How to be Mentally Strong- 7 Habits of Emotionally Strong People - Qasim Ali Shah 

1) Self belief - to understand your self (strengths). 2) Self Cure/Self love - have self respect, maintain your self, dress well, hygiene. 3) Logic Vs Emotions- take situations in logic 4) judging yourself- thank Allah for everything. 5) Need to find reason for everything - example why someone has not replied to your messages or calls. 6) Trying to Control and Plan everything - you cannot correct everything you want. Apply energy to things which you can control. 7) Who Allow other's to control their lives - Don't give control about your decisions to others. Don't interfere in anyone's personal matters unless they ask. Try to decide yourself and believe in your decision.

I,am Indian Muslim میں آپ کو استادوں کا استاد مانتا ہوں۔ میں آپ کے لیکچرز سن کر اپنی زندگی میں کئی تبدیلیاں لائی بہت کچھ سیکھا آپ کے لیکچرز سے شکریہ۔ جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا۔ اللہ آپ کے عمر میں برکت عطا فرمائے اللہ آپ سے اور کام لے۔۔۔۔آمین۔

جزاک اللہ پیارے نبی پر ہر پل لاکھوں درود و سلام

رمضان المبارک کے اس مقدس مہینے میں میری یہ دعا ہے آپ کےلیے اللہ تعالی آپ کو اور آپ کے والدین کو دنیا اور آخرت کی کامیابی عطاء فرمائے آمین

Listening to your lecture for the 1st time and MashaAllah its very useful sir❤️ Love from India 🇮🇳

Lots of Love and Respect from India❤ I watch all your videos🙏🏻

this lecture was about me ...thanks sir now ill try to make me strong ..God bless u 😊😊😊😊😊

allah hum sab ko mentally strong rakhe ameeeeen

شاہ جی .ًبہت اچھا. لکچر تھا اپ کا سکون اتا ھے اپ کی باتیں سن کر

ماشاءاللہ سر آپ کے لیکچرز بہترین ہوتے ہیں ۔ تعریف کے لئے الفاظ نہیں ۔ اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو اپنے شایان شان دنیا و آخرت کی تمام خوشیاں ، سعادتیں نصیب کرے۔ آمین

brri himmat hoti hy wese teachers ka hi hosla hota k wo roz roz wahi batyn dohraty rehty hn me ne ye apka dusra lecture dekha 2 ki speed pe ...... wo log bhi shayad bahadur or pukhta soch k hamil hon gy jo roz follow krty hyn aysay lecturez.... mere liye dua krwa dyn sir k me b achi baatyn rozana ki bunyad pr follow krna shuru kr dooon...

Sir ji Aapka shagird hu Salute you from india🇮🇳😊

MashaAllah aap ko Allah Tallah lambi zindagi de Ameen

Self believe is the greatest weapon,always improve it

Outclass Sir 👌 May Allah give you blessed life Aameen 🤲

For to become emotionally strong, there must be 7 habits in someone personality, if anyone is lack in these 7 habits the person will be declared emotionally weak. These signs are as under... 1)self belief: Self belief is the pillar of mentally strong personality level. Most of the people integrate in doubt of self believe but by doing so, they waste their time of struggle and the level of energy which they invest by securing proper success. Doubt in self belief can hesitate someone from their way of goal and proper acknowledge level which is necessary to do so while fighting in life journey. 2) self love: There is difference between self love and selfish, self lover can care of himself without torturing or killing others while selfish takes the benefits of someone emotion to care of himself. In Islamic perspective, the selfish is morally sin and the society too doesn't want to accept the selfish, on the other hand self love is the main sign of true human and the prophet also emphasis his ummah to do so. We will never become a model human unless and untill we would not take the responsibility of self care and self love. Our Prophet PBUH is the role model of self love and also wants to do so by ummah too. 3) self judgement: Judgement can be carried out on two basis, one is on the basis of emotions and other one on the basis of logic. Emotionally strong people can judge theirselves on the basis of logic, not on emotional level but weakly emotional people can on the basis of emotional power. Emotionally weak people's can hit their relation in a bad way and can hamper the societal atmosphere. 4) Judging yourself for how you feel: some people feel theirselves mentally low on the level of friendly circle, feel that I am nothing and no one help or support me. People love those who are mentally strong and didn't abuse the situation more and more by criticizing or disrespect any one. The sign of true mentally strong people's are, they never criticize the people even the situation and never blame anything but remain positive, kindhearted and respectfull. 5)Need to find reason behind everything: some people want to know the reason behind everything and when they people stuck in a difficult task in life, they feel regret in life and show unethical power to handle it. Strong people ignore these things which is small and have no role in their life, they just looked out it and think our it to feel what the situation behind it. 7) Don't allow others to control you: emotionally strong people take the decision on theirselves and not intervene other peoples to control their life way and goal. Such people hurt in many ways due to problems faced by the decision which take by others to control them. Life decisions should be take by ownselves even do not involve the parents to control them. I did this just to improve an English and never mind it so allah Hafiz and really we are emotionally weak but now inshallah will stay strong and happy in life journey.

SubhanAllah really needed to listen to this right now. Every time I need motivation I listen to his lectures and it helps tremendously Alhamdulilah. May Allah bless with success in both worlds. Ameen

*بسْــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمن الرَّحِيم ​* *الصلواۃ والسلام علیک یا خاتم انبینﷺ* *​اَلسَّلَامُ عَلَیْکُم وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه‌​* Dear Sir, I learned your lectures "Wake up with determination. Go to bed with satisfaction." Subha Bakhair and Good morning, Have a lovely day.

Your brilliant person . Thanks for your information. Motivation 😊. Love Pakistan 🇵🇰. From Uk 🇬🇧

Shah sahab ap puri community k liye ek gift hen aur ekl ehsas ka nam hen

SHAH SAHIB YOU ARE DOING A GREAT SERVICE TO IMPROVE THE LIVES OF PEOPLE, ALLAH BLESS YOU Aameen

You are a wonderful person who is making a difference in people lives!! 👍🌈

MashaAllah Sir mei aap k lecture se mei buhath inspire hothi hon buhath acha bata thy hai

Thanks for Amazing lecture..its very helpful for me🤗 bcz emotionally im so weak 😟

AssalaamuAlikum ,MashaAllah jazakal Allahu Khair. Such a explaintary with everything Alhumdulillah find a new vision of macro solutions.

Jazak Allah Khair Shah Jee. Allah Ap ko aur fahm o frasat atta farmaye aur Ap isi trah ilm ki roshni k diaye jlatay rahen. Ameen

I am a big fan of myself and am very self conscious.its true that one and only beautiful for me its myself 💓😍✌️🔥

Alhamdulillah i have taught my kids most of these habits i have a learnt a lot from ur lectures keep spreading positivity sir stay blessed

جزاک اللّہ خیرا کثیرا واحسن الجزاء فی الدارین

Sir i just wanna say... You are superb... You explain things so well... I love the way you teach... Thank you so much sir... Lot of respect from India

MA shah Allah bohat khas andaz he bhai apka jitni tareef ki jay apki kam he apka har lafz zindgi ki roshni he apko Allah lanbi zindagi day ..ameen..

Thank u sir Allah apko jazaiy Khair dain

I am student , I was very depressed for many years , there was a genuine Reason behind it that I can't tell , I start to listen qasim Ali shah lecture due to these lectures now I am out of depression and living a normal life , carry on sir 🙃

I am emotionally weak but now I will notice it and trying to become strong. Thankyou sir Qasim ❤

Thaaaanks ... apki baten sun ke hm waqe khud ko set krne ki koshish krte haib . Allah pak apko khush rkhe .

Thank you 💗 alhumdullah I'm emotionally strong and improving myself everyday.

Thank u so much aj Jo Kuch btay apny wo sab mujhe me they me full koshi karo gi khud ko boht thek karo........

Ya ALLAH REHAM KAR POORI DUNIYA PR IS PAK MAHINAY KA WASTA MAF KARDAY HAMAIN HATALAY APNAY AZAB HUM PAR SAY AMEEN REHAM.

Allah bless you

Asalm u alikam Sir Allah pak apko lambi Umar atta kry AP ki video dakh bra sabaq hasil HOTA ha AP ki madad Sy zandagi ka maqsad samj ma aata ha

Main india se hun mujhe aapke saare lecture acche lagte hai lekin itni saari baato ko Ham apni life me kaise utare......? 💐💐🌹🌹❤️❤️🌹🌹💐💐

JazakAllah amazing lecture Sir Allah Pak apko hamesha apni Hifz.o.Imaan me rakhy Ameen Ya Rab.ul.Almeen

Qasim bhai is great, Allah aap ko bahot kamiyabi se nawaze

Sir God bless you . You are a blessed man great motivational speaker Allah apko lmbi zndgi sehat day ameen sum ameen

Thank you Qasim sahib, May Allah reward you for your efforts. AAP Kay pas Buhat knowledge Hai. AAP ka is Kay pechay Buhat hardwork ho GA. 33 percent walay banday AAP NAHI lagtay.

Love sirr so muccccccch u leacture is my lifeeed

Qasim ali shah is one of the greatest motivator in the world...really he is one of life changing motivator love you from kashmir occupied India...

Qasim Ali shah sab excellent zinbaad

Once in a life I want to meet you sir 💫

Sir I am your thankful because you made me a stuggleable person Thank you sir

You're my inspiration

3 sra point mery Ander Hy but alhamdulillah qasim shb k lecture ka kafi aser ho rha hy umeed Hy mn khud ko cover krlon ga

Power of initiative, power of courage

I am also emotionally weak and because of that I am facing a lot of difficulties and I had done a lot of mistakes as well.... But now I watched your video and it is really helpful to me, so from now on I'll try to change myself.....

behtareen Masha Allah achy baat hain Allah paak aap ko jazak e Khair ata farmay Aameen summa Aameen

Believe on your self.

Thank you so much...Shah sahab....i AM from Delhi Allah aapko salamat rakhe....

How beautiful u motivate us, sir... Allah bless u sir

Asslam o Alikum 😊😊😊 main bht Khush hn k ap logu ko heel karny ka zariya hn main bht pareshan thi apki Batain sun k sakun mil gea h

I always motivate by your tips

Great lecture and really learned a lot about emotions, very helpful and very informative... Qasim Ali sb now big fish of Pakistan

Ya ALLAH har insan kamyab ho har insan ko sehat izat dolat or beshumar barkatain rehmatain ata farma Ameen

Bht acha laga ye video dekh kr I really appreciate 💯

Shah shb main ny bhtt motivation li h ap ky lectures sy

Shah g is one of my best teacher or mentor. He always motivate me in my every difficulty. Thankssssss Shah g for every video on RU-vid or every things. . 😍😍😍😍😍😍

Thanku soo much sir i am very lucky hamy ap jesa teacher mila Allah pak ap ko seht tndrusti lmbi zindgi dy

Janab Qasim Sahab. Asslam-u-alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh. Aap ek nafabaksh insaan hain jo kai zindagion ko badal chuki hongi and ye qayam rahega insha Allah. Allah aapko hamesha khush rakhe, dunia aur aakhirat me kaamyabi aur izzat ataa farmaye. Aameen. Aftab Ahmad (India)

Jazakallahkhair Qasim Ali Bhai. Apka bohat bohat shukria for such a fantastic lecture plus reminder. I will come to Lahore to meet you. I work with teens here. Slightly similar to what you are doing.

بہت خوب اپ کو سن کر خوشی ہوتی ہے بہت احترام ہے سر اپ کیلئے

I feel as this lecture was purely for me,, and i being highly qualified person,, fail in every field due to low confidence and lack of emtion and unable to overcome and let other step on my head and make decison...so motivational speech. Thanks, will defiantly work on this

Sir bht saraa pyaar bht sari duaen apk lye

Qasim sir really great 👍🏻 i am so peace full now and emotionally stable and strong feel thank you so much Allah bless you ❤️❤️from 🇮🇳🇮🇳🤲

Thanks sir

Can you please upload video by displaying the weakness points upfront and then cover it one by one. Time is very valuable and I would rather watch what is relevant to me . Thank you

Brilliant lecture MaashAllah JAZAKALLAH KHAIR

Jazak Allah awsam lecture

Jazza k Allah khair May Allah Pak bless u Brother and all of us

Love from Kashmir

Thank you for giving us such improving videos........... God Bless you.

Positive approach make us positive

Zabardast points discussed. jazakAllah sain

background py jo quotes show horahy hain that's also very motivational with this video

thank you

Jazakallah khair sir subhanallah Alhamdulillah lailaha illallahu allahu akbar

You explained very well thanks alot .Allah Pak app ko sehat kai sath zindagi Naseeb krain Ameen sum Ameen .

Salaam, I have been watching many videos now, mashallah, your ambitious intellect has really influenced a change within my daily habitats; just like that I am improving my grades too as well as my self-esteem. Jazakallah for the sage and wisdom you share with us.

I love myself for the moment I started following you, you been a blessing to country and whoever understands the language

Mohtram Qasim Shah sahib, Sir, I listen to a lot of motivational speakers including yourself. I rarely comment on anything, this time I am impressed with your topic and research and posting here. I appreciate your this topics as well. You successfully described the signs of the emotional people. I am a public speaker too and have a few people in my team who need some mentoring/help. Moving forward please if you may provide some practical solutions to this issue that would be great. Jazak Allah Khair, Mumtaz

Sir jazakaAllah. Allah salamat rkhe.

Thnku uncl for ur lectures shaid Allah pak ne apko hm jese logo ki himmat bndhane ke lye e bheja h😊😊

شُکر الحمدُللہ کریں کہ اللہ نے آپکو موقع دیا ، ورنہ ہمارے یہاں ہر ممکن حد تک توڑنے کی کوشش کی جاتی ہے

Jzakallah sir g

Shah sahab Allah pak apko sehat ata farmae...Mai kaafi pareshan tha apki video na mere kaafi help ki ❤

Siir apk is lacture ny mare zindgee bana di.. Thank u sir

sir Bs mere pas Alfaz nahii apki Es neki KY kaam k Lya itnaa zabardst tareka hai apka self believe paida karwany ka Main Apka Lya Or Kuch na Sahi lakn Dua zaroor kar sakti hU stay blessed you always sir AP bohit achy Insan Hain ❤️Main actually blkul bhtt brave hU Lkn Kabhi kabhi Zindagi aisa moor py laa dete hai K Zara Self believe Kam ho jata hai Lakn Apka lacture sunty he mujhyyy ek Baar phr sy wohe kushi bhari life mil jati hai Alhamdulilah SOo again sir I pray fOr yOu good blees you long life and happiness sir❤️❤️❤️❤️main in Sha Allah Ek din apsa mulakat zaroor karugi✨

Jaza kallah

Ap ka bht shukria jazak Allah ❤️

Once My mother told me. "make Yourself Stronger" and this motivates me.

Jazakallah o khairan kaseera

very nice speach sr