Hello, can I ask you a question? I would like to translate this clip into Spanish, but there are parts of the clip that are lost when I translate them, so I wanted to ask you if you could help me translate the clip, I mean, you tell me the words that the three of them are saying and me I would translate them, if possible I would like to communicate with you through discord or twitter.
and the combined numi nooooo from tricky and yuzu? i think i kno the girl on the rightside of numi is tricky dunno the name of the other one to the left of numi. but i think its yuzu
I feel a little sorry for her honestly. Must be really frustrating to desire that kind of closeness but be too shy to admit it to someone even when you know they like you back.
I had done quizzes, many quizzes, and the quizzes said I'm bi I still don't think I am, but it's funny how I justify every choice lol, like saying a guy is cute or atractive like come on you gotta give feedback to the homies and appearance is art. Would I be open to a bj? If they are a trap, yea, but traps are not gay At this point it even sounds like I am intentionally trying to get told I'm bi for the lulz, but I'm being honest It doesn't matter whether I am or not. I'll just let love happens. Maybe I am bi because I am technically not opposed to a man, if love says it's gonna be a man then it shall be.
All women are bi, some just don’t know it yet. I’m super jealous. I wish I was bi, I’d have double the options and I wouldn’t be forced to deal with the annoying-ass guessing games women like to play.
Definitely not the case that all women are bi. However I think that there is unfortunately probably a bit more stigma against being a bi man than there is for women, so not as many guys dare explore their sexuality compared to women. Not that it's easy being a woman who likes girls either in our society
@@casteanpreswyn7528, I mean, coming out as anything is scary. It is a frightening thing to admit you are different. You start to worry if there is something wrong with you and are afraid of what others will think. What will the friends and family say? Will people leave you for it? Will people hate you for it? This doesn't just being LGBTQ or not. You can come out with a hobby your family has never liked and be afraid they will hate you for it. My parents hate video games, and I enjoy video games. I mostly played at friends' houses or on my phone at first. It's just normal anxiety. Being yourself is scary at times because it is the side of you that you want people to like, but nobody can like a side you don't show them. I read a quote once that said, "the brave may not live long, but the cautious don't live at all." It is best to just be yourself and figure things out as you go.
I mean as a fellow bi, is... is kinda awful. I remember accidentally coming out to my class and having to struggle for months on end with the "So do you wanna fuck us or..." and "Are you doing it just for attention cause you are not doing anything" because bi was just gay but insecure and all that stuff you suddenly have to deal with because suddenly you are "representing" something. It sucks a lot.
I’m not bisexual myself so it’s really interesting hearing stories about people realizing they were it’s kind of nice and wholesome the way they described it like how she mentioned her thigh felt hot when the girl was laying on it like that’s such a teenage innocence I can resonate with
In a world that basically tells you "This is the norm, we expect you to follow that norm." Its can be hard to find yourself, or accept the part of you that doesn't fit the norm. Not that I am bi or gay, but I have other things about me that doesn't fit the norm, and I wasted a lot of time and effort denying those part of myself and trying to fit into the very small "normal box." And I think that is quite common, the normal box is just so small.
My situation was kind of ironic. I grew up in a time and place of normalized, casual homophobia, but this one good friend and I would often hang out and just talk about philosophy. So one day we talked about it and we realized that there's nothing wrong homosexuality and it seemed dumb to bar yourself from a potentially awesome relationship just because you're scared of some harmless thing. Time passes and we're hanging out again, except this time, while he was talking I caught myself staring at him a bit TOO intensely. Cue internal freakout and hoping he doesn't notice or think about my sudden, out of control blushing. I never told him about it, though I did come out to him many years later. Another irony is that it was like the stereotypical story of the gay, nerdy bookworm and the straight jock, who were friends through some random circumstance but didn't interact much at school even though we spent a lot of time together outside school. We just never got to the part where after losing contact for years, we randomly met again and he realized he liked me too. 🥲
@@FiltyIncognito The pain I felt when getting to the final line of this message, man. Hate to be all Bad Purple Raisin Dad about your life but "Reality can often be disappointing" just fits the situation so well. Hope you found someone since / will find someone one day regardless.
Numi just needs to make the jump to have a relationship in general. She literally runs away every time she finds out someone is also interested in her.
She REALLY needs to just date Bao already, considering how much Bao is setting things up for that. Just....seriously Numi. Get with Bao, Bao will top you girl!
Fear goes a loooooong way in preventing relationships from having. Numi has some insecurities about things that only she can clear up (if true and not just VA'ing). But she may not be ready for another7-15 years...
@@shriekinninja330 There it is. Always wondered if she was already taken. All the Bao-Numi shippers... as hard an L it is for Numi, Bao might not be available.
I did one of those "Am I Gay?" quizzes online when I was first questioning, and because one of the questions was "Do you find this attractive?" and it was a picture of a muscular dude who looked like the cover of a Harlequin romance novel in a weird angel male stripper costume, and because I said "No," I ruled out being anything other than straight for years. Turns out that guy just wasn't my type
😂 if I had to rely on popular or commonly perceived ideas of male body attraction I'd have been similarly confused. 'Online' and 'quiz' is such a cursed combo.
That's super understandable, actually. I myself am not really into muscular men, it just doesn't do anything for me. The way I found out I was bi was by discovering "femboys". Not transgender, necessarily, but rather petite, slender, and seemingly submissive young men (obviously of age), that did stir me, and that was when I acknowledged the idea that I was bi. It's more of a standards thing, really, and in terms of my own physique, I'm known as more of a "bear". And, yes, I do like some furry stuff as well. So there is that.
I'm all over the place. Visually, some bears, twinks, femboys and gentle giants can catch my aye, but I'm more about personality and the development of the relationship between them and I. I've wanted a guy pretty intensely just because he linked me some music that I really loved. Another guy I previously looked down on and wasn't impressed with at all flipped things around just by showing some gentle kindness and confidence at the right times, which kind of awakened in me my interest in tall and kinda chubby guys. And I fell pretty deep for this other poor guy who had life pretty hard, but despite that he still held himself with confidence and a smile when facing me (who apparently intimidated him), and his scooter hobby, which I previously thought were kind of lame, had shown through my bias with his passion and hard work. And lots of extra points for being good with tools. If not for my autism having gotten in the way, I could easily have seen myself marrying him. He didn't have a top tier body, and that thing that everyone either envy's or denigrates shamelessly...well he was on the lower end, but I loved him. Every bit of him.
Never knew Numi was Bi till now. My reaction towards the discovery was an acceptance that was so organic and seamless that it put a smile on my face. 😀😄😁
@@dasherplayz4471 Bao seems Bi, or at least Bisexual for Numi at least. 90% sure she's INTO Numi. She definitely seems to be setting things up to get Numi to date her, worming her way into the other girl's life and such
I am mainly confused bc it felt like during one of the collabs with lilly and bao, she seemed to claim she was actually straight? Or did the other two not bring up bi as an option
I've given myself plenty of L's throughout my life so i can relate lol. Not to the whole Bi thing but to ruining shit with girls in the past. I still shake my head in embarrassment at the thought of it. My mind just loves tormenting man lol.
I'm with you brother my brain reminds my of my cringe teenage self ever chance it gets but the best we can do is use those situations to learn about your self.
I remember in college I was so dense that I got invited to a girl’s house at night to do homework. They girl had proceeded to make dinner for me, told me her roommate was out with her BF, and after dinner said she didn’t feel like doing homework and left to take a shower. I literally didn’t understand the signs and was like, “Oh go ahead, don’t mind me. I’ll just finish this assignment while you’re showering.” And then I did homework before leaving since it was getting late. People don’t understand they need to beat me over the head with these things. 😅
brooooooooo, you have no idea I accidentally turned turned down some fun time with two girls. Then that same year, I accidentally turned down some fun time with two guys, and not once but TWICE! They weren't the same two guys. One guy from each pair was really into me at the same time. They even had a cliche staredown with me in the middle at a Halloween party. I'm pretty sure I could have gotten both of them at the same time if I played it right. And in high school, I was really close to these two girls who were best friends. Later, in my 20's, I got in contact with one of them again and she said both of them really liked me and would have done stuff if I'd asked. And this is just my experience regarding 1v2's 🥲
@@kobrax0341 I would say most vtubers hell, performers like to joke about stuff like that. I wouldn’t be shocked if some gay vtubers joke they’re into the opposite sex for comedy or just to say yeah they’re attractive
A lot of female attracted women have it real tough. Women are typically brought up to be very open to skinship with other women and generally more affectionate with friends, so it's crazy difficult to actually figure out if someone is into you or if they're just friendly, or in Numi's case, what the hell is going on with yourself.
I discovered I was bi literally because of anime. I'm not attracted to the normal smaller, waifish women in anime, but when I saw "traps" with the same build, instant attraction. Came to realize through some special case females like Aisha Clanclan that I'm specifically into strong, muscular women and smaller, more traditionally "feminine" males.
Oh she's CLEARLY been Bi/Gay for awhile. An we're not even sure about her liking men, considering how few men she talks about NOW. These days 90%+ of all the people she claims to lewd or has crushes on are Women
@@TheAyanamiRei It's not about how "clearly" or obvious it was, it's a private subject in which we have no right or say about how another person should decide their lives. Reading some of the other comments, this is exactly why I hate when people take these clips. It gets filled with "I think..." "for sure..." "actually, this means..." So because she is kind of a public figure everybody feels the need to judge, express their opinions (or fantasies) and attempt to explain every single detail about sexuality
@@Jj82op yeah this commenter is in every other comment talking about how Bao is clearly trying to get with Numi. Parasocial relationships are creepy sometimes man...
@@TheAyanamiRei Well it makes sense since she’s a vtuber and people would freak out if she mentioned she liked some guy or talks to other guys irl like friends. It’s safer for her to mention liking other girls because for some reason people don’t care about lesbian relationships. At most she will probably mention things she likes in men like muscular thighs or something more personality wise. If she just found out she’s bi, she still probably leans more towards men. If she hasn’t been in a relationship or had casual sex with a woman yet, she’s probably just bi-curious. Not all women who develop feelings for another woman mean they will become lesbian/bi. Same with guys. There’s a lot of people out there who’ve experimented having sex with the same gender once or multiple times, but found out they weren’t into it and immediately stopped being curious. Or they find out later in life they were wrong and go back to being straight/gay/lesbian. Not that it matters either way, but it’s the truth. I don’t know her like any of us here though so I’m just speculating. Sexuality can get really confusing for a lot of people. It takes a lot of experimenting for some people to find out who they truly are. For me I know I’m straight as an arrow, I’ve never had to experiment to find out, but others don’t feel the same way.
after seeing bunch of numi's reaction on other girl vtubers the interacted she have gave me the thought she maybe a bi but hearing this story of her welp that sums it up
holy shit. i've always been really sure that i've never had a crush on anyone in my life (even though i do consider myself pan), but numi telling her story about wanting to get really close with someone and not knowing why made me realize that i had the exact same experience too with another girl when i was really young. i feel like my life just turned around lmfao
I realized I was Bi in my 20's and everything made more sense in hindsight. Stories like this are so validating ❤️ I've been in a similar awkward situation so I totally feel the pain of ghosting someone like that and regretting it.
I really feel for Numi, because in high school I started crushing on an old bully of mine. Specifically, because he was the only one who got the memo I didn't want anything to do with the whole lot of them.
It's always interesting to hear other people's coming out/realization stories. I'm aromantic but I thought I was just bi for a really long time (because I realized I felt the same way about men and women, but I didn't even want to consider that I was aro for a second because of the stigma and expectations set by my parents and peers) so I tried to force myself into what I genuinely thought was how people would act if they had crushes or felt attraction, because I thought, "there's no way I could possibly be aro". It was very cringe of me and I'm very sorry if I weirded anyone out lol (especially since I obviously didn't care too much when they turned me down). It took me actually getting pressured into a relationship for me to start questioning if I was aro, and that was a long trauma-filled journey in itself. Hearing this story makes me a little curious and self-conscious because I don't really know what that's like, but I can definitely relate to all the denial and not being able to understand everything right away. It's super tough.
I’m a hetero but I don’t judge people’s sexuality. I’ve gotten so many L’s it’s not even funny. I was disliked by all the girls in high school and still to this day, many of them look at me with disdain at my lanky profile. I have a body and face that only my mother loves (literally). Which is why I’m doing what I can to bodybuild. I sympathize with Numi for getting L’s. I understand how nerve racking it can be to be in a relationship when you have low confidence.
Protip from someone who went the muscle road : get an education and make money. Muscle is fine for geting pussy, but if you want to build something women want financial stability and what wealth provide.
Dang, I can't even imagine ghosting a connection like that. I didn't even know anyone like me while growing up in the 90s. I told a couple people I was bi freshman year - no one understood, just assumed I was gay, and I was basically a pariah all of high school.
I've always known I liked girls and so I knew I couldn't possibly be gay, but I kept having nagging feelings like I should be gay even tho I don't like guys at all... And then I discovered I was a gay girl...
@@AkumaNihmune damn. You're good. No one can judge you for who you're into. You don't choose who to like. If anybody actually has "criticism" then they're not worth your time worrying about
Although not bisexual myself I relate to being confused about what I am a lot of the times. As a guy I can like girls and find them attractive, but I have never put myself out there to date anyone since I'm not sure if I'm not sure if I'm attracted to girls in a sexual way or not. Like I can look at a video or picture and find a small amount of girls "hot" but in real life I've never gotten that feeling. I to this day at 23 still question if I'm asexual or just a *really* low sex drive straight guy, it's really confusing.
That sounds an awful lot like my experience, and I have recently confirmed myself to be ace. Heteroromantic ace, to be accurate, i.e. I am romantically interested in some girls, but with s*x I'm like "eh, why not I guess". I found out after learning that other guys sometimes get hard by just looking at someone very attractive, or think "man, I wanna f*** her", and I was like ?????? how??? In retrospect, that explains a lot about me being a late bloomer on some aspects, or why some people get so obsessed over actors/actresses/singers/etc..
OMG! I can relate to this story so much! I am probably also bi or pan sexual and have had sooo many almost relationships that i delt with exactly the same way! At least 2 boys and 3 girls that i just ghosted when i realized that they wanted to go into "something" with me and it FREAKED THE FUCK out of me! I just did not understand what to do or what to say so i just left in the middle of 2 dates with them because i got such incredible anxiety. There is few things i found as scary as intimacy and sex back when i really didn´t understand who i was o what all the feelings ment. I just didn´t understand what to do when it came to sex or relationships at the time. Wasn´t until i had one stable long relationship with my one and only like, REAL girlfriend that i understood what it was all about. Lasted for about 4 years and then she started to want to get more serious an i panicked again and broke up with her... The idea of mby getting married and starting a family scared the living shit out of me! I have really awful chronic health disorders in my genes so giving birth to a child that might die before 12 years old (like I almost did) is something i swore not to do. So That was just not an option. After that i have had some flings at times but mostly i have adapted to being alone, because i am 35 years old now and my health is getting worse. Don´t think i have that long left to be brutally honest. So i don´t have the energy for something like a relationship, nor do i want to drag someone into all of the shit i am going through. A bit to honest and sad i know, but it is kinda important to my experience with relationships. But it is nice to hear that i am not alone in being a hopeless, confused individual is WONDERFUL! It is a really cute story. It is something most people go through i guess. It just isn´t talked about a lot. Especially not if you are of mixed sexual orientation, people atleast used to keep that bottled up for the most part when i was younger. Now it might be easier because people are more open and proud of their "labels" and experiences. I just realized that this isn´t her channel, so this might not be applicable, but i applaud it all the same. This was heartwarming :)
I'm a gynephile man (I like women, men that look like women, and non-binary people that look like women). For the longest time I believed myself to be heterosexual, since I had a homosexual experience with a friend in elementary school that didn't go too well, and I've never been attracted to manly-looking men. Only recently, at the age of 25, did I re-evaluate my sexuality. It's honestly weird to talk about this IRL with others.
People get easily confused about things about like, love, lust and sex. You can kiss people and not have lustful or sexual burgers for them. Libido really screws up alot of people, but most English based cultures don't help with all of the confusing messaging that media and local pier pressure puts out.
As a fellow Bi this is all very relatable. Except for the getting close to anyone part. I’ve never dated anyone. Though the ghosting part was accurate. I once accidentally let 10 days go by when talking to someone I was interested in. I then texted them. They never texted back no matter how many times I contacted them. I still haven’t dated anyone. A classic Bi who is bi themselves.
I always am in conflict with the Bi thing, I have two opinions here 1.- Once in a while I'm like, my homie looks like a nice partner 2.- I just wanna feel love
Sometimes you need time to accept and understand the stuff that you are bi ,as a straight man I really can't tell the feeling of that ,I hope that one day ,she is gonna find ,the perfect woman or the perfect man for her
hey man sometimes girls are just hot can’t really help it and yeah i was always quiet in school but popular girl’s always were around me last time was chear leaders in highschool it was an interesting time but sadly by then i had given up on trying for any relationship’s i know some of them were single not sure if telling me was just casually chatting or was supposed to mean something more but i always just assumed it was the latter cause meeting girl’s in school who also like other girl’s and were interesting in dating a not so popular person like me is more rare then pulling 5 star characters in genshin impact
I figured out I was asexual and aromantic after a girl tried to get close to me on a party (which I didn't wanna go to) and I classified it as sexual harassment. Turns out she only wanted to flirt (which I don't want to happen to me) and I overreacted. And I overreacted by a fucking lot, believe me.
I...I honestly know how Numi feels, it took me years to get comfy with being bi and expressing it to other people. I never really got the chance at a relationship with a guy cause of that too and honestly i got some regrets not talking to cute guys, but that's live.
