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ANNA How's this!? Well hello. I couldn't help but notice how lovely you are. Your beautiful alluring eyes, and delicate delicious Lips. I'm looking forward to knowing them better soon. I mean knowing you. Oops. 🤣😈🤷🏽♂️😉
Not too long ago I was heading back to my car and as I walked by a boutique that had some dresses outside, I noticed a woman looking through them. I walked by, I smiled and said, "It doesn't matter which one you choose, you are going to make it look amazing!" She looked at me, tilted her head and with a big smile said, "Thank you." I smiled back, got in my car and left. Always try to make another person's day a little brighter.
How to compliment without being creepy? The study of my past girlfriends reveal that no man who is handsome or rich can be creepy. However, any man who is short or poor is always creepy no matter what he does.
Well said. I'm short, bald, & poor. I'm ok with it, however, I get multiple insults/day from women or, guys will comment making sure there are women in the audience for a good laugh. If I compliment a woman, they either laugh or call security. Maybe that worked in the roaring 20's... in today's world..if in the workplace, that will end up in a lawsuit plus termination & outside of the workplace, it will get you kicked out of an establishment or a court date. My experience...never, ever compliment a woman.
@@t.l.7733 Don't even think about dating women from work. It's a bad idea from moment 1. Just don't. You are NOT going to get a court date just from complimenting a woman. You lack confidence and are sabotaging yourself. You fear rejection. You shouldn't. Rejection from any random woman is just a Nat landing on your ear. It is only by going out and getting those rejections that you improve your game and confidence. Success will come through repetition and self improvement. Stop telling yourself you can't and start being determined to demonstrate that you can. Because you can.
Compliments only work (as a way to get a longer conversation going) when the woman already likes you. If simple smile with eye contact doesn't get a smile back in return, just keep moving.
Have to Agree. And I learned this approximately 1 year ago in a bar. That was the first time I only went to talk to women that looked at me or smiled at me. Was a great night. Waste of time to do it any other way. If woman is not happy to see you it is very unlikely that any amounth of chit chat changes the situation
In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. Another example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour.
Well actually, they still work, even if they're not attracted to you. You won't get laid, but you'll build her ego even more. Not a fair exchange you might say. Well ... women feed on male attention (and compliment). Use that knowledge wisely!
@@thorstenstormann3701 if not now then in another life, if not in another life then in a parallel universe! The one is there, somewhere wherever that may be 😅
Boy do I wish I'd discovered this channel when I was in my twenties, but there was no internet back then. Though now much older I can still stand to learn a lot more. Thankyou.
The retiring compliment - yes, as Wingman advices women as use to being hit on the time and threatened... I have worked with enough survivors of violence: seen a few buried. So this approach ensures the woman's feels safe and can except the compliment as intended. The twist is that it teaches you to master a reassuring demeanour so within a week or two you can do the same standing next to them. And again, as Wingman advises adjust your focus on the environment. Eg, with an older women it may be a broach, and with an adolescent their breasts - think of your teenage niece who actually looks to the senior males in their family for reassurance - they'll practice flerting with you as you are the protector. I have dealt savagely with those who were suppose to protect. When my dearest friend and most lovely friend was diagnosed with breast cancer, I quoted from her favourite movie the Princess Bride "There are a shortage of perfect breast in the world it be a pity to damage yours". Apparently I was the only one able to say such - she did have the most gorgeous breasts ... which in turn gave others permission to empathise with her deepest fears. It is not always about courting but much more important
In relationship or not in relationship -- every man pays with his hard earned money. You decide for yourself how much to which woman you pay up. Another example for 100 get 1 hour on bedpage 24 hours a day you pick and you do anything you want for that 1 hour.
It's a fair take on the subject. Been there, done that. At some point though, you realize it's always been a one way street. You also realize that you've been a part of the build-the-female-ego-beyond-measure gang, doing a disservice to both sexes and the dating community as a whole.
Honestly a good compliment based on traits (intellect, personality) goes a long way. A lot of women get validation all the time from guys sliding into her DM's so it's refreshing to her to get a compliment that wasn't on her figure, how good she looked in X. (Source: a girl I dated a few months back)
You are so good at making these presentations. You keep my attention and I'm either smiling or laughing through your whole presentation. Your use of body language, with the winks, raised eyebrows and moving closer to the camera makes it attention grabbing and keeps us connected with you. Thanks!
I agree. It obviously helps that she is a very beautiful woman also. She seems like the type of older woman that would actually be more fun than most of the young ones today..
Goodness, I am so happy that I have found your channel; this particular video has taught me so much that I was not aware of. I am 59 and turning 60 this year and am a good looking guy with lots of charm but always willing to learn more! I consider myself a student of life, I am a widower and surviving partner. When I lost my mate I was devastated. I have gotten back to being myself and I am back in the dating game. Women come on to me quite frequently my entire life, I have been one of the lucky guys but still to find true love is challenging. I have set my sight on a lovely 62 year old widow who I believe is still single after over a decade. I am going to speak with her in two weeks and thankfully I found your words of wisdom or I surely would have been a ‘Simp’ in her eyes. I have always suffered from being ‘too nice’ Now I will actually have a chance……..I will keep you posted on what happens.😊
I will say this...if the eyes are the windows of the soul, then yours is a sparkling gem. I love your honesty, transparency and discretion. Your communication skills are second to none. I thoroughly enjoy listening to your insights.
FYI, I've listen to a number of your videos multiple times including note taking for some of them. You have been especially effective in presenting a number of topics better than the researchers from whom you distilled the info. Having taught presentation techniques, I continue to be impressed with your delivery, settings and pop-ups. Your objective view of romance is refreshing. I've been particularly surprised and impressed from you personal disclosures in some of your recent videos. They make your observations and advice more authentic.
I DO have to honestly say that your video tutorials HAVE given me so much great insight into understanding women. Most of us guys are pretty clueless...lol...thank you!♡
I think one of the biggest things you touched on is humor. Something I like about myself is the ability to engage humor with the women in my life , and when I’ve genuinely told them they’re “funny” I’ve been amazed at how consistently they are truly flattered and appreciative. I’ve frequently been told “no man has ever told me I’m funny before.” The key is sincerity and listening and tuning in to a person’s rhythm of humor. Thanks as always for your work in putting together your videos.
I just noticed the salmon umbrella . You’re really good at decorating, you remind me of my sister she’s so good at making a home comfortable and cute. These are actually helpful videos even for guys who already know the basics.
Step 1 of complimenting without being a creep - Hit the gym, improve your posture, lose all that extra fat around your torso and bulk up your shoulders - take as long as it takes to do that. Once you achieve that, every compliment you give a woman will be genuine & credible and NOT CREEPY.
Anna I love the way that you give such useful information in an amusing and Charming way with so much personality. Plus you are very good looking and easy on the eyes. You are definitely one of the best counselor is out there on RU-vid.
Do yourself a favour and stay off the market , buy a dog . Today’s women are more damaged than a cheap hire car and will cost you twice as much after the warranty expires
Your story didn't change my life but I changed my life and basically now do a lot of the stuff you are talking about and it's great; fun, honest relationships, no trail of sadness, enjoying interactions and relationships, always happy to see ex's, etc... I think you can accomplish way more with internal development, which includes taking care of yourself, than focusing on external factors like appearance, money and status, seek and you shall find.
I’ve just stumbled across your channel and absolutely consumed in your work! Expanding my repertoire with every new video I watch. Love taking this all onboard and internalising it, safe to say everything has been incorporated into my daily interactions with female colleagues and friends and even strangers, so much so that it has most definitely changed my interactions with women and how I communicate with them, I’d like to say (without being big-headed) I’m a handsome guy, but having watched your channel a few times, it’s been absolute bliss! Thank you so much ❤
I've watched about a dozen of your videos, Anna - and my sincere complement to you is that I believe you are a properly motivated, decent human being and that the man in your life is a really lucky fellow. Stay safe & keep smiling (to everybody).
This was incredibly fascinating and informative, well done. Knowing how to appropriately compliment women should be more widely discussed, as often men go about it wrong or hesitate out of fear; knowing this info will improve men's confidence as well as provide women more quality confidence-inspiring compliments, a win-win across the board.
I really appreciate your T and A! Your Tips and Advice have helped me in my marriage. I got married at 54, being a single all those years. My communication skills needed help. Your the Best!!!
Hey sis from another mother of course ... my compliment to you today is your hairstyle is practical and elegant because your hair looks long and also short I like how your hair tugs and tapers under your jawline ... you have the right amount of energy and presentation when you’re helping men to become better at dating I respect your effort and I’m glad you mentioned God ... when I give compliments whether they are hot or homely there is always something good to say and I’m always sincere when I say it is I flirt with people even when I’m not trying to get something from them sexually we all need to be acknowledged and admired socially ... my wife is beautiful and I always told her from the first time we were together and every time after that she was so beautiful and I could not marry anyone better... but she is gone for unknown reasons... however I am so gorgeous that I pray that I will not go on wasted before I leave this earth... I want my wife but being practical I will move on when the time is smooth and appropriate ... if women appear to expect compliments for their known attributes I look for other ways if they deserve compliments I never go for the obvious ... I do not need your help but I respect your helping others see you or listen to you next week ... be good or be good at it ALOHA
Ha! If he was cheeky, playful and joking about it, she might have laughed. Without the cheekiness, he's making a sexist comment (even if it's true) and most women will feel defensive, even the ones who aren't feminists. Or he could have made the genuine compliment, "You're a good driver." Make sense?
@@YourWingmam Yes, he should have just said, you are a good driver. He was in his 80's or even 90ish. So I think he did not realize he was being sexist.
Thank you so much for helping answer some questions that are somewhat in the grey area of dating. Men are visual and often look at those amazing attributes as a foray into complimenting her. We are beasts, and can sometimes jump on the prey wagon. I know I have always used comments about beauty, sexy, gorgeous, lovely ...etc...in order to break the ice. I have used your technique and I have noticed a marked difference in the responses and reactions from an older woman. Thanks so much for your tips and guidance to those men like myself, that want to give compliments in a genuine and gentlemanly way, yet still get the next date. You didn't try to sell a video, or just give us a teaser, you gave us real tangible information that works. Thank you, you certainly set yourself apart from the other RU-vidrs who are trying to do what you do. I just thought you should know of the good ways that you teach some of us men, how to do it correctly.
Thank You Anna! I first listened to your "Is see a keeper video!" My lady clanged the bell about twenty five times, some times twice. Now, I really want to keep her, even though she is too good with knots. When she leaves a dollar on my night stand, I feel kind of cheap, but in a good way. Anyway, Your variety of looks is great! One day you are the casual friend, with good advice, the next a very expressively interesting entertainer, and then a glamour girl, who is concerned about people's feelings. I will become a better man for a really great woman. Thanks!
A couple years ago, I attended a college course called Introduction to Interpersonal Communication. The professor was indeed attractive but that was not the reason for the compliment I paid her which was, "Your lectures are very thought provoking." She really did appreciate that compliment.
Wow! You have really put a lot of thought into your presentations. They’re very detailed and you have a great teaching/communications style; very engaging. Love your attitude and that you embrace the responsibility of your task and do it so well. In addition the cute phraseology and humour are appreciated by all, I’m sure. Thanx for being there.
This was so helpful. A new relationship is warming up and your counsel has kept me from stupid mistakes. My wife of 40 years passed away 7 years ago and since i have had 3 short relational mishaps. I wish i had known this stuff years ago. Thank you so very much.
You’ll be pleased to hear that having watched a selection of your videos over the few days I honestly feel transformed, my confidence has skyrocketed and I feel like a god (slight exaggeration) and my transformation is due in no small part because of your endeavour to help your fellow creatures on this earth, thank you wingmam
Well - you make throwing you a kudo easy! Your channel has been a great source of help for me and, in particular, understanding that ladies are not the unfathomable, unsolvable mystery that most men think they are. That is, like men, women are human first, gender second! Keep these coming!
In my life's experience, the worst thing I ever did was take dating advice from women -- the worst one was, "stop trying so hard to find love, the right girl will find you" (that just led to a lost decade of dick-in-hand). However, now having a few decades of experience with women, I can sincerely say the advice given in this video is very much spot-on. I would say she either has professional knowledge of the subject matter or is very well read, not merely drawing from her life experience (she doesn't base her assertions on just personal anecdotes as some others who claim to be dating experts do). Unfortunately, I am at the stage of my life where I finally realized that "love" was merely an illusion. It is nothing more than a "bubble". If you are one of the incredibly lucky few, you may be able to mutually share that bubble for life, but for the rest of us, you will spend half your life trying to find that special someone, then fall in love (or not), put your mind, body, heart, and soul into that person, and in the end.... wind up with NOTHING but bitterness, hatred, and wrinkles.
Sad but true. That is why after the 1st one I don’t give her my all. I have needs too and if someone is not willing to give and take I can take care of myself. I have two eyes to read and see with a tongue to taste with two hears to hear with we don’t need any help to do that. Company is nice if it is healthy.
I just subscribed to your channel. Thanks so much for all your wise advice and council. At 75 years of age and recently having lost my wife to cancer, I find your insights very helpful to someone like me who is just now trying to get back into dating. Bless you for doing this fine work.
I love this video. It's a game changer for me. There are plenty of videos and programs out there that teach how to compliment women. But, most of them target 'the easy ones'. They don't necessarily work so well for classy women, which is what I prefer. When those lines are used on classy women, it usually comes across as creepy. On the other hand, your advice targets the classy woman, like yourself. This is eventually going to be some valuable advice, but it's going to require a little practice. It's no fun being labeled as creepy, when genuinely trying to compliment a woman.
The sexiest part of a woman is her intelligence; tell her that while complimenting hers. If there isn't anything to compliment in that area she's not worth the effort.
Very useful info. Although women may have a greater emotional need for compliments, guys thrive on receiving them as well, at least I do. In general, I avoid, like the plague, disingenuous compliments, not just for romantic relationships. Having watched many videos for a wide range of topics from many people, I especially appreciate Anna's very animated speaking style. Momentarily moving very close to the camera was an especially effective technique to make her point in this one. -- Jerry
You are amazingly perceptive about human nature. The way you communicate lifts the day regardless of the circumstances. Your analysis infused with your humour is your special magic.
I've watched a few of your videos, and I have to say they've really helped me figure out who, and what I am. I've known most of my that I am not a guy that fits in with most crowds, yeah, I'm a sigma. Moving on to this video, I've done quite a few of good things you've listed, and done so naturally. I have to agree, that being creative with compliments really makes you stand out, and they remember that. You could not hit it off, but she's always going to remember something that you did that was different. I'm subscribing. Thank you.
Awesome info! You've reassured me in my approach to complimenting women. Half of what you said is what I do already, and the other half I'll keep in my memory bank. I'm floored how most of my friends act towards ladies but I refuse to be creepy like them. I love your videos, Thank You Bunches! 👌
It would have been more useful if it explored to what level of detail women are obsessed with money (this fact that they are has been confirmed by commenters on other videos). Are bullion coins a favourite topic? What if a man started talking about whether iridium should be used for bullions?
The potential awkward part after a compliment is given one worked for me! I like this RU-vid channel. I plan on watching more episodes. And you do have really foxy eyebrows plus you look amazing in red. Keep coming out with more content.
I'm trying to reignite this. The flame with a crush. I have feel your training videos are really helping me I'll get back to you when I get success. I'm Tenacious🙏💯✔️
I really enjoy your videos, I still learn something every week watching you. I either smile or laugh every time, I really like your sense of humour, like you said it’s not necessarily common for women to be at ease with this skill. I totally agree on the fact that you need to believe in the compliments you’re giving. Keep up your amazing work, I’m sure a lot of men find your advice to be very helpful and easy to implement unlike some other so called « experts ». You know why you look so attractive, it’s because it comes from inside out.
When I think of you, I always smile. When she asks why you have so many options. Say for the same reason I smile at a beautiful sunset or sunrise of freshly baked cookies or seeing a puppy or just raise your eyebrows. If she ever sees, you are smiling after that and ask say puppy's yea that's right puppies. She will get it.
I have always found a winning compliment on the extremely attractive stranger is their makeup. "Your eyeliner is on point" never fails to get a genuine and positive response
@@Vajra1021 along the rim of the eyelids... Guys who are trying to get better with women, learn some gynocentric stuff. Watch some contouring tutorials and fashion advice and learn other things that women learn, and you will have many more options. If her dress has pockets, complimenting that will make her giddy.
Words to live by - with these thoughts I would have turned around a lot of encounters with charming, vibrant women in my 20s & 30s. As always, great vlog Wingmam - thanks!
Rather than complimenting a woman about her looks, I find it helpful to ask her what she thinks or feels about something. This shows that I am interested in her as a person. This can be intimate without going into the "friend zone." There have been successful relationships that started because I was just friendly to a woman without trying to come on to her; this sometimes seems to make them look at me as a challenge. BTW, I think the advantage you have over many of your RU-vid competitors is that you are very charming in comparison.
Thank you for all these videos that help us know more about women even if at times we don’t understanding them. Your transcripts need to be taught at schools and in colleges. Sort of gender studies class for men.
Thank you, you are really helpful! Let me try not to be creepy. Genuinely admire, to be original,... 🤔#lackofsleep Your hair is especially beautiful in this video. It makes you look natural and relaxed, comfortably with yourself. AND you are funny, you make me laugh! 😊
I never understood why a woman would be annoyed with a compliment, especially from nice men. They chose bad boys who don’t complement them and grow up to be bad men. Meanwhile they put the good man who complained her in the friend zone or call them creepy.
Because a) they are hit on all the time, b) it is a common way of denigration and attacking women and c) you might lack the skill to do so in a safe manner ... listen to Anna she is giving v good advice
Hello Anna, This video is several weeks old so I hope you get this. I have watched several other wing girls on You Tube here but wanted to tell you I appreciate what you say to help men correspond with and relate to women. I think you do the best job of all the wing girls on the tube. I like the way you talk and your little gestures. You make it fun to watch and learn. As far as compliments go I am sure you have heard them all. Keep up the great work, we true men appreciate it.
Once during a meeting I was introduced to several women; later that night I asked one of them what she wanted to drink and started the question by calling her by her name. She was really flattered by hearing her name. Somehow that was the start of a very pleasant night for both of us.
I usually go with, "Damn girl, you so fine, you could eat my pocket change and I'd pick the nickels out of your shit with my teeth," and so far, it seems to work pretty well.
I don't understand how you tube can drop a unrelated minute and 33 second advertisement in the middle of your video and expect us to watch it. Other then that this was an outstanding video, good content, you have never looked more relaxed and the information was excellent!
Hey sweet spice, it’s so great to know that lady’s like awesome you exist on this planet. You and your wonderful work makes me feel there is a hope. Love you 😘
"Ohhh my goodness!" Lol, your channel is funny and informative Anna, great advice. I like that. You have definitely changed my outlook on dating/women in a positive way and I have put much of it into practice. Hopefully I'll have a story to share some day.
