goals, not hoes.
Women need to understand that their sweet pot is NOT a Unique Selling Point (or what they call USP in marketing). Every woman has one and men are going to get it from someone if not from you. Please lead with something more. Be that woman who can help grow his bank account (even if he is wealthy) and not just spend all his money. Real talk.
@@Damngoodchicken_ Who is this comment referring to? Who raised you??? Seem like only grown folks are up in here who have some life experience and knowledge, not young 'uns who think they know everything, not to mention those who are rude, ignorant and impolite. Your mama should have taught you not to say everything that comes to your mind.
Mashalla Life And where does your concept of advice take us after expending responsive energy to her reply? Apparently into a lower vibe state of mind. Your insignificant response is evidence of a lack of intelligence on the part of, and I don’t apologize for this true statement, some simpleton parenting that didn’t raise their young man/child into respecting those on the higher tier of the chakras A.K.A. respect your elders of higher intellect. Since your parents lacked the wisdom, nor may not be an elder to you because you may have superseded them, I will inform you. You can learn something and become wise if you’re willing to improve yourself, son.
I think a woman should wait for as long as she wants, but shouldn't expect the man to stay around if he doesn't meet her timeline. Whoever falls off, falls off. Whoever stays, stays.
The answer to that question is obvious though- the man should spend money from the beginning since it’s the man trying to win over the woman not vice versa
"You dont want me in your prime I dont want you in your decline" she playing games and just wants free attention never be manipulated great job kevin women listen to this man 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@danbrown1344 because the one night was good. Don’t over think it, it was only supposed to be sex. And at the time I didn’t take ppl seriously who put out on the first night.
A one night stand is a random ass person you met without any knowledge of who they were before yall had sex. But aye if you find a connection and decide too make it work more power to ya 💪🏾💯
I asked a girl if she still has a FWB and she said yes, meanwhile she said she was gonna make me court her and try dating for a while first before sex. I told her to ditch her FWB while we try and date. I then proceeded to ghost and cancel on her every single time 🤣
OMG, I went through this with a sister in the 90's. Went out with her for 4 months. She had a son and no father in the picture. I was lucky to get a kiss from this sister. I finally said no thanks and walked away. She wanted to play this waiting game and I refused after 4 months. And the kicker is a saw her years later and she was alone and looked old as hell.
Kevin tells these women the truth! I’m a chief at a fire department, been making 6 figures for over a decade and this woman told me she doesn’t date men with “their names on their shirts”. 😂😂😂 That’s why I treat them like I treat them! You think broke and cute gets you in the door, not this one...
Things that may improve your life: - Believe that we got created & manifest - No masturbation & semen retention - Drinking 2-4 liters water a day - Don't compare yourselves to others, compete with the you from yesterday - Don't seek approval or try to impress anyone - Cold showers (Even the last 20 seconds of your regular shower) - Meditation - Not relying on relationships for happiness - Working out - Having a leader mentality - Reading books - Breathing in from your nose (reminder) - having gratitude - Cleaning your room - Taking breaks of social media - Not limiting yourself - Making up your bed (discipline practice) - Quitting/moderating caffeine & sugary drinks - Walking in nature - Making your own money (online) - Having a plan for things you wanna do - Being aware of what you doing with your valuable time & energy Peace, blessings and love to you (make a screenshot if you want to!)
@@ArtistGoodLefty bible is trash, us black people gotta wake up from that foolishness. The indocrination of the black community has hurt us immensely, keeping us poor and in fear. Same with the muslim brothers and their trash quran
@@jee6213 you speak as if you hold the absolute truth. Please be aware these things are subjective so writing them off like that doesn't make you seem knowledgeable
I had sex after the first date for the first time. I was so disappointed in myself i wanted to ghost him because I thought he was going to think I was too easy. Long story short he is now my husband 🤣 13 years of marriage.
Beautiful! Congratulations! In most cases, maybe it’s not best that woman have sex on the first day unless that’s what she wants. But you are an adult and the chemistry was there. So, I don’t see what was the problem? A real man especially if he is into you shouldn’t make you feel bad for doing it. Nonetheless, it all Worked out. Very happy for you!!
It’s all about how it happens not that it happens. Women aren’t used to approaching men so they don’t have game they don’t know how to build attraction like men do. So if they do want sex they’re usually over sexual and don’t say much and throw it at us. That will make us think you’re fast lol but if there’s build up natural flirting back and forth and then it happens then you’re good.
I am a 19 year old female who is waiting until marriage. I always wonder if I will ever have the opportunity to get married because it is very unconventional to be a virgin in today’s culture but as a women I know for a fact that our sexuality is a conviction and not something we can back track on. When women start their sexual journey it just continues as they either use it as a tool or an escape in their life. This video will be interesting because women put a price tag on their lady parts and won’t sell it for less than what they believe it is worth, hence the idea of settling. Edit: Thank you so much for all the commentary.🙂
At least you're not being hypocritical and you're being consistent. It's one thing to have this mentality when it's all you've ever done. It's another to have had a kid by another man and ask another man to wait longer and pay a significantly higher price.
Keep going sis and stay true to yourself and what you truly desire. If that is your personal conviction then stick to it. I am on the same journey as you so you are not alone and it is okay to be an anomaly. God bless you sis xoxo
I do appreciate these videos they really are feeling a need because as a woman who was in a very sheltered upbringing that went from father's home to husbands home and virgin at marriage, when I hear 99% of women's problems in the dating and sexual market I say absolutely nothing because I have no idea how this world works or what to do to make this mess work, and your approach of telling women how men think, and also decimating their own thinking process which you intuitively understand at the same time makes your show really helpful and I'm glad I can refer people who need help to you and your videos now.
I laughed at the honesty "My guess is you've already blown this." ....... He still gave her some very good advice when he said the dude is just waiting to hit then he is out.
Sly Fox exactly. If that’s the case, then why should she sleep with him? Men really believe once you sleep with one you’re obligated to sleep with all. Smh.
@@skidaddledo6919 should or should not that's up for her to decided. Because it is usually the first thing that most women offer of value to a man. No, a man does not think that if she sleeps with someone else, he will automatically assume that she "has" to sleep with him. But if the prove, aka "child" evidence is there, and she's telling him that he has to make an investment at full retail is BS. The evidence has shown men that she will put out, it is a matter of working on the agreed price. Time, energy, money, social status, basically some combination of those things. And compare to a single, young, less baggage women, she is over priced.
@@skidaddledo6919 I think he said that in regards to her playing games, if the man knows she is playing games with him he won't take her seriously and would just sleep with her then leave because now he just played the game with her.
It could be a blaccent.. aka ebonics. And given that shes not really in a professional moment she doesnt need to change it.. wait till you find out british people hardly pronounce their "t's". 😯 Actually no! Wait until you have a conversation with Elons Musk's current girlfriend. Nice try tho
@@TheyCallMe3clipse Its called documented information. Most people...men and women...are hot and heavy while dating. After marriage that slows, especially after children are born. If a woman is not into it before marriage it's not a giant leap to see she won't be into it after. That's biology and it's been like that for years.
This is simple dual mating strategy being played right here. She's clearly not attracted to this guy and it shows in this phone call. For if she was, she wouldn't be telling the world that it's perfectly fine for him to get poon elsewhere. Women whom are attracted to a certain guy would want that man for herself and would not think of him as being so disposable as she does. As Kevin stated, good luck with her finding another man of similar ilk in the dating realm. She thinks that the number of HVM willing to play the waiting game with her are in abundance but she's wrong; dead wrong. She'll soon find out that it isn't 1997 anymore, just like all the rest...
@@MoveInSilence23 That's the part where a lot of ladies like her badly miss the mark. They are stuck in a perpetual time warp and fully believe that they're going to have the same avenues afforded to them in today's dating realm as they were to single moms and faded beauties 20+ years ago. Young men in today's era have folks like Kevin and countless others on the net to help steer them from harm's way; something most of us didn't have in the '80s and '90s...
J J with my focus on advancing within my law enforcement career the idea of getting intimacy does not really come to mind plus I’ve been on the semen retention wave for a few months so my focus and energy is geared to more important thing but honestly I really don’t have an answer to how long id wait, it’s always happened when the time calls for it
@@JJ-vp3bd no time limit but if she wants to and we know we want to an she just dosent that's wen I dip if it take a day a week or a month idk just don't play with me im 30
No Steve is not playing women. He genuinely believes his own bullshit. Look at the woman he's married to, even the daughter is not even his, step daughter and he watches her get thrown all around Hollywood . His wife runs his house and everything. He gives women all the power. Smh. Beta man
Back in the day, a woman tried that with me after reading Steve Harvey and I made up my mind early that she had no serious future with me. I tolerated her for a few more weeks and then it was over. She tried to reach back out to me later, but I was married by then. 🙄
@@ceceprincess4758 No, I married a few years later. She and I had no communication for years. She reached out to me several years later months after I was married and l didn't respond.
I was thinking something similar... In that I don't care if it's someone like Adriana Lima, I'm not waiting longer than two weeks. Two weeks in Ms Lima's case, as scheduling conflicts and such. However, someone not on her level, depending on my mood, second, or even first date and I go full Ghost mode. It's honestly like I forget they're there, until they hit me up.
Obviously she must be a 10 and a perfect fit for him. Thts the only thing I'm thinking of. Mean time he should be chopping down other trees until then.
@@Afrocreolebombshelle exactly if the guy wants to be kept. So withholding sex doesn’t mean anything to a man who doesn’t want to be kept. She could give it up after six months and he would still leave.
Megan Akinsanya you’re right, which further concretizes why she’s right not to sleep with him.If she doesn’t want to sleep with him then she shouldn’t, as there would be no benefit to her. What would be the benefit to her?
2:45pm - wrong for that. Just because she made a mistake or something to do something at 23 doesn't mean she hasn't matured/planned for her future etc. That was wrong.
@@ripmic33 it actually has a ton of power. They’re probably already lobbying RU-vid to ban his channel. Wouldn’t be surprised if his channel disappeared tomorrow.
I just love the way you depict female personality. I find it hard to read between the lines but then after that it all make sense. Because after being confronted with the truth, the narrative become very different.
I would absolutely looove to see him, Steve Harvey, Derrick Jackson, Stephen Speaks etc.. just go at it on a conversation. I think it would be very interesting
@@williesurviveakaundaman2726 right those guys would refuse to show up to the debate. They’re charlatans pandering to their audience for money. KS is authentic.
Coming from a childless woman’s perspective, women put men in “categories” kind of like how men do. Some men, like the low value ones they see them as sex, a good time, and a hopeful wish/plan but the low value man can never deliver that wish/plan or promise or if he can he can’t keep it for long. Then, I notice women when they get a high value man, they don’t want him to leave. So they feel keeping the “goodies” locked away will make him stay. Like what Kevin was implying with those Steve Harvey type of doctrines. And all it does is piss everyone off and cause confusion in the long hall. All because “shawty” is damaged from dealing with low value men.
terrell ivey Exactly! As a woman, I can’t explain why women go for these types I really don’t get it. I think when it comes to certain women they’re attracted to their “swagger” lol which is honestly for little boys lol.
jarvis Well that is true as well. Men, especially low value men, can be damaging to women. We see it on social media ALL of the time. Yes, these women pick these men. But the men are just as accountable to give respect and more. And women who deal with bad batches of men end up “damaged” and lead astray. And to your point, this modern day feminism movement is DEFINITELY influencing these BAD decisions women are making when it comes to men too.
Give it to pookie and ray ray in 30mins but a high value brother need to wait for 6 months for what that used playstation with one free game LOL!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 A Joke lol lol lol
I’ll say that in my 20s and early to mid 30s I didn’t earn 6 figures, but I’ve always been a man who has had many options. This waiting game......will get you smashed n passed. We see through it. It builds resentment, especially if he actually likes you.
Did anyone else notice she got completely silent as Kevin started explaining to her how she played herself, priceless! Play stupid games Win stupid prizes🤣
I ain't waiting for nothing if she not a true virgin. She gave it up to thuggo and all he did was provide a grape swisha, cheap liquor, and 6 piece wing dinner while the high value guy who has been working hard to get to a level of success has to jump through hoops. Them days are over I'm sorry 👉🚪
I am Man of Faith & Even Women In The Church " Play Games.Even Though I Am Very Religious/ Spiritual, I Deal With Reality & You Kept It 100.RealTalk.True Gospel !!! Peace & Love To Everyone.
And women think that we are "asking" for "too much". Give me a break. When a man is in a position where he is a HVM, women get intimidated and immediately jump to conclusions. We are moving up. Slowly, but moving up.
We would NEVER wait 6 month's to close on a girl with a kid. That's insane, and date her her 6 month's. I would have done 2 DATES max and been out of there
So I’m just asking out of curiosity. Why do you allow a woman up to two dates for her to have sex with you? And do you think that realistically two dates is enough time for a woman to feel out your true intentions?
@@olivetree2391 you can look into someone's eyes and know their true intentions. Any girll that makes you wait is just playing the guy because she is thinking about someone else.
@@Elovexxx Who said that? You sound defensive and bitter, typical of women. Sex is an important part of the relationship, this would me like me telling a woman I will only buy you stuff once you marry me or sleep with me. In my case I was buying the person stuff for 15 months and they were not doing anything or me in return they were clearly using me plan and simple. You cannot expect to take from someone and not give anything of equal value back to them. Too many of you are bitter and toxic and want to argue about things all the time and wonder why you have a hard time keeping guys around.
This is it exactly. I hear women will often try to make a guy wait if she sees him as relationship material but will sleep with a hot guy in an instant as a fling
People unreasonably want guarantees. There are no guarantees in life. The anger abd response to covid is a current example. Women who hold off on sex for long times in a newer relationship, think they they avoid a bad outcome which is not necessarily true. People need to stop expecting that they can control the outcomes of many situations. Be prepared to react reasonably and intelligently but control ....no.
Craig C A mows the yard does dinner a movie and family time with her kids, for a kiss on the cheek ,while B does her drives her car and get mind blowing slobjobs, when the kids ain't around.
I think there is value in purity. Any man that needs sex before marriage isn't God-honoring. If people aren't Christian, that's on them. But if a woman is living a changed life, despite their earlier mistakes, then they should seek purity within themselves and for the man they seek. Being desperate to use sex as a tool to keep or test a man just isn't healthy on a spiritual level. I speak from experience. I may not be a "high-value" man when it comes to money, but it's my prayer that even "high-value" men would practice honoring a woman's purity as well as their own.
You sound like you like being played by single mothers. There is no "purity" because she let other men smash. THINK. You are paying a higher price than what other men had to pay. Why?
Eddie Kruggerr probably getting played now. Beta males ESPECIALLY “Christian” beta males always see the truth as hateful when in reality telling the truth is more Christ like and loving than allowing someone to live a lie.
Rhyne here’s the thing: 1. Assuming she’s an adult, (they start being sexually active way before that) If she is a fairly attractive woman then I can guarantee you she has messed around with men. It’s just how it is. I’m not judging her but the truth is the truth like Christians love to say. 2. Nobody said you have to have sex before marriage. But if she’s not even willing to have sex with you, can you really say she’s attracted to you as a man? Why be with a woman who isn’t attracted to you?
I dont advocate sleeping around just for the sake,especially when it comes to women but i do think this woman did not like the guy or else she would have already let him hit it long ago. Fan from Kenya
Men want to receive sex from women without giving up time...marriage minded or not...low value or high value..The issue is women will give it up quick to low value men and essentially punish the high value men and make them wait. What exactly does lose interest entail?
They have high standards after they give the box to lower standard men ...then they make good men or higher earning man jump through hoops that bad or low earning men never had to jump through
To be honest if they want a better man than the one they had kids with. If they just dealt with any guy they would have just dealt with the father of the kids
@@michellerichardson3090, single mothers qualifying for better man than the one they had kids with entails *being* a better woman than you were when you gave children to a lower quality man. More often than not, modern women are *not* in shape, feminine, submissive, non-confrontational, etc...
As a single mother we just want better. I know there’s a buncchhh of ghettos baby mamas who act wild. I would rather a single mother want better for themselves then remain with “low value men”.
@@abbynjo1810, what many women don't understand is *being* a single mother in itself, makes a woman lower in value relative to their childless equivalent... Hence, in spirit of what the original poster implied; what a lot of single mothers 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 would be lowering their standards is in reality matching their 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘺 equivalent in terms of sexual/marriage market value. 𝘍𝘰𝘰𝘥.𝘧𝘰𝘳.𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵
Kevin,You definitely nailed it!As Tom Leykis said,Especially dealing with a woman like this,Either 3 months or 3 dates MAX!And after that,it's either a go or get gone because you're being manipulated at this Point Because A man who has Options and is Childless is not going to tolerate her manipulation because Most Men that You're referring to(High Value Men,and Men who are Childless and Got their stuff Together), Are very Observing and Very Discerning and this is something that most women ,Especially Single Mothers and Wall Hitting Chicks haven't figured out!
I’m glad I watched this video because I was considering doing the same. And like her I have a daughter. I’m not saying I’m going to give it up right away but what he is saying definitely gives me perspective. And at the same time Kevin Samuel be making me feel like there’s no hope for me 😂. But I’ve been working on myself with the help of my parents and hope there is still hope for me. Not giving up on men!
There's always hope. You're just in a different position now than you were at 18. It's a different game now, but as long as you adjust accordingly, I think you'll be fine.
