I know this sounds crazy but in 2019 you were talking about the Tower of Babel and Jesus and Humanity and MBTI and I decided to really read my Bible and pray, Jesus saved me and I was baptized by the Holy Spirit thank you for being intellectually honest when it was needed
Hi Chase , the idea of finding a compatible partner based on psychology is very appealing to me so i'll definetely watch , thank you so much for your efforts ! PS. You're looking great !
Surely our childhoods influence what would be the most compatible mate for us? For instance, as an ISTP, I find INFP's incredibly attractive and actually always have, since childhood. Your video on the ISTP INFP relationship made so much sense when it talked about the unconscious drives of each participant and the way the relationship is characterised.
Now it is true that we (INTP’s) care about acceptability, and I will also add that what we fear the most is rejection. We can handle any kind of criticism, but the moment you reject me, -it will be very painful.
i agree 1000% even tho it's hard to do so sometimes but from my little experience in life, even if i changed myself to be what others wanted me to be, i will feel suffocated, tired and no one would like me still .. so i t's like what is the point of changing myself to be a lie ( it's still something difficult to be yourself but this video is a reminder of not giving up on trying to be one : ) )
As an ISFP woman I have found my golden pair and we both follow christian faith. Bc of that we are naturally in our masculine and feminine, I respect and he loves and its really easy and feels like a safe place :) but knowing myself and him through CSJ has also helped a lot so thank you!
Don't you get afraid around him? Like I get afraid of esfjs as an isfp woman because I can read them and they can read me really well, in a point where I feel unsafe, and they don't seem to reveal that, so they can use me anytime they want, that's how I see it.
I'm happy for you. True, when following Gods guidelines(4 he knows what's best) our relationships benefit and will work. I (ISFP) have 3 ESFJ friends in my life. 1 is a male, but my fear with this golden pair is the Covert contracting, I was experiencing this with my ESFJ(F) friends but I didn't have the definition for it until CSJ channel. I love them to death as friends, but I'm not attracted to that part, it's very suble with one and overt with the other because of trauma. I think its the lack of family boundaries & putting them on me. That's my issue with one. Sorry for the rant.
In all honesty is that if I date a guy that I am attracted to, and wind up finding out that he has slept with a multiple amount of women, I will refuse to get into a serious relationship with him -let alone choose him as a life long partner.
Hate to break it to you but INTP are now his favourites to cop it, I was one of the Fi child god complex people and it is horrible he smites his fans like this, my condolences to you
@@sylviaowega3839 with that being said I could probably hold off from the jokes, my ENFP subconcious/Fi child gen y SDSF humorous approach was pretty confronting for them during the times where he would unironically call himself a street psychologist but people like me would want to make a show of it instead of letting him articulate what he needed to about leadership, etc. He goes alright for an unscripted show. I'd seriously like to see a collab with psych2go
@@lenavbiz thats nice to know, because women fill up most gyms in scantilly clad outfits over here in australia, it just seems like the most unlikely place to score lol
I like this video PS. you could show some respect to your audience. Helping them gives you meaning in life. Also in the past 3-ish years you seem to have been focusing on the negative side of things too much. Maybe listen to The Power of Now from Eckhart Tolle, focusing on intuitive interpretation of his analogies. I see "pain body" in you. Getting rid of my "pain body" made me become more peaceful.
The first thing I noticed when the stream began was, CSJ is looking attractive, like the style keep it simple and comfortable it's great 👍🏼 Be your best self and you'll look attractive! Thanks once again for the very informative content 👍🏼 👍🏼
I can see you tap into something truly divine when you make these videos. You’ve put a lot of thought into all of it. I appreciate your perspectives and ideas. -INFP
I hope a video or playlist comes out just dedicated to finding these types because unless I'm just going through the internet I'm not gonna make much use of the information about certain types if I can't find them or run into them.
Terminology Quadra = the types with the same top 4 functions Temple = Types with same 4 sides of the mind Golden pair is when you match with the type that each others cognitive functions interact with each other in the same order Silver pair is the pair with the second most alignment Bronze Pair is the most successful as it allows both people to be Sub-conscious Developed Unconscious Focused which means they don't block each other out of their unconscious like the silver pair might do (silver pair is known for one or both being SD SF) and dont have the highs and lows of the Golden Pair, making the Bronze Pair the Natural Pair
@@sylviaowega3839 INextravertedTintrovetedP For social compatibility: ENiTeJ is the Golden Pair INiTeJ is the Silver Pair ESeFiP is the Bronze Pair Then ISFP, ENFJ, INFJ, ESTP, ISTP, ENFP, INFP, ESTJ, ISTJ, ESFJ, ISFJ, ENTP, INTP For Romantic compatibility: 1. ENTJ 2. ENFJ (Pedagogue which means one is more experienced and older than the other-Highest sexual compatibility) 3. ESFP - Bronze Pair/Natural pair which encourages the INTP to be SDUF formerly known as ENTJ focused 4. The silver pair INTJ 5. The benefactor INFJ (Can't be long term monogamous unless high emotional maturity) 6. The Intrigue ESTP (Can't be long term monogamous unless high emotional maturity) 7. The superego ISFP 8. The Kindred ISTP (Can't be long term monogamous unless high emotional but also is toxic due to having zero emotional compatibility)
@@sylviaowega3839social compatibility it is Gold ENTJ, Silver INTJ, Bronze ESFP Romantic Compatibility it is 1. ENTJ has highs and lows 2. ENFJ pedagogical where one is more skilled and older than the other 3. Natural pair ESFP
Bronze Pair is the most successful as it allows both people to be Sub-conscious Developed Unconscious Focused Why do you say sduf? Bronze pair have to have a particular octagram ( for example one has to be udsf and the other sdsf or the one should be Uduf and the other sduf). Also what octagram should silver pair have and why do they block the sub focus of the other?
@@idiotslife8508 I understand what you are trying to say, but of what I learned in therapy is that the bronze pairs are actually the dual pairs, which is essentially the conflict ones. The reason for that is that this so called “opposites attracts” is a myths, and has frequently culminated into a disastrous relationships. What frequently happens is that people may incidentally become attracted, or intrigued by there opposites types, because they are strong in areas in which they are weak in, but soon the dual type becomes very exhausting and annoying resulting in resentment.
Btw, don’t know any xNTP whom is obese. The only overweight INTP that I knew was partially physically handicapped and was stuck using a wheel chair for more than half of his time
Ugh as an INTP woman I don't play RPG games, I've never personally tried it but seeing my ex play those I just can't muster the interest. I have philosophical/spiritual interests, that's why I met an INFP. Currently into developing my ENTJ unconscious to build a business and I'm aiming to work less as an end goal. Now would I meet NTJs if I enter the entrepreneurial space? Cool vid btw, closer to self acceptance I've ever been at 30 and been getting compliments for the classic "you're being yourself" reason.
Zherka is an ENTP who loves to do petty debates and is edgy for no reason. Funny he got a mention people just want to see a petty battle between two ENTPs. I am a big believer In MBTI compatibility, as it’s not a numbers game for me knowing my golden/silver pairs and this video is the first time I heard to be yourself you have to know yourself outside of myself so kudos for that.
It's worth mentioning Matthew 10:39 Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it. Because if you put too much into MBTI you can lose everything
I have an enfp guy friend who used to be very loved by our friend group and he is a good guy. But lately people have been calling him a dog and a player and unethical bc of how he is treating girls. I don't think he is doing it with mal intent I think he likes having options and isn't ready to make a choice. He has a big heart lol. I'm afraid that people labelling him in that negative way will just make it worse. He used to be so pure and fun and humble. Idk how to help and I know I can't control his actions. Any advice though? (I am one of the girls being "played)
If he’s not acting like a good guy, he’s not a good guy. Also, he’s a grown man capable of making mature decisions. He knows what he’s going. He played you once; unless you block and delete him, he’ll play you again.
@@EndOfAllThings NJ and SP can do whatever they want in the dating field. But NPs are either criticized or ridiculed for being losers when they don't have women. Or for being manipulators and bad people when they have .It is always bad because they are not real men with this Si-Ne
Maybe act high value and walk away? people attracted to xnfps need to understand that just because someone has a "big heart" doesn't stop them from being bad people. Stupid actions can lead to you becoming evil. Let's not forget their vice is being depraved, that doesn't necessarily mean they aren't going to be nice. It just means they can leverage all the charm in the world to get what they want from you. There's no "I can fix him" here are you a teenager? otherwise there's just no excuse for acting like this. You are being low value. There's no bigger monster than a manchild sweety. That's what most of these men are, ones who have a "big heart" but they are just so goddamn pure that the concept of responsibility and making choices is lost upon them.
@@Arcadius-tr8bmboohoo boohoo. noone fucking said that lmao WHERE? Cuz I'll tell you, as a NJ i feel like NPs get off the hook a lot more than us. So maybe it's not true right? maybe everyone has feelings and feels offended when called out. And this is not even remotely a good excuse for why he should act like this.
Grow a spine. Someone having a good heart outside of one part of life doesnt stop them from doing stupid/irresponsible things to others... eventually MAKING them bad people. Not cuz they have a bad heart, but because they're irresponsible. Have some respect for yourself. You wanna end up years down the road asking yourself "I never saw it coming he used to be a good person!" meanwhile everyone around you is calling you an idiot? Maybe it's not your responsibility to dictate what someone should do? which comes a lot with an attitude of "oh i can fix him"? . Maybe it's your responsibility to look after yourself and leave? just a thought.
also like saying choosing a non-believer over a religious woman is something accurate based on reality and observation on men's choices .. it's not about religion really men choose based on attractiveness ( physically and character-wise ) and then beliefs and ideology, those could be updated anyway, thank you for being honest about that
The child function (god function) and the inferior function (aspirational function) are used a lot in childhood for entp si inferior is connected to the body dysmorphia, but the trauma he talks about in this video is different
This is where I disagree. If a man really cares about a woman he will give the utmost respect to her and put her on a pedestal. Men will almost always have his support group of men regardless. Friends almost always get taken the back seat when either a man, or a women finds his, or her lifelong partner.
That is true, but the hypergamy/polygeny increase is a result of how emotionally difficult things are, your point of view is of someone who is not (or at least has resistance to being) in an emotionally difficult situation, I had that until I watched too much feamle twitch streamers in 2020-2022 now im stuck in polygeny, it's really difficult to get out of polygeny even after deleting my fb and ig
As an INTP woman, I can tell you from my life experience that make ESTP’s are strangely attracted to us. Even when I was in high school I had this one ESTP, whom has great respect for me, albeit most people didn’t like me.
@@sylviaowega3839 Tbh I am attracted to them too (they ooze masculinity) but when they open their mouths i cannot help to think they are rather vapid 😭. They won't give me intellectual stimulation. The relationship with them only works when we have the same goals or adventures, aside from that we have different tastes in everything.
Demonstrating value to other men leads to attracting beta side of hypergamy. That's what happens to men who get successful. It doesn't necessarily results into best outcome as we have seen many examples of. It's better to DHV with being your own mental point of origin. That's the most important thing and without it nothing else matters.
Is it an NTP thing to make up arbitrary statistics to express a point like they're factual? I do this all the time to ball park figures especially around people. Like Chase does here with the 1/5 and 1/50. I do it to try to give a perspective on the chances to others
I do that for the same reason, just, always as a ballpark estimate to work with logically, never to pretend I have statistical backing, I've never understood people who pretend studies support/prove things they say, which, just screams Te child to me.
40:00 Refinement relationship fails because it is too challenging. Now, what are the rewards of a refinement relationship, if it is seen through? Please can you do a video on the positives it brings and evaluate what degree to which those positives can be sought from other types of relationships? Also where else those negatives exist.
@lastraven7205 Chase already said in the video that natural pairs are hard to get into a relationship but when they do they can sustain it long term. That's why probably you think that way. Or maybe the ones istps you have met don't match with your octagram.
Debate Rollo Tomassi.. imagine the views Chase.😂 The Rational male: Cognitive Attraction. If Rollo had the realization that personality archetypes were real it could create a shockwave of personality consciousness and deep realizations.. you're already the deepest outlier around.. you stand nothing but to benefit.. why wouldn't you be trying to catalize that potential revolution? Yeah.. its a high level of development to even make that possible.. not likely but it would definitely leave your mark.
I always find myself being to overreactive to others even though I dont wanna cause a reaction why does it happen for isfps and also accepting that I have a fault is it because I cant take responsibility my mind is in that constant thought process. I dont wanna go there but wanna go there. And also What if they dont accept me I dont wanna try like it always end up like in this INTP superego. And what is also weird I want to be vulnerable as an Isfp but dont wanna be harsh because I might end up causing another human being to feel bad and also having abandonment issues. I feel like i should absolutely be safe but my mind tells me what if not. Also feel like if other person human being wont accept me. I watched your ti demon talk about Isfps though and other Isfp content like Isfp being able to take charge. Also I dont wanna appear as Shy though.
it may sound weird for me to say this, but I oftentimes also have these feelings that you have been feeling. I don't know why it happened. Since there are two of us, I hope you are not alone, if you don’t mind.
@@suzieeheng4666 yeah Im a male isfp glad to hear from someone who feels the same Im also kind of tired of this workplace if you dont have good grades you wont get accepted no one exactly tells you how to study and also how to get a programming job. Might end up studying because the world is just a bad place for people to develop we have the chance to be the most successful person, but many Isfps are being wasted because not many believe in us or companys. I will try to lie my way through companies i dont lose anything they will lose something. We are 40 Hours slaves anyways or 35 or objects in particular. I dont wanna lie but we are forced to like objects. Embrace my inner lie
@@justoneweek6983 I have many conflicting feelings after reading what you wrote. I have a very hard time sorting them out, so I could only list out the things that it reminds me of. I gave up my studying opportunity of programming for something that I make efforts to be my purpose. My bestie with a double-degree in programming recently went through PIP but lost her job. The examination system is not supportive to many as I recently met many coworkers who could only went to vocational technical schools after graduating middle school because of bad grades, currently working 40-48hrs/week, and much of how to excel needs to be self-taught. and yes embrace the inner lies and strive.
32:36 bro the way you talk about trauma bonds is weird, please define it when you use it because it sounds like you're using it wrongly, like so many other people these days.
Yeah, I don't get why Chase says trauma bonds are normal and natural in relationships, then goes on to say the Kindred relationship type is horrible which is essentially formed on trauma bonds
@@Sam-by3kk That's fair but I meant he uses the term wrongly. A trauma bond is when someone is bonded to their abuser aka the person who's traumatising them and can't bring themselves to leave the relationship.
@@CSJoseph Fair enough, so you're saying whilst it's possible it's not ideal? I then don't really get why kindred would get into the top 8 for relationships if this is the case that they're formed on them. Perhaps the base of the relationship isn't a predicator of the success you build on top of it?
@@sylviaowega3839 Thank you, I feel like a lot of young people aren't participating in local book clubs and such especially in smaller cities. Do you have any other recommendation it could be online as well. I live in Sweden for context but I bet it won't differ that much
@@NeoNordstom The start would be to do a Google search on book clubs and Meetups for your area. Many of the IN types also participate in games clubs that you pay table top games, like D & D, Magic the Gathering, go to comic cons (once year events); and hiking. I like sailing, so you might want to try to the local yacht club, as well. My cousin used to own a sailing school, and now he is still a sailing instructor.
