I was once bullied by this group of people and had a mental breakdown right in front of them they stopped after that and I am very open about myself now
I play League of legends its almost every other game I've gotten a bit use to it but on bad days it can be hard. Also back in my days in school I had a lot of bullies because I was tall but I was a nice guy. It never ended well
I really needed this advice. I started work for a burger place and the owner just fired me for reporting harassment in the workplace, the kicker is that he said that the manager doing the harassment was going to continue it and I just had to deal with it if I wanted to work there. When I brought up being mocked for the second time by the manager, he brought over a different manager who said he knew the harassment laws and that I was just "feeling" harassed. And when I brought out my phone to check the law, he said that it was unnecessary and repeated that he knew the law. Then he looked at me like I was dumb and then asked me how old I was...... Which is literally apart of discrimination law. To which I responded by telling him that my age doesn't matter and that harassment is not ok no matter the age of who's being harassed. ...... I was then promptly fired. Then I had to go to my other job where a fellow waitress told me that I was unnecessary and should go home now because they had enough wait staff, and when I asked her if it was ok for me to go home she said she's not the manager..... But when I told her that I was called in by the manager and that I had no say in what was to happen in my being there, she was adamant that this was her job and that I was taking a shift from her. Even though the previous night when I confirmed I was working and she found out that I would be officially starting a non training day during her shift, I offered her the opportunity to have me drop the shift and call out sick out of respect........... I'm completely new and clarified with management that I'm so desperate for work to make rent that I'll be a cook or runner so they tried to get me on to work as wait staff. I only found out looking at the schedule that she has double/triple/quadruple the shifts of other employees. So it's wild to be told to go home like that....... I'm stuck in the mud right now dude. I feel like people see me as a threat or a piece of meat and there's rarely an in-between. :/
I've been having panic attacks all day and went in to pick up my check. I had to have a security escort in order to step into the damn building to assure I wouldn't be bullied and had to walk out to cry before being asked to go in to sign off to pick up my last check. I wasn't mentally prepared to go in but I need the money so I tried to get past my emotions for the moment. The kicker is that I went to the trolley and saw the man who pulled a knife on me at a bus stop after I told him to leave me alone when he prompted me for sex for money. THEN when I got to my stop a man was verbally harassing a woman with a baby so I had to step in and pull the emergency button. And finally skating to the bus stop I fell and when I sat in the grass to pour water on my wound THE SPRINKLERS CAME ON. I'm really having a tough day. Week. Month. And life. :[
Oh sure, and Homer is too, the whole lazy dad trope is nothing but a crapshoot, Nicole has to raise her HUSBAND, why is that such a normalized "ideal" why should the wife be the only mature person in ANY comedy? like..were not in the 60s anymore goddamit
The people who comment things like at the beginning at the video are dead wrong, this man is like a modern philosopher or a big brother who knows the best advice to give, I love this guy, I’m honestly surprised he hasn’t reached at least 500k subs yet, he’s amazing
ENVY is a better term I supposed, because some people can't have the thought of someone being better than them, like the "the tall poppy syndrome". Anyways, its just my opinion, I just thought that calling it "jealousy" is still too nice and far from reality. That's why it is often used, since it has less negative connotations.
One of the things I've been called the most is an Oreo. For me being black and what people perceive as me acting like a white person. (My friends mainly did it but not so much anymore. Not after I got pissed at one of them and cursed them out for it) It used to bother me a lot but I never completely understood it so that's what made me upset about it. In a way I've learned to judt brush it off. Cause it would be those same people who tell me I act white who ask for answes to questions for class and are failing miserably cause they lost confidence in themselves. Not that that makes me feel better for but it changed my perspective on it all.
From now you can act white, black, grey or fuxsia?Just be you. If you follow a common behavior, you are brainwashed to behave like that, peoples should always be themselves, and not fake normality, what does skin color has to do with all of this?-_- you had some really dumb """""""" friends""""""""""
Yeah! Honestly my culture is the same way, since I am Native American they perceive some of us as being an apple (red on the outside, white on the inside). Honestly it kinda hurts but it shows how much others suffer with things like trauma and other things like that which is not at all ok.
For me I was considered a gringo and a bookworm for living in a border town and not speaking or understanding a lick of Spanish. I grew up with TV, books, and the internet. My dad, who was born in Mexico, taught me to speak only English so that I'd be successful. I found it difficult to learn Spanish, because I would associate it with the bullies who spoke ugly to me in Spanish. Even my teachers treated me like I had problems, and, well, I was diagnosed with ADHD, so maybe I did have problems. I'm older and wiser now. I still struggle with handling my emotions sometimes, but man, am I good at taking responsibility when shit gets tough. I know better than to let people take advantage or hurt me outright. I just wish I knew better Spanish 😅 someday. I thank God that I'm at the place I am now in life. That I don't have to deal with people who are mean, misunderstand me, and used a language to intimidate me and put me down. I think they really were just jealous of me, but I didn't understand that until I finally moved out of that town.
@@luciferianjesuslover9453 The comment conveyed 3 pieces of information. They’re not exactly groundbreaking, but there is objectively something being said.
I have the exact same problem, not standing up for myself because I'm worried about the outcome, but over the years, mostly thanks to videos like this, I have learnt on how to deal with it, also all the music you use in your videos fit so well!
Your videos are absolutely wonderful, they make me smile and feel good after watching them. As far as bullying is concerned, I dealt with it a lot back in school, mainly middle and high school, a lot had happened and I had made a ton of toxic friends, I ended up not talking about how I felt because they got annoyed and angry at me whenever they did, so I pretended I was fine to keep the friends I had. I admit, back then, I was desperate for friends considering the personal things I had went through at the time, so they made me believe that all of my issues weren’t real and I needed to stay quiet or I would make somebody upset since their issues were more important. I did end up going through a self harm issue, I had cuts on my arms and I tried to keep them hidden. One of the school staff noticed them when I didn’t see that they were noticeable, and told me to stop doing it for attention. It made me feel absolutely awful. Schools always have posters and teachers telling you to go to them when somethings wrong or if you’re being bullied, but then pull back in the welcome mat simply because “there isn’t any proof” or “ignore them” when that can’t always work :( Luckily, a year after I graduated, I moved out with my older brother, I’m very happy and we both have each other’s backs. Edit: yes I did end up cutting those people out. One still follows me on Instagram, but I ignore them. They once asked me for 10 bucks while they visited our apartment back in 2020 so they could go to the mall with friends and I said sure, they later texted me asking for it and I never responded. :) Love your videos, they’re great to listen to when I’m sad or not in a good mood. Thank you 😊 ❤️
You were doing it for attention. Get real. Absolutely nobody is depressed these days and we're living in a world full of desperate children seeking validation from anyone.
@@notspider-man7777 it’s alright, just seems like somebody with personal issues of their own, I don’t take it personally, but I do hope they get better if they are going through anything.
"Came to dislike and leave" ...Dude... how sad is your life that you waste your time doing that? Like, ya, its all of 5 seconds or so, but that's 5 seconds you could spend on something you LIKE. Baffling, absolutely baffling.
I despise the term "haters" so much. I keep seeing the term being used to silence really good criticism and it's ultimately hurting the internet because of it.
I don't think saying a particular piece of art is horrible and then providing absolutely no evidence counts as criticism. Explaining a problem in detail and offering possible and reasonable suggestions is. Simply not liking something doesn't count either.
Good Criticism? Good Criticism provides solutions not just tossing out judgement. Some people believe they can go speak of others in any manner because they're smart. That's a dick move, thing is some people don't care. You can listen to the criticism though, and use it as power, when we lack power/structure ourselves. But yeah...some people they will discard any criticism to stay in illusions, that's no bueno.
Recently, I was harassed, doxxed, and told to kill myself several times by my ex and her friends. I was horrified to see it, as a girl with mental health problems that could have really destroyed me. But I decided I would live on to the best of my abilities, and I told them I wished that for them too. It was very scary, but I want the best for my haters and me. Then, by not allowing myself to be dragged down, I would be living to my fullest extent while they're still wallowing in self pity and doubt. For anyone going through bullying or a similar situation, lift your head up! Live your best in life and live your life happily! Its your best way to get back at them. Thank you for this video Made2Express, you never miss :)
When people are harshing on my mellow, I like ask them if they are doing ok and if they need anything. Maybe someone to talk to about whatever. They either don't respond back or they say they just had a bad day. Love the vid! Some great insight here.
Pretty sure the guy at 0:19 was just being racist for the sake of getting you angry and/or riled up. Might as well just ignore it and move on with your life. (As I'm pretty sure you are anyway)
Funny how Harold criticizes Richards marriage dynamic when he’s in a similar spot with his wife. And let’s be real he wouldn’t within a mile of Richard if Nicole was there
I just want to let you know man that your videos have helped me through a dark time in my teenage years and thanks to your videos I have become a more confident and happier person, and for that I am grateful man
People who say you suck without any context are trolls, while people who say you suck and tell you why are helpful. Sure, they hurt, but at the very least you know who to ignore and who to listen to. [yes I am commenting before watching the video]
Making a very motivational video about a Gumball episode that literally ends with someone getting revenge on a long-time adversary by tricking them into blowing up their own house, with the final line being "I told him if he puts the dynamite closer together he'd have a more intense blast."
These videos are an amazing way to start the day, because they’re so positive while talking about media I enjoy. It’s nice to wake up and play it in the background while getting ready. It’s like having a good friend or sibling to give advice in such a calm way, so dope❤️
honesty my girlfriend and I were just talking about this a couple days ago. Let's just say we pushed things a little too far and are scaling things back for now. Anyways one of the things we talked about was going to each other when we were stressed or we needed to vent about something. This would help the communication in the relationship get better, and allow us to grow closer. The reason why I say this was because in my life I've been known to bottle my emotions and not let anyone see how I feel when I'm alone. Whether it's dealing with haters or stress, or whatever it may be, I'm getting better with this opening up thing, as well as standing up for myself. I struggle with this concept a bit more than I'd like to admit. hopefully, I can learn to not hold those feelings in and not "wait until I have a moment alone to cry it out". This is just something I thought of while watching the video, great job by the way. I know you get positive comments all the time, but know they are well deserved. The videos are entertaining and informative, talking about some rather nesh subjects using the media so much of us consume. Keep the amazing work up and don't let any haters get to you.
I really needed this. I was so distressed coming back to school today after I got better from covid, many people hate me a lot just because I exist, I was being way to nice that they won't give up, and right now I barely have any friends. But I know what to do now
This is gonna be a generic thank you comment but i truly appreciate your content, for the past 3 to 4 years I've been super depressed and unmotivated to do anything, even the things i enjoy. I could never take criticism and i wanted to be perfect falling into the social normality, I hid everything id be judged for but, you have finally motivated me, i know im still sad and i understand that, which is good, and i realize whats wrong and how i can fix it, and for the next few months i will, i fully appreciate you, and im excited to see you make new content, you're amazing, thank you for helping me when i couldn't help myself, time to be myself, the me that I've hidden for 3 years.
You have to deeply care about something to truly hate it. If you don't care about something, you will simply ignore it. Deep down, the haters want to like what they've been given and will give the most honest, constructive feedback you will ever recieve.
Man, imagine if physical retribution was socially acceptable. And Richard was a guy with anger issues like his wife. He'd fold his bully so easily. 😂 *Edit:* Bruh! Everybody is taking my comment so seriously. I'm using cartoon logic since fictional characters often get away with violence for slapstick purposes.
I know this is a joke, but imagine the slippery slope. The crime rate would be in space. And wouldn't the bully (since I don't remember his name) be able to sue him and win bc he's rich?
In the right circumstances it is socially acceptable atleast in alot of places outside of America a fights just a fight at the end of the day unless its a jumping or something dogey but if someone provokes a fight you're not typically seen as the dick for throwing the first punch I mean Ive whacked plenty of people that deserved it and no ones said anything bad to me about it and on the other hand when I was a kid Ive got smacked by grown men for being too loud and talking back on a few occasions and no one said anything then because I deserved it most that happens is cops separate you and drop you off a few streets down
@@ButWhyMe... I still don't see how Harold (that's his name) is still rich after he blew up his house- Like,Richard pranked Harold so hard at the end of the cycle I doubt Harold could ever recover from that lol.
from my experience nobody around gives enough of a shit to help you when you have a problem like that. Teachers, adults, nobody cares if you are in pain. This will just pass one day leaving you shattered, either visibly or deep down inside you, and you will once again have to face all this crushing trauma completely on your own (unless you are lucky enough to pay for someone's time). Barely anybody will give a shit about you.
I never liked Harold. In this episode and in the what if episode where Nichole wonders if she married him, and in honest I would have snapped like her cause I hate Harold. 🏠🔥
I deal with haters by being in their Side and make they feel too uncomfortable to continue Or i just encourage them so i can gain more Money without them Knowing
Y'know, the whole time I watched this episode, I was like "Why didn't Richard and his kids just tell his wife what was going on?" Considering how intense Nicole can be and we've seen her stand up to Harold before, it shouldn't be that hard.
Hey I frickin love your stuff man when ever im.down I always stumble into a new video and it makes me smile! Also I love your concept finding the messages in cartoons and turning it into inspirational messages I find it really cool and what you do is awsome.
When it comes to haters in the comments, best to say nothing, since there goal is intimidation, just do the easiest thing to do if you have common sense, ignore them, since you really shouldn't have any interest in them, thats my thoughts and suggestions to some people
Yeah I get hate comments every now and then in one of my vids because I used my money not theirs and because “pay to win” and I ignore them cause they only live off of attention and are jealous
What everything said is true but when someone bullies me it turns into a fucking war I have to stand up for myself with every insult and death threat that I thrown out of my mouth but I felt like I couldn't defend myself in school because I was too scared to get kicked out school but all it made me into a bitter and angry person who hates humanity because of it and it just makes me angry and violent I do have psychological problems out the ass you see I'm opposite of depressed sometimes it just makes me wanna see the world burn to ash
0:39 honestly, I highly doubt haters especially persistent ones are rarely going to be the kind of internet tough guy that would waste time and money to beat up a stranger they've been beefing with online to risk getting injured, or getting associated with the local booty-warrior inmates.
when I used to make content, there was this dude who made fun of my shaky voice and crushes. BUTTT HE WAS KINDA A JERK TO E V E R Y O N E but still he made me feel kinda sad
Fuck that guy. You should continue on your craft and being a creator. Your small channel can become huge one day. Haters will always be there but always embrace them as fans.
I know I've said this before but its true, Thank you so much for this video. It really helped me put my worth and perspective to a positive light. Your voice is also calming to me which allows me to relax and just listen.
Honestly I just decide to go with a preying mantis approach… make a weirder comment that makes no sense or outright call them out while laughing about it. Seriously, troll tactics are getting old; I’ve seen it so many times I’m numb to it. So now when I spot a troll, I just have fun with their ‘big brained-ness’ and turn the tables :3
I actually have troubles so I get close to my friends specially women After some time I just find out that Everyone were talking about me in my back Mean things In the end I just find out that the Peace begins by myself as a person I just delete my Facebook Instagram all social media and now I feel much stronger alone I'm doing great on my job And everything is marching on
I don't think saying a particular piece of art is horrible and then providing absolutely no evidence counts as criticism. Explaining a problem in detail and offering possible and reasonable suggestions is. Simply not liking something doesn't count either. Like me. I don't think Demon Slayer is the end all be all like many people claim it is. Sure. It's good. Sure, I have fun with it, and I love the care that goes into the compelling story and great characters, but it's got a ways before it becomes the greatest anime. In time, it can become a masterpiece. SK Darkness and Arkanum? They aren't anywhere near being masterpieces but for amateur pieces, they have tons of love and effort put into it. The author cares about the source material and crafts his own lore to tell a compelling dark comedy filled with pure heart. Especially the very emotional relationship involving the MC and his eventual lover. With more practice and refinement, those web books can eventually become masterpieces. Black Clover? Well the MC doesn't scream as much so it's now one step closer to being masterpiece. Attack on Titan? I don't know. Can't say anything because I haven't watched it. Never really appealed to me.
Asking for Help is Strength ..... Trusting a complete stranger to help you Trusting a Loved one to Still love you even after Sharing what's bothering you
Maybe talk about how you shouldn't stoop to the haters's level or lower. Like how the family got back at Harold by giving him a fake lottery ticket which caused him to blow up his house
@@bowtiefrenchfry800 it's true, he deserved it. But, you never want to go that far with dealing with a hater. The best revenge you can get on them is succeeding.
@@ScintillatingSusie Richard was actually about to tell harold to stop, but i assume he went "eh, he's gone too far" and just helped him ruin his life also remember that Harold was bullying Richard for 30+ years
@@nulzzaa Again, he deserved it. 100%. But that makes Richard worse, mainly because Harold never did that. He may have publicly humiliated him, but it never had a direct impact on his family or wife. Which this stunt clearly did, and now Tobias may be homeless and his wife is probably looking for pocket change so she can eat. Nicole and the kids were still doing well even with Harold's abusing. If this stuff happened naturally as Karma, after Richard actually stands up for himself and choose to ignore him with the help of his family, then I would be fine with it. But because they negatively affected two people who didn't have a part in his teasing, they went too far
@@ScintillatingSusie Richard's prank *technically* didn't have anything to do with his family though. Harold got "rich" and went "bye wife i got a new gf" Also Harold's bullying was I'm pretty sure one of the main reasons Richard couldn't get ahead in school along with his mother being overprotective and his father leaving Edit: they can still afford a giant house and getting Tobias newest phones
Also I like to roast my haters is that not good because they won’t shut up either I know that you’re supposed to ignore them but it’s so much fun to roast them!
I can't ever take anyone who writes 'your' instead of 'you're' seriously. And they're supposed to insult, yet they make themselves look like idiots halfway through.
