In fact, not obsessing or worrying over them gets you MORE a chance at gettin some. Just stay busy, focus on you, and everything will happen regardless.
@@LegendaryNegroSamurai no. Being a simp means you worship a girl that you know nothing about. Being "nice guy" is when you think you are owed sex or love just because you were nice to a person. Not to be confused with white nights that claim to protect women when someone makes fun of one. And then there are the ant-sexists who get a bad wrap because people often think that an anti sexist is white knighting when all anti sexists do is call our sexist behavior. These people work hard to try to clean up the internets reputation. And they often have to argue with incels and nobody likes argueing with incels.
@@LegendaryNegroSamurai being a nice guy isnr actually being a nice guy. A "nice guy" spends a tiny bit of time being overly clingy and "nice" just to get laid and expects her to reciprocate because "I was being so nice" and then lashes out when she turns you down. They kind of guys who get rejected, and then say things like "you selfish bitch I was so nice to you". Which is so so common. A simp is someone who genuinely worships a girl he doesnt have any sort of real relationship with and never did. A woman that the guy doesn't even know is worth the praise or not becuase you srent close enough to possibly be that obsessed. Like fan boys to e girls.
Riley McGill I came here for the express reason of figuring out if this was some MGTOW bullshit or an actually helpful video for guys looking to foster a relationship. When it started talking about rules I realized it was the former. Plus the comments section is full of dudes definitely coming on way to strong about “being all independent”. Relationships aren’t hard and there are no set “rules” Jesus these people...
@@tailgunner2 If the law is hard on you in a relationship, then chances are that you're doing something that deserves it. If that's the case, then you're not a healthy person, nobody deserves a relationship with you.
@@tailgunner2 Does she really get that angry on a regular basis though? I thought you said the relationship was the easy part. And out of curiosity, why does the construction work destroy relationships?
It's simple: you don't. You stay on your grind, make money and develope as a person, and enjoy yourself while doing it. Love yourself, and women will love you.
Life's Remix take your own advice. U came on here taking trash about things u don’t know. Titans why I said your a creep. You didn’t have to respond to me that was your choice. I can tell u do t get along with a lot of people. Hence your a creep.
Since I star practicing your ways and reading your books, I now notice how much women look at me. I had self steam issues not thinking I was enough. Listening and focusing on working on my self and my purpose. I now go out and women approach me. To me it is the best. I have no competition. I am enjoying my single life since my wife said I want out. Thanks Coach.
@@ChanceBerryman Personally, I do not think the juice is worth the squeeze. My friend goes out on dates with women..trying to find the one. I no longer bother and life is peaceful.
Check this out. I wonder how many guys would still date if they knew... www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d1mpsx/how_to_never_ever_pay_on_a_date/
@@thevampire6065 Magically? Not at all. Typically, I hang out with someone long enough until feelings emerge. When they're reciprocated, we mutually decide to date. But nobody pursued the other. In fact, one New Years Eve I ended up randomly making out with my friend of 20 years. Hooked up that night. Essentially woke up to us going, "Wait, are we dating now? We are? Cool." Proceeded to date for a long while. Broke up. Now we're just chill ass friends again.
This is true but unrealistic. No matter how much you want women to approach you, it will not happen. A woman needs to see something within you to make you a suitable partner. A woman is less likely to approach you because she has multiple options, just like in the wilderness. A cat will give out signals she wants to mate and a male cat has to approach the female in order to mate. Yes it is a double standard but unless women become much more desperite (which they won't), you will 90% of the time have to approach the girl.
Mortis “Oh no! I’m being attacked by a bunch of incels for having a silly name and purposefully cringey profile picture!” Is that how you want me to respond?
TheZoneRanger Funny you should say that, my aunt got married a few years ago to a really nice guy and they’ve been living happily for quite some time now. They have a daughter love each other very much. I guess none of his matters to you though, you seem like the kind of guy that thinks women are below men.
From my personal experiences with women, pursuing a woman is like pursuing a mountain lion. If you get too close, they’ll most likely kill you, if you get too far away, you’ll lose them. But finding that fine line in the center is all based on how they view you and your conduct. They are the ones who allow you to get close on good terms, not the other way around.
I'm not persuing no woman in this day and age if a woman wants me she got to come to me or don't say shit to me because I'm good being single for the rest of my Life
It took me forever to come up with a plan, but here's what I do. Ask her on a date. If she says no, NEXT. If she says yes, offer 2 time/date options. If she can't commit, tell her to let you know when she figures it out, and NEVER reinitiate from that moment until the end of time. If she doesn't get back to me, she will never hear from me again.
I’m so glad I’m in my late 40s and learned many of these lessons the hard way. I’m finally at a point where I couldn’t care less if a chick digs me or not. Lack of attachment to the outcome is key.
Im slowly starting to learn that if things aren’t going your way or if a girl cut you off, worst thing u can do is butthurt or show emotion, best thing one can do is hold frame and simply walk away sometimes the women realize they fucked up by letting u go
I am halfway through your book and all I have to say is that *finaly* I found the right book written by the right person. Solid, simple, straight forward advice that does not breed bitterness and hating towards women. I ditched every other(red pill) bitter channel for yours because your vibes are from a world of happiness and growth. Every man must read this book!
Thank you m'lord. I now realize that a queen will come to me if willing... I shall not pursue princesses that shall harm my physical, mental, and economic well being.
@@collinashley4947 lol, you nailed that. I don't get the recent storm of people saying "gamers are oppressed". They're probably just infected with the storm of angry butthurt Far-right conservatives shouting that feminists and "sjws" are "oppressing white males and manipulating entertainment". (People used to excessive power often think equality feels oppressive)
You seem like such a nice person. I hate how a lot of people just came here and disliked without actually watching it. You’ve earned a new subscriber, keep up the good work!
This guy is one of a few dating gurus who helped me save my marriage. I did a great job winning my wife over many years ago, but then became complacent in the courtship and needy. Bad combo. Great advice and perspective in his book.
Lemmon Boy , Thanks for telling me that , I thought that Adam was forced by Equal Rights of Women to eat all Fruits in the garden , then he had to join the clothing club , and was kicked out of the garden club permanently
Women never come after nobody. Either way, what woman in this world would want a man that doesn't like her enough to pursue her? The man that wants a woman will try to impress her. I learnt this by looking at your actions. If you both act the same, congratulations, you missed an opportunity
I just want to thank you coach. I found your book back in 2016. My life has changed dramatically. I went from a penniless, starving, unsociable looser. Here’s how my life changed. I’ve gained many friends. Got a job that pays 100k. I just booked a trip to Europe! I just closed on a property that I purchased! Ive had fulfilling relationships for the first time in my life! But most important, I got my confidence and self worth back. In high school I was the quiet one no one talked to. Thanks a bunch.
I can tell you how to get a woman every time: act like you don't give a fuck about her or treat her like shit and you'll have to run her away from you. Just whatever you do, don't let her know that you like her. It will ruin all the attraction she felt for you.
Women online are usually talking to several other guys especially if she some what good looking or very attractive, so if you get the opportunity to date one it'll more than likely not work out basically because she's has so many other choices ...so guys don't blame yourself if things don't work out.
Lloyd Beal If I get one to go out with me I don’t look at it as a date more just hangout and if she moves on then so be it. We gotta stop looking at women as everything.
Those are the worst, u can bet as soon as she gets back home from a date, u will see her loging back online. Worst feeling if u pay for date & she does that. Thats why if u do online dating only agree to meet if she meets u at ur part of town, & coffee, dont invest any more than a cup of cofee .
that's exactly my problem with alot of women. they go on these social media platforms get all these stupid thirsty guys praising them and then they become flaming narcissists.🤦🏾
Not just online. They are always test driving the prince with the goldmine. Many only stay for as long there is gold, unless they manage to flee with it. A few test drive a few at a time.
Anytime Coach posts a video I watch it a few times to make sure I'm getting the message correctly and to compare my relationship to the way things should be going. I'm in the best relationship of my life and I know part of my success in it is due to following Coach's advice.
You know what this is wholesome. I know it’s funny considering it’s an ad and this guy looks like an absolute chad in the thumbnail. Perhaps SOMEHOW, I could use advice from this. Thank you random bald man and your ad.
I bought the book and got it today . I really like the positive and healthy approach to relationships. The difference in various stages is also so important and many never really focus on that part . Looking forward to reading it on a regular basis .
J X you obviously haven’t read the book 10-13 times. If anyone male or female don’t like my anime profile then they can fuck off just like you. Stop being so worried about another mans profile picture. Have a good day.
Over Sensing This girl WAS a high 9/10. It’s now been a week since our last date. She invited me to hers to put the Christmas tree up, ended up we had lots of foreplay (she said she really couldn’t remember having so many orgasms) but we didn’t have sex. She messaged in morning. I wished her safe flight, she replied later and asked how my day was. I thought I’d call her later to catch up quickly but importantly tell her the plan for the next date. But she didn’t answer and No reply. It’s been 6 days and nothing from her. Very strange. She was showing clear interest, we connected and more than just a bang. Anyone suggest or just wait??
Over Sensing I have, But just wondered like wtf. I know these aren’t the type you want, who say things they don’t mean. We are early 30’s. Why give it all the speech and then ghost.
For six months I was attracting women left and right. I could just walk in anywhere and I would notice women looking at me and most displayed signs of interest. What a great feeling. Here lately I've noticed that has totally went away and really don't know why. I don't feel as if I'm doing anything different, it's just that I actually have to create that attraction now when I didn't have to before. I know I'm an attractive guy bc I have had women and men tell me but I must be giving some vibe off that are not on the same wavelength as women.
Its your vibration and energy. People will subconsciously sense that. The more you seek you will not find. The more you relax and let it naturally flow, you will naturally attract that energy. Be positive, be yourself, be happy, and be safe out there king.
Chenal A Us men want to feel special like you, but apparently we can’t because females like you always wanna make fun of our masculinity whenever we act a certain way, or in your words “A Women” 😑
Working on my second read, using a highlighter for key points and applying the techniques on the women I meet in social settings and through my business....whether I'm into them or not. I like the concept of treating all women the same so when I do meet one that knocks my socks off, it's effortless. Keep up the great work!
Me too. I'm reading the book for the first time. Highlighting the key points, pick up lines and most important things. Idk is it me but the book could be smaller than it is.
Another quality video Corey. Thanks for helping me see that I don't need my ex, and instead of pining for them, I should move on and find someone even better suited to me. I appreciate it :)
I listened 13 times to the audiobook. It clicks I don’t even have to think. I still have old tendencies rear their ugly head from time to time but I know enough on how to recover quickly from it. Thank you so much Dr. Corey Wayne!!!!❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
This is way too confusing. It's like walking on a tightrope after three beers. Can't show interest can't show too little interest. Bring back the eighties. Big hair and feminine.
In the late eighties I was in a club and made eye contact with someone. I went over and asked her to do a slow dance. On the floor our bodies compressed into one. I rember smelling her perfume on my body and lipstick on my neck when I got back to my seat at the bar. Later we got to know more about each other. So much for all this analysis. Bring back the eighties.
@ıoq ɥnʎ You know that's a literal fetish a lot of virgins have, to be taken by someone who knows how to do it very well? Not hating, but just look at the facts.
Also when a woman turns down a man, that does not mean she does not like that man. - Men that do not understand this do not understand women. - Women do this as ego preservation. If they are unsure they reject or assault(shame, verbal, put down). - Women like to fantasize and anticipate, they do not like sudden things they did not plan for or they reject. - Do not pursue women.
AncientWarrior Indignation and guess what? that type of man that appears as an “asshole” is exactly the type that women often go for. You think people were talking out of their ass when say nice guys finish last?
Look at this guy, look at him real good. Never take advice on women from someone if you can see your reflection on the top of their squeaky shines head
Women are crazy though, everything the coach says works. I can't believe girls still try to reach out after 1, 2 or three years of me walking away and never looked back.
It’s because you have an abundance mindset and you have probably stood out compared to other guys they’ve been with. They see you’re a guy that has qualities they want however you aren’t afraid to walk away if it comes down to it
Been there and even had a 1 year relationship with a girl with bpd (stupid young me). I can tell you it was nice while it lasted but after the break up the backlash was the most traumatizing thing i have ever experienced. Note to everyone: don't make the same mistake i made, the suffering is not worth it.
v mail I agree. I think if you secure your future and get stuff accomplished, you’re definitely way more likely to be happy and eventually find a good relationship with another successful person.
@@sticks4632 Actually, it doesn't. Its Men that are the only ones held accountable financially and every other way. Women get to have simps and big daddy government cover their financial debts via taxpayer money. So you would be incorrect.
@@vmail8947 no. Women dont get all the tax payer money. They dont get any tax payer money other than their tax returns. Also simps arnt a majority. If you are a normal averge woman you need to be financialy independant. Stop being a sexist idiot
@@sticks4632 Well, lets start with good ole' Welfare...Welfare programs are funded through taxation and women with kids from Men that the Women willingly choose to have kids with, are a prime beneficiaes of welfare. Lets throw in Divorce and Feminist controlled Family Courts, which routinely favor women who initiate over 80% of all divorces get cash and prizes from the Man or Big Daddy Government or in many cases, BOTH, even for being unfaithful and or corrupt. More tax dollars at work by the way. Throw in the fact that 60% of women use medicaid money (funded by taxpayers) for abortions. Notice how every bad decision a Woman makes needs to be paid for by someone (men or State)? ...I can waste more time throwing facts at your severely misinformed self but I'm not. The point of my initial comment? There is help for women at every turn, regardless of a Woman's irresponsible spending, irresponsible Man choosing, irresponsible Sex practices, or any other irresponsible action with ZERO accountability what so ever. Whereas a Man has no help compared to a woman. men are just told to "Man up" which sounds idiotic coming from a Woman. This is why MY comment is meant for and applicable to MEN. Don't look now but seems you are incorrect...and a complete imbecile.
I only clicked for the comments. And to give a piece of advice. Dont waste your time pursuing women, just dont. Women will come to you over time if you just be yourself, stay true to yourself and be an honest and humble man. Me and my girl met at first and we honestly hated eachother at first. But she stayed around out of curiosity to see what I'm like. Needless to say, we dated 7 years and we are inseparable. I treated her good to the point that I'm the only man she wants. So if this happened for me, it can happen to anyone else. I got my girl by being myself.
Min 23:14: When a woman feels Heard & Understood the legs OPEN... 👐! But when they don't the legs ÇLOSE 👞! This is perhaps one of the Best Quotes I have heard in years...🥂!
@@hussy4477 The algorithm sends ads your way based off what you've watched in the past. Making them recommendations. The only problem is that RU-vids algorithms suck.
Happy to use this as a great refresher/reminder of how much (or how less, better said) to pursue. Sometimes, it's better to just leave your phone in another room and go about your business - they'll eventually reach out to you when they'll miss you.
Victor Strategies it’s weird in today’s world. They want to be chased or spoken to , she’ll have loadsa guys who could be. It’s a fine balance. Girl I’m dating we send 2/3 messages a day every other day ?
@@IWTBF you said it right, brother, the key is balance. In this deregulated sexual market place, a girl can have 10 guys waiting on her at any time, but that's not your problem as long as she does nothing about it. If you act like you are her best option, which you should actually be, then she has no reason to leave.
A thing or 2 about a thing or 2 Hahahahahahahaha!!!! My man said I’m” 7-0 since September”! Wow, that’s insanely hilarious and so true at the same time. Each time a new woman comes, I hear the bell ring... fight! Lol that made my year and it just started.
After a while it kinda becomes instinctive, tbh. Girl with bf asked me out, went out with 'she is just a friend' mentality, but I kinda did the works out of habit. Didn't try anything tho, I was a lover before and was cheated on aswell, so not nice IMO. We were sitting beside each other, she had those dreamy eyes and she still had it this Friday when she was pretending to be mad because I was leaving without talking to her. She couldn't keep her hands to herself, the way she danced (we are dancers) with me was showing that she was really attracted and she never did that to me before. I don't know, man, sometimes all we need is a little patience, something to hold us back and a willingness to listen more than we talk. The only problem I have that girls complain a lot is that I don't talk much about myself even though I'm a versatile person. When I do give some info they love it, but sometimes they tell me I'm too mysterious when I don't. I think I have the opposite problem of the average dude: I don't gloat nor do I like to sell me as someone great because I really believe all my skills to be fruits of the labor, not talent, so no biggie, everyone can get there. One of the girls, my dancing partner, keeps saying I'm a really interesting man, my sole problem being the fact that I'm too mysterious. The way I try to solve this is by letting them into some details of my private life, death of my mom by lung cancer, etc. but I always give it a positive spin. It seems to be a good and genuine way to deal with this. Opening up a little makes them see me as more human, to the point where this same girl said I am the sole person she feels she can be herself with (that meaning: way too romantic for the average person, dreamy and non practical, i.e. the way you usually describe the average girl amplified). Just sharing this with viewers that might have a similar profile to mine and are having similar problems.
@@soygato2722 They were brought up in a society that differs from the rest of the world. Feminism, ect. They like to play victims. Most women in the U.S. that are normal are either immigrants or descendants of recent ones. Western women have way to high of standards and are socially awkward.
Lucifer Morningstar I definitely agree with you. Immigrants or one generation of immigrants have more value and respect. They know that the man is the head but American women are so spoilt. They have everything given to them from freedom to independency. So they have not really seen anything and really underestimate the men
Attachment theory is incredibly accurate and important And in some cases like this one tell you everything you need to know yet you never mention it Corey Almost like you were unaware
It's easy to understand women just be a decent person and don't treat her any differently. Men women doesn't matter just be nice, don't go out of your way to make a relationship, relationships take time start off as friends and see how the relationship builds.
Dating is complicated and requires a lot of mental gymnastic, that's why I delated all of the phone numbers of the woman I was keeping in touch with if they really want me they have to be the ones pursuing me.
I keep doing the same as your first email. I follow all the steps perfect then fall back into old patterns. I also see it all implode in real time. Yesterday I actually wanted to hit myself as the words came out. I knew it was over. From great to a hand shake and nice meeting you in 20 min. At 64 these mistakes are hard to break.
Let it workout naturally. If you both are interested in each other, it doesn’t matter how soon you ask her on a date. I went out on a first date on a Friday and we were so much into each other, chemistry and attraction was awesome and we went out again Saturday and Sunday. If he’s your match, he’s your match and go with the flow. Live the moment and have fun. The rest will fall into place.
@@soccerholden13 listened to him as well, but these all lie deep within the relationship (so do all of them!), rarely much on the initials! (I'm still stuck at pickups and dates, not relationships yet!).
@@bahaatamer1245 Gotcha. I've found that artificially toning down your interest level in a woman (especially in the beginning stages of dating) is crucial. Women get turned off by highly interested men. Just seems to be the way it is. Where AMS helped me is with maintaining a masculine frame on dates. Not sure if Corey discussed this as I haven't read his book and only watch the occasional video.
Pretty cool video - Until recently I did not know what a Simp is and I believe my success with women was I never acted like a Simp. Let a woman know you are interested in her and if she responds great go for it, let her enjoy being pursued.
Many comments have said it in their own way, already. But.... RULE #1- Quit starting any level of relationship by putting women on a pedestal.The natural order is King...then, Queen. (Sans your ego) YOU’re the lottery ticket. Don’t let ‘em tell you otherwise. Now, build from there.
How to pursue women: Don't. Let them pursue you. The moment a woman wants you, she has already decided what she wants. You pursue a relationship with a woman you lock yourself into limitless expectations and the moment you fail to meet one it all begins to crumble piece by piece. Than you're stuck in some stupid limbo where you constantly have to redeem yourself until they leave you. While they go off and complain that they dated a man who would never change. Once again. Let them pursue you. Women that do have far more self respect and are able to share a better mutual respect with you than one who you had to capitulate to just to get a date with them.
If you act as a lady enjoy being alone the rest of your life. Women get irritated when you don't do anything, men are taught to be hunters and women receivers. Of course there is a need to give a little chase but nothing else. Women would die alone before chasing a guy.
Same here. Nearly all the women and girls I know are just power- and money-hungry from the men. I’ve had this one girl that is unlike any other. She’s one of the little shy and sweet ones, recognized as a really nice girl amongst some of my friends. I did the right thing and took it slow, really showing my support towards everything she did and had. We did find out we had feelings for each other, 1.5 years ago, but there wasn’t time to really see if that was true. She and her family had to move because of her dad’s railroad job. And we kept on texting and calling each other, nearly every sentence had a heart or lovey-dovey statement in it. Since Nov. 19, 2019, she has not sent a single heart or “I love/miss you” in the form of her own sweet voice or a text message. She has never started any conversations or said Hi first, it’s been me all the time. I quickly knew what was happening, and have not sent a single thing since, waiting to see what would happen. I know EXACTLY why this is happening, too, her parents are one of those types that are extremely protective about everything. They have hardly let her do anything, and have been pushing us apart ever since they moved. They were good friends with my parents, but since then have never responded or kept in touch! I think I just went off on a tangent here, idk if you care. Haha. It’s fucking stupid, though. You could find a girl that is perfect, that has come naturally to you and you have come naturally to them, then have it all fucked over by something not even under our control...
How to pursue a woman?? Really dude. Sounds like “how to stalk women.” You shouldn’t focus men on this but “how to approach a woman.” Which isn’t rocket science, and it depends on the woman but most rather have you come up to them with confidence, being yourself and just having a conversation. Say something nice about them and let it go on from there.
BuckStrickland19 are you sure abt that dude? what he’s saying is the answer to get a REAL healthy relationship with a girl. toxic masculinity doesn’t get u anywhere,fortnite gamer.
@@BuckStrickland19 Don't get what's wrong with what he said. Talking with a girl is the best way to find a healthy relationship with a girl who suits you. If you think you're interested in a girl, ask questions about her to see if she really is your type, listen well, crack jokes even if they're awful, generally just have a good time and don't give a shit whether things work out or not. If they don't, she's not the girl for you. Plenty of fish in the sea as they say.
The thing you said about the vibe is so true, it’s literally like magic 😂 it’s almost like spider senses for women. They somehow know exactly where you’re at even if you’re right behind them haha
