This video was absolutely incredible yet insatiable!! I really loved it Alex! It’s so vital and important to demonstrate our worth as women, to not make the men feel like the prize but acknowledge that we are, and only accept that treatment. If the treatment is not provided, then we need to create space and distance from them. If they truly like us, they’ll come back with additional effort and if not they need to be let gone for good ✌🏾
Dalexis I wish I had you and your teachings when I was in a relationship with my ex. He literally compared us to Carrie and Big lmao. But he was also emotionally abusive and put me in a needy, clingy state. Ladies, if a man EVER does this to you, you have to walk away. Never let a man disrespect you or treat you like a doormat.
Spot on!! I love this content and how you deliver it, you've found your niche for sure !! Keep it coming ! Side note: the sperm chases the egg,cats don't chase dogs, and eve was created to add something to a world that needed a certain flare , Woman are the prize! Fuck I wish I woulda had someone teach me this 20 years ago !!!
I watched sex and the city when I was a teenager in the mid 2000s and I always sort of respected the way she said what was on her mind, but now watching this in my early 30s I can't stop cringing at this woman's blatant neediness. Ay carumba, she needs father Alex STAT!!!
Dalexis you‘re really brilliant and spot on. Thanks for your great, insightful advice! Love this type of video-analysis, keep them coming please. I wish you and these videos had been around when I was in my 20’s. Ladies, let’s learn to love ourselves and our singlehood to the point that a man really has to be Prince Charming to convince us to give up the single life. Happiness is first of all to be found in oneself, the only person who will always be with you. Cinderella was never a thirsty hunter, let’s not allow society to reverse the roles!
This video reminds me of my situationship with this guy 🥺I forgive myself for doing what I thought was the best with what I knew...But not anymore accepting situationships
I hope you’re doing better and forged a better relationship with yourself - your comment “I forgive myself for doing what I thought was the best with what I knew” really called out to me as that’s exactly what I’ve been doing, it takes so much self love and understand to not only understand yourself and forgive yourself but to truly know who you are and what makes you feel good vs the toxic butterflies. Sending you so much love on your journey 💕💕
Brilliance, not only we can relate to the story line but you pointed out what’s happening and how to counter it. While listening to this is like watching my self in a mini quiz, the best ever. If you could add in a little more of the laws into it we would be demons 🤭
I'm not dating anyone my friends know. Number 1 I don't trust those people and number 2 I don't trust anyone they would recommend to me. I will never date a man who never wants to get married.
Day 2 of me asking you to make a video on how men feel about baby mommas. Does pregnancy change anything? Positive or negative? Please do a video on this !!
If he don’t love you a baby won’t matter!!!! And if he has a baby with you and STILL treats you the exact same as if you never had a baby than he’s probably disordered ! Like a narc etc if someone is disordered they don’t have love for their own kids which is why they can leave them like nothing for weeks months or years and never help them !! Do not trap a man or settle for no baby just to have access to a broken man!!
Never been interested in this show, but you have piqued my interest to watch it for a case study 🤔. Thanks Dalexis for your sound advice and always sprinkling the teachings of R.Greene throughout 👌🏽💫✨
Always wanted this show broken down I always knew she was reaching watching this growing up and damnnn you are 💯 for breaking her bs down and guiding women on how “not”’to be like this - desperate and not in their true power. You the shit Dealexis you just got some points for this !! 🙌🎯
Ok Alex. But what if that already happened?!?!😢 I'm super traumatized after being a prisoner of hope to a polyamorous guy who was never serious about me. I avoid pain since my anxious attachment style is out of freakin control after this !! Dying alone as a cat lady seems more attractive currently than being stringed along or be very catios and be distrustful of every man that shows interest in me. Single for 3 years, never date anyone, terrified of being hurt. How do I heal this shit?????😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I think going to therapy would help you a lot, also practicing self-care and self-love, have a skin care routine, always have your hair, make up and nails done, exercise, wear nice clothing, read self-help books, medidate, drink water, go to new places to meet new people and even make some friends, I would recomend you to read "The secret" by Rhonda Byrne, there's a chapter about relationships, also, "Ask and it is given" by Esther and Jerry Hicks. When you are in a good place mentally you start to attract good people in your life. All the things I listed to you had helped me in my journey of self-healing and also, in my love life. I hope I helped you in some way, wish you the best 😊
Father Alex ! Can you please do a video about guys who try to lock you down very early in the relationship. Acting possessive, tracking my social media and looking me up on tinder if I’m still there etc (this is how I know they are still on tinder too). I’m at a point in my life I don’t really want a relationship, I want to explore my options especially that I’m doing well finance and work wise, and this guy is not really what I want in a guy. He’s been good so far but something tells me he’s not the one I want to be in a relationship with
He doesn't really need to do a video on that... Just tell the guy what you just said lol. And be clear that the possessiveness and stalking is uncomfortable for you. If he continues to psycho stalk you, get the authorities involved.
@@kantik2118 he has another channel telling men to play narcissistic sick games with women. He is an agent of chaos or as some people like Tony Gaskin would say part of the spiritual wa*fare. Also he goes both ways
This show is like watching someone who picks their pimples, then picks the pimple scab. 🤢🤮Dang, I really don’t like “socks on the settee” 🤣😂 while all my girlfriends was watching this in the 90s/2000s… I’m sure I was watching Seinfeld. Can we do relationship breakdowns of Jerry and Elaine please? 😂 good work tho Father A!❤
Fun fact: I have such a hard time expressing my feelings that usually a bit of alcool emproves the situation because I don't get emotional, I am just relaxed enough to express myself without the paralizing overthinking.
Nah. It was her insure chasing and lack of emotional mastery not having self worth that got her that treatment not her looks. When you have those standards a guy can’t treat you that way as you’d not have gone past date 2-3 with them unless they stepped up. That’s the point he’s making.
The prize is the relationship! Duh! Lol….it can’t be about one person and not the other…it’s how well two people work together in a relationship and make each other a better version of themselves…it’s the relationship that’s the prize……
its the woman, once you see it as is, a treasure given to you, its easy to stay loyal - vice versa to women if we chose who we think is the best for us, no one compares
