Some times it has got to be done...ladies let us get in line and be on our A games. No need for our situations, past experiences get us down. Let us be be great together xoxoxox ALSO please do not be offended by use of the term 'Bad B*tch'' it is a colloquial (google what this means if you dont know) reference to well known concept of a modern day woman being on top of their game. I wouldn't mind if I, my mother, or my daughter were called this - In the right situation, by the right person, at the right time..its all good. This channel is a safe space for positivity so chill stay calm
Patricia: "Have you ever let yourself go?" Me: **looks around** eating my second chocolate cupcake with vanilla filling after a burger, fries, grape soda and two yogurts. How is she doing this? Can she read minds now?
When you get a gut..... looks at belly, when you forget skincare, looks at the babywipes next to me, when you have crusty hands, watches whilst hands crack in front of me. Yes i think this applies to me
Patricia, Patricia...I feel like I just went to church!! You know that feeling you get when you go to church and it feels like the minister is talking directly to you and can sense what you're going through...well you went there. Thanks so much for this, I definitely needed this pep talk.
This video has helped me a lot! I've been feeling awful lately, and though a lot of it is due to mental illness taking steps to improve my life on good days will help❤
I'm so glad, we all struggle some times, including myself. I do these videos to really perk me up when I am in a bad place and reading all the comments honestly really bring me out of myself which I love. So thank YOU x
I live for these motivational videos! This is literally everything I needed to hear...just moisturized my crusty self from head to toe, getting back on my A Game. THANKS PATRICIA X
OMG YASSS I needed this lol (like this morning) deadlines were starting to get to me... Heres to doing one thing! Here's to clearing out and here's to Getting re-FOCUSED! Thanks for this Patricia- ur chatty videos are the BEST. I looking forward to the regular uploads👀 💋
I've only just got round to watching this but Patricia, thank you so much for uploading this!!! I've had to remove toxic people from my life recently, including so-called friends, one of which I was friends with for 8 years. After being bullied at work for the past 2 years, which progressively got worse during the last 4 weeks, I finally quit my job after being there for 12 years, and I started a brand new job this week 😊😊😊 I've never been so happy and everyone has gone out of their way to make me feel welcome. It's. I've when you're surrounded by positive people for once, instead of being surrounded by negative people, and my life is so much better for it!!! I now wake up with a smile on my face every day, looking forward to the day ahead, instead of dreading every single day like I used to do!!! I took that chance to change my life and I haven't looked back since!!!
Thank you so much for this talk. I really needed this. I have let myself go and I basically gave up on me. My father passed away four years ago this July and my mother has been going through treatments for lung cancer for the past year. My world has been a job that I enjoy but is beneath my potential and carry my mom to her doctor appointments. People at work have even been encouraging me to continue on with my studies, but I've been holding off partly because I want to make sure my mom gets the care she needs, but also out of fear of the unknown. The "what ifs" are terrifying. What if I've waited too long, what if I'm too old, what if I've forgotten much of what I learned, what if no program will accept me. Sometimes it seems easier to stand still. Oh, and my social life here is non-existent. The talk really helped. I really need to start doing something working toward my future. Love your channel and your family is adorable.
I needed this especially right NOW ! Skincare is horrible , I'm breaking out so bad , smell bad , haven't got up to shower in about 2 days , haven't brushed my teeth yet , haven't got out of bed. Just eating and sleeping. Depression really sucks and this helped a lot. Already have my face mask on , ready to be back on my A game ! THANK YOU LOVE 💖🗣
You couldn't have said it better! Thank you Patricia!! Changing your focus, re-prioritizing your goals, getting rid of negative people in your life can seriously set you straight. 2 years ago I remember (second year of uni) I was on this downhill slope. & the moment I took a good look at myself and realized, "this is not who I want to be" (that small realization), things started to get better. It's just that small acknowledgement that can get you started, and you'll be amazed at the beautiful, wonderful things in your path waiting for you, just because you took a moment to confront yourself and be HONEST with yourself. & setting goals, even if it's yearly goals (like new year resolutions), set something small to do for your new year resolution, and stay focused on it. Whether that be to improve your skin, or feel confident in your body or hair. Or idk, get better marks in school. You'll be surprised how those small goals make the BIGGEST difference in your confidence and your life!
Patricia, it's wonderful that you put out this kind of motivational, heart felt video. You're such a down to earth person. I needed to hear this today, it's a good start to my morning ♥
You are just keeping me on track. Anytime something affects me and what I'm trying to do. You come with a video like this and it helps so much. I love your passion! X
I love videos like these! It's so important to help each other. Being able to help making others feel valuable is a gift, which you truly have! Also loving your two different lipstick colours. xox
I love when you do videos like this. You always give really great advice and you have such a fun personality and way of explaining things. This has inspired me to find the time to start crafting and baking again! Thanks!
I was a little put off by the title but thought to myself it's PB you have to watch; and soooo glad I did!!! it's like you were speaking directly to me. thanks for this video. God bless xx
I said to myself let me turn on RU-vid I haven't seen it in a while...now lets watch Patricia she's always inspirational....who knew I would be sitting here balling and looking at my crusty hands! Thanks Patricia for getting me on track!
Loved the content! As a crusty old person... I didn't quite get the title.... 😂😂😂 I love watching you, so for that reason I thought 'let Aunty watch my lovely Patricia anyway,' and I wasn't disappointed! You brighten the day for so many people and you talk WISDOM. You are wise beyond your years. God let you post this now because baggage and stuff is something I am dealing with and focusing on 7 priorities in my life. You have just confirmed that now is clear out time in every way, and it's time for this old gal to switch it up and get moving. I love your energy and the honesty with which you share with us. I pray for you and your family that you will always be blessed in every way. Thank you for this gentle kick in the nether regions.... I needed it 💗💗😁
I'm one of those people who watches videos and have never commented on one before. But I've gotta say, you are so badass and spot on! Your chatty videos have always been the most helpful and practical to me as a woman. thank you thank you xxx
Wow! Patricia! This is totally where I am right now. I could identify with all of what you have said! 🙁 thank you sooooooooooooooo very much for being so open about this! I hate being off my game! I'm certain moving to a new country and being a newlywed are the main reason. Both are big things that greatly changed how I know myself to work and spend my leisure/manage myself and my life. Man oh man! I loved when you referred to something or someone getting in the way of you even setting goals and succeeding at one at least and yes I can name HIM too! Ding DING! Oh my god! Loool. It's so about getting your own thing going and getting out there. Finding the things I love to do and working them back into my days so I can feel pleased and overall proud of myself and how I'm existing. @Patricia Bright this was PERFECT for me! Now my action is writing down my identification etc! Gosh! Thank you.
I felt like this video was just for me! This is exactly how I was feeling. I literally cleared out and then you uploaded this! Patricia ....you are the realist!!!
This couldn't have come at a better time. Just got rid of a f*boy and now I can 100% focus on me. No distractions. Thank you Patricia for confirming what I needed to hear 😘
Mz. Bright! I feel like I've been bumbling around in the dark looking for the light switch... you've just clicked it on and made it plain! Thank you 🙏🏾✨
Agree!!! Not only having goals but writing them somewhere that you see everyday and being able to cross it out! Feels soooo good. For me there is something about having a pen and drawing a line through it. Makes me feel better
I needed this video so much. I feel so low that even taking a shower feels like climbing Mount Everest. I hope I can get back to a happy version of myself. Thank you for your positivity Patricia.
Our psychological state today really set how we will be able to succeed in our goals tomorrow. This is inevitable and obviously the reason that is really important to work on it. And to be effective in that way we need to realize that we have to working on our own goals progressively. One step at a time. Thank you Patricia for your job because you are doing really great. Lot of girls or women need to hear that today!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to hear in my life right now. Your words are golden, and you are a blessing. You are an inspiration and a very empowering person. It hit home when you mentioned how you used to sing. I've noticed recently that I haven't been singing and I used to literally ALL the time! You're amazing, take care and God bless. Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Omg I started crying after the identification part. You're so sweet for making this thank you, thank you ❤️ I've been depressed for so long and this really helped. I used to sing, and dance all the time and laugh to loud.. but I haven't and imma try to do it more often
When i tell you this video gave me LIFE!! you better preach. I'm the biggest supporter of your chats. you're like my inner me telling me exactly what i need to hear!
I'm 57 year's old i got my A game &B-Z with the help of God by putting him first in my life and a lot of praying:-):-)thanks for the encouraging words,,now tell me about how did you keep your wig on it all that water Lol need to know:-):-)
Sparkling 2Sweet yes God picks us up and even sends us some encouragers like Patricia. I know God is working all things together for my good because this little pep talk came right on time for me. On Sunday at church the message was about priority and 'where is God in your list?' Thank you for your post it's very encouraging and God used you to speak to everyone who reads this.. God bless you x
This video spoke to me so much . After having my daughter 2 years ago I completely let my self go . I've gained about 70 lbs ... I don't do my skin care routine any more . I don't do my makeup . I lost all confidence 😢. Thanks for Posting this Patricia 😘
I am just now seeing this video, but It has helped me change my mindset so much! I have been in such a funk lately, and listening to you talk made me realize I really have no reason to be! Thank you, Pat!
Thank you so much for creating this video because I felt like it spoke to me. My year started out really bad and I felt like my life was over and my depression almost killed my spirit to keep trying. You gave good advice and I'm working on bouncing right back better than ever one day
Girl, the comment about singing and your dad hearing your voice for a wake up, that really spoke to me. I haven't been on my singing game and I need to get back!!! You just got a new subscriber lovely 💕✌
Rekindle an old flame, and Change your focus: these are really what I needed to hear, know in my heart to be true, and have to take action on. You are a Bad Bella for sho! God bless you mah!!
Thank you Patricia! Honesty I really needed this video, it has helped me feel better. I also realize I can get up out of the bed and actually do something with my life instead of just staying where i am unhappy and miserable! thanks again!
Family, friends and the youtube community are great to have in your life. You continue being you Patricia, everyone loves you for it! Taking a step at a time is a great start and great things will follow! Love this video it is very inspiring to remind us to do the things that we love to do for ourselves!
Bopandboogie I appreciated what Patricia was saying.But,It got me to thinking about those of us that constantly stay running running all the time and feel guilty about letting go to catch there breath sometimes.We need to know as well that it's okay to have a mental health day and do you!You get what I mean? I had to learn to do that as well.Just wanted to share that😉
I recently have been evaluating my life and seeing what I can work on and everything you've talked about, I've been doing. I'm just glad that I'm doing it right.
I love you so much .. it was my 18th birthday yesterday.. now it's 4 in the morning and I been thinking for 2 hours (well all the time really) I'm lost and it's time to find my way .. this helped a lot you are like everyone's big sister 💕🤞🏾.. I would love to be that for the generation under me one day your such an amazing role model 💯😭
I'm so grateful to have come across your video! I recently purchased a new violin and am getting ready to invest in lessons..I guess that can be me rekindling my old flame. I haven't been this excited about something new in a while and I am hoping that I can pick up where I left off 15 years ago 😂 And I did laundry today.....I know it sounds mundane but I have been putting it off for weeks. I've thrown away tons of clothing and shoes and I already feel lighter. Your video is just confirmation that I am on the right track. I'm slowly but surely pulling myself out of this rut of depression I've been sitting in!
I didn't think I needed this until after I saw this. I am currently going through the toughest stages in my life(finding my way after Uni) so much doubt and uncertainty, which has brought a lot of discouragement in making n effort for myself. Thank You so much Patty. Much appreciated. You just woke me. I needed this. Bless You. love all the way from South Africa,P.E
Wow this is such a blessing, I've just started doing single tasking again after a long time, or mono tasking as some like to call it. It's a great way to improve focus and get things done, it's especially hard when I'm using the internet. It's so hard to only have one tab open or just eating without background tv or texting whilst watching a programme, loved hearing this...
I agree on taking the time to think on how your life is and to do one thing at a time. This year I have gained a lot of confidence 😘 thanks for the positive videos and helping everyone out
I didn't write at all last year and for this year I've set myself the goal to write at least once a month... so in January I wrote one time and I was basically bullshitting my way through it, but since February I've been getting so much more back into it that I'm actually writing weekly now, sometimes even more than once a week. it feels great and I'm so happy I got that hobby back 🖤
I love your positivity! I've been going through a rough patch. I got dumped, my hours literally got cut in half just when I was planning on getting a loan to renovate my house, I wanted to start studying again on the side but the classes i wanted to follow were already full... I've seen better times lol But literally while I was watching this video I got a text saying that i got more hours at my job after all! Things are looking up haha.
I really needed this! Thanks Pat. Lately i have been feeling a mess, feeling stuck. Im physically and emotionally drained due to illness and getting up everyday is a struggle. Im slowly trying to do one thing i enjoy everyday and trying to get back to being me.
I remember having guys constantly telling me I look beautiful also having so much self confidence and now I'm depressed, single and gained 70 pounds. This video is just what I needed to get back to being myself.
You probably will not even see this but anyways I just want to thank you so much 💜. This video has rekindled that fire in me to get things done in my life sending you all the love all the way from New Zealand 🌼
You're so inspiring! I'm so grateful for this - I am a new mom, trying to hold down a career and family. Let's just say I've been neglecting myself. So on point. You have a new subscriber! 💖
