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The guy I hope likes me was always really polite to just me. We were in an after school group of about 40 girls and 3 guys(it was a dance troop) and he would always kind of stick with the other guys and stay silent. Then on end day we had a long rehearsal and he would stick around to talk to me, and got a semi heavy door for me and then apologized for not getting the door sooner. So cute 🥰
Hey y'all I'm not a native English speaker just so you know :) Ok so this might be long, but bare with me. I've been talking to my crush for 6 months, he's 4 years older that me too, we used to hangout like once in 2 weeks because we're both college students and it's difficult to find some free time for us both to see each other sooner. I can tell that he used to care about me, I mean I live in a different city and have to travel to my college by bus,but he would go with me to the station and wait for the bus to come(would leave only when I'd get inside) always would ask if I came back home safely. We would playfully fight on who's gonna pay for coffee first(he would sometimes pay without telling me and act as if nothing happened, but of course I'd buy it back next time when we'd meet up bc I don't want to use him) fast forward to 3 months of talking : we were talking about something in his car and all of the sudden he asked me if I wanted a neck massage :o (I already had a tiny crush on him so I accepted the offer) then during debember he was back in his own hometown so we didn't really talk, every few days I guess but when January came, we met up right after new years for a coffee. After that we hung out 2 weeks later and when we were near this lake, he told me to get out of the car with him. I did and he went to the truck to take something out. It was already dark so I could hardly see what he was holding in his hand. Took out a tank full of gasoline and poured it over the object. I then saw that it was a notebook that he lit up on fire. I asked him jokingly why couldn't he just drop it into a trashcan or something and he replied that it was an album full of photos with him and his ex gf(she gave it to him as a gift) so yeah, basically he burned an album in front of me.. Fast forward to 2 more weeks, we went to a sea museum and after that I was about to go to the bus station but he was like "let's go to my car, I'll take you there, but before that let's go grab some coffee" I was happy that he wanted me to stay so I agreed :) that sneaky bish paid for my cup AGAIN.. When we were chilling in his car out of the sudden he started to hit my thigh gently/playfully and I didn't really say anything, I mean I didn't mind it one bit and after that there were a few firm squeezes here and there and the he told me that I have nice, strong legs🤣 Fast forward to valentine's day.. I invited him to hangout sometime that week but the only free day that he had was 14th of February. So we met up, took some coffee with us and went on a 2 hour walk 🙃 Again fast forward to 2 more weeks we met up for coffee and that was the last time that I saw him /had any usual conversation.. Ok so almost 2 weeks ago I invited him to come over to my town I he didn't have any plans on Saturday. He responded that at the time he haven't planned anything and if nothing won't show up, he'll come. Then on Friday evening I asked if he's still coming and his response was that he doesn't know, that there's a possibility that his friend will be coming, but if he won't show up, T will come over. This Friday will mark exactly 2 weeks since I last heard from him. Like come on, at least you could've messaged me and told me that you won't make it.
@@malena9513 heheh, I forgot that I wrote this big paragraph :D well after a month covid hit us, but he reaped, we're still good friends, he even helped me to buy my first fricking car! Right now he's very far away because of work but we talk/message each other as often as we can. Also because of the virus last year I barely saw him, like I've mentioned before, back then I saw him 4 or 5 times, but after that I saw him 2 more times in 2020. Thank God this year he came back to my university's town, so we were able to see each other more often. Not much of an update I guess
@@malena9513 I don’t know, at times it feels like my crush is slowly decreasing, but then I receive an unespected selfie,or he makes future plans that involves the both of us, it makes my heart warm and fuzzy
@@datingcoachryanpatrick I agree, but what makes me smile too is, to see all the good signs in a man but then he covers his men parts with both hands ^^" Can you make a video about this exeption? Is this a form of stopping himself because he shouldn`t want what he might wants because there is a girlfriend? just guessing.
Ther real sign of interest is how the guy stares at you ...a deep or a smiling stare is the ndication that he finds you attractive especially when it happens all the time .
Things I've noticed him do: -Smirk while talking to me (maybe trying to hide his smile? Idk) - staring at me from across the room -preening, fixing his hair rubbing the back of his head and neck - getting really close to me - taking up space; sitting sprawled or trying to make his upper body bigger (putting both his hand behind his neck) -shifting in his seat, wiping his brow -not sure about touching the throat -parted lips -pivoting his body towards me (most of is body language i've noticed is from the upper body, like pointing his chest towards me ) However, he is a terrible texter , like on text it feels the opposite. (Short replies after hours, it feels like I'm dragging the convo usually, tho we've had some good convos too, but i can't help feeling he's not interested, over text, but in person he's giving almost all the signs lol)(other people say he's a bad texter and he said so himself too, but i think its not true since we've had good convos too) Someone pls tell me wtf is going on
I love your acting 🤣. Anyway, knowing all this makes me really nervous since the young super cute teller from the bank always displays a lots of this signs when I come. Thing is I can be his mother. 😒
What does it mean if a guy is telling you how to say 'I love you' in another language..becoz he is just telling how it's said differently.. also, he was tapping his feets as an involuntary response. Could it be just the nervousness..or that he actually confessed his feelings? Almost all the signs that you mentioned here match.. but I wished to decode this "I love you" gesture!! 😋 Hope you respond and help me decrypt it 😁
What if he is with you but likes your friend more does this go on with you there to or is there another way he shows his interest to your friend...please answer
Can I ask you about something...? It happened many years ago. I was sitting with my ex boyfriend outside a restaurant. We were drinking. Suddenly a women who I really liked appeared outside the restaurant. She was speaking with her friends. She was quite close to my table. I was staring at her every now and again, quite a long time. She noticed that. At some point she looked at me and winked. I was so ashamed that I put my head down. What her wink 😉 meant? She wanted to show me that she liked me, liked me “more”, or just maybe other different meaning? I would be grateful for an answer.
Okay he half hugged me from the back I wasn’t paying attention and asked if I was okay( I was thinking so maybe he thought I was sad) he always passes by and grabs my fingers a bit. He puts his arm around my shoulders. Idk if he’s just playing around because my friend knows I like him and she’s always making jokes about me liking him infront of him. But he still playfully plays with me when she’s not around.
How about this: I start walking towards a guy I like while he’s with his friend across the room ) and I don’t have my glasses on, which I usually do have on, and he does see me coming towards them from a distance and while I pass them and look at this one guy I like this guy will not look me but is looking around all over the floor on both sides and not at me. Basically he’s looking at everything but me.
@@lateshachurney5965 he could be shy and intentionally avoiding you.If someone stares or if they're avoiding looking at you both could be signs of attraction. I went to a party with my brother, there was one girl who I think liked me (some signs she showed was preening, getting in close range of me multiple times,but she didn't look at me directly no matter how many times she passed by).
😂Shit, your visual example are out of this world hilarious!! Especially the mouth gaping one. You look like a damn goof! I laughed so hard. Lmao. Thanks for the laugh man 😁😆😂🤣🤣🤣
What if a guy is shy but he has been portrating some of the body language you have said in this video like, looking my way when I'm talking to someone an older man to be exact. At one point he was laughing at something from accross the room with his mouth open and a whole teeth smile. I thought it was sooooo funny but what does this mean
I have been told multiple times by a variation of my friends and family that a guy likes me but I do not think that its true because i'm not seeing many of the body language signs that you have gone into detail about. On the other hand the friends that have said this have been in more relationship then i have, they have seen him interact with me and have repeatedly said that he likes me and even when my dad tells me that most of the things that this guy is doing makes him think that he does......any advice you could give me
@Spooky Spectre im honestly not sure i mean we have hung out and i like being around him i just feel that if i let the thought get in my head that i would be the one getting hurt
Spooky Spectre I have been and sometimes I feel like he does in fact like me but I think he might be holding back only because I used to be in a relationship with his cousin
So abt guys fixing themselves. Well my story is interesting 😂. One day while we were on a video call i hunged up cause i was interrupted by someone and then after a few minutes i called back and he picked up in his innerwear. He thought i won't call anymore so he removed his t-shirt before this incident he was always fully dressed while we were on vc.he didn't cut my phone call but was trying to hide it and went and got his tshirt to put them on but i got a peak while he was keeping his phone aside so i saw his chest for the 1st time and wanted to see more cause i found those hairs interesting. Then we had an argument like why don't u show me anything i showed u mine etc etc and then the next day he came infront of me in his innerwear after shaving his chest hair 🥲. I was kinda disappointed but it was cute hahahah 🥰 He is a really nice guy but i hate how is always worried what i am gonna think so he tries to keep himself well groomed like the first time i called he didn't show me his face cause his beards wasn't their and eyebrows weren't done so after he got it done he then started vc with me 😂....
I'm in love with a guy for 4 years and we know each other, he even likes me but never admits that and rejects me every time I propose him. What should I do ? 😭😭
I don't see how men and women can romantically bond with each other. I heard that women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and I heard that science shows that women can bond very well with each other. I heard that generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a male can isolate himself and grief alone. I also heard that women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. I also heard that women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. I also heard that most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. I also heard that females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why girls tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than guys do. I also heard that women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. I also heard that women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. I also heard that most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. I also heard that most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. I also heard that the bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. And I also heard that the friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. So if those things are true (which I am not sure at all), then how can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, men and women are both mentally and physically different from each other (which is true), but would that at all effect the bonding between a male and female?
It ends of being the same even if he is shy. A shy guy will have to decide to break out his shell if he wants you. If he doesn’t leave that boy alone. No sympathy
O...M....G... He's done all 17 of these things. In fact the eye wrinkles and huge smile kinda bothered me... like in finding Nemo, when the shark grins to be friendly. Like I got scared... but now I know it's because he likes me... I think I'm even more scared. Lol. (I love him to bits, I'm just also scared of getting my heart torn up again.)
Imagine having a crush and you desperately looking for any sign that he likes you, but you can't find any, EXCEPT ONE and you think he likes you. If you, like me, have done this he probably thinks you're crazy...
My abusive husband left me in the dust with steps, and then would yell back, "you walk like a snail!" I'm now divorced. Its been 20 years since I dated, so I'm watching these know what to expect. Kinda funny and entertaining to watch. I did it all wrong before.
the guy I'm currently talking to does all of these ahahahahhah. this hardly happens to me Update: he approached me so he could get into my pants. Stopped talking to him though. Now, I be looking like a clown💔
"10. (opening a door for you, guiding you through a crowd, being protective) is the last thing on a guy's mind to do is if he's not interested in you" ... well yes. i have repeatedly seen men acting all "protective" around perfectly happy healthy young women, using the opportunity to gently touch her lower back, while ignoring a person right next to them, maybe juggling two kids and groceries while the door won't open. while i always thought helping that other person out would be the attractive thing to do.
My friend recommended this to me cause she genuinely found you funny. I was not disappointed especially the parched drinking water one hahahahaha good stuff also very helpful. Thanks
I LOVE being able to add that in, Alexa! I don't think I'd be nearly as excited about my content if I didn't have that key ingredient in there 🙌🏼Glad you dig 😉
Literally the boy I’m in love with does every single one of these but I can’t help feeling it’s just cos we’re best mates and he’s super comfortable around me now :/
😂😂😂 it was hard not to! I spent the first 30secs staring nothing but the board. Then wondering if I was the only one that had noticed these words were in great big bold letters whilst the other I needed 20/20 vision or something.
I think subconsciously, I knew these types of signs all along. Touching a man in certain areas, I didn't know much about. I would touch his forearm or his shoulders or the back of his neck but that was all I knew, lol.
