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How Changing Your Self Will Change Your Relationship With Your Specific Person. - How do you change yourself so you can transform your relationship with your sp. - Is it possible to soely change yourself and change that relationship.? Answer is YES...!! ------------------------------------------- * Focusing on changing yourself should be your primary thing to do when trying to manifest a new relationship. With sp. * The way you feel is manifesting your relatiy. - Your dominant inner state. - Your dominant beliefs. - your state of being. * Is what creates what happens out there for you. * Inside of you, you have a set of summarys, thoughts and beliefs, feelings essentially you assume are true about your self and life. * this inner state is entriely responsible in creating your life. * To change yourself you got to change your Beliefs Thoughts Associations Expectations Assumptions. - about yourself Firstly. * This is primary because who you feel you are is going to be reflected from the outer reality or world. * Often when people try to manifest sp they are in classic dynamic where the sp is not yet come or back to you yet. *Because your predominately in a state of LACK. - They are not here. - They dont love me . - They are not coming in. * It could be anything variety of beliefs essential it will be they are not here with me. * When you feel into this its like - Alone - Left - Lacking - Panic - Rejected. * its all connected to the beliefs they are not here. * If you move in your life and you feel the same you continously impress got sub concious mind with the same * and it evokes a state inside of you that they are not here. * Only you can change these beliefs. ------------------------------------------- * To do so you must start practicing a new story which is going to evoke a new feeling state. * Doing just a thought without feeling it wont change the outer reality. * So if you keep on telling yourself they are here and you don't feel within yourself then you may not get proper results. * You must actually have your Whole System- Thoughts, feelings, your state of being completly with you. A new story that will create a new reality. ------------------------------------------- HOW TO DO THIS. * You must locate a little points of new story like bullet points that will lead you to your desire/ new story. * Example you want the result that your sp in into you. And you cant really get into the feelings cause of your difference in your outer reality. * Its okay start with baby steps like + They are starting to think about me more. + They are randomnly being drawn to me. + Life is creating a reality where they are just randomnly drawn to me. *Start with these little story line. * When you start with these new story tune in with it. It will evoke a feeling state that is very different from they left me, they dont want me, they are ignoring me. * This is very important your feeling state is manifesting your reality. * Move from the negative feeling state to much more positive in your inner reality.. * Surely your story can inculde them but most importantly focus on your feelings. * Idealy your moving from negative to positive. * From baby steps to all the way to + They are into me. + They cant get enough of me. + They are in love with me. + We love being together. + Its amazing for us being together. * In this feeling state you feel entirely different even though differnt story You will evoke much more beautiful feelings. And ulimately change your state of being. ------------------------------------------- * You have to change you. * You have to change how you feel. * It has very little to do with them. * People can wrong while manifesting by entirely focusing on the other person. But its okay. * You can come to yourself and become a new person. This person is - Not left Is not rejected Is not abandoned. * IN FACT THIS PERSON IS - loved. - Desired. - Cared. - Wanted. * This who you are.when you become this you create this. * Just learn to take power in your inner world, thoughts, beliefs. * Practice you will get it easily. Dont worry❤ eventually the state of being becomes natural😍 THANK YOU SHELLY❤
As soon as I said to myself "They're starting to think about me more" I felt a warm sensation in my chest and a smile shot across my face. Feels very nice XD Thank you Shelly
This just worked instantly for me... I fell into a codependent rut for a few days but when you said it I started thinking "He's starting to think about me" and he texted me...
I manifested him back and things have been great until I stopped feeling love for myself and doubting his intentions. Now he’s pulling away again. I need this video. Thank you
When I decided to accept the words “I love you” as true from a man I had thought put me as a last priority for 20 years.... and I felt appreciated and loved ... he suddenly shifted into a completely different person who sent me gifts and called and expressed that he wants me in his life forever. He had never done any of that because I was making him put me last by expecting it. Seriously amazing.
Also I shifted first. Consciously deciding to just go ahead and believe I was loved and feel loved with no looking for proof or needing proof. And of course the proof started pouring in as soon as I was living in that state.
YAY! I really want to be in a fully committed, monogamous relationship with my SP🥺, I hope this video will help me to clear out whatever is preventing me from having that. Thank you Shelly!
I found you out on RU-vid day before yesterday and since then I have almost seen 30-40 videos of yours. I feel so great and I think after seeing those videos I am sure of how to create that inner world and even live with it. Sending you positive vibes!!!
Ohhh Shelly! This is so incredibly exiting... That means that life is easy!! If we shine, we project our light on others... That are actually only seemingly others. If I see myself as love and loved, there is no other possibility than to be loved. This is extremely touching and beautiful to me. This understanding is making our lives beautiful and leads to the end of our spiritual path. It is the direct path to what we truly are. Thank you sweetheart!!!
Thank you, the hard part has been focusing on MY feelings, it's very true, I realized I was getting exhausted putting so much energy to change the outer (him) instead of focusing on my peace of mind and internal state.
Yes. Yes. Yes. This is what I was looking for, Shelly. Attracting and changing the relationship with a specific person. Today's video is gonna be a blast and gonna be very informative. Relationship with that cute and lovely sp of ours is a given. Thank you,Shelly
I just bought you "Programm you Subconcious mind to manifest SP" course :)))) I am soooo curious and have the feeling it is exactly what I need to work with. Thank you, Shelly. You are amazing.
Definitely starts with us! We are loved, we are cherished, we are worth good things and treatment and for someone to love us unconditionally! Never ever ever alone! 💕🙏😊
Fleeting thoughts manifest all the time and they do not require a feeling state. I find it’s about your resistance and your beliefs. You can program your subconscious mind to believe anything you think, if you think about it enough so a mental diet does create belief and can help you to manifest just as well as a feeling state. This is what I’ve come to find while testing manifesting for myself.
FIRST thank you Shelly 💜🙏. I'll start with for me on my manifesting journey atm part of it it's my own self worth, not feeling good enough, not being ready in my financial state that is causing me to block him manifesting fully, it's ONE OF my triggers, amoung others that you mention in your video, that I'm working on changing the story about my self concept. It all comes down to my self concept 🤯. I'm in a friends apartment due to Coronavirus money circumstances and have felt not good enough for love because I'm not financially stable ATM. BUT I'm on my way back to work, getting my own place and getting back to my self. Still while doing my inner work that is triggering I'm not good enough to I AM good enough etc and it's manifesting all things and situations that help me feel good enough. BECAUSE I AM GOOD ENOUGH. So he'll come when I'm ready internally 🙂. ALSO SIDE NOTE! 😁 I'm ordering your self love and manifest money packages Shelly! CANT WAIT! So point is...I'm working on ALL my trigger points that make me feel not good enough and exactly what they are. I didn't even know what some of them WERE until I did this internal work so I can rewrite the story. Inner work of self concept on ME and THEN....it will just naturally happen that he will come to me when I change my own self concept, it's soon. I'm on a scale of 1 to 10 on a good 7.5 in realizing everything on the awakening journey as you call it. I've been on your style of manifesting journey for about 3 months and it's the best thing I've ever done. I will tell you something though. I 100 PERCENT manifested the dissapearing of someone's cancer just ....going away in the last 2 months. That person is my SP btw. The doctors gave him 5 years to live 2 years ago w an inoperable tumor and I said NO. At the time I found out of course I was devastated and believed the reality the doctors gave him. So fast foward I came across your channel 2 months ago..... I did the work of living in the end of picturing him healthy, doing all the fun things he loves to do and seeing him grow old on a consistent basis. I BELIEVED it that he was going to be ok when no one did because I CHOOSE my own reality. What I believe is real is happening IS happening OUT THERE in REALITY. So I chose to see him live a healthy long life and I pictured him coming to me in excitement with " I don't have cancer" and the feeling and the scene like a movie in my reality, the ultimate imagine act w feeling it and KNOWING that it's true that's he's ok. . 2 months of living in the end ( after almost 2 years of his diagnosis) his cancer tumor is just....gone. Doctors can't explain of course but I know the truth🙂. If I can manifest cancer out of someone's existence.....holy hell I can MANIFEST ... ANYTHING 🤯. Im damn amazing! Lol. THANK YOU SHELLY. YOUR CHANNEL QUITE LITERALLY SAVED SOMEONES LIFE. AND I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO THANK YOU EXCEPT TO SAY THAT YOU ARE TRULY LOVED BY ME. THANK YOU.
You bring up so many great points here. It makes perfect sense. Here's what I don't understand -- why would you focus on a specific SP -- after all, a person showing up in a certain way is, in a way, a past manifestation (not to say that it's not malleable -- because yes, you could change your concept of and belief about the other). So rather than focus on changing that, why not simply manifest a new person? I might just be projecting here, because that's what I've been doing. Rather than focus on changing the man I was with/changing my concept of him, I focused on how I wanted to feel in relationship and how I wanted to feel about the man and our relationship. That just didn't feel in alignment with the reality of the guy I was with. For me, it seemed like I was forcing a round peg into a square hole when I could just create a whole new square peg that fit perfectly. Does that make sense? Am I missing something?
Yes I agree but it can be challenging to stay in the feeling state of they're into me... But I like that you add the they are getting ready to... That is helpful. Thanks!
Our beliefs are manifesting our reality through our feelings. Behind a feeling there is a thought - belief. Whenever i see something from a different perspective, meaning i am telling another story, my feelings about the situation change. Different feelings match with a different state of being and different reality. Thank you Shelly, always a pleasure to watch your videos!🍀💟
You look soooo beautiful in this video 😎.... I really enjoy listening to your videos... I feel my sp closer to me when I listen to you... Thanks Shelly!!! 🤩🤩🤩
I love your videos and they help me a lot. Can you do a video on if you have a lazy guy that wants the woman to chase but him not put effort in. Is that possible to change?
Shelly, this is true. When i feel at my best, mentally i mean, i trust that he loves me and he is drawn to me. However I have moments when i loose my faith in his love because of a 3rd party , i become fully negative and he pulls away. In the past 10 days we haven't messaged much and i became negative and needy and complained about his lack of attention. Since yesterday i managed to flip into a positive state and I hope I will manifest him back. I will keep you posted on the outcome.
It so funny because I won my SO over using all of these techniques. At the time I thought I never had a shot with him. Then suddenly we were almost inseparable, and soooo in love. Then, for some reason he disconnected. Now... I'm am at a total loss at how to put the techniques into place. Think I'm allowing the heartbreak/disappointment take the lead, and I can't shake it. I'm not giving I got up however. But this time intentionally doing these things seems like a real struggle.
Hi Shelly! I recently started following you and have been watching all your videos! Thank you for your content! Now I just need to win your ebook 📚👍🏽😍😊
Hey Shelly, thank you for ammmazinggg videos! I want to ask you that it a dynamics between two people... What if the specific person thinks and feels differently, won't their thoughts and feelings manifest as well? Please help with this dilemma
If u think they think opposite of us. It's all dependent on u what ever u strongly believe then that only manifests. Just believe in ur strong thoughts that's it don't waver from it.
I manifested a text from him overnight before I knew about manifesting. Of course now that I'm wanting to do it again - LOL I get nothing. It's not realistic for me to have no resistance and not expect the text when I know I've done it in the past. So I'm caught in a loop.
i affirm everyday that m the first thought on sp's mind when he wakes up and he only thinks of me before sleeping. he always recahes out to me first but it hasnt happened yet.dont know what m doing wrong
Hey Shelly, I appreciate your content, but I won't do any manifest to my SP. Last night my SP told me he have no feeling for me anymore and that hurt me so bad. I cried and slapped him. I let him go. I don't wanna attract him cause maybe that's what universe things the best for me. I don't want anyone who doesn't se my worth. even if one day he changes and say he loves me, that's still hurt underneath my soul. Imma still do manifest for all the good and the love worth fighting.
He is hot & beautiful when he wants! Then disappears for days, still nothing...we r not an item, how is this my fault, is he just using me or too young & no idea how to deal with his emotions/me?Its Really hard 😔 to do all of this & believe this, when he tells u many things, then does totally the opposite, i feel like this is totally denial?? Yes i really struggle with changing my state of being, & have insecurities which are b e ing triggered by him & his actions, which of yr courses would u recommend please?
Can you make video on how to behave or keep your desperation under control when sp reach you out? Whenever he reach out to me I become volatile , i am like why is he not texting me? Whether he sees my status or not? If he is online then with whome? And this mess manifestation, he drift away. How to be calm?
Hey Shelly, I am working on getting my ex boyfriend back. I'm very positive and happy and living fully in the end and I know he is already mine and I can definitly manifest him back. But 10 minutes ago he blocked me on WhatsApp without any reason. Is it possible that everytime when I start relaxing, living in the end and let go that he can feel my change and change his mind unfortunately negativ about me? Thank you for your great work! I love seeing your videos and your beautiful charisma 💖💖
Do we have to say we are together which seems far fetched. Can i just say she loves me, thinks about me constantly, she wants to reach out to me and get back together?
I just texted my sp(ex) asking for my jacket back that I left at his house ( we ended in January) and it’s 1:30am and I wanted to get my jacket back , he responded with very short responses saying no it’s not there and I said I literally left it there and he just said “ okay , good luck” that’s it and I haven’t responded back , like I knew he would responded but I thought it would be nicer than that , all the signs told me to communicate , I’m grateful he texted me back, I was nervous but excited sending it , but I didn’t keep checking my phone he responded right away everytime and ended it so I didn’t respond , and I keep telling myself we are having a good conversation he loves hearing from me and talking to me , help I don’t know what to do from here
I love when she says solely thinking about it and not feeling it won’t bring them back and that’s very true. When I first got into this 3 years ago, I was such in a lack state and all I did was think about him and even saying me and him are in a relationship together but I felt so sad because I felt I didn’t have him. I did it every second of the day for a long time and still saw no results. I was misinformed that thinking was the only step I needed to take and I’m glad more videos are coming out about this because the information is able to be more clear and from different perspectives saying the same thing. Don’t give up and live your best life!! ❤️ thanks again Shelly!
Curiously my dominant feeling right now is taking care of myself, a calm neutrality. I almost don’t want to think about him specifically anymore. My primary concern is feeling love for myself since I awakened to realizing I wasn’t fully taking care of myself, that I was still prioritizing him (chasing). It has been eye opening. Perhaps that will bring him in but my state of being right now is all about me. ❤️
This is how i feel too! Plus i feel that everything will be alright, that he will come back...but the feeling you described is the dominant feeling i have as well
Thank you so much for your wisdom. I got my sp. There was a third person. I manifested a better fourth person for the third person. My sp and the third person were not a good match. I could have backed away and respected that if they were good for each other. Within two weeks of manifesting the better situation for the third person, that person decided to move away without my sp. My sp got a better job and is moving away. My SP asked me to be in a relationship with them, and move away with them. My task is remaining positive and manifesting our way of being together going forward until everything is finalized. Nothing changed until I got into the feeling state, offered a better outcome for someone else, and really practiced living in the end. I’m also putting most of my energy into myself and the things I need to do and improve on. There is hope if you do all of these things. It really works. Thank you ever so much Shelly. With your skills I know you’ll get everything you CHOOSE (not want) in life. Btw, I am eliminating the word want from my vocabulary. I actively use the word choose now. I don’t want anything, I choose it. I don’t want my specific person, I choose them. It’s a power statement to say choose instead of a lack statement saying want.
So ready for this. I keep manifesting a cycle that goes something like: He: *spends time with me* We: *are happy and obviously still in love with each other* He: *sp.exe has crashed, end program*
Matter of fact my inner world has been in a state of resistance and opposition all week, just letting unwanted things happen left and right in various areas of life, like work...I've lost all sight of creating what happens, and it's affecting us.
@Samara Why? Creating what happens is the real truth, isn't it...forgetting it is what leads to trouble. But if you mean I should drop telling even the resistance story then yes
