I can just imagine going into the club, and then you see like 30 guys doing the same moves, they all know...they leave the girls, get in a huge group, and then proceed to all get down with the same moves in unison
I'm a complete and total introvert. I've decided 2024 is gonna be the year that come out of my shell and get out there and mingle. Please wish my awkward self luck. Thank you for this video.
Introvert as well and FINALLY I am actually enjoying social activities like dancing etc. the best advice I can give is to not focus too much on inner thoughts or what you think others are thinking, it doesn't matter, be dressed well, find the tempo and dance, approach girls, talk with other guys as well and bro down, if it goes well dance with them etc. and move on if they don't want to, all that matters is that you have fun and enjoy the music
I’ve up to this point found dance floors unbearable. I’ve excellent hearing so I can hear frequencies above most people these days which is unbearable because bad music is geared towards hearing damaged people. I have an eye which is much more light sensitive than the other which makes lights horrid. Noise reduction ear buds + looking up at the lights occasionally to adjust my eyes goes a long way for me to just find the beat and dance to it.
@@eskim0brand So basically that was a long winded way of telling us that your ears are better than everyone else's which allows you to become one with the music like no other. Also, not sure why you'd be looking up at bright lights to find the beat, if you're eyes are extra sensitive to them(or why you'd need to with your Daredevil-like hearing). Nice attempt at a humblebrag though... I see you.
Pretty much the same. I just wanna see the dance floor as a fun place to be rather than thinking I have a spot light over my head showing how unnatural at dancing I am
Thanks Brian. I’m 74 and happily married for 50 years and can’t dance a lick. Not really going clubbing with my wife but we go to a few weddings each year and I’m a bump on the log. My wife loves to dance and usually ends up with the wife of another bump on the log husband like myself. I’m going to try these steps and seek Redemption!
The first time i ever danced at a club i had no idea what i was doing and i came up with the first one all by myself lol worked like a charm. Only move i did all night.
I have to thank you for makign this vid, rly cuts down the competition. Now 60% of the guys at a club will be moving back and forth for 3 hours straight xd
Dang. These are real good, easy moves! Went to the club alone, danced with a lot of girls and one even started grinding on me. Before this video i was just insecure about dancing and watching on the sideline with friends that did the same.
Thanks for this tutorial dude! As a 19 year old and went only 2 times out to a club, I find this very useful and energetic to begin learning how to dance to enjoy the beat even more. I will definitely exercise everyday for a short time of these videos to express the energy from dancing. Music is energy and energy constantly moves. Greetings, Mike
@@TIRomeoPlays I’m going clubbing for my 4th time tomorrow and I just kinda copy people around me until it’s the alcohol dancing and I don’t care anymore 😂😂
@@Josh-bf6ht lol this is what happened to me. Honestly when the alcohol kicks in, fuck whoever is looking at you cause you're just vibing and having a great time.
Most people overthink dancing in a club anyway and are too worried about what other people think. If takes balls to be in the dancefloor, and I guarantee 90% of the others don't even know how to dance but are just having fun; like you should be.
Just feel the rythm... Every in a club is drunk af and nobody will care about your mediocre dancing skills....so have fun and don't think too much about it.✌️
I have the same opinion. Long time ago, i was trying to dance cool and shit, and i didn't enjoyed the party because i was focusing to dance cool, not to feel good. At a point i was like " oh fuck this shit man, i'm here to feel good ", and from that moment i wasn't giving a shit about the people around me, i was just listening the music, and feeling it. After a time i was at a party with a girl. We were dancing, i was enjoying, her too, she came close and whispered in my ears that the way i'm dancing and feeling it excites her so fuckin much. The rest of the story i let to your fantasy.
Thank man this video is extremely helpful. Dancing in a club used to be such a hard work and usually i tried to avoid it but because of this video it's much easier and i do it all the time.
Trust me as someone that used to be insecure af about dancing. Learn some good intermediate level moves. Then just feel the music and have fun, you'll improvise the rest.
Your instruction is thoughtful and consistently excellent! Thank you for sharing the depth and breath of your dance knowledge. Also, great advice to attend dances with non- romantic gal pals. Less stress, much more attention from other women there.
Thankyou. I realise I have been dancing badly for 38 years 😂 I have a few weddings coming up so good to know for the after parties. Thankyou for your time.
Dancing is all about feeling the music, and not being scared of looking like an idiot. After a few weeks of clubbing and putting in effort it’ll just become second nature.
I just flip a switch in my head, take in all the music into my soul, and let my body lead me like no one is watching. Autopilot handles it all. Guess i might just have a natural gift of dancing.
@@magneticbeats8339 you're a fucking king! even if it didn't go right, it wouldn't be noticed, or even if it was, it'd be forgotten! but it did go right, you pushed yourself to do it, and you had fun - you should be proud of yourself! keep interacting. the best way to overcome your anxiety is to stare it in the eyes, and to do exactly what it's telling you not to :)
@@GJ1998ARG dude it went great! But mostly I danced with my partner learned from other video and also just by improvising. But anyway this video helped me a lot with building confidence ;D
@@GJ1998ARG Yea she was my friend before prom. So I decided to go with her. She is also my crush so emotions put a lot into my joy of my prom. It was amazing time with her and also with other friends. I think the best option is to get a partner that you will have fun with, it may be a crush but don't need to. In my situation it was both ;D
Dang, I never imagine I must search this video... For a lot of people who USUALLY dance and goes to club it maybe cringe, but for a beginner I thinks I could make it on the floor!!
I’ve never needed a crash course for this, all you really need is some confidence and a good beat like Paul Oakenfold or Tale of Us or something. And BTW I have always had Girls on all over me for the simple reason I’m like the only guy really cutting rug and they love it when guys don’t give a shit what others think ( especially them ).
Going to take my Wife on a cruise and go clubbing tonight.. Have not been dancing in the club for like 8 years or so..While her main hobby is dancing and hitting the gym. Hopefully this can help me to not look like a completele fool lol. I used to do okay when i hit the club every week when I was younger, but I am way more uncoordinated now, so we will see.. This might save me tho, thanks!
Awesome upload. This is a good primer to the world of dance. Movement and music, together. Have fun folks. Using this basic introduction, one can be creative. Music and movement, together, on time.
I’m 60 and still go clubbing. If you dance like this guy, you will never pick up a girl. So you know. Best advice: develop your own style, then you’ll be clubbing till you’re 60 successfully!! Fun fact: my children have all already been over their “clubbing stage” for years. My eldest daughter for way more than a decade. Soon I’ll be clubbing with my grandkids!!!
You're awesome man. I'll might add that developing your own style is much easier by first trying to copy ("learn") other dance moves, like from this vid. During the process of learning we inevitably mess something up, and that's what becomes our own quirks ("style") ;)
