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@Cmtjune5
@Cmtjune5 Год назад
They can’t handle pain well but they sure know how to cause pain well
@samanthawilliams5520
@samanthawilliams5520 Год назад
Too true.
@lauradelregno99
@lauradelregno99 Год назад
They can't take what they dish out😅
@TheRebelCoach
@TheRebelCoach 28 дней назад
Of course they can’t handle what they give!!!
@abigailthompson7265
@abigailthompson7265 Год назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂 oh Jesus! The narcissist must have gone to an exotic jungle because I don't know what he found because of the rejection and the forever no contact! Lord, I thank you for releasing me from the evil connection
@vanessaharris6341
@vanessaharris6341 Год назад
You tickle the mess outta me. 😂 It's great when you can look back at these fools and laugh.
@ShunSmith-dw8hj
@ShunSmith-dw8hj 8 месяцев назад
I swear lol😂
@LORILIVINGSTONOFFICIAL
@LORILIVINGSTONOFFICIAL Год назад
I hollered when she said, “Which one of these voices in their heads will they listen to today”!?! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ShunSmith-dw8hj
@ShunSmith-dw8hj 8 месяцев назад
Lmao 🤣
@WomanofGod-jc4cj
@WomanofGod-jc4cj 4 месяца назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂 CHECKMATE
@Tinablackberryrose
@Tinablackberryrose Год назад
Over grown toddlers is a perfect analogy for these evil crazy circus clowns. I’ve had to get cameras and constantly looking out the window at my car because he has cut my tires twice already not to mention I had to get a protective order against him. All I want is for him to move on with his life and leave me alone forever.
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 Год назад
I did N/C 3 yrs ago changed my number, moved he cannot Hoover and beg me no more .. THANK GOD I found the strength to stay away..❤️❤️
@itscaprice8180
@itscaprice8180 Год назад
Backwards walking giraffes 🦒 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it!
@ashleyrose2578
@ashleyrose2578 Год назад
After 4 years of the repeated cycle I finally left a month ago for the last time, changed my number, blocked him on every social media site and cut off all contact. He’s called my mom, had his flying monkeys send messages on Facebook and he even reached out to me on Zelle begging me to call him! 🤣 I’ve heard he’s been drinking all day every day and letting himself go. A damn shame!
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 Год назад
Same here - when I finally left 4 good 3 yrs ago. He looks like a bum drinker everyday as he always had but worse I’m sure - back on drugs . I changed my number moved he can’t even find me. Life is so peaceful now .. he blew up a marriage for nothing. Complete idiot . At 61 , ain’t that easy starting over. Not to mention finding another class act, I was the best he ever had and he knew it .
@shanabennett3184
@shanabennett3184 Год назад
Stay away. Stay no contact Queen
@Red-Iceberg
@Red-Iceberg Год назад
He did it to himself right? I just think if they know exactly what they do,why not just stop😮
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 Год назад
@@Red-Iceberg they make dumb ass mistake and live to regret it 4 ever. I was the best he ever had and will certainly is the most attractive. He destroyed a marriage for nothing- I am glad he did cuz that gave me the final out. Thank GOD..
@wmhhealth2018
@wmhhealth2018 Год назад
She desperately tried to use a discard to hoover me back when she was losing control of me. She had some pathetic low hanging fruit she was triangulating me against and said "I was hoping you would be willing to fight for the relationship". Absolutely text book and so easy to see. I simply accepted her discard and walked away and blocked her immediately. Game over narc!
@Dansyoung
@Dansyoung Год назад
After I put the trash into the can…. I don’t pull it back out and look at it again - I already determined it was garbage and continue on with my life.
@PerfectPeace121
@PerfectPeace121 Год назад
Thanks for confirming the strategy I’ve been using all along: don’t block, just ignore. The strategy has caused such massive narc injury that he hasn’t contacted me ever since. I assume he has blocked me. The pain of blocking someone that never tries to contact you, OUCH🤣🤣🤣
@dimondsjewls4236
@dimondsjewls4236 Год назад
Reject, reject, rejected!! Got to love it!!
@ladonnamorrison3616
@ladonnamorrison3616 Год назад
On point and hilarious! Feels good to laugh...the clown went from healthy looking when he was with me, to looking like Popeye's girlfirend, Olive! Walking, talking clothes hanger😂😂😂
@viewerwatching5712
@viewerwatching5712 6 месяцев назад
LMAO 🤣
@TataShiku
@TataShiku Год назад
Whenever she laughs I end up cracking up. Walahy these creatures are a diff type of breed 😂. Sadistic and heartless they are to us empaths
@janemurr6601
@janemurr6601 Год назад
😂😂😂😂 you are so positive and funny!! I litterly always laugh with you out loud!
@silverafamilyadventures9340
@silverafamilyadventures9340 Месяц назад
Pocket’s touching in the back. You got me crying!🔥
@warrior4christ902
@warrior4christ902 Год назад
Not the overgrown toddlers!!! 😂😂😂
@dwyanegarrison7809
@dwyanegarrison7809 Год назад
Special kind of stupid….. oh sister….. I got tears. Thank you for confirming I’m not crazy.
@leniecelewis3415
@leniecelewis3415 Год назад
That Narcissist Must Of Been Suffering Because He Went Under The Bottom Of The Barrel To Get That Fruit I Was Like You Kidding Me 😂😭 This Message Is The Truth
@1love847
@1love847 Год назад
He chose a mini me. I actually feel sorry for her. Hope she has a good lawyer when he tries to destroy her too.
@Red-Iceberg
@Red-Iceberg Год назад
I don't even think about that BIRD no more. I hope when I ghosted his behind 3 years ago turned him inside out. I have no sympathy one way or the other. I MOVED, no contact didn't want Evil in my life. I pulled out the power grid very intentionally if he flipped, I didn't hear about it because I moved 2000 miles away😊😊😊 Love to you Ms. Tea❤❤
@PaulaMorris-op4zz
@PaulaMorris-op4zz Год назад
Seriously we need to pray for them, I can’t understand how they play with there soul like this.
@robinsnow7779
@robinsnow7779 Год назад
💯
@evera_
@evera_ Год назад
Amen
@TyShyBrickWorld
@TyShyBrickWorld Год назад
Honestly I think the entity's have taken over. You not seeing who u once saw.
@viewerwatching5712
@viewerwatching5712 6 месяцев назад
I don't pray for Satan
@jamaicanjoyh6883
@jamaicanjoyh6883 5 месяцев назад
They have been given over to a reprobate mind...where wrong seems right and right seems wrong ...
@karenwalters3164
@karenwalters3164 Год назад
EMOTIONS CONTROLS him all day EVERYDAY!!! a WALKING BAG of PAIN!!!REJECTED!!!!
@majestymoon9276
@majestymoon9276 Год назад
That’s me currently. He’s not blocked I’m simply indifferent now ❤ love this feeling
@1love847
@1love847 Год назад
Thats exactly where I was until he showed up at my job with his new supply and sat and ate dinner for 2 hours. Energetically I have been sucked back in though I am sorry for new supply.
@PeggysCorner
@PeggysCorner Год назад
My narcissist is in a relationship with someone in Guam… In the Pacific Ocean…trying to look like he’s in love.
@thomaskoutlas2321
@thomaskoutlas2321 Год назад
You’re absolutely correct,I had a similar experience,She’s always starved for attention.
@Bee-ft8xv
@Bee-ft8xv Год назад
🤣 I'm in tears over the backwards walking giraffe
@leandraherring1824
@leandraherring1824 Год назад
NOT THE DUSTY JEAN'S WITH THE POCKETS TOUCHING😂😂😂😂 MRS TELSHA I CAN'T WITH YOU ❤❤
@akitagilmore8306
@akitagilmore8306 Год назад
This is the ☝️ 🤣
@cynthiab1659
@cynthiab1659 5 месяцев назад
Omg .. this is GOOD!! All true and boy what a great laugh !! 💯❤️
@candypryor8534
@candypryor8534 Год назад
girl u have me in stitches from laughing they go out there and picking up trash
@viewerwatching5712
@viewerwatching5712 6 месяцев назад
They are just selecting what they are, which is trash!
@99luftbaloons1
@99luftbaloons1 11 месяцев назад
You always crack me up😂... Which one of you voices is going to run the day today 😂😂😂.. I ❤️ your style 🙂
@annepomfrett709
@annepomfrett709 Год назад
You make me laugh so much , you have helped me get my sense of humour back , I was the walking dead for years. Laughing is healing Bless you so much xxx☘️☘️☘️
@kimsanders8262
@kimsanders8262 Год назад
I meant to hit the like button.
@life-rethought
@life-rethought Год назад
as a long term... life long victim of narc abuse..( 69yrs ). I too have struggled with resolving the pain. and I have struggled with my weight to extremes. for as that overwhelmed and dominated and terrorized child to adult, I was taught there was no WINNING, no resolution...family secrets had to be hidden, and the only choice I was given was TO STUFF THE PAIN. AND I DID IT WITH FOOD, OVER WORK, OVER SPENDING... this video has been so valuable to watch for my own issues. for almost 20 years I have been in counseling and support groups. doing my best to speak and own my pain. AND LEARN. I made the mistake of getting into another narc relationship/marriage at 67 yrs. old. only this time as the deception was revealed I SAID HELL NO, NO MORE. I have taken care of myself, I ran to a safe location. and I am almost free. and I studied and learned and learned and learned,
@Branaymolly
@Branaymolly Год назад
Well they can either live in the pain or do better for their lives period
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 Год назад
Yes they stay in pain when you discard them first. The narc ended up back on crack at 61 I’m 47 best grade A supply that bum ever had and will have. He was seen riding a bike at 61 pitiful
@yogib8
@yogib8 Год назад
That is some kinda sad @ 61 cracked out and riding a bike 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫, they don’t even know when they have the best thing happening which is you… oh well!
@williamswdw
@williamswdw Год назад
My x narc 59 back on anything he can get!
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 Год назад
@@williamswdw lol
@TyShyBrickWorld
@TyShyBrickWorld Год назад
It's going to be 2 years almost. I celebrated last year and I'm literally celebrating this year. Can't wait. I HAVE FOUGHT SO HARD FOR MY PEACE LORD KNOWS.
@cameogutierrez3466
@cameogutierrez3466 Год назад
You are so right! Once you figure out who and what they are the only option is to run and not look back!
@Joyfulstyles
@Joyfulstyles 3 месяца назад
😂Girl! You speaking THE TRUTH 🤣🤣 when you get to the point when you just laugh!!!your completely healed 💕
@daniellegrayson9184
@daniellegrayson9184 Год назад
Blocked blocked blocked if I see him I will take off running 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@WTWE-i3m
@WTWE-i3m Год назад
You had me laughing at times on this one. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@yogib8
@yogib8 Год назад
You are so right Lady T 🌺, he always told me through out our marriage how he hated to be rejected … I remember telling him, sometimes you will have & hear some no’s in life … it ain’t nothing wrong with hearing no… that was before I knew anything about narcissistic abuse… I can’t even finish writing this cuz you have me on the floor talking bout their pockets touching in the back…. I just can’t…HI LA RI OUS!
@saraliburd7752
@saraliburd7752 Год назад
The nex said toward the end that he didn’t mind being rejected-you know that was a lie
@yogib8
@yogib8 Год назад
@@saraliburd7752 sho was a lie!!!
@JennyGaston
@JennyGaston Год назад
😂 listening to the voices and ask which one is going to run the day, I'm done. Not the stray cats😮. Listen, once she said farm and safari 😆
@pressncurl
@pressncurl Месяц назад
The way you kept crackin up on this one made my day 😂
@willowclay5406
@willowclay5406 Год назад
Let them continue hurting themselves! They do it to themselves!
@kaymiller2441
@kaymiller2441 Год назад
I don’t block, but I ignore, they hate that as well as their flying monkeys. Just be careful.
@EButta71
@EButta71 Год назад
You are in my wheelhouse today! It's been months and I rejected a Hoover this week. It was hard but it's been great. Thank you for this video!
@shanabennett3184
@shanabennett3184 Год назад
❤❤❤ I’m 1 year no contact. It’s hard. Keep going. The Hoovers Will continue slow down but will eventually return. Don’t go back. Keep going. Everyday it gets easier I promise 🙏🏾
@sakimoontheefixer
@sakimoontheefixer Год назад
Sis, I was rolling 🤣 with you...
@gailmellem9751
@gailmellem9751 Год назад
Sis, You really funny. I'm laughing having fun with you laughing. Great video. The Narc might be experiencing that pain which serves him right. Yesterday I posted on Social Media to STOP STALKING me . These Fake accounts requests of friends and phony phone calls for over 3months are disturbing my peace. I had enough of his immaturity it's sickening. Since I blocked and deleted all contact with him his been a PAIN. Yes, Adult Toddlers spot on.
@diannekevwitch6958
@diannekevwitch6958 Год назад
I love the laughter! So freeing!
@mikat6026
@mikat6026 Год назад
Facts and timely! God sent this message to me right on time. Not only did I reject and walk away, I filed a divorce and he won’t stop stalking. But you are absolutely right and this is sadly funny!!
@sylviaamodeo7090
@sylviaamodeo7090 Год назад
Love those giggling belly laughs with you. It's like I'm right there with you love.
@marvinasimswewinqueendom2543
Giiirrrlll! You sho telling it right. You gotta laugh cause it’s a ridiculous kind of unnecessary crazy😂
@tyreewilliams7954
@tyreewilliams7954 Год назад
Facts Ms. Telsha they don't change. The female narcissist was going in on the text me app numbers this week 🤣 every day at work four different numbers 😂. I already knew. It's like they should know by now it's a wrap but they keep trying. Peace Ms.Telsha💯 💯
@viewerwatching5712
@viewerwatching5712 6 месяцев назад
They never quit
@RiverAngel312
@RiverAngel312 4 месяца назад
You got me laughing so hard!!! 11 months no contact and I’d bet my next paycheck my ex still wearing the clothes I bought his raggedy ass, lol. He’d wear something down to the threads before he’d buy for himself. Thankfully my money is my own again. Needed this laugh! 🤣😂😭
@lagoldie9783
@lagoldie9783 Год назад
Hi Ms. Telsha. Good afternoon. It's true they call with different numbers, hang up, text, send messages throwing their new victim in my face, as if I care, they email on different accounts using different names, email. They also subscribe my name and info to different subscriptions, dating sites, porn sites, loan sites, job sites trying to be funny and insulting me. It's a mess, It's happening so much to me I don't even know which one of them it is anymore. At one time I thought I knew who it was but they switched up their tactics so much I don't even know now. That's what suck about it, I don't even know which lulu bell I'm being harassed by 😂lol. Smh oh the grief. Just got to laugh about it sometimes.
@taraarrington2285
@taraarrington2285 2 месяца назад
Yeah, I wasn’t trailer park enough for him😂
@flirtaciawright9562
@flirtaciawright9562 Год назад
Reckless is right. .my ex husband start having one night stands with every single woman in our neighborhood and I'm sure a guy was in there!! So after he kept trying to get me back I told him. I don't want you or your COMMUNITY PENIS, he been blocked every since. It's been 4 years, he is remarried now. I always say in my mind .Poor child, SMH.
@ajourneytoessence2166
@ajourneytoessence2166 9 месяцев назад
I swear you always have me weeeaaaakkkkk when you bring up the safari and farm animals they bring home. Love your content so much and your sense of humor!
@leandraherring1824
@leandraherring1824 Год назад
MRS. TELSHA YOU GOT ME 😂😂😂 OVER HERE.. YES DON'T BLOCK THEM DUCKS U WANNA SEE THEM TWIGS STAND UP ON THERE HEADS SIMPLY IGNORE THEM HUNNY ITS FUNNY 😂😂 OMG YES MRS TELSHA U NAILED IT WITH THEM VOICES IN THERE TALKING EVERY ONE TAKIN TURNS 😂😂LOVE YOU QUEEN ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@peachesjeter5480
@peachesjeter5480 Год назад
You are really making me laugh right now I love this video 😂😘
@candybrown7335
@candybrown7335 Год назад
😂😂😂😅Jokes!!.... Brilliant.. Karma is their PAIN!!
@dawnharris299
@dawnharris299 Год назад
Girl You Had Me At The Over Grown Toddler😂😂😂
@lorettamoore5509
@lorettamoore5509 Год назад
You got that right sister. Street ladies
@lisadichiara8245
@lisadichiara8245 Год назад
THANK YOU for your great videos and especially for making me LAUGH!!……You’re an amazing Light-Worker💛👑
@nataliedelvalle4883
@nataliedelvalle4883 11 месяцев назад
I had to get a whole restraining order! That bird needs to stay out my face!
@kholerbrowne1419
@kholerbrowne1419 Год назад
I continue to be blessed on your inspirational Thursday night's through God's grace ********
@jofann7370
@jofann7370 2 месяца назад
You're halarious 😅I'm stealing your saying 😂
@pamr1029
@pamr1029 Год назад
Boyyy I can't with you today 😂😂 I sure needed your laughter!! Thank you Sis❤
@samhernandez9375
@samhernandez9375 17 дней назад
OMG you were so funny in this video. Love your videos. Thank you
@christyliberge4189
@christyliberge4189 4 месяца назад
It can be funny. I Absolutely relate to your laughter. I read some of his e-mails and simply smh but I also REMEMBER the pain because His pain caused My pain. 💓💕 hit that like botton
@queengweeezy7836
@queengweeezy7836 Год назад
It’s been a struggle coparenting with narcissists (there’s 2 of them oops 😬🤦🏽‍♀️😩) I’m happy that nowww I can see clearly through the antics and ignore, avoid and laugh ! 😂 thanks for ur words of wisdom ❤
@silverafamilyadventures9340
@silverafamilyadventures9340 5 месяцев назад
Pockets touching in the back, love it🔥
@LS-bt7jo
@LS-bt7jo Год назад
Thank God for you being who you are!!! You talk in a way, that I can hear so loud n clear!!! You’re one of a kind!❤️🙌🏼🛠️❤️
@jjfrost4526
@jjfrost4526 Год назад
I saw the new supply, and you were right. Low hanging fruit, st8 🗑. It's disgusting. 😂🤮🤦🏿‍♂️
@thecommentsection4725
@thecommentsection4725 Год назад
The best thing that I learned from these videos, is that I was not the main supply. I realized that she was getting it way worse than me ( and EVERYBODY ELSE ), so I was blessed. God was protecting me, because I'm His child. Therefore, he brought me closer to God. My best part was realizing that when I left him, it made him feel so bad that he treated his new and other back burner supplies so bad, that they probably saw him for what he was too. I was always so 'cool' that I was the self soothing method that she's talking about. Everytime he was mad at her ( baby mama/ main source) he would call me to come chill ( in my mind we were friends- in his mind, I was prey) God IS GOOD and all the time - GOD IS GOOD. Stay blessed y'all. 🧡💛💯 Reply
@cecilianbarrett6417
@cecilianbarrett6417 Год назад
Backwards walking giraffes 😂😂😂 Ma'am, who ever you are, you're amazing! I needed this so badly! The info and the laughter. I'm so glad I just happened across one of your fb reels.
@1love847
@1love847 Год назад
He brought his new supply to my job 3 mos after my restraining order had expired. He actually was in therapy weekly for the year we were together, and we tried couples therapy the last 3 months of our relationships. Neither helped.
@browneyes9507
@browneyes9507 Год назад
Couples therapy never works with a narcissist don’t waste any more time ..
@elijahhumes7776
@elijahhumes7776 Год назад
Hello to this beautiful Queen Who always speaks nothing but truth and Bustin caps with the touching pockets she had me done tonight I really needed to laugh because after 20 years of marriage and the disappointment of knowing after the fact that it was all fake going through my process of healing sister thank you so much I needed to laugh.😂❤😂
@fosterjanine5112
@fosterjanine5112 Год назад
I didn't come to this world to compromise my life to make someone else comfortable! I was created to stand in my power not to be under someone's control or influence. No one has the right to choose or decide for me because they didn't create me and the most high did ! ( GOD). I see it for what it is! I won't be taken for a fool by anyone! Don't disturb my soul if you know you don't wish me good! I know they are not meant to be loved and they don't deserve my forgiveness! They took pleasure in my pain. ( mistreatment). Obedience is better than sacrifice!
@MegaLadylove2012
@MegaLadylove2012 Год назад
I rejected a narc years ago and he immediately went and deleted me off Facebook. I didn’t think it was tht deep and laughed it off like wow I guess tht reject really hurt bc he always made it seem like it didn’t. Five years later he’s still contacting me on every platform he could find. Sry ppl 😂
@maryams8062
@maryams8062 Год назад
😂😂😂 i love this woman ❤ thank you so much for helping me on my journey 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰💪🏾💪🏾
@chilo597
@chilo597 9 месяцев назад
He did the WHOLE ZOO..😂😂😂😂😂
@GeminiCaribee
@GeminiCaribee Год назад
The farm , jungle or safari has me rolling!! 😅😅
@willowclay5406
@willowclay5406 Год назад
Block, ignore, and no contact!
@peachesjeter5480
@peachesjeter5480 4 месяца назад
Telsha got me laughing 😂🤣
@marlenebutler3819
@marlenebutler3819 Год назад
I so love the way you give us the real but add some humor with it and the I gotta get off here is legendary ..Bless you Sis keep giving us the word
@BlueMosaic5
@BlueMosaic5 Год назад
🌻Love your energy & positivity 💕
@sandramayer9456
@sandramayer9456 Год назад
You make me giggle out loud! I just love you and when you break down giggling at things I feel ya. It’s funny when you really think of what a clown they were!! I understand that kind of laughter. They are so ridiculous and absurd!!! But today Satan… NOT today!!! 🙏🙏🙏
@annmarie.l804
@annmarie.l804 Год назад
😂😂😂sister, t your too much. It's so true that the stalking is real❤
@shandagause1585
@shandagause1585 Год назад
I swear 😂
@annmarie.l804
@annmarie.l804 Год назад
Yes, it's really demonic peeping behind bushes and blinds
@stacied.williams4479
@stacied.williams4479 Год назад
Ain’t nobody want that bird back 😅I’m an empath. He was the narcissist and he flipped the script.
@lorraineamaker9416
@lorraineamaker9416 2 месяца назад
Ok Ms. Telsha I came bk to this video, and i lmbo cuz it’s true. But that part them asking for help had me falling out 😅😅😅I’m a special kind of stupid 😅😅😅you are appreciated 😊
@sincerelysamanthas
@sincerelysamanthas Год назад
Man this one had me rolling today, omg 🤣🤣🤣
@dididisun
@dididisun Год назад
You bring So So much Joy in Me!
@donnahale1011
@donnahale1011 Год назад
Ms. Tea ur hilarious but ur telling the TRUTH...
@irstalina
@irstalina Год назад
Is it worse NOT blocking but NOT respond than just BLOCK BLOCK? 😅😅😅❤ because that is what I do. I read but not answer. No matter what the text says!!! Threats, lovebombing... I just ignore. But not blocked. He is insignificant. Not even care about blocking. 😅
@staceydelbucchia2576
@staceydelbucchia2576 Год назад
God bless you Miss Tea...💯❤️😪🙏🏼🤣
@diannekevwitch6958
@diannekevwitch6958 Год назад
We had to learn how to process their diabolical twisting like a snake 🐍
@shirleygonzales5284
@shirleygonzales5284 Год назад
Hi Ms. Telsha. Thank you for all your knowledge and power. Blessings ♥️
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I love your video's 😅😊. You make me laugh so hard. And what you say is so true.Thank you for doing what you are doing.
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Backwards walking giraffes 😂😂😂that’s exactly what they are!!!
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