How to actually avoid dry convos and speak like a pro… 

So I've already gotten a bunch of DM's and some comments on this video asking - how do you actually apply what I am saying? Like, how do I start talking to people and applying what I've said in this video? - would you want a video on that? I have some great ideas in mind so if you want me to make it I'd be very happy to. It'll basically be an extension to this video, but again, actually applying the information without completely f*cking everything up for yourself if that makes sense, let me know 👊

1. Speak slowly 2. Take a pause before answering to a question 3. Improve vocabulary 4. let go the fear of not speaking well 5. impress yourself first then others

I want you to know that your videos not just "inspire" people, they literally change and save them. Thank you for all the content you make

always wondered why does bro have so much footage from his childhood

Bro you don’t know how much you saved me. Everytime I see u I always have the motivation to do something and I’m a smart person and my school and when I get low I get all the attention. Thank you bro❤️❤️

im very awkward, thank you

Sometimes silence is the best answer. I had to learn that and am learning it currently.

You're a lifechanger for the new generations. Keep up the good work

I'm gonna hug my crush soon and don't wanna make it awkward. Literally the perfect timing tysm!

Silence can awnser all questions. Edit: thx for the 100 likes!

Even as a girl I find your content so helpful. You are the only RU-vidr I watch with this type content. You are the best in my opinion and your content is mostly for everyone which is really dope.

I remember in 7th grade i would get so nervous talking to girls but not with anyone else. The year before in 6th grade i was in a different school and i was so much more confident in a way. I was able to talk to anyone easily and actually be funny. I dont know what happened later on but there was a switch that brought me back to that 6th grade version of me and ever since i have been that version of me. The point is over time you will get more comfortable with the people who surround you. so dont worry if you have anxiety. Just keep pushing yourself out of that comfort zone Much love 👊❤️

Man, you've actually helped me so much. I've been in a wheelchair for over half my life and beddriven in a room alone. Whenever I try to go talk to someone it's always hard as I haven't had much social exposure. Please never quit what you do, appreciate ya

i just simply love this man

this guys videos are the most calming and best to watch when i feel really depressed. the way he puts them together just sets a little ease into my mood and making it a little better

Thank you Jak. This really helps me. Before seeing your video I was analyzing why I am scared of people that have a higher “status”. Your video really helps me set a base. Keep going with the videos, you’ve changed lives.

I’ve been told I speak too fast, too quiet, too loud, or too much. Sometimes my throat gets all messed up, sometimes I trip over my words. I felt like my brain moved faster than my hands and mouth. But on the other hand, there are times when I can’t say a word, can’t make eye contact, can’t do anything. And don’t get me started on texting. My texts (and sometimes irl conversations) with my ex (and most of my crushes tbh) were so dry and I feel like that was both of our faults. Half the time I’d be too scared to send a text. I’m really glad this video showed up lol, because no one has really offered anything other than “slow down”, “lower your voice”, or “you’re overthinking it”- this is genuinely helpful, especially at the age of 15. So thank you for your channel :) ok even yt comments are scary to post ahhhh

I actually finished my Profesional Communication course this spring as part of my study program, and I can definitely agree with the points you made there. I think there is no definitive answer for everybody as to why dry conversations occur in their communication or 'clutter', but your example with water comes close - it is usually the barriers that exist before the conversation begins in the first place that hold somebody back, and it can be very different from person to person. Things like how respectable you come off and how you yourself feel about it etc. Once again, thanks for sharing your toughts and experiences. They are cherished by many. Stay real, yeah. ❤

I remember when I used to talk to my crush, I thought about it so much and cared about it so much that my face went red anytime I said anything. One thing I realized was that because I had cared so much about the idea of talking to this person at all, I would get so nervous to do that, so I started to not think about having a perfect conversation with that person and just stopped caring about talking to them as much, and I got way better at talking to her. Turns out it worked and now we’re dating. Thanks for the advice Jak, your content is amazing 👍

You are someone that everyone 16-23 year olds should be listening to. Im 17, trying to be a better person and grow up. Only recently have I thought that the way I communicate is a big part of what people think of me. Thank you so much. Keep doing what you are doing, keep changing lives for the better. Also, to everyone reading this, read more books. It will help you to talk more clearly.

Your a great speaker my brother, keep up the good work 👍

This is so relatable for me good for me to watch your vids and learn from them ❤

I literally discovered you not even an hour ago and you have gave me some truly inspiring and incredible advice even if it’s not advice, you are changing people’s lives and making people look in themselves and really appreciate who they are, your a good man keep up the good work

Genuinely the only advice youtuber I've seen who I can tell he's 100% genuine. He's not bullshitting just giving us his opinions. Trying to make a difference. Thanks mate, I wish I had a brother like you haha, but I'll try to be a brother like you for my younger sibling at least.

I have been so stressed the last 6 months. From moving to 2 different houses and being kicked out of school twice because of my attendance not being able to find friends not even being able to sleep. You have really been calming me down I really appreciate you and love all of your content. Much love Jak ❤

I love how he did the rest of the video talking slowly after mentioning talking slowly is good. @JakPiggot I can't express my gratitude to you! You really really REALLY have been a great source of inspiration for me.

You're so real bro. These video make me cry man, in a good way. Thank you for your help mate.

Jak is the only sane ''Self-improvement'' creator, i look up to him like i would to a brother, keep up the great work man 💪

I always faced awkwardness talking to male colleagues or friends, and all the time regret my poor social skills, but this video is on time . You contribution in my self improvement is appreciated. Thankyou

0/10 video I got stuck to my fridge cause of how magnetic I became

Bro. Ur awesome. These tips are things i applied in real life and they have worked for me. Thanks for being such a unsung hero for lots of men around the world

Dude this stuff really means a lot to me. Your advice about dating and getting to know people is really helping me right now since I am trying to get into talking to people myself. Thank you so much man you are really changing lives.

I keep beating myself up too. I can talk to whoever I want to (it could be just a random stranger) just fine. but when I try to talk to my crush or anybody that I really like, I don't know what the hell to say and then I just feel like a terrible person wasting their time for nothing. This did help, thank you.

This isnt just a self improvement content. Its Also a literal scenario of our lives.. Bless this man❤

your channel makes me so happy. you seem like one of the few people who really appreciate life

Keep on making great content Jak your videos are changing peoples lives when you said the chances of being born are one in 400 trillion that stuck with me and changed my life overnight and also when you said if your life was a film would you enjoy watching it? You’ve helped me so much

Im a stutter since i was kid. Went to and expensive speech therapist couple years ago and these are the exact tips she gave me. Just charged alot but good to know everyone else is learning this for free.

Minecraft music fits this type of content so much

Hey bro. Just wanted to thank you for starting this channel. It’s helped me through some of my darkest moments and for that I can’t thank you enough. Keep doing what you do and keep inspiring people to be better.

I'm in the exact same situation you were in. The way you described how and why you have anxiety trying to impress people really resonates within me. Thank you for the help man

Jak is the perfect person in my opinion, not only because he does things correctly, but because he betters himself. We should all learn this from him and strive to be greater than we were yesterday. Love you all :)

Jak, your videos are so good i literally cannot stop watching your videos. You have such a cool mentality and you speak so good, like i could listen to what you say every single day and would remember every single word from what you would say. Its crazy but its true :D. I want to thank you because you changed me so much.

I needed this so much! I have social anxiety and am always afraid to go up and talk to people, but I am a lot more extroverted when I get to know someone.

I’ve gotta say you have been a massive inspiration to me and influenced me to change my life and get the most out of it.

love the content brother, we've all been through tough times and i love how you can stand up and help others

as a girl, I really like watching these. I don't know why but there's something so calming but also really helpful too. Keep it up Jak.

I didn’t really learn anything from this video but I enjoyed listening to your story it reminded me to not overthink things

this guy is the most relatable guy to me in the planet

This actually helped a lot with me. I’m not the greatest communicator when it comes to some people so thank you for this advice Jak! As always :]

Thank you bro, you always seem to lighten my mood whilst making these videos. Keep it up

literally watching this the night before a big english speech - tysm this has calmed me down so much

You explained the situation I currently have quite perfectly. I even talked to a life coach about these things but it felt too awkward to do or listen to anything they said. Your words perfectly communicated through to me. Thank you.

Bro u are such a amazing person.i hope you realize how many people you are helping.love you man❤

15 Push ups for evry like 👇 ✊ You dont need to

keep up the good work jak

You changed my life, you made me appreciate everything. I couldn't thank you more. You seriously changed my life Jak. I love you bro, I wanna meet you one day and give you a hug bro.

i really appreciate your videos, jak. seriously, love all your advice

I relate a lot to the feeling of “if something awkward happens, my reputation is ruined”. I do wonder if I am just overthinking things though many of the times. I also relate a lot to ”when something doesn’t go how I want, I work really hard to make it right, or prevent it from happening again”. So much relatability in this video

You have actually helped me a lot since I started watching you a few weeks ago. thank you man.

After seeing this video i realized that you are literally me but british version. Every single word you say is true for me bro.

Bro i dont know what kind of witchcraft you know but , your insane , this is the exact thing i was worrying about 30 min ago

I really love the way you tell 'O'WATA (Water)...

Great content , and i really like the fact that your videos aren't streched out.Good luck buddy 1 mil is soo close🎉

Bro you are really going to help me improve my life, thank you. Keep makin' videos like this

Thanks Jak, always good to be reminded of these things.

Balls of steel, that’s all I’m saying. This man, he not only improved his communication skills, but he kept good grades up, and managed to keep his reputation higher than the clouds. Legend.

You’re amazing bro! Always help me.

I'm now realizing how much of a difference the speed of someone talking has. The example that was given in the video gave me the much needed realization of how it effects the way people listen. I'm a very fast talker, but now i understand how important it is to talk slow.

Since i saw you while scrolling, It made me realize i had to finally take action, and i'd say if it wasn't for you I would probably not be as I am right now, Thanks man

Such a valuable video. I have been doing this for almost a year, but this video made me remember some of the key things!

Dale Carnegie. Thats the name of the man who wrote how to win friends and influence people.

Solid vid lad keep it up

I’ve waited for this video for so long, thanks bro!

Something i use is to not think of anyone as better than you. I don't know why it works but it really helps me.

2:47 is he reading it... Upside down??

This is not my account, but I'm still gonna comment from this account. This video was literally what I was looking for. The women / teacher thing was way too relatable. And you gave a perfect solution to it! It took me like 15 years to realise what was the solution to everything like the lack of confidence (the best example would be what you just said.) Thank you very much, Jak Piggott. (Please correct any grammatical mistakes that I had just made in this comment, English isn't my native language)

Thank you for your advice bro it has been helping me and uh I'm seeing better progress in life too you have made me an better person Thank you very much jack Yours truly: RICK

Hi jac. How are you doing today? If you’re having a rough day I hope you’re day gets better. If you are having a good day then keep the positive energy.

i hate how much people overestimate how useful this video actually is when all this information is common knowledgr

Yo i relate to this every time i talk to girls i forget everything and then i just push them away so thanks man for the advice

i feel like every thing he says i can relate to and that is why I love his content

Hii I'm late but I live on the other side of the world anyway I remember last year at the start of december I was at the worst place I could possibly be in and then I came across jaks RU-vid channel and its out of this world how much I've changed and grown its quite personal but I've always had a not so good relationship with my mom and like two days ago she said that she was proud of me and she said I've grown to be very knowledgeable and really if you Asian you get it hehe but I can only thank jak for his reassuring content and god for showing me the right path probably a bit too personal but I love you content and I can actually communicate better now so thank you very muchhh

"when you impress yourself then you impress that certain somebody" 👌🏻❤️💪🏻

I love how Jack has a story for everything! =)

I realized a while ago that the way to talk slow and have pauses without awkwardness is to just be chill but confident and go with the flow of the conversation.

Moral of the story: stay hydrated

This music is good for some types of videos - however, be aware of the mood impact a song has on a video; the change in atmosphere. I enjoyed listening to your insight.

one of the best things I've done to improve my communication is to sometimes take a few seconds to formulate my words, I'll be like "sorry, can you give me a second to figure out what I'm trying to say?" and I take a few seconds to think deeply about what were talking about and find some string to follow in the conversation. we are trying to improve communication so communicating that something isn't quite right and you need a minute to figure it out is generally a good thing.

As a person professionally diagnosed with autism, and although i am not on the severe end or on a noticeable end, I have always had trouble communicating ideas or words to people. Recently ive forced myself to talk to people and I've gotten a lot better at talking. thanks!

Bro unintentionally lost aura with his teacher! Great to see he is in great times now lol.

sheeeesh this video is awesome. the vibe with the minecraft music and the forest bro nice work

Me being 21 and thinking i figured myself out a lot better. I just got great advice, thanks man!

Its okay bro, we’re all human. We all make mistakes. We learn from them. We improve. 🔥

1. Speak slowly 2. Wait at least 3 seconds before you answer important questions 3. Improve your vocabulary 4. you don't have to impress everybody. The most important thing is that you impress yourself 5. let go of the fear of not speaking well. (I think taking a deep breath before starting the conversation will help)

One thing I keep in mind when I try to speak slower because I struggle with speaking fast is to speak like I’m reading a book, and take time to get the words out right.

Thanks jak, for this REAL video. You are amazing bro! Keep up! ✌️

Love the Minecraft music in the background, another great video, Jak. Keep it up 👍🏻

Thanks jak for allways posting I'm going to leave a comment on every new video dont forget me

these videos really help me, thanks jak!

thank you for your hard work your videos are really appreciated