Тёмный

HOW TO ASK OUT YOUR CRUSH IN 2020 

The Josh Speaks
Подписаться 264 тыс.
Просмотров 17 тыс.
50% 1

Want to finally ask out your crush this year? If you're too nervous to talk to your crush or text them here are a few techniques to slide into their DMs, keep a conversation going and form a connection with them so they will like you back. These techniques WORK for college, middle school, high school and older!
🔵 Want to know how to succeed at talking to your crush and winning them over?
• 5 Reasons Why You NEED...
📘Order My Self-Help Book for Teenagers "Embracing The Awkward":
thejoshspeaks.c...
💟 Get daily goals, motivation and see my journey on Instagram:
/ thejoshspeaks
🔴 Want to video chat with me one on one? Become a Patron!
/ thejoshspeaks
💬Join our online community of people learning and growing:
thejoshspeaks.c...
👕 Want a "Love & Peace" t-shirt? Order it here:
www.thejoshspea...
㊗️ Do you speak another language? Help caption this video for others:
www.youtube.com...
✅ SUBSCRIBE for a new video every TUESDAY and THURSDAY!
www.bit.ly/thej...
If you enjoyed this video please LIKE, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE!
The Josh Speaks is a weekly vlog series that aims to teach the values of confidence, mindfulness, and compassion to teenagers and young adults. By helping people discover what their best self-looks like, they can carry those values forward and inspire others along the way.
#TheJoshSpeaks #BeYourBestSelf #BeSomebodyGreat

Опубликовано:

 

7 сен 2024

Поделиться:

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист
Посмотреть позже
Комментарии : 227   
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
🔮 Is 2020 going to be the year you finally ask out your crush? Answer YES or NO below and tell me WHY!
@imnotahacker369
@imnotahacker369 4 года назад
I think I will build up the confidence to ask my crush out this year, I have been seeing them in other places besides school so it’s like a chance to get to know them. But sadly we don’t really talk so that’s the struggle.
@maxisbest2175
@maxisbest2175 4 года назад
Hi josh my name is max.You came to my school for career day and I was the one with the blue soccer shirt I subed and liked
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
@@maxisbest2175 hey Max! It was great meeting you today
@TJson206
@TJson206 4 года назад
Same
@itsmeyaboy
@itsmeyaboy 4 года назад
Yes. We've built an amazing friendship and I'm ready. She's got a boyfriend right now, but one of my 2020 goals is to take one of my friendships to the next level. Update: Bye Bye boyfriend
@bisexualrandomness4731
@bisexualrandomness4731 4 года назад
Get drafted into WW3 with them and hope you're in the same platoon lmao
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
I'll be right along side you soldier!
@bisexualrandomness4731
@bisexualrandomness4731 4 года назад
The Josh Speaks Haha thanks for the response! I’m a huge fan of your videos, I watch them a lot on my personal account. They’ve helped me a lot. Keep up the good work!
@woke_scarred6458
@woke_scarred6458 4 года назад
“2020 is the year that your going to ask out your crush” **dont do that, dont give me hope**
@Jere_xK
@Jere_xK 4 года назад
K
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Its time. No more putting it off!
@rexxe001
@rexxe001 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks its from end game avengers
@woke_scarred6458
@woke_scarred6458 4 года назад
The Josh Speaks i know im joking but i probably wont do it anyway
@mcplatterpig
@mcplatterpig 3 года назад
I am a social retard by the time I worked up the balls to ask her she left the fucking class
@plantsvs.cringe7666
@plantsvs.cringe7666 4 года назад
I want to ask out my crush, but I have social anxiety, and she knows that. How do I do it without it coming of weird or strange?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey I think the key is to focus on small steps. Try to make eye contact, smile and say hello when you see your crush. The more you can do that and master those steps the easier it will be for you to lead into conversations.
@plantsvs.cringe7666
@plantsvs.cringe7666 4 года назад
The Josh Speaks thank you
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 4 года назад
It reminds me of a red pill community post
@georgebatty4862
@georgebatty4862 4 года назад
Plants Vs. Cringe I feel the same why I guess I’m just so scared of being told no and then it becomes awkward between us but no matter what happens I would still like to be friends with her
@parkerreese1315
@parkerreese1315 4 года назад
My tip I’m not very wise in this area like josh but just be straight up with her say this is hard for me to tell you because of my anxiety but I like you and want to be with you Maybe don’t but that’s what I would attempt to do
@gregweeks4786
@gregweeks4786 4 года назад
I’ll probably end up getting drafted before I ask my crush out 🤣
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
You got a lot of time before then, ask her out TODAY!
@Luke.Willey
@Luke.Willey 4 года назад
Did you do it?
@gregweeks4786
@gregweeks4786 4 года назад
Luke Willey nope 🤣, got drafted. Jk, but this corona thing isn’t helping, thank u for asking.
@GreatMasterGaming
@GreatMasterGaming 4 года назад
I'll definitely be making my move this year, and I hope it goes well. Hopefully by valentines day!
@GreatMasterGaming
@GreatMasterGaming 4 года назад
Ok, fast forward to now, friend zoned so Oof
@Ninohot22
@Ninohot22 4 года назад
If only I learned this my previous semester of college! These new ideas are great Josh, I will test them when class start going up again👍🏾
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Get it man, you can do it!
@herc5639
@herc5639 4 года назад
This guy was meant to be in an American pie movie
@StoicthoughtsbyMatt
@StoicthoughtsbyMatt 4 года назад
That's right Josh, no friendzone for us in 2020🗣
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Nope, you're gonna make your intentions clear and go after what you want!
@Chokeala
@Chokeala 4 года назад
You're the most underated speaking channel out there. You should really start some kind of podcast or anything.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
BeSomebodyGreat.com... coming soon!
@Donutminer-jd9fn
@Donutminer-jd9fn 4 года назад
Hi I think you’re very underrated you help me get a girlfriend Thank you so much
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Thanks man, I'm happy I can be helpful in some way
@oztheguy5880
@oztheguy5880 3 года назад
Congratulations m8
@mobileswayyt
@mobileswayyt 4 года назад
Dude I m serious like I have a crush and I was pretty confident but when I made my self feel that I like her then I get nervous just think like they r like other normal girls then u will be more confident.....trust me like now I like....persuaded my self that I like her......ok once she started to look at me so much....I was like confident and I ignored them and got busy in my own life but when I started looking at her like she stopped looking at me and just hoped that I look at her.....ok so now learn one thing that first 1. Get bust in ur own life 2.ignore them (Make them chase you) 3.if u r in school like me then just participate in events so more people will know about u so u get a bit better reputation 4.Well.....just wait maybe it's not the right time like at my age (14) we should give love to our family 5.Give respect to girls ....... That's it and you r on fire brothers......I m even a kid like and dont be too desperate like me cause I lost 2 girls like this and today I realized my mistakes plz take care of ur family.....ur parents love u more than any one😢....well that's it for me live ya brothers
@LUXXRAMPAGE
@LUXXRAMPAGE 4 года назад
I’ve been subscribed to u since 2013-14 my freshman year of high school or sophomore, but man I’m glad u still upload lol
@shredbacca
@shredbacca 4 года назад
Last night i had a dream of my crush telling me that i should ask her out and i never usually remember my dreams this one i can't forget it so ima ask her next time i see her
@prod.sah1l
@prod.sah1l 3 года назад
Update?
@nikolai5453
@nikolai5453 4 года назад
Perfect timing man! I'am going to ask her out tmrw 🤩🤳
@aakashlearnstocook8408
@aakashlearnstocook8408 4 года назад
Welp maybe my new year's resolution might have a chance now
@RahulGupta-yo7se
@RahulGupta-yo7se 4 года назад
Thanks bro...... Your tips do work
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Awesome, I'm happy they are helpful Rahul
@IsaacSpree123
@IsaacSpree123 4 года назад
You made this sound easy, trust me your a teenager in 2020 its tough man
@geo-lite69
@geo-lite69 4 года назад
This is my plan 1. Wake up 2. Go to school 3. Get her number 4. Ask her out But it really happens 2 then 3 then 4 then 1
@wilsonr3turns461
@wilsonr3turns461 4 года назад
Lol so true
@TheNameIsCargo
@TheNameIsCargo 4 года назад
4:46 i wouldnt mind having a strong friendship...
@itsmeyaboy
@itsmeyaboy 4 года назад
Which one of you single Pringles disliked this god of a video?
@piarizzosebastianmiobonifa1369
@piarizzosebastianmiobonifa1369 3 года назад
Thanks so much! This really helps!
@ArmandoTheHost
@ArmandoTheHost 4 года назад
The school year is about to end and I know my crush good and still didn’t ask her out, but when I approach her in the hallways I say hi and walk next to her. The thing is that I have no interesting topic to talk about and make her more interested in me.
@teaganthedashman
@teaganthedashman 4 года назад
Yes it is very different from last year :(
@may-jq6rv
@may-jq6rv 3 года назад
I ruined my entire life before this, I shit my pants and came each time I came near a girl, I was terrified, now, I am confident to ask out my crush, thank you.
@reeseexplains8935
@reeseexplains8935 4 года назад
0:04 not anymore thanks to the coronavirus
@williamdean5933
@williamdean5933 4 года назад
Hey josh, at my school I had some crush’s but none of them liked me.. and the last one I had, sometimes and dark purple hair and sometimes red. She was EXTREMELY beautiful and such a hottie. I had such a big crush on her.. sense late September. And she was in my friends class because I never had a class with her, my friend knew her and he was gonna talk to her for me and text her and let her text me. I stayed positive and happy and didn’t wanna believe she had a boyfriend. But.. 3 weeks ago, almost a month she texted my friend and she said she had a boyfriend. When he told me she said that my heart started to beat so fast I couldn’t even make a face. I was so depressed I thought I was never gonna find a girlfriend and all of that she had a boyfriend. It sucked so bad, I was depressed for a while. Luckily I had my friend and all my other friends who helped me get over her so fast, with that being said your fans josh the insta group you made, after the live I met new friends from there and some of them helped me get over her and move on. And I finally have josh.. but.. she was the last crush I had that I just didn’t have a chance with. Now, I’m done chasing are looking for a beautiful girlfriend. I’m just gonna focus on school and fam and friends and playing video games. And I do still want a girlfriend, but I’m leaving that up to God and let him know when the right ladie will come into my life that’s the love of my life and she’s the most beautiful girl in the world, and that understands me the most and wants me for me. Only time well tell I guess.
@alanOHALAN
@alanOHALAN 4 года назад
you just have to go through a few experience like that to understand how to handle girls. It is a skill that you have to learn by trial and error.
@williamdean5933
@williamdean5933 4 года назад
YPS 21 So I shouldn’t trust in him? But I’m to shy to talk to girls and I just.. idk.
@williamdean5933
@williamdean5933 4 года назад
alanOHALAN I’ve had girls I’ve liked a long time about but it just sucks
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey William, sorry to hear that things didn't work out for you. I think taking time to refocus your priorities makes sense. When it comes to finding a girl that could be your girlfriend, I think a big part of it might just come down to acting in the moment. If you see a girl you like, push yourself to talk to her rather than deliberating over it or romanticizing how it should go in your head. Sometimes it's when you take chances and go with the flow that you end up in situations you would have never expected.
@williamdean5933
@williamdean5933 4 года назад
The Josh Speaks Thanks for the advise Josh, but talking to a girl is to hard for me.. I seen videos all over the place on how to stop being shy and how to talk to girls from your videos but I just can’t do it. It’s just to hard for me I’ve even practiced, I wish I wasn’t shy. I want a girlfriend that makes the first move and get her friends to talk to me about her. I know that sounds weird that guys are supposed to make the first move but if I talk to a girl that I like, girls don’t usually like me and I’m afraid she would have a boyfriend. And get her boyfriend to beat me up, reason why is cause some girls that I liked had a boyfriend. I just give up hope. I would leave it up to god and all but it’s just finding a girlfriend hasn’t been the best witch is why I’m gonna focus on more important stuff. And someone said that if I leave it up to God for the right time to send me the right one I’m gonna be alone forever and I don’t want that, I hope that’s not true..
@tekof4358
@tekof4358 4 года назад
can't talk to my crush cuz I'm shy and nervous but I'm popular and she's popular too. Pls give me any thing I want to get my shyness away Also I'll update you on what's going on
@Redst0neBoy
@Redst0neBoy 3 года назад
What do i do if she broke her phone which i used to talk to her on and the only way to contact her is through her big sister who i talk to. How do i ask her out cuz she knows she likes me and she likes me back
@typicalfan9877
@typicalfan9877 4 года назад
Great tips keep up the good work
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Thanks, I hope it was helpful!
@jonathansay3r156
@jonathansay3r156 4 года назад
Hey josh, how am I meant to ask my crush out I’d I am only young and I have parents.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey I have a few videos on talking to your parents about that and getting their permission. I would recommend checking those videos out.
@jonathansay3r156
@jonathansay3r156 4 года назад
The Josh Speaks thanks heaps
@lightningmcqueen3467
@lightningmcqueen3467 4 года назад
The Josh Speaks what do I do when my crush and best friend get together help 💔
@charliemccahill2304
@charliemccahill2304 4 года назад
L͓̽i͓̽g͓̽h͓̽t͓̽n͓̽i͓̽n͓̽g͓̽ M͓̽c͓̽Q͓̽u͓̽e͓̽e͓̽n͓̽ just let them do whatever they want. You can’t change what they want. You will find someone else bro ✌️
@prod.sah1l
@prod.sah1l 3 года назад
@@lightningmcqueen3467 Damn that’s worst case scenario good luck fam find a new girl I’m sure u will find one 👍
@stryderking5291
@stryderking5291 4 года назад
I need help I want to ask her out, she already knows that I like her but doesn't talk about it I only found out because her friend told me that she heard and told her. My friend also likes her and I don't have a phone to talk to her online.
@pifflevoid1633
@pifflevoid1633 4 года назад
I will being asking out my crush soon wish me luck
@hero_kid6996
@hero_kid6996 4 года назад
I’ve been friends with my crush since the beginning of my fifth grade year because it was the first time I met her and I didn’t start liking her until I learned more about her and we got along better
@hamishkay3010
@hamishkay3010 4 года назад
This video will be perfect for me I'm hoping to be in a relationship with a girl
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Awesome Hamish, let 2020 be your year!
@yxnicolyx1415
@yxnicolyx1415 4 года назад
Ye but what if she doesn't have my number and my crunch doesn't have a phone and I'm nervous
@not_hungry2563
@not_hungry2563 4 года назад
Hi
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey!
@mr.bowl1469
@mr.bowl1469 4 года назад
Hey Josh! I’m in middle school and i want to ask out my crush, but I’m wondering how i should do it. Can you make a video like this but for middle school?
@RayRay-mx2kn
@RayRay-mx2kn 4 года назад
I have no one to talk to about my crush so if any one cares, (we're both girls, 17 years old)💛💛💛💛: Okay so here's what happened, I guess I was dropping too many hints and being too awkward around her since she figured it out herself.. I thought she might like me back and that I had a chance (I probably just misunderstood all the mix signals) first of all I live in a very strict Muslim country and most are homophobic, but I'm out to her and few other friends as well and they all accept me, she told me she doesn't care about gender and it doesn't matter to her and she could fall in love with anyone. I was really happy and excited to actually confess my feelings! We don't have classes together but we're on the same bus and it's a half an hour ride. One day we're in the bus with my our other friend that knows I like my crush, and she was being all giggly and jokingly "shipping us together" my crush tried to ignore what's happening or just laugh along but she ended up just yelling at me in the bus so loud and told me to never talk to her again. I was so shocked and tried to ask her why she got so mad but she completely refused to talk to me.. I was so hurt that me liking her made her that mad. After few days I try to talk to her again in school, I ask her if we could talk and she yells at me from the top of her lungs to so stay away from her. I didn't say a single thing and stepped away and went to the school bathroom where I cried so hard and had a massive panic attack by myself.. it was painful. Anyways few days pass and I avoid her cause I'm so hurt and scared from her but I guess she feels bad and tries to joke around with me or play cool like nothing happened but then she realized how hurt I am and came to apologize, she said sorry for yelling and that she knew since long time that I liked her but it's okay now and I should just forget about it. Until this day I don't know why she got so so mad at me for liking her and I didn't get the closure I want.. I still really admire her even after what happened. Now we don't sit together in the bus ride anymore and she is distant and I'm so awkward around her. She told me before that she hates relationships and that she fears them, she said that even if she likes someone she will reject them if they like her back. I'm so hurt and confused and I for some reason still don't want to move on and I have hope for her to like me back:( I just want some advice or something😭😭 Sorry that this is really long and thanks if you read it all
@snowyowlrule4594
@snowyowlrule4594 4 года назад
Hey Josh, I truly enjoy every single one of your videos. I’m in this current weird situation in which my crush likes me, but we are both too scared to further things. We have had individual conversations in person, but I need to meet her friends. Can you help me with meeting her friends?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey if you're too scared to take it to the next step, meeting her friends might help ease that nervousness a bit but ultimately you're gonna have to work on being comfortable around one another. This video will help you find it easier to talk to your crush and her friends together: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ibQOT06vHFM.html
@snowyowlrule4594
@snowyowlrule4594 4 года назад
Thank you!
@ManutdLucki
@ManutdLucki 4 года назад
Can I have some help, I gave my crush a nickname a few years back and she took it the wrong way, and she still hates me I think, I really want her but don't know how to do it...
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
I think the first step is to start interacting with her as if you two are friends again. If she still feels weird about it, let her know you are sorry about it and that you want to win her trust over again.
@highschooltime133
@highschooltime133 4 года назад
What do you do when your crush used to like you but you were too dense to realize her feelings and ended up liking eachother at the wrong time
@Darlingdiyana
@Darlingdiyana 4 года назад
I really like someone I barely know. dunno what should I do. do I need to ask him out? please help me
@Mrcjxd1
@Mrcjxd1 4 года назад
Awesome tipppp
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Thanks CJ
@MichaelJackson647
@MichaelJackson647 4 года назад
Are group chats on social media platforms the only way to go nowadays? I have never really talked to my crush in person, but we used to be in a Snap group together if that counts.
@Ghostedwithdashiii
@Ghostedwithdashiii 4 года назад
Thank you josh❤❤
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
No problem, I hope this video was helpful
@Ghostedwithdashiii
@Ghostedwithdashiii 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks it was, cheers👍
@kevinnwajiaku9270
@kevinnwajiaku9270 4 года назад
2020 is gonna be the year where we're all stuck in quarantine for half a year 😭
@Alt_eri
@Alt_eri 4 года назад
here is how last time went: me: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE--dGEieyuTu0.html me: ples reply crush: "send this to your crush without context" crush: wh- me: . me: did i get rejected or what crush: yeah you did. crush: stfu me: fuck but now that i have learned this epic facts i can surely ask him next year
@sleepingbagmanstudios489
@sleepingbagmanstudios489 4 года назад
Here is a tip, listen to 7 nation army before hand
@BlueRaja
@BlueRaja 4 года назад
Ok but what if my crush is a moderately famous motivational speaker on RU-vid?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Ask him to play smash bros and watch Scrubs with you
@BlueRaja
@BlueRaja 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks It worked, Tony Robbins said he loves me
@luvvv.elijah339
@luvvv.elijah339 4 года назад
I'm asking out my crush tomorrow need help man and thanks for everything.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Awesome man, now is the time to do it! Check out the playlist I have listed in the video description to learn more about how to do that.
@luvvv.elijah339
@luvvv.elijah339 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks alright thanks man.
@etog9715
@etog9715 3 года назад
So, how did it go man?
@vojo9374
@vojo9374 4 года назад
Hey josh I need your help. I told my crush i like her but she said that she dont know what to say to me. And from there she started acting weird. And after a week she still dont know. What should i do?? Thakns for answer
@kebabremover6925
@kebabremover6925 4 года назад
Yo I wanna ask my crush out but I am a bit shy. What should I do? What if she says no? We are In the same class and its gonna be awkward as anything. She has smiled at me before.... what should I do?
@thomasgoodwin3930
@thomasgoodwin3930 4 года назад
i'm going for it this year but first i'm going to ask for her number so i can get the feel of what's its like to ask her out
@ItsNotShawn
@ItsNotShawn 4 года назад
This girl I like is one the cutest girls I’ve ever seen and plus she’s a baller🏀 that means she is popular like how would a guy ask her out, she barely knows who I am I think I’m gonna ask her out next year
@doomguy3146
@doomguy3146 4 года назад
Try it soon I will Given me help you have
@trulyscope7474
@trulyscope7474 3 года назад
We both like each other I just don’t know how to say it
@RitaHicks-yv2fu
@RitaHicks-yv2fu 4 года назад
2020
@rexxe001
@rexxe001 4 года назад
No I'll wait
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
What are you hoping will happen between now and the time you ask them out?
@rexxe001
@rexxe001 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks Josh um I feel like I want the girl to ask me out
@nikos4677
@nikos4677 3 года назад
This video didnt age well....
@solyalv4533
@solyalv4533 4 года назад
Damn, this is actually very inspiring
@dylanbelot
@dylanbelot 4 года назад
Hey bro I am in a pickle I wanna ask out my crush but she is way out of my league and she is really not into me I need help please
@gshsenpai6446
@gshsenpai6446 3 года назад
Is asking her to study w me hw alone Count as asking her out? She said yes but she was busy so we canceled it
@lashedcheetah1924
@lashedcheetah1924 4 года назад
Hey josh, hope u remember me. This is my new account (same name) and pretty soon I'm gonna start posting again once I get my life where I want it to be.
@thebackyardfarmer7960
@thebackyardfarmer7960 4 года назад
Hey Josh so I have a crush on a girl but she knows me like an annoying kid so I dont know what to do I am 12 she is 12 to she does not have social media that I have PLS HELP
@surgegamingmc6821
@surgegamingmc6821 4 года назад
I'm in grade 9 I want to ask out my crush her name is Taylor but I'm not sure how to do it she is in my class and I think that I am way way out of here league I want to ask her out but i just don't know how to
@revupofficial
@revupofficial 4 года назад
Hey josh what if she doesn't have social media
@yamahaguy1732
@yamahaguy1732 3 года назад
For me it ain’t even rejection it’s just that I feel like it would be awkward af after she says no seeing her around I really need to get over that
@ted772
@ted772 3 года назад
Same cuz she is in my class💀💀
@trihxx
@trihxx 4 года назад
Guys I like this girl but I moved away at the end of 6th grade. I'm in 8th grade now but we text sometimes. when I was there she used put her feet in my chair , push my chair and playful punch me. But I don't want to ruin our friendship if she said no. SOMEBODY HELP ME PLZZ
@marshaygilker4130
@marshaygilker4130 4 года назад
I luv this video ,well videos that has to with crush tips and advice💓 Hey ! josh , what adivce would you give to me ,like someone who is 2 yrs older than you and they like you and want to have relationship with you ,but you don't want to have relationship with them,so what I'm asking is what the proper way to tell someone your not interested in them with out hurting there feelings ?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
I totally get where you're coming from, I made this video all about how to reject someone nicely which might be helpful: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8HfrXHLbWPk.html
@marshaygilker4130
@marshaygilker4130 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks thank you 😊this helped alot
@gunningyoudown3466
@gunningyoudown3466 4 года назад
So here is the situation bro... There is a girl in my class...who I have a crush on...I sat behind her one day and she just suddenly started to ask me questions...we talked a little. ...I cracked a lame joke ...she laughed... Then one day got late to the class and had to sit a few benches behind ....i was not able to take my eyes off of her cause she was looking gorgeous that day....and then the unthinkable happened she caught me staring at ....her...... suprising thing was that she smirked a bit.... After the class was over she came just beside me while we were going out the corridor... Even though she could have waited more for everyone to go out of the classroom...so that there would be no rush but she actually moved quickly to walk beside me.......so what should I do man....or is it just a false alarm...?
@georgeruf2596
@georgeruf2596 4 года назад
Hey josh, I think I made my crush irritated and now she’s leaving me on open a lot. Long story short I may have overestimated the quality of the friendship and moved too fast. It’s like those bounty commercials where I thought that our friendship was like a bounty paper towel when really it was the off brand and didn’t pick everything up over text because we go to different schools. I think I overwhelmed her and it got awkward, what do i do?
@georgeruf2596
@georgeruf2596 4 года назад
YPS 21 I guess, never really thought about it that way. But she dropped signs and then kinda just cut me out. Idk what that means
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
It's possible that you played it too safe from the start. This video breaks down the mistake all guys in the friend zone make and how to avoid it for next time: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-w-Mn0zqolrQ.html
@Nicholas-I
@Nicholas-I 3 года назад
I actually feel so much pain because I know I probly will never do it
@aidanruiz4796
@aidanruiz4796 4 года назад
Hey josh, we have a school dance coming up in a month and I wanna ask out my crush but I don't know exactly how to ask her, what do I do?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey I made this video all about asking a girl to Homecoming but it also works for school dances as well: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-nV6slJDfHOE.html
@Diego-ye2os
@Diego-ye2os 4 года назад
just say: i love you bitch, and i aint never gonna stop loving you, biiiitch
@Nice-dg6zy
@Nice-dg6zy 3 года назад
How do I get her number? Im really bad with conversations.
@blakedgreat6315
@blakedgreat6315 4 года назад
My crush doesn't know who I am, pls send a link on how my crush will notice me
@khuranaishaan5
@khuranaishaan5 4 года назад
More like "How to go out and FIND a crush in 2020"
@JesusChrist-wp5pj
@JesusChrist-wp5pj 4 года назад
What do I do if she says "idk"
@mcplatterpig
@mcplatterpig 3 года назад
This exploit has been patched
@marinos1682
@marinos1682 4 года назад
I like this girl from my class a lot we have a lot of things in common she is love of my Life, but i am scared to tell her i dont know how wil she react
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey I made this video all about how to start up a conversation with a girl in your class which might be helpful: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-LvcuBybnMnI.html
@marinos1682
@marinos1682 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks tnx soo much
@kingkal1105
@kingkal1105 3 года назад
It’s been 3 years I’m still scared
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 4 года назад
It's another reminder that the burden of asking someone out first normally falls on the guys shoulders
@froku3013
@froku3013 4 года назад
Hey Mr. Josh Iran just retaliated... I’m getting more and more scared please help
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
It's scary, I know exactly how you feel. The best thing you can do is to stay close to your family members, stay aware of what's going on and be open and honest about how you feel.
@froku3013
@froku3013 4 года назад
The Josh Speaks Yeah, it’s not gonna be a world war Im happy about that now... We all know how Trump is... He’ll strike Iran back.
@TheWilburDog
@TheWilburDog 4 года назад
I live in Canada so it’s not really something that is a danger to us Canadians, but it’s still a concern.
@stephensiordia6439
@stephensiordia6439 4 года назад
11 year old tryna ask his crush out on Valentine's
@eternallyrainbow4186
@eternallyrainbow4186 3 года назад
me in December be like: Maybe not 2020
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 3 года назад
haha don't worry, I'm going to make a 2021 version in January.
@l0st_e4rth
@l0st_e4rth 4 года назад
Hmm it’s seems this message can’t be viewed 🤔
@dixoncider1526
@dixoncider1526 4 года назад
My crush is 22 and I'm 20 we're very flirty at times so I'll take the plunge and ask her out tomorrow ,😂
@williamdean5933
@williamdean5933 4 года назад
Liam Parker Come back to the comment section tomorrow and let us know how it went :)
@Idktommy24
@Idktommy24 4 года назад
William Dean ^
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Awesome, good luck!
@williamdean5933
@williamdean5933 4 года назад
gottnext Lol thanks for letting me see that spelling mistake
@dixoncider1526
@dixoncider1526 4 года назад
UPDATE: She wants to go out on a date she said that she likes me but thought I was put off for being 2 years younger 💪💪
@joker-mz4pr
@joker-mz4pr 4 года назад
I have a crush but I have strick parents so I can't tack her out
@demarcustv5661
@demarcustv5661 4 года назад
My crush is dry 🥺 just be responding with hey , nun , lol HELP
@Diego-ye2os
@Diego-ye2os 4 года назад
when you dont know anything about your crush or even their last name or what social media they use
@kylekohlstedt
@kylekohlstedt 4 года назад
Hey Josh, I am a Junior in HS who has had a crush on this girl since 8th grade. Then one of my friends started dating her last year and they broke up in early november. My birthday is in about two weeks, and then Valentines day rolls around, and then a week later i am going to Germany and then prom is right after that. How do I ask her without it seeming cliche or desperate?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey Kyle, don't worry about anything being cliche. People ask other people all ALL the time, no matter what time of the year it is. I think the best thing you can do is to reintroduce yourself to her in a way that she can see that you've changed since you last interacted with her. This video breaks that idea down a little more: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-DOQFVQZ5vV8.html
@plzno6266
@plzno6266 4 года назад
I got rejected by a girl (I'll call her A) after a fist date early in the school year. I went to homecoming with her sister (as a friend), A was obsessed with me getting a sign for her and wanted to help, and got upset when I wasn't with her sister during the dance that much. Now she stares at me weirdly (my dad confirmed that I wasn't mistaken with that one), and she'll butt it to my conversations annoyingly. Eventually I blocked A from everything, but she still acted stalker-ish. A even knew I blocked her, but told her sister to text me and say she saw me at work. Is she actually interested or is she attention hungry?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
It sounds to me like she might be a little too eager for your attention here. I think the real question is are you interested in her? If you are, try striking up a conversation with her again and see where things go. If you're not though, it might make sense to reach out to her and let her know the boundaries you want to set by not having her or her sister contact you.
@plzno6266
@plzno6266 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks thanks, I'll see how it goes
@plzno6266
@plzno6266 4 года назад
@@TheJoshSpeaks I tried talking to her, she seemed more chilled out than usual. I'm guessing this means she just wanted the attention
@thechurchofshigechivariety9873
@thechurchofshigechivariety9873 4 года назад
Hey josh, this is the second time that I’ve commented this, but I’m in the 8th grade and I want to know your opinion on this. Me and my crush have been friends for 3 years now, and we’ve always been really close, and recently, she has been showing signs of liking me, such as, laughing at all of my jokes, being around me any chance she gets, always trying to make me happy, Sharing chocolates with me,(chocolate kisses) she is literally the love of my life and I just want to know if you think she likes me too, I’m going to confess on Monday, but what should I say?, should I say.....would you be my girlfriend, or something else, pls help your my only hope. Again second time saying this, but please help me
@MichaelJackson647
@MichaelJackson647 4 года назад
We have each other on Snapchat and Instagram, but we never talk. We are sophomores at Penn State, and we are starting back on Monday for the Spring semester. I don’t think we have any classes together again this semester, like we did last semester but I have a class with at least one person, I know she is friends with. We have at least one mutual friend that I know of, but I don’t know how to bring it up in a conversation. Lastly, she is following me and like two of my friends on Instagram, do you think that it means anything?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
Hey, it's hard to say her following you means something. Maybe the best thing to do would be to be more interactive with things that she posts which can lead to you DMing her or talking to her about it. I go into more detail about sliding into DMs in this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-WAyPrbxz-Dg.html
@romic2141
@romic2141 4 года назад
What if you don't know the language she speaks good enough
@dylanbelot
@dylanbelot 4 года назад
I think ima ask her out tho
@tylerhunt8425
@tylerhunt8425 4 года назад
So, my crush asked me the other day "do you think I'm pretty" out of no where, I said yes... Because I do... I then went to RU-vid and watched a video. Then I got another dm from her saying she thinks I'm cute.... So wtf does this mean 😂😂
@HDBD10
@HDBD10 4 года назад
Can you give me a line I should say when asking her out. Appreciate it man
@DashLashBoy
@DashLashBoy 4 года назад
Damn bruh, 2019 version got patched?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад
haha yep!
@eternallyrainbow4186
@eternallyrainbow4186 3 года назад
people who dont know your crushes socials I I v
Далее
How To Flirt with Your Crush (In High School)
6:45
Просмотров 94 тыс.
When Is The RIGHT TIME To Ask Out Your Crush?
5:50
Просмотров 14 тыс.
10 Ways to Look Attractive AF (it takes 30-seconds)
15:11
I Told My Crush I Like Them, What Do I Do Now?!
5:16
Просмотров 106 тыс.
5 Tips For Getting Your Crush To Warm Up To You
5:23
How To Have The PERFECT First Date
6:34
Просмотров 24 тыс.
How To Make People Feel Incredible Around You
14:11