How To Cope With Bullying - Let Us Be Kind

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This simple story illustrates the power of love and forgiveness in the face of bullying.
A bully in my class bullied me. One time he even hit me. It mad me sad, but I forgave him. When I was chosen to lead the class to the lunch room, I was asked to choose a friend to help me. I picked this boy because others never choose him. I wanted to make him feel good. He thanked me for choosing him. He began to be nice to me. It made me feel good too.
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@jvasava3 3 года назад

the thing is that most of the time the bullies are not the ones isolated with no friends, it's the victims who are lonely

@TazmilyGum 2 года назад

yeah so true, but no one cares or ever talks about that. they always portray them to fit the narrative of "they are hurt too" when sometimes they just are rude people and you can't speak to their soul or change their heart because they don't care back.

@souvikguha 2 года назад

@@TazmilyGum exactly I believe in Jesus but even in Bible God destroyed certain people and his disciples had to fight their enemies because the reality is far from this love your enemies twisted gospel. This church doesn't even realise what they just promoted. there is no excuse for bullying others they are like that and in 99% cases they will continue doing it and even if they become friends they will sooner or later harm you. You cannot keep evil company, even Bible says that.

@mariadonkova2759 Год назад

@@souvikguha that doesn’t mean don’t forgive and no one’s perfect people bully cause they a lot of the time have other issues in their life it’s not an excuse but still

@KRGore 7 лет назад

This happened to my littler sister the other day. I wanted to help, so we watched this video. She learned to be kind to him. And she became friends with the person that bullied her. Before we watched this video we said a prayer. That helped her a lot. Thank you for making this video! _Karly

@yeowool3358 8 лет назад

For all those who are bullied (I've been bullied too) don't lose hope. Sometimes it will feel like forever and nothing, not even love works. But if we try our best to be the best person we can be I can promise you will be blessed for it in this life or the next. Never lose hope, for you are not hopeless.

@harleyvictor3547 8 лет назад

Good advice

@yeowool3358 8 лет назад

Yami May I'm sorry that's rough! Being a victim of bullying is very hard. Just remember you're better than he thinks you are! Stay strong! I like to pray and read the Bible and Book of Mormon to stay strong. Even if you don't do those things remembering that you're amazing can help! You're special :)

@yeowool3358 8 лет назад

Thomas Zenhaeusern No problem :)

@xxcamxxb3934 8 лет назад

Same

@deanrobinson4315 8 лет назад

that is so nice of you

@gordonbarnes3541 9 лет назад

As Christ said : "Love thine enemies. Bless them that curse you. Do good to them that hate you, and pray for those who dispitefully use you and persecute you."

@bwc-chvd 8 лет назад

So we can't defend ourselves? Obviously not to much like break a bone but simply letting it happen isn't going to do anything

@gordonbarnes3541 8 лет назад

Well, we can certainly defend ourselves. But even in bullying, it's good to judge when it's good to get physical or not. If it's physical on the part of the bully, use any physical techniques you can to make sure that he doesn't hit you. Don't get physical out of retaliation, though.

@jher6247 8 лет назад

+Gordon Barnes I agree...

@jher6247 8 лет назад

+MandaloreMaul77 Revenge is not an option though.. Let us just pray for them.. Because Revenge on anyone is a sin..

@yeowool3358 8 лет назад

+MandaloreMaul77 I used to wonder that too. But I was reading true to the faith and it said take defense if necessary but don't do it with anger in your heart. So if someone's beating you up you have the right to defend yourself but don't feed on the anger inside of you. In the end it only hurts you not them. I know from personal experience

@Daisukie360 9 лет назад

well thats not how all bullies work sadly

@Xsstasyy 9 лет назад

Jesper Latter Moshage How lil kids think the world works..

@jher6247 8 лет назад

+Jesper Latter Moshage Yeah.. You have a point..

@jessicabond6477 8 лет назад

True.;-;

@fluffycloud8118 7 лет назад

Jesper Latter Moshage, you treat the bully nice and fairly, kinda like how you treat your friends. You can still get help from a trusted adult, but always be kind.😊

@QuanCena220 7 лет назад

Jesper Latter Moshage tru

@michaelroberts1662 5 лет назад

Sometimes the lesson isn't about getting the right results or changing anothers behavior. It's about making us the better person and in turn feeling stronger and a little more complete

@ashley_agabao5516 5 лет назад

For all those being bullied, dont get affected! The bullies are probably insecure and was also bullied. *Stay Strong!* 😊

@TheXPlayerZone 9 лет назад

This kid is a boss no other words can describe his actions

@calwife 6 лет назад

This worked for me but it took me a year my bully was your typical hurting bully, he may have hurt me but I just stood there in a hugging position, I told him that I just wanted to be friends and I wouldn't fight back He bullied me everyday and everyday I was determined to make him stop bullying me in a good way. Finally after the longest time at the last month of school he stopped and gave up he knew I wasn't going to fight back and learned that he wasn't doing the right thing the next year when I came back to that school he never bullied anyone and he never has since

@joshthompson8576 9 лет назад

I love how with such a simple story, we can learn so much.

@ezraalderman2 10 лет назад

This is so sweet, we all are human and human we shall be.

@halcionn 6 лет назад

This is heartwarming but sadly bullying doesnt work like that.

@Cimfamlover 5 лет назад

But we can forgive our foes

@Cimfamlover 5 лет назад

But it’s your opinion so whatever you say kid

@tamaramartin1773 4 года назад

Kids videos

@colinvandam5306 10 лет назад

its a great thing this but its not how the real world works

@DJThorb 9 лет назад

Kelly Robb can't fit everyone into a neat little label. Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and being abused can lead to perpetual bullying and other obnoxious attitudes. Being nice is worth a try though and then segregation and self defense.

@littledude7892 6 лет назад

true

@droidy347 4 года назад

That’s 100% up to you to decide if it’s how the world works.

@droidy347 4 года назад

Then I guess you just have to suffer them. Have the courage to be nice to them anyways.

@starlegends3092 4 года назад

I learned to be nice to someone who I thought bullied me, and they where nicer too me. I hope people are nice to u too

@uglapugla8338 8 лет назад

Respect to this kid, he is a inspiration and I just could hug him!

@Ghost-tq3nd 8 лет назад

man being able to do that is just amazing you must have a heart of gold you see when i got hit by a bully once i burst out at him with a flury of punches......well we didnt become friends but it stopped the bullying.

@strawberryteeth7696 9 лет назад

This is the sweetest thing ever!

@strawberryteeth7696 9 лет назад

***** Thanks XD

@strawberryteeth7696 8 лет назад

lenka Belianska K :)

@Disherwasher 8 лет назад

Ok Ok ;)

@lexiewhite7307 6 лет назад

Lexie white

@nailanifanene-pule286 3 года назад

Yup it is :)

@droidy347 4 года назад

To everyone saying this isn’t realistic, or that’s not how the real world works, and how it’s not as easy as this, y’all are forgetting the gospel of Jesus Christ is simple. Do what the scriptures and the Holy Ghost guides and you’ll be perfect with everything you do. And when people are still mean to you then I’m sorry but you’re still gonna have to suffer it. I pray you’ll have the courage to continue doing what our savior would do.

@fagatiomai2310 4 года назад

Good!👍🏿

@IamVuyi 3 года назад

It's so simple and I'm also the member of the church of jesus christ of latter-day saints in KWT

@Mm-zt1gk 3 года назад

No Jesus is coming to save I spent my whole education getting bulliyed and tried all methods But bullyies r like merciless devils Nd god never help us

@danko5866 3 года назад

No one has to suffer abuse, PERIOD. If someone does misconduct then they are accountable and responsible for their actions/behaviour. E.g. in school get expelled and go to prison if it's extreme

@dragonfireheart4972 9 лет назад

see its small acts of kindness like that which makes this world a better place

@alexv5488 7 лет назад

For all the people that say this does not work, just think deeply. You can’t say this never works. It could work for some people. And also, it’s just really heartwarming.

@MRC11392 7 лет назад

These last two years (2015-2016) I was bullied. The kid was just horrible to me and was always so negative. One day I decided to bake cookies and bring them to his house. The next day at school, he had some of the cookies in his lunch. One of his friends ran up to me and told me that the bully had smashed my cookies on the blacktop. That made me feel bad. I'm not sure why I was his target. I was almost a foot taller than him! Well, he is homeschooled this year. No more negativity.

@queergoose2808 8 лет назад

Sadly it is not that easy

@pastaphasghetti973 8 лет назад

True

@ihres_ 8 лет назад

Very true

@queergoose2808 8 лет назад

yeah

@michaellard2686 8 лет назад

Very very true

@trevor50576 8 лет назад

yea....... but it doesn't hurt to try

@tsukiyokoi 5 лет назад

I've been bullied too but look at the tragedy the bully who used to bully me is now my best friend she never let me go anywhere and gets jealous when I talk too much with other girls once she even said that when we'll grow up we will marry each other(since we were just childs) but I said it's not possible then she said I will find a perfect guy for you so he will take care of you she behaves hard like a rock in front of others but soft just like a teddy bear in front of me I love her so much. 😊

@troonnnn 5 лет назад

I'm so lucky that I am the strongest in the class, maybe even in other classes.

@alyssagree 7 лет назад

I tried this solution once but all it did was... nothing

@jenniferstinson1446 7 лет назад

PandaCom Sorry to hear that.

@raphaellosean3358 7 лет назад

PandaCom Same

@rachelcutler356 6 лет назад

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@rachelcutler356 6 лет назад

We redd PandaCom

@Marknisbet27 6 лет назад

PandaCom I'm sorry to hear that

@SM-pb8dk 6 лет назад

Every time thay say something mean or hurt you smile at them and compliment them it will drive people crazy and it may just make them nice to you

@niov9217 6 лет назад

When i saw this video, i kept saying "Aww."

@cclivgg 7 лет назад

It's kinda like how one of my older cousins told me how to deal with bullying, if they treat you horrible, just be nice back to them, it will confuse them, and soon enough, they'll get bored of bullying you. Then they start to see you as a pretty/handsome person with amazing qualities, will will rub off on them, and they'll want to be your friend. Also: ALWAYS SPEAK OUT ABOUT IT!!❤️❤️❤️

@amyellison5294 10 лет назад

43 ¶Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. 44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; (Matthew 5:43-44)

@jonathanfigueroa3529 7 лет назад

Amy Ellison

@HaloFallxx 7 лет назад

Amy Ellison Amen! Thank you for this lovely reminder!

@speakthetruth6665 6 лет назад

Amy Elliso

@xGhostman793 6 лет назад

Amy Ellison true

@paulettemcdonald1773 6 лет назад

Amy Ellison amennnnnn

@haileycomds8256 7 лет назад

we need more kids to be helpful just like that

@dalongardner5268 8 лет назад

i love this so sweet it just that bullys all around the world make people get hurt badly somtimes die this is so so so heartwarming and god bless you for this it made my day and and everyone elses day i guess

@nailanifanene-pule286 3 года назад

Well that's why we have to be kind to are enemies and it's like someone u love but there bad too you I know you will not kill them because they are your family that's same with bullies

@nailanifanene-pule286 3 года назад

But u can defend ur self

@craftypaige8113 7 лет назад

It's never that easy and It never stops just like that

@imcroni7346 8 лет назад

being in a childhood and someone bullies you theres a 50% chance to friend him. teens. 0.000001%

@kabbynyb5503 8 лет назад

haha forel.

@TheAscendedSaiyanEliteV1TM 8 лет назад

Sad but True

@shemarv6820 8 лет назад

PROGamer ikr , we need to start making some changes

@kabbynyb5503 8 лет назад

I think the best way to change this is to become a forgiving and easy going person yourself. Like if you don't like someone and they make an effort to talk to you, talk to them. That kind of thing. Set the example of being a kind forgiving person and others will follow suit. Let's change the world guys, one person at a time

@courageuxyekti9894 7 лет назад

lol ikr

@skygirl7854 9 лет назад

Not all bullies are the same .. And victims needs to be brave

@ciannamessinger 9 лет назад

That is a lesson I learned early in life when I was a victim of bullying.

@Ashish.1.1 7 лет назад

if you act badly,a freind could become a bully,and if you treat nicely,a bully could become a friend

@Ianz505 6 лет назад

hate to break it to you, but that is unfortunately not how it works

@ABEL-cd2sp 6 лет назад

Yup you can lose a friend but most times you can't make a bully your friend so your only option is to put them down like the animals they are.

@nailanifanene-pule286 3 года назад

That happened to me but it kinda worse and I'm soo sorry it's not how it works if your a bad friend he will want you on his team

@anisaomar8820 10 лет назад

We need more people like that boy instead of hitting back he did the opposite

@iansycool 8 лет назад

Why do I cry every video

@itsyourgirlshayshay399 8 лет назад

Great

@ladymusy5309 8 лет назад

maybe u have sensitive eyes? I guess?

@UXSpecialist 6 лет назад

The Spirit of God is touching you...

@delanasrandomness5108 6 лет назад

that's what i do in anime that is happy or sad.(like darkrai.)

@zoey9064 6 лет назад

same

@iwilleatyourkids3472 6 лет назад

You know, the reasons why bullies bully you it's because they are either jealous or if you have something that they don't have, and also they bully others because they either have family issues or having a hard time, they bully to make themselves feel better. So don't worry about anything. You are beautiful and amazing just the way you are. I've been bullied loads of times and I've actually thought, hey, I have people who care about me. I have a family that has always been there for me. Stay strong don't let anyone take you down. They are just trying to find your weakness. :)

@Team3dward132 10 лет назад

I love this video. I'm going thorough a rough day today and it reminded me what I have been learning in seminary, become like a child: forgiving and meak.

@tamicochran9133 9 лет назад

WOW,I LOVE IT.SO MUCH FAITH IN GOD.BLESS THEM BOTH.

@levantq5972 9 лет назад

*THIS IS THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN IN A WHILE!!!*

@jessicabond6477 8 лет назад

YAS

@therealsmartinez7392 7 лет назад

My sister cried while watching this 😢😢

@mahiramesh2552 6 лет назад

I am bullied everyday😢😢😢

@Nomi_MirXa 6 лет назад

He or Her idk

@arlenepage5024 10 лет назад

Being kind can change the world

@tazokakabadze9960 9 лет назад

well sometimes guys will bully you even more if you just dont say anything.what if that guy isnt your classmate?or what if he never needs help and has got many friends like him?sometimes you gotta do something.yep,sometimes you gotta teach those guys a lesson,that is why no one bothers to bully me in class or in school.

@tazokakabadze9960 9 лет назад

Arianna camacho Now that is where you are wrong.You should forgive anyone if that person knows his mistake and worries about it.I'm not being Jesus but I tried it out and it worked!

@MsKisamefan 9 лет назад

tazo kakabadze wow, I wish I could do something like that!

@Xsstasyy 9 лет назад

kara kita U can.

@tazokakabadze9960 8 лет назад

Marshmallow Paste Just because I dont use ' and dont start every sentence with a big letter doesnt mean I dont know grammar.

@jher6247 8 лет назад

+tazo kakabadze I think you may have a point.. But bullies may have Family or something so It's good to talk to them.. too .. ( It is just an opinion )

@TheLittleOsmondsFan13 3 месяца назад

I'm 11 and love this video 😊

@k_club7940 10 лет назад

AW that's so nice. I wanna be like him:)

@عدنانالسعدي-غ3ر 8 лет назад

Its so sad that this is so true except the bully never stops

@julielaland7832 3 года назад

Bullying is not cool! You are my friend and my love Jesus for ever ❤

@appletubed1545 6 лет назад

Adorable💗 but I thought the tips were gonna be like: Stop lean and dab. This are my fire tips 😊

@ShannonAllAround 10 лет назад

That is so sweet. Way to be Christlike.

@redroze9552 7 лет назад

believe me. ... once a bully. always a bully

@caidynkyler4731 6 лет назад

I am a bully but I quit my bullying and stand up for bulling

@sanyboy1995super 10 лет назад

As far as I've seen things in my life I don't believe in bad people changing

@hithere-tn5pf 10 лет назад

Believe it I was a bad person once, he but I learned my lesson

@Meowfr 3 года назад

It is true that you need to be kind to people but some bully’s are just bad people and do it for their own enjoyment

@jinuit30 7 лет назад

Good job. That boy's got strength. Obviously his parents taught him well.

@kritagyathapa556 8 лет назад

I had never been bullied but I hope it never happenes. Jesus didnt make this a world where we fight with each other, where we bully each other he wanted the world to be a good place where everyone is friends and nice to each other.

@charleshaddock6570 6 лет назад

There is a time and a place for everything sometimes to be kind sometimes you must stand up and face others but always make that your last option

@todreaminblue1 10 лет назад

latter day saints rock...proud to be one too

@helloimnormalright9873 7 лет назад

This happened when I was grade three. This persons was called (please insert a fake name) first time we saw each other when I when to say hi he just mocked me I was heartbroken but the next day I gave him food, I just felt like I needed to do that for him to stop mocking me. We're best friends now

@jesseferret2334 9 лет назад

All you guys who disliked this video. LIKE IT. You should listen to this guy

@kenblankenship4553 10 лет назад

@nick7.398 6 лет назад

I’m not bullied, but to those who are, just know that it WILL get better, and to ignore the person or people

@tanoshii3149 9 лет назад

Well to be honest that won't always happen cause that never happens in my school ;-;

@andrewahn2000 10 лет назад

I like the part where it says the victim chose the bully because no one chose the bully.

@lbruder9127 6 лет назад

if your having a hard time trying to cope with bullying you dont have to tell anybody if you dont want to just ask your parents just like your curious what they would do if they got bullied in their childhood

@phoebiegrace4645 8 лет назад

what's the reason why he was bullying him?

@nekkuru9783 8 лет назад

Probably jealous

@theblackbull55 8 лет назад

Theres no answer to that, people do it, becouse they can and it makes themselves feel better.

@restlessmind9917 8 лет назад

my parents always told me people were jealous, but most of the times, they just do it because they enjoy it, not because we have something they don't

@nekkuru9783 8 лет назад

***** yeah

@Dextuh-x9p 8 лет назад

For pleasure

@turkialashiekh 6 лет назад

i got bullied the beggining of the school year and yet happy that it didnt last long (2 months) they made threats made fun of me and on the last day the bullied gone so bad i broke down and when i broke down the pricipal finnly did something and now im living happilly

@ExplorerAk99 7 лет назад

I got 2 bulies on me

@flickeringflames3913 7 лет назад

Amanyu plays Why would people bully you? I don't now you but i now that your a great person and gone make it far in your lif.. And how do I know? Because everybody is a great person and nobody has the right to bully... Stay strong! ; )

@sunsetbronzeaj1109 7 лет назад

Well the secret to losing a bully is to act sassy and always ignore THE HATE

@gracetindle9286 9 лет назад

More people need to be like the victim in this video-he was bullied,but when he was bulled instead of doing the normal human instinct of getting revenge,he showed kindness through pain and was caring to his bully,If more people did less negative things against people when have gone through anger and pain and instead showed kindness back to the bullies,they would realise how horrible they are and think twice about what they do and say to people again.

@diannaalmonte3807 9 лет назад

Anyone can change but some people don't want to

@cirrusboi2076 4 года назад

this is my favorite story

@Eliemet1979 10 лет назад

I have seemed to make friends with most of all my bullys in school. Most bullys are abused and take it out on others.

@ant3t3 7 лет назад

This put a big smile on my face.

@thekingoffandom298 7 лет назад

Im mormon and im proud

@deanna.radiant 10 лет назад

:')

@dseth 8 лет назад

GUYS! Stop making fun of this video! This is supposed to teach a lesson! Besides, it is for Mormons.

@tobiojori7807 7 лет назад

We must forgive one another and god will forgive us

@coreywhite943 9 лет назад

This is real sad and then it was happy I am literally crying I am so proud on him.👍🏻👌🏼😂😂😂😂😂

@ilapsn 8 лет назад

aww this kid is so nice

@yvonne3745 7 лет назад

even those are mormon i can see the fruit of the spirit

@alissa2222 8 лет назад

I WAS CRYING!! so awesome

@slump1923 6 лет назад

For all the people saying "it's not that easy" or "this doesn't happen" it's not supposed to happen realistically, it's just the message and impact or effect it has with it☺️

@azukarzuchastux8066 3 года назад

Psalm 27:1 The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

@robertholitik5729 6 лет назад

I tried this solution and it worked.

@maheenmahmood3745 8 лет назад

BEAUTIFUL 😭

@user-bz5qs4qe6c 7 лет назад

this really opened my mind today thank you.

@cosmicreef5858 6 лет назад

PROTECT yourself. BUT his intention about helping him was a GREAT idea :)

@chrispetersonbacon2693 6 лет назад

Kindness, not karma. Let us live not as one, but as all.

@NewWay1718 8 лет назад

It made me CRY ..... ;(

@8lue.59omega5 7 лет назад

Before I had a bully all I did was tell him about his life and after we became friends

@qhloebarnes9134 4 года назад

Stop bullied is not good if somebody treated you wrong you have to people who have been bullied and apologize to them and be responsible and respect others

@milli-mede7770 8 лет назад

I have watched this in 3rd hour and I love it.

@JandyElijahYT 2 года назад

Warning: Stay away and don't get revenge. But maybe try to forgive or don't.

@horrorgamertj2827 6 лет назад

i see the first one that people caped running a girl texting her and at the last it made me cry this one I see friendship

@Dan1kss 7 лет назад

I never bullied other people. And once a bully wanted to bully me. Well, he chose the wrong guy to bully...

@samellsworth7773 7 лет назад

I loved this video and I am sure a lot of people can relate to the story

@donniesmith292 6 лет назад

Beautiful

@ian_hannz 5 лет назад

Bullying might make you feel like your world is being surrounded by them and there is no way to turn. But always remember, it is their problem, not yours. As long as you are being yourself and showing your best and positive self everyday, the bullies will soon realize they are wasting their time trying to make you sad, and will eventually make their way out