Actually, fun fact: there's no "alpha" or beta in a pack of wolves. Its just the father and mother in the front followed by the kids at the back. When the kids become older they find their own packs.
@@Mafuyuassahina if there is no alpha and the leader is the parents until the kids leave to ‘find their own pack,’ who’s the parents in the new pack? Do they have kid wolf meet-ups like “looking for pack” ?
@CharnHorpee young adult wolves will strike out on their own and look for mates. Sometimes the new pack starts out with just the new mates pair and their cubs. Other times a young adult wolf will be accepted into a different pack that already has a few members.
These 'beta' version of actions they show are like those old infomercials where they make the most mundane thing look impossible. I have never seen anyone, man or woman, try to pull a chair out like that, nor lean over a bottle to open it...
It is, actually! I did flamenco as a child, and you gotta have a lot of control over your movements for it to look elegant and strong. And you might be thinking that's not the same, and you'd be right. Except! I have pretty bad social anxiety (and a pretty... Unconventional grandma obsessed with me being more lady-like, which is funny bc I literally lived in a forest) and for a while I really thought other kids would judge me by how sloppy my movements were, if I laughed, or crouched the wrong way, if I did the wrong hand gesture, if I didn't seem relaxed and cool enough while making mundane tasks, etc. So I'd just try to emulate the same "elegance" I had to portray in flamenco while doing everyday stuff. With time it just kinda became second nature, funny part it's I also was a tomboy with an obsession for wild and "savage" characters in media. So I just ended up being a weird combination of like a wild kid trying to deny their nature, lmao. The thing is, it stuck and nowadays I'm still often told that I move like I was "dancing" sometimes, and don't get me wrong, I take it as a compliment. But it sometimes reminds me that I use to force myself into it for social acceptance and I find it kinda sad. Nowadays I'm still obsessed with some movements and the softness of them or my facial features (since I feel like my expressions are so rough, unladylike and generally ugly) and I can't sleep freely while staying at friend's houses bc I'm deathly scared of moving wrong in my sleep or putting up an ugly face and I find myself being extremely conscious of some movements I make because I know they don't "flatter me." It's still a bit tiring but I kinda remember young me thought of it as a game and a way to improve my social status, lmao Edit: not me info dumping a random stranger, I'm so sorry lol
Dude looks like a physiotherapist giving safe movement guidance for someone who had spine surgery and has to be careful not to cause damage while healing
I'm Ukrainian (lol) and unfortunately I have to agree there is a separate generation of women who think they need to be hyper feminine, and expect men to be hyper-masculine as well. But imo millennials and younger do stay away from this much more, especially because of the western influence (in a positive way) that women can be comfortable even when they are not hyper feminine. The first second I heard her accent I immediately know this "type" of slavic influencers (mainly I think it's Russia, Ukraine and Belarus), thinking holidays at Dubai, riding extremely expensive cars and having rich husband is the ideal life for any woman of her tier XD (P.S. I know this borders a stereotype but I've had multiple girls at my uni thinking same way, and their mothers being very supportive, thinking any westerner is mega rich by default) It's still a specific type of women here but true, I forget how off putting they are to other cultures lol
@@scorpieeeee well, by the trad standards they are also not fully there (I think?). They are hyper feminine but only as an image lol. thinking doing chores is an insult (and never discussing it), never wanting a job (at least a paying one), but wanting monthly or weekly "allowance", spending a ton of money on salons, cosmetics and clothing and thinking partnership is an exchange of goods basically, man = money/house + woman = pretty body/bed. It's what called "sugar baby" i think in the west, and theres a whole another discussion if sugar babies are trad or not XD
As a russian, I agree so much! I am afab, and it's so frustrating how much expectations are put on women and girls since very childhood. The whole "get a husband and kids" or "be more feminine" mentality is so widespread and annoying, that I literally will start crawling the damn walls if I hear such comment one more time. Especially from my own family members who know that it rubs on me the wrong way. Stereotypes sucks. Although, there's nothing wrong with people who want to live that way and yadayada, their lifes - their deals, I guess. But when they start "teaching", "guiding" and "giving advices" to other people, trying to force their lifestyle and opinions on them while also calling them names or whatever, it's just.. ☠️ Anyway, have a nice day!
@@Yuuteimiya Sugar baby or much rather "trophy wife" that you can hold like a pretty jewel and dress up in fancy/expensive stuff only to show her off like a top tier supercar or luxurious mansion
@@iwoo255 oh yeah.... I'm soon to be 25 (cis female) and I already get so many comments how "my clock is ticking" and get offended when i ask to stop since they think it's "caring".... Stereotypes do suck, and I wish you the most strength in your life fighting them, have a nice day too!
4:35 Don't turn your head like a meerkat because it's a prey type movement? SIR. Although they are considered a prey animal in some cases, Meerkats literally eat scorpions for breakfast and fight venomous snakes. Given that you have such limited head movement, I doubt you'd be able to notice a scorpion or a snake before they stung/bit you. Sooo, I mean, who is really the 'prey' in this situation? The one who dies or the one who survives? 🤷♀️
You're supposed to hold a champagne flute or wine glass by the stem so you don't warm up the drink with your hand/body heat. But at the end of the day, it's not that big of a deal.
It used to be a much bigger deal when we didn't have good/reliable refrigeration. Nowadays, we have stemless glasses, haha. But yeah. People should hold their glass however they please.
Also, you’re supposed to keep elbows close to your body for elegant eating, it’s one of basic rules. So I guess she doesn’t really now what she is doing lol
It is hilarious, watching Alpha content because the main quality is supposed to be confidence, and these people are so obviously full of insecurity, they are bursting at the seams.
this chair tip was acctually pretty cool. As a person who always overthinks how I should sit down it can really help me (i'm 5'1 tall 19 yo small woman with social anxiety)
Funny enough with the hyper fixation on certain social norms, behaviour and evaluation patterns they could do some interesting research if they didn't think science was for nerds. Instead we get Alpha bs free content for years to come. I like clowns, so I don't mind.
That's what my husband does! He has been published in the journal of Men & Masculinity, which focuses this stuff. His PhD is in Social Psychology. He's very physically masculine and confident, which makes it fun when he starts dissecting these tropes.
There are SOME things I do agree you should do a particular way. I'm sure most women all know the 'correct' way to pick something off the ground when you're wearing a dress or skirt so you don't flash the entire world. I don't do that to assert dominance or try to make people think I'm confident, I do it so no one sees my undies. Things like that have a practical reason behind it, when the stuff in this video just makes things more complicated and less practical. Like if I see a man sitting in the middle of a bench with his legs apart, I think 'wow that's a rude person. Now no one else can sit there because they are taking up all the space. Kinda selfish...' I don't think, 'wow look at that confidence!!! He is truly making the bench serve him. That's a REAL man right there!!' 🤷
The Mordor edit 😂 I've spent hundreds of hours with Slavic coworkers and friends and confirm all of these phenomenons, even posture training and not licking the spoon, are 100% true. It blows me away as an American.
do i immediately get kicked out of the alpha women club if i still run into my couch that has that place for more than a year? or could i still be one if no one sees it?
I don't respect alpha men because they have to be taught how to open a bottle XD my female middle school ass thought that shit up on my own, I'm the REAL alpha XD
Upon further analysis: these men are so fucking insecure XD like, the way they have to preform EVERY task in a hyperspecific way to maintain the illusion of 'strong' 'masculine' 'alert' or 'in control' just reflects how concerned these men are to be perceived in these ways XD you said it yourself, these are attention seeking behaviors XD Damn, they all got that 15yo girl insecurity still XD not very demure, not very alpha of you LMAOOOOO
Oh wait, the gal is right about one thing, don't hold your glasses by the bowl, hold them by the stem. Your body heat will warm up your drink. But that's not really alpha behavior.....a bar tender probably told her that.
Hahaha, in russian-speaking parts of mordornet this "kinetic behavioral" was quite popular sime month ago. One coach was spilling water on himself and saying "it's not my problem, but yours, since you react to it and shirts"..... Funny nonsense 😂
People like that who say it's desirable for 'women to have a great sense of humor' don't mean the women should be funny, they mean the woman should laugh at all the men's terrible jokes.
Yeeeaaaah... In Russia we even had this man, who was very famous and literally making millions for his "original" courses on how to act on public and make things SERVE YOU. Well... Now we know him as a PDF-file...
'Don't grab and twist the protein shake' says man in way too tight shirt walking down a clearly affluent suburb while holding what appears to be an Arizona Ice Tea. ALPHA!
I'm from India and one of your other video about this alpha man topic got a reaction from my favourite Indian youtuber shwetabh gangwar but his video is in hindi so you probably won't be able to understand the video but I was so happy and wanted to share this with you😅also if you just want to check out his video or is on his other channel gangstas perspective
I just came from a smash or pass video for bloodborne bosses (don’t judge me). I’m still in that mentality when the video started and all I can think when he’s correcting every little movement is pass, Pass, PASS! Ugh he’s so insecure 😟
For He is The Alpha and The Omega; The First and The Last.. The Beginning and The End. Our Lord who is Most High and Glorified, came down to Earth as the incarnate Son of God to serve humanity... and to save us all through His love, grace and sacrifice... so that through the punishment that He took for us, we are redeemed in His name. "Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves." - Matthew 10:16
LMAO I saw the "how to drink your wine" lesson in a freaking webtoon just a few days ago, how many bets this chick got it from a similar source? She's saying, "Hold the glass by the stem and not by the cup, because otherwise your hands will warm the drink."
Why would I want my husband to love me the same way he did at the beginning of the relationship? That would be a huge downgrade. Plus I am nearing 50 - I think he has noticed I look different than when we were teens! He still can't keep his hands off me, though. 😏
The funniest irony of this alpha stuff is that it's all about the fear of others' judgements. So the answer is to live your life performing stereotypically masculine actions. It's funny. I was out cycling today and passed one guy who was walking like a gunslinger in a black and white cowboy movie. He just looked like he had a stick up his ass.
Sure, there's nothing more manly than caring about what other people think about the way of every simple things that you do, while the beta is someone who just do whatever they like without care in the world, we surely don't want to be the beta
tbh i think dude just hit a blinker. bc sometimes when i do it i get really scared and think about every single movement i’m making. my friend says i got eggs iety but i just call it blinky jinkies
Why it's always the actual nice guys and not the 'nice guys' who are called beta? It's almost like 'the alphas' are gaslighting women to date them, which doesn't seem to work for them.
Bro why do all the women who tell other women what to do look like 30 ish but r prolly in there late 20s and also sound like they are speaking English for the first tine
